Why did my marriage end when Istikhara was positive? - Mufti Menk

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  • @hodaelkhayder3420
    @hodaelkhayder3420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Happens this week : I am interested in a guy that we want each other for marriage, I decided to accept so I prayed istikhara.
    He is so respectful and kind.
    .. I sent a message asking if we will have a call (I was planning to invite him for a brunch so we talk about our future)
    He answered me with the most unexpected answer.. he was so angry at me because for him he will call me when he wants .. he said you shouldn’t insist to have our call today.. and he overreacted for no reason
    ==> this happened for the very first time because usually even when he is stressed he still pay attention to his words.
    I took that as a sign that I should step back, I feel relieved because I prayed istikhara before calling him.
    The situation makes me feel disappointed because I wanted him .. but now I no longer do
    Hamduallah 🙏🏽

    • @Whatever-t9s
      @Whatever-t9s ปีที่แล้ว +8

      We all react to things differently- this is why it's important to get to know somebody-
      Unfortunately some people that anger issues and because they r NOT deal with , after marraige it gets worse- some people are better single than living with someone who can't manage their stress and is violent. TRUST YOUR INSTINCS PLEASE they are from our Guardians

    • @floralrime2851
      @floralrime2851 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep inspiring!

    • @Kal-el087
      @Kal-el087 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      MashaAllah the exact same thing happened to me with a girl. May Allah reward us both in this calamity and replace it with better.

    • @srujani5531
      @srujani5531 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same happened my engagement cancelled, he overthinks, he list me still, insist me to write gre, no pets, etctec. Finally he canceled marriage 😔. Very painful, even I'm not ready for seperation,

  • @afnankhalil3346
    @afnankhalil3346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    Today after 8 years I got answer why my marriage did not work even the istakhara was positive ... May Allah bless you always mufti, here and here after Amen

    • @HaiderSSyed
      @HaiderSSyed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      In my humble opinion, some marriages don’t work out even if the istakhara was positive cause of a shift or change in deeds thereby incurring the wrath/anger of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala. For example if the guy in the relationship before getting married was consistent in his good deeds and after getting married he did something foolish and committed a sin after which he didn’t repent on.

    • @Qundeel97
      @Qundeel97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @Adam Bin Bob you are right I have experienced 3 and half years of tough relationship which changed me completely I become more patient and feel a different sense of strength and calmness... I get that point I am in a process of making a new better version of me and the most important thing which I have learnt that whole reliance on Allah I don't expect anything from my spouse or other relatives but if Allah wills... This is an amazing feeling of detachment 💜

    • @Qundeel97
      @Qundeel97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @Adam Bin Bob Jazak Allah o Khaira sis yes definitely mistakes teach us life-lessons...

    • @ruthstanton471
      @ruthstanton471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi, I speak very little English, could you tell me what he said? Please 🙏🏻

    • @capguy1631
      @capguy1631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      After 3 yrs I got to know why my last job didn’t work for me even though the istikhara was positive.
      But releasing me from earlier job was made difficult by employer so may be I should have understood this sign and stopped joining new company

  • @khanapakanarecipes
    @khanapakanarecipes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you.
    And Allah Knows, while you know not.
    (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:216)

  • @rashidah9526
    @rashidah9526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    I prayed Istikhara in full after Fajr on the day of an interview for a job promotion in June. The morning of my interview, my work had network problems so I had to conduct the disaster interview on a tiny cellphone and I could barely read the questions. I failed the interview and I am still trying to let go. I keep reminding myself that it wasn’t bad luck but in fact, it was Allah’s decree following the Isthikhara. I desperately needed this reminder today. JazakAllah Mufti Menk.

    • @AliAhsanJoji
      @AliAhsanJoji 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamu Alaikum ! Please tell me that how can we say that our Istekhara is Positive ? What is the symbol of Positive or Negative Istekhara ??

    • @kabirrubaiyat
      @kabirrubaiyat ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The same kind of thing happened to me with my job. I was hired on a contract basis, and wasn't hired back for the most ridiculous and inane reason. It was really hard to let go at the time, and I was depressed for a while, because it seemed to me to be the ideal job for me, but Allah Knows, and I don't know...

    • @kabirrubaiyat
      @kabirrubaiyat ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AliAhsanJoji things will get easier for you: doors will open up and things will start to work in your favor. I've experienced its miracle (or rather Allah's miracles...)

  • @minarokadia3605
    @minarokadia3605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Mufti menk plz make dua for my daughters mother in law she is also my younger sister detected of lung cancer only 10 day ago a very good religious lady we need her May Allah have mercy on us Ameen

    • @RukhShariq
      @RukhShariq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      May Allah give her shiffa. Why did you have to say my daughter's mother in law when sh is your sister🤔

    • @skcookbook1750
      @skcookbook1750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen

    • @Musalia94
      @Musalia94 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RukhShariq Cousins probably tangle the family web so it's out of habit for her.

    • @Shorts.HeartfeltMoments
      @Shorts.HeartfeltMoments 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praying for your sister! 🤲🏼. Be strong !She needs your strength!

    • @aaliaabuzar42
      @aaliaabuzar42 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ameen

  • @meherfatima5257
    @meherfatima5257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    MaShahAllah, this speech made my thinking more wider, we should never limit our thinking just because something didn’t go our way. Thank you so much for explaining this issue, Jazakallah khair. May Allah have mercy on all of us Ameen and we be guided on the right path.

    • @afreenafreen6390
      @afreenafreen6390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Meher Fatima Ameen . Summa Ameen

    • @meherfatima5257
      @meherfatima5257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@afreenafreen6390 Ameen Suma Ameen

    • @AliAhsanJoji
      @AliAhsanJoji 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@afreenafreen6390 Assalamu Alaikum ! Please tell me that how can we say that our Istekhara is Positive ? What is the symbol of Positive or Negative Istekhara ??

    • @AliAhsanJoji
      @AliAhsanJoji 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meherfatima5257 Assalamu Alaikum ! Please tell me that how can we say that our Istekhara is Positive ? What is the symbol of Positive or Negative Istekhara ??

  • @samranmushtaq7408
    @samranmushtaq7408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    You've lifted a heavy burden off my chest. I was struggling for the right answer and now your explanation has made things easier for me. MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU. Ameen

    • @AliAhsanJoji
      @AliAhsanJoji 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamu Alaikum ! Please tell me that how can we say that our Istekhara is Positive ? What is the symbol of Positive or Negative Istekhara ??

  • @mohamedadhil7301
    @mohamedadhil7301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I've grown up without my mother unfortunately she was passed away when im at 1 yr. Now i got engaged alhamdulillah facing some issues with my own self. And please make dua for get success in my wedding life. Ameen

    • @rayblox4859
      @rayblox4859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If ur was alive u would have so many complaints. Just move on, let her rest.

    • @Whatever-t9s
      @Whatever-t9s ปีที่แล้ว

      Extremely sorry to hear about your circumstance. Every mother loves her children. Grief is different for everyone. She is still your mother and NOBODY can take that away from you. - feed homeless/ poor person/ any hungry person in her name- will help her tremendously wherever she is. The POWER of sadaqah/ charity is enormous must never be underestimated even buying someone coffee for £2 in somebodies name.
      It's okay to feel hurt confused and vunerable- we are also humans- so we feel things.
      Any issue that you have emotionally, spiritually mentally can be cured 100%. Eat heathily, stay away from drugs alcohol too much fizzy drink, so called energy drinks. When u look after YOURSELF will effect your thinking- you will attract Good people into your life.
      Amazing things happening your way- get READY.
      You deserve to be at Peace, you deserve to be happy and well.

    • @Rafay2025
      @Rafay2025 ปีที่แล้ว

      Believe in Allah

    • @adambz9633
      @adambz9633 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro..howbare u doing now.. did u get married to the same person? Hope u are happy with your life Aamin

    • @Adelina24244
      @Adelina24244 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rayblox4859how do you know she would have so many complaints?? Why are you being insensitive with her SubhanAllah maybe you have bad relationship with your mom don’t project negative thoughts. I can’t imagine not knowing my mom after the age of one years old try to be sensitive subhanAllah

  • @akhtharbawazeer3073
    @akhtharbawazeer3073 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Subhanallah… May ALLAH Azzawajal make it easy for all of us… Ameen Summameen

  • @bustermustaffa6594
    @bustermustaffa6594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Salaam mufti menk may Allah swt bless you in abundance for the knowledge that you share.
    You have helped me embrace my Deen subanallah.
    You are a true blessing from Allah swt.

  • @shreyahehe1244
    @shreyahehe1244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Mufti menk please make dua for me I love this one guy I want to marry him he’s my love of my life . Please everyone make dua for me so that it become truee May Allah bless us

    • @leenaqureshi7675
      @leenaqureshi7675 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ameen, i hope u do marry the person u love. Please please please stay away from haram relationship tho. Its only gonna hurt u..

    • @leenaqureshi7675
      @leenaqureshi7675 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well this was 3 years ago, i would love an update

  • @muslimah1850
    @muslimah1850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Subhan Allah I heard this today and it really helped me understand the real meaning of istakhara. There is an answer for everything we need to know in Islam, we just need to search for it. If we seek Allah helps us to discover, Alhamdullilah for scholars like Mufti Menk and others. May Allah protect them in this life, and reward them in the hereafter. Ameen 🙏

  • @awestan3598
    @awestan3598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Sheikh May allah bless you! All ways got blocked in my marriage.. after my istikhara prayer.. you helped me alot with this video❤️ may you life a long healty life to give us talkes like this 🤲🏻

  • @tasnuvazarinmou9827
    @tasnuvazarinmou9827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    my marriage is on the verge of breaking. I got the man after so many prayers,so much tears.now It's almost going apart. I had prayed ishtikhara. The signs I'm getting are confusing. I do not know what to do. putting everything on the Almighty. He is the best planner! I needed this video on this very situation of mine. it kind of relieved a lot of my questions!

    • @tasnuvazarinmou9827
      @tasnuvazarinmou9827 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @RAKZ TUBE walaikum salam🙂thank you so much for your concern and the suggestions 🙂 yes I'm trying to stay closer with Allah(swt). I believe that He has good plans for me.He is the rescuer. keep me in your prayers 🙂

    • @hawwazareena5877
      @hawwazareena5877 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      same

    • @madihajamal3928
      @madihajamal3928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am
      On the same boat. I married my husband after 12 years of struggles and duas now he left me just in a blink of an eye. Didn’t divorce me but left me alone... i am also confused i can understand your pain !!!!

    • @tasnuvazarinmou9827
      @tasnuvazarinmou9827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@madihajamal3928 may Allah erase your pain with better and peaceful days ahead 🙂 All we want from the men is just respect, rights of a wife and little care. but many of them just can't accept these and end up disrespecting, taking away the dignity and mistreating. may Allah give them hidayah!

    • @shaziaammar9400
      @shaziaammar9400 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May Allah make better asbaab for u sister.

  • @FarihaFerdous2007
    @FarihaFerdous2007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    May Allah bless and give happiness to our beloved prophet Muhammad PBUH the highest reward in jannah Ameen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bekind913
    @bekind913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    SubhanAllah now i know why. I always wondered why i suffered so much even after praying.

  • @kwen_axo2339
    @kwen_axo2339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    May Allah grants everyone the better spouse In sha Allah ❤️

  • @BeautyDrugsblog
    @BeautyDrugsblog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need unlimited prayers. May Allah make easiness in my life and accept my prayers. Ameen
    Ya Mujbeeo

  • @Rabia.Shakeel
    @Rabia.Shakeel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jazak ALLAH. You cleared my doubts. i was very confused as my Istikhara was positive but I suffered. But now I got the answer.

  • @mubarikwasky2128
    @mubarikwasky2128 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always is a wise words from mutt Menk.
    May Allah keep blessing him n his family with good healthy life

  • @faisalhakim17
    @faisalhakim17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May Allah bless Mufti Menk. Aamiinn

  • @syedrafia4221
    @syedrafia4221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My whole concept of istikhara changed, My God I was not aware of the right way of it , Thank you so much mufti for making it more clear , well explained the perfect explanation. Bless you

  • @S25ish
    @S25ish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    JazakAllah khairan brother Mufti. I needed to hear this because I have been doing istikhaarah for marriage. May Allah make it easy for everyone. Ameen

  • @jeniferjohnson374
    @jeniferjohnson374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    But families make marriages hard even if you choose a saint to marry because they think they are entitled to choose for you. And when they can’t choose for you they get angry and cause obstacles. They even throw judgments on you while you’re married when you go with the person THEY chose

    • @GDInspirations
      @GDInspirations 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This. My bff got married and they both fell for eachother after first meetings. The istikharas on both sided were positive but when she came to live with him she always cried, day and night. One day i got angry at her and asked the reason behind her behaviour since it was consuming her. And i found out that her family was manipulating her into breaking off her marriage. Her cousins were jealous and they would highlight the negative things, and always talk bad about her husband. This is really common with women.

    • @jeniferjohnson374
      @jeniferjohnson374 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Blue Bird aleykum salaam no I am currently very happily married. I’ve just been through family/spousal abuse. May Allah reward you.

    • @jeniferjohnson374
      @jeniferjohnson374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blue Bird if you’d use your brain for one second you’d see (I even wrote CURRENTLY), that it was past-so obviously remarried. You are so mean.

    • @jeniferjohnson374
      @jeniferjohnson374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blue Bird stop trolling for women on the internet. Meet someone local and quit trying to get a ticket to citizenship in another country

    • @jeniferjohnson374
      @jeniferjohnson374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GDInspirations see what I mean? Families can also tear ppl up out of jealousy when they see ppl who are actually happy! Be sure to support her and stand up for her if you see injustice.

  • @jamilakraftt6772
    @jamilakraftt6772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This helped me today thank you mufti i have gone through a divorce recently and am still only a new muslim but this gave me some understanding it thought me exceptance and peace of mind....

  • @ThePlatineist
    @ThePlatineist ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I did salaat al istikhara for my current marriage and I did al istikhara for divorce. Both are easy, and I did get closer to Allah SwT thanks to this process. Closer than I ever was. Not only that, I have healed things that I couldn't have healed otherwise spiritually, emotionally and even physically. Subhaanallah. Trust in Allah, let go of the outcome and wordly affairs. The one thing I learned is you don't need anything besides Allah SwT and whatever He has given us of His Bounty and Providence. Allahu Akbar.
    It is tough to be depressed over loss and it is natural to grieve over the end of a relationship, but if you grew closer to Allah and you feel the sweetness of imaan and that your heart is full of light from the remembrance of Allah SwT there is no greater gift. The Dunya becomes Heaven on Earth in those moments. Don't lose hope in your Lord. He has great things in store for you. If not here then in the akhira. Rabbana atina fi dunya hasanah wa fil akhirati hasana wa qinaa 'adhaba nar.
    This is mostly a reminder to myself.
    Edit: I didn't divorce, alhamdulillah. Allah SwT has kept me safe with my family.

    • @sehriiqbal7144
      @sehriiqbal7144 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah bless you with the happiness you deserve after all the hardships you've been through....Have a blessed & a happy life ahead Ameen Sum Ameen & In Shaa Allah

    • @ThePlatineist
      @ThePlatineist ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sehriiqbal7144 Jazaak Allah khair for you too

  • @alizaaksheikh
    @alizaaksheikh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I did pray that if my marriage breaks dont let this marriage happens, still im going through a lots of trials and not working out and I'm even doing istikharah after marriage

    • @alizaaksheikh
      @alizaaksheikh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@JahannamHellfire ooh I do alhumbarik

    • @hajraarbei2486
      @hajraarbei2486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@JahannamHellfire ur account name touched me...very true

    • @RukhShariq
      @RukhShariq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      May Allah Subhaana wa Tala help you make the right decision and you get to live the peaceful life. I jjst pray that no kids are involved

    • @alizaaksheikh
      @alizaaksheikh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RukhShariq no kids just 14 months of marriage

    • @adobeleague8234
      @adobeleague8234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@alizaaksheikh Pray tahajjud, make dua with full tawakul. Read Qur'an with meaning that makes your life completely change. And all your worries to. Automatically things go in direction. And last be good to him.
      If he's doing wrong, then don't show anger. Handle with patience. In Sha Allah one day he will get back to u and realise.
      By reading Qur'an with meaning Allah tallah showers his mercy on ur home and no shaitan enter in home.
      Allah is testing you need to pass.❤️

  • @mahnoorkhawaja7109
    @mahnoorkhawaja7109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just wish to meet mufti menk sir!❣❣
    In sha Allah one day

  • @nidajalil3302
    @nidajalil3302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're amazing.... Jazak Allah for answering my all questions only in 4 mins video ❤️

  • @shahidentertainment7006
    @shahidentertainment7006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As-salaam-u-alaikum..... My father has been paralyzed since 1 year.. I request to please make DUA for his recovery.....

    • @BeautyDrugsblog
      @BeautyDrugsblog 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lot of prayers for his speedy recovery. Ameen. Ya Salamoo

  • @Sorel366
    @Sorel366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The answer comes in any way Allah wants, including a dream or a strong feeling.

    • @fatimabah9593
      @fatimabah9593 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ohh for real it could be a great feeling toward who or what?

  • @kulsums.g6402
    @kulsums.g6402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Everytime I am to give up ,ur videos motivate me sooo much ...tq so much.

  • @syedmohamed4927
    @syedmohamed4927 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very well explained. Ur answer is like an arrow from its bow STRAIGHT TO ITS TARGET
    MashaAllah..

  • @akrambaig2689
    @akrambaig2689 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Im coming to end of my marriage my wife wants a divorce. May Allah save our marriage .

  • @sayedasharminsultanashumi3042
    @sayedasharminsultanashumi3042 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Now I get my answer... Thanks a lot....for this discussion

  • @EasyCookVLog84
    @EasyCookVLog84 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful sharing watch from england 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

  • @tazkiyahtoummache5690
    @tazkiyahtoummache5690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jazakallah khair Mufti, may Allah grant you jannatul firdaus this a dua i always make for u, Ameen

  • @MM-ox1gd
    @MM-ox1gd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It’s better to takes your time to finalizing ristha instead of depending on isthakra only

  • @sabanazim5
    @sabanazim5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alhamdulillah this one is really good. Yeaahh istikhara is positive but marriage may negative

  • @i.n.e.a6227
    @i.n.e.a6227 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't know why but whenever that part comes that if it is bad for me you've the power to make it right for me and remove all the obstacles/misery or whatever might be in it in this duniya and hereafter because you're the Almighty, the most powerful one...but still grant it to me! Idk if it will work or not 😔

  • @ilatariq1209
    @ilatariq1209 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I did istikhara 3-4 times, everything was going good but we separated.
    Please make Dua for me, may Allah make it easy for me...
    Aamin...

    • @AnshuMI2021
      @AnshuMI2021 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻

    • @_.Princess.__900
      @_.Princess.__900 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like marriage ya love mei??

  • @hxdan7074
    @hxdan7074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Please add the subtitles for everyone who might need to read the subtitles like me because I am deaf and I have no clue that what you talk about.

    • @salhatmugere265
      @salhatmugere265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      may allah make it easy for you

    • @Afreen-ol3le
      @Afreen-ol3le 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can add captions ..just click on the 3 dots

    • @hxdan7074
      @hxdan7074 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@salhatmugere265 Ameen

    • @hxdan7074
      @hxdan7074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Afreen-ol3le I can't because the subtitles are unavailable.

    • @tntt9313
      @tntt9313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mufti menk was talking about when people come up with the question that why I get devorced when my istekhara was positive. In the dua for istekhara we ask Allah to guide us which is better for our deen dunia and akhirat and not this whether my marriage will last forever. So even if you get a divorce maybe that would lead u to better person better deen and better akhirah. You ask Allah for what is better for u and also mufti menk mentioned that for the istekhara it is not necessary that you dream something as well.

  • @afric01
    @afric01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow you are so amazing Sheikh mufti menk. I was looking for that answer. Thank you so much!!! You are the best teacher. May Allah protect you. Jazakallahu kheir.

  • @reykiasafianou5564
    @reykiasafianou5564 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u so much Sheikh Mufti, i really enjoy with ur videos. May ALLAH Grant u Jannah Al- Firdaws
    اللهم آمين يارب العالمين🤲

  • @suellenbarbosa9157
    @suellenbarbosa9157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Marriage and something important, respect and sincerity always have to be there. If you come apart, I think things have to be clear, talk and the best option. And do not forget and leave the family without saying something.

  • @littlegems44
    @littlegems44 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Masha Allah,Mufti Menk jazakalogeiren for your crystal clear explanation. May Allah bless you in this life and the hereafter ameen. May Allah bless us all with afuw and afiyaa in this life and the next ameen ameen

  • @isahbala7833
    @isahbala7833 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha Allah may Allah reward you with jannah

  • @tuaehna6627
    @tuaehna6627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    JazakAllahu Khairan kaseera

  • @kamisahali4303
    @kamisahali4303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allah knows BEST....

  • @relaxationmode5317
    @relaxationmode5317 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Asalam o alikum , please pray for my marriage also , my motherinlaw is giving me alot of problems and she just wants to end our marriage .kindly pray for my successful marriage ❤

  • @DeadliciousCookingStudio
    @DeadliciousCookingStudio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Supplication after a gathering:
    How many times a day do you gather with someone, even if it’s just one friend or family member? How often do your conversations contain useless or excessive speech? What if there were one thing you could say that could ensure that the sins you commit in these gatherings could be forgiven?
    Even sitting down for a meal with one friend or with your spouse is a gathering, so memorize this dua and recite when you get up after concluding the gathering.
    سُبْحَانَكَ اللَّهُمَّ وَبِحَمْدِكَ أَشْهَدُ أَنْ لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ أَنْتَ أَسْتَغْفِرُكَ وَأَتُوبُ إِلَيْكَ
    'Subhanaka Allahumma wa bihamdika, ash-hadu al la ilaha illa Anta, astaghfiruka wa atubu ilaika (O Allah, You are free from every imperfection; praise be to You. I testify that there is no true god except You; I ask Your Pardon and turn to You in repentance),'

  • @mrsjawad5818
    @mrsjawad5818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May Allah Bless You. Really Love the way you deliver a positiveness alwys

  • @minafarhan709
    @minafarhan709 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jazak Allah khair fr ur guidance mufti Menk... your topics are really helpful

  • @sunehakhan1083
    @sunehakhan1083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Much love ❤
    Thank you so much for making deen much understandable for us 🤗🤗

    • @AliAhsanJoji
      @AliAhsanJoji 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamu Alaikum ! Please tell me that how can we say that our Istekhara is Positive ? What is the symbol of Positive or Negative Istekhara ??

  • @User_user4553
    @User_user4553 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some points for Heartcomfort💕. from Quran Put Your Trust In ALLAH 🤍Don’t despair from the mercy of ALLAH

  • @maryamgaj2215
    @maryamgaj2215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for enlightening on this topic.. i always was thought we would dream of something positive after Isthikhara.. jazakhallah may Allah ( swt) reward you Ameen

    • @AliAhsanJoji
      @AliAhsanJoji 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamu Alaikum ! Please tell me that how can we say that our Istekhara is Positive ? What is the symbol of Positive or Negative Istekhara ??

  • @ElifNurMuhammad
    @ElifNurMuhammad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely wonderful video, thanks for posting MashaAllah.
    AsSalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh

  • @adamsharkofficial
    @adamsharkofficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seeing Mufti Menk is always a pleasure 👍

  • @adijatsaka6965
    @adijatsaka6965 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakamullahu khairan for posting this video

  • @pigizmo
    @pigizmo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so helpful.
    Ask insightfully not for one purpose.

  • @ilmworld
    @ilmworld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Masha'Allah. May Allah bless you and guide all of us...

  • @reis9735
    @reis9735 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah ya shiekh .. you are a positive thinker

  • @FarihaFerdous2007
    @FarihaFerdous2007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🥱 yesterday the premier was during Fajr prayer and today at 2:00
    🥱🥱
    Anyways in Shaa Allah I'll watch it

    • @mtmic1992
      @mtmic1992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We should give our time to allah😁😁😁😁 at anytime.

    • @FarihaFerdous2007
      @FarihaFerdous2007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mtmic1992 I know
      I tried to wake up
      Tuesday I didn't fall asleep
      So yesterday I didn't sleep evening also
      And suddenly I slept
      Ugh I wanted to see the vidoe

    • @FarihaFerdous2007
      @FarihaFerdous2007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mtmic1992 I agreee

  • @khanapakanarecipes
    @khanapakanarecipes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.
    Surah Al-Baqarah 2:216

  • @Isyle989
    @Isyle989 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If ask Allah that 'if its good for me, than make it mine and if its not good for me then make them good and make it mine"

  • @ganihamisu8081
    @ganihamisu8081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blessing upon blessings may almighty Allah make it easy for everyone who is straggling on any case ameen thumma

  • @jagnaa_boy2325
    @jagnaa_boy2325 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u sheikh. I am really enjoying with ur best videos may Allah grant u with jannah. Amin

  • @uroobashahab8286
    @uroobashahab8286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a very useful video. I have asked this question many times to myself and other. I got my answers now. JazakAllah.
    Your topics are according to our generation issues and delivered in simple ways for all to understand 👍

  • @rosehussein4108
    @rosehussein4108 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Barek allaho fik mufti menk 🌹

  • @fathima9286
    @fathima9286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Assalamualikum warahmatuili wabarakaatu please make dua for me everyone now im in difficult situations I want my husband back last 4 years he is not with me because of some problems now its too hard time please make dua for me I will make dua for you all in sha Allah

    • @lexygeisar8303
      @lexygeisar8303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read baqara aya 102 many Times is for sihr of separation plus listen to ruqya for sihr of separation

    • @lexygeisar8303
      @lexygeisar8303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry Im in the same boat as you my husband just changed and started to isolate himself from me its been a year since i last saw. I miss and i love him. Ive tried to move on but i cant.

    • @fathima9286
      @fathima9286 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lexygeisar8303 so sad hear about this I know what is pain it very too hard I can understand me also same situation may Allah accept all ur good deeds prayes duas and may Allah make everything ezy for you ameen may Allah accept all ur halal wishes come true ameen ameen please keep me in ur prayers I never forget to make dua u Allah can make impossible to possible our only hope Allah so we have to fearm faith in almighty

    • @lexygeisar8303
      @lexygeisar8303 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @R Mia I knew him Quite long and even prayed istikhara but it is Allahs Will to Do What he wants with his creation

  • @Theallroundergirl
    @Theallroundergirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Got my confusion cleared! JazakAllah!

  • @najdasilva7099
    @najdasilva7099 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shukran Mufti Menk ❤

  • @ShweetAarasSpicess
    @ShweetAarasSpicess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This eye opener is so upsetting :( I always used to wonder why my marriage turned out to my disliking even after ishtekhara showed positive and things went so smooth.

  • @behumantoallfirst2620
    @behumantoallfirst2620 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    SubhanAllah you are our guiding light...
    May Allah Almighty bless you Aameen
    Jazakumullah khairan for the brilliant reminders and guidance.

  • @Cookinggvlogss
    @Cookinggvlogss 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    JAZAKALLAHA KHAIR MUFTI SAHAB ❤❤❤❤👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @stranger9328
    @stranger9328 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Do not make your houses graves, and do not make my grave a place of festivity. But invoke blessings on me, for your blessings reach me wherever you may be.
    اللهم صل وسلم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله، صلاة تكون لنا طريقاً لقربه، وتأكيداً لحبه، وباباً لجمعنا عليه، وهدية مقبولة بين يديه، وسلم وبارك كذلك أبداً، وارض عن آله وصحبه السعداء، واكسنا حُلل الرضا

  • @samihayakub5026
    @samihayakub5026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Such a sad moment! I can't leave the video but I have to..... Bcz it's "sleep" time😔

  • @moceo974
    @moceo974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SMALL DHIKR GREAT REWARD
    1)
    اللَّهُمَّ إنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ الْجَنَّةَ
    Allahuma inni as alukal jannah
    Meaning: Oh Allah, grant me Jannah
    Reward: say 3 times & Jannah itself will ask Allah to grant you Jannah (Al Tirmidhi 2572)
    2)
    سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ
    Subhaanallaahi wa bihamdihi
    Reward:
    And he who utters: `Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi (Allah is free from imperfection and His is the praise)’ one hundred times a day, his sins will be obliterated even if they are equal to the extent of the foam of the ocean.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
    3)
    بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الَّذِي لَا يَضُرُّ مَعَ اسْمِهِ شَيْءٌ فِي الَْأرْضِ وَلَا فِي السَّمَاءِ وَهُوَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
    Bismillaahil-lathee laa yadhurru ma'as-mihi shay'un fil-'ardhi wa laa fis-samaa'i wa Huwas-Samee 'ul- 'Aleem
    Reward: Recite 3 times. Whoever recites it in the morning will not be afflicted by any calamity before evening & whoever recites it in the evening will not be overtaken by any calamity before morning. (Abu Dawud 4/323, At-Tirmizi 5/465, Ibn Majah 2/332, Ahmad)
    4)
    حَسْبِيَ اللَّهُ لَآ إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ
    Hasbiyallaahu laa 'ilaaha 'illaa Huwa 'alayhi tawakkaltu wa Huwa Rabbul-'Arshil-'Adheem
    Reward: Allah will grant whoever recites this 7 times in the morning or evening whatever he desires from this world or the next. (Ibn As-Sunni (no. 71), Abu Dawud 4/321, Ibn As-Sunni. Quran 9:129)
    5)
    اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لَّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ
    Allaahumma Anta Rabbee laa ilaaha illaa Anta, khalaqtanee wa anaa 'abduka, wa anaa 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mas-tata'tu, a'oothu bika min sharri maa sana'tu, aboo'u laka bini'matika 'alayya, wa aboo'u bithanbee faghfir lee fa'innahu laa yaghfiruth-thunooba 'illaa Anta.
    Reward: Whoever recites this with conviction in the evening and dies during that night shall enter Paradise, and whoever recites it with conviction in the morning & dies during that day shall enter Paradise. (Al-Bukhari 7/150, An-Nasa'i, At-Tirmidhi)
    6)
    Prophet (s.a.w.) said: whoever recties ayatul kursi after every obligatory prayer then nothing stands on his way to paradise except death.
    (Source: al-Mu’jam al-Kabīr 7406
    Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani)
    7)
    أَسْتَغْفِرُ اللَّهَ الْعَظِيمَ الَّذِي لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ هُوَ الْحَيُّ الْْقَيُّومُ وَ أَتُوبُ إِلَيْهِ
    “Astaghfirullah al-’Azeem al-lazi la ilaha illa Huwal-Hayyul-Qayyum wa atubu ilaih ”
    I seek the forgiveness of Allah the Mighty, Whom there is none worthy of worship except Him, The Living, The Eternal, and I repent unto Him
    Reward: even if he has committed sins as much as the the foam of an ocean, still he will be forgiven. [Abu Dawud- 2:85/ Tirmidhi 5:569]

  • @patels1198
    @patels1198 ปีที่แล้ว

    JAZAKALLAHU KHAIR

  • @nadiakhan3620
    @nadiakhan3620 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    JazakAllah Khair thank you so much for this video it made me understand how to pray properly

  • @Sanoffer
    @Sanoffer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've got exam tomorrow, but I'm still up for ur video...

    • @Sanoffer
      @Sanoffer 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Zubair Z Vlogs Thanks

    • @mtmic1992
      @mtmic1992 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😁😁😁 it sounds literally superb alhamdhulillah

    • @Sanoffer
      @Sanoffer 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mtmic1992 🤣

  • @saherkhushimohammad1457
    @saherkhushimohammad1457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My istikhata was also positive but my marriage also got ended.

  • @falisabdullahi911
    @falisabdullahi911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have seen this it is honestly so true

  • @MaulaHussainA.Smyheart
    @MaulaHussainA.Smyheart 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ماشاء الله تبارك الله . جزاك الله خير الجزاء.
    Very beautifully explained.

  • @RobynKish
    @RobynKish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is such an insightful video. It really gave me a fresh perspective and really helped me. I could relate to this video. It really helped me. Inshallah others will
    benefit from this video. Jazakallah khair for making this video.

    • @AliAhsanJoji
      @AliAhsanJoji 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Assalamu Alaikum ! Please tell me that how can we say that our Istekhara is Positive ? What is the symbol of Positive or Negative Istekhara ??

  • @tahminaahmed5985
    @tahminaahmed5985 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow...what an interpretation...Ma sah Allah...

  • @seeker5313
    @seeker5313 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    على فاكرة دة مش يأس منى ولا حاجة
    ولكن دة أستسلم لامر الله وانـ شاء الله انا راح
    أصبر حتى يعجز الصبر عن صبري .. ساصبر حتى ينظر الرحمن في أمري ... ساصبر حتى يعلم الصبر أني صبرت على شيء أمر من الصبر
    I don't think I will give up
    But this I surrender to God’s command and, God willing, I am gone
    I will be patient until my patience is impatient ... I will be patient until the Most Merciful looks at my matter ... I will be patient until patience knows that I have been patient with something that is a matter of patience

  • @sidratahir5273
    @sidratahir5273 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    jazakAllah for clearing my confusion

  • @naimaahmed4351
    @naimaahmed4351 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    SubhAnAllah my friends getting divorced. My Allah Almighty give them whatever good for them Allah knows what is the best🤲🤲🤲🤲

  • @zaedbinaziz
    @zaedbinaziz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    masha'Allah, thank you Mufti! I needed this. 😭

  • @user-xx7gb8sb1k
    @user-xx7gb8sb1k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you brother Menk, you answered a question that kept me busy for years. I was struggling with feelings and happenings that made me confused

  • @heshuvlogs6495
    @heshuvlogs6495 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love u sheikh for sake of Allah...Allah bless you

  • @katiss775
    @katiss775 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Baraka allahou fik

  • @tabassumjawaz4859
    @tabassumjawaz4859 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ALLAH(SWT) help and guide us.AMEEN

  • @بالإسلامتحلوالحياة
    @بالإسلامتحلوالحياة 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    كلامكم من ذهب يا شيخنا الفاضل بارك الله فيكم

  • @papafall4158
    @papafall4158 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One may do istikhara with positive outcome but that doesn't guarantee an everlasting marriage,divorce most hated thing in the Eyes of Allah but sometimes it is for the best and only Allah Knows,the next sister or sisters or brother or brothers might be the right ones. No matter look for the directions Nabi( saw) left to find a righteous spouse..

  • @rosenmond5673
    @rosenmond5673 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allhamdulillah 🤲🏼 May Allah bless you my Brother. Allahume Amin 🤲🏼

  • @saimamunshi464
    @saimamunshi464 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent Video for people
    Doing Istikhaara

  • @negskitchenroutine8679
    @negskitchenroutine8679 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nicely explained so many points are cleared by this video and get a positive thinking in such a bad time when are been divorced by your loved one that to fraudly
    Thank you
    I pray to god all such women may get many more happy moments in their life and do something very good after this bad dark time leave you

  • @Muslimahshazu786
    @Muslimahshazu786 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jazzak Allah o khaira 🤲