RITA & THEO THOMAS Have A Thriving Love Life & Wants the World to Know | Dear Future Wifey E808
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- This couple has taken the internet by storm! Their unapologetic love for one another and insatiable love life, is showing a healthy perspective of marriage, even when we become old and gray. Theo and Rita Smith, a Christian couple from New Orleans, will capture your heart in this episode titled, "Sexual Healing".
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I pray every woman experience a love like this 😢🥹🥰
yes.. he is preaching.. that is how a woman wants to be treated and women will give that back
Me too!! Including myself!!
The advice from the husband @ the end is EVERYTHING!!!!!! I believe it’s how he treats her that allows her to treat him the way she does! This man found the secret!!
Amen! Even though I did some things including stop attending my Ex husbands church my ex husband didn’t treat me good! Even though I would do my duties as a wife etc. he treated me bad! Expected me to do things that he wasn’t willing to do for me! I hated his home state but I am so much better now! God is good! I’m waiting for my KING! 🙌🏾
Facts💯
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She doesn’t seem like the kind of woman who would stay with a man who didn’t honor her. He, on the other hand, is so committed that I believe he would live up to his calling. They were committed to God and to each other. Couples who embrace that will hear from God. If a man or woman reduce their relationship to just a duty rather than both a duty and a joy, can keep up a pretense for only so long until it falls apart. GOD 1st! Amen
Facts! This is what the bible says. It really depends on how the men lead, love, and treat their wives since they are the head and the woman helpmate
I'm actually surprised that they only have 3 kids! God bless their ministry!
I thought the same but realised that endometriosis may have made conceiving more difficult for her.
@adellsemper2080 Exactly because the more you have children the worse the endometriosis.
I think her endometriosis probably kept her from being able to conceive.
endemetriosis actually effects fertility , thats probably why they didnt have more kids
This is one of the best episodes in my opinion. It warmed my heart to see a black happily married couple who are STILL IN LOVE talk about the thing that many have considered taboo. This is what generations want and need! THANK YOU!! This blessed me as a single woman who desires a healthy happy marriage.
Yes! We need more stories like this. I believe there are others, we just don't hear about them.
Yes it is!!
@@leecoleman2984 agreed!!
Men, yall need to listen to this OG
Yes, this is so needed! Sex is not taboo! Sex is something that a husband and wife are to Enjoy together! Enjoy Completely Together!
This is what some women need. Even in the Bible says the older women is to teach the younger women. Preach Mama🤩
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Right? This is the Titus 2 ministry you never saw in church but it's so needed.
What's their handle on social media please 😅
PREACH in my Latarius voice
@@edbabe2347badgirlriri504
Pause for a moment:
She said, " I'm not in a battle, I'm in love!"
T-shirt ready already
That part!
Exactly!
That part
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Send the website cause bayBEH!!
I’ll be married 2 years in March and marriage is the best thing that has happened to me. You have a best friend and partner for life when you choose right. They will not be perfect and you won’t be perfect, but it’s amazing.
Congratulations ❤❤❤. I can't wait to be able to say that
Theo you made me cry with your testimony that God kept you & you were faithful. You know God’s grace was sufficient. I’m crying 😢
THIS IS A REAL MAN!!!💯💯💯‼️‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥🤴🏾🤴🏾🤴🏾
"A Man of Peace!" Will make a woman feel safe!!! She's blessed and he's blessed! Gaining so much from them.
Yes, Sis!!!
Why do people fight so hard to be unhappy and stay away from this kind of love?
Trauma response! That’s quite literally ALWAYS the case. Trauma is RAMPANT among the people and the reason for such chaos… 😢
This the comment!!!!!!!
This!!!
A lot of us need healing. We will run away from goodness because of the unhealthy trauma we store in us. That's why we have to do the work in our single season so we can show up with good energy wherever we are and whomever we're around. We cannot keep letting our past dictate our future. Let's make the decision today to become better women and not just for a man but ourselves 💜
Amen
Her husband's body language says he really loves her 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💋I love this couple !!!!!!!!
Unfortunately the church and purity culture has taught women to be ashamed of their sexuality. It’s such a shame to be so heavenly minded that you are no earthly good. Dope episode 💜
This!!!! How are you supposed to go from WHOLESOME to HOESOME with no kingdom instruction.
My Mom use to say that❤
The outspoken wife reminds me very much of my mom in law. When I told her my mom was one of 12 kids, she said my grandparents must of had a lot of fun sexually. I do believe purity culture has had a strong impact, but blessed are those who fear the Lord and walk in his ways. Psalms 128:1
I love how she kept it real. I’d talk about sex with christian homegirls and they’d act so weird and stand off. Made me feel unrighteousness for a healthy Godly desire.
Girl ! Right !
Girl YES! I’m the Christian that talk about sex and churchy women act like it’s a sin to buss it open for your man on a regular.
I know what you mean
Exactly
That’s so unfortunate but some rather hide the fact they have sexual desires or keep in secret they have fornicated and have fallen short but act holy in front of people.🤦🏽♀️ They definitely could not handle Bad Girl RiRi🥰
They both have phenomenal skin! Guess we know their secret! 🤣
Right!😂
😂😂😂😂 this the one
Sweating out impurities!!! Ha
I was saying THE SAME thing!!!!!!!!!!1Her skin has had my attention the ENTIRE interview! No Cap!
I heard her on IG say that she uses sea moss on her skin. It is beautiful!❤
Theo hit on a good point when he said "love your wife as you love yourself." It's a lot of men out here that don't love themselves and are incapable of loving others. I hope the men were listening to this man, cuz he was dropping straight GEMS!!!
I love this couple. They make you look forward to being married. I see so many married couples who look miserable and unhappy.
Marriage ❤🙏🏾
God put a hedge around their marriage, no one could enter that loving relationship 🙏 ❤, i pray they have lots more years of love and happiness. 😊
And opportunities to share what they know! ❤
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Me too
Amen
...... this is how marriage should sound and look like after 43yrs...so beautiful 🔥🔥
The husband preached a WHOLE word at the end 🎤🎤🎤
I Love that they are unapologetically themselves!!! They are HAPPILY. Areied for 43 years and enjoying all that comes with it!! The marriage bed is undefiled!!! ❤❤❤
I’m single. Believing God for my husband. This blessed me! 🙌🏾 Happy to have watched this prior to being a wife! ❤️
Same here.
@@norawilburne6188 Yes! ❤️🙌🏾🙏🏾🥰
YES❤🙏🏾Happy In my waiting season
@@gianniisfire Yes! ❤️
Many believers have demonized sexual passion on any level. So when they marry it's strictly for procreation. I'm loving this relationship. It seems so fulfilling and well rounded.
Theo was Rita’s first and only. Too many people are jaded by their past experiences with other partners. Their expectations can be based on experience with someone else. This couple didn’t have their souls tainted with other lovers. I believe those of us with previous sexual experience must get spiritually clean for that ONE LOVE relationship. Otherwise, you bring the past into the present relationship without even realizing it, and it is hard to overcome the influences and distractions from the past. A sincere prayer: FATHER GOD, I/we confess and repent of my/our past sinful involvement with sexual relations😢 which displeased YOU. Forgive me/us and cleanse me/us soul, spirit, and body for each other and for YOUR glory. I/We thank YOU for bringing me/us into right standing with YOU and for re-creating us to be right for each other. I/We love YOU, Lord God. I ask this prayer in the Name of Jesus. Amen
@@ceeuuu01Well said 🙏🏽
I’m not in a battle, I’m in love!!! That’s a WORD! This is similar to what Kev and Lis said too! That your partner isn’t your enemy once we make that mind shift WE WILL THRIVE
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.
If you search for Shelly Renee White online, you will discover all the necessary information. Thank you.
Pray and Power of a praying Husband is powerful by Stormie Omaritan and The Power of a praying Wife, maybe you can gift her that book
I cried from the intro to the end. Had my husband not cheated...this could have been us. I still believe God for this type of love. GENUINE...REAL...GOD CREATED LOVE.
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This is one of the best elderly episode ever!Raw and unfiltered.🤣🤣🤣
They not really elderly yet! They are elders to be respected!
They still thriving and oh so lively!
Ops…Let me rephrase.. I should have said older couple not elderly. I guess I did make them sound older then what they are. 😬
Auntie ReRe is a mess😂😂😂
@@cynthiabeard2016your absolutely right❤
I applaud them for loving each other as passionately and affectionately for over 40 years.
LISTENNN.... as a grandmother and will be 62 in March this will be my GOALS for my future Husband the 2nd time around!! I Enjoyed them!!
Happy Birthday 🎉🎈🎊🎂🎁
“I was sick but I still put on my lingerie 😂” Child I literally just can’t with this couple 😂
Now that's love 💕
Thank you for bringing this couple . This is exactly why I chose the sex therapy path . Many Christian couples have miserable sex lives
I love that he said, “DEMONSTRATE IT” and “CONTINUE WHAT YOU STARTED” Then he went on to explain how you must CULTIVATE and CHERISH your woman making sure she’s not stressed! Whatever you give to your woman she’ll multiply! I really really loved this interview! I love how RiRi expresses her love and the gratitude she shows! This is such a beautiful expression of love and care! #MAINTAINIT I can’t wait to get married because this is so dope to see!
Women nowadays hate to hear wisdom on how to get themselves together for a man. Listen, Bad girl Riri PREACHING !!! Shout out to the wives that are ABOUT THAT LIFE and pass on wisdom to other women. Y’all are doing the Lords work.
Religious people who are controlling, always call you a Jezebel when they can't control you! They can never see themselves as the one carrying the Jezebel spirit...lol
So true
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Word
Their love and marriage radiate with the beauty of rewriting the narrative of what marriage should embody. It's a testament to being healthy, open to exploration, and adept at communicating needs. Their union is a divine example of love's transformative power. Simply thank you!
Best of 2024!!! This is what marriages need.I love the way he adores her. Her spirit is one of a kind. They are helping us
Lol.
I love this couple. I am so touched at how he took care of her while she was deathly sick.
“Don’t come over here trying to tell me what to do”. That’s right Bad girl Riri!!! Outsiders always wanna tell others how to handle their relationships
That’s that down south love. That NOLA love , I hear it all in her accent. I love the transparency ❤
Thanks. Thought she was Caribbean like me 😂
I thought she was Caribbean too from her accent. @@Faithfullfertilitytv
The TRANSPARENCY was highlighted in this LIT episode. OMG. Loved it.
This was the MOST TRANSPARENT episode ever, and it was from an older couple. What surprised me the MOST is that they have been together since their teen years.
Man I'm mad it took me a week to watch this. This episode is life. Im gonna follow them. They're giving the blueprint to a healthy, whole and faithful marriage. I was in tears, the way he handled her when she was sick was such an example for us king! I salute this couple. When God sends me my wife ai pray her appetite is large as well.
Right! Glad I remembered to go back and watch.
I love that they are open cuz we were never taught this stuff. Everyone was so quiet about marriage, sex and love. I can’t wait to be free again. Lord I see what u did for others….🙏🏾🙏🏾
20 mins in and they got me in tears 😢!! He said His Grace Is Sufficient!! Idk why that hit me so hard.
Me too… I even had to stop it and rewind a bit to hear it again! Gods Grace IS sufficient!!
YezzzzZzzZz 😂❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@kayl7189no lie! I had to get myself together and then resume.
How would I leave out that loving, kind and true. He is an epitome of the husband we women are looking for. He has GREAT QUALITIES
I love Riri attitude. Christians should be having the best sex life. It is blessed and sanctified Hallilujah
This is one of my favorite episodes by far!! I can’t recall hearing an older Christian couple talk about sex this openly; and wow, it’s refreshing! We need more of this🙌🏽 Riri has an undeniable shimmering light and hubby has a quiet strength. Perfectly yoked🤲🏽 He let her be herself and she lavished him with affirming words. I knew this type of love was possible to maintain so to see it in action is very heartening. I’m believing God’s Best for myself and all who are in agreement🙋🏽♀️
This was so refreshing when it come to Christian marriage. They have beautiful love language. I really enjoyed them so much .
I am so glad to see a married couple that have been married for over 30yrs is still in love and the fire is still burning and have the lord in their life and giving great advise...!
That is phenomenal that he took care of her and didn’t hold it against her that she was sick. Loving her probably helped her through to health.
Her energy is the best. I sense they balance each other so much that it is evident that they are ultimate eternal soulmates. May I find this kind of love soon!!!!!
Hearing this couple testimony right here. Is the reason why I am praying to God for a Godly husband. God bless them. ❤
While you’re waiting I know you’re preparing yourself for him. I prayed for God to make me and mold me to be the right woman for the right man for me and HE did that! I had to be remade to be just right while I prayed for the man I did not even know was being made right for me. AMAZING LOVE was waiting for me after a 90-day fast From contact with any men that were currently in my life as possibles. My husband entered my life at the end of the fast in a most miraculous way. I wish you THE BEST!
Bad Girl Riri 504 has had me HOLLERIN' in my office and I'm only 33% through this episode!!!😩😫😆😅😂🤣😭
I ❤ the laughter, vulnerability, and gems already being shared throughout this episode! 🥰❤️💎🙏🏾
Latarus!!! I was PRAYING you would have interview this blessed REAL couple! This woman's self esteem is a 20! Thank you for this beautiful couple!
Beautiful couple from my home town ⚜️! I'm not going to lie, when I 1st saw one of Ms. Bad Girl RiRi videos, my mouth dropped and I was like oh no. This old lady is crazy. But I'm learning that Ms. Riri is grown, married and enjoying her life all while trying to put us on game. I appreciate her rawness. She is hilarious! 💛
My poor husband😂 He isn't here yet, but when I get him...LAWD have mercy! I'm gonna wear him out and hopefully he will want to keep up😂
YezzzzZzzZz Indeed Our
Prayers Dear Lordy Amen!!! ❤️🫶🏽🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️👍🏾🥰
😂SAME
I say the same thing!! The Lord can't deliver him from the trouble I'm about to bring 😍😍😂😂🙏🏿
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I love all the guest, but this Love story spoke to me. Everyone deserves this Love. A perfect example
And her hair is a testimony because it's so beautiful.
My mother told me… if he ain’t getting from you…he getting from someone else!! If you’re married & have a bad day or disagreement don’t bring it across the bedroom threshold!! Sex will make you forget about what you were upset about ❤ release the oxytocin then come to a compromise about whatever you were upset about!!
Amen!!!!
Future husband get ready for me, I'm a wild one 😂
It took me almost 4hrs to watch this. I laughed 🤣 cried 😢. She is hilarious and God bless their union. This was a great interview Tarius
This is by far one of my favorite episodes. Thank you Theo and Rita for sharing and educating us on what it really takes to keep a happy marriage. May GOD continue to bless your marriage. I pray I am blessed with a loving marriage in every way.
Lord what a awesome couple. Such wholesome and liberated conversation...after that closing marks from her husband, I now see why she's so inlove with this man. One of the best I've ever listen/watch.
Theo..the advice at the end is golden..I hope men are listening …women will do whatever you want when you cultivate love and respect ❤❤❤
Latteras is having the time of his life, old love is beautiful 😂😂😂
All I can say is “thank you!!!!” This was a blessing to watch
Haters are at an UNPRECEDENTED level these days...even towards the Elders apparently! I'm just being introduced to them but it's refreshing to see that this is even possible 🥰
I absolutely LOVE LOVE them as a couple. Mrs. RiRi is such a firecracker, and I LOVE her energy. Also, she's so New Orleans. I can only hope and pray that my husband and I can grow together like this. Keep inspiring us, Mrs. Riri & Mr. Theo.
Wow!! This was great!! It’s nice to see couples still in love, enjoying each other and flourishing!! My husband and me have been married for 37 years. We were married after only knowing each other for 6 weeks, and had our honeymoon baby nine months later. We are still laughing, loving, and enjoying each other as well, and I still learned something from this couple. I got to get those crochtless undies though!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
I just made it to the crotchless panties, and she got me with that one. At least she's not uptight.
To God be the glory 🤍
Tell’em Mrs Rita!! You takin’ him down every chance you get!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I would love to sit down with them. This is why I enjoyed being around my grandma. She always give us the realistic view of life, but through a godly lens.
I love her! She said, “it look like you single to me.” That was a word. She tellin’ the truth.
I gotta say, I wasn't ready for the LIT-ness that this couple brought, Chile!!!!
“The wife is A reflection of her husband.”
The husband tends to his wife(family) like a gardener ❤
May The Good LORD continue to bless,provide and protect this beautiful family. In The Name Of Jesus. Amen
My name is Rétta [pronounced Rita] too & her personality is just like mine 🤭🤭... she is too cute! Love their relationship & I pray they have 43 more years of love & life ❤️
I was on my way to take a Shower but see me now seating on this tub listening to life lessons from Theo and Bad Girl Riri😅…I always tell people this kinda marriage is possible but the world’s so negative. I enjoyed this interview. Thank you Dear Wifey!
I’m doing my hair and listening at the same time 😅
Oh Lord something about that Louisiana love that brought me to tears that's all I've ever wanted is to have someone genuine to love me and I reciprocate that love back what a beautiful couple❤
Whew! The gems in this thing.
💎"I'm not in battle, I'm in love.
💎 "You don't have to beg her, she gon wanna.
Man. I am definitely taking notes. Mother BadGirlRiRi, don't change for nobody but God, your husband, or yourself. You are so right about protecting your marriage from that negative energy and jealous women. Your husband was right about demonstrating your desires. This blessed me.
This was so refreshing and I am hopefully. I haven’t seen a couple this happy and faithful in forever and I know it’s real. God bless them and there marriage 💕
I’m so glad to see them on the podcast!
This is so me with my husband! The church ladies always turning their noses up at my suggestions. I quickly give them some wisdom and keep stepping!
I love this! This is what marriage is supposed to look like. They are serving and loving one another. What a vision!
This was sooooo good! Mr Theo hit the nail on the head, he doesn’t have to worry about his woman submitting to him because he makes sure he’s her peace and he cater to her in a way that is authentic to them! And she pours right back into her man! Their radiance is electric and I could not help but smile and laugh along with them! I pray my future husband has this kind of love for me! This was so good 🙏🏾💛
He said a mouthful in the end. Love to hear a man's wisdom 🙌🏿
LOVE ITTTT. So refreshing to see such unapologetic affection.
Heard or read this somewhere, sometime ago
“Christians act like they don’t know what sex is.....then where are all those little Christian babies coming from? “
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This bible study had me screaming, laughing, choking, gasping for air, all the emotions
Ms. Rita, I mean RiRi is a handful!!!
LRW, done did it again🙌🏾
They made me smile from ear to ear. Love their story.
Wow the wisdom The husband spoke at the end 🙏🏾🙏🏾💯 Wow . Spoken from a true king
Best episode… period!!!! Bring em back. We need a part 2.❤❤❤
YUPPA❤❤❤❤💯💯💯
This was great. She don't mean don't read your Bible married ladies. She is definitely giving singles knowledge and Wisdom for marriage. Married folk a great knowledge of her experience. Love it ❤
Right. Can’t be in the Bible 24/7. God created sex. It’s a great thing within a marriage. God never said don’t have sex at all..just don’t have sex outside of marriage.
They just enjoy each other and this is awesome. If your relationship don't have this just love on each other; find the balance and enjoy YOUR relationship.
Only 18 mins in and this what I needed to remind me that it is possible. The man I'm praying for is waiting. I feel blessed to listen to this couples story.
This is beautiful. You can see their love for each other. He had me in tears when he said that she is his glory, his crown. What a blessing from God to be loved right.
Let me go grab a pair of snatchers😂! This is a great example of healthy love, healthy and healthy marriage! I don’t personally know this couple but we’re from the same neighborhood and I’m happy for their success.
I love how they honor God and each other. Look how God is blessing their obedience in this season and allowing us to witness His faithfulness to them.
This interview blessed my soul! Love them!! Thank you Laterras for bringing them to your platform.🙏🏽
It's a joy to watch your videos Auntie RIRI, please keep them coming.❤❤❤
Lord i need that type of love. When he cried whewwww Ive never seen that type of love expressed so beautifully between two people ♥️
Thank you Mrs. Rita for being so passionate about the love you share with your husband.
I pray many more glorious years for you both! God bless you!❤❤❤
Rita being Rita!
So many good pointers! Praying for yall in your success!
An amazing interview with amazing gems
Me&My Husband WILL be Just like them when we find each other&become one(speaking it into existence)!!! I just Love the Love that they exude! ♥️♥️♥️
Ms. Rita!!! I am taking all of the Notes. Thank You So Much For Teaching Us. I am soooo Grateful for these Words of Wisdom Today.