12 Signs She’s Playing You - How To Spot If She's Using You
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- How can you tell if a girl is using you? What if a woman's playing you and you're unable to spot it? Today we're taking a look at 12 signs she's playing you.
These are some of the telltale signs someone doesn't really want a proper relationship with you, they could just be playing you or they may be using you for their own gain.
Do you know of any other signs a woman is player a man? Or perhaps you know of some other telltale signs a girl is using you? Comment below and let us know, we try our best to respond to every comment.
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Actions speak louder than words ... Go by what somebody does, not by what they say.
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For the most part it's pretty obvious when a girl is using you (from my experience, everything mention in video is spot on). It's just a matter of taking your blinders off and accepting it that's challenging
This is actually true. Better to act fast than to cry later
I feel the same with the girl I'm trying to work on
You can only be used if you lack internal confidence. Observe and go forth do your own thing but know your worth then wait to see what the next move is. However don't be fooled by any deception except standards or walk.
I agree with everything in the video 100%! I've gone through this my whole life. I do not want to be bitter because of this, but going forward these experiences have brought me more awareness and made me wiser. Thank you for this video and I will watch more!
I’m going through this same situation Anna. I really liked this video.
When she likes you she is all in. When she is confused or using you, you get a lot of mixed signals. Sometimes she gives you attention and some times she makes fun of you 😉
In reality if you have confidence and experience, you walk as soon as you see these signs. There is a chance though she checks and dates other guys too and settle with you in the end 😜 just don't give too much while she does that, so you can walk anytime.
1st line in the 1st comment sums up the video... nothing left to say or wonder...❤❤❤💯
Experience 🤔❤️
very useful video Anna
This is a good video and had almost all of them happen over my life. The not saying you are dating thing is the key. If you have been dating more than a month (especially if you are indeed being physically affectionate) and when she runs into people with you that she knows and she calls you a "friend", that is the most consistent red flag I have seen she is not really into you. The taking pictures together also is a big one with good looking women I dated. If she does not want her social media circle to know she is out with you but you are somewhere cool and she is taking pictures of everything but you and she will not even tag you, she is either seeing other men, wants to be seen as single or worse is embarrassed to be out with you or do not want the questions as to why you two are out.
But the one that shows she is flat out using you is the only texts or calls when wants a favor or she needs something. Yes, some girls might text you a question or want a bit of advice to break the ice (women are usually not as direct as men), but if you known her a long time and she only texts wanting something and only then flirts or hints at getting together (or might even hang out...once as a kind of "payment" for your help) but then disappears or dodges getting with you until she needs something again..that is the worst. You are being played and she sees you as a chump who has no value other than you helping her. Even if you stand up for yourself and call her out, in these situations she actually then just drops you and you never hear from her again. (Which is great! even though it might hurt at first) Do not be a chump.
Thank you for the input love
Also get these signs with family members also they always want me when they need or want something.
Sounds like typical "using" behaviour
Just say no to everyone who used you. I knew a guy who was my friend only to fix his car. When I started billing him the friendship ended
It was a great video and 12 keys 🔑 to open the doors to my problems thanks
There are multiple ways that girls use guys but this video has given me tips I haven't heard of yet, thank you very much for the advice. I've been used by too many girls that only liked the fact that I was a nice guy but they didn't really have much enthusiasm for me
Nice video. I have faced these issues
This video was helpful, almost all of the signs here were accurate. I kind of had a feeling that she was just not into me on the back of my head but I was just not ready to accept it. Bitter but helpful information.
Hi Anna, just to give you positive feedback, I can tell you, I recognized most of these signs over 40y ago.
My neighbor was exactly this. Very huggable great smile BUT.... Soon found out everytime she knocked on my door she had conviently run out of something. I became her supmarket that she could come to and not pay for food. This lasted 3 weeks untill I gave her a complete list of things she borrowed but never returned
Thank you.
Thank You for the great advice!🤭❤
I know a lot of people who are gonna be single after this🙂😕
hahaha yup
yhh🙂
Yup I'm being played
My ex girl friend had done that to me already when I warned her to cause bullshit drama against me and my family.I did take care of her though but unfortunately what I did was never enough to satisfy her.So I gave up cause I was tired of her games I was tired of repeating myself and mostly tired of her lies so I was so done with her ass.
Sounds like someone I know! Laura Gomez, from Cienfuegos Cuba. 🇨🇺
And one last thing, if she never invited you to her birthday party 🤣🤣🤣
this video teaches a lot . I think the girl iam trying to chase is playing with me ! accord to almost all items
My ex was doing all these things and i know she was cheating and i saw signs all the time and would bring them up with her but she lie and say it nothing. Im just having fun for now. She still hits me up but she apparently values them more than me. I will never play second fiddle. Im gonna have to start be ruthless with her and her friends like she has been with me, it will be hard but guess it a doggy dog world, i love her but she not coming at me right way at all
A friend told me a girl likes me but when i confront her she say we are friends and wont tell me she already has a bf. She flirts with me but ignores me when i text her? I think shes just playing games.
Going through a couple of these things with a girl I like from my last job. Seems like I should walk now after watching this
Hearing this says to me that make it more valid "incels" are right on how they viewed SOME Women who (especially) do this to men!👍🏁
I'm watching this video and I know who I can think of one person who is all of these.
I promise if this 1 plays games with me im done with this shit forever
💯💯Truth
holy shit. described some women I've known to a T.
The women I come across only want favors from me. It’s ridiculous. However, I’m not giving up on finding the right woman.
Good infro
I’ve been with a girl about 5 months, she doesn’t add me to her Facebook account so it makes me wonder why… any ideas?
I get that feeling often 🤢!
Sorry to hear that, it must be uncomfortable for you. Thank you for commenting
Any video for single mom?
the problem is my girlfriend and i have been together 5 years now , and she is doing it right now i am lost
You are going to find dude
@@abel5240 thank you but find what !?
@@ThisisEnzoman How did it end up?
@@thejoseandresshow yeah since this comment i broke up with her and I'm happy right now
Hope u ok bud. So whats the problem? He bored or other guy?
My ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick is guilty of the first two signs.
I wish I'd seen this before my ex could stab me in the back like she did.
She use to text n call first but not anymore she text back but dry
She probably going trougbt something my girlfriend do it sometimes just leave her don't give her attention she will come back
Wt if she needs me for small things that even she can do that work early
And after completing that work
She still continues her conversation with me
And always wants me with her
But when we both go home
Than she doesn't even text me like gm gn etc
But when we are together she always flirt
And even takes pic with me
Notice these signs:
- She wants you to help complete easy things that she can even do it herself
-> She may underestimate things and become lazy, so she wants you to do so!
-> She trusts you as a kind person ‘cuz you’ve already been so/too nice with her before!
-> She may gradually consider you as a partner, so she gives you chance to make her surprised by completing her little things!
- After completing work, she continues her conversation with you
-> She’s thankful to your kindness!
-> By congratulating you, she’s going to bring up the relationship with her!
- She always wants you with her
-> Were you able to hang out with her, or she’s just wanting you while being together for a short period of time?
-> Have you ever wanted her with you and you got her agreement with it?
- When both home, she no longer texts ...
-> She’s busy sometimes
-> If it’s always, that means she’s busy ... with you, free with anyone else!
-> She doesn’t want to text, if she’s active, try to record or have a call/video call with her!
...
@@thiennhienyeu3047 yeahhh
Wait
Thn after somedays something happened to her idk
One day I didn't text her
Thn she texted me y u didn't text me today ??
I said u r busy no that's y I didn't text
Thn the next day she said ur really like my elder brother.
Thn I was like wts happening
I never showed any sign of liking her
Thn again after somedays. Our college reopened
Thn she changed
She never called me bro again
She flirts
She acts like she is lazy
She always borrows things from me
She compliments
She ask for simplest helps
She clicks selfies with me
And now she only starts the convo
Idk wts happening
@@thiennhienyeu3047 and
Also her actions showed that she likes me
- she blushes around me
- she gets nervous
- she smiles
- she acts different around me
:(
@@reflexo-pubg1571 Hahah sound funny man!
If her actions were so, just hoped that it’s not her fake or over-reaction!
To check out, let’s have some jokes about that, if she gets it, she’ll let you know along your conversation!
Sometimes, let’s try to reject to help her, create boundaries between you two, let her dip more into you!
@@thiennhienyeu3047 okay tyy
And btw I'm introvert
So in person she only starts the convo
And makes plans like
To teach her something through video call
Number 2, the most important thing.
Remember that boys. And girls, men will also do that.
What if she want meet up for a date
Who? Im not in a relationship smh. I think yall need too catch up
She called me her brother in front of strangers
Soul ties
My girlfriend went to a party i
Yesterday couldn't go with her i take home everywhere i go but can't go with her her talk down on me
How do you know if she's using or if she is playing hard to get?
Take your choice either way she is playing you
Get this a girl got jealous of me until she knew I had nothing to do with rhe other girl and her friend said she does that she flirts and acts interested then dops you like a lead turd she even says she has a boyfriend I was told I was being used and she was right.
Play her before she plays you lol
Ironic... sounds a bit like the playing hard to get video
#1 CHECK #2 CHECK # 3 CHECK # 4 N/A # 5 NEVER COMES OVER, EXCUSES # 6 SHE TELLS PEOPLE I AM HER MAN # 7 CHECK # 8 SHE TALKS A LOT ABOUT US BEING TOGETHER. Hmmmmmmm
Gods where ar girls like you Ana?
I think this is bullcrap. Maybe her place is a mess and her family are a bit nosey so she wont invite you over. Maybe she expects the man to take the lead in the relationship so she waits for him to call and initiate dates. Maybe she knows her friends are desparate and will try to get you for themselves or break you two up so she wont introduce you to the friends. If she calls you friend maybe its because you havent had the talk. smh!
Well its 2021 & women are adults too, you cant have "men must lead" mentality & then preach gender eqaulity. Share the work load!
And as for "maybe her friends are desperate & will try to still" . . . If her friends are like that then finding a man should be the least of her worries as she needs to find new friends first.
Lmfao! 😂😭😭😭 Jesus Christ what a garbage take.
Quite a few things ticked off there... Damn
DHA!!! Thank you captain obvious....
Knowing you're being played is not a disappointment but rather a blessing. Why? Because you can then cut off such an individual from your life.
Do you only want people in your life who are only there in your life because of what you can offer? Or, do you want people in your life who truly care for you and will be there for you, even when you have nothing you can do for them?
i been having the motions with this one chick she's wack and wish I never met her i washed my hands of her
Same man. Respect brother. Peace and love. God bless.
I’m considering of washing my hands with this chick. I realize my biggest issue. And that’s seeing the best in people. She would only ever text when she wanted gifts or money. And now on the day before when we’re supposed to really meet up I ask all day what time she would like me to swing by and pick her up, Ive given each text request 3 hours of time apart from on another so like 4 texts in one day.
Nothing. Not even a response to cancel. I legit think she’s using me. Next time she texts me and asks for more money I’m gonna tell her to F off. I’m done with trusting anyone or being good/kind especially when I look up to find her exact same selfie on sever dating sites being online an active for hookups.
damn :’)
The chick is always talking
about money and food
Yooo🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣
Lol dude this is anxiety bait
I wasted 6 yrs of my life🥲🥲🥲🥲.