Honest Truth of Dating Filipinas based on a foreigner's experiences in Metro Manila, Philippines

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  • @ralphlowrey
    @ralphlowrey 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If they’re messaging YOU first, just to give you the runaround, all you have to do is say, “if you’re not coming over, stop send me messages”. That goes for any woman in any culture.

  • @RabbiJochanan
    @RabbiJochanan ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Shes 33. Shes been run through by foreigners for 15 years at least. Now she knows her looks are fading so she needs her dates to be serious and date to marry.

  • @JoeannAndDave
    @JoeannAndDave 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love your delivery of facts with a sarcastic sense of humor, funnier than sh*t. Keep it up. Oh wait, that's what she said, LMAO.

  • @lendlalfred7870
    @lendlalfred7870 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    From my experience of interacting with and having a current Pinay gf, it appears that Filipinas like to create arguments out of thin air. It's like a natural high for them. As for sarcasm. I say to avoid using it in messages. They will take things the wrong way because of cultural differences. Just use text messages to exchange a few pleasantries and set up dates. Dating In the Philippines can be hard work, but if you find the right Filipina, it will be worth it. Don't give up on your search.

    • @tedm4932
      @tedm4932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You are so right !!!! Tell me about it !!! Try living with one !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Very controlling !!!

    • @FunnyCatsDaily-33
      @FunnyCatsDaily-33 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's all women 🤣

    • @FirePattaya
      @FirePattaya 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's all women. Period. But some more than others based on their personality traits. Women are emotional so if the is just calmness, they will often create an argument to fill the void with emotion. They would rather experience a negative emotion than none at all. @tedm4932 - if you let her control you, she will. It's a giant red flag signalling the end of the relationship if you want a happy life.

    • @RandallGlatt
      @RandallGlatt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@FirePattaya That's cuz you REACT like a weenie boy. She's testing your confidence...

  • @shortmemory
    @shortmemory 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    She got a better offer and decided to take it. Don't over think it

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nah. She woke up forgetting which character she'd played the night before.

  • @jonathancbc
    @jonathancbc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very instructive. Thanks for taking us through the date and the the aftermath.

  • @kykyzim24
    @kykyzim24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this channel very enjoying

  • @MultiPasswordman
    @MultiPasswordman ปีที่แล้ว +5

    red flags everywhere! She's just a typical girl that wants to play games. Find one that doesn't play games. Those girls tend to be a bit more mature

  • @kbird529
    @kbird529 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are a funny man. The apps are addictive and a time waster. I’ve deleted all the dating apps along with facebook about a month ago. I haven’t felt better. No stress , anxiety. Living life on my terms. If you’re a reader I recommend reading Men without Women by Hemingway.

  • @davidleigh1182
    @davidleigh1182 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow! I thought you guys really hit it off. She seemed to be very compatible. C’mon Philip, buy ‘er n ‘ouse! (Met you and Tricolor John in Duma back in May, I hope all is well!)

    • @PatrickFDolan
      @PatrickFDolan หลายเดือนก่อน

      Definitely an ouse

  • @seanmac5093
    @seanmac5093 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She seems great. Have some fun and move on. Why overthink it?

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She doesn't want "fun." She wants "serious." You obviously haven't watched enough of my videos to know I overthink everything.

    • @Johnny-ql2vd
      @Johnny-ql2vd ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! Peace/Cheers

    • @RabbiJochanan
      @RabbiJochanan ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@BiggWorldCinemaMaybe things have changed a lot lately. I was in the Philippines just before Covid. I was intimate with 3 gorgeous 18-20 year olds the first 24 hours I was there last time. Only reason I slowed down was that I found a girl I liked enough to be content with her and use her as a travel guide. Until I had to go home because of the incoming lockdown. Going back in 3 weeks. I hope it's not as doom and gloom as you depict it as. I'm in my 40s, but I am a 6'2 big Viking. Maybe that helps.

    • @catsupchutney
      @catsupchutney 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, easy peasy. Keep it brief.

    • @FunnyCatsDaily-33
      @FunnyCatsDaily-33 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RabbiJochanan Lol it's not doom and gloom for us 6"2 people

  • @blackgrandpa7652
    @blackgrandpa7652 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    At her age and not married but wants to get married is a red flag and she looks like she could be a fatal atrraction if you betray her she will murder you😂😂😂

    • @catsupchutney
      @catsupchutney 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ah, but how is the sex? Priorities.

  • @todd7756
    @todd7756 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vlog, this was your best. Do more like this.

  • @michaelc2645
    @michaelc2645 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi. I watched the original video and the new update. Thanks for the honesty and the insight. Keep up the good work. I am no expert in Filipino culture. I have visited briefly only once on business and worked with many Filipino male engineers over the years. I have heard that Filipinos in general are very aware of saving face and maintaining a reputation. I also believe there pretty strong privacy regulations. Hopefully should the young lady see the videos she would be relaxed with the content and take it in good part. 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @robertoluis9238
    @robertoluis9238 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    OUCH..WHAT AN AIR HEAD---------------

  • @DHarri9977
    @DHarri9977 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I get the feeling that she is continuously searching for that greener pasture or has been emotionally wrecked in the past. She'll be hitting that wall at some point in the near future and will eventually settle and cut the head games.

    • @unggoytrader
      @unggoytrader ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's why I prefer to date between 20 to 25 years old.
      Over 30s too much trauma from breaking up with Chad.😂😂😂
      Just can't be arsed to save them.
      Been there done that wore the shirt.
      If I detect any form of mental issues then it is just pump and dump for me.

    • @kayakcobber524
      @kayakcobber524 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To many broken hearts for sure....

  • @thekevorlando
    @thekevorlando 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm not going to lie watching y'all get along at that bar I saw this video going a different direction how quickly that escalated

  • @mistertatum671
    @mistertatum671 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really enjoyed you and Sarah interactions together, and I’d take her telling you that if you ever cheated or fucked up in that relationship, to be prepared for ☠️.. 💯

  • @timothyhilton3408
    @timothyhilton3408 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Immature, shallow, resentful, unkind, passive-aggressive, untrustworthy. Once those attributes are shown, move on and don’t look back. If you can’t identify those attributes, then you are looking into a mirror.

  • @vicentesablan2059
    @vicentesablan2059 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love her accent.

  • @blackgrandpa7652
    @blackgrandpa7652 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You seem to have a type when it comes to woman Big Knockers i havent seen so many big knockers on philapinas in my life i didnt know they were so common😂😂😂

    • @CRAIG5835
      @CRAIG5835 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ditto. As for the big Nung-Nungs, most likely have a filter App on their phones.

  • @billrailsback5176
    @billrailsback5176 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Didnt we just see all of this in another recent video a week ago?

    • @blackgrandpa7652
      @blackgrandpa7652 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes we did and he offended her and she ghosted him😂

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't make comments unless you know the facts. If you watch this video you'll see that never happened.

  • @8535eddie
    @8535eddie 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “I’m a lumberjack and I’m okay”

  • @Matthew-gz4oh
    @Matthew-gz4oh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is this a rerun?

    • @SciSciToys
      @SciSciToys ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paulweston285 why?

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Laziness? You don't know the reason it's a rerun. Don't make sweeping statements unless you know the facts.

    • @devildoge9623
      @devildoge9623 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Careful folks, I think it's a manstruation time.

  • @AZ_Bill
    @AZ_Bill 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You had a fun date but dodged a bullet.

  • @8535eddie
    @8535eddie 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You don’t need those dating apps. Look when you met Kelley from Taiwan .. just straight up being yourself..

  • @freisein6554
    @freisein6554 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Spot damaged goods quickly,….and run ,…🤣

  • @hughjanis6439
    @hughjanis6439 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a shame. That girl was beautiful.

  • @setha360
    @setha360 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If I went back to PI last visit 2008, I would not be looking just having fun and traveling and when your not looking or desperate they fall in your lap.

    • @philpatt970
      @philpatt970 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No one likes the smell of desperation.

    • @blackgrandpa7652
      @blackgrandpa7652 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The scammers love the desperate guys😂😂😂

  • @CRAIG5835
    @CRAIG5835 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Some mates and I are going to train at Tiger Muay Thai in Thailand next year and I was thinking about going to the PI once we get a break. I saw a vid that showed the various Asian sites so I joined Pina Love to test the water as it were. I couldn't believe the response, it was just like I had been told would happen, I gave up counting them at 250 replies. I live in New Zealand so it is not like I was after a date, as I said, merely testing the water. I have never been on Tinder or any hookup sites so PL was my first and only. There were also Cam Girls soliciting as well as your run-of-the-mill scammers, dually informed of the various scams they pull by sites such as yours they never got a plugged nickel from this wary Kiwi. One lady who got in touch claimed she lives in Singapore where she has a Perfumerie, originally from PI she is 32, has no kids, and is after a solid guy who is happy to have a long term with a view to marriage.She is a good looker and obv takes care of herself. Sorry to disappoint you, lady.

  • @helseguru1194
    @helseguru1194 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    run forrest Run

  • @joepyfer1696
    @joepyfer1696 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So it’s just as bad not being there as it is being there dating Filipinas.

  • @daan7374
    @daan7374 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What's the best datingapp in your experience?

  • @jamesballard6564
    @jamesballard6564 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She doesn't respect your time and takes you for granted. Couldn't even be bothered to read previous nights text to confirm plans. Women like that are sooo infuriating! Can't say I blame you for loosing interest. I have pointed out those same complaints to such women. What do I get in return? An insincere "sorry"

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hear you. Filipinas don't understand the expression "scroll up".

  • @jportega9404
    @jportega9404 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girls in Manila are usually preoccupied with the rat race and the grind and not as laid back as country girls anymore. Both have advantages and disadvantages like the former having some of her own money from work and less likely to make you her ATM but they can be distracted, tired and stressed out.

    • @tedm4932
      @tedm4932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I would not waste time . a rat race............like you said for sure !!!!!!
      Truthfully honestly how can someone care & love you first if they do not know & love God first. . Good luck , you will have problems .

    • @jportega9404
      @jportega9404 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tedm4932 a girl who does not have her own money will be dependent on you and her entire family as well. Other expats living here tell of stories of having to pay for the girls family parties all the time. I think somewhere in the middle is best if the girl's family has their own money

  • @kykyzim24
    @kykyzim24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    22:00. you at some place in BGC with her ?

  • @John_Smith777
    @John_Smith777 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    yikes, you did your spanish buddy dirty...he's not a bad looking guy, and when you described him as pot bellied, i was expecting your typical, western style land whale lol. his build would be considered average. if anyone wants to see what ugly looks like and still gets over in the PI, go take a look at Reekay. 😁

  • @Johnny-ql2vd
    @Johnny-ql2vd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Water on a ducks Azz Bruddah……. 😁

  • @henrylawson938
    @henrylawson938 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's what they will look like when they get older. Look at the mother and then decide. 😂🤣😂

  • @tedm4932
    @tedm4932 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All about the money !!!! Looking for love at the wrong places !!!!

  • @GeorgeSimonton
    @GeorgeSimonton 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Funny. You remind me of Russel Brand 😂

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not sure if that's a compliment or not. Wish I could match his great use of language.

    • @GeorgeSimonton
      @GeorgeSimonton 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BiggWorldCinema it’s a compliment. Very well versed . 👍👍

  • @altruismfirst6489
    @altruismfirst6489 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FYI just in case it does rock up on your door, JLO has long hanging fruit, look them up. :)

  • @bradbradshaw-i4n
    @bradbradshaw-i4n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you are looking for quick and easy they are looking for a meal ticket. the 2 don't go together.

  • @kevinwelsh7490
    @kevinwelsh7490 ปีที่แล้ว

    keep your chin up Phil

  • @JohnnyLawrence293
    @JohnnyLawrence293 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    did you have to re-upload this or something

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Needed to change some of it. Plus add the new ending.

  • @TheRickpage
    @TheRickpage ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fun for these young women means you spending money on them doing things they can’t afford themselves.
    It’s not about having fun in bed with an older man who isn’t very good looking or appealing to her. If you do have sex, it’s a transaction similar to prostitution, just wearing a more respectable face.
    Everyone is on the make here, a third world country, just to make, get, have a little more and who can blame them.
    Young women aren’t interested in older western men because they’re more ‘mature’ but because the largest dating pool of available ‘rich’ (ie. a good pension at worst) western men is by far, older men. Obviously they’d choose younger, better looking men if they had that choice.

    • @36handy
      @36handy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Women everywhere are on the take. Period. It’s what they do.

    • @TheRickpage
      @TheRickpage ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@36handy So are men.

    • @36handy
      @36handy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheRickpage - of course.

    • @alan2102X
      @alan2102X ปีที่แล้ว

      @@36handy You attract what you are.

    • @36handy
      @36handy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alan2102X - then you dont understand women.

  • @DManGrand
    @DManGrand 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Funny filipina but I would be running... no thanks..

  • @thadlandry1165
    @thadlandry1165 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dude its you , date some one that work near where you live .

  • @davewordsworth1251
    @davewordsworth1251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The girl you are interviewing at around 20mins seems nice. Did you....?

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did you not watch the video until the end?

    • @davewordsworth1251
      @davewordsworth1251 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yeah I have now man. Her loss, she seemed a bit scatty, so you dodged a bullet. How old was you when you retired? @@BiggWorldCinema

  • @recklesswhisper
    @recklesswhisper 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dude, you do NOT look that old in your vids!!! Seriously. Get yourself a professional haircut and upscale your wardrobe! For what it's worth.....
    ^..^~~

  • @Black-Circle
    @Black-Circle ปีที่แล้ว

    29:45 lol

  • @gloofisearch
    @gloofisearch ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Victor showed you how to do it and you screwed it up;-)
    Obviously, you will not find a woman in the Philippines that gets your humor. Either you change your humor or you will have no luck. Sorry

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  ปีที่แล้ว

      Change your humor! That's hilarious. You should have your own One Man Standup Show.

  • @bradbradshaw-i4n
    @bradbradshaw-i4n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you are playing them and they are playing you, old man.

  • @jjamericanbulldogsander6718
    @jjamericanbulldogsander6718 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So fake a real gold digger 😂😂😂

  • @semi5alpha
    @semi5alpha ปีที่แล้ว

    Huwat?? You were talking to province girls.. Take to a Call Center woman and you'll see. Or you are over reaching for hot chicks..

  • @devildoge9623
    @devildoge9623 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why do you insist on being such a nuisance with the way you put your videos out. All of the clanging and your nonsensical voice changes. It keeps me from clicking on probably 90% of the videos that you published. I occasionally look just for the type of content. You're good at what you do. You should just focus on good content and get rid of the schtick. It's annoying and insulting to people's intelligence. Just my honest opinion.

    • @BiggWorldCinema
      @BiggWorldCinema  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for your input. There's a British comedian called Jack Dee who I can't stand either, so I refuse to watch him.

    • @devildoge9623
      @devildoge9623 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BiggWorldCinema 👌
      Interesting response. Why doesn't it surprise me... 1 less subscriber for you... have fun.

    • @nelsonmorales4086
      @nelsonmorales4086 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would be frustrated myself dating so many girls and no sex

    • @nelsonmorales4086
      @nelsonmorales4086 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s why I rather pay for a quick one then spending money on someone that all they want is freebies