I've heard many times that the golden rule when dealing with women is : IF SHE'S INTERESTED, SHE'LL MAKE THINGS EASY. Maybe the title of the video should be "17 Mind Games Played By Women With Low Interest." If her favorite movie star was trying to date her, would she really toy around with him like this?
Well Players would not agree with you: they succeed by going where no other guys go. A more reasonable mindset would be like: "is she worth the effort ?" From my experience just because you put a lot of effort into her doesn't mean she is going to reward it. But I often choose to do it anyway just to practice and improve my game and my patience
I have a zero tolerance for these silly mind games women play. A woman would be lucky to get a date from me in 2021. Chivalry is dead, along with the nice guy I use to be.
Any of these mind games turn me off, if I’m expected to constantly validate a woman to receive her approval then I’m leaving and not wasting another second on this woman.
I’ve completely given up on dating thanks to these ridiculous mind games and you can’t have anything genuine and simple with these garbage relationships
Bradly Henson you have had the internet & TH-cam most of your life, so this info you have had on tap. Some of us guy’s may have been in a long term relationship for 10yrs or more and are only getting back into the singles market. Before the internet & TH-cam, us guys had to learn off each other’s experiences...
Lol look at society the last 50 years. Society and government has done thing to take manhood away, and spread the lie of “all women and men are the same and can do the same things”. Look at Hollywood, what do u see? A guy chasing a woman, chase chase chase, push push push, give give give, she teases him, then the guy all of a sudden does something heroic and boom happily ever after ending LOL it’s BS. Bring back real men. Bring back normalizing masculinity. Take away social media from so much
Honestly listening to all of this, reminds me of all the times I feel into those stupid mind games, back when I was attracted to one of my female friends. I basically fell into all the traps and failed all the shit tests. After that, she didn't respect neither me or my time. I tried to keep in touch with her and see if I could find a way to raise her interest, but I realized that all I did was orbiting around her and boosting her ego. Cuz she knew I liked her and she liked the attention. And while I always invited her out to do stuff, she would always keep me in the dark until the last second whether things will happen or not. And sometimes she would change plans. Eventually I got fed up with the disrespect and just cut all contact. She never even cared enough to try and reach out to see what happened. And seeing as how 2 years have passed since I cut her out of my life, she is showing me that she never really cared about keeping any contact with me in the first place. The worst part is, I cared more about her, than she ever did. I invested a lot of my time, energy and resources into trying to be with her, in any way I could. And I was just the backup plan. Or last resort. Honestly, at this point in my life, I don't even know if I will ever find a person with who I will feel a strong emotional connection with. And because we live in times where woman are constantly looking for the best thing they could get, I basically don't even wanna bother looking for anything at all.
@@90s-Trance_86 same here. Everything was chill and vibing for a good bit, then all of a sudden she started the: Acting uninterested Treatment Hot & Cold Treatment Silent Treatment Looking Away Conveniently Treatment Like she knows I want her for more than just sex, I'm talking about LTR vibes and I know she wants the same, but all these mind games are starting to make me have less interest in her.
We get it. Most women are incapable of direct communication as the girls language is always indirect. Men, take note that even though we are direct communicators we have to master indirect communication. Notice the double standard as when it comes to dating women don't ever have to perform direct communication. I am intrigued that the male has to always perform but the women doesn't have to perform nearly as hard.
Wtf, all this just to get a women? And after all that she moves on with some other dude? Guys use that time in building yourself and investing in yourself and you will attract high value women. Any kind of games is just toxic and childish period, we live in times where things are hard already and having this extra drama will just push you down and muck your mind. Have a blessed day guys.
for any woman reading this ...MEN CANNOT READ YOUR MIND..so waiting for him to figure out what he did wrong or penalizing him for not figuring it out is a REALLY REALLY BAD IDEA!!!
Its just attention seeking behavior. Unless you really fucked up bad, dont engage and sooner or later things will return to normal. Apologizing and submitting to her feminine frame for normal/minor issues is one of the worst things you can do and will always kill her interest
Literally no time to deal with any of this. It’s either she is super down or I’m out. Lot of women out there, this type of behaviour should never be validated. Abundance
Manipulation and passive aggression don’t work and for me are signs of a toxic woman. If I find that a girl I like does any of these things mentioned in the video, you’ve already lost my interest and I’m gone.. ✌🏻
Toxic is a euphemism for "sociopathic and narcissistic traits that may be congruent with a Cluster B personality disorder" Narcissists, sociopaths, borderline women etc. are going to pull this a ton and frankly even Borderline Personality Disorder girls don't even do all that. This might as well be titled "spotting a covert female narcissist"
These are signs that she's not worth it after all. If a guy tries any of the ones from the video, instant harassment case against him for being played by her! This one had so many examples of Double Standard that women do to men. My advice: stay real and single
I don't fully agree with this, staying single is only better if you date the wrong woman who makes your life miserable. If you're in a relationship with a great girl who respects and loves you and you love her too then it is much much better than being single.
Men like me that know their worth and consider their time and energy to be valuable have no tolerance for toxic bullshit games like this. We know that this immature sort of behavior only gets worse with time.
I stop playing with the first sign of mind games, as she is still an immature and insecure girl that has not grown up and will be nothing but trouble not worth losing peace for.
When you are a nice - genuine- caring-loving person and so on you are tested with these stupid mind games and all this garbage BUTTTT if you are an asshole the bad boy You will get ins very simply
Too many people playing Psychological mind games, we all wonder why the marriage & divorce rates are they way they are. Makes more sense if its from too many people trying to get the upper hand over one another, not being open & honest with each other. Maybe being more loving, compassionate, understanding & all those other good things to each other. That may end up making more richer, deeper, more meaning full relationship.
I think too many people want to be the pants wearer to lord over the other, and not be someone who tries to raise the other up to be the best they can be.
The video shows one side of reality. The one that frustrates men, but from which we can recover after a few days. What deeply bothers me is the air, the hint of superiority and complacency with these ridiculous behaviors from the host. Why not make the second part and show the matter from a female perspective? Show how, despite their eagerness to pounce on the man, they prefer to be unfaithful to themselves, choosing misfortune and loneliness by playing "mind games." Why not show how they maintain false pride, even on the verge of tears, bidding farewell to the man they love, just to uphold a social appearance that neither eliminates nor diminishes the pain of loneliness? They prefer to break a man they often love than to show themselves vulnerable, open, and sincere, which ultimately is the essence of love. The world is sick and chanels like this make it even worst.
No they don't! Mind games? My exs played this. Crying, crocodile tears. Forget it. I walk away. I hated the lies and deception...all part of their mind games.
'' Some Mind Games Actually Work . " Only on the Idiots that are Not Aware they are being Played. NOBODY can take Advantage of You unless You allow them to do it.
Mirroring works with a lot of these, especially hot and cold treatment, the jealousy game, looking away, etc. Just have a "shrug" attitude. Don't let her change your center.
When life is hard in the first place ,which it is for most people , these kinds of things can ruin any progress or comfort for everyone. It’s very sad , selfish and childishly burdensome in fact .
I'll just say it. Playing mind games like this is simply unconscionable. Bottom line is: Woman playing mind games = good Man playing mind games = bad Nope. Right is right, and wrong is wrong. When a woman starts with the mind games bs, just know that this is what to expect...FOREVER!
I recognize the logic behind these tactics...but sometimes I wonder if the "like attracts like" = "hurt begets more hurt" theory applies here. And if the blind are leading the blind do they all fall in the ditch?🤔 Definitely got me pondering
Yes her manipulating me into doing her favors makes me feel so powerful. These are entertaining and all but its like asking a fish how to catch fish, I'd ask another fisherMAN. These are common shit tests though. If she shows up late cut her loose, she doesn't respect you.
Hmm, we appreciate Joyanima's effort by sharing these mind games with us, but most likely men will not tolerate these. She flirts with others - have at it. She flaked on 1st date? - have at it. By all means. We dont care, we done with her. We find someone who actually like us because who we are and what we represent
I have a few questions: 1. For the silent treatment: . She randomly blocked me out of the blue at the beginning of the day and then friended me back after school. . She randomly blocked me out of the blue but then sent me a friend request a few days afterwards. I want to ask her “Hey …, I noticed I was blocked twice. Is there something wrong?” but I also don’t want to accept her friend request for a few days because I want see if she’ll chase me in person.
I walked away from my now ex girlfriend for all of the above/ video. Were Together 16 years, and the last three years were mindless games overboard .... hence the dump!! With all that's going on in the world who needs this...
Makes me understand all the things she did , was actually mind games to be in power in relationship. But all these games are reason of our breakup . Relationship must not have political .
ME(after 21 years of commiting to my wife): "So, how come when you're ill I'M THERE and yet whenever I am ill..you are nowhere to be seen". HER: " GOD, don't you ever go on...you're like a stuck record". ME: "...ever heard of the word PETITIONER?....". HER: "OHHH SHUT UP...you're like a stuck record...was there any post today?". ME: "NO IDEA...I was at a meeting with a Solicitor all day". HER: "Sure you were....you're like a stuck record you are". N.P.D. After being discarded, I petitioned her. Seems it wasn't me who was the stuck record...just duped..and now in recovery. Dating is....difficult or impossible.
If she's testing you that's actually a GOOD thing. She's into you. Just give her space and don't overreact (like the butthurt comments here). If she steps over the line by being rude let her know that. Maintain your frame and integrity. Only apologise if you've done something wrong.
hahahaaaa: thats what women who test say !!! Or attractive ones who can get away with it. Contrary, the risk is high if she games AND has interest. Most know better than to play with fire
Honestly, I was just looking for someone to talk to and find out if our interest aligned so I could maybe begin dating her. My first step was letting her know that I was interested in her, she responded saying she's also interested. I expected to go on dates and talk to figure out these things with her. She blocked my numerous attempts of going out on dates and started playing hard to get all the sudden. I told her that if she's not interested, she should just say so. She told me for sure, she's interested but all her signals showed me that she wasn't. It got to a point where I started disliking her because of her mind games so I stopped talking to her and making plans to meet up. Suddenly now, she's acting all desperate wanting me to chase her again by making things easier like coming to my house and wanting to talk. I already lost interest I went from being neutral (slightly liked her) to straight up disliking her.
I had no idea - she literally did every single one! I thought she was a narsassit or sociopath. She might be but also did all this stuff I stopped asking her out and said she should ask me. She took other people out from work who sat round me and said how they were her “favorite” lunch dates 😂 at that point I knew I had “won”
If she does these things, she's definitely not a "high quality woman" much less a keeper. In the words of Green Goblin, "do what you need to with her, then broom her fast", or better yet just pass on her all together.
It sounds like alot of the advice is for people not in relationship and just casual dating. Personally I am a committed type guy and i don't need girls to play games in order for me to commit but they seem to anyway . I feel like some might do it to get commitment from a guy but it feels like some just do it cause they think it's fun no other reason hard to tell between the 2😬
Like : Feb 14, 2021: Her : Happy Valentine's GIF. Me: I love you!!!!!❤❤❤❤ I'm sorry, sometimes I just have to say it. Her: I love you but I'm not in love. I took it at face value I miss her indescribably
women think that if they play hard to get with men, then the guys will marry them and stay with them for ever. Have you checked the divorce rate in the Western country? for the past 50 to 60 years the rete of divorce has sky rocked.
Is it of any concern to read comments that respond to this advice with, “ it’s just not worth it” Serious question. When did females decide to not be human anymore? You just have to sit back and reflect that what’s said here just isn’t healthy. At all. On any level.
@@richardjoslin2260 moron flag. See how simple that was. You get that when simpletons decide they want to contribute throw away lines. It's ok to disagree and preferable contribute with an objection. When you insult people or in your case attempt to, you reveal more about yourself than the laziness in the abbreviation. You have a nice day. Be better.
I got a girl in my life recently that seems to go out of the way to interrupt a conversation and greet people whom I am speaking with and sort of ignores me.... I for sure really like this girl but bs like that urks me to no end, I've already written her off as super bad news (always fun but goes melt down super fast honestly not worth the hassle).
I found especially interesting the segment that talks about women flirting with other guys. Recently I went to one of the local bars in town on a Saturday night and a woman was seated at the bar of whom I met once about a week earlier. She motions me over to a seat next to her and requests that I "sit down". While I am there she proceeds to "lift up my chin" when I am "looking down" (as a reaction to being very drunk) and proceeds with much "small talk". From there she proceeds to dance with every "Tom, Dick and Harry" that asks her or appears to be "remotely interested". That's ok because while she was on the dance floor, I pulled my jacket off the stool and headed for the exit. The following weekend she started to "pursue me harder" but I "payed her no mind". In the following weeks she did "everything and it's brother" to make me "re-interested" but I never "fell for it'. IMHO women need to watch these "jealousy games". It may make the "love of your life'" drop you like a "hot potatoe". Watch out!
If a girl simply sends yes/no answers to serious questions, she's just silly. I have been blocking these bimbos. Life is too short fellas. Run Forest Run!!!
Women who do this stuff are TMW. Too Much Work. High-Value men don't have to put up. I did agree that a broken date combined with a true apology and serious effort to reschedule on her part is OK. Last minute date broken for no reason? NEXT!!!
I'm not chasing anyone because I also have something valuable to bring to the table. I'm not going to be manipulated because of your selfish pride to feel wanted ! Is it not enough for you that I made the risk to take the first step ! Is it the enough that I've already made every effort to meet your needs. I'm worth something too. What if we dudes played these manipulative games with them. How long would they stick around. The stregth of a man is measured by how much he can handle. But Wisdom is knowing when to quit.
So Anna, How is all this Working for You in your Personal Life ? LOL I find it interesting that most of these '' Experts '' are Single go through Boy/Girl Friends like Toilet Paper , and have Never been Married. ( Marriage can be a Great Thing , but I still would not Encourage it. )
I love a girl and we are friends now, she knows i love her and the biggest problem is the distance and communication problem. One more problem is that she had a boyfriend with whom she had her serious relationship now they are not together. Please help me out here, and remember the biggest problem now is distance, I can't meet her and i need you to help me please🙏. I Love Her . Thank You
I've heard many times that the golden rule when dealing with women is : IF SHE'S INTERESTED, SHE'LL MAKE THINGS EASY. Maybe the title of the video should be "17 Mind Games Played By Women With Low Interest." If her favorite movie star was trying to date her, would she really toy around with him like this?
Boom goes the truth bomb
It's debatable to an extent.
True
Very true, BUT Players and Fuckboys also know how to read and successfully pass or dodge those Shit-Test. It's not a black or white thing.
@@jeanculle9740 Usually a sign of immaturity (under 30-35). Mature eomen dont pull this, because they know men will walk
There are so many things wrong with this, and the only sane way to handle all of this is to not validate her and not to be fazed by that shit.
Correct only way to answer this ,is showing the place she deserves (trash 😂)
Agreed.
Facts
As soon as a woman does these tests/behaviour I'm gone from them faster than a speeding ticket.
I agreed, she testing you to see how much you give in. When married such a woman, she continued to play mind games and she will have all control.
Yup, I'll be out of there too. I don't have the patience or want to waste energy on games like these....
🤦♂️LOL it can be frustrating but oh well 😂 LOL
Well Players would not agree with you: they succeed by going where no other guys go.
A more reasonable mindset would be like: "is she worth the effort ?"
From my experience just because you put a lot of effort into her doesn't mean she is going to reward it. But I often choose to do it anyway just to practice and improve my game and my patience
They all do it...
I have a zero tolerance for these silly mind games women play. A woman would be lucky to get a date from me in 2021. Chivalry is dead, along with the nice guy I use to be.
100% 👌
Any of these mind games turn me off, if I’m expected to constantly validate a woman to receive her approval then I’m leaving and not wasting another second on this woman.
same. I just like them to tell me things straight
You should rename the video to: 17 reasons to move on. 😊
17 reasons to remain single.
I’ve completely given up on dating thanks to these ridiculous mind games and you can’t have anything genuine and simple with these garbage relationships
Once a man hits 30 he realizes he has no more time for mind game garbage.
Yep i'm 50 and just walked away from a 34 year old i've known for years for playing mind games ..ain't got time for it
Older and wiser
I’m 33
It gets even more ridiculous at 40
I Learned not to Put up with it When I Turned 19 What Took You so Long to Learn ?!?
Bradly Henson you have had the internet & TH-cam most of your life, so this info you have had on tap. Some of us guy’s may have been in a long term relationship for 10yrs or more and are only getting back into the singles market. Before the internet & TH-cam, us guys had to learn off each other’s experiences...
This is precisely y I'm single. I remember "ALL" the stupid ass games that were a complete waste of time
I remember when you could just have a normal relationship.
Lol look at society the last 50 years. Society and government has done thing to take manhood away, and spread the lie of “all women and men are the same and can do the same things”. Look at Hollywood, what do u see? A guy chasing a woman, chase chase chase, push push push, give give give, she teases him, then the guy all of a sudden does something heroic and boom happily ever after ending LOL it’s BS. Bring back real men. Bring back normalizing masculinity. Take away social media from so much
in the 80s....😂😂😂😂
In the 1600s.
Not recently. It's hard wired to them
Not me. I don’t remember at all. Lol
Honestly listening to all of this, reminds me of all the times I feel into those stupid mind games, back when I was attracted to one of my female friends. I basically fell into all the traps and failed all the shit tests. After that, she didn't respect neither me or my time. I tried to keep in touch with her and see if I could find a way to raise her interest, but I realized that all I did was orbiting around her and boosting her ego. Cuz she knew I liked her and she liked the attention. And while I always invited her out to do stuff, she would always keep me in the dark until the last second whether things will happen or not. And sometimes she would change plans.
Eventually I got fed up with the disrespect and just cut all contact. She never even cared enough to try and reach out to see what happened. And seeing as how 2 years have passed since I cut her out of my life, she is showing me that she never really cared about keeping any contact with me in the first place. The worst part is, I cared more about her, than she ever did. I invested a lot of my time, energy and resources into trying to be with her, in any way I could. And I was just the backup plan. Or last resort.
Honestly, at this point in my life, I don't even know if I will ever find a person with who I will feel a strong emotional connection with.
And because we live in times where woman are constantly looking for the best thing they could get, I basically don't even wanna bother looking for anything at all.
I can feel you bro. I understand your situation. I've also a click with someone. Affraid I wont get the click anymore with someone else.
Be thankful… you described she was showing some toxic manipulating narcissistic behaviors … 🚩!
I swear to god I think you’re my NSA agent 🤨 because I could have wrote that myself🤨who are you really 🤨
@@90s-Trance_86 same here. Everything was chill and vibing for a good bit, then all of a sudden she started the:
Acting uninterested Treatment
Hot & Cold Treatment
Silent Treatment
Looking Away Conveniently Treatment
Like she knows I want her for more than just sex, I'm talking about LTR vibes and I know she wants the same, but all these mind games are starting to make me have less interest in her.
You escaped a bad situation. Lucky she didn’t hook you in and tear you down through mental abuse.
If she wants you then there are no games. If you have to jump through hoops she does not want you.
Agree 👍
We get it. Most women are incapable of direct communication as the girls language is always indirect. Men, take note that even though we are direct communicators we have to master indirect communication. Notice the double standard as when it comes to dating women don't ever have to perform direct communication. I am intrigued that the male has to always perform but the women doesn't have to perform nearly as hard.
True, most women think "they're the shit". To be honest, I don't think they're not able to be so petty minded (biology). Very frustrating though
Wtf, all this just to get a women? And after all that she moves on with some other dude? Guys use that time in building yourself and investing in yourself and you will attract high value women. Any kind of games is just toxic and childish period, we live in times where things are hard already and having this extra drama will just push you down and muck your mind. Have a blessed day guys.
Life is short. Time is moving fast. I don’t have time for this bs
Why should men have to prove themselves and not women . I will not play games .
Amen. If I have to play games, so should they.
for any woman reading this ...MEN CANNOT READ YOUR MIND..so waiting for him to figure out what he did wrong or penalizing him for not figuring it out is a REALLY REALLY BAD IDEA!!!
my thoughts.....keep on snubbing me and you will not be on my bcard list (fyi....I already gave your boss, and others).
Its just attention seeking behavior. Unless you really fucked up bad, dont engage and sooner or later things will return to normal. Apologizing and submitting to her feminine frame for normal/minor issues is one of the worst things you can do and will always kill her interest
Girls need to stop this. You like me or you don’t. Im not playing games or treating them like they are superior to me
It's safe to say then, "Men are the better sex". Unbelievable!!
Yet as obvious as the summer sun!
Rebuff every mind game either ignore or flat out reject she will never forget you.
Don’t play back
Show her you got better thing to do
Literally no time to deal with any of this. It’s either she is super down or I’m out. Lot of women out there, this type of behaviour should never be validated. Abundance
Guys!!! Never let a woman make you her emotional tampon. Dwell in abundance and you’d automatically avoid these “17” drama.
When I saw a red flag, I ran quickly through the red light 🚨 and through the speed limit that says 35, I was on 50 ! Gone 🤣
Wow! Thank you for really telling the truth. Any game playing starts I walk. Amazing how fast they get upset and put all the blame on the guy.
Manipulation and passive aggression don’t work and for me are signs of a toxic woman. If I find that a girl I like does any of these things mentioned in the video, you’ve already lost my interest and I’m gone.. ✌🏻
17 tests that reveal if you're the type she can take half your net worth.
@@marcbee1234 😂True!
Toxic is a euphemism for "sociopathic and narcissistic traits that may be congruent with a Cluster B personality disorder"
Narcissists, sociopaths, borderline women etc. are going to pull this a ton and frankly even Borderline Personality Disorder girls don't even do all that. This might as well be titled "spotting a covert female narcissist"
Stay single men. It’s not worth all the hassle.
Exactly! Single life is the best! 👍
MGTOW is the only way of freedom and peace of mind. No bullshit anymore
Yuh right bro
Amen to that brother stay away from these psycho girls.
Lmao seriously
These are signs that she's not worth it after all. If a guy tries any of the ones from the video, instant harassment case against him for being played by her! This one had so many examples of Double Standard that women do to men. My advice: stay real and single
I don't fully agree with this, staying single is only better if you date the wrong woman who makes your life miserable. If you're in a relationship with a great girl who respects and loves you and you love her too then it is much much better than being single.
I'd rather get into another car accident than having to ever deal with this again.
Men like me that know their worth and consider their time and energy to be valuable have no tolerance for toxic bullshit games like this. We know that this immature sort of behavior only gets worse with time.
Yep. If you’re confused if she genuinely likes you or not, just disappear for a few days and see if she chases you.
Even homeless guys with no value at all should not tolerate this behaviour.
I stop playing with the first sign of mind games, as she is still an immature and insecure girl that has not grown up and will be nothing but trouble not worth losing peace for.
When you are a nice - genuine- caring-loving person and so on you are tested with these stupid mind games and all this garbage BUTTTT if you are an asshole the bad boy You will get ins very simply
She plays on you? Abandon her! Take the red pills!
You are more valuable than girls guys!
YES!!!!!!!!
They run out of time and down select mates ... They are never satisfied.
Too many people playing Psychological mind games, we all wonder why the marriage & divorce rates are they way they are. Makes more sense if its from too many people trying to get the upper hand over one another, not being open & honest with each other. Maybe being more loving, compassionate, understanding & all those other good things to each other. That may end up making more richer, deeper, more meaning full relationship.
I think too many people want to be the pants wearer to lord over the other, and not be someone who tries to raise the other up to be the best they can be.
The video shows one side of reality. The one that frustrates men, but from which we can recover after a few days. What deeply bothers me is the air, the hint of superiority and complacency with these ridiculous behaviors from the host. Why not make the second part and show the matter from a female perspective? Show how, despite their eagerness to pounce on the man, they prefer to be unfaithful to themselves, choosing misfortune and loneliness by playing "mind games." Why not show how they maintain false pride, even on the verge of tears, bidding farewell to the man they love, just to uphold a social appearance that neither eliminates nor diminishes the pain of loneliness? They prefer to break a man they often love than to show themselves vulnerable, open, and sincere, which ultimately is the essence of love. The world is sick and chanels like this make it even worst.
Two words come to mind after watching this video. F**K THAT.
Yeah. Waterboarding would be better by comparison.
My parents always gaslight and guilt trip me.
No they don't! Mind games?
My exs played this. Crying, crocodile tears. Forget it. I walk away.
I hated the lies and deception...all part of their mind games.
'' Some Mind Games Actually Work . " Only on the Idiots that are Not Aware they are being Played. NOBODY can take Advantage of You unless You allow them to do it.
The ol text message just to ignore your response and message a week later to show you she’s occupied..
None of these are traits I value in a woman
so when a women says no she dose"t want to go out with me ,i should"t ,iisten and just try harder.ok thanks
The red pill looks tastier by the day. 😁
Mirroring works with a lot of these, especially hot and cold treatment, the jealousy game, looking away, etc. Just have a "shrug" attitude. Don't let her change your center.
Better do not let her be part of your life
Sorry, ladies! I went MGTOW, I have a life to live, you're not worth it! Stay with your parents, your cats/dogs/horses!
When life is hard in the first place ,which it is for most people , these kinds of things can ruin any progress or comfort for everyone. It’s very sad , selfish and childishly burdensome in fact .
If a woman plays these games its foolish to stick around.
She’s describing many manipulating behaviors women use. This seems toxic imo. Red flag 🚩!
I'll just say it. Playing mind games like this is simply unconscionable. Bottom line is:
Woman playing mind games = good
Man playing mind games = bad
Nope. Right is right, and wrong is wrong. When a woman starts with the mind games bs, just know that this is what to expect...FOREVER!
... I can assure you relationships are not a game.
I recognize the logic behind these tactics...but sometimes I wonder if the "like attracts like" = "hurt begets more hurt" theory applies here. And if the blind are leading the blind do they all fall in the ditch?🤔 Definitely got me pondering
Ditch, what ditch? All I hear is the sound of cracking bones beneath my feet.
@@fleetingfootnotes9133 haha nice!."bruise your heel and u bruise the head(all other bones)
Yes her manipulating me into doing her favors makes me feel so powerful. These are entertaining and all but its like asking a fish how to catch fish, I'd ask another fisherMAN. These are common shit tests though. If she shows up late cut her loose, she doesn't respect you.
Those all are red flags. Is she testing me??!! What?? If shebever does anybof those I just leave her.
I got no time to play these games ! Once they start this BS I'm out and if I ask and I get turned down I'm not asking again !
As a wise man once said,..."Homey, don't play that."
Hmm, we appreciate Joyanima's effort by sharing these mind games with us, but most likely men will not tolerate these. She flirts with others - have at it. She flaked on 1st date? - have at it. By all means. We dont care, we done with her. We find someone who actually like us because who we are and what we represent
If you walk away you are valuing yourself. If you play her mind games, then you are not.
I have a few questions:
1. For the silent treatment:
. She randomly blocked me out of the blue at the beginning of the day and then friended me back after school.
. She randomly blocked me out of the blue but then sent me a friend request a few days afterwards.
I want to ask her “Hey …, I noticed I was blocked twice. Is there something wrong?” but I also don’t want to accept her friend request for a few days because I want see if she’ll chase me in person.
Juggle cats and chainsaws? I think no, she can game herself to box wine and lonliness
Those are "sh** tests" in the PUA community. Thank you for listing them!!
I walked away from my now ex girlfriend for all of the above/ video.
Were Together 16 years, and the last three years were mindless games overboard .... hence the dump!!
With all that's going on in the world who needs this...
Too complicated... Imma stay alone and save energy😍....."chivalry is dead and women killed it" - Dave Chappelle
I pulled away from the girl when she became cold. Now she is crawling back in shame. 🤣
Stay single! Stay safe guys!
Nah man I’m trying to at least get in one relationship and loose my virginity before I die.
Girls who like you are annoying as fuck. She will be Clingy. If this is happening , just forget about her.
Makes me understand all the things she did , was actually mind games to be in power in relationship. But all these games are reason of our breakup . Relationship must not have political .
ME(after 21 years of commiting to my wife): "So, how come when you're ill I'M THERE and yet whenever I am ill..you are nowhere to be seen".
HER: " GOD, don't you ever go on...you're like a stuck record".
ME: "...ever heard of the word PETITIONER?....".
HER: "OHHH SHUT UP...you're like a stuck record...was there any post today?".
ME: "NO IDEA...I was at a meeting with a Solicitor all day".
HER: "Sure you were....you're like a stuck record you are".
N.P.D.
After being discarded, I petitioned her.
Seems it wasn't me who was the stuck record...just duped..and now in recovery.
Dating is....difficult or impossible.
Simple. Don't play them and just drop her
This is a good one. Like a code book.
I laughed at the playing hard to get one because now asking twice will catch you a beef. Playing hard to get makes you hard to want
If she's testing you that's actually a GOOD thing. She's into you. Just give her space and don't overreact (like the butthurt comments here). If she steps over the line by being rude let her know that. Maintain your frame and integrity. Only apologise if you've done something wrong.
hahahaaaa: thats what women who test say !!! Or attractive ones who can get away with it. Contrary, the risk is high if she games AND has interest. Most know better than to play with fire
That’s what I’m going to do give her space and not overreact
Finally someone with sense god these other comments are brutal
Honestly, I was just looking for someone to talk to and find out if our interest aligned so I could maybe begin dating her. My first step was letting her know that I was interested in her, she responded saying she's also interested. I expected to go on dates and talk to figure out these things with her. She blocked my numerous attempts of going out on dates and started playing hard to get all the sudden. I told her that if she's not interested, she should just say so. She told me for sure, she's interested but all her signals showed me that she wasn't. It got to a point where I started disliking her because of her mind games so I stopped talking to her and making plans to meet up. Suddenly now, she's acting all desperate wanting me to chase her again by making things easier like coming to my house and wanting to talk. I already lost interest I went from being neutral (slightly liked her) to straight up disliking her.
If I wanted to play games, I'd just turn on my PlayStation. Just have casual relationships, the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
The helpless girl who asks for my help all the time consider as high quality woman?
Guy: wanna hang out Saturday?
Woman: I can't I have a wedding to go to.
If she turns me down I move on. If she dosent respond I move on.
I had no idea - she literally did every single one!
I thought she was a narsassit or sociopath. She might be but also did all this stuff
I stopped asking her out and said she should ask me.
She took other people out from work who sat round me and said how they were her “favorite” lunch dates 😂 at that point I knew I had “won”
Or you could just get a dog
If she does these things, she's definitely not a "high quality woman" much less a keeper. In the words of Green Goblin, "do what you need to with her, then broom her fast", or better yet just pass on her all together.
Wrong on so many levels.
You have definitely been taught to tell the truth
I had no idea - she literally did every single one!
I thought she was a narsassit or sociopath. She might be but also did all this stuff
It sounds like alot of the advice is for people not in relationship and just casual dating. Personally I am a committed type guy and i don't need girls to play games in order for me to commit but they seem to anyway . I feel like some might do it to get commitment from a guy but it feels like some just do it cause they think it's fun no other reason hard to tell between the 2😬
They usually do not know what they want and that is why they play mind games.
Like :
Feb 14, 2021:
Her : Happy Valentine's GIF.
Me: I love you!!!!!❤❤❤❤
I'm sorry, sometimes I just have to say it.
Her: I love you but I'm not in love.
I took it at face value
I miss her indescribably
Basically if they do these acts when just meeting one another, run the opposite way.
women think that if they play hard to get with men, then the guys will marry them and stay with them for ever. Have you checked the divorce rate in the Western country? for the past 50 to 60 years the rete of divorce has sky rocked.
Is it of any concern to read comments that respond to this advice with, “ it’s just not worth it” Serious question. When did females decide to not be human anymore? You just have to sit back and reflect that what’s said here just isn’t healthy. At all. On any level.
facts
SIMP alert
@@richardjoslin2260 moron flag.
See how simple that was. You get that when simpletons decide they want to contribute throw away lines. It's ok to disagree and preferable contribute with an objection. When you insult people or in your case attempt to, you reveal more about yourself than the laziness in the abbreviation.
You have a nice day. Be better.
Weird how her gamea just dissapear once they turn 30 or late 20s, thats when it becomes the dudes turn lol and a mans games are way more fun 🤣🤣🤣
All right, this one was golden, thank you!
I got a girl in my life recently that seems to go out of the way to interrupt a conversation and greet people whom I am speaking with and sort of ignores me.... I for sure really like this girl but bs like that urks me to no end, I've already written her off as super bad news (always fun but goes melt down super fast honestly not worth the hassle).
I’m glad I never stayed for longer , no time for mind games my time is so important can’t be recovered when lost , too many out there
I found especially interesting the segment that talks about women flirting with other guys. Recently I went to one of the local bars in town on a Saturday night and a woman was seated at the bar of whom I met once about a week earlier. She motions me over to a seat next to her and requests that I "sit down". While I am there she proceeds to "lift up my chin" when I am "looking down" (as a reaction to being very drunk) and proceeds with much "small talk". From there she proceeds to dance with every "Tom, Dick and Harry" that asks her or appears to be "remotely interested". That's ok because while she was on the dance floor, I pulled my jacket off the stool and headed for the exit. The following weekend she started to "pursue me harder" but I "payed her no mind". In the following weeks she did "everything and it's brother" to make me "re-interested" but I never "fell for it'. IMHO women need to watch these "jealousy games". It may make the "love of your life'" drop you like a "hot potatoe". Watch out!
If a girl simply sends yes/no answers to serious questions, she's just silly. I have been blocking these bimbos. Life is too short fellas. Run Forest Run!!!
Women who do this stuff are TMW. Too Much Work. High-Value men don't have to put up. I did agree that a broken date combined with a true apology and serious effort to reschedule on her part is OK. Last minute date broken for no reason? NEXT!!!
I forgive her for the first time, and then remind her that I wouldn't say I like this behavior.
If she repeats this second time, I do block her.
Been through it all, on to more fish.
Men, go look at Rich Cooper. He always has great info on these subjects
Many of these things are now considered abuse in australia "cohersive control"
can we just have a normal relationship RATHER THAN PLAYING PATHETIC MIND GAMES?
I'm not chasing anyone because I also have something valuable to bring to the table. I'm not going to be manipulated because of your selfish pride to feel wanted ! Is it not enough for you that I made the risk to take the first step ! Is it the enough that I've already made every effort to meet your needs.
I'm worth something too. What if we dudes played these manipulative games with them. How long would they stick around.
The stregth of a man is measured by how much he can handle. But Wisdom is knowing when to quit.
So Anna, How is all this Working for You in your Personal Life ? LOL I find it interesting that most of these '' Experts '' are Single go through Boy/Girl Friends like Toilet Paper , and have Never been Married. ( Marriage can be a Great Thing , but I still would not Encourage it. )
I love a girl and we are friends now, she knows i love her and the biggest problem is the distance and communication problem. One more problem is that she had a boyfriend with whom she had her serious relationship now they are not together. Please help me out here, and remember the biggest problem now is distance, I can't meet her and i need you to help me please🙏. I Love Her .
Thank You
Dude...you REALLY NEED THE RED PILL...Go check out Coach Greg Adams and Alpha Male Strategies
Not even the animal kingdom does this
Dating Videos make me want to Go Monk mode.