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    «Grief is a complicated and very powerful emotion. Unfortunately, it is very likely that at some point of your life you will go through it »
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    It's been three weeks and all i feel is numb.
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    » ABOUT THE VIDEO:
    • Fandom: Manchester by the sea, The vampire diaries, T/een W/olf, Captain Fantastic, Shameless US, Je vais bien ne t'en fais pas, The Imitation game, Peaky blinders
    • Program: Sony Vegas 13
    • Coloring: goldxnoir
    • Song: Max richter - the quality of mercy
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ความคิดเห็น • 22

  • @Kboss66
    @Kboss66 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I'm sorry. I know these feelings very well. My dad died April 18th 2019, and I still am in disbelief. Most days I feel numb. I just cannot comprehend the weight of what I've lost. Of who I have lost. I do know that my world feels very lonely now, more so than it ever did before. Five months and I still am waiting to wake up. This video was oddly comforting. Thank you for this.

    • @OpiaVidding
      @OpiaVidding  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm truly sorry for your loss. Yes i'm sure you do know how it feels. I lost my mom in May 7th 2018, so it's been a little more than a year. I still miss her everyday. I did this video to release me of all the feelings I was having at that time. A lot of my videos are now about grief and the new feelings I discover with it. I'm really happy that it could be comforting for you. I wish you the best and I hope you're surrounded by good people.

  • @Bubbles-rt4zn
    @Bubbles-rt4zn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost my friend, my brother, almost a year ago. I cannot believe it. But it is what made me believe in the grief process. Denial is real and I still cycle through these emotions. I only feel the weight of his death when I talk to the sky. That is the only time it feels real

  • @JesseJr19
    @JesseJr19 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That was absolutly beautiful, you have such a talent, i already told you that, i really hope you will overcome this hard moment

  • @LucyWhiskers
    @LucyWhiskers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm so sorry about your loss. I lost my grandpa in 2014 and he was like a second dad to me. There are very few people who portray grief in an accurate way, and it always upsets me how people pretend to understand and tell people how they should be feeling when they've never gone through it themselves. This video is so incredibly gorgeous and absolutely perfect and breath taking. You did an incredible job showcasing the raw and honest emotions that come with the loss of a loved one. I subscribed and will definitely be watching a lot more of your videos. Thank you so much for making this. I'll keep you in my prayers.

    • @OpiaVidding
      @OpiaVidding  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's so sweet of you.

  • @lllalaa4221
    @lllalaa4221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    i lost my bff, at 12, the only person i talk, the only person who talked with me. i never talk with anyone for almost 5 years. he was the only one i have. my parents have been fighting last years. I'm not talking about changing 6 school in 5 years. there are a lot of shit in my life. i can't kill myself and this is not because i am afraid, it is because i saw my bff's parents when they lost him, i can't make my parents go through smt like that. now i am sitting in the roof, watching stars and crying. like always. sometimes i look down and imagine how wonderful it would be if i just fell down. if it was just over. and i hope you are doing alright now. I'm sorry for your lost.

    • @OpiaVidding
      @OpiaVidding  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sorry for your loss too

    • @markojurisic3634
      @markojurisic3634 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      some people like you have tragic moments in life ,maybe it is destiny ,i do not know ,but you need to survive ,go on with you life ,life is not fair

  • @MiaWinchester794
    @MiaWinchester794 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OMG LEA
    this is so emotional and so beautiful
    I love it with all my heart

  • @Maria-ip2mo
    @Maria-ip2mo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My grandpa died in 2019 of lung cancer
    I was 13 at that time now I'm 15
    I'm still broken
    He was my everything and still is but I miss him so much
    It's just so hard to pretend everything is fine when you know it's not
    Fly high Pa! We miss you here! 💔🕊😭

  • @breelynn8810
    @breelynn8810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my God. I just...wow. This is so stunning and heartbreaking and my God, it's so beautiful. This required so much talent and I am beyond floored by just how perfect it is. Thank you, love, for creating this masterpiece.

    • @OpiaVidding
      @OpiaVidding  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for your sweet words

  • @HJMEdits
    @HJMEdits 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Stay strong I know you can go through it

  • @sarahemmons8051
    @sarahemmons8051 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lost my daddy last year. He was my everything. We were both severely depressed and damaged. He took his life before my 17th birthday. I screamed and fell to the floor when they told me. The police wouldn't let me inside. I just wanted to see him. To have someone tell me it was a joke.. now all I want to do is be with him. How can I break my mom and sister more though.😭

  • @kingfireman21
    @kingfireman21 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Trop touchant ce qui t'es arrivé... et cette video! Bravo, reste forte 💪

  • @VioletEmerald
    @VioletEmerald 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was amazingly well done! Do you still have a Twitter? I love so many of these fandoms and I love fanvideo explorations of grief (I've made a few myself) and in this particular fanvideo i especially appreciated how you explored next of kin practicalities to deal with and the specific experience of being stuck in shock and denial and feeling numb. I hope your experience processing this loss these last couple of years has gotten a little easier with time and that you have found some peace.

  • @xangel7317
    @xangel7317 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    tiens je viens de la finir! c'est vrai que je m'y retrouve facilement, on sent le vécu d'ailleurs et c'est assez touchant

  • @neonzoldyck5727
    @neonzoldyck5727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lost my best friend yesterday he was 16 he was in a car accident the truck flipped he was driving it flipped three times he flew out of the vehicle and when medics got there he was dead on the spot

  • @miyuki05513
    @miyuki05513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We visisted our mother in the hospital but what saw was my mother crying and saying that the doctor said that seh wouldn't survive i was shock i cried then she talked to me and bla bla bla but i didn't really believe ehat the doctor said but it really hurt to be told that your own mother wont survive but i didn't take it seriously and the next day in afternoon i texted my brother if our mom is doing well but he keep ignoring my message then i was really uncomfortable then my auntie called me saying that my mother is dead i said why didn't you told me sooner why didnt you let me come with you in the hospital and my auntie said tgat my mother doesnt want me to her because it would pain her more i saw a video of my mother trying to breath she was 50 50 and what made this much more painfuo is that we didn't grow up with a father and im only 13 when my mother died and im 14 now

    • @OpiaVidding
      @OpiaVidding  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i read you and everything you wrote was an echo to what i've experienced. I wish you the best and I hope you're well surounded. Your mother is still with you with everything she taught you. Your memories are still there. You don't have nothing left of her. You could also wrote about what you're feeling or about your memories. I did it for a year and it helped me a lot.