I have those fears as well. That's why I don't agree with polegamy. It's tough for two people to come together, but three. That's a lot to deal with. In your family, you stated that the marriages were good in the beginning but changed once another person came. I am also for the good of marriages but for polegamy absolutely not. I would divorce and move on to protect my sanity and keep me from going to jail for committing a crime.
My beloved Sister in Islam. To help you with your struggles, I say this: "fear nothing and no one but Allah" Subhanallah wa ta Allah. That is to say trust in Allah. Know that it is fear itself that destroys peace. Your Faith is enough to overcome the obstacles that fear brings to your environment and atmosphere❤❤❤❤ Focus on your Faith, not the fear(s) and you will prevail🙏🏿👍🏿Adding additional persons to the marriage, should be a business decision for the Family❤If your Husband is misguided by his loins, that is not Halaah. Therefore your advocacy is a benevolent journey,and a blessing to others❤❤❤thank you very much❤❤❤❤
Some women think men are insensitive towards their wife but I disagree. Being sensitive towards your wife alone doesn't make you a good man either but part of the process. But the first thing in any man's heart when he tries to introduce a co-wife is the fear of the first wife reactions, which makes some men take the wrong decision.
The point I'm trying to make is that, even when a man is sensitive enough but still can't help his natural desires, he might end up taking the wrong step due to the fear of his wife's reaction when she's be informed ahead. There are levels to being sensitive and we all can't deny that our biological nature do often hunt us. A lot of men that we think are loyal to one wife are just afraid of been broke. Set them up with abundant riches and wealth and you'll realize only a few will be left with monogamy.
@surfingconey7536 I understand 😂 Sure, if I were a man and not financially buoyant, I wouldn't near polygyny too. And yes, many are monogamous because they're yet to hit it big, which is why as soon as more money rolls in, many men rush for poly. 😆
I have those fears as well. That's why I don't agree with polegamy. It's tough for two people to come together, but three. That's a lot to deal with. In your family, you stated that the marriages were good in the beginning but changed once another person came. I am also for the good of marriages but for polegamy absolutely not. I would divorce and move on to protect my sanity and keep me from going to jail for committing a crime.
@@dominiquebrown869 the jail got me rolling 😂😂
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My beloved Sister in Islam. To help you with your struggles, I say this: "fear nothing and no one but Allah" Subhanallah wa ta Allah.
That is to say trust in Allah. Know that it is fear itself that destroys peace. Your Faith is enough to overcome the obstacles that fear brings to your environment and atmosphere❤❤❤❤
Focus on your Faith, not the fear(s) and you will prevail🙏🏿👍🏿Adding additional persons to the marriage, should be a business decision for the Family❤If your Husband is misguided by his loins, that is not Halaah. Therefore your advocacy is a benevolent journey,and a blessing to others❤❤❤thank you very much❤❤❤❤
Na'am. You're right.
Jazakumullahu khayran 🙏
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@@rachellamb3305 Hello sis 👋 Thanks, sis. 🤗
Some women think men are insensitive towards their wife but I disagree.
Being sensitive towards your wife alone doesn't make you a good man either but part of the process.
But the first thing in any man's heart when he tries to introduce a co-wife is the fear of the first wife reactions, which makes some men take the wrong decision.
Some men are insensitive o 😭
Yeah, some are not.
The point I'm trying to make is that, even when a man is sensitive enough but still can't help his natural desires, he might end up taking the wrong step due to the fear of his wife's reaction when she's be informed ahead.
There are levels to being sensitive and we all can't deny that our biological nature do often hunt us.
A lot of men that we think are loyal to one wife are just afraid of been broke.
Set them up with abundant riches and wealth and you'll realize only a few will be left with monogamy.
But I appreciate your work. I pray Allah strengthen you and ease your affairs. Aamiin 🤲🏽
@surfingconey7536 I understand 😂 Sure, if I were a man and not financially buoyant, I wouldn't near polygyny too.
And yes, many are monogamous because they're yet to hit it big, which is why as soon as more money rolls in, many men rush for poly. 😆
@@surfingconey7536 aameen
Jazakumullahu Khairan 🙏
Not all men are meant for polygyny keep that mine.
Definitely so. That's a fact we must come to terms with