Let's Get It On // Romance + Relationships // Rated R // Bianca Olthoff

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  • @wywy4803
    @wywy4803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. I didn't know I needed that sorry. I was raped when I was 5 till 17 but now in my 30s everyone tell me to get over it but no one has ever said, I'm sorry it wasn't your fault, or just a plain I'm sorry. Thank you for that I'm sorry!!

    • @sendijoana6965
      @sendijoana6965 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤I am really sorry you went through that, u didnt deserve it. But i know great women who went through the same. FORGIVE yourself ❤❤

  • @SamBWinning
    @SamBWinning 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Honestly dating isn’t even talked about much in the Christian community it’s more marriage pastor thank u for shedding light on both these topics.

  • @sarahrice9838
    @sarahrice9838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That part about the purity culture! 🙌 whew chile do a deep dive into that!

  • @hannahgibsonorganicallyyou4564
    @hannahgibsonorganicallyyou4564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love her. 🤣🤣🤣
    She speaks such truth but is also hilarious.

  • @andrewlarragoitiy9592
    @andrewlarragoitiy9592 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is how the world views marriage: they will “stay until it gets tough and there love shifts.” It no longer "'Til death do us part" really means "Until the feelings go away"

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yeah my mom and I had a wry big conversation today after I got out of church And I told her that I never ever thought that this is how my story was going to play out in the end :( I’ve been extremely extremely extremely single since my very public divorce that happened in 2016 I have applied for the champions club at my church recently. And I finished giving them the last of my personal info this morning And now I’m waiting to hear back from them:) And I love my church so so so much :) I’ll let you know what happens thank you for all your encouragement, love, and prayers I absolutely it love ya appreciate Pastor Bianca Olthoff :) And I also appreciate someone’s apology but just because I forgive someone. And his family it doesn’t mean that I will be reconciling with him and his family because It’s not a possibility at all because he’s married again to his new bride #2 And I hope that he’ll look into the celebrate recovery program And I hope that he’ll be able to get clean and sober. And stay clean and sober because because if he doesn’t go through the celebrate recovery program his new marriage won’t last very long I wish them good luck his new bride is definitely in my prayers!

  • @bajachica0911
    @bajachica0911 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So, so good! Thank you for shedding light on the more challenging topics. I look forward to the rest of the series, and I pray that this is shared and seen by so many - we all need to be reminded of God's truth, not the world's especially with relationships!

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If we don't follow God's truth, then what happens to us?🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @mgl1262
    @mgl1262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "It was just coffee."
    Wow, that really puts things into perspective. 🤭
    Have totally idolised the idea of marriage.
    I think for so many of us, what we want doesn't even exist.
    Thank you for sharing with reality and humour 😊
    Grateful to God for you

  • @raphealajiboye9161
    @raphealajiboye9161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That episode is really good

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    YESSS.. the LOOOOVE book. S.O.S.

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by rated r?👾👾👾

  • @hannahlee4861
    @hannahlee4861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so so good !!! Needed this !

  • @abbiehovater22
    @abbiehovater22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one of the best messages on this topic and even in general that I have heard a very long time. Powerful and full of truth.

  • @chananjahduncan519
    @chananjahduncan519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Talk about it!!!💯

  • @christinecasillas1308
    @christinecasillas1308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excited about this series‼️🙏🏽

  • @simple_naildesigns
    @simple_naildesigns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to get better at relationships - yes! 😊🙏🏽

  • @heidicarrasco9265
    @heidicarrasco9265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you for talking about these subjects, God bless you!

  • @juliegomez5050
    @juliegomez5050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! Thank you for this message.

  • @vanessaschower6425
    @vanessaschower6425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been sharing your videos!! Thank you Pastora, you talk my language Thank you for being God's vessel. May God bless you, your family and your church ❤🙏

  • @theselflovebae
    @theselflovebae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yass Pastor B so glad to have you back! But did you really have to come for us like this today??? Lol

    • @melaniemartin4319
      @melaniemartin4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because she's the pastor's wife!🌼🌼❣❣

  • @adtase1489
    @adtase1489 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yess!! Finally, SOMEone teaches on SoS!! It gets deeper than Atlantis!

  • @victoriavanderheyden3845
    @victoriavanderheyden3845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for your ministering and magnificent delivering of Gods word, your beautiful inside and out

  • @JaelynnHopgood
    @JaelynnHopgood ปีที่แล้ว

    This message was so powerful!! Thank you speaking on challenging topics like the effects of purity culture and enjoying sex in marriage

  • @arelismargarito5283
    @arelismargarito5283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You rock such a blessing to my life!!!! 🥰😇Thank you 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @themattdreed
    @themattdreed 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a great message

  • @claudettewatkins4237
    @claudettewatkins4237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amen. What I want to know is how do you date without sex its my first time an navigating through getting to know someone an temptation an all that goes into it.

  • @alafiawellnessllc
    @alafiawellnessllc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RECIPROCITY 🙏🏿

  • @msolivialuv1
    @msolivialuv1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!!

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    YESS.. Guys don't have to cover their upper halves at all? the double standard.
    I just accepted it back then.. like what was I gonna do? I didn't want spaghetti straps or anything anyway, but I do remember thinking it was weird.

  • @raphealajiboye9161
    @raphealajiboye9161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a good episode
    On TH-cam

  • @wywy4803
    @wywy4803 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God is very intentional this church got recommended by TH-cam lol 😆 even TH-cam cooperating with God. So here is to me adding another online home church.

  • @karenowens9060
    @karenowens9060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was wondering where you got the Hebrew word for “kisses”. I looked it up in Concordance and it didn’t have the same meaning as you gave. Thanks

  • @arthan06
    @arthan06 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️