I remind myself almost daily that the healing path is not linear. This reminder has likely detoured me from a big setback of doubting I’m healing. Knowing a setback doesn’t take away the awareness, education, and progress keeps the optimism for moving forward. Thank you, Andrew.
I can relate. Since I was a child I was a people pleaser. That continued into adulthood and it cost me everything. Because I could never say NO, I was taken advantage of for decades. When I finally had to put down boundaries because I lost my only child, I was labeled mean, cold, cruel. I had to block some siblings and other relatives. I am now alone. My narc husband had already died 20 yrs ago due to lifestyle. There is now no one around. It's very quiet, and been a challenge of adjustment, but atleast I have peace. I can now start rebuilding my very broken life thanks to this videos, and alot of prayers.
do not "poke the bear." silence - resilience - You, are now free. Stay free and move yourself on because you love yourself and deserve the best life -Blessings.
I really needed to hear this message. Sometimes you hear something that you needed to hear and it is a light bulb moment. This is that moment for me. I’m a year out from the day that my life and future changed in a heartbeat. Some days almost feel normal and then there are the other days when I feel like I’m right back in the fog of sadness and disbelief of what had happened. I don’t feel like I’m ever going to make it to the pinnacle but then I take another step… This was the motivation I needed to realize that two steps forward is a net positive accomplishment and to give myself grace in my healing journey. So, bless you for being that beacon for us!
It was hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that the love bomb was actually abuse-it was a setup for the trap. You couldn’t get stuck in the trauma bond without the euphoric stage! Also, narcs like to push empaths into reactive abuse. Don’t fall for that trap either! Like Andrew says, don’t call them out, get revenge, etc. The best thing is to take 100 percent of your energy back. 🙌
"Reactive Abuse."-- So tricky. So easy to fall into when they know what buttons to push. Knowing about Narcs and their games is step one to improving "emotional control." That will help you in interactions with anyone for the rest of your Life.
That's exactly what I said and explained to my therapist today: In the past there were still dark days, now there are dark hours in one day and after a while my light comes back- yes it still falling back one step sometimes but then I actually feel going two steps or even three forward. It's called the healing path! Don't get impatient, it's a journey, sometimes challenging and rocky but I know in my heart we will reach our final destination: the beautiful bright mountain top of total indifference! When we arrive and look back down - everything will look insignificant! We will all make it- hang in there beautiful souls. Namaste ❤
It's hard to take that the narcissist had disdain for me because there were so many mixed feelings. I appreciate it Andrew when you say be kind to yourself, be patient with yourself
I’m on day 13 of my healing journey after 13 years. I’ve already experienced the 2 steps forward and 1 step back. It’s part of my healing process as I embrace my new found freedom. I’m also an empath and a seer and I’m not afraid of what I see only hurt by what I see and the experience I’ve been through. He really had me fooled as well as our families and friends. I can see clearly now that the rose coloured glasses are off and I’m grieving who I thought I knew. Thank you for sharing theses videos as it really helps me to understand who these human beings are. I’ve turned to my cultural teachings and ceremonies to help get me through this and my inner light is getting brighter and I’m getting stronger every day. Nameste 🙏🏽
Don't play into their wicked chess games of endless set backs. This is exactly what they want the most, to burn you out for control. Save yourself, don't complain or explain by quickly walking away from the whole damn table. There is nothing good enough to win because there is no real prize or peace.
Namaste Andrew...every word, every single word you speak here describes me, my life that is in the past, and by your smile at the end of this broadcast, it presents my future. It is a crying time for me, this weekend. I embrace it with calmness, because for a long time, I felt nothing. I knew the sorrow was in me, but I felt nothing. My tears now are washing away the old Annette, and cleaning the path for the third Annette to walk apon, solidly and strongly, as the gentle warrior I am, have been, and now am again. I am taking your hand in mine, friend, and I am walking with you, in the present, in the now. Namaste.
Keep putting one foot in front of the other. Do not stop. Keep working on yourself and your healing. The narc will still be looking for "victims" on their DEATHBED. Live in reality. Stay conscious and awake at all times. The narc is an evil creature. You CANNOT change the narc with your "love". They will die in their sickness. Blessings to all!❤
True, I felt their disdain too. Imagine a small child, the narcissust, dying inside because of the disdain endured by a dysfunctional parent. A child in an adult body is suffering, and it's reflected onto us. That, too, is very sad
@@Cowboy19735 Don’t keep counting up from the time you broke up with the abuser. A certain time you’ll have to count where your life is of real value again. Like a late life rebirth
This video was *so* eye-opening for me. There are still many days when I feel like I have one foot nailed to the floor and I’m just going in circles trying to move forward. You are a Godsend! ❤ from California.
Thank you Andrew. I have set backs and I get upset at myself. I'm no contact now for 4 months but things keep popping up in my mind , I really need it to go away. I keep moving forward , I pray lot. Thank you for your support. Hugs
Two and a half years and I really felt completely healed! For real - reached the level of complete indifference. And total independence on all levels. But the last few days I had a set back - a kind of self pity maybe: I don’t deserve this. But I know this too shall pass - being heal does not mean stop being human
I'm getting closer to the Pinnacle of Indifference. I'm also noticing that my time for prosperity is upon me. Blessings for me as I'm meeting the right people to push this ahead to more Independence.😊❤. Thank you so much Andrew for your Encouragement and Wisdom as it is Priceless!
Dust your self up by the bootstrap! 🎉every day once again. It’s a hard way cause the community is as toxically as the narc!!! I was in fog for decades! To get out needs a long time! With many set back. Be in courage with yourself and be forgiving with yourself! Stay on your healing path!!❤for ever!
Healing is an inside undertaking. No one can heal you. Education and knowledge are your inner works search.You can be engineered to original template settings by another higher dark force. Controllers. As long as you’re in the encasement you’re on your own. False white light is a short feel good promise. You’re in charge. Awake and becoming aware.🦋🌀✨thank you❤😊
Yep take the High Road ,,,its Best not to wrestle with.anyone Toxic,they are a Very Low Consciousness,,they dont evolve or change,,Put Energy and Time into you,,,T.Y. Andrew,🌟💜💜🤗🙏
Thank you so much for your videos. Always seems to be what I need to hear. Struggling with delayed realization - the pain, emotion, anger just want to keep healing and allowing for a step back is part of the journey.
They truly are “walking halograms”; good one Andrew ! Yet another visual to pop into my head whenever I entertain any notion of taking a step backwards. Thank you for your daily dose of support, it is a gift ♥️🤞🏼
Yesss its a huge support ! Really does cause be in non contact in the same home it s horrible horrible and so sad and it need so much strenght and manage the silence trestement and searching a place to mooooooooive to have time for myself rest and creat my art my life far from this sickness
Andrew’s videos speak directly to me too. A narc is a narc. They are all cut from the same cloth. It’s crazy how they are so much alike. I guess it’s true to say empathetic people, are much the same too.
It has dawned on me how easy it was for many family members to throw me, and my children, away. Not one word from any of them in three years. Oh, no way would I ever take any of them back. That's not my kind of people. I'm left standing with self respect. At times, the thought has surfaced...what just happened? We all deserve better than being discarded. And yet, when we do not take them back, on any level, we stand empowered.
Grief visits us and we can't control when. Kubler-Ross wrote about this and many others. We can feel great but then grief comes. We must allow ourselves to let this go through us. No running or distracting from it. I like what Andrew said, be patient and do all the other things necessary to heal, grow.
Hi, I had to mortify (expose)mine and let him know I did not want him calling me ever again. Prof Sam Vaknin, on u-tube also, believes that it is the best deterrent to prevent another hoovering. I was hoovered and I fell for it. I'm sure you know the dungeon of dismay, sespool of manipulation, and pathological lying I endured after. Best❤
GOOD morning Andrew🇫🇷🦋🙏🥶Thank you for this vip message.. I will always march forward & enjoy this Renewed energy!!🙏🦋🇫🇷Knowing in my Heart,, I DID THE VERY BEST🙏🦋🇫🇷
As the days go by, it gets easier. I'm approaching 1 month absolutely NO CONTACT with the Narc spouse (Divorce started). Left my home, my town, my state. He had no clue I was that intelligent and resourceful! Restoring my own peace and happiness is the best revenge.
I'm now on 2 steps fw, 1 step back. At least moving forward, albeit slowly. Now I'm spending too much time with him again. He is so co-dependent. And I'm too kind. Praying to God every day to release me from this. I don't need him, he needs me, but I honestly DO NOT WANT to be with him. I just want peace. I háve called hom out a lot. It was satisfying, but the backlash was harsh! You are so on point. He always does the hoover before weekends, probably just to keep me from going out or visit friends. He wants me all to himself - isolation. My daughter said to me when I was about to go to him again yesterday, (he was super nice this weekend) - we stay about 200m away from each other 🙈) - Mom, it's easier to stay away than you think. You're over-thinking this, and he is not about to die anytime soon. (She used the word "die" we use in our language for an animal). I know, right? Yet it still feels like a bit of a comfort zone there. (Maybe you can make a video about this?). Thank you so much Andrew. Namaste ❤
NOT HUMAN ! So well said Andrew.. Hone/polish your 'diamond hub' and central core magnificent knowing heart essence! YOU ARE MAGNIFICENTLY POWERHOUSE.. GO THERE !
I’m still acquiring wisdom. Weekends are still difficult. I’m making more friends which helps. I still need therapy but still no job at the moment. Once I get one I can sort everything. ❤
Realizing they had disdain for you all along was the hardest part to accept. Fighting back or revenge is out because I’m no match against this evil. Accept it for what it is, go no contact as soon as you can, and move on. Easier said than done, I know. More than 2 years into this and I still have bad days. Thankful for my daily dose of Andrew!
It sounds like you understand radical acceptance. So true that it is rough registering on their disdain. We just don't think in those terms. Let us all remain on the higher ground.
I hear you, Lisa! I still live with mine, and his 'open disdain' is like a kick to the stomach. However, it's a reflection of his inner demons, so I do my best to ignore his name calling and disrespect (it's a waste of my energy to defend, explain, engage or personalise). Plus, the best revenge is to work on my inner peace and stay as nonchalant as possible (good vibrations only!). I hope you heal from all the chaos soon. 🙏💖
Yes, if you should have a loved one pass along your healing path... don't give up!!! It may feel like a title wave that came & knocked you down once again... but it is life. You are not going backwards... you just need time to grieve. I know...& I wish love & strength to those who may have this occur. God is a strength in our weakness... let him carry you! ❤🙏💥👍 Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
The passing of a loved one can be a huge missing piece of a person's life. So much, you've wished you've said on how much you loved and appreciated them in your Life.🙏🌠
I am in a court process to divide assets for the sake of my children. I was discarded. He is absolutely refusing to recognize my rights, and impossible to get through even presening the facts. Everything is still my fault. It's so difficult to get over the fact he never cared and my head still think of him.
To have a narcessistic daughter hurts a lot , i went no contact, no other thing to do .the behaviour became violent and worse. I was afraid of my own child. When the adult narcessistic children are about the age 40 the abuse get worse. The healing path is nog easy, cutting the emotionel bound with my children needs a lot of time. 40 years i was there for them, but every day I am so happy just to be in peace. The stress was to much. The abuse is finished. I am still alone without people. I need to be alone to heal and get rid of high cortisol levels. Diet and exercise are important to heal my body. I am 59 it needs time. But I am happy with the progres my health returns.
@@paulineklostermann5877 I get it. As Michael Tsarion said, "We can give birth to these creatures." Their behavior is supernaturally demonic. The more we regulate our emotions and see it all for what it is, the better off we are. They have chosen poorly, but it is their choice to make. Our tribe isn't in this realm. We help them and ourselves by protecting ourselves and setting healthy boundaries. I have some psychologist friends that say many wake up at 40. I think it can go either way. I send mine positive intentions of healing and love every day. It's the best I can do for now. 💕
I've struggled with descision making my whole life. My narrsacist doesn't make it even better. The voices inside my head , the constant war with people using some device talking to me in my head , the high tech contacts irratating my eyes , causing me headaches and confusion....just doing my best to not get brainwshed they can even make me look where they want....staying positive the best I can, thanks for all you say and do!!!!!!
"you weren't heard" that's what hit me. I have to keep getting these reminders. Waiting was the name of the game. So many days spent hoping and feeling alone. I feel less alone without him. He was persistently there ..in voice only.. and then it would get around to what he needed.
I went no contact with My mother, I just found out that my stepdad is at the end of his life. Everyone is expecting me to present when family arrive . I want to remain no contact.
Love 🕊️ 🌎🙌👍💯🤍🤸🙈☺️Andrew thank you every word that you say is very important and true 💯🤍 God bless all the good people in our life time together we can leave the dingers narcissist people 💯 never look back
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 10 💯👍💚🙌🌎great advice ever 👑 Andrew thank you again 💯 for get back to us you making our feelings happy 😊 god bless you always peace and love 🕊️🤍☺️😎❤️🧚
I got a random package/gift from my narc parent last week.... They don't call me or text me (they've been using the silent treatment with me for a very long time), and then a random gift shows up at my door from them.
Andrew, why in your opinion are there so many narcs living in our world. I did not know for 34 years I was living with a narc, I knew something was very wrong but I had never heard of narcissism. I almost died. I’m out a year now and battling depression. I hope that lifts soon. I want to thank you so much for all you do. ❤
GVB 💜🎶♾️🔥. Out here in as BELOW so ABOVE, dealing with someone (s) who only spends their time stewing and fantasizing about some micky mouse plot that will finally work the evil magic they're desperate for. They are losing support little by little, one way or another, every time they fail they lower the rate of their own stock . Whether or not their false ego has them blinded to the truth or not, the behavior of their "retired flying monkeys" is undeniable and obvious to everyone, friend or foe.
If your not serving them they will make your life miserable. They will treat you with this respect. And I'm kindness, but when you start doing nice things for them. And your serving them, then they'll treat you fairly good, but it's never good enough.
I exposed his lies not knowing 8 people could here. Now the games of hell began. I tried to restore my relationship with my kids. They are in his realm of life.
@ no custody battle he just weaved his ways over 23 years of what an evil person I am. After he told me" He was only home when he wanted to be. My narcissist in laws never came over after the birth of a baby. They lived next door. Smh.they moved away. No for sale sign, i was told d dumpster came and mice came out of their couches, chairs. My out of town trip was when they moved 3 hours away. He was distraught mommy was gone. His drinking on the family tradition shattered. Now he moved on with her to secure the house when she passes and all the contents. He had her by him and $8000.00 snow blower. Now central air. Narc vNarc
I don’t know about anyone else on here, but I imagine teaching children about this at the earliest age (1st grade at latest). A daily class. The personality is formed in many ways by age 10. I want to teach these kids about narcissism before they fall into a toxic pattern of copying their parents. There are simple ways I can think of to teach them this. 😊
Damage is done by age 2. If a dysfunctional carer frustrates that dear child and not allow them boundaries, the child will die inside. They then repress and adapt to the demands of the toxic parents. Toxicity grows from there. We can teach children a concept of narcissism when they're supposedly cognitively developed, around ten years of age. A child that died inside means they have no depth, no insight, and no skills to be empathic. Prof Sam Vaknin, also on utube, would explain that you won't change a child that is damaged, who is continually grieving in an adult body. Dr Gabe Mate, writes we can't judge the parents, they have done the the best they could given our disconnected culture since major wars.
They are really good at coming out of left field. They have a bunch of flying monkeys. The queen narcissist now. Her father is the king. Tag team when you have not seen them in a year. They still watch from afar.
Thank you, Andrew, you are keeping me safe. ❣️
Your smile at the end is infectious. It’s a gift.
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I love when you say we will ,"Dust yourself off by the bootstraps!"❤
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I remind myself almost daily that the healing path is not linear. This reminder has likely detoured me from a big setback of doubting I’m healing. Knowing a setback doesn’t take away the awareness, education, and progress keeps the optimism for moving forward. Thank you, Andrew.
I needed this. I journaled today about how i can now look back and see how people pleasing damaged things. A new cast of people now. That helps a lot.
I can relate. Since I was a child I was a people pleaser. That continued into adulthood and it cost me everything. Because I could never say NO, I was taken advantage of for decades. When I finally had to put down boundaries because I lost my only child, I was labeled mean, cold, cruel. I had to block some siblings and other relatives. I am now alone. My narc husband had already died 20 yrs ago due to lifestyle. There is now no one around. It's very quiet, and been a challenge of adjustment, but atleast I have peace. I can now start rebuilding my very broken life thanks to this videos, and alot of prayers.
do not "poke the bear." silence - resilience - You, are now free. Stay free and move yourself on because you love yourself and deserve the best life -Blessings.
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I really needed to hear this message. Sometimes you hear something that you needed to hear and it is a light bulb moment. This is that moment for me. I’m a year out from the day that my life and future changed in a heartbeat. Some days almost feel normal and then there are the other days when I feel like I’m right back in the fog of sadness and disbelief of what had happened. I don’t feel like I’m ever going to make it to the pinnacle but then I take another step… This was the motivation I needed to realize that two steps forward is a net positive accomplishment and to give myself grace in my healing journey. So, bless you for being that beacon for us!
It was hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that the love bomb was actually abuse-it was a setup for the trap. You couldn’t get stuck in the trauma bond without the euphoric stage!
Also, narcs like to push empaths into reactive abuse. Don’t fall for that trap either! Like Andrew says, don’t call them out, get revenge, etc. The best thing is to take 100 percent of your energy back. 🙌
"Reactive Abuse."-- So tricky. So easy to fall into when they know what buttons to push.
Knowing about Narcs and their games is step one to improving "emotional control."
That will help you in interactions with anyone for the rest of your Life.
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Well said... that's for sure! 👍
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Whenever ANYONE attempts to "trigger, you 👀👀👀 { see } it for what it is and "shake it off." 😌😌😌
Like Keith Urban's song, Stupid Boy, "a good man is hard to find, but a bad one is harder to shake off". Man or woman this applies.❣️
That's exactly what I said and explained to my therapist today:
In the past there were still dark days, now there are dark hours in one day and after a while my light comes back- yes it still falling back one step sometimes but then I actually feel going two steps or even three forward. It's called the healing path! Don't get impatient, it's a journey, sometimes challenging and rocky but I know in my heart we will reach our final destination: the beautiful bright mountain top of total indifference! When we arrive and look back down - everything will look insignificant! We will all make it- hang in there beautiful souls.
Namaste ❤
Beautiful 👍❤👍❤👍
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Grurrrreat video. I support the ascension timeline. Enjoy your day, night❤😊
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It's hard to take that the narcissist had disdain for me because there were so many mixed feelings. I appreciate it Andrew when you say be kind to yourself, be patient with yourself
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Needed to hear this… yes, even taking a step back, I’m still making progress… keeping on the path even with the speed bumps… Have a great evening!
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Love the speed bumps!!!
God bless you, God bless us all! We'll get there- no worries! 😊
I’m on day 13 of my healing journey after 13 years. I’ve already experienced the 2 steps forward and 1 step back. It’s part of my healing process as I embrace my new found freedom. I’m also an empath and a seer and I’m not afraid of what I see only hurt by what I see and the experience I’ve been through. He really had me fooled as well as our families and friends. I can see clearly now that the rose coloured glasses are off and I’m grieving who I thought I knew. Thank you for sharing theses videos as it really helps me to understand who these human beings are. I’ve turned to my cultural teachings and ceremonies to help get me through this and my inner light is getting brighter and I’m getting stronger every day. Nameste 🙏🏽
My set back was thinking I could go gray rock and it would be ok. The narc was being nice and I let my guard down. These people need no door open.
.....go rugger! You can do this!........
Don't play into their wicked chess games of endless set backs. This is exactly what they want the most, to burn you out for control. Save yourself, don't complain or explain by quickly walking away from the whole damn table. There is nothing good enough to win because there is no real prize or peace.
thats a big goodbye! we love ya brother.
Namaste Andrew...every word, every single word you speak here describes me, my life that is in the past, and by your smile at the end of this broadcast, it presents my future.
It is a crying time for me, this weekend. I embrace it with calmness, because for a long time, I felt nothing. I knew the sorrow was in me, but I felt nothing. My tears now are washing away the old Annette, and cleaning the path for the third Annette to walk apon, solidly and strongly, as the gentle warrior I am, have been, and now am again.
I am taking your hand in mine, friend, and I am walking with you, in the present, in the now. Namaste.
Excellent Annette...you are in a superb mind set, blessings 👍🙏💥
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Be proud of yourself that you can get those tears out. Tears detoxify on so many levels. Best wishes.
I still cry at times..been two years on path of healing😔
Thank you my friends your encouragement touches my heart and that gives me deep strength!
Keep putting one foot in front of the other. Do not stop. Keep working on yourself and your healing. The narc will still be looking for "victims" on their DEATHBED. Live in reality. Stay conscious and awake at all times. The narc is an evil creature. You CANNOT change the narc with your "love". They will die in their sickness. Blessings to all!❤
True, I felt their disdain too.
Imagine a small child, the narcissust, dying inside because of the disdain endured by a dysfunctional parent. A child in an adult body is suffering, and it's reflected onto us.
That, too, is very sad
I'm still healing, it does take time. I still have to keep my cup full. Thank you, Andrew.
Excellent content today
Nice work!
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Its Been 4 1 9 Days Since I Was DISCARDED By My NarcissistEx-Wife!
It's a Miracle I'm Here 🙏
@@Cowboy19735 Don’t keep counting up from the time you broke up with the abuser. A certain time you’ll have to count where your life is of real value again. Like a late life rebirth
This video was *so* eye-opening for me. There are still many days when I feel like I have one foot nailed to the floor and I’m just going in circles trying to move forward. You are a Godsend! ❤ from California.
Thank you for all your help. You were there at the right time when I needed help. I couldn’t have seen this clearly without you🙂🙏🏻
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Thank you Andrew for being here.
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone you have so cousy smile, i only saw you smiling in this two last videos. You smile is contagious 🎉
Thank you Andrew. I have set backs and I get upset at myself. I'm no contact now for 4 months but things keep popping up in my mind , I really need it to go away. I keep moving forward , I pray lot. Thank you for your support. Hugs
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Two and a half years and I really felt completely healed! For real - reached the level of complete indifference. And total independence on all levels.
But the last few days I had a set back - a kind of self pity maybe: I don’t deserve this.
But I know this too shall pass - being heal does not mean stop being human
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That's a really good point. Painful experiences feel familiar.
I'm getting closer to the Pinnacle of Indifference. I'm also noticing that my time for prosperity is upon me. Blessings for me as I'm meeting the right people to push this ahead to more Independence.😊❤. Thank you so much Andrew for your Encouragement and Wisdom as it is Priceless!
Dust your self up by the bootstrap! 🎉every day once again. It’s a hard way cause the community is as toxically as the narc!!! I was in fog for decades! To get out needs a long time! With many set back. Be in courage with yourself and be forgiving with yourself! Stay on your healing path!!❤for ever!
Healing is an inside undertaking. No one can heal you. Education and knowledge are your inner works search.You can be engineered to original template settings by another higher dark force. Controllers. As long as you’re in the encasement you’re on your own. False white light is a short feel good promise. You’re in charge. Awake and becoming aware.🦋🌀✨thank you❤😊
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Essie, do you know how to read auras?
Yep take the High Road ,,,its Best not to wrestle with.anyone Toxic,they are a Very Low Consciousness,,they dont evolve or change,,Put Energy and Time into you,,,T.Y. Andrew,🌟💜💜🤗🙏
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We think you are great ❤
Thanks Andrew 🙂👍
Thank you so much for your videos. Always seems to be what I need to hear. Struggling with delayed realization - the pain, emotion, anger just want to keep healing and allowing for a step back is part of the journey.
Welcome..😌🙏💜
They truly are “walking halograms”; good one Andrew ! Yet another visual to pop into my head whenever I entertain any notion of taking a step backwards. Thank you for your daily dose of support, it is a gift ♥️🤞🏼
THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE RIGHT NOW!❤ANDREW, KEEP SHARING, MUCH NEEDED INFARMATION AGAIN THANKS❤💜🔥🔥🔥🙏
Yesss its a huge support ! Really does cause be in non contact in the same home it s horrible horrible and so sad and it need so much strenght and manage the silence trestement and searching a place to mooooooooive to have time for myself rest and creat my art my life far from this sickness
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God bless you. Andrew
Your message spoke directly to me! Thank you!
Andrew’s videos speak directly to me too. A narc is a narc. They are all cut from the same cloth. It’s crazy how they are so much alike. I guess it’s true to say empathetic people, are much the same too.
BIG VIRTUAL HUG TO YOU TOO ANDREW. THANK YOU FOR ALL TEACHINGS AND LOVE.
10 steps forward 5 steps back the story of my life, now I fly ahead of myself to see where I'm going before I get there
I'm healing its been 6 months I'm divinely protected by God.i changed my number so much peace. I hope I never see him again.
Having a narcissist mother really sucks especially at significant family events
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Good video!
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It has dawned on me how easy it was for many family members to throw me, and my children, away. Not one word from any of them in three years. Oh, no way would I ever take any of them back. That's not my kind of people. I'm left standing with self respect. At times, the thought has surfaced...what just happened? We all deserve better than being discarded. And yet, when we do not take them back, on any level, we stand empowered.
Few can rely on family for understanding and acceptance.
Only hunters and gatherers, probably, etc
@tressahowe8952 Only hunters and gatherers sure says it. So, true.
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Grief visits us and we can't control when. Kubler-Ross wrote about this and many others. We can feel great but then grief comes.
We must allow ourselves to let this go through us. No running or distracting from it.
I like what Andrew said, be patient and do all the other things necessary to heal, grow.
Learning to shut up.....taking the high road.....i get it.... !!!!
Dirty fangs! Love it😂
I’d like to expose him but won’t do it. I will do the right thing. I won’t waste all this work I’ve done with you❤
Hi, I had to mortify (expose)mine and let him know I did not want him calling me ever again.
Prof Sam Vaknin, on u-tube also, believes that it is the best deterrent to prevent another hoovering.
I was hoovered and I fell for it. I'm sure you know the dungeon of dismay, sespool of manipulation, and pathological lying I endured after.
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Namaste Andrew. Your videos tell me I'm on track.
GOOD morning Andrew🇫🇷🦋🙏🥶Thank you for this vip message.. I will always march forward & enjoy this Renewed energy!!🙏🦋🇫🇷Knowing in my Heart,, I DID THE VERY BEST🙏🦋🇫🇷
Andrew, thank you for the daily videos of motivation and perseverance. Power Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🙏❤️😊🙌
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As the days go by, it gets easier. I'm approaching 1 month absolutely NO CONTACT with the Narc spouse (Divorce started). Left my home, my town, my state. He had no clue I was that intelligent and resourceful! Restoring my own peace and happiness is the best revenge.
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I'm now on 2 steps fw, 1 step back. At least moving forward, albeit slowly. Now I'm spending too much time with him again. He is so co-dependent. And I'm too kind. Praying to God every day to release me from this. I don't need him, he needs me, but I honestly DO NOT WANT to be with him. I just want peace.
I háve called hom out a lot. It was satisfying, but the backlash was harsh!
You are so on point. He always does the hoover before weekends, probably just to keep me from going out or visit friends. He wants me all to himself - isolation.
My daughter said to me when I was about to go to him again yesterday, (he was super nice this weekend) - we stay about 200m away from each other 🙈) - Mom, it's easier to stay away than you think. You're over-thinking this, and he is not about to die anytime soon. (She used the word "die" we use in our language for an animal). I know, right? Yet it still feels like a bit of a comfort zone there. (Maybe you can make a video about this?).
Thank you so much Andrew. Namaste ❤
Prof Sam Vaknin has read all the studies over a hundred years, and he explains our human fears, our co-dependency, etc, etc. On u-tube.
@tressahowe8952 thank you!
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So well said Andrew.. Hone/polish your 'diamond hub' and central core magnificent knowing heart essence!
YOU ARE MAGNIFICENTLY POWERHOUSE.. GO THERE !
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Yes....this is how I feel right now.
thank you Andrew ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏 it goes to the heart and heals
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I’m still acquiring wisdom. Weekends are still difficult. I’m making more friends which helps. I still need therapy but still no job at the moment. Once I get one I can sort everything. ❤
Cool that "you know what you need." Hoping you get hired into a decent job with a good environment!
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I recommend volunteering. It's a great way to meet people.❤
Realizing they had disdain for you all along was the hardest part to accept. Fighting back or revenge is out because I’m no match against this evil. Accept it for what it is, go no contact as soon as you can, and move on. Easier said than done, I know. More than 2 years into this and I still have bad days. Thankful for my daily dose of Andrew!
It sounds like you understand radical acceptance. So true that it is rough registering on their disdain. We just don't think in those terms. Let us all remain on the higher ground.
Their disdain for their targets is simply a reflection for their disdain for themselves.
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Daily dose of Andrew, I like that!😂
I hear you, Lisa! I still live with mine, and his 'open disdain' is like a kick to the stomach. However, it's a reflection of his inner demons, so I do my best to ignore his name calling and disrespect (it's a waste of my energy to defend, explain, engage or personalise). Plus, the best revenge is to work on my inner peace and stay as nonchalant as possible (good vibrations only!). I hope you heal from all the chaos soon. 🙏💖
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Yes, if you should have a loved one pass along your healing path... don't give up!!! It may feel like a title wave that came & knocked you down once again... but it is life. You are not going backwards... you just need time to grieve. I know...& I wish love & strength to those who may have this occur.
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The passing of a loved one can be a huge missing piece of a person's life. So much, you've wished you've said on how much you loved and appreciated them in your Life.🙏🌠
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I find what your saying is very true....I’m slowly healing
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Hello Andrew, everything your saying is true. Thank you.
Appreciate it 😮
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I am in a court process to divide assets for the sake of my children. I was discarded. He is absolutely refusing to recognize my rights, and impossible to get through even presening the facts. Everything is still my fault. It's so difficult to get over the fact he never cared and my head still think of him.
I keep telling myself this. Yes, 5 months post narcissist, and I struggle with this fact, too. They are heartless
I’m feeling stuck and shame; frustration at a relapse to abusive behavior by my daughter.
Blocked her again…. but I’m not shaking it off well YET
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I have a daughter like that myself! And 2 of my sons. It's nuts! I'm comfortable without them in my world. Life is just too short. 😊
To have a narcessistic daughter hurts a lot , i went no contact, no other thing to do .the behaviour became violent and worse. I was afraid of my own child. When the adult narcessistic children are about the age 40 the abuse get worse. The healing path is nog easy, cutting the emotionel bound with my children needs a lot of time. 40 years i was there for them, but every day I am so happy just to be in peace. The stress was to much. The abuse is finished. I am still alone without people. I need to be alone to heal and get rid of high cortisol levels. Diet and exercise are important to heal my body. I am 59 it needs time. But I am happy with the progres my health returns.
There are lots of groups and interests in the community when youre ready.
@@paulineklostermann5877 I get it. As Michael Tsarion said, "We can give birth to these creatures." Their behavior is supernaturally demonic. The more we regulate our emotions and see it all for what it is, the better off we are. They have chosen poorly, but it is their choice to make. Our tribe isn't in this realm. We help them and ourselves by protecting ourselves and setting healthy boundaries. I have some psychologist friends that say many wake up at 40. I think it can go either way. I send mine positive intentions of healing and love every day. It's the best I can do for now. 💕
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Thank you Andrew! ❤
I've struggled with descision making my whole life. My narrsacist doesn't make it even better. The voices inside my head , the constant war with people using some device talking to me in my head , the high tech contacts irratating my eyes , causing me headaches and confusion....just doing my best to not get brainwshed they can even make me look where they want....staying positive the best I can, thanks for all you say and do!!!!!!
STALKERS! They should be reported.
They are protected by the badge ....Sinolia cartel protected by the good ol government.....fuckn joke !!!
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Thank you as always sir! God bless you 🙏
"you weren't heard" that's what hit me. I have to keep getting these reminders. Waiting was the name of the game. So many days spent hoping and feeling alone. I feel less alone without him. He was persistently there ..in voice only.. and then it would get around to what he needed.
I provided a lot and now he's on his own.
No l don't want to be stuck in it longer! Even if l miss him
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Two steps forward , one step back , it’s the cha cha 😂
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I went no contact with My mother, I just found out that my stepdad is at the end of his life. Everyone is expecting me to present when family arrive . I want to remain no contact.
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Already exposed her , now what torture time . I had no idea until it was to late
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Love 🕊️ 🌎🙌👍💯🤍🤸🙈☺️Andrew thank you every word that you say is very important and true 💯🤍 God bless all the good people in our life time together we can leave the dingers narcissist people 💯 never look back
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 10 💯👍💚🙌🌎great advice ever 👑 Andrew thank you again 💯 for get back to us you making our feelings happy 😊 god bless you always peace and love 🕊️🤍☺️😎❤️🧚
I got a random package/gift from my narc parent last week.... They don't call me or text me (they've been using the silent treatment with me for a very long time), and then a random gift shows up at my door from them.
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Like a vampire
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one step at a time!
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Andrew, why in your opinion are there so many narcs living in our world. I did not know for 34 years I was living with a narc, I knew something was very wrong but I had never heard of narcissism. I almost died. I’m out a year now and battling depression. I hope that lifts soon. I want to thank you so much for all you do. ❤
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GVB 💜🎶♾️🔥. Out here in as BELOW so ABOVE, dealing with someone (s) who only spends their time stewing and fantasizing about some micky mouse plot that will finally work the evil magic they're desperate for. They are losing support little by little, one way or another, every time they fail they lower the rate of their own stock . Whether or not their false ego has them blinded to the truth or not, the behavior of their "retired flying monkeys" is undeniable and obvious to everyone, friend or foe.
Yup happened to me 😮
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There are oodles of them out there. Recognize the pattern. You matter.❤
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Having a bad night thinking about him. It’s because I’m alone with no job yet. I’m wondering what he’s doing
We've all been there. You are not alone. I still miss my narc and he's been dead for 7 years!😢
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If your not serving them they will make your life miserable. They will treat you with this respect. And I'm kindness, but when you start doing nice things for them. And your serving them, then they'll treat you fairly good, but it's never good enough.
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no revenge, no gossip, i’m none of those never have or would i ..
Just finished watching Going Through The Dark Night Of The Soul by E. Tolle
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I exposed his lies not knowing 8 people could here. Now the games of hell began. I tried to restore my relationship with my kids. They are in his realm of life.
I get it. The stalking.And custody battles. Good luck! Do it!☘
@ no custody battle he just weaved his ways over 23 years of what an evil person I am. After he told me" He was only home when he wanted to be. My narcissist in laws never came over after the birth of a baby. They lived next door. Smh.they moved away. No for sale sign, i was told d dumpster came and mice came out of their couches, chairs. My out of town trip was when they moved 3 hours away. He was distraught mommy was gone. His drinking on the family tradition shattered. Now he moved on with her to secure the house when she passes and all the contents. He had her by him and $8000.00 snow blower. Now central air. Narc vNarc
@@AngelEyes-xm7el Ugh typical, and now you know where he gets it from. Hang in there and best of luck
@@dbcooper808 thanks 🙏
I don’t know about anyone else on here, but I imagine teaching children about this at the earliest age (1st grade at latest). A daily class.
The personality is formed in many ways by age 10. I want to teach these kids about narcissism before they fall into a toxic pattern of copying their parents.
There are simple ways I can think of to teach them this. 😊
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This should definitely be taught very early on.
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I agree 👍..my life was ruined by my ex husband..If I had only known what I was dealing with I would have never had wasted 17 years of my life..😢
Damage is done by age 2. If a dysfunctional carer frustrates that dear child and not allow them boundaries, the child will die inside. They then repress and adapt to the demands of the toxic parents. Toxicity grows from there.
We can teach children a concept of narcissism when they're supposedly cognitively developed, around ten years of age. A child that died inside means they have no depth, no insight, and no skills to be empathic. Prof Sam Vaknin, also on utube, would explain that you won't change a child that is damaged, who is continually grieving in an adult body.
Dr Gabe Mate, writes we can't judge the parents, they have done the the best they could given our disconnected culture since major wars.
They are really good at coming out of left field. They have a bunch of flying monkeys. The queen narcissist now. Her father is the king. Tag team when you have not seen them in a year. They still watch from afar.
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