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- Words are completely inadequate to express my gratitude and complete humility for the outpouring of support on my last video. Wow! This is simply a small way to say, "Thank you!
You can find my photography channel here:
/ @timchilders
Find me everywhere I am on the Internet here: timchilders.bi....
I started this channel in order to document life as it gets lived. It's about where I live, how I live, where I travel, why I travel, and so much more. Eclectic is a good word for the content to be found here. I hope you will come along for the ride!
I’m a female and not a retiree, but you’re just so watchable and the type of person I wish was my next door neighbour, or a family friend. I wish you much more success with your channel. 🤗🇬🇧
I wish he were my neighbour too here in 🇬🇧
@@Myover50fashionlife …good Neighbours are hard to come by these days. Nobody chats over the garden fence anymore, I’m surrounded by grunting one syllable mouth breathers, I swear I saw their knuckles dragging on the path as they went shopping the other day 😂
@@Myover50fashionlifesame here 😏
yes! same here too 🇮🇹
Same here. I totally agree.
I should be a good way off retirement but I have a chronic condition that might cause me to need to retire in my early 50's. As a friend of mine has to retire at 57 due to a surprise medical event; it's good to hear the info for emergency life planning as we never know if there will be an accident or some underlying issue that surfaces as our body ages. You can take supplements, do the healthy life fandago until the cows come home and have it all tossed out the window by a negligent driver or weather event. Plan for the worst to have the best possible
Tim, you are so authentic! People may have found you by decluttering, but they will subscribe because of your genuineness. Enjoy the ride!
true for me
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There are so many of us (seniors) and we are all trying to declutter...this topic is so on point you can't go wrong.
Thank you!
It’s interesting to me bc I am not a senior but I feel like there aren’t enough voices in the retirement category talking about this which is why I loved the video and subscribed. I feel like you bring something refreshing and new to the table when it comes to decluttering and I’m looking to learn from some of the wisdom you may have gathered over the years.
There is not enough content providers for the retirement community, and you are filling a part of that void. We are all trying to figure out what we want and need for this chapter in our lives and you are on point. Thank you for sharing. Blessings!
Exactly
I’m trying my best, keep going I tell myself 😮
The declutter community is huge. The more you declutter, the more we watch. I hope you have more decluttering. It looks like your room was extremely neat, but if you have other spaces or even friends & family, we'll watch it.
YUP!!! We are HUNGRY for decluttering content hahaha.
So true!!!!! :) :)
Yes indeed 😏
Love the comments. This one brought on a delightful belly laugh!
It's a real channel.We seniors need honesty!👍
Yes. Yes we do!
And we love the subject of decluttering from a senior perspective!
Appreciate Your Humor, & being so down to Earth.. & I do Believe in decluttering slowly & ThoughtFULLy.. letting go without *regret* !
Thank YOU, take Care of Your Self!✌🏼💙👊🏼
I would love to hear your life story, the lessons you’ve learned, anything! Don’t trap yourself into JUST decluttering. You have so much potential on TH-cam! 💗
Agree...tell us how you transitioned into a new life in 30 days with a smile on your face and such a cool vibe!
Absolutely!
Its not just urr video topic that roped us in. Ur voice, how kind and grateful u seem, and the way u speak to us on camera is soothing at least to me(50y, cool mom of one lol NE boston coast)Rest assured yall i can tell u Tim's not just about decluttering, his most successful video was about decluttering is why hes most def talkin bout it again.but he also has mentioned in the videos' description and other videos, that he will talk about a lot in his life up til now and beyond. He wants to leave video memories on YT for his family, he said he'll talk about his life in Chattanooga, helpin his mom, some traveling, why he travels, and stuff he does around the house, even the mundane things. If u don't know how to get to the description of a video (some ppl do not know) ask a family member or friend who can show yall. Its easily overlooked and in small type, under the title and next to the videos views and how long the video has been up. For example right now this video is at: 25K views, 4d(ays) ago, next to that is " ...more" u have to click the word ... 'more' to open what the TH-camr writes about every video is usually diff description and he def says he will discuss many diff topics of life
Press MORE under the video title
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TH-cam algorithm for the win! Your declutter video popped up in my suggestions and I'm so glad it did. Looking forward to more of your content. I watch a lot of decluttering vids but as others have said, I'm older and don't have children. It's nice to see a contemporary exploring our life stage. All the best 🌻🍄Edit - Oh dear, don't worry about repeating your success in every video. Consistency is key, think "Chicago" vs Frampton 😊
Chicago for the win! :)
@@cyber4052same here 😏
We had that Peter Frampton album, too! Also, bought the second one and listened to it maybe once.
Very smart to keep it and sell all together
Your video came up as a suggestion for me this morning too. Loved listening to you. You sound so sincere. I am retired as well and have been working on decluttering. My kids are not interested in anything I have so I too am trying to figure out what to do with all it. I look forward to listening to more of your videos.
My aunt recently realized that no one wants all of her loved possessions and has a hard time getting to grips with that. This is quite common now, things have really changed from what they were some decades ago. It is interesting to see someone like you who is ready to talk about decluttering at this time of life since many people are facing this reality.
Yes. I have three daughters. They have already picked out what they want of my mother's when she's gone. It could all fit in the backseat of a single car. But they are the only things that will bring them memories.
I realised no-one wanted my stuff about 10 year's ago when my Dad turned 80 and the realisation hit me that I would have to sort all my parents stuff out one day and I didn't want any of it. I figured my kid's wouldn't want mine either so set about decluttering everything and then we downsized our house.
My parents are 87 & 90 now, my Mum is pretty minimalist but my dad's sheds are full of stuff.
Thank goodness it's all organised and tidy which will make it easier to go through.
@@Michelle_EmmMe too. Not gonna leave my daughter with my stuff! Got rid of it!
My aunt was also came to this realisation and it crashed her...but she did it !
@@akontarini Well done her, it is not easy at all but can be freeing 🙂
I shared your video with folks with the following comment: "If you don't have a Papa, I recommend listening to this gentleman share his wisdom with you tomfill your cup." For me, and for some others, it's likely not the specific topic you were discussing that made the video worth watching. It was the chance to hear the wisdom so clearly, in such a calm and organized way. People really miss that in their lives.
Oh, wow! That is so incredibly kind, and humbling! My heart is full!
+1 to this!
yes to this!
The art of communication includes listening as well as you hear. You are special to “pass it on”. May your cup runneth over.
Truly!
Your use of the term “essentialism” resonated with me & I immediately subscribed. Makes more sense to me than “minimalism”. So glad to find you on TH-cam!❤
I totally agree with you! This is the 2nd video I've watched so far, and the word "essentialism" just jumped out at me and I was hooked as well. I'm so happy I was just scrolling on TH-cam today and found this channel! I will be binge watching now for a couple hours at least! LOL
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We always love tips and tricks from those who are always willing to help us get inspired to de-clutter! thank you and I love the photography too!
I just watched you for the first time yesterday. Your decluttering video came up on my feed. I subscribed because I enjoyed your personality, and the clarity of how you express your thoughts. You come across as a natural leader, and a gentle person. I'm interested to hear your insights on life, and to follow your story. I'm glad that others have also noticed your channel and enjoyed it. Well done!
I'm greatly humbled. Thank you so much!
This is so true. He has a lovely personality combined with a gift for speaking.
Yes, that is true. I like your approach, I ŵatched the same video and enjoyed it immensely. Best regards from a new subscriber.
Ditto.
You popped up in my algorithm! As a 30ish year old, I've been trying to watch creators above 40 to get different perspectives.
Well, I'm way above 40, so you've hit the mother lode! LOL
I’m sure this is just the beginning. I think you have filled a gap in the TH-cam world. Just keep being you. Cheers to your success 🥂
It’s because you ARE sincere. There are a lot of “older” people out there that need acknowledgement. YOU are being acknowledged. :-)
😊 same here
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I’ll be 57 in December. Do you know how many people I’ve seen on You Tube who talk about decluttering in this stage of life? YOU. You are it! The Gen X and Boomer generations are sadly underrepresented on this topic. Thank you for starting this channel!
I just wanted to say there's actually lots of people "our age" wanting to declutter. There are three professional declutterers on TH-cam that have joined together and created a one-year course with a private FB page. 95% are women and I'm guessing 60% are over 50. For people younger the problem is us. Are people who are doting grandparents and insist on gifting their grandkids with toys they don't need are all of this stuff you saved for your child when they got older and they don't want it but we insist they take it.
Give your kid a choice do they want their first grade picture or not. Don't be upset if they say no just because you've kept boxes of their stuff in your basement for 27 years. Don't make our bad choices over the years into their decluttering in the future.
It's up to the older generation to stop making the younger generation have to declutter oir stuff because we wouldn't. The truth is when my mom died at 88 we had to unassemble and get rid of everything in her apartment in one day. Most of it sadly went into the dumpster all of us kept a few things that we wanted and pictures, and it's four years later and I'm just now giving myself permission to donate her stuff to Habitat. The stuff I thought I needed keep because it was important to her. I have no family I have no children my sisters have already told me when the time comes they're not even going to come they're going to have somebody with a dumpster come and empty my condo. None of their kids want their stuff either. I was angry at first and now I realized it was a gift as it allowed me to get rid of stuff that I might have wanted to hold on to for them, their kids. They both live over a thousand miles away and have very busy lives, one still wotks full time and are older too of course.
I'm not even retired....I'm 30 with 2 kids, but I was recommended your video. Your calming voice and realness made me realize you can start essentialism anytime. I am in a transition in my family to move. I am looking at my stuff with new eyes and a new mindset of what can I live without and what is essential to my family's life. Thank you and I wish you the best.
A friend gave me a bit of wisdom when she was moving across the country. She was packing up her stuff and I asked her how she decided what to bring and what to leave, did she just pick out what she did not want. She said no, she only picked out what she DID want. And right then I realized why I had more stuff than she had. Different mind set.
Your personality and sincerity shine through. You HAVE "hit a nerve" for me and I'm sure for so many others. Inspiring, motivating, and heart-warming. Congratulations on your success, and thank you!
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I’m a retired woman in the Uk and I enjoyed your video on clearing excess belongings. I’d never seen a man doing such a video.
I think you said that you had just retired in June. I have heard it said by a number of people this side of the pond that when men retire they often don’t know what to do with themselves and follow their wives/partners around like shadows. As you enter retirement you may well notice not only how you are coping but how others in the same situation are. You’ve decided to review your excess belongings as a start. You probably never had time before. You said you had more to do so no doubt there will be more videos.
You are looking around at your new life….as indeed are so many others in the same situation. Who knows what you will come up with. I shall follow you with interest.
Thank you so much!
Words of wisdom, crafty!
You are a boomer, the generation where everyone is retiring the same time, like me.
As soon as I retired, I started cleaning out my office space. You are so normal, we love you.
August 2nd, 2023. You are officially 2 months in on your retirement journey. You are currently showing 22.3 Thousand subscribers.
Thank you for the message to take care of yourself. I really needed to hear it today. I'm sure YT brought you to me because I do watch declutter videos and make them on my other channel, but having realized that my clutter journey was a response to trauma, some days it is hard to deal with the emotions that the stuff helped bury. So thank you. It was a definitely needed message.
Just keep being you! I personally am drawn to “day in my life” videos done by someone who is just genuinely dealing with life in a positive, honest way. And it’s nice getting a male perspective on everything too! 😁
I would love to watch this type of personality
I actually loved that you had pillows on the bed I thought that's a lovely touch usually men don't think about ❤
Your sincerity is part of your appeal. Thank you for saying to take care of ourselves. I sure appreciated that. Good luck with your channel goals!
Decluttering is a hot topic! Plus, you are level headed, well spoken, and your story is interesting. Thanks!
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Hi...I ran into your channel quite by accident. Your down-to-earth persona is so refreshing to see. So many content creators are so far removed from reality. I am in the midst of declutteting all of the "treasures" accumulated over the past 23 years. When I'm going through things, I stop and think "why in the world did I save that?" As a coffee lover myself, I thought your coffee video was so cute. I'm looking forward to more of your videos...keep up the great work!
Thank you! And thanks for the coffee plug. LOL
Love reading all of these comments about you Tim! And to everyone who has commented or will be reading this comment before they post about how personable and likable Tim is in his videos. I can say he is just as much in real life and proud to call him a friend. Keep up the great work Tim
Two open-hearted friends...T&T (TSquared😂)...
Your gratitude for your friendship is
palpable and MY gratitude for finding this authentic and articulate retiree's channel is deep.
Don't change a thing!
We have all struck gold🎉🎉🎉❤
I want to take the contents of my entire 1 bedroom condo , have junk haulers pack it all up and haul it away. I can’t breathe! Please continue- we are so appreciative❤️👏👏👏👏❤️🌈🌈🌈❤️👏👏👏👏❤️🌈🌈❤️
People respond to genuine people. I really enjoyed your presentation style, your honesty, your humility, your message.
Since I retired I have started to watch quite a few more TH-cam videos (ok, a lot more), and am always on the lookout for channels from other retirees to inspire me to get up off my butt. I don’t always relate to the channels from much younger people, so it’s refreshing to find a channel like yours.
I don’t think you should feel pressured to find new content. Do what you do. Some people will watch, some won’t. It’s YOUR channel.
Thank you!
It feels good to see a „best ager“ on TH-cam 👍🙏
I discovered your channel just yesterday, 7/5/23, and loved your video on decluttering. I then went into your channel to watch more videos, and learn a little about you. You come across as a breath of fresh air for we seniors. I love your photo shots on your other channel, and I really appreciate the way your channels are organized to make it easy to go back and forth from one category to the next. Right now you are at 2.74K subscribers, and I suspect in a few days you will definitely be over 4K. We all appreciate an intelligent, humorous and interesting video, and you have met all those objectives. Looking forward to your next videos!
Thank you for joining my journey!
Hi from the UK.
There are SO many of us Boomers and Oldies, and I think that for the last 20 years or so, many of us feel a bit lost, a bit out of synch, with the modern world we live in. A few signposts from someone who has wisdom and experience, a deeply thinking person who is nevertheless very practical....well, that is what so many of us are searching for, and I'm sure your channel will quickly become a space for sharing the positives of growing old, as well as the challenges it presents.
Don't thank us......thank YOU for opening up this space. 🤗🤗🤗
Essentialism. Now, there's a word that puts it into perspective. Thank you! My husband will retire in a few years, and we will be moving from one coast to the other. So yesterday, when your video came up on my feed, I couldn't click on it fast enough. With the stress of years' worth of "stuff," I've been watching minimalist videos in hopes of finding the answer on ways to deal with my clutter nightmare. But I realize I don't want to throw everything out and become a minimalist. I just want only what I need so that when we make this retirement move, we have very little to deal with. So, this word "Essentialism" can really be the tool I've been looking for in this process. Because packing up the entire contents of a house and moving it out of state? No. That's not happening at our age. Lol. Thanks again, and congratulations on your channel's growth.
You are so personable, which is why we are all watching you and you are not trying to make any of us feel LESS THAN because we have "stuff". Thank you and God bless
For me first, it was the title you posted. I am going through a season of decluttering myself while trying to move at the same time. Second, it was your channel name, "The New Retired Me." My husband is freshly retired due to medical reasons, and it's causing him to go through life changes that are almost paralyzing him with handling it all.
I'm very grateful to you for posting your experiences. We all need a community to know we're not alone. Thank you.
Fabulous and well done! I'm one of your new subscribers! You are very easy to listen to and appeal to those of us of a certain age and stage of life.
Sweet! Suggestion for an encore: Take us into your process of decluttering. Show and tell us how you make decisions. I find it so hard to decide what to let go... I appreciate your honest, male, later in life perspective as most decluttering youtubers are young women. After decades of life lived we have so much more stuff to deal with... Greetings from Germany!
Thanks a terrific idea! Thank you! We'll work on that one soon.
This baby boomer is always trying to find motivation to declutter and sentimental items are the hardest. So when your video popped up, I was excited to see your perspective on the subject. Trying to navigate aging alone with all of its complexities of living is new and any incites you have will be truly appreciated. Thank you.
Midlife, give the guy a break. NRM, Don't over think your "process" you are New Retired Me not retired everybody!!
No idea how you popped up on my feed but I saw the decluttering and watched. I subscribed because I hit 62 next month and am busy weeding through possessions as well
Btw you already have enough to get monetized?
LOL at the Frampton reference
I'm thinking I'll hit 4K watch hours tomorrow. It is amazing what one simple little video can do. Thank you for taking the chance and subscribing!
My husband and I are in our early 70s with one child 39 years of age. She has 3 small children. I need to declutter. We have stuff from our great-grandparents, grandparents, and parents. My daughter & her husband don't want most of it. I need to weed though everything so I don't burden her. I need your calm voice talking about decluttering.
I have retired a year ago on June 1 (I was 59 w/ 24 years teaching). I have looked for channels that will help me move forward in retirement. I’m excited to have found your channel. You have a gentle, calm voice. Also, seeing a man declutter is epic (my husband has never had much for personal belongings, but his shop, well that’s a different story). I look forward to traveling this journey (through the screen) with you. Thank you!
You're a photographer ! that's why the videos are so crisp and nice!
I had a breakthrough in getting rid of books, which is hard for a reader and a retired school librarian. I finally realized that I had two categories of books; those that I would read again and those that I would not read again. Using these two categories I was able to donate 150 books to a used bookstore that uses their profits to fund adult literacy. Don’t worry, I still have several hundred books! Yikes! I am reading through my shelf of unread books and donating what I will not read again. Good luck as you continue your journey!
Oh, man. Books! Maybe my biggest downfall. I have just made the choice to get rid of a lot. I donated most of them to the school library from which I just retired. I hope they get some use!
I am going through the same thing. I also sort into those two categories. Unfortunately I have a whole bookcase full of unread that I need to read before deciding whether or not to keep or donate.
@@cyndylivingston6586 I am currently working my way through several shelves of unread books. I am finding that most of them are being donated. Good luck and happy reading.
It’s refreshing to see a guy getting into decluttering. I love it!
Wish You all the BEST 💝
Congrats ! Well deserved recognition. Our generation is not only the largest, but the one enduring the most changes as we age, so, we sure can use all the wise imput we can get. Thank YOU very much !
Thanks for reminding everyone…take care of you.
And here is the sign I needed from the universe- this channel! I also have another channel on jewelry making that has been my career for over 30th but it has struggled to get to 1k as well. A voice in my head has been on me to start my new channel about how I’ve had to start over at 50 - I have tried 3 times & have let fear stop me each time - but my heart tells me I must do it- here is the inspiration I needed. TY ~ Vivi
I watch retirement related videos and minimalism content, so you popped up for me. I do love your delivery, thank you, and I do hope you continue to share your life with us on TH-cam.
The more I took off my walls, the more "light" I felt!!!! Walls are ok to be bare!👍
Lot of baby boomers out here. So glad you have shared all this wisdom with us. I started the decluttering when pandemic hit. I have started again. I haven’t missed anything I have gotten rid of. I prefer to donate or give away. Don’t want to deal with yard sale or outright selling. Too much for me. Just want it gone! Doesn’t take much for one or two people. My stuff makes me feel smothered so it goes to others. My rooms still feel much too full so I am getting rid of some smaller pieces of furniture. Every time I make another round I find more to get rid of. Wishing you continued blessing in your new endeavor.
You’re welcome! For me, it’s nice to see a content creator in my age group, similar interests and season of life. I wish you lots of success 👍. I’ll keep watching 🙂🇨🇦
Watching from the uk 🇬🇧, plenty of room on you tube for wisdom and maturity, keep making great content.
You deserve it. we retired ones need this. Essentialism is so true.
When something resonates it shows! Thanks!
My late Mum hoarded paper items, old bills, advertising supplements, election leaflets etc. Cleaning out her small flat was a huge undertaking. I have started to watch your channel and one similar with a view to stopping this becoming a problem for my family. Thank you so much, bless you.
My retirement date is July 31. Keto/carnivore, yes, (dropped 50 lbs during the pandemic). Decluttering , oh my yes. Your video has got me revved up. Keep em coming.
Happy Retirement!
I have another truck load to take to a shelter today. I have enough that I can share with the Goodwill, Red Cross, Animal Rescue Store and many others. I really can’t believe how much I have gave away and I still have MUCH more to go. The struggle is REAL.
My Hubby & I don't have children to take our stuff when we pass on & all my family live 10 hrs away, so we have already started decluttering. I liked your approach to keep the essentials. Woohoo...you're over 3.3k subscribers now. Way to go. 😊
Just be open and true to yourself. You will get a community of people following you who don't need you to "perform" but are happy just to listen to you and recognise their own lives, and thoughts in you.
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It is a nice change of opinion from a mans perspective🥰🇨🇦
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Just be yourself. Live your new, evolving life and share the journey. Clearly this is meaningful to a large community. That feeling of connectedness is the value.❤️☕️
Well said!
Yes, I agree. Connectedness is everything in older age.
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Many of us have told you how we came for your decluttering video but are staying because you’re likable and you draw us in because you’re discussing things to which most of us can relate. You’re likable and well spoken like most teachers. It’s your aura. 😊
I also appreciate that you’re able to say a lot and enough about your topic without dragging it out to make it a longer video. It kind of makes me more eager or glad there is a second video for the week! Like dating, you want to leave ‘em wanting more.”
Some cooking vloggers should edit more, we don’t need or want to watch someone dice the entire onion and then slice the entire bell pepper, etc. or they should title the vlog as “how to slice…” instead of “beef taco recipe.”
Thank you! As with minimalism, I believe in videos less is more. :)
Retired June 6th. I ❤ your video on decluttering. Went and cleaned out a closet it feels so good. Gave away my 4th of July decorations to the nursing home I had worked at for many years. It was hard but so rewarding.
Happy Retirement!
Decluttering and easing into retirement is what we want. Keep going.
I’m newly 54. A big collector & collector of other people’s collections…because someone has to love it. And then I wanted to become a FT reseller which added to the nonsense. Now I’m finding it hard to part with things. Excuse I want to make money from it. But it all holds me hostage now. And that makes me sad. But I know I don’t want to leave this mess to my children to have to deal with. Thank you for your encouraging words. And congratulations on your success here!🎉
I’m a teacher and you seem like a lovely man and an administrator I would have been lucky to work for.
I am a professional organizer and I find there are many retirees or those that have lost spouses that start to think - what am I going to do with all of my stuff?? I am helping some of them find peace in this area of their lives.
Your first video was great and so down to earth.
You are doing a good work!
You have a big and difficult career- God bless you!
No, thank you!! I am 63 and just couldn't stand the clutter in my bedroom another moment. Yesturday, I decided to clean out and rearrange the furniture. When I took a break, This video popped up about you decuttering your bedroom! I couldn't believe it! It was really informative and helpful! Thanks so much from Virginia!!
The algorithm knows all! Even our thoughts! LOL I'm so glad you stopped by!
Mr.Childers! I remember you from Lake Forest Middle School!! So happy to see you retired and enjoying your life!!!
We're drowning in *stuff* all around the world (remember, 4th July was 'Tuesday' to most of us!) and it's overwhelming. We're battling to find peace in our homes while living in a world that's pushing the latest, newest *things* on us - so we find support in others doing the same.
i think you've touched a nerve in many of us , regardless of age .. for younger viewers , it's important for them to understand what endless consumerism does to us , year after year, as we " chase the so called dream"... for seniors , i think the way you are decluttering and letting go is so much more doable , and more realistic for most of us .. drastic purging usually isn't realistic for most , and only adds to the stress , and is setting up to fail .. .. i just really enjoy your approach a lot.. new subscriber here, and wishing you all the best with your channel..
As a retired senior, i was so interested in watching your video when it popped up on my feed. I subscribed half way into the video!
I am currently on the declutter path as i have come to realize that my family has no desire for my China, silver or Crystal or vintage Cookbooks. I have found it difficult to let go of sentimental items that i always believed would stay in the family. I am excited to let go! I believe you are going to be a great help to me! So happy to be a part of your new YT community!😊
Good luck with your continued journey! And welcome to the family! :)
My 82 year old mom sent the link to one of your videos to all three of her daughters. It was exactly what I needed!
You are a nice guy! And we need more good people in our lives. 61, nurse-professor, very much looking forward to retirement!
Hi 😊 im a woman in my 20s who subscribed after watching the declutter video. I subbed because i truly do think that the internet needs more diversity as far as age goes. I dont see many older folks online, and thats a pity bc theres a ton young people can learn. A different point of view and well its nice not to constantly only see people around age 18!! Im excited with you about the algorithm picking up your video, and excited to see whats in store for the channel! Cheers 🥂
I've been watching videos on minimizing--I LOVE your essentialism approach!--lately so TH-cam sent you my way. And I hope it sends you to all kinds of other people because just everything about you in that video is so warm and comforting and supportive... I felt like I could just sit and hang out with you all day. Here's to many more thousands!
Awww...thanks!
Your decluttering video popped up in my home feed as it’s the content I regularly watch. I’m so glad I clicked and watched. I hope there is more to come.
Please don't overthink your content based on your subscriber size. Continue with your family as your inspiration and you can't go wrong. It's real. It's compelling, and it's comforting. I'm in my 50s but also going through the end of one career and facing an empty nest next month. I'm pretty happy about seeing what's next for me and living intentionally. Thank you for sharing your stories.
I watch a lot of channels about decluttering so I guess that's how you popped up in my feed. Your perspective on the subject as recently retired resonated with me. I've also been thinking about starting a channel about fabric dyeing but at 74 I've been hesitant. Your easy manner and encouragement has me planning, not just thinking. Thanks.
Get started. It isn't hard. Your first videos don't even have to be good (Just look at some on my photography channel from a few years ago!). My mom loves to watch Brenda Gantt videos on Southern cooking, and she's older than 74! If you get started, send me your channel. I'd love to support you!
I’d be interested in that subject! 🙂
Another retiree here. I've been slowly working through the downsizing process, not only for my possessions but also for how I spend my time and money. Your videos are refreshing and encouraging.
very good!
Not retired yet but dealing with changes in my life that have required making changes in my home and live. Keep making videos about dealing with things that we seniors face, big or small. It helps others to watch. Good to see a senior male open his life to the world.
I love you, Dad! And I love your pillows! 😅😜
Thank you, Brittany! ❤️❤️❤️
you obviously touched the topic many of us older folks are concerned about. Congrats!
Hey we aren't 'older', just more mature! 🎉😅❤
I'm 57 and feel like I'm drowning in junk. Cleaning is three times as hard because of clutter, and I have pets shedding fur everywhere. I feel completely overwhelmed. I admire your motivation and dedication to declutter.
Maybe your family could help you and or hire help?best
One step at a time. I'm helping a neighbor. We started with her unorganized grocery sacks...hundreds. She has a little dog and keeps the sacks for potty walks. She was suddenly motivated after she saw how much better she felt with the sacks gone/organized. Have a happy day! 😊❤
There is absolutely no shame in keeping the dressers. You may share a bedroom with someone special somewhere down the line and need the extra storage. I'm an essentialist too and, if you love the look of your bed with decorative pillows, then don't change who you are for some random strangers on the internet. You're having an amazing start on this channel just being yourself!
your videos make my heart smile. 33 yr old female from pittsburgh and your newest fan
I have so much respect for your courage in starting this channel at this stage in life. It speaks volumes to your subscribers, and I think you’ll encourage many people by your example…start something new and brave at any age! Also, great to see a man with a channel like this. Refreshing!
Being a 1959 vintage human, I've got a lifetime of clutter to sift through. Thanks for sharing your journey. I'm amazed at how much of what is already on your channel I can relate to! Now, let's see what's next!! Congratulations to you!!
Watched your first video and was thrilled that someone of my generation was posting about decluttering. I moved from a small house to a condo about 4 years ago. I am not sure how many trips to the thrift store I made prior to the move, but it was a lot! I started about a year prior to the move because I was feeling the weight of my possessions and knew that it had to be done. I started with one closet and then another and then the basement. Small chunks of space started to appear empty and it was a motivator to keep going. I have been in the condo for about 4 years now and am still decluttering. Instead of downsizing in the move I upsized....go figure; but, I am still getting rid of things.
I also started volunteering at an 'upscale' thrift store that helps support a wonderful charity. Some of the things I have seen come thru the door are amazing. I do have some advice for those of you who are going thru and purging the items.
1. Start early--especially with furniture because floor space where I volunteer is limited (it is a larger space, but there is still a limited amount) and many thrift stores do not have the means to rent extra storage space. That way you can call from time to time to see if you can finally donate them. We ask for a photo of the items of furniture be available for the manager so he can plan the floor space.
2. True it is very hard to part with certain items. Please know that if you have enjoyed owning them, someone else will fall in love with them too. Pick a place to donate (or consign) that you feel will respect your things.
3. Use what you have! Don't keep your (or even grandma's) china in a box. Use it and enjoy using it on a daily basis. I fully believe that things are meant to be used and enjoyed--besides your children are most likely not going to want the dishes.
I could go on and on, but these are the most common pointers that come to mind. Good luck with the channel--you have found and filled a niche.
And you’re reaching me in England! Go, Retiree, Go!
Your channel resonated with me because de-cluttering is so often a response to a seismic shift in your life. Widowhood deprived me of my previous life as a wife and mother and shifted me into a life where there was only me so I had to cut free from my past life and create a new one. This involved selling our cherished furniture and embarking on a whole new ‘look’ for my home. Never regretted it for an instant! That’s why I say go, Retiree, go! The future lies ahead of you…..make it yours!
For me, it was the decluttering video. There are very few channels of our age group. There is a lady named Shannon who has been helping her mom Swedish death clean, so she is on track with you in my age group. I’m looking forward to watching your legacy video. It’s exciting to come across a content creator my age.
I'm in my 30's but I think the youtube algorithm is starting to put you in the same web as the minimal mom. Just a guess. Congrats! 🎉 Oh and don't worry about the minimalism police trolling your pillows or whatever it may be. It's your journey we want to see.
You are relating to all of us retirees who appreciate erudite speech from contemporaries. 😊
We need you here after a horrible 3 years. You bring hope and light.
I hadn’t heard of essentialism before. I have followed a number of minimalism channels but liked your delivery best. Keep being real.👊
Thank you!
You’re awesome. You’re like the nicer version of my daddy. ☺️
The algorithm let me find you. I'm a new subscriber. We need you here. Your message resonates with me as a retired Montessori teacher. 💕
I am one of the people who found your video the other day. Thank you for posting it! I follow a couple of other people on a journey to simplification. Maybe your video resonated with so many because it offers a unique perspective. I've subscribed and am looking forward to more. From Canada 🍁
61 year old Canuck Gramma here. My husband and I decluttered at least 2/3 of our “stuff” and downsized by half and love the simpler life. We are retired now and have so much time to have fun because we are not slaves to a big house or a garden or excess stuff.