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Yep but I’d be worried that someone would hear me screaming, think I was hurt and end up with some rescue team out looking for me 🤣 hanging out in the woods could be pretty cool though
To me it's not even that but it's so unusual to meet another INFJ or someone who actually gets you that you're not used to react to this. It makes you feel weird. It shows how rare INFJs are.
I don't push people away. I just drift away from them, because it's too draining to interact with people on a regular basis. That and I feel uncomfortably awkward around basically everyone, especially if they understand how my mind works, but I think it's my severe social anxiety causing that part.
I know how my cats feel, I apologize to my car when I go over speed bumps too fast. I never thought of numbers as having feelings but I do think of them as male or female (letters are also male or female) - this could come from learning them from animated TV where they’re portrayed as being male or female. Buy I just like to think I’m an INFJ, and maybe now I’m an extreme INFJ 😂
INTJ: Sophisticated Perfectionism, Classy, Elegant, Stoic The main villain in every story Honestly, the way cooler and even more mysterious version of the INFJ -Envyous INFJ
I love INTJs because they say all the things I want to say but I'm too worried will hurt someone's feelings. They also recognize my untapped potential to be a cult leader. Double win. INFJ
Wait a minute, not overthinking everything sure IS reckless! Life is one huge chess tournament after all and you need to foresee every single move! Ok I need to chill
Better to have overthought 10 possible moves/scenarios plus the expected reactions- still be wrong - still assess even when correctly predicted- than to do without thinking. Correction, talk without thinking. Ah- maybe that some just me, but yes CHESS! I had a manager say that about my brain and how I approach/problem solve. ♟️It doesn't make me smarter than others but I'd feel less smart if I didn't.
Normal Infj is how appear to people and extreme InfJ is me in my head continuing the unwanted speech that should not be said out loud. So I'm Infj turbulent
Writing out the speech in my head helps me let it go (otherwise I stay up all night). Also if the raging preacher wont stop, I find breaking out of INFJ pattern can be done BY PHYSICAL ACTIVITY. So chores, walks, exercise & dancing to music really helps to break the intense mental conversations I have in my head. In the end, no matter how I tried to repress my speech writer, I found that by really listening to the inner conversation, it usually led me to work through unresolved feelings (grief). And processing & releasing those intense feelings brought me some deeper insights & peace.
Then you're not doing it right. But then I am an INTJ; we understand that any relief provided by primal screaming would be counteracted by the fact that if you scream: *they can find you*
When I was little, my dad would make me purchase the first item I picked up instead of letting me search for a pristine copy, because if I put the first item back it would "feel bad." I am now a 37-year-old adult and I still have to talk myself out of empathizing with objects. 🙃
I'm sorry- did I forget writing this 🤣 (Please note I am speaking form experience and not making fun of you) What's wrong with having REASONS for why I needed to bring home these 7 rocks? Or stuffed animal.. no no, I didn't feel pressured by the sweet lady at the register, it was the owl stuffed animal that I couldn't get to stand back up that convinced me I had to buy her and only her. You're exactly right. I'm 36 and question my quirky reasons that are definitely psychological and maybe not as logical as I once thought.
Okay so some of the "slice of life" anime I enjoy is due to the subtle Shinto respect for things. It's just so lovely. I do not follow their religion but if I could pick another that would fit my personality, 😊😊😊 I am beaming-ly happy that you commented that.
omg yes! Same with picking pumpkins for Halloween... I hated rejecting any of them for fear of hurting their feelings. (I once made a reference to that during an improv sketch about pumpkin-hunting and everyone latched onto it as the "crazy joke"... it was then I realized maybe it wasn't so normal, haha)
It's entertaining indeed! The only obstacle is first taking the amount of time needed for both people to gain enough trust to open up to each other, as we are both some of the most private personalities.
I was married to an INTJ and when he talked the conversation was interesting. Unfortunately INTJ doesn't always like to talk and connect like an INFJ and emotionally they are not gonna match the breadth of the emotional landscape of an INFJ so you would have to be watching at exactly the right moment and limit your expectations to hearing about theories about space and time and physics all that kind of stuff and not as much about why people do what they do. I haven't met an INTJ that is interested in people. But they are interesting at times.
@@yeppieyay8906 isn't that like the constant state of being for an INFJ 😂 Seriously I wish I could put the psychoanalysis of myself down for a bit and just exist. But it's always oriented a bit outwards. Referencing my views against other people and concepts. But INTJ doesn't really do that so much.
I've befriended my INTJ-T coworker, and I promise we are almost the same person. They are just a way cooler, more put together, and more stoic version of myself! 😬
Being an immature INFJ is being the normal type, getting into your teens/young adulthood is the extreme type and then finally you come back to earth and become the normal INFJ again
Sounds about right. Except I would say when you finally come back to earth you keep your knowledge and are more capable going out of your comfort zone compared to when you were immature cause now you're mature, that's the point.
Oh man, I'll be watching this over and over! LOL. I love the background on the extreme INFJ turning to signify his distorted world. I love that he was sitting on the park bench, having a conversation with a guy but it's all in his head. Normal INFJ getting a little freaked by Extreme talking to inanimate objects and numbers. Hilarious sketch, Frank! 🙌🎯
Video ideas 16 personalities hangout for a day with a random type (ex ENFP and INTP) 16 personalities getting arrested (and what crime they committed) 16 personalities at a wedding (like the funeral video) Ranking the 16 personalities on alignment (chaotic neutral, neutral evil etc)
Once I was into an INFJ guy, but he had a very different way to see spirituality in comparison to me. I couldn't understand how sure he was about all those random things. He was very wise for his age by the way. I admired him for his morality. - ISFJ here
I can guess it was because he was seeing it with Ni and you with Si, which would lead to two quite different interpretations. He was sure because to him it wasn't random at all and he could see the patterns that would most likely lead to something. To him, it was just more like a butterfly effect. Actions have consequences and they're not always independant from our control. And nothing pisses INFJs off more than when people think it is and don't take these responsibilities 😅. It's by controlling their actions to avoid consequences that INxJs go through life safely.
Funny stuff! I was in line at the post office last month and the lady who finished at the counter started to leave but stopped right in front of me and started talking about her elderly cat, so I told her about my fat middle-aged cat and my elderly dog who passed, and then she told me about how she found love again in her late 60's but her first husband was a very bad one. Her new one likes to sleep too much she said (they are now in their low 80's) All of this is why I really laughed at the stranger and the park bench scene you showed. It IS true this happens to me most everywhere I go (except for the ones I WANT to talk to and then they seem to run away for some reason.) Have a great weekend Frank! :)
Relationships are like ducks, they waddle in and out of your parameter, usually hungry, occasionally they bite (may cause serious injury or disease), watch out for the shit they leave behind
Lol another awesome video ! I swear i felt 1:03-1:14 and how it can go both ways. Some days you wanna be calm, help others, etc. Then other times you wanna walk into a forest or some unknown area to do battle with yourself and who you are
Indeed-y and ditto. 🙋🏻♀️ I don't know my TYPE of INFJ, but I also have PTSD. And I'm neurodivergent so going to the doctor is... fun. Both sarcastically and the truth. Yes, PTSD has multiple health related symptoms but they gotta overlook it sometimes for some symptoms. I won't bore you with my stories of trying to get answers/additional diagnoses- but perhaps your "Life is strange" more eloquently expresses it. ✅
The neglecting myself so much that I burn out eventually is so me... But everything else is normal for me so.... Yay! Finally once in my life I feel normal! Thanks Frank! ❤ Btw, I missed these INFJ videos, I love them so much 😊
3 is clearly a goofball, with his comic sans shape. 5 is very business like, and 9 is open, Life of the party. Funny, I didn’t know I felt this way about numbers
I think it's projecting traits based on shapes. But for numbers I still think it's pointless and the reason why no one talks about it, unless you want to write a fiction about it.
Bahahahha! I am..... both. Yes. Both is good. We're all about listening to other people for hours, hearing life stories, overthinking, feeling everything, giving advice.... and... never taking advice ourselves. Booyah.
Talking about life honestly scares me and wears me out. I cried at my very first roshache test ....my baby cousin had been killed tragically and I suffered from anxiety.its never left me
Definitely sounds like my husband 😅 The burnout one and strangers telling him their life story is very accurate. Thanks for lols, Frank. I’ve been binge watching all your videos to help me get through a tough time at the moment 😢❤
Could you do the MBTI as personal digital assistants (like responding how they would, but as a Alexa or smth) Possibly release it on the 22nd if possible, this ENTP’s birthday is coming July.
"If I did not overthinking things I'll feel irresponsable and frankly, reckless". Now, how this isn't logical to everybody else?? It's exactly because of the irresponsable and reckless behavior of the other people that we INFJs need to overthink things for everybody, so everybody can be fine, so we can be fine too, sort of...So please other people, start to deal with your own lion, cause we are arleady dealing with too much things going on in our own heads. I have "standing up" here for this statement, but I'm not mad at you kay?! I don't want be misunderstood, so I'm sorry actually, if I was too much, I'm sorry! Read it in a very kind, very gentle and respectful tone of voice, as if I am pushing you to be and embrace your best self! All love from Brasil!!💗🌻
Thank you so much for your words, I relate to them a lot. I would say that, sometimes it's on us...in the sense that, even if other people didn't think through some things, the consequences shouldn't be too disastrous, so we should learn to accept and let go. And at other times, people are really messing things up and we need to clean up behind them. And as this is very tiring, it can lead to avoiding others or wanting to meet only people who are similar to us.
@@ladytakarazuka Oh was in tone of joke that I put it...but yeah, there is a bottom of truth for us, right?! If I would talk seriously, one thing that drag me crazy, it's see obtuse people dealing with kids...In sort way, part of hypersensitivity that I have for things, and be aware of the feeling of everybody and overthink everything, Its do to the fact that I was a neglected child in some measure...When instead of growing healthily and chill, you have to become the emotional reguler of the adult environment, it's impossible to grow plentifully, and It's hard to put it back together later. I'm struggling till today, even already been and adult myself...So even being not a "kids" person myself, I get really pissed off when I see adults or parents bad treating children, cause I know that that can messed up their little heads for life...Even when is not a so easily detectable nocive behavior, I can see, clearly as if written in gold letters. Than you kinna gonna have to find the words to explain to the "adults", so then they can become aware of what their are doing wrong and correct in time, or you swallow it, understanding that whatever you say will have the same value that what the cat burie, and go to sleep thinking how wonderful could it be if every person really effort a little more on dealing with their own crap...Cause sometimes is just tirisome to see the obvious, and have to convince the other that it is obvious, and is for the best of everybody. - Right now, for example, I'm in a dilemma because in a recently familyar lunch I have together with a cousin of my, her little daughters demonstrate have some food blockage/selectivity, and she was fighting with the children in front of everyone because of that... Which OBVIOUSLY only makes the problem worse, with the kids entering in a anxiety state and everything. Now you see, I use to follow positive education pages, because I worry about the collective social responsibility that adults should have towards children, which is clearly have been flushed away for everybody. It's that hard to this fake sapiens sapiens to follow an Instagram page that is about positive education so as not to cause an eating disorder in the child?! Then an adult grows up with a childish taste, lacking of nutrients, vulnerable to any cold, full of health problems, because the parents couldn't get a 5-year-old child to eat properly. Then I realize this, but I'm not the mother, and only they can provide this care because it's not quick to resolve, it requires constancy and patience from someone who is with the little ones every day, and now I'm going to have to find a way to explain it to them that if the "blessed one" doesn't change her approach, she will only make the lives of the children and herself miserable. AND I DON'T EVEN HAVE A CHILD. MAN, I'M BAMING MY HEAD ON THE TABLE RIGHT NOW. WTF. - 😮💨 Sorry, this time I realy took the opportunity by find another active listener to vent, rsrs..sorry for being so prolixe!! Thanks for hear me (or better, for read me rsrs!! You right, we need people like us, but we are so rare that only in this kind of communities it's possible to find another person so normal and neurotic for the well-being of other people kkkkkkkkkk May God help us!! I need therapy! 🥲😅 Ps: the English may not be perfect, it's not my language I'm just using it for the sake of international communication lol All love to you that read 💗🌻
“Instead of self care I prefer to neglect myself until I’m so burned out that everyone else has to take care of me.” Haha so true! Expect I did so much for my kids the last two days and was so tired and then my 8yo wanted to cook dinner and I was so exhausted but I still helped her anyway. Finally I can rest and my cat is taking care of me by sleeping on the bed. It would be nice to be a cat for a while and not overthink everything (except not the crazy one from Frank’s other video 😂).
As an INFJ, that was tested by psychologists before this was a big thing. This is over stigmatized and over exaggerated. I know it's for laughs, but so misleading into our inner workings and life. Also I hate that it's broadcast everywhere that we are rare, because it just makes people want to pretend to be an INFJ so they can be special, when in reality they should want to know their real personality type. So they can learn their strengths and weaknesses, to improve their own lives... Instead of misrepresenting the INFJ's. Personal growth should be their focus, not seeking attention by pretending to be different. INFJs rarely have friends and I personally have none. Because you really are empathetic and do take on their emotions. Which is draining and not fun at all. When you read people like a book and then try to help them work through the issues that they bury and hide.... Two things happen. They either take it as an insult or attack. Then hate you or realize you can see their secrets and then run. Either way, people don't like INFJ's... Because they can't hide things from us. Most INFJs are intelligent, because we gather and connect information over the years. My husband hates this. He said I missed my calling as a private investigator. He can't lie to me, because I remember everything.... Which is also a curse because you relive painful experiences much more vividly. INFJ types usually have higher IQs, mine is 138. Not a genius by any means, but I do have a photographic memory and lastly. INFJ's don't like to be them most of the time, because no one sticks around. We are left a lot of the time, because we do have a very intense personality. We don't shut up when we find like minded people, but it takes years for us to open up to someone and make friends. We don't like small talk and can't stand shallow relationships.
🥲 Wow. I married an ENTJ that is also ADHD, but he has different ADHD traits than mine. I do think the things I "fixed" though were responses to annoying/burdening my family when I was a kid so those same traits bother me now that I'm an adult. (For example tardiness, leaving cabinets and drawers open, not putting certain things away, etc.) And my sense of justice is much higher- not making me better I just fixate too much. I hadn't realized I was "normal" for an infj not having friends. Yes- I love people and love analyzing them. I want everyone to be okay. The people what want a friendship are typically extroverts that think we aren't friends if I don't see them every day. You hit the nail on the head- exhausting. Maybe even a bit hyper vigilant. Unable to relax or move on mentally from seemingly minor or mundane things until I can intellectualize it. I frequently assume people don't mean the nice things they say and I "spare" them from having to tolerate me as often. I find contentment in learning different things or determining the psychology behind shows and movies, so I tend to not get too bored when not socializing. Have a good day- I apologize if I wrote to much or if it isn't relatable. 😊
Initially I intended to respond with a comical comment about how your over-analytical response exposes you as an extreme INFJ, but I reconsidered after thoroughly reading your comment. Your comment is like a cry for help; I hope you were only feeling down when writing this and don't feel like that constantly, because that is draining. Besides the fact that the MBTI test underscores that the received result is not for life (people change) you have the power to alter the undesirable parts of your personality. Being an INFJ is a gift to be able to analyse people's inner feelings and thoughts with uncanny accuracy. However, not everyone needs fixing, especially if the advice is unsolicited. I have come to learn that the truth is that I would try and help people more for the personal pleasure of having improved their lives, than for consideration of whether they wanted my help. Friendships thrive on helping to better each other, paired with a mutual agreement of boundaries. It is not an insurmountable feat for INFJs to have friends- we just need to know how to temper our zeal for analysis with interpersonal skills. I highly recommend making friends with INFPs; my two best friends are. On a side note, something I've been researching recently is my personal theory that INFJs and INFPs suffer from childhood trauma, but it manifests as cPTSD in INFJs and INFPs learn later in life that they are autistic. Maybe your are traumatised? I wish you all the best.
LOL. I really liked that and I hope you do some of the others to show off the difference between some normal (for your type) behaviors and situations, and when you're extreme or broken.
I saw a meme basically stating that INFJs are stronger INFPs. They experience doubt, fear, and self-sabotage, but due to their orientation towards planning and schedules, they have a higher resolve. While they are often thought of highly, they're still people, and shouldn't be looked at as an ultimate guide to things. That's the INTJs, job ffs.
What's crazy is that I, an INFJ, recently told my therapist that I felt like I needed to go to a forest to scream... so does this make me a normal INFJ or an extreme INFJ?? 🤣
How EXTREME are you??
36 seconds ago extreme
Very 😭
Yeah
So extreme that I am this early
@@HarmonyTheKF that is TOO EXTREME
There’s a normal INFJ??
-INFJ
Read my mind
Lmao great question
Right?!
No, you're all different permutations of crazy. 🤣🤣🤣😔
Do you have a camera hidden in my house or smth?
I actually kinda like the idea of going into the woods for a month to practice primal screaming
You can do as I do and practice in your car on the freeway. You're welcome!
I'd hate to annoy to animals.
You need Jésus and to not pay 400 for this and to not do it for your own sanity
Ngl legit thought of doing this maybe not a month but going for a good scream. See how it'd feel.
Yep but I’d be worried that someone would hear me screaming, think I was hurt and end up with some rescue team out looking for me 🤣 hanging out in the woods could be pretty cool though
i love how both of these infjs are so different, but still obiovusly infjs
"so I immediately pushed them away so I could go back to feeling too unique to be understood." omg
Definitely caught red handed on that one haha
To me it's not even that but it's so unusual to meet another INFJ or someone who actually gets you that you're not used to react to this. It makes you feel weird. It shows how rare INFJs are.
I don't push people away. I just drift away from them, because it's too draining to interact with people on a regular basis. That and I feel uncomfortably awkward around basically everyone, especially if they understand how my mind works, but I think it's my severe social anxiety causing that part.
My husband says I do this to everyone and it's the reason I don't have friends. I didn't think I did though.
@@rachelledellavecchia4951you got married somehow tho. Us single INFJs want to know your secret powers.
Mostly normal INFJ, but the bit about not overthinking feeling reckless? Wow, that one hit HARD 😂.
I get this one because for INFJ overthinking is thinking so, yeah...
Same lol that one got me
Me too 😭
Hahahaha same here
Super relatable
😂 oh gosh, the side eye from "normal infj" when"extreme" was telling the emotions of numbers🤣
Omg I'm extreme 😂
That is INFJ when they’re stressed 😂 like get the f out away from me and just use meditation to help yourself 😂
I know how my cats feel, I apologize to my car when I go over speed bumps too fast. I never thought of numbers as having feelings but I do think of them as male or female (letters are also male or female) - this could come from learning them from animated TV where they’re portrayed as being male or female. Buy I just like to think I’m an INFJ, and maybe now I’m an extreme INFJ 😂
I didn't agree with his assessment of the numbers. 9 ain't that weird
Doing this kind of things is more INFP. Usually INFJs when they start doing it after few seconds will think "wait, that's actually pointless".
This shows how INFJs can weird each other out 😂
😂 omg so true
This is the first time I’ve ever felt normal!
Don't worry, it'll pass.
This is normal! Despite extreme! So it is the normal!
Better unsubscribe then!
INFJ: empath, counselor
Also INFJ: cult leader, Gone Girl
You are *interesting* :D
- INTJ
😂😂
INTJ: Sophisticated Perfectionism, Classy, Elegant, Stoic
The main villain in every story
Honestly, the way cooler and even more mysterious version of the INFJ
-Envyous INFJ
hahahah
I love INTJs because they say all the things I want to say but I'm too worried will hurt someone's feelings. They also recognize my untapped potential to be a cult leader. Double win.
INFJ
@@cAlmliKeAboMb2023 Facts 😂
I was hoping NOT to have any of the extreme INFJ traits, but I did right in 🤷🏽♀️
Cheers! Lol
"Relationships are like Ducks." As a fellow INFJ, I understand that metaphor, and would totally buy that book.
Help me understand what it means! 😂
If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then it must be a duck
As an animal loving INFJ, ducks are horrifying and depraved when it comes to matters of intimacy, so I sure hope it's a very metaphorical duck
@@bri9075Smooth looking above the surface, but paddling like mad below. 😂
@@cc1k435🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm an Extreme INFJ with a Normal INFJ facade !
Ben dee
Really?! That's so weird! I'm Normal INFJ with Extreme INFJ Facade!
Same here. People have no idea until my real self comes out 😂
@@etcwhatever Same!
Saaame 😂😂
as an infj i felt way too understood by this video so i stopped watching
Yes! Eerie coincidences make me think something's not quite right. Has happened 3 times this week. 🥸🧐🫣
Wait a minute, not overthinking everything sure IS reckless! Life is one huge chess tournament after all and you need to foresee every single move!
Ok I need to chill
Better to have overthought 10 possible moves/scenarios plus the expected reactions- still be wrong - still assess even when correctly predicted- than to do without thinking. Correction, talk without thinking. Ah- maybe that some just me, but yes CHESS! I had a manager say that about my brain and how I approach/problem solve. ♟️It doesn't make me smarter than others but I'd feel less smart if I didn't.
@Teaaaluv Oh you really are an INFJ. (There are fakes on some sites)
OKAY BUT YOU DO HAVE A POINT-
Paul atreides
Numbers are definitely irrational at times. 😂
🥁 Correct! 🤭
I don’t discriminate. All numbers scare me equally 😱
Terrifying! I don't like numbers. @@MyWits_End
Yeah like 2, 4, 6, 9, 14, 16,19 aren't allowed to be a volume for anything because of that.
Underrated comment. Love it. 😂
Normal Infj is how appear to people and extreme InfJ is me in my head continuing the unwanted speech that should not be said out loud.
So I'm Infj turbulent
Writing out the speech in my head helps me let it go (otherwise I stay up all night). Also if the raging preacher wont stop, I find breaking out of INFJ pattern can be done BY PHYSICAL ACTIVITY. So chores, walks, exercise & dancing to music really helps to break the intense mental conversations I have in my head. In the end, no matter how I tried to repress my speech writer, I found that by really listening to the inner conversation, it usually led me to work through unresolved feelings (grief). And processing & releasing those intense feelings brought me some deeper insights & peace.
Real, this comment needs more likes
Primal screaming sounds like a fun time to me. lol
Then you're not doing it right.
But then I am an INTJ; we understand that any relief provided by primal screaming would be counteracted by the fact that if you scream: *they can find you*
I laughed so hard at "animals, colours, numbers.." I have definetely said I can understand animals pain. LOL
I've had so many beautiful encounters with wild animals and even my pets. I feel like I get them so they feel safe with me.
Colours is one for me as I've had depression in the past and certain colours make me depressed now.
When i read "relationships are like ducks", i zoned out and came up with multiple reasons for it to be an appropriate analogy
😃😅🤣
When I was little, my dad would make me purchase the first item I picked up instead of letting me search for a pristine copy, because if I put the first item back it would "feel bad." I am now a 37-year-old adult and I still have to talk myself out of empathizing with objects. 🙃
I'm sorry- did I forget writing this 🤣
(Please note I am speaking form experience and not making fun of you)
What's wrong with having REASONS for why I needed to bring home these 7 rocks? Or stuffed animal.. no no, I didn't feel pressured by the sweet lady at the register, it was the owl stuffed animal that I couldn't get to stand back up that convinced me I had to buy her and only her.
You're exactly right. I'm 36 and question my quirky reasons that are definitely psychological and maybe not as logical as I once thought.
We are natural Shintoists. At least I don't empty my handbag every night in order to give it a much needed rest....
Okay so some of the "slice of life" anime I enjoy is due to the subtle Shinto respect for things. It's just so lovely. I do not follow their religion but if I could pick another that would fit my personality, 😊😊😊
I am beaming-ly happy that you commented that.
omg yes! Same with picking pumpkins for Halloween... I hated rejecting any of them for fear of hurting their feelings. (I once made a reference to that during an improv sketch about pumpkin-hunting and everyone latched onto it as the "crazy joke"... it was then I realized maybe it wasn't so normal, haha)
this is so relatable
What does "overthink" mean? IT'S. JUST. THINKING!!! 😂😂😂😮😩
True, what is thinking for INxJs feels like overthinking to other types it seems 🤭.
Yasss, INFJ is back 😄
Extreme INFJ = I feel attacked, exposed, and... well this is me, an alien 👽
You are a beautiful alien. I feel like that too. And really like Stitch also.
"I feel the emotions of other people, animals, inanimate objects, colours, numbers" 😅 That's exactly the case!! I feel you!!
I would totally watch an INTJ and INFJ spending time together and saying the most out-of-this-world stuff.
It's entertaining indeed! The only obstacle is first taking the amount of time needed for both people to gain enough trust to open up to each other, as we are both some of the most private personalities.
I was married to an INTJ and when he talked the conversation was interesting. Unfortunately INTJ doesn't always like to talk and connect like an INFJ and emotionally they are not gonna match the breadth of the emotional landscape of an INFJ so you would have to be watching at exactly the right moment and limit your expectations to hearing about theories about space and time and physics all that kind of stuff and not as much about why people do what they do. I haven't met an INTJ that is interested in people. But they are interesting at times.
@@christinadonnelly781 As an INFJ, have you ever psycho analyzed yourself?
@@yeppieyay8906 isn't that like the constant state of being for an INFJ 😂 Seriously I wish I could put the psychoanalysis of myself down for a bit and just exist. But it's always oriented a bit outwards. Referencing my views against other people and concepts. But INTJ doesn't really do that so much.
Welcome to my (ex) marriage :D. That did not end up well :D.
I’m a INTJ and I feel like INTJ’s and INFJ’s act a lot a like minus the INFJ’s need to care for others 😂
I've befriended my INTJ-T coworker, and I promise we are almost the same person. They are just a way cooler, more put together, and more stoic version of myself! 😬
Being an immature INFJ is being the normal type, getting into your teens/young adulthood is the extreme type and then finally you come back to earth and become the normal INFJ again
So much to look forward to within the INFJ life cycle. 😂
Sounds about right. Except I would say when you finally come back to earth you keep your knowledge and are more capable going out of your comfort zone compared to when you were immature cause now you're mature, that's the point.
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@@Elven.Jesus? 🤔
Oh man, I'll be watching this over and over! LOL. I love the background on the extreme INFJ turning to signify his distorted world. I love that he was sitting on the park bench, having a conversation with a guy but it's all in his head. Normal INFJ getting a little freaked by Extreme talking to inanimate objects and numbers. Hilarious sketch, Frank! 🙌🎯
thanks so much!!
I’ve got a feeling that the extreme INFJ scored VERY high in neuroticism on the big 5 test!
Facts 😂 Unfortunately me
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how did I get here in less than a minute after this was posted?
Me too Idk how
Good reflexes. 😂
“Frankly…” yea okay Frank
I can confirm I’m a mix of both normal and extreme INFJ… not an even mix though
Same! Mostly normal, but I won't lie... a month alone in the wilderness sounds kind of nice...
@@andreae. a lifetime alone in the wilderness sounds nice too. To an extent
Y'know, he's on to something about no.9... theres just something unpredictable and untrustworthy about that one
In most cases I am the normal one but I honestly contemplating going into the wilderness so I think it makes me mildly extreme... :D
I'm gonna send this to my INFJ friend, also primal screaming in the woods sounds like a fantastic idea
Frank loves doing the IN types
That's his base .
Video ideas
16 personalities hangout for a day with a random type (ex ENFP and INTP)
16 personalities getting arrested (and what crime they committed)
16 personalities at a wedding (like the funeral video)
Ranking the 16 personalities on alignment (chaotic neutral, neutral evil etc)
Want to believe I'm a normal INFJ, yet I relate to everything extreme. I guess I'm just too unique to be understood.
The fact there is a skit about it means you're not too unique to be understood ;)
@whimsylore maybe it was sarcasm;)..
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@whimsylore Haha you must not be an INFJ. We thrive on sarcasm 😉
@@JojoB-fy9qp Just like Frank's entire TH-cam career 😂
I dare you to tackle Normal ENFP vs Extreme ENFP if you can handle it. 😈
Yesss, please do!
What's annoying when you can understand and feel others' emotions but can not comprehend your own.
I'm an INFJ-T I didn't know there was 2 sides. I've experienced both on different days. But the turbulent is my Extreme..
Once I was into an INFJ guy, but he had a very different way to see spirituality in comparison to me. I couldn't understand how sure he was about all those random things. He was very wise for his age by the way. I admired him for his morality.
- ISFJ here
I can guess it was because he was seeing it with Ni and you with Si, which would lead to two quite different interpretations. He was sure because to him it wasn't random at all and he could see the patterns that would most likely lead to something. To him, it was just more like a butterfly effect. Actions have consequences and they're not always independant from our control. And nothing pisses INFJs off more than when people think it is and don't take these responsibilities 😅. It's by controlling their actions to avoid consequences that INxJs go through life safely.
Omg somewhere I can feel "normal" for once. 😅
REAL
I was overthinking a moment ago.
We can laugh at ourselves. I'm an old INFJ so I'm... what is normal? But not extreme.
Funny stuff! I was in line at the post office last month and the lady who finished at the counter started to leave but stopped right in front of me and started talking about her elderly cat, so I told her about my fat middle-aged cat and my elderly dog who passed, and then she told me about how she found love again in her late 60's but her first husband was a very bad one. Her new one likes to sleep too much she said (they are now in their low 80's) All of this is why I really laughed at the stranger and the park bench scene you showed. It IS true this happens to me most everywhere I go (except for the ones I WANT to talk to and then they seem to run away for some reason.) Have a great weekend Frank! :)
The "normal infj" is how we potray ourselves to the public while the "extreme infj" is us on the inside. 😂
I use extremes exact excuse about overthinking. I busted out laughing there. Lol
*DUCKS*
Ya got me with the primal screaming omg haha
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😅I'm definitely the one who needs therapy. Don't worry. the appointment is set
Oooh, can you do a normal ENFP and an extreme ENFP, please? 🙏
Also ENTP!
theres a normal ENFP? 🤣
Normal enfp is an oxymoron lol
1:03 Going outside and touching grass might help too
Relationships are like ducks 😂I would do that
Yup I would write that 😂
Relationships are like ducks, they waddle in and out of your parameter, usually hungry, occasionally they bite (may cause serious injury or disease), watch out for the shit they leave behind
Lol another awesome video ! I swear i felt 1:03-1:14 and how it can go both ways. Some days you wanna be calm, help others, etc. Then other times you wanna walk into a forest or some unknown area to do battle with yourself and who you are
Infj-t with ptsd here. Life is strange.
Indeed-y and ditto. 🙋🏻♀️ I don't know my TYPE of INFJ, but I also have PTSD. And I'm neurodivergent so going to the doctor is... fun. Both sarcastically and the truth. Yes, PTSD has multiple health related symptoms but they gotta overlook it sometimes for some symptoms.
I won't bore you with my stories of trying to get answers/additional diagnoses- but perhaps your "Life is strange" more eloquently expresses it. ✅
@@LunaR2017 S' cool. You're not boring me. I don't wish it for other ppl but at least I'm not alone in the struggle and some ppl understand.💚🐺💚
Play it it's a good game and makes you feel like you're playing an INFJ, especially the second one.
7wjajajahw I feel attacked BY BOTH
To think I missed this by one little letter. -INTJ
Count your blessings...although...maybe he'll do your type next. I'd like to see that. Lol
Well, I'm an INFJ, but sometimes I feel like I'm INFP. Lol. They are probably the most relatable type second to INFJ.
I love intjs 😊
@@carlyofearth We are just as messed up but don't care.
The neglecting myself so much that I burn out eventually is so me... But everything else is normal for me so.... Yay! Finally once in my life I feel normal!
Thanks Frank! ❤
Btw, I missed these INFJ videos, I love them so much 😊
This video was TOO CLOSE TO HOME, Frank! Darn you, Frank! 😂😂😂 And I'm definitely gonna blame you instead of myself!!! 😝
Okay but why is noone talking about how the numbers' emotions make soo much sense like honestly
3 is clearly a goofball, with his comic sans shape. 5 is very business like, and 9 is open, Life of the party. Funny, I didn’t know I felt this way about numbers
I think it's projecting traits based on shapes. But for numbers I still think it's pointless and the reason why no one talks about it, unless you want to write a fiction about it.
Bahahahha! I am..... both. Yes. Both is good. We're all about listening to other people for hours, hearing life stories, overthinking, feeling everything, giving advice.... and... never taking advice ourselves. Booyah.
Talking about life honestly scares me and wears me out. I cried at my very first roshache test ....my baby cousin had been killed tragically and I suffered from anxiety.its never left me
😂😂😂😂I have actually said this to my coworker “Have you tried meditating speaking to a therapist “
Definitely sounds like my husband 😅 The burnout one and strangers telling him their life story is very accurate. Thanks for lols, Frank. I’ve been binge watching all your videos to help me get through a tough time at the moment 😢❤
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Okay but why did the understand numbers thing actually make sense ;-;
Could you do the MBTI as personal digital assistants (like responding how they would, but as a Alexa or smth)
Possibly release it on the 22nd if possible, this ENTP’s birthday is coming July.
He's right about the over-thinking. It is reckless and irresponsible not to do it. Be on the look-out for everything!
Agree, I feel like this point isn't extreme but just normal for any INxJ. That's how they go through life.
I'd love to see a version of this for ENTJ
"If I did not overthinking things I'll feel irresponsable and frankly, reckless". Now, how this isn't logical to everybody else?? It's exactly because of the irresponsable and reckless behavior of the other people that we INFJs need to overthink things for everybody, so everybody can be fine, so we can be fine too, sort of...So please other people, start to deal with your own lion, cause we are arleady dealing with too much things going on in our own heads. I have "standing up" here for this statement, but I'm not mad at you kay?! I don't want be misunderstood, so I'm sorry actually, if I was too much, I'm sorry! Read it in a very kind, very gentle and respectful tone of voice, as if I am pushing you to be and embrace your best self! All love from Brasil!!💗🌻
Thank you so much for your words, I relate to them a lot. I would say that, sometimes it's on us...in the sense that, even if other people didn't think through some things, the consequences shouldn't be too disastrous, so we should learn to accept and let go. And at other times, people are really messing things up and we need to clean up behind them. And as this is very tiring, it can lead to avoiding others or wanting to meet only people who are similar to us.
@@ladytakarazuka Oh was in tone of joke that I put it...but yeah, there is a bottom of truth for us, right?!
If I would talk seriously, one thing that drag me crazy, it's see obtuse people dealing with kids...In sort way, part of hypersensitivity that I have for things, and be aware of the feeling of everybody and overthink everything, Its do to the fact that I was a neglected child in some measure...When instead of growing healthily and chill, you have to become the emotional reguler of the adult environment, it's impossible to grow plentifully, and It's hard to put it back together later. I'm struggling till today, even already been and adult myself...So even being not a "kids" person myself, I get really pissed off when I see adults or parents bad treating children, cause I know that that can messed up their little heads for life...Even when is not a so easily detectable nocive behavior, I can see, clearly as if written in gold letters. Than you kinna gonna have to find the words to explain to the "adults", so then they can become aware of what their are doing wrong and correct in time, or you swallow it, understanding that whatever you say will have the same value that what the cat burie, and go to sleep thinking how wonderful could it be if every person really effort a little more on dealing with their own crap...Cause sometimes is just tirisome to see the obvious, and have to convince the other that it is obvious, and is for the best of everybody.
- Right now, for example, I'm in a dilemma because in a recently familyar lunch I have together with a cousin of my, her little daughters demonstrate have some food blockage/selectivity, and she was fighting with the children in front of everyone because of that... Which OBVIOUSLY only makes the problem worse, with the kids entering in a anxiety state and everything. Now you see, I use to follow positive education pages, because I worry about the collective social responsibility that adults should have towards children, which is clearly have been flushed away for everybody. It's that hard to this fake sapiens sapiens to follow an Instagram page that is about positive education so as not to cause an eating disorder in the child?! Then an adult grows up with a childish taste, lacking of nutrients, vulnerable to any cold, full of health problems, because the parents couldn't get a 5-year-old child to eat properly. Then I realize this, but I'm not the mother, and only they can provide this care because it's not quick to resolve, it requires constancy and patience from someone who is with the little ones every day, and now I'm going to have to find a way to explain it to them that if the "blessed one" doesn't change her approach, she will only make the lives of the children and herself miserable. AND I DON'T EVEN HAVE A CHILD. MAN, I'M BAMING MY HEAD ON THE TABLE RIGHT NOW. WTF. - 😮💨
Sorry, this time I realy took the opportunity by find another active listener to vent, rsrs..sorry for being so prolixe!! Thanks for hear me (or better, for read me rsrs!! You right, we need people like us, but we are so rare that only in this kind of communities it's possible to find another person so normal and neurotic for the well-being of other people kkkkkkkkkk May God help us!! I need therapy! 🥲😅
Ps: the English may not be perfect, it's not my language I'm just using it for the sake of international communication lol
All love to you that read 💗🌻
For me, number 7 smells like golden retriever.
Ooh 7 is my happy number too. I totally understand golden retriever vibes.
Frank, are you sure you're not extreme? We've seen your videos on how abstract concepts interact
I love this! Normal vs Extreme of one particular personality type. I will look forward to when you do this for the INTJ too. Thank you.
MR. FRANK...your best yet. I agree 👍 extreme INFJ on those days where nothing can stop me.
I ain't an infj but I got a friend who is an EXTREME Infj
Plz do one for normal and extreme infp!!
That last one with consciously answering personality tests...
Thank you for this video. It really helps me understand the INFJ in my life…who can feel a bit extreme most days 😅
how am I a mixture of both? lol😊
Awesome video
tanks!
OMG this is actually so helpful, thanks for acknowledging the extreme type!
“Instead of self care I prefer to neglect myself until I’m so burned out that everyone else has to take care of me.” Haha so true! Expect I did so much for my kids the last two days and was so tired and then my 8yo wanted to cook dinner and I was so exhausted but I still helped her anyway. Finally I can rest and my cat is taking care of me by sleeping on the bed. It would be nice to be a cat for a while and not overthink everything (except not the crazy one from Frank’s other video 😂).
lol
My friend is an INFJ/ First!!
Man, I be switching sides like a maniac.
This is so interesting! I would love to see the normal vs. extreme versions of the other types.
As an INFJ, that was tested by psychologists before this was a big thing. This is over stigmatized and over exaggerated. I know it's for laughs, but so misleading into our inner workings and life. Also I hate that it's broadcast everywhere that we are rare, because it just makes people want to pretend to be an INFJ so they can be special, when in reality they should want to know their real personality type. So they can learn their strengths and weaknesses, to improve their own lives... Instead of misrepresenting the INFJ's. Personal growth should be their focus, not seeking attention by pretending to be different. INFJs rarely have friends and I personally have none. Because you really are empathetic and do take on their emotions. Which is draining and not fun at all. When you read people like a book and then try to help them work through the issues that they bury and hide.... Two things happen. They either take it as an insult or attack. Then hate you or realize you can see their secrets and then run. Either way, people don't like INFJ's... Because they can't hide things from us. Most INFJs are intelligent, because we gather and connect information over the years. My husband hates this. He said I missed my calling as a private investigator. He can't lie to me, because I remember everything.... Which is also a curse because you relive painful experiences much more vividly. INFJ types usually have higher IQs, mine is 138. Not a genius by any means, but I do have a photographic memory and lastly. INFJ's don't like to be them most of the time, because no one sticks around. We are left a lot of the time, because we do have a very intense personality. We don't shut up when we find like minded people, but it takes years for us to open up to someone and make friends. We don't like small talk and can't stand shallow relationships.
🥲 Wow.
I married an ENTJ that is also ADHD, but he has different ADHD traits than mine. I do think the things I "fixed" though were responses to annoying/burdening my family when I was a kid so those same traits bother me now that I'm an adult. (For example tardiness, leaving cabinets and drawers open, not putting certain things away, etc.)
And my sense of justice is much higher- not making me better I just fixate too much. I hadn't realized I was "normal" for an infj not having friends. Yes- I love people and love analyzing them. I want everyone to be okay. The people what want a friendship are typically extroverts that think we aren't friends if I don't see them every day. You hit the nail on the head- exhausting. Maybe even a bit hyper vigilant. Unable to relax or move on mentally from seemingly minor or mundane things until I can intellectualize it. I frequently assume people don't mean the nice things they say and I "spare" them from having to tolerate me as often. I find contentment in learning different things or determining the psychology behind shows and movies, so I tend to not get too bored when not socializing.
Have a good day- I apologize if I wrote to much or if it isn't relatable. 😊
Initially I intended to respond with a comical comment about how your over-analytical response exposes you as an extreme INFJ, but I reconsidered after thoroughly reading your comment. Your comment is like a cry for help; I hope you were only feeling down when writing this and don't feel like that constantly, because that is draining.
Besides the fact that the MBTI test underscores that the received result is not for life (people change) you have the power to alter the undesirable parts of your personality. Being an INFJ is a gift to be able to analyse people's inner feelings and thoughts with uncanny accuracy. However, not everyone needs fixing, especially if the advice is unsolicited. I have come to learn that the truth is that I would try and help people more for the personal pleasure of having improved their lives, than for consideration of whether they wanted my help. Friendships thrive on helping to better each other, paired with a mutual agreement of boundaries. It is not an insurmountable feat for INFJs to have friends- we just need to know how to temper our zeal for analysis with interpersonal skills. I highly recommend making friends with INFPs; my two best friends are.
On a side note, something I've been researching recently is my personal theory that INFJs and INFPs suffer from childhood trauma, but it manifests as cPTSD in INFJs and INFPs learn later in life that they are autistic. Maybe your are traumatised? I wish you all the best.
Yooo
"It would feel reckless of I didn't overthink things. " 😂 So true.
infj in public versus infj in their head
0:48 proof that you write the most unique sketches. I love them :)
LOL.
I really liked that and I hope you do some of the others to show off the difference between some normal (for your type) behaviors and situations, and when you're extreme or broken.
I like how the normal INFJ looks slightly worried for the extreme INFJ.
I saw a meme basically stating that INFJs are stronger INFPs. They experience doubt, fear, and self-sabotage, but due to their orientation towards planning and schedules, they have a higher resolve.
While they are often thought of highly, they're still people, and shouldn't be looked at as an ultimate guide to things. That's the INTJs, job ffs.
Excuse me sir, what did I do to deserve being laid out on a platter like this?
Kidding, I loved it. You weren’t wrong.
WE NEED NORMAL INTP AND EXTREME INTP + you are by far my most fav ytbr
What's crazy is that I, an INFJ, recently told my therapist that I felt like I needed to go to a forest to scream... so does this make me a normal INFJ or an extreme INFJ?? 🤣
"I wish i could stop overthinking thing" EXACTLY Omg this is the worst.😤
oh, to go into the wilderness to practice primal screaming and eat berries...