Children of second wives didn't choose to be children of second wives. They have every reason to live their life however they deem fit. They can choose whatever relationship dynamic they want. It's sad that people even say things like that. Very dismissive of the feelings of others. And the statement that some people would have not been born if not for polygamy? Total bluff! Everybody alive was destined to be alive. What sort of reasoning is that? Subhanallah. Anyway, JazaakiLlah khayr for talking about this.
ASA❤,Sister we believe you are very wise❤, very poligamistically wise❤ and most of all you come across as very strong in your deen, and the worship of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'Ala❤. We believe when you say to audience or viewers, "to turn to Allah" (swa) in prayer against those types of women, and to Allah (swa) in prayer for answers❤ that is truly the best wisdom you could impart❤Yes hold the man responsible ❤ Age can make a person "legal", but it is no guarantee that a person is mentally or emotionally mature🙏🏿❤. As for the man who asks about "someone" being the "child of a second Wife", that is an erroneous thought❤He is merely attempting to put you down, because he see your intelligence as a threat to his mental control in his house.❤ The rest is as simple as just "growing up" in the marriage relationship❤ Although the "types" of women to pray against from entering a particular poligamistic marriage is sound wisdom❤thank you very much❤❤❤❤ Alhumdulahi àla kulli haal 🌹🙏🏿
This is so true.
Yes, sis.
My friend's mother is the first wife of two and she's looking to marry and wudnt marry a married man
@@NonanoN-er6de Yes, preference.
What if the first wife is extremely jealous and insecure, constantly messaging/calling our husband when he's spending time with me?
The man must call her to order, and set the boundaries... Else, it will continue as a norm at the expense of another.
Children of second wives didn't choose to be children of second wives. They have every reason to live their life however they deem fit. They can choose whatever relationship dynamic they want. It's sad that people even say things like that. Very dismissive of the feelings of others. And the statement that some people would have not been born if not for polygamy? Total bluff! Everybody alive was destined to be alive. What sort of reasoning is that? Subhanallah. Anyway, JazaakiLlah khayr for talking about this.
@@Sumayyahsikiru Na'am. Empathy, that's what we all need.
Thanks for engaging, sis.
How to respond when the first wife is insulting and picking a fight with the second wife? Thanks
Sorry you're experiencing that sis. I intented to invite a sister with more practical experience in Polygyny to give tips, soon. in Shaa Allah.
@@ummsulaymBintIslam
Please do so. Thank you my sister.
ASA❤,Sister we believe you are very wise❤, very poligamistically wise❤ and most of all you come across as very strong in your deen, and the worship of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'Ala❤. We believe when you say to audience or viewers, "to turn to Allah" (swa) in prayer against those types of women, and to Allah (swa) in prayer for answers❤ that is truly the best wisdom you could impart❤Yes hold the man responsible ❤ Age can make a person "legal", but it is no guarantee that a person is mentally or emotionally mature🙏🏿❤. As for the man who asks about "someone" being the "child of a second Wife", that is an erroneous thought❤He is merely attempting to put you down, because he see your intelligence as a threat to his mental control in his house.❤ The rest is as simple as just "growing up" in the marriage relationship❤ Although the "types" of women to pray against from entering a particular poligamistic marriage is sound wisdom❤thank you very much❤❤❤❤ Alhumdulahi àla kulli haal 🌹🙏🏿
Run away it is not worthed😢
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