I QUIT my job as a teacher after 1 year: reasons + advice to new teachers | faithfully irie

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  • @MassGainingGuy
    @MassGainingGuy ปีที่แล้ว +196

    I'm a teacher as well...my advice
    1. Do not devote your life to teaching.
    2. Have passions and hobbies outside of the classroom.
    3. Do not try to save the world. It's not our responsibility
    4. Do not take anything personally
    5. When you leave work, go out and enjoy life.
    Just to name a few.

    • @JoifullyNatural
      @JoifullyNatural ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👏🏽👏🏽 All of this is true.

    • @aleksandrstorms3844
      @aleksandrstorms3844 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup’ 😊

    • @phuonganhtrann
      @phuonganhtrann ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you, teaching makes me feel I never good enough or sense of completion. And It is just a job like others, do not need devote all life for it

    • @stephencarroll2622
      @stephencarroll2622 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes right

    • @themacocko6311
      @themacocko6311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Who has time for life after work? It's normally bed time.

  • @RobertWGreaves
    @RobertWGreaves ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I empathize with your story. How America’s schools pass students on to the next grade when they are not even able to do the work at grade level is beyond me. Teachers in middle school should be expected to teach middle school material. They shouldn’t be attempting to teach that material while also remedying the fact that the students aren’t even prepared with prerequisites. Education in our country is becoming a disingenuous scam. The system itself is incompetent.

  • @121shalom
    @121shalom ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I taught English 3 years abroad in two countries and I loved it! I came back to the USA and taught in middle school and lasted only a year (in person) I now teach at an online academy and it is much better. I will never work in person at a school again.

    • @nayae7993
      @nayae7993 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What is the name of the online academy??

    • @nappyqueen86
      @nappyqueen86 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nayae7993yes name of reputable online schools lol😂

  • @kyezustiak
    @kyezustiak ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I only made it half a year. I agree with what you said here. I left for the sake of my mental and physical health, which both rapidly declined. Bless you my sister in faith! May God guide your path ahead. ❤

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing and also for your kind words. God bless you!

    • @candycrush8180
      @candycrush8180 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I want to leave a little over a year in, but I have no other way of making enough money to survive

  • @fabfab5450
    @fabfab5450 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My first five years of teaching, I taught in two great schools. They weren't perfect, but they were what was expected and they further enhanced my love of teaching. I moved to another state and needed a teaching position. I took the first one that was offered and it has been a sheer nightmare. Always do your research. We are asked as teachers to make sure our classrooms have a positive, nurturing, and productive environment....as we should. However, we teachers deserve a workplace that's the same.

  • @rashidasamuels7034
    @rashidasamuels7034 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I do not see how anyone could shame you physically. You are beautiful.

  • @raymonddonahue7282
    @raymonddonahue7282 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I was a Sped Teacher in Chicago for 12 years. Worst mistake I ever made. 12 years of misery.

  • @inspiredby_thewords
    @inspiredby_thewords ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Those are the MAIN reasons teachers typically leave. Underresourced schools, toxic work environment and high levels of indiscipline. No one goes into teaching for money.
    That third piece of advice you gave is SOLID👍👍👍PERIOD. VERY IMPORTANT

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true, I truly wish more persons would see it's not always about the money

    • @herbertharris7316
      @herbertharris7316 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You said that no one goes into teaching for money. But no one seem to get it. You need money to sustain your financial well-being. I believe teachers, especially in urban and rural communities, are the most underpaid profession in America, which is truly grievous. My argument to support my claim is that parents entrust their children's future performance and sustainability in the hands of educators and teachers (alike) to help grow their children intellectually, mentally and socially developed human being.
      ----------------
      Teachers are worth the money and attention that's required for them to live a healthy and sustainable lifestyle that's well deserved for the amount of responsibilities and stress that educators and teachers undertake.
      ----------------
      Shalom

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@herbertharris7316I agree and many of my colleagues while studying confessed that they were going into teaching for the salary and other benefits.
      I believe however, that while saying 'no-one goes in for money' is a bit of a stretch, it is really in support of teachers who are OK with sacrificing this salary, if desires are not being met in the other areas of the career path i.e some of what was mentioned in the video.
      There are also persons who believe that educators are not aloud to utter a word of complaint, because you are being paid what they believe is sufficient to deal with the myriad of challenges that come along.
      I hope to talk more about this in a future video.
      Thanks so much for commenting!

    • @herbertharris7316
      @herbertharris7316 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tatiana_bn Thank you for your thoughtful response. I hope this topic is discussed with more with educators and teachers addressing need to improve broad sweeping changes to teachers/educators pay and benefits.

  • @clarissacota2047
    @clarissacota2047 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    First year teacher here. This has been the most difficult phase of my life so far.... As I'm watching this, it is the 6th night I have stayed up with absolutely no sleep. This is the second day after winter break too.... I do not feel recharged or refreshed. I feel drained and burned out and, above all, so disappointed in myself.... I worked so hard to be where I'm at, and it really does feel like this isn't for me, and that all the time and money I spent getting my teaching credential has gone to waste. I feel ready to leave by the end of the year, but it really does feel like I'm on a very high fence about this. And in my case, it's not the students.... It's the workplace environment, the amount of work I need to take home, otherwise I will never get it done, it's the hours, the unreasonable expectations, state testing, the amount of requirements (at least here in California), the lack of pay (yes, even in California)...just so many factors, most of which are systemic. I'm overwhelmed and confused and don't know what decision to make. Maybe a year off might help? Who knows....

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks so much for your comment Clarissa. I really appreciate empathize with you and totally understand where you're coming from. I don't have a direct answer but I will be praying for you that you can make the right decision that brings you peace. Trust God to take you where you need to be, because everything happens for a reason. This is something I'm also holding on to. Take it easy❤️

  • @inspiredby_thewords
    @inspiredby_thewords ปีที่แล้ว +19

    📌Your mental and spiritual health is MOST IMPORTANT. MOST IMPORTANT

  • @joythompson9530
    @joythompson9530 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you for creating this video. I'm a 4th year High School Spanish Teacher and I sympathize with you so much. You have to be mentally and spiritually ready to fight battles you may never have encountered before. My students have criticized me as well. I continued to uphold my stance until I got home to decompress and journal.
    You are not alone with your feelings! I'm highly considering switching careers and/or districts next year.

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for sharing❤️

    • @sophiaentzminger5011
      @sophiaentzminger5011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I totally agree with you. I tried teaching middle school Spanish and only lasted 4 month before I resigned!!! It was a HARD job/environment, and very disheartening to see a look into this generation. Behaviors, cell phones, large classes were SO alarming. I had mental anguish and anxiety, and never dealth with this before in my life. I needed to leave for me! May consider subbing part time, or online, or NOT .

  • @Cjohnson87
    @Cjohnson87 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    My advice to new teachers.... run

    • @dorianmac7466
      @dorianmac7466 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣

    • @khanyomkhize1485
      @khanyomkhize1485 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣

    • @CareBlair222
      @CareBlair222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      My ex husband wants to be a teacher. I told him to re think his decision.

    • @Cjohnson87
      @Cjohnson87 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @crabfishlion tell him I said run. And he can't run, steal a scooter, and ride off.

    • @CareBlair222
      @CareBlair222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @Cjohnson87 I know. I warn him daily. I worked in a school for 2 days and I had a panic attack the 2nd day and quit!! I was a teacher assistant. NOPE.

  • @Jennifer-653
    @Jennifer-653 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    ELA teacher here and everything you have said is like a page out of my book. You are not alone. I am debating on going back after the end of my first year. It has been next to miserable. I'm glad you escaped. God Bless.

    • @TheKnallkorper
      @TheKnallkorper 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m a K teacher and I am in the same boat. Going in, I had NO idea how intense it was going to be

  • @aneitabaker
    @aneitabaker ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very on point regarding being spiritually strong, well said especially with that 3rd reason. The culture of some of these school will be quite alarming and unhealthy the minute you are exposed to it. I am indeed very proud of the steps you took. Well done!

  • @jesusistheanswer6003
    @jesusistheanswer6003 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    With all my heart I wish I could quit but there's nothing better to do right now. My time will come I pray.

  • @marcmeinzer8859
    @marcmeinzer8859 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I enjoyed your video especially. To me it is quite simple. It is not a good idea to teach anywhere where the kids will most likely make you look bad. Which translates into it’s not really a good idea to teach much of anywhere anymore the way it is today. There may be some exceptions as for instance I would consider tutoring GED equivalency diploma working with adults, and also I might consider teaching barbering also to adults, or perhaps even canoeing to people in general including kids being a former canoe tripping guide. But if the job is going to be an embarrassment to you then it’s not wise to bother.

  • @aspireahead8388
    @aspireahead8388 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a NYC of many years, I found you hit many things well... Teaching is a beast that will take your inner soul... I always tell new teachers you have to decide now if this is what you want to do for the rest of your life... If not get out now... It will wear you down... So, you made the right decision for yourself... The one thing that should be at the bottom of the reasons, but is more important than you think, was the staff issues... Because you can't survive teaching without a supportive staff; especially the teachers; and especially in your first year... So, its importance is "not" so much because you had to deal with their negativity, but "is" more because you didn't get influenced by positivity...

  • @ToruKurosawa
    @ToruKurosawa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am from UK and I am almost a year in and already planning on leaving. Its just very stressful and I think I would be better off elsewhere.... I wanna finish the year out though.

  • @TomboiiLinkZ
    @TomboiiLinkZ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello, thank you so much for this video. I have been in a program and had concrete plans to become an ELA teacher in Miami but after field work and seeing how far behind the kids are and the pay, I am switching my plans. I was very sad and scared because of this change but know that I will be stressed and I cannot sacrifice my mental health for an institution that can't protect the employees. I already was made fun of when I was working! Ridiculous. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @tiffanyc223
      @tiffanyc223 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      DO NOT. 1 year in a neighboring county and I will not be returning in August. Go where you will be valued and can easily afford to live where you work! Wishing you the very best.

  • @dougshaw9701
    @dougshaw9701 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No matter how much you love and care if the people your trying to help do not give a crap your fighting a losing battle . I wish you the best of luck in life and God might have greater things planned for you .

  • @tiago3272b
    @tiago3272b 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s good you got out while your young. You have time to find a career you like; and are respected. 😊

  • @markpallister9882
    @markpallister9882 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Deeply respect your Christian faith and clearly your reasons for moving on are absolutely valid and correct..

  • @tryingbutfailing
    @tryingbutfailing 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Getting a degree in teaching was the worst, STUPIDEST thing I ever did. Even I don't respect teachers anymore. They are abused poor people and went to school for it.

  • @thefeminine9152
    @thefeminine9152 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You articulated the experience of a teacher well. I also like the advice you gave!

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! And your most welcome, God bless

  • @billybob-tl2tb
    @billybob-tl2tb ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love your accent.....

  • @davidwatson6831
    @davidwatson6831 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your video was awesome, teaching is a difficult job, but it can be rewarding. You are right we always have to take God with us, in our going in and coming out. Prayer and faith are the engines that drive us. Keep up the good works....

  • @stephencarroll2622
    @stephencarroll2622 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m a teacher in the United States mmm definitely thinking about making a jump overseas mmm lots and lots of behavior problems and kids that are below academically mmm basically everything you are talking about!!! Good luck!!!

    • @kitty1256x
      @kitty1256x 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Teach online school.

  • @phillatella6470
    @phillatella6470 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It is a society issue, not an education problem. We can't fix society

  • @tamedshrew235
    @tamedshrew235 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    2023: Teachers, Cops and Nurses resigning en masse.

    • @nsbd90now
      @nsbd90now ปีที่แล้ว +7

      However, one of those is not like the others.

    • @beezelsub
      @beezelsub 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All low-key traitors, especially post covid

  • @sshaw4429
    @sshaw4429 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We are not allowed to fail a student. Every one gets a trophy concept. I quit. The end.

    • @stephencarroll2622
      @stephencarroll2622 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes we can’t fail students, at least not without difficulty, so definitely know how you feel.

  • @billybob-tl2tb
    @billybob-tl2tb ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great job! So true.

  • @shopsshire9282
    @shopsshire9282 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not to sound pedantic by only have one thing to say where's the parental discipline where's the parental discipline where's the parental discipline there is none too much of the time. It's illustrated the fact when I go to the store like Walmart grocery store in the kids are hanging off the sides of the cart standing on it😢 was 😢😢

  • @JamesAustinHall
    @JamesAustinHall 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you mentally, physically, and spiritually in the name of Jesus amen.

  • @inspiredby_thewords
    @inspiredby_thewords ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very valuable advice!👏🏿👏🏿

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm really glad it was helpful!

  • @123456jalee
    @123456jalee ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You made a good decision. Teaching is mental suicide in the West

    • @stephencarroll2622
      @stephencarroll2622 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, got that right. I’m in my fifth year, and is getting tougher every year especially behaviors.

    • @awapuhi9
      @awapuhi9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad your encouragement will ensure our children will be just fine.

  • @TeacherKellyTag
    @TeacherKellyTag ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can totally relate to this. I also started online and same thing. I’m trying a different age this year.

  • @wholearmorworship8200
    @wholearmorworship8200 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God bless you!

  • @gregoryjohnson874
    @gregoryjohnson874 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When there aren't any teachers left to teach maybe the school boards and politicians will wake up....

  • @themacocko6311
    @themacocko6311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You made the right choice.

  • @CareBlair222
    @CareBlair222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are very pretty 😊

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you!

  • @Rrknight2010
    @Rrknight2010 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've gone through the exact same experience.

  • @kincamell
    @kincamell 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gratitude for sharing

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for listening!

  • @JimVincitore
    @JimVincitore 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video! Very cool!

  • @brunorossibonin788
    @brunorossibonin788 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're accent is really nice. Where are you from? Good luck in life!

  • @ethanm3323
    @ethanm3323 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where are you located? I’m just curious. I was a teacher in NY. Btw, you’re beautiful too. 😁

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! I'm from Jamaica

    • @ethanm3323
      @ethanm3323 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tatiana_bn Move to the U.S. 🙂

    • @ethanm3323
      @ethanm3323 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m shocked you’re talking about Jamaica though. Thought it was a little better down there. I think it is but didn’t know you were in Jamaica.

    • @beezelsub
      @beezelsub 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@tatiana_bnyou taught students in Jamaica?

    • @awapuhi9
      @awapuhi9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ethanm3323 Stop flirting

  • @jonethomas3892
    @jonethomas3892 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    U will have your opinion how this problem should be tackled, is it video then by this take out the cause of the trouble, by removing it, children will follow the cause of trouble maker, the sheep could be forced, frighten to go against the bully, at this rate class teaching is failing so fast , it comes down to two one get rid of the trouble to a more radical disapline teaching and keeping the more mild student this give the school and teacher a chance to survive in future.

  • @danielgolarz674
    @danielgolarz674 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm the author of EIGHT DAYS IN AN INNER CITY SCHOOL the out of control OCCUPATIONAL LICENSING is chasing off teachers

  • @OliverLittel
    @OliverLittel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hot hot hot hot hot hot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @FinarfinNoldorin
    @FinarfinNoldorin ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You can still teach in many different ways, dear. Schools are failing because the way they are teaching is outdated. New methods need to be implemented, and curriculum needs to be interesting and challenging for students who are angry at the system. But, with your knowledge of producing videos etc. you can make a difference. Keep your videos wholesome and educational with the content you post, and never give up on your passions. Kids really do want to learn, but their needs aren't being met so they are rebelling. They are bored, and no one learns that way. Use your knowledge for good, no matter what it is you do and follow your dreams.

    • @tatiana_bn
      @tatiana_bn  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I absolutely agree with this. Thank you so much for sharing.

    • @megg.6651
      @megg.6651 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      NO - 1. the way they are teaching is not outdated it is VERY contemporary and THAT is the problem. 2. there is absolutely NO discipline. These are the reasons why it is unbearable to be a teacher.

  • @shana-kayporter2595
    @shana-kayporter2595 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok Miss Brown I see you

  • @zuozhen4758
    @zuozhen4758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Become a school custodian!

  • @bubbagump1306
    @bubbagump1306 ปีที่แล้ว

    They lost a critical teacher. Go become an Army Officer and make more money. You look like you’re in good shape.

    • @beezelsub
      @beezelsub 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't go into military.

    • @sharinaross1865
      @sharinaross1865 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't

  • @megg.6651
    @megg.6651 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You were teaching in the wrong place.

  • @afreyinthesnow9015
    @afreyinthesnow9015 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello hermosa

  • @petermohamed2491
    @petermohamed2491 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maybe you went into teaching for the wrong reasons.

    • @nsbd90now
      @nsbd90now ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Did you even watch the video?

    • @petermohamed2491
      @petermohamed2491 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nsbd90now
      Yes I did watch the video.

    • @nsbd90now
      @nsbd90now ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Then where the heck did that lame comment come from about "wrong reasons"??

    • @dorianmac7466
      @dorianmac7466 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@nsbd90now Yeah like the teacher on the video, myself and thousands of other teachers who have left and are leaveing. We got into teaching because we thought and believed and tried to be good teachers( I guess that was the wrong reason)

    • @khanyomkhize1485
      @khanyomkhize1485 ปีที่แล้ว

      You annoying