What’s It Like Being Black In China in 2021? | Street Interview

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  • @AsianBoss
    @AsianBoss  ปีที่แล้ว +10

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  • @sisssss6827
    @sisssss6827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6490

    My experience in China was waaay better then Korea. Idk I’m African but Chinese seemed more educated on Africa. Whereas in Korea, they viewed me pretty low when I said I was African not African American. In China, a lot of the older folks seemed very humble. They understood a lot about poverty and remember what they went through.

    • @mangos1346
      @mangos1346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +914

      Koreans are maniac about white skins so you know...

    • @presidentjiang6762
      @presidentjiang6762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +373

      @@mangos1346 Chinese too, I’m not sure who is more obsessed with white skin

    • @pinkcowbluedolphin
      @pinkcowbluedolphin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +385

      @Daruki Neo not sure if you were trying to say that koreans (or most east asian countries, as far as i am aware) worship europeans because of their generally light skin tones or it was for another reason, but if you were implying the first, keep in mind the preference of light skin came from ancient times where it indicated ones social hierarchy; the poor who worked in fields all day were tanned, and the royals who never had to work were pale.

    • @user-pm2zv9fs5r
      @user-pm2zv9fs5r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +424

      @Daruki Neo as a chinese, some of us would worship european people too. it's really scary how obsessive it is

    • @haozzy
      @haozzy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +268

      Weibo is scary tho, anytime there's a post about black people trending on there, you can always find some very racists comments with a ton of likes

  • @DaraGeorge
    @DaraGeorge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8339

    "it's exhausting to have your skin be political" sheeshh that's a word

  • @shaye7282
    @shaye7282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2372

    I’m half black and I really liked this series, I think Asian boss should interview south Asians and south East Asians on what it’s like living in East Asian next.

    • @desibabe18
      @desibabe18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I agree!

    • @abandonedfragmentofhope5415
      @abandonedfragmentofhope5415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      I want them to do an episode of being Black in India.

    • @warcatbattalion
      @warcatbattalion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      >should interview south Asians and south East Asians on what it’s like living in East Asian next
      lol nobody cares about brown asians. people only care about american blacks. why do you think they keep making this "being black in xxx conutry" videos?

    • @psychogenesis6755
      @psychogenesis6755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@abandonedfragmentofhope5415 Black I'm the Philippines? Or New Guinea 🇵🇬

    • @shaye7282
      @shaye7282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@warcatbattalion all you do is comment weird racist things on videos, get a life

  • @aijiexi
    @aijiexi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +371

    I was in China 10 years ago. I was the only black person in my district, (my coworker lived in Dahua). The fact that you found this many black people in Shanghai shakes me! Before I left the States, I knew that I was going to a homogeneous nation. Therefore I decided that I was going to (1) speak Mandarin as much as possible, and (2) smile and make friends. When people would stare at me, I would always smile and wave and say, 您好!I had such good experiences and conversations that way. I had places I frequented and I was welcomed and accepted for patronizing their business. When I left, I was honored with gifts of appreciation. I even went out a couple times (I worked a great deal and it was exhausting so this was rare), and I was never shown the door. Listening to jazz at the Long Peace Hotel on The Bund was one of the best experiences of my life. I think it's more exhausting remembering that I should be equal instead of changing the narrative of my difference. I miss Shanghai, I would love to go back.

    • @felisasininus1784
      @felisasininus1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      As a Chinese national witnessing too much racism towards dark-skinned people in China, I'd venture to say, you make an effort to bring in that positivity with you to our country, and it made a huge difference.
      It helped you defeat the odds, and helped you earn a wholesome experience, and I respect you for this achievement.
      The country is definitely becoming more and more accepting and inclusive, to the point that even gay people can mostly be openly gay now. (as long as they don't have monsters for parents)
      Hopefully one day no one in China will bat an eye when they see a half-Chinese half-black person.
      But even if that day doesn't come anytime soon, we'd love to have you back again whenever you want!
      It is a great pleasure to have friends coming from afar! 有朋自远方来,不亦乐乎!

    • @eamoncat
      @eamoncat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@felisasininus1784 You guys are very funny, in a good way. A black person with a name in Chinese Pinyin and a Chinese national with a name in a language I don't recognize, lol!

    • @felisasininus1784
      @felisasininus1784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@eamoncat Thanks, i guess.
      My handle is in latin, bit pretentious I know... But it simply means 'asinine/stupid cat'.

    • @eamoncat
      @eamoncat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@felisasininus1784 Oh that reminds me the official name of cat felis catus.

    • @kriztoppa
      @kriztoppa ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Black people tend to stick together in Asia.

  • @gzuo5973
    @gzuo5973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2759

    I was studying in Chinese high school before, our English teacher was a black man, he is so funny and we all loved him!

    • @chiiiah
      @chiiiah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      I have one too haha

    • @JRYin
      @JRYin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      I had an African-American English teacher in high school, he graduated from Yale and worked in UN for many years before he came to China. We all repescted him.

    • @faa1412
      @faa1412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@JRYin Now that's good to know, especially we hear the discrimination stories of how companies are reluctant to hire black people for teaching jobs.

    • @kimjongun5073
      @kimjongun5073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Would you still have loved him if he was not funny 🤨

    • @gzuo5973
      @gzuo5973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

      @@kimjongun5073 Well, if he is not funny or he doesn’t have a lovable personality ,we might love him less , but not because he is black. No matter he is white or Asian or black, if this person doesn’t have a nice personality I guess all will be loved less

  • @jquiizondeck
    @jquiizondeck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3075

    Thank you Asian Boss for giving me the platform to share a piece of my China experience! It's beautiful to see the positive discussions & takeaways in the comments. 🙏🏾

    • @jquiizondeck
      @jquiizondeck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@0x0xcf would be a pleasure, Africa is paradise.

    • @gimbapco1313
      @gimbapco1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@jquiizondeck that reply ain’t it man. Really loved hearing your insights in the video 👏

    • @mikeyangyang8816
      @mikeyangyang8816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      That reply is just a stupid troll. Thank you for speaking out. As a Chinese, I welcome foreigners in China. A lot people, if not all people around me look at foreigners just as everyone else, but that is blocked by language. I see a lot of schools welcome foreigners to come, i think that is a good effort to internationalize China. I understand the troubles that foreigners face in China, but I really feel it is just a barrier. It can be crossed with effort and time.

    • @dipubalamurugan3331
      @dipubalamurugan3331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@0x0xcf BrUH thats seriously insensitive and fked up Man

    • @jquiizondeck
      @jquiizondeck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@gimbapco1313 much appreciated, Ben!

  • @thisischaniece
    @thisischaniece 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2605

    I get asked A LOT if people in China are racist, and it's a difficult question to answer simply. Being black in China is a very nuanced experience. There is the good and the bad (obviously more good for a lot of us, which is why many of us don't leave after a year or two). There is a lot to take into consideration as well such as how dark your complexion is, whether you are a woman or a man, what country you are from, whether you can speak Mandarin/Cantonese, where exactly in China you live etc etc. Living in Shanghai is a huge advantage, and is probably why most of the foreigners who move to Shanghai stay for a long time. There is more exposure to foreigners and more opportunity. Due to these opportunities, I've found many black people don't tend to highlight their negative experiences as much.

    • @dieloser5685
      @dieloser5685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You have an awesome channel. Subbed!

    • @ctynwbraygalm
      @ctynwbraygalm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You live there? Why is noone wearing masks?

    • @defsoulzhao784
      @defsoulzhao784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +239

      @@ctynwbraygalm because there has been no report of the covid case in shanghai for a long time and almost everyone has got vaccinated... it is not a must for Chinese to wear masks right now. I am living in Beijing and it's totally free wherever you go as long as you don't do abroad...

    • @Future-me23
      @Future-me23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      racism one of the black experience i this world, what does that tell about the world we live in. immature is word that comes to mind. intolarent people always act out.

    • @CrimsonEclipse
      @CrimsonEclipse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      Shanghai is definitely foreign friendly. Some other parts of China not so much.

  • @MamaC98
    @MamaC98 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    You guys are the pioneers. Let that sink in. It’s not always easy being the first, but you all opened the door for generations to come. Future generations will have it much easier because of the barriers you’ve broken. Thank you for that.

    • @gospelvlogwd
      @gospelvlogwd 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Beautiful comment❤

  • @MrTurtleThief
    @MrTurtleThief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2078

    Damn, they've been married almost a decade and he hasn't met her extended family as a group... it's the kind of polite disrespect I hate the most

    • @bloodsugar4092
      @bloodsugar4092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

      Yeah I was startled as well

    • @LoyaltyQueen
      @LoyaltyQueen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +249

      thats not even polite disrespect honestly so sad

    • @s1050
      @s1050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +489

      That is awful and I feel so sorry for that guy. I feel bad because I’m white and my Chinese in-laws treat me really well, buy me things and take me to meet the whole family even though I can’t have a full conversation in Chinese. If I were black I think it would be a different story. It’s racism in the older generation and I hope it changes.

    • @o.g.millennials
      @o.g.millennials 3 ปีที่แล้ว +334

      @@s1050 Of course, it would be different, silly. There's a racial hierarchy and you're on top.

    • @陈陳-t5c
      @陈陳-t5c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +301

      This is "cold violence", a common part of Chinese mother-in-law culture.
      When her daughter married a man she was dissatisfied with, she refused to meet. In the past few decades, this kind of thing has happened constantly.
      Even the two of them will run away and stay away from home forever.
      Ancient Chinese novels and myths and legends (seven fairies) continue to have such stories.
      But I am not denying the occurrence of racial discrimination. It's just that the man in the video suffered even more serious "cold violence" because of his skin.
      China’s mother-in-law culture is more typical of thinking that her son-in-law must allow herself to have a "face" in front of neighbors on the street.
      Being rich, filial, respecting the elders, giving birth to many children in the family, having a house, and having to let her daughter go home to see her parents every year, there are many indicators. Many Chinese men are reluctant to get married. This is also a major reason for the low fertility rate and low marriage rate in modern China.
      The mother-in-law has a very high status in the whole family and will directly interfere with her daughter's marriage.
      This black man is a typical victim of mother-in-law culture. Not only because he is black. I have also seen women who married white men. He belongs to the working class below the middle class, and his life is not as rich as imagined. The mother-in-law is a very "realistic" person. She does not allow her daughters and their children to go home to visit their parents. She thinks it is "shameful"-this is a very serious behavior in China that hurts the feelings of mother and daughter.
      The bigger reason is that she will be treated with strange eyes from the outside world. China is a society where people are closely connected, and this kind of problem cannot be ignored. Unless another thirty years.

  • @evalees3394
    @evalees3394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +791

    I am a Chinese living in China over 20 years and I graduated from a black historical university in the United States. So I see both sides. And I hope more people can understand that we are all human beings. Regardless of what skins we have, we pursue happiness. We all study hard, work hard, and want to find the best place to live and enjoy our lives. I strongly believe that when we get to know more of each other, stereotypes can be removed!!

    • @gamegamer9523
      @gamegamer9523 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      True, I believe there are politicians of both countries trying to divide us using the media. However, it won’t always work

    • @swannoir7949
      @swannoir7949 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gamegamer9523 Why an HBCU? You couldn’t get a legacy admission?

    • @swannoir7949
      @swannoir7949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ryanbrown4618 Please. When the 2nd out break hit, the Chinese government was evicting Africans from their homes on sight, accusing them of creating the new wave from Africa. And let’s not forget the their yearly award show where they do skits in Blackface. You don’t watch other news media that tell these stories, but I do, so I can’t sit here and front. But the woman who posted this will not admit this, because she lives in China, and China people aren’t allowed to talk bad about their country.

    • @ryanbrown4618
      @ryanbrown4618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@swannoir7949 It was Chinese government not people but in America racism is in their blood

    • @wycessasmall3936
      @wycessasmall3936 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Interesting interviews....I would not want to be involved with someone and be rejected by their family because of my skin color. You don't have to put yourself in that situation where you are maligned and treated less than. Know your own value and worth. The warning should have been at that couple's first meeting when she exclaimed " I dance like a black girl!" Really...? Bye! Just be yourself and love yourself!

  • @psychogenesis6755
    @psychogenesis6755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +920

    So glad you asked them for positive aspects of being black in China. I didn't want the episode to be completely depressing.

    • @dw7401
      @dw7401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Scared of the truth

    • @littledudefromacrossthestr5755
      @littledudefromacrossthestr5755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      @@dw7401 lol nope

    • @JackY-qn9fd
      @JackY-qn9fd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Then show ur part of truth cuz by speaking it u add nothing but put a conspiracy label on the life black people have in China.

    • @JackY-qn9fd
      @JackY-qn9fd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      @@dw7401 scared of what? Scared of not being marginalized and brainwashed by pure propaganda and bias towards China and Chinese people? Do ur research before u pass those disgusted thoughts to ur kids cuz that is dangerous

    • @dw7401
      @dw7401 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@JackY-qn9fd I've done my research to include the FACT that YOUR opinion doesn't matter💯✔

  • @youngsuit
    @youngsuit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    i really respect how authentic this is. it doesn't feel like there's an agenda here, moreso just talking about the experience overall including the good and the bad

    • @jameswang362
      @jameswang362 ปีที่แล้ว

      I too like that, and didn't realize it it until I read your comment.
      I find that such videos are more useful and powerful when the attitude behind is neutral.

    • @aaronrodgers9202
      @aaronrodgers9202 ปีที่แล้ว

      The agenda is them trying to make it look like China is great to the rest of the world lol. They literally can't say how it truly is or their visas will be revoked go wwatch the China fact checkers you will see how disgusting china is right now

    • @KAXSH
      @KAXSH 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If they say only positive stuff then you would say it’s an agenda.
      If it’s negative then it’s more “honest”

    • @youngsuit
      @youngsuit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KAXSH it just makes a person more skeptical. but i have enough Black friends that have been to China to know that they feel treated well there

    • @Elfangorlanzhou
      @Elfangorlanzhou 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, I just know I can trust it because they just present as is

  • @kaydenpat
    @kaydenpat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2908

    I love the South African dude. He’s hilarious. “Don’t deport me!” Lol

    • @hunadilentswana6962
      @hunadilentswana6962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      My homie🇿🇦❤️❤️❤️

    • @zulphaesau4266
      @zulphaesau4266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@hunadilentswana6962 represent...🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

    • @lesedidithuge7088
      @lesedidithuge7088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @pruttkudde Wrong flag😐

    • @mokhtar-m-nour
      @mokhtar-m-nour 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I hate the way that young South African spoke

    • @kellyliu1210
      @kellyliu1210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      he must've been china long enough

  • @PumpkinMozie
    @PumpkinMozie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1607

    I definitely agree with the guy who said he hates driving...haha it sounds silly but when you hate driving (like me too) living in a place with good public transit is an absolute game changer!!!

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      i hate driving too , i am always wandering in my mind . i only drive when needed but generally i am unbothered alo.

    • @BiGSmoke-.-
      @BiGSmoke-.- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PHlophe How was it for you when you got your driving license?

    • @nofood1
      @nofood1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I hate driving but love cycling.

    • @dannytadashi4235
      @dannytadashi4235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      In America’s ANTI ASIAN HATE CRIMES committed by black and mostly black and white are getting worst . It has been increased over 200 % if I am not mistaken from California to New York . Anyway, over 1200 cases anti Asian hate crimes committed by American all Over the c country since the COVID PANDEMIC!!! The most b B vulnerable are v the c Asian older folks and Asian women . Being Asian living in America or any western countries are a very dangerous to live compare b with any South Asian countries . Some older Asian folks even got killed and murder by black peoples and white . So far I have heard any black Or white got killed by Chinese living in China or any Asian countries. So America and Europe’s are a FK UP COUNTRIES IN GENERAL !!!!

    • @marcelrodriguez2067
      @marcelrodriguez2067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I hate driving but also hate being around so many people so its a lose lose lol

  • @Itsacamlife
    @Itsacamlife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1768

    To that man who is a teacher and wanted to teach...my heart breaks for him knowing that he can teach and is capable of teaching and it's hard for him to find work because of his skin color I feel so sad for him...

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +231

      It's the same here in the US. My father is Asian and holds multiple PHDs in Spanish but no university would hire him because he's a Chinese teaching Spanish.

    • @holangie4978
      @holangie4978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@sigerlion8608 hope your father doing well!!

    • @sigerlion8608
      @sigerlion8608 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@holangie4978 He became a civil servant instead of a Professor and has been retired for years now. Never got over the disappointment of his wasted efforts but it's all water under the bridge.

    • @jesslu1966
      @jesslu1966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Recently a case in Ningbo, China of an African professor raped + murdered his student so you can see how that can sparked racism although he is one individual that doesn't represent the rest of the community. :(

    • @riahmatic
      @riahmatic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      ​@@jesslu1966 it takes one person if the society is racist

  • @cooperpan
    @cooperpan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    There's one thing that I always mentioned: China has a population that is bigger than the whole American continent and European continent combined, so even if there're 10,000,000 people that are racist, that's still less than 1% of the overall population. You can't define the whole country based on several racists, just like the same way you won't define the entire western world

    • @zxty34
      @zxty34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yes but you can determine certain patterns based on the cultural attitudes. Regardless whether “1 percent of the Chinese people are prejudice”, the overall Chinese attitude deems dark skin as unfavorable. And people need to address realities rather than deflecting. Same goes for the west.

    • @sir_humpy
      @sir_humpy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      There are a couple things to consider. First, any monoethnic culture is not used to diversity by default and will naturally be diffident towards others. A second thing is more Asia-specific. There is a cult of whiteness or rather your skin being lighter than average in countries like India, Bangladesh, Japan, Korea and China. It's historical, going back thousands of years and related to the fact that whiter skin was an indicator of a more noble status, that you basically don't work the fields for living. Just check the popularity of skin-whitening products in those countries. While European-stock cultures are on the contrary obsessed with having a nice tan.

  • @Tash30
    @Tash30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1295

    The guy that said "don't deport me" 😂😂😂😂😭

    • @iliasb2761
      @iliasb2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ouïghours don't laughed at that one

    • @maccheese8379
      @maccheese8379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@iliasb2761 you must've been to xinjiang i presume?

    • @iliasb2761
      @iliasb2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@maccheese8379 I have family, I have some brothers and sisters there..

    • @maccheese8379
      @maccheese8379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@iliasb2761 and....?

    • @iliasb2761
      @iliasb2761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@maccheese8379 what do you mean by and ? You asked me if I went there so you want to know if i really know about the situation there... So yes i know..

  • @hoodrobin4397
    @hoodrobin4397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1556

    Most Asian impressions on black are from American movies, both good and bad.

    • @angel-cy6fh
      @angel-cy6fh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Asìan Boss get out no ones wants your whatsapp

    • @ima.m.1658
      @ima.m.1658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      And from centuries of colorism

    • @victorhuang3896
      @victorhuang3896 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      and the same the other way around, so much that i've heard of simple, family-owned Chinese takeouts and Vietnamese or Korean nail salons referred to nastily rather than as products (food) and services (nails are a service, no?). Somehow, the family-owned liquor store is an oppressor...,but not the large banks that refused you your loan or the developer that redlined your neighborhood.
      both our communities have it rough and so much of our hate towards one another has been conditioned by outside forces.

    • @willyang4487
      @willyang4487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      You forgot to mention NBA

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@willyang4487 yes but a lot of whites are basketball players than black people

  • @sylveemoonfaye8533
    @sylveemoonfaye8533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    I hope her family accepts him, that must really hurt, he clearly loves her and been together for years its heartbreaking they wont even try to get to know him.

    • @Basuko_Smoker
      @Basuko_Smoker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      After 8 years of marriage i'd be done with her family tbh

    • @Blakberi73
      @Blakberi73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Basuko_Smoker I 2nd this thought.

    • @quentinmims9400
      @quentinmims9400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Making a Asian family like you is very hard sometimes haha
      My current gfs family dosent like me period all because I am not Asian

    • @quentinmims9400
      @quentinmims9400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @JenculeLesPorcsDeRacistesOccidentaux Lmao yes very true thankfully my family has excepted my Asian gf

    • @quentinmims9400
      @quentinmims9400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @JenculeLesPorcsDeRacistesOccidentaux Lmao I am sorry to hear that

  • @alembess9129
    @alembess9129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    11:22 I started tearing up listening to this teacher's experience of discrimination. Over-all, I love the interviews. And the couple...I love them too!

    • @deroxanlit4181
      @deroxanlit4181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A lot of racism started in the west and it spread world wide

    • @Zeila1
      @Zeila1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deroxanlit4181 that's a stupid claim, racism has always existed. you could argue that it's even natural

  • @krishnansrinivasan830
    @krishnansrinivasan830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +916

    Why feel separated when everybody can speak the universal language SMILE. ! Beautifully said :)

    • @D3athW1ng
      @D3athW1ng 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts .. this was impactful.

    • @oofig
      @oofig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i thought you meant english is the universal language for a second LOL

    • @jquiizondeck
      @jquiizondeck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks man :) this mantra has gotten me through a lot!

    • @krishnansrinivasan830
      @krishnansrinivasan830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jquiizondeck Awesome 🙏🕊️

    • @acasosmanivanzie4087
      @acasosmanivanzie4087 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oofig As aww

  • @dontdrinktapwater6194
    @dontdrinktapwater6194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +794

    That couple is so cute!
    "But it's not only because you're black, you are just you!"

    • @BigGnigga
      @BigGnigga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I don't rike brack

    • @johnnydoe2672
      @johnnydoe2672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      such a beautiful thing to say

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you, haha

    • @themaincat85
      @themaincat85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She was big time cool for saying that.

    • @yys6253
      @yys6253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      And she is very beautiful even from a Chinese point of view.

  • @micheas_westward
    @micheas_westward 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Living in countries like China, a day seems like a minute, because of how preoccupied your mind is on the culture shock, learning of the language, writing, exploring the geography, trying new foods, seeing new places, new people, different time zones, Much More

    • @k3lvinsWorld
      @k3lvinsWorld 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow! I dream to go there one day

    • @micheas_westward
      @micheas_westward 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@k3lvinsWorld You need the money ...

    • @yipengguo2732
      @yipengguo2732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For American, China is like the other side of the world. Geographically and culturally.

    • @aoeu256
      @aoeu256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@micheas_westward Digital nomads/remote workers can save money going to cheap areas. You can also do homestays.

  • @harii6316
    @harii6316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I always come back and watch this video from time to time💜 Thanks Asian Boss for allowing me to be a part of this and share my experiences 💜 I’ve def become more open minded since moving here

    • @yangastuurman1465
      @yangastuurman1465 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're Beautiful Harri

    • @harii6316
      @harii6316 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yangastuurman1465 hahahah thanks

    • @emiliechen1371
      @emiliechen1371 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your experiences ❤

    • @DannyMeasho999
      @DannyMeasho999 ปีที่แล้ว

      how do you use youtube in china?

    • @harii6316
      @harii6316 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DannyMeasho999 VPN

  • @haokaiandtaylor8182
    @haokaiandtaylor8182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    My Chinese husband says the reason some Chinese may assume you are from Africa is because many students in Chinese Universities are from Africa.

    • @感恩-k4t
      @感恩-k4t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Especially in Guangzhou.

    • @karankapoor2701
      @karankapoor2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@感恩-k4t is university In china expensive

    • @huas5350
      @huas5350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@karankapoor2701 Not expensive, even very cheap. China's universities are not completely commercialized. There is a unified government plan for tuition fees. Regardless of the fame of the University, it costs only a few hundred dollars a year.

    • @karankapoor2701
      @karankapoor2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@huas5350 really , as an Indian I wanna do my MASTER'S from there

    • @arbs3ry
      @arbs3ry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think the main is that most blacks are still living in Africa, the number outside Africa is quite small comparing to Africa. It's like when you meet an Oriental you first assume he or she comes from East Asia.

  • @PharaohofVibes
    @PharaohofVibes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    big props to the chinese girl whose dating the guy. her mom and her family dont like that hes black, they been together for 8 years and shes still with him.

    • @SiliconValleyMommy
      @SiliconValleyMommy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      They're married! ❤️😭

    • @PharaohofVibes
      @PharaohofVibes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@SiliconValleyMommy theirs lots of pressure from the family it seems, i dunno what the divorce rules are in China, but she could break down and leave from the pressure and she hasnt

    • @user-cc4rn6om4i
      @user-cc4rn6om4i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      No ew interracial

    • @ariwilliams130
      @ariwilliams130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      @@user-cc4rn6om4i um ew? That's a bit rude and racist, don't you think?

    • @TheMagnificentGman
      @TheMagnificentGman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@user-cc4rn6om4i don't be jelly. Props to the brother

  • @naut_nigel
    @naut_nigel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    "Something you can't control might affect how people see that smile."
    WOW. That was a powerful way to put it.

  • @DamienYok
    @DamienYok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This is a really good video. I love that you interview these folks and people give you genuine answers what they really think. They don't even do that here in the US. I can't remember last time I saw anyone ask any question about discriminations or how people feel they are stereotyped. People just choose to dodge those kind of things. First time I arrived in the US I asked a friend (she is local) why black students and white students all sit by separate tables. What I got was dead silence and awkwardness that could freeze the air as answers. I then learned not ask any questions regarding racism white or black. I only ever talked about this type of things with a friend who is black. I am Asian by the way.

    • @yusefendure
      @yusefendure 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great story. I appreciate your honesty about the dynamics of racism in the U.S.

  • @elledumble
    @elledumble 3 ปีที่แล้ว +476

    The girl with twists said mostly positive things! I love her final statement about our bodies being political! I'd love to read her poetry

    • @bluedreams209
      @bluedreams209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      And she's so beautiful

    • @mzmasim8449
      @mzmasim8449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bluedreams209 yeah she is

    • @Jr33dc
      @Jr33dc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That’s my little cousin! So proud of her

    • @pcl1559
      @pcl1559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She mentioned people stare, but I think they stare because how beautiful she is. I am really impressed how she puts her hair up!

    • @BombsAwayMineCraft
      @BombsAwayMineCraft 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pcl1559 yeah, she's gorgeous

  • @joaozhang3694
    @joaozhang3694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    When I was in university, I chose Amharic as my third language. And my professor was from Ethiopia. She was just amazing and got beautiful eyes like deer. She taught us dancing at class, invited us to her apartment to dinner and took us to Ethiopia Embassy in Beijing. She really give us excellent memories! By the way, Amharic is the hardest language I have known. I v almost forgotten everything of Amharic language.
    Now I am working in Mozambique, Aftica. I mean, when I meet more people, black or white, young or old, I realize that there are much more common things between peaple than differences, our smiles and tears, happiness and sorrow. We are just human being. We share the exactly feelings about the world, family, friends, nature.
    No offence, we have differences. That's why I still envy black bro's athletelike body. Here in Mozambique, almost every boy can do somersault.

    • @joaozhang3694
      @joaozhang3694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @ Yes. BFSU, BEIJING FOREIGN STUDIES UNIVERSITY. My teacher is Ninna. I missed her so much.

    • @Jordan-xg4pn
      @Jordan-xg4pn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Man that's so cool! What do you work with in Mozambique? ANd do you like it? I speak the sister language of Amharic which is like the harder twin fusion language of Amharic and Arabic lol.

    • @piazzastudios4251
      @piazzastudios4251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Such a lovely comment xiè xiè.. I wish my Amharic teacher was as cool as yours :). There are many Chinese ppl. in Ethiopia and we ❤ the ppl., food & culture & I'd assume the same sentiment resonates across Africa despite all the propaganda Western medias are spewing

    • @marilynmonheaux
      @marilynmonheaux 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s amazing. I’m dying to go to Mozambique. What should I do there? What do you recommend

    • @canaldepraticadejesus6600
      @canaldepraticadejesus6600 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      功成同学是你吗?

  • @leiyue1411
    @leiyue1411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    Wish that couple has a good life. Love can conquer any obstacles.

    • @ChristopherCricketWallace
      @ChristopherCricketWallace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      mom will change her attitude about that man when she's super old and needs help and funds for elder care. THEN he'll be family all of the sudden. That cash will be family.

    • @churblefurbles
      @churblefurbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      the single motherhood rate is the most extreme with certain pairings, so no on that trite saying.

    • @anonymouso7478
      @anonymouso7478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@churblefurbles shush, Churble.

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

    • @leiyue1411
      @leiyue1411 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      希望大家都能和自己爱的人不太想理我,祝您二位生活顺利

  • @knowledgeiskey1319
    @knowledgeiskey1319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    In case people want more content like this, there is a *whole channel called "Black in Japan"* dedicated to interviewing and documenting black peoples experiences all over asia. The quality of their content is AMAZING. I highly recommend.

  • @muudcatt9541
    @muudcatt9541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +880

    Here's a suggestion for Asian Boss when conducting interviews of this kind. Rather than drilling interviewees on specific negative and positive questions, ask them to summarize their experiences in an objective way. Equal incidents of positive and negative things don't necessarily mean that they cancel each other out, and certainly don't mean objectivity without considering the magnitude of how those specific experiences add to the overall experience

    • @kingace6186
      @kingace6186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      I disagree, you cant summarize a personal experience objectively, only subjective. Plus these type of question was done purposefully so we viewers can sympathize and/or empathize with the interviewees

    • @letsthink8245
      @letsthink8245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't you think people would think that they would only be wanting positive experiences for something?

    • @lynth
      @lynth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@kingace6186 Yes, when it comes to China, Asian Boss always tries to focus on the negatives and tries to lead people into expressing negative views. It's very blatant.

    • @allen3339
      @allen3339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@lynth I would disagree. Personally, from my experience and the testimonies I think it's about the individuals. Actually, from some of the interviewees I was told much of what they had to say negatively was actually cut down quite a bit. I don't think the interviewer was trying to steer the conversation to a negative focus but rather this is how they felt. Again, feelings are subjective.

    • @thisischaniece
      @thisischaniece 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I prefer interview style. That way you can compare and contrast answers. Smoother watch.

  • @ChristopherCricketWallace
    @ChristopherCricketWallace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +534

    Korea, too. Clubs playing American hip-hop music won't let black people in. It's silly.

    • @kiaevans7142
      @kiaevans7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      Yea I watched their video on that yesterday. It’s so crazy. Love the black culture, but denounce the idea of actual black people.

    • @Future-me23
      @Future-me23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      racism one of the black experience i this world, what does that tell about the world we live in. immature is word that comes to mind. intolarent people always act out.

    • @altagrace9066
      @altagrace9066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@WakaiOjouSama 시끄러!

    • @altagrace9066
      @altagrace9066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@WakaiOjouSama you should be ashamed of yourself.

    • @SaraLovesTea
      @SaraLovesTea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Kpop has literally copied black culture for the past 10yrs. This is insane 🤦‍♀️

  • @rhoda4621
    @rhoda4621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    It's so sad hearing about the negative experiences, especially the guy who can't get hired bc of his skin colour. He genuinely seems really passionate about what he wants to do. best of luck to him 💗

    • @lynth
      @lynth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      To be fair, he speaks with a thick accent. "I been teachin' for a while" just isn't proper standard English that people want their children to learn. Non-native speakers have clearer diction than that and they can teach grammar, etc. just as well (in fact, probably better than a native speaker).

    • @sao8069
      @sao8069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@lynth I guarantee you he would be formal in a classroom setting, its just slang bro he has a journalism degree I guarantee you he is aware that isnt perfect grammar lmao

    • @h1inc816
      @h1inc816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@lynth plus the vast majority of Americans, especially outside work, don’t speak proper. There are a ton of nuances, slang, and tonal differences that people who haven’t grown up in the US won’t understand, like sarcasm

    • @mikec.4519
      @mikec.4519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lynth aahahâah right; he also said I am an English teacher HERE.

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@h1inc816 because its been confirmed china and india will start an apocalypse after 2030

  • @reve.bear.2gg
    @reve.bear.2gg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m African Chinese, was born and raised in Hong Kong. I was the only black girl in all my life. I would say most people love touching my hair and ask where I’m from. As a child, I really hated it when asked my mom if I were adopted. I didn’t know why people could be that narrow-minded by asking if I were from Africa all the time. But the truth is I have never been to Africa. On top of that, I wasn’t really close to my father because he was always travelling and working. My mom didn’t know how to handle my curly hair and I wasn’t even exposed to the African culture till I was in high school and I figured it out all myself. Growing up as a minority in Hong Kong, I wouldn’t say my life is easy or what because it was kind of difficult for me to meet new people once they know my ethnicity. My classmates loved making fun of me by calling me ‘black Mickey Mouse’. I really hated that as well. And I was really embarrassed when teachers are teaching about Africa by telling how poor and how devastated those people are. I felt really ashamed that time and I was also questioning my identity like ‘why can’t I be living in United States?’. My self-esteem was very low back then but now I embrace my ethnicity and culture after self-learning.

  • @abbytrapp8258
    @abbytrapp8258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +481

    Being a foreigner in Shanghai is a very different experience than being a foreigner in China as a country.

    • @hadassahapolot1203
      @hadassahapolot1203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Underrated comment 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @Sunshine_Hime
      @Sunshine_Hime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why? I'm genuinely curious to know.

    • @abbytrapp8258
      @abbytrapp8258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      @@Sunshine_Hime Shanghai is very international and far developed compared to other regions of the country. Foreign people have always lived there and it's known globally for its import/export business. The amount of diversity that exists in Shanghai is the largest amount in the country. It's not hard to find someone from your country with your language or skin color in this city...at all. A large majority of Chinese here know English or try to speak with foreigners. However, that's very different than being the only foreign person in a rural village in China. Hope that clarifies.

    • @Sunshine_Hime
      @Sunshine_Hime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@abbytrapp8258 thank you very much😊

    • @abbytrapp8258
      @abbytrapp8258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @X H Yeah true. I think it applies to any community in any region open minded or close minded city.

  • @thisisntsergio1352
    @thisisntsergio1352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    11:21 "I am a native speaker. I was born and raised in the U.S. and I am a journalism major. I am more than qualified to do a teaching job. To not even be considered for no other reason than this trivial thing called skin color kind of hurts."

    • @bubbles9766
      @bubbles9766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yeah, it's suspiciously similar to affirmative action.

    • @pennPi
      @pennPi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ugh that made me sad. Poor guy, I hope more doors open for him and people stop judging based on superficial qualities but on character and credentials.

    • @BigB0ss00
      @BigB0ss00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      White boys and girls get the teaching jobs. Not even Chinese Americans born and raised in the U.S. are considered before those colonizers

    • @damienmarsic
      @damienmarsic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This kind of advertisement is illegal in China. He could sue the company and win.

    • @tc2334
      @tc2334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bubbles9766 ZING!

  • @rachaelagyapong8448
    @rachaelagyapong8448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    you guys need to start putting the subtitles in Mandarin or whichever language is spoken in the country for the people there to see how we feel and how to at least be respectful towards a black person (touching hair)

    • @anzai5552
      @anzai5552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @AlexlionTC lmao

    • @dionydonny
      @dionydonny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @AlexlionTC This is a stereotype of the internet era. The Chinese government has banned youtube from providing services in China, but not banned people from accessing youtube, so there are many people using VPN to watch youtube.

    • @coolorochi
      @coolorochi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This happened everywhere.
      Because there's no personal space before the culture become modernized.
      There's no need to tell younger generation, and this sort video is not reaching older generation.

    • @auroral9777
      @auroral9777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @AlexlionTC I'm literally Chinese, I exist you know? Oh and not all chinese people live in China thanks.

    • @sonofben3322
      @sonofben3322 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @AlexlionTC vpn?

  • @ej164
    @ej164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    All of the interviewed but especially the guy from New York and the girl with the twisted hair, thank you sooo much. You are such beautifull people!. You guys made me feel better just by being you.
    I am sorry for what black-skinned people have to go through and I pray future generations will embrace different people and different cultures much much more!.
    Black is beautifull💕

    • @bbukutan5375
      @bbukutan5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Black or tanned skin is sexy, exotic and beautiful than reddish skin

  • @IKNFLY666
    @IKNFLY666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    I operate an English training centre in Shenzhen, I wouldn’t hesitate to hire a Black native English speaker over a White non-native speakers with heavy Russian or Eastern European accents. The sad reality is, Chinese parents would frown at the sight of Black teachers, which is very disheartening.

    • @dbrzy8989
      @dbrzy8989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      tbh alot of these companies hire white people just so they can attract business from the "white population" its not because of anything special. Its a marketing tool

    • @sagitta2012
      @sagitta2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Same thing, u would rather learn Chinese from an Asian-looking person than an Arab-looking guy no matter how fluent that guy can speak Chinese... basically, 90% Chinese parents can’t tell if the teacher is a native speaker of English, they don’t even know the difference between British and American accent

    • @bishop51807
      @bishop51807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@dbrzy8989 A token white person. Ive seen that in a Japan ads too.

    • @calvinli5767
      @calvinli5767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      This is sad! I have a Chinese American friend who speaks perfect English got denied for a English teaching job because he is Asian…

    • @semiramisubw4864
      @semiramisubw4864 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think that is more of an older cultural thing and that doesnt only applie to China

  • @frostforest7241
    @frostforest7241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    that girl in black outfit with blue flower on it is so adorable. so energetic and got very positive attitude. Remind me of my english teacher when im in middle school. always with a smile on her face. Maybe will come across you somewhere in the street of Shanghai.

    • @themaincat85
      @themaincat85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She’s beautiful.

  • @MIXooNooMATCH
    @MIXooNooMATCH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    I’ve lived in China for about 3.5 years and Imma need folks to stop exclusively attributing racism in China to ignorance. Being curious and asking questions is ignorance. Calling me names, discriminating against me in hiring or when serving me at a restaurant is HATRED. Telling your child that you’d prefer she marry a white man (theyre no more informed of white people than they are black people) to a black man is HATRED. Everybody doesn’t act or think this way. But branding all of these things as a simple fact of “lack of exposure” is harmful.

    • @thesagebears
      @thesagebears 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. People disrespect Indigenous (Black) culture bc some of us desire so bad to be accepted that we will take abuse like the man that married into a racist family. All this gas lighting in the comments is crazy. Folks hate admitting that they have racist family members.

    • @meme101RE
      @meme101RE ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly!!

    • @meme101RE
      @meme101RE ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Also something people ignore, these “ignorant” things people do in China are offensive in their own culture. Like if you meet someone who is from an “alien planet” as an American I wouldn’t do things to this unfamiliar being that are considered rude where I’m from. Not to sure if I made sense but that annoys me. Like you can’t claim “ignorance” when you are doing things that are considered rude in your own culture!

    • @MIXooNooMATCH
      @MIXooNooMATCH ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@meme101RE totally. Some Chinese people will see you and immediately pull out their phone to take video and photos that they plan to share in their group chats and on their social media. But pull your phone out in return and they immediately get shy, blush, say “meishi meishi”-because they don’t like the same energy directed towards them. If I make squinty eyes (god forbid, I would NEVER cuz that’s vile), nobody in China questions that that’s highly disrespectful; but if they make allusions to monkeys around me, then suddenly I need to laugh it off as “ignorance” and a “joke”. Most know it’s not nice to be treated that way; it’s just that some don’t have the instinctive impulse to treat us with the same compassion and consideration they expect to be treated with (or even treat white people, in comparison).

    • @willliamnash4855
      @willliamnash4855 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MIXooNooMATCH maybe you have just found out what its like to be a minority in a country where there is basically one ethnicity and one culture

  • @WorriorXD
    @WorriorXD ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PREACH EVERYONE MADE GOOD POINTS! ❤

  • @son8373
    @son8373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    The fact that they're there for years, they obviously enjoy living there.
    We don't just come to other country and hoping they will cater to our "needs" and must follow / know any political thing or anything that happen in our country, they don't owe us anything, as guest we adapt and respect their culture.
    This applies everywhere.

    • @phoenix72999
      @phoenix72999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      I agree. But I don't think it is fair if the culture violates people's rights. And I don't just mean discrimination in china or anywhere else, I also mean things like religion. Anything that takes away the basic rights of some people, such as women or people of different believes, or of different ethnicities, anything like that is not fair to these people. And I think it is ok to talk about those particular problems and to wish for them to change. Just so everyone can enjoy the same rights.
      It won't just change tomorrow, but I hope that it will be better on the long run, because everyone deserves to be treated in a fair way.
      And I think it is good that these things are discussed in this video, so more people can know about it and the situation might be even better for black people in china one day.

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Lrony Yeo You said "China is ahead on rights and freedoms" are you joking?? If you protest in China you get arrested and deported (if you're a foreigner). Even for Chinese if you criticize the government you can be arrested and disappear. Right now in China they put 1 million Uighurs in concentration camps because they has a few terrorist attacks!!!!! Even other religions have very strict controls and some like Falong Gong are banned!! Chinese media is very controlled and can only report of government approved news!!!!!. In China you have to report to police when you move house!!! Your comment is seriously deluded.!!!!!

    • @iriemonmon
      @iriemonmon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      This comment is so ignorant. They're not expecting the culture to cater to anything, they're expecting them to not dehumanize them and mistreat them. Chinese people tried to blame Covid-19 on Black people when we had ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with it. People need to take accountability and stop victim blaming Black people when we speak up.

    • @stephenlock7236
      @stephenlock7236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think you have a great point there. Many foreigners, in particular from the US and the West, going to China have this ridiculous expectation that things in China should be like where they come from. It's even worse from those who have never been to China, having been completely sold into the demonisation of China. That is the main reason why they think the animosity of their governments towards China is justified.

    • @stephenlock7236
      @stephenlock7236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @So What The destruction wars conducted by the US and the West has a history that is certainly more than the last 2 facades, more like 2 centuries.

  • @MaioParlato
    @MaioParlato 3 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    friendly guy: yeah, Shanghai checked all my boxes: public transportation, low cost of living...
    me: moving to Shanghai and crying tears of blood after noticing that rent is 300% higher than other cities in China
    ç__ç

    • @yiluis1316
      @yiluis1316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      To be fair, there is a lot of Tier 1 or Tier 2 cities out there that are cheaper than the famous Shanghai. Even some Tier 3 cities are looking very very modern right now compared to other cities of developed countries and the cost of living is ridiculously low.

    • @willengel2458
      @willengel2458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      can you afford to work and live in new york city or central london? what you want and what you can afford are two different matters.

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Like in all global cities

    • @rainman5428
      @rainman5428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Although it is low cost of living in other areas, you cannot get the same salary in other areas

    • @LuckyNeffy
      @LuckyNeffy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Compared to his old city (Los Angeles) much cheaper.

  • @mengyangliang6388
    @mengyangliang6388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    That couple are so cute and brave! Being a Chinese and my fiancé also Chinese, I still sometimes find myself somehow hard to be accepted by my future mother-in-law. They must have overcome so many obstacles, and love and courage eventually prevailed.

    • @imprezabob
      @imprezabob 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Your English is great! I think you meant to write "courage" though. Have a lovely day!

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      加油

    • @mengyangliang6388
      @mengyangliang6388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@imprezabob Haha. Thanks for pointing out. Probably got typing too quick and auto-corrected by iPhone. Luckily TH-cam allows me to re-edit it. : )

    • @mengyangliang6388
      @mengyangliang6388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yukiji9774 啊!得到了本尊的回复!好荣幸啊~真的好为你们开心~

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mengyangliang6388 哈哈,哪里,居然有人给我们很正门的评价是我们的荣幸。我都没打算入镜,因为毕竟是采访黑人。我老公拉我进来。其实大部分时间都是他在讲,片段就剪了我说话的那几个部分。可能大部分在中国都没有结婚,我的加入可以提过多一个角度吧。

  • @db2184
    @db2184 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The most important thing is to be able to separate yourself from others, and be at peace with what you are or what you are becoming. Having an unbreakable inner peace within yourself is the greatest thing you can offer others. Also, accepting people who are different while not compromising your security and peace within yourself because there are many who have done the same for you.

  • @s1050
    @s1050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    Girl at 3:20 is so true. China is actually very diverse. Before I lived in China, I didn’t know that there are 56 different ethnicities with their own culture and customs. Not to mention there are so many foreigners in the big cities. It’s a great place to live. Don’t listen to the negative media it’s all politics against a successful socialist country. Although the driving is crazy and the traditional toilets aren’t pretty 🤣🤣 Having said that I feel sorry for the guy at 10:25 it’s so sad his Chinese in-laws are essentially racists. I think the older generation needs to be more educated about foreigners and issues regarding racism.

    • @pinkcotton94
      @pinkcotton94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yes! I'm a Chinese Malaysian and because they're all so united as one Chinese nationality, most don't feel or understand about racism (when I have example how my country has 4 races etc). So I found a way to explain to them like, imagine Han people are discriminating against the Mongolians ethnicity, etc. And then they seem to understand oh there's a difference between race and nationality. The younger ones are more willing to listen and they're more exposed to international news as well, with the help of VPN.

    • @goodkanga2275
      @goodkanga2275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      long live communism

    • @benjaminsmith2287
      @benjaminsmith2287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is China really socialist?

    • @shuangwu8704
      @shuangwu8704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Just let the old generation die with time, being old in most of the situation is being uneducable.

    • @awesomesaucehak
      @awesomesaucehak 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@benjaminsmith2287 It's a capitalistic system with socialist features. As in the government will interfere if it does feel like there is a flaw.

  • @mydogisbailey
    @mydogisbailey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    “Where my mans hopped in a washing machine and came out Chinese” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @littledudefromacrossthestr5755
      @littledudefromacrossthestr5755 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Lol.... didn't u see the commercial?

    • @Octobre1986
      @Octobre1986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      That example is so misleading when you know the older Italian version where a white man turned black. It's a stupid advertisement in general.

    • @lbvg1013
      @lbvg1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@Octobre1986 yikes😬there's an Italian version?

    • @lbvg1013
      @lbvg1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@littledudefromacrossthestr5755 that advert was low, really low!

    • @Ray-gu2sd
      @Ray-gu2sd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      yup. as a Chinese, I apologize for such a stupid ignorance... it was plain stupidity from the company and the public

  • @bklyncrook
    @bklyncrook 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    It's great that the gentleman from South Africa put a perspective about how the central government in China doesn't like protest in general or big gathering of people about any thing political. So, therefore, it's not necessary people being generally anti-Black (not that there isn't any in China), but, just how the citizens have to operate things a bit more low key since they don't have the same Western ways and rights to assemble/protest.

    • @CannibaLouiST
      @CannibaLouiST 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The PRC is a modern government though, entirely Western style.

    • @amemusicvideo4512
      @amemusicvideo4512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Nominally Chinese people have the right to hold large-scale protests, but the premise is that they must apply to the police station and choose an address. But it's hard to say whether the application will pass, and the Chinese don't do it either. There are also many protests in China, but the media rarely reports it. Moreover, the way of protest in China is different from that in the West. Westerners will protest in the streets. It is impossible in China, you can go to the government gate. But if you go to the street to protest, let's not discuss whether the police will arrest you. People on the street would beat the protesters first. Because the Chinese also advocate freedom, but that is collective freedom. Protesting on the street affects traffic and affects the freedom of most people. So if someone protests on the street in China, even if the government and the police don't care, passersby will care. And if the people of the country know about it. That's even worse. Everyone will isolate these people and maybe fly over and beat the protesters.

    • @amemusicvideo4512
      @amemusicvideo4512 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There are also protests in China, but they usually take place in the square in front of the government.

    • @不服就干-w4l
      @不服就干-w4l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      When China centre government has something like a new law or new policy would affect normal people, it would been widely discussed and gathering opinions in public before implement. Or it would practise in some city first, then some province and finally implement in whole country.

    • @ohsehun6470
      @ohsehun6470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      chinese version of protests is different, people dont organize a large crowd to go out onto the streets and protest. In china, collective good is advocated, so any protests usually happen on the internet.

  • @uncleroq
    @uncleroq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Being black, dark skinned, and African in China is the worst. They vividly described what it's like but I wish you also got some more African/ Caribbean blacks as well. Well done.
    China is a good country though. Had a lot of friends there.

  • @jcjr.2140
    @jcjr.2140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I wish I can read the African-American/Chinese couple’s mind when they speak on how they met and how their relationship came about. Their facial expressions are hilarious.

    • @estelaangeles2346
      @estelaangeles2346 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its been confirmed china and india will start an apocalypse

    • @ilmoon7252
      @ilmoon7252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@estelaangeles2346 原来你就是预言家呀😅

    • @cooldriver7236
      @cooldriver7236 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@estelaangeles2346 where is the research? Lol

    • @Linkx16
      @Linkx16 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s actually gross

    • @pinklenny5860
      @pinklenny5860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Linkx16 ?

  • @lbvg1013
    @lbvg1013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    Shout out to my mans from Johannesburg South Africa 🇿🇦, ❤️❤️❤️

    • @mcebomaziya3299
      @mcebomaziya3299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks my man 🙏

    • @thandisilec835
      @thandisilec835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mcebomaziya3299 oh my it’s you! I’d subscribe to your channel, you seem sussed😊

    • @ConanBayBay1738
      @ConanBayBay1738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mcebomaziya3299 so glad they didn't deport you😂🤣.

    • @morairskosana
      @morairskosana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mcebomaziya3299 sending love from Sandton 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦😭😭😭😭

    • @kenshix7902
      @kenshix7902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mcebomaziya3299 VIVA MZANSI VIVA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🤙🏽🙏🏽🔥🔥🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @indiraconnolly2889
    @indiraconnolly2889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I want to be friends with all of the people you interviewed in this video. They seem super interesting, well-spoken, globally-minded and worldly. Wish I could also sit down, have a coffee with them and listen to their stories.

    • @Aikunle78
      @Aikunle78 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The guy with the Africa Toto T-Shirt was super cool

    • @sarahlee8985
      @sarahlee8985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Aikunle78 feel the same 🤝!

    • @bluedreams209
      @bluedreams209 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I wish I was rich enough to visit each one of them I would

  • @drewbranch7700
    @drewbranch7700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “Don’t deport me”,he so reminds me of my cousin in South Africa and his sense of humor.

  • @ch3rrikiss
    @ch3rrikiss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    This interview has further fueled a desire to visit China. When I visit it will be for business reasons primarily, though I can't wait to dive into true Chinese culture instead of only learning through the lens of a western country

    • @low_etc
      @low_etc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      It is very different from what you hear from the media, I've been there a few times and it totally changed my impression.

    • @binteliya9598
      @binteliya9598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I like what you say about “lens”😹Actually Chinese media also has some kind of lens toward western countries, so the best way to know another country or culture is to experience on our own, instead of through social media.

    • @nailchronicleswithchitchat4455
      @nailchronicleswithchitchat4455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      One of the best experiences I've had. Not everything was great, but I needed the experience to view from another "lens."

    • @dominoaffabatelal6731
      @dominoaffabatelal6731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      China very best.

    • @youmemeyou
      @youmemeyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You will have a shock. If you're from the U.S., prepare to have more shock because what the western MSM shows is completely different from reality.

  • @mansoormajeed5041
    @mansoormajeed5041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I’m a South Indian living in china for last 14 years. I’m just used of people calling me African or black. I don’t care. I just tell them, yeah BLACK is a color. Just like your hair color.

    • @exerciseisantidote9337
      @exerciseisantidote9337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I like that

    • @winterybanana
      @winterybanana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I don't know, in the west it's super politically incorrect to mention the skin color but in China is normal to refer to it. Chinese people will call themselves yellow and refer to themselves as "too black (tan)" since they'd like to have lighter skin.

    • @bekindandpolite2158
      @bekindandpolite2158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      south indians do have black skin but that makes them more beautiful compared to other indians

    • @ghostlym856
      @ghostlym856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry that if you feel offended, because of many reasons (internet wall, stuff etc.) people aren't that connected to the world outside of China so the stereotype like black people are all Africans, Africans are all tall, strong and good at basketball kept them thinking like this. But from my experience there are no acts when people just started attacking foreigners just because they are from other countries.
      Sorry for my poor explanation, I just wanna tell you that people aren't trying to be mean. Hope you had and keep having a good time in China

    • @xianghaowang981
      @xianghaowang981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@winterybanana I am Chinese. I think it’s probably because Chinese do not care the skin color, age, weight except looking for a boy or girl friend.these properties do not affect how Chinese view others. So, it is quite normal to talk skin color, age, weight as long as you do not mean to humilate them.

  • @JeanPaulBeaubier
    @JeanPaulBeaubier 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    It's interesting that the immediate association for Chinese people toward black people is African countries' culture. It makes sense because China is closer to Africa, but it just reminds me as a Western viewer how much our view is from a perspective of interacting largely with African diaspora/black American populations

    • @tc2334
      @tc2334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Yeah, most black people in China are actually from Africa. Black people from the diaspora are a minority of a minority here.

    • @fannybirot2362
      @fannybirot2362 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Because black people are originally from Africa. Just like an America born asian people will still be considered as asian in chinese peoole's eyes.

    • @eyeofthetiger6002
      @eyeofthetiger6002 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@tc2334 there's even a little Africa in Guangzhou. Not surprising really since the CCP has placed relationships with African countries as a priority as evidenced by the thousands of schlorships on offer to African students each year.

    • @tc2334
      @tc2334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@eyeofthetiger6002 Yep. The neighborhood is called Xiaobei. Went there last month. I saw not only Africans but quite a few mixed African and Chinese kids.

    • @feliz2892
      @feliz2892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your view is not a Western view it's an american one.

  • @wyntersteele1a
    @wyntersteele1a 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I thoroughly enjoyed this interview. Each person has an interesting take on their experiences in China. They show that you can enjoy a place despite being different. For the most part, they each looked at ease with their situations.

  • @LKelz
    @LKelz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    The girl in the flower dress is so whole some I love her attitude

    • @christina.T1690
      @christina.T1690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes! Flower dress girl, thank you for inspiring us with your manifestation of inner beauty!

  • @jordanleopold93
    @jordanleopold93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Great interviews! I'm a Black man in USA and I've always been interested in hearing people's experience living in very homogeneous places around the world. I've considered leaving the states, so hearing these conversations are really insightful!

    • @lordblazer
      @lordblazer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I use to live in Japan..... hmmm, it is a step up from the racism in the US.... but then because you're a foreigner it's harder to have mobility in places like Japan.
      I would say being Black in Singapore is much better, but Singapore is a multicultural society so it doesn't answer your question.

    • @bbukutan5375
      @bbukutan5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      China is multiracial and multi cultural country

  • @Mar-tm7tc
    @Mar-tm7tc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    “I’m afraid ppl were gonna stare” *literally everyone in the background staring as they walk by” 😭

    • @JohnPierre-lz6vb
      @JohnPierre-lz6vb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Being stared at is a every day thing when you're black. Wherever you are. Except in a mostly black country.

    • @donderstorm1845
      @donderstorm1845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      well they're being interviewed with camera and everything.

    • @landmerry_6742
      @landmerry_6742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      But it's an interview! Means yr going to be on media. Lots of people in China think that's a big thing, I'd stare too if I saw this

    • @adamzz9908
      @adamzz9908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@landmerry_6742 I mean it’s normal for Chinese people to stare at foreigners and I can understand that. China is a very populous country with very few percentage of foreigners. As a black man who lived in in China since 2016 I’ve met many Chinese people most of whom it was their first time talking with a black man. So I can understand the curiosity in there

    • @ghostlym856
      @ghostlym856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Check other vids, people just naturally look at ppl whos in a interview beside the street

  • @anthonyb7571
    @anthonyb7571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm getting cultured and educated just from watching this video... Thank you for posting!

  • @大圣空手插
    @大圣空手插 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I am from Shenzhen, China. I had a black English teacher back in high school in 2006. I remember he was quite popular among students because a lot of Chinese would relate black people to NBA players who are so popular in China. But I also know there has been a lot of criticism about black guys that they disappear after having a baby with Chinese women. So, I feel like that lady's mom might have connected that to her husband.

    • @wyuan7601
      @wyuan7601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I also have a black teacher When I was six years old. He's really a good person and he gave me my English name.嗨,我来自天津。

    • @quaithom3138
      @quaithom3138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Ok, but it's been 8 years now. How about getting to know your daughters HUSBAND as a person?

    • @Makena091
      @Makena091 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      connected for 8 years??

    • @venturecici1393
      @venturecici1393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@quaithom3138 well he did say that he has meals & attends small family events with her.

    • @MichouThe
      @MichouThe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Chinese men do the same thing in Africa so

  • @philipway2469
    @philipway2469 3 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Listen! Those Chinese commercials literally violated. I am Chinese and I have seen the cleanest and wealthiest black people! It is not surprising to experience ignorance in a culturally homogeneous society. It might take generations to change, if it ever does. However, I am not against innocent/genuine interest and curiosity. It is okay to ask questions (even to just clarify some stereotypes you see on TV) and apologize if someone is offended. It is part of the learning experience and I would never miss out on that education opportunity. But you may NEVER touch someone's skin or hair, that's just cringe worthy.

    • @ruili96
      @ruili96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Listen! China is not a politically correct society like USA where everyone is offended by everything. The commercials are jokes that chinese consumers find funny that is all. Nothing nasty is implied in them. Stop using your Western lense to judge non westerners.

    • @lansoprazole2481
      @lansoprazole2481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      The worst part is Chinese did not even realise it might be offensive just because they think it is funny. I'm Chinese, and I find it really inappropriate. And yes, touching someone else's skin and hair is due to the absence of sense for boundaries, and it is also an improper thing to do.

    • @ruili96
      @ruili96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lansoprazole2481 are you Chinese Chinese or Chinese American? If the latter, please do not speak on behalf of Chinese Chinese.

    • @lansoprazole2481
      @lansoprazole2481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@ruili96 Chinese Chinese, born and raised in ShaanXi province, I do believe Chinese actually mean no harm when they created the commercial, but if the people from the ethnicity group feel it is inappropriate, then the content should be more carefully considered before it goes public

    • @ruili96
      @ruili96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lansoprazole2481 the problem with your approach which is the Western approach is there will always be people offended by whatever you say and so you eventually arrive at a point where you are fearful to say anything lest it causes offense to anyone. If you find something offensive, my suggestion is just not to watch it.

  • @rsiow2
    @rsiow2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Racism in China comes from a place of curiosity or ignorance
    Racism in the West comes with heavy baggage of slavery, colonialism and state sanctioned segregation
    I understand why people might be touchy about it, but I hope you will also realise that racism is not the same everywhere and that we have no history of systematically denying people because of race. Simply put, why have a Black History Month when you have no cruel history to remember?

    • @kiamichelleee.
      @kiamichelleee. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      When we celebrate Black History Month we look at the people who’ve paved the way.

    • @oshk6982
      @oshk6982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Actually, I think it’s more than that. There is a hierarchy in China too in regards to black is less beautiful and/or poc in general are second class to white people.Secondly, you could say racism is different everywhere but you can’t deny there are bold forms of discrimination which adds to a social problem.This was said to be a colonial consequence of western powers but the mindset still exists, though things are rapidly changing.

    • @MrTurtleThief
      @MrTurtleThief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly, well put. Ironically, it seems that because Western countries have that history of oppressing Black people, we're more likely to discuss those issue. While, countries without that history dont see that need. So it comes to a situation where Western countries have a mostly tolerant population with KNOWINGLY racist people, and the other countries having a population that is ignorant of groups they have not met outside of media or news.
      That being said, the only thing that really matters is if there are roadblocks to bettering yourself financially based on race, because that is what keeps black people marginalized

    • @saeefa
      @saeefa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You should look up Uighur Muslims and see whats happening to them, will be shocked

    • @MrTurtleThief
      @MrTurtleThief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@saeefa Im very aware, I was just focusing on black in particular. I'm interested how that will develop, with the governments past of blocking negative news from circulating

  • @jeffreychiu3730
    @jeffreychiu3730 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a Chinese, all love and respect!

  • @moniquecash
    @moniquecash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Being Black, African, and African American is very different, but I'm glad to hear from all of em.

    • @sea7544
      @sea7544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Do you mean being black American and African are different? Because most Africans are black

    • @nehcooahnait7827
      @nehcooahnait7827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sea7544 yeah keep believe in that lol. Many didn’t know they were ‘black’ when they left Kenya/Nigeria or other sub-Saharan regions for countries like the US.

    • @babsjob8729
      @babsjob8729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@nehcooahnait7827 what you said make no sense

    • @tylersmith8231
      @tylersmith8231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@nehcooahnait7827 when a cop pulls over a black man they arent asking if he is African or african american. We are all black and thus a seen as a threat. Dont mistake ethnicity for race.

    • @chanelnyika965
      @chanelnyika965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tylersmith8231 in America

  • @megamor5838
    @megamor5838 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    I love how in other countries, they tell you that “you can’t come in” the club, yet you playing black songs. Backwards. 🤣

    • @林永超-k9v
      @林永超-k9v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      that's probably they used to have black ppl misbehaving in their club, i guess.

    • @daffaaristo5933
      @daffaaristo5933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Where?

    • @venusbby
      @venusbby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Pls jus say South Korea

    • @venusbby
      @venusbby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      @@林永超-k9v no, it's about the standard of beauty and racism

    • @slslbbn4096
      @slslbbn4096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Some asians have this stereotyped image of crime-loving undisciplined black people based on American tv and dramas and biased news coverage on Fox/NYT etc

  • @elimlinrr6898
    @elimlinrr6898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Stereotypes against black people, stereotypes against Africa, stereotypes against Mexicans, and South Americans, stereotypes against Russians, against Chinese can be found on TV and Hollywood movies before the internet era during the entire 20th century. Anyone who watch James Bond movies from the 60s to 70s to 80s and 90s can see how western movies and media portray non western countries. I grew up thinking Russians are baddies because they are always portrayed as villains. The internet is a powerful tool to break all these stereotypes.

  • @BarbieYunch
    @BarbieYunch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a black South African woman living in China for 3 years now. Personally speaking, China is the hardest place to be black that I’ve ever been to. Good to see others having a better time than me. I’m living soon.

  • @zzzaaannnn
    @zzzaaannnn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    they're all models or something? omg they're all so good looking

    • @ammanite
      @ammanite 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      For real, I noticed the same thing lol

    • @penguinpenguin4058
      @penguinpenguin4058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The girl at 3:26 truly looks like a model, stunning.

    • @iorilamia
      @iorilamia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Black peoples are generally beautiful

  • @TheAutoKite
    @TheAutoKite 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Thank you for sharing such great interview! As someone who grow up over there and moved to the west, I completely understand how challenging it was to live in different culture such as China. You guys are warriors fighting an uphill battle. Just by being there and shining lights onto that “old world”. You are doing the right thing, making small steps for a bigger change. Good luck to y’all.

    • @richardlau2447
      @richardlau2447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Black is beautiful

    • @importedriceco
      @importedriceco 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmao the west is the Old world where all this racism originates from

    • @aoeu256
      @aoeu256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Belltown Daisy What if your treated best in Cambodia? As nice as the people are, Khmer is barely spoken anywhere, opportunities are lacking, the language resources are poor. I am thinking Germany or Sweden is best for black people, since there is a tendency for black people there to have college degrees.

  • @damonstuff880
    @damonstuff880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm glad they just let them talk without too many questions.

  • @Tbonesteak23
    @Tbonesteak23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Admire your work. The biggest relevance that Asian boss is making with the China series is that it shows the world that Chinese people are just people, like everybody else. As a whole, they are not just brainwashed, poker-faced slaves, or hatefilled, insane warmongers, or fanatic, anti-materialist communists. They have merits, beliefs, desires, and flaws. They do things you hate them for and also things that bring tears to your eyes. Many times they would have reasonable, objective views while you also catch them with strong biases every now and then. At the end of the day, they are just people, busy-living people, lot of people, 1/5 of all the world's people, nothing less, nothing more. They are everything but the dull, lifeless, intimidating portrait that western media is trying to paint.

  • @l0vexnana
    @l0vexnana 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Omg yes to the comment @ 7:17 !!! When people go around saying Asians in Asia are anti-black, we forget that ALL of those stereotypes about black people ORIGINATE from AMERICAN MEDIA. The picture was NOT painted by Asians. I really feel for the teacher and I wish that couple the best

    • @brianforman4135
      @brianforman4135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      This is why I HATE AMERICA AND THE WEST. I will always say, I wish I could see how the earth would be like today if the wicked people of the west had "stayed in their lane".

    • @ongakira
      @ongakira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Brian Forman you mean white ppl? Black ppl sure as hell don’t mean to paint those stereotypes.

    • @brianforman4135
      @brianforman4135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ongakira Yeah.

    • @ongakira
      @ongakira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brianforman4135 then say white ppl. or better yet, non black people.

    • @MacMac0710
      @MacMac0710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ongakira why 'non black people'? East asians and south asians don't influence the image portrayed of black people from the US.

  • @fengfanz5827
    @fengfanz5827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Hi guys, being black is beautiful and powerful. Thank you for this powerful street interview video. I will hit shanghai next, hopefully, I will meet some of you and maybe even hang out together!

    • @semiramisubw4864
      @semiramisubw4864 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      good luck with that!

    • @glenoneill3950
      @glenoneill3950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      BEING "BLACK" IS BEAUTIFUL AND POWERFUL ?........DOES ONE NEED TO BE "BLACK" TO KNOW BEAUTY AND POWER ?.........ENLIGHTEN ME.....BLESSINGS.

    • @dstar9016
      @dstar9016 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@glenoneill3950 your taking her statement out of context in her "imo" being black is beautiful and powerful. She didn't say it was the only way or is to be powerful or beautiful. In her sense it is

    • @glenoneill3950
      @glenoneill3950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dstar9016 I KNOW WHAT SHE SAYING, AND I HAVE SEEN SIMILAR COMMENTS FROM OTHERS. I HAVE A FEELING THAT MANY OF THESE COMMENTS COME FROM A PLACE OF INSECURITY, TO BOLSTER ONE'S SELF ESTEEM. THE VERY TITLE OF THIS VLOG IN MY OPINION IS BASED ON THE INSECURITIES THAT MANY AFRO PEOPLE HAVE WITHIN THEMSELVES. NEVER FULLY COMFORTABLE IN THEIR SKIN. MY ADVICE TO AFRO PEOPLE DONT BE "BLACK" ANYWHERE.....JUST BE. BLESSINGS.

  • @kky-jd3xj
    @kky-jd3xj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Thank you for the insightful interview, I like how you weren't afraid to talk about the negative reality but also bring up the good stuff as well. The people in this video were very brave for moving to a completely different culture on their own. China is still a developing country and I hope that as we become more modern and international, we can become more accepting of all kinds of people as well.

    • @Ken-qk1jj
      @Ken-qk1jj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      China is a self proclaimed 'developing nation' which give it trade benefits as well as others.

    • @weizhang2834
      @weizhang2834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Please don’t bring Politics into China, we want a peaceful society. No

    • @kky-jd3xj
      @kky-jd3xj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@weizhang2834 Where did i mention politics in my comment

    • @jacksonrj14
      @jacksonrj14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Name-jw4sj
      The Black Lives Matter Movement is the largest political movement in the United States. Despite tensions between countries, there is considerable support from the Asian community for the death of George Floyd. The Black Community also supports protests against Asian hatred. Furthermore, if you are not interested in this subject, you can leave this channel.

    • @psssssyduck
      @psssssyduck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Ken-qk1jj well GDP per capita even of the richest city(Beijing, Shanghai) is less than half of the lowest one(Mississippi) in US. Look it up man Google is banned at your place as well? SMH

  • @AlphaEarth
    @AlphaEarth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic and fascinating video, but the conclusion 19:06 ... wow! It was such a beautiful, moving statement to end this video on. Thank you.

  • @Chen-wm5xr
    @Chen-wm5xr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Racial discrimination exists in every country, but the Chinese will not attack foreigners on the street. On the contrary, countries that call for racial equality all day long attack not only verbal but even physical attacks on Asians.

    • @alan.92
      @alan.92 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch out. The melanated will start attacking you and call you racist.

    • @karankapoor2701
      @karankapoor2701 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@alan.92 dude as an Asian most black people attacks Asian's fyi 😂

    • @alan.92
      @alan.92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@karankapoor2701 Yeah I know, that was my point. They’ll gang up on you call you racist instead of debating like a civilized person.

    • @xiurongzhang7044
      @xiurongzhang7044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's America who've attacks, as a chinese. Most chinese won't attacks others.

    • @o.g.millennials
      @o.g.millennials 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@karankapoor2701 You deserve it.

  • @stepahead5944
    @stepahead5944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    To be fair, Shanghai can be a completely different experience from much of mainland China. The locals seem more accustomed to foreigners-- it's most obvious with Chinese tourist coming in to the city or in other areas.
    Is there racism and anti-blackness in China? Yes. But that's not the full story. The experience is much more nuanced and layered than that. This isn't something executed by every individual. But it's a disservice to reality to make excuses ('its just ignorance/ curiosity' etc). There are many who genuinely are hospitable, kind, and don't intentionally discriminate by race. This being said, even the most well-intentioned can still carry out microaggressions or box people into stereotypes. Once you've lived the experience you'll be able to truly understand.

    • @BMB57
      @BMB57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You just gave a long-winded explanation of racism in almost every country.

    • @thisischaniece
      @thisischaniece 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yup that is for sure! It's a little complicated, but I am definitely over people calling it ignorant--which makes it seem innocent and harmless.

    • @3mKay
      @3mKay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      that is same in every country, more so in homogenous countries. Even in S Korea or Japan, being fair skin is still seen in better light than dark skinned, because you look closer to what the natives' look. Like white and slight yellowish skin color isnt that much of a difference compare to black and slight yellowish. Even in my country, when 60% of the natives are brown coloured skin tone, you still could tell who is black and who is a foreigner, and i can tell that being a black is far harder than being a white here.
      This is just the way it is, do not expect to be treated like a local when you are a foreigner, much less if the looks are very different. Many societies are built around conformity, to break that, it takes mixing of cultures and people for centuries.

    • @thisisntsergio1352
      @thisisntsergio1352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're right, Shanghai has been exposed to more foreigners for a longer period of time than most of China (excluding Hong Kong). They're permeated by the diverse world and that has made them marginally more accepting to black people.

    • @tc2334
      @tc2334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thisisntsergio1352 Yeah. Shanghai is a total outlier.

  • @ashleykenny5135
    @ashleykenny5135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    WOW! so encouraging. These people have such beautiful stories and messages. Thank you for this incredible series

  • @yuanli101
    @yuanli101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m a Chinese now living abroad. I should say it’s impossible to not notice the difference of how people look like. Yet I won’t call this racialism which is not even a word we often talk about in China. Influenced by Hollywood movies and some overseas news, we feel afraid of strong black people who look rough sometimes, but that’s mostly out of not knowing well about you, but absolutely not because we feel you are a lower species. If you look decent and act decently, you will be respected.

    • @xavz_space9963
      @xavz_space9963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      what about them makes them look rough. you’re saying that black people should have to act a certain way just to make you feel safe around them and that ISNT racism?

  • @morgancharles253
    @morgancharles253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a black person living in China , I have definitely noticed that Chinese people are well informed about African countries etc, but with this knowledge they is mostly only 2 categories they put in if you are black it’s either you are African American or African. If you are American they will treat you like royalty and respect , but with the some how negative image of “what a black African American should based on the media”. And if you are an African then they will treat you low , wont really wanna get to know you as person but more about your country and the the animals you have in your country. They tend to compare “how great they country is then yours or things they have that your country don’t” which I honestly don’t know why but hey. Overall the people are kind at times and very helpful. It’s a good country to experience different cultures and open yourself up to know prospects and mind view of the World. I think mostly media only focuses on western views so it’s good to see how it is on the East too

  • @TitiniusAndronicus
    @TitiniusAndronicus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    Stereotyping means putting people into boxes. No liberated human spirit exists in any box.

    • @plumpus1634
      @plumpus1634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@trollolololololol2361 Change the name, then maybe people would fall for it more easily.

    • @trollolololololol2361
      @trollolololololol2361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@plumpus1634 You liked your own comment

    • @churblefurbles
      @churblefurbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must be a bad driver, defensive driving is exactly that, profiling.

    • @trollolololololol2361
      @trollolololololol2361 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@plumpus1634 my comment got deleted did you report it

    • @spicyroads
      @spicyroads 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A stereotype is just a prediction .

  • @invierna44
    @invierna44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the description they said about their being feeling isolated and discriminated make me feel i want to give them a hug when i’m in china

  • @arles1124
    @arles1124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    when I’m in primary school, when we tell our teacher (a white American) that we want to “go to Africa and see the black people”, he gently told us that no we’re not supposed to say that, and asked what would we feel if people say “I want to visit China and see the yellow people”. I remember we are all just so genuinely confused cause we can’t see what’s wrong with that, cause the people are black, and we are yellow, right? Should we feel anything? …Now when I studied in the US, I see why he said that, as I had experienced people pulling their eyes slant at me to mock my physical appearance, and other Asians get attacked on the streets because of their skin color. Ignorance is bliss. people’s skin color and physical appearance are different, and that’s fine at first, they are not politicalized in China, nor are they sensitive issues, but when it is demonstrated so repeatedly with mockery and malice, the concept becomes racist.

    • @awesomeirlable
      @awesomeirlable ปีที่แล้ว

      As a black person in America, I’m so sorry that you had to experience that and can unfortunately identify with the experiences you’ve mentioned here.
      While I’m glad that you were able to reflect upon those experiences in respect to the nature of racism, it hurts to see the degree of dehumanization a lot of racialized people have to deal with both in the US and elsewhere

  • @kevindst
    @kevindst 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Great interview, hope humans can treat each other according to their souls rather than appearances, wealth, etc.

    • @Ahn9358
      @Ahn9358 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Choi hong m

  • @MichaelAngztek
    @MichaelAngztek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I appreciate the wide variety of Black visitors who want to experience the real Chinese culture. More humans in general need to expand their paradigm and think outside negative or stigmatizing predetermined cultural stereotypes.

  • @share_accidental
    @share_accidental 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    as a singaporean, i would be interested to see a singapore version of this video!

    • @BigHeadAvenger
      @BigHeadAvenger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Check out Black Experience Japan. They have videos about the Black experience in Singapore.

    • @itsOVER9999
      @itsOVER9999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      tbh i more interested see philippines version after lot racial insults from pinoy netizen to miss canada because shes black

    • @venusbby
      @venusbby 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think Black Experience in Japan has such a video

  • @l3luel3xus
    @l3luel3xus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    16:20 that touched my soul
    This guy is a great dude, I could just see it.

  • @moirazzz2255
    @moirazzz2255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I really want to encourage that teacher who faced job discrimination. I had 5 foreign teachers in uni, two back, two white, and one Asian. The two black teachers were my favorite teachers of all time.

  • @xeelaxiu9039
    @xeelaxiu9039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    why do I love these people so much just from an interview

  • @NuGundam_
    @NuGundam_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    The couple faces a lot of hardships with family. I wish them the best! 👍🏿

    • @yukiji9774
      @yukiji9774 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you

    • @marquesdunn4934
      @marquesdunn4934 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yukiji9774 it's good to see this....real love doesn't care about skin color or money..it's upsetting that the mother in law has a poisoned mentality but the only thing that should really matter is you and her...Best of luck to you both

  • @yukiji9774
    @yukiji9774 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    we were in this interview 2 years ago, just want to give you a quick update, our baby boy was born last year, we have a cute mix baby now

  • @jennysmith8252
    @jennysmith8252 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The married couple were very interesting and telling, especially when the wife explained that when she first met her Husband, it was out of curiosity as she has always enjoyed hip hop and loved the way that “black people dressed and danced, and because of this, they were able to open up to a full and loving connection. We all have biases, it’s learning not to allow the biases to rule our minds or hearts and instead, open up to our curiosities instead…then we will make connections in the most purist of forms….imho….

  • @MarkWyche
    @MarkWyche 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Great piece, Asian Boss! 0:10 - Thank you for incorporating consistency in this topic across Japan, Korea and China. It’s much easier to get a sense of the commonalities and differences between each place for the foreigners living in them.
    Peace and love (from Japan) to all of the beautiful black people in Shanghai and all across China. You all are very dynamic and interesting. Thanks for your perspectives and energy that conveyed a real sense of the black experience in Shanghai. I hope to visit someday soon.

  • @thisisntsergio1352
    @thisisntsergio1352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "The toothpaste commercial where my mans hopped in the laundry machine and came out Chinese" lmfaoooooo