Men & Women No Longer Compatible because Men Want PROVIDERS! While Not Respecting WHAT You Provide

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  • @IAMGROOT4EVA
    @IAMGROOT4EVA 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +399

    I keep telling people that older men are jealous of younger men and want their women. Think about it. They tell younger men to play games with their women and to not settle down. Then, they go to the younger women and tell her that a younger man could never do for her what he can, can never treat her the way she's supposed to be treated. Don't lie, ladies. How many older men have used those lines on you?
    They purposely don't teach the young man how to behave in a relationship, how to take care of responsibilities, how to be a man. He's setting the young man up for failure because HE WANTS THE YOUNG MAN'S WOMAN!!
    It's no different than a jealous friend giving bad advice to their friend about their relationship. They want to take your place, plotting on your relationship's downfall. Be careful who you take advice from because some people are setting you up. There's a lot of people who want other people's lives and will do ANYTHING to get it. A lot of older men are jealous of younger men, and that's a FACT!!

    • @RasheedahNizam
      @RasheedahNizam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

      100% that there is some of that. But I also think that older men want to be seen as the Wise Sage, and they want younger men to seek their advice. And it's always easier to get other people to listen to you when you are saying the problem is other people and not them. That's the reason that the Fresh and Fit channel only exploded when they stopped talking about personal self-improvement and started bringing on young women to berate.

    • @stacierose1692
      @stacierose1692 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      You are on to something 😢 Agents of Chaos!!!

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

      Omg! 🤯 why didn't I realize this sooner?? Yesssss!

    • @nitab.e4899
      @nitab.e4899 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Oh wow! It makes sense.

    • @ThistleRealm
      @ThistleRealm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      LISTEN!!
      I went out on ONE date earlier this year with a 'man' who was 25 years older than myself.
      He was on his Kevin Samuel's steez....HOW DAMN EVER....he managed to tell me TWICE that evening that no man MY age or younger would be able to handle me.
      He felt I needed someone who would help to ground me 😂😮 and take care....I didn't even ask him who he thought I needed.
      I was just enjoying my wine and there for the experience lol
      I learned so much on that one date.
      #nevaagain 😂

  • @cdubya752
    @cdubya752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +239

    My grandma got pregnant young and was forced to marry my grandpa, she went on to have a total of 6 children and this man was cheating and producing outside children. She divorced him in her 30’s. He moved back to Oklahoma and remarried, had no relationship with his children or grandchildren. My grandma said to me “ do what you can without a man because they don’t do shit but cause problems and are only good for one thing and can’t do that right” I miss her❤ she never remarried.

    • @Strega4646
      @Strega4646 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Im so sorry to hear that. Your grandpa baby trapped your grandma. 😢

    • @Monique-xz3jp
      @Monique-xz3jp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@uchihaaiyuki30 Yep 👍🏽🦋

    • @bobhill4364
      @bobhill4364 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about your father?

    • @TURBOBEATZZZ
      @TURBOBEATZZZ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Did he grape her?

  • @HagiaFantasia
    @HagiaFantasia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +249

    Men nowadays want obedient providers,

    • @Pile55
      @Pile55 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men want to rest in their masculinity and take care of the home when women work. Men are not supposed to work. Men want to be loved and provided for.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds stupid huh?

    • @dspenderella9671
      @dspenderella9671 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      "Obedient providers" is a walking contradiction/ oxymoron...This so true though! 👏🏾

    • @lunam33
      @lunam33 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They have always been consumers, all they were in nature was a sperm donor, women have always done everything but in community, its time to rebuild the community. Women are more efficient anyways whats the point of them, besides sperm donation at this point. Together as women we can finally build a truly advanced civilization based on universal principle free of the low grade male and his low grade system that have been holding humanity back for so long. Women working together are far more efficient given we already do mos of the labor, and no male draining your energy source will raise the frequency even more.
      We can have prior choice economics and all the things they keep holding back because they are afraid of real advancement all the hidden advanced technologies kept hidden, we can be the leaders we are meant to be and take control of everything and enact true fairness and advancement for all, that they keep stalling because they insist on violence human trafficking, sexual exploitation, domestic violence, we can end it all once and for all, something they never did for thousands of years. As women we are the future leaders of a truly advanced egalitarian society, and we won't be like them and spread evil, we will liberate all women worldwide, we end all patriarchal system everywhere. Mother Earth will be respected once more.
      The more women wake up the better, this can be a global evolution of women uniting and building a new future working together, and helping each other, building businesses, building wealth, building a sustainable future, fusion energy, diplomatic relations, respect for different perspectives, permaculture, and so forth. The male is an evolutionary failure along with all his ideas are a destructive force on the planet.

    • @Erin_Bee
      @Erin_Bee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Yep, submissive providers

  • @perrykeshahwalker5321
    @perrykeshahwalker5321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    Interesting perspective. Most men put more stock in their ability to accumulate a high body count. When I talk about being a responsible and honorable man, most of the red pill types call me a simp and I have 27yrs invested in a healthy marriage. My wife and I have been through the ups and the downs. I had to learn a lot of things along the way and I try to share it with some of these guys but they think it's stupid. They don't want to hear that. They want to hear how do I get rich and pick up women. I'm trying to tell them how to choose a wife and become a family man. Sad.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So many men are going to die alone- angry, lonely, sad old men because women are sick to death of them and lots of us are refusing to have anything to do with them anymore

    • @godpilled9077
      @godpilled9077 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are the unicorn every women is looking for. What I don't understand is that the Redpill creates the high body counts and single mothers that they complain about. Men could fix the problem overnight by not having sex with anyone other than their wife.

    • @theinvisogirl2520
      @theinvisogirl2520 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hi I just wanted to say that my husband is good man in the same way that you are and he does what he can to help these red pilled guys and I fear that it is going to hurt him to try and be a voice of reason. We have known each other for 6 years married for 1 year and I just don’t want to see him let down. Like it’s truly sad.

    • @NDR-hu8wh
      @NDR-hu8wh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This type of man (which is most, not all) is toddler minded. They brag to impress other men. They have kids to brag to other men. They chase women to brag to other members. They get a higher income to brag to other men. And so on.
      It's like, "Look at me, I have 20 women, and you have 2. I am more of a man." Like I said, just to brag to other men.

  • @TanyaManzini
    @TanyaManzini 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    I think the future is not only homosocial for men but homosexual also

    • @JusticeWarriorTV
      @JusticeWarriorTV 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      Oh it definitely will be. Plenty of them are already on the DL.

    • @tricieb.5921
      @tricieb.5921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Homosexuality between so called straight men is already here

    • @tricieb.5921
      @tricieb.5921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Homosexuality between so called straight men is already here

    • @tricieb.5921
      @tricieb.5921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Homosexuality between so called straight men is already here

    • @tricieb.5921
      @tricieb.5921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Homosexuality between so called straight men is already here

  • @shamonjgifts
    @shamonjgifts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +281

    If they really didn't care about a woman's finances they would not ask what she bring to the table. They would not be talking that nonsense about going 50/50.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I believe when they say that about a woman’s finances it more to the effect of it’s not the in top 3 character attributes. Also, many women view sharing (with a man) as an affront to their soul. However, the character you bring to the relationship will also make a financial cameo now and again.

    • @twinkletits2459
      @twinkletits2459 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      They want to know what women bring to the table because they’re in their receptive feminine mode and wanting princess treatment, but also still want to cosplay as masculine men. The sassy man apocalypse is real and it’s hilarious. 😂

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

      They WANT you to have a lot of money to help with bills, but not more than he, so you can't tell him what to do

    • @robynr3130
      @robynr3130 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      @@TonyaTko "They WANT you to have a lot of money to help with bills, *but not more than he, so you can't tell him what to do."* ^^So good I thought I'd post it again!

    • @shamonjgifts
      @shamonjgifts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@TonyaTko makes sense sis.

  • @d.shidon
    @d.shidon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

    These job roles aren’t respected, they’re EXPECTED!!!

  • @Strega4646
    @Strega4646 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Boys: "WE WANT A TRADITIONAL WIFE!"
    Also Boys: "We want 50/50 you gotta work!"
    If you want a traditional woman as a wife,then be a TRADITIONAL man!

  • @peachesandpoets
    @peachesandpoets 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    DECENTRE MALES! honestly, women, at this point you're just choosing to be dragged down if you don't get get your shit together before even allowing these males to talk to you.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🗣 You tell’em cis!
      Then what?

    • @babygirla5717
      @babygirla5717 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep pretty much 🤷🏽‍♀️💯

    • @oliviaobiaja
      @oliviaobiaja 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@chakradjuzeus9275then nothing...taking care of ones self and centering ones health, wealth and life are lifelong goals.

    • @zephyrmajor5618
      @zephyrmajor5618 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why allow them to talk? They repeat the same patterns to the detriment of women. Why wait for the "red flags," when it appears their existence is a red flag?

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even if you do get it together, if you let them into your life they’ll destroy everything you’ve created and destroy you to your core- they just take, consume and destroy- look what they’ve done to earth, it’s not women who’ve destroyed the planet, we haven’t even been able to vote until recent history

  • @ladywillow2961
    @ladywillow2961 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    If I have to provide, I'm providing alone! I can take care of everything by myself, I don't need a leach!

    • @rebel8440
      @rebel8440 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      facts!!!

    • @theresaaubry2481
      @theresaaubry2481 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👀 Exactly, a parasite lazy entitled spoiled brat who wants someone to take care of him... Ummm, No I rather pass....

  • @areyourhandsbroke
    @areyourhandsbroke 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    They don't care about your education, yet you are raising their kids make it make sense.

    • @Enriquez2222
      @Enriquez2222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We’ve established that the males aren’t as smart as they portray themselves

    • @stepfaniehawkins205
      @stepfaniehawkins205 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Men don't actually care about their kids.....

    • @areyourhandsbroke
      @areyourhandsbroke 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@stepfaniehawkins205 omg

  • @l.b.5187
    @l.b.5187 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    You mentioned the movie, Chiraq. The movie was very interesting. It was the story of women going on a sex strike to stop the violence of men. It has been done. I wonder if we could make it work here.

    • @jonathanjacob5453
      @jonathanjacob5453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Yes women should go on a strike.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Yeah y’all probably do need to close up the birth canals for a bit. Maybe even consider the concept of a productive family unit. That would help tremendously to eradicate many of generational curses walking around and infecting subsequent generations.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jonathanjacob5453please close that gap.

    • @Age_Of_Aquarius84
      @Age_Of_Aquarius84 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      I've been on strike for 4 years now. I will never let a BANDIT touch me again 💯🚫🚫🚫

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Probably, and honestly women should do it anyway just for our safety, the men are becoming vile and out of control

  • @belleoftheball7634
    @belleoftheball7634 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Tonya, after my patents divorced i saw how my mom struggled and we rarely saw my dad. She had 4 daughters, no sons. She NEVER dated again after they split. Since she experienced SA as a child, she didn't let any man near us. I didn't want that life. I, like you, vowed to have my own money and home, AND not a bunch of damn kids with an absent daddy. I accomplished all those things. I'm divorced and I have one 25 yr old daughter. It's me and her to this day. I'm glad i did things this way.

  • @notyet2345
    @notyet2345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    From what I understand the reason women are having less sex is because women are consuming less alcohol. Alcohol fueled the hook up culture. When women consume less alcohol, men have less sex. I don't think men are making a conscious decision to not have sex, it's just that women are having less sex so that means men are having less sex.

    • @Shes_eM
      @Shes_eM 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Please! We are consuming more alcohol if anything, times are more stressful now than ever! We are having less sex now cus we desire peace, we are now staying home by ourselves wit a drink in our hands

    • @notyet2345
      @notyet2345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@Shes_eM Just going by the statistics that alcohol consumption is down largely due to more people switching to weed,

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women always have an excuse for why they participate in something. It's always an outside influence possessing women

    • @thefreebabe
      @thefreebabe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      as if ppl don't have sex while high... I think women, we are jst putting ourselves first. @@notyet2345

    • @DRunnerr
      @DRunnerr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Shes_eM Thank you! 👏🏾I sure am going to enjoy a glass of wine with dinner hell maybe even two if I choose too. I'm at peace without any useless male around me they don't deserve sex atm

  • @DRunnerr
    @DRunnerr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Tonya, I love how you put this video together! When it finally hit me that the male, I was with didn't appreciate anything I did, I used to beg my ex to sit down with me one day out the week when convenient for him so we can discuss how we would divide up more of the housework, I was stressed & exhausted. etc. (pissed at myself for not vetting properly and lowering myself to the point of begging) Well this male told me that seems too stressful and because I work from home, I've had more time apparently to think on these things and he needed more time. There was NO WAY he could come home and notice if dish soap or tissue was needed to be brought...😪mind you I wasn't just sitting on my 🍑 watching soap operas. I worked 2 full time jobs 7 days straight plus cooking, cleaning, scheduling things that were needed, planning grocery lists, shopping for it and restocking, laundry! Ugh I get sick thinking about it yall, I woke tf up silently stacked my $ from 2nd job moved to a way better area and house and I'm at the most peace ever I have sooo much time to do self-care to relax to love on myself and do my hobbies 👏🏾

    • @DRunnerr
      @DRunnerr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Also, grateful I protected myself because he wanted a baby soo bad more than he wanted to be a partner to me, I can't imagine the load of stress I would've been under had I given into what he wanted.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      They suck the life out of you, there’s something wrong with them

    • @DearStephanieX
      @DearStephanieX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so glad you left and are living well ❤

  • @Aliensanonymous_
    @Aliensanonymous_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    It’s beyond wild to expect women to provide these expected expectations but not to think those expectations from men would be required in return. Great job on this video Tonya and Decenter men. My dad taught me not to be a pick me and to have higher standards for myself 😊.

    • @Darth_Bateman
      @Darth_Bateman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      . . . .Do you actually talk to men outside the internet. . . . ?
      Because, I assure you : Very few of us want a woman to mommy us. . . . .

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Woman are not made for that either. They don’t have the strength and energy that men have that’s why men have been taking the role of provider since beginning of times. Men all over the world understand that. Apart from bm who never want to man up and have no honor in being men

  • @patwilliams8973
    @patwilliams8973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    THEY FEEL SAD THEY CHANNEL THAT INTO: ANGER.
    THEY FEEL AFRAID THEY CHANNEL THAT INTO: ANGER.
    THEY FEEL LONELY THEY CHANNEL THAT INTO: ANGER.
    THEY FEEL INSECURE THEY CHANNEL THAT INTO: ANGER.
    THEY FEEL REJECTION THEY CHANNEL THAT INTO: ANGER.

    • @Tish1068
      @Tish1068 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yet, women are the emotional ones.

  • @C.E.O.007
    @C.E.O.007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Yas. It was taught. They are all playing Women for fools.. but I know this how most of men that are with women literally look at you when that woman back turns disgust me.. family members men or not..I'm so traumatized

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams4295 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I met a man recently, and he was immediately trying to put me to work...He was asking me to cook, and other casual favors, all while not even knowing my last name.....👀🥴😬😑😑😑

    • @1IIiII1
      @1IIiII1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A guy tried to get me to fold his laundry lol... I now i realize he was testing me to see what he could get away with lol. I'm a millennial so I'm in between relying on the internet and the old ways before the internet. People are really learning how to scam from youtube.

  • @alluress2020
    @alluress2020 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Unpopular opinion: I wouldn't mind a man who made less than me if he was going to be supportive and take on household tasks e.g. mow the lawn, cook and clean. This would free me up to focus on my career without these distractions. It would be nice to come to a home-cooked meal. The issue is that these men want you to make more than them but also submit to them. As well they don't want to take on household tasks. They don't seem to understand that it's either you make the money and have someone at home supporting you and if you don't make the money then you should support the person making the money & if you make the same amount then household tasks should be 50-50 too.

    • @ladybug3380
      @ladybug3380 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They don’t know what the word support means because they’re selfish by nature.

    • @lisasimpson8003
      @lisasimpson8003 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Your comment is logical and fair. But the problem is, women dont understand that when a man makes less money than his woman, HE RESENTS HER. And he will become emotionally or verbally abusive as a result. I witnessed this! Its not completely men's fault, because we live in a society where manhood is almost solely defined by income. So a man feels emasculated when his wife or gf make more money than him. Word of advice, NEVER enter a serious relationship with a man who makes less money than you. Men do not have the mental-emotional capacity to give women reciprocal love. So 50/50 will never work with men because they feel ENTITLED to 90/10 lol.

    • @alluress2020
      @alluress2020 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@lisasimpson8003 The main point of my comment was that men need to change the way they operate, not that women should settle for broke guys. Unless men stop the double standards, modern-day relationships (in which women are increasingly out-earning men) will remain unstable.
      Hence my comment "Men don't seem to understand that it's either you make the money and have someone at home supporting you and if you don't make the money then you should support the person making the money & if you make the same amount then household tasks should be 50-50 too."

    • @lisasimpson8003
      @lisasimpson8003 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@alluress2020 i understood your comment. But u didnt understand mine. My point is it doesnt matter if men self reflect etc they literally lack the capacity to engage in a reciprocal romantic partnership. Men are not capable of doing wat u described. That was my point.

    • @alluress2020
      @alluress2020 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@lisasimpson8003 My point is unless they stop with the double standards, modern relationships (where more women are outearning men) will never work.
      Whether they are capable of changing or not is not known, men have changed through the years, and whether they can make this new leap is unknown.

  • @Idkjustyet
    @Idkjustyet 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    If you provide for a man he will resent you for the same thing he asked for. He no longer has control and his ego is being bruised because he can’t provide in the first place. I wouldn’t even recommend going 50/50 because he will also feel a way about that too. They don’t really want equality like they say because that takes away their control over you. Don’t fall for this BS ladies. They don’t even know what they want and they always have a goal or a secret motive when they first approach you as well.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agreed

    • @nikkyjackson6500
      @nikkyjackson6500 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Fact💯 my thoughts exactly
      I always tell women to never fall for a 50/50 relationship or marriage Men secretly will eventually resent you for not being a provider.
      A man who truly loves and desires you will never ask you to split your bills something isn't just right about how He views your relationship with him. Don’t be surprised this type of man will cheat on you with someone they provide for. Don’t fall for this Morden-sick trend of a 50/50 relationship.
      Help your man financially when He needs it and this should be a partner who invests his time and money not only that, but He treats you like a Queen and provides not 50/50 please 😊

    • @BebaDivested
      @BebaDivested 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly

  • @louisewilliams9417
    @louisewilliams9417 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    There was a documentary series called Mum's on Strike in the UK. Did they ever air this in the US. Those men couldn't cope for a day. 😂

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Oh gracious

    • @louisewilliams9417
      @louisewilliams9417 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@TonyaTko they just couldn't cope 😀

  • @yourmajesty8742
    @yourmajesty8742 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    submissive providers at that 😅

    • @jonathanjacob5453
      @jonathanjacob5453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s the dream. A man slave.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Pookie women crave comes with some downsides. This may not be one of them

    • @Spiritfba
      @Spiritfba 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is an epidemic of cucked men who are weak from spending hours a day browsing porn and thirst traps and playing video games. Women are out here handling things and men are going soft in more ways than one.

  • @DecenterMen
    @DecenterMen 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    @tonyatko Thank you for featuring my channel! I'm over here fangirlin. Love your content and I've learned a lot from you!

  • @eac-guy7272
    @eac-guy7272 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    4B Movement , we need to get on it

    • @JajaApples
      @JajaApples 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m on it now.

  • @laurenkirby5390
    @laurenkirby5390 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Don’t forget they want to be mothered 🤦🏿‍♀

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      And they want an emotional or literal punching bag to take their frustrations out on

    • @BebaDivested
      @BebaDivested 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly

    • @user-tq8px3xe8i
      @user-tq8px3xe8i 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And yall want to be fathered

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-tq8px3xe8i even if we did, you guys aren’t capable, you’ve become useless to us, that’s why so many of us are just walking away and having nothing to do with you, we don’t need you- for anything

  • @patty-pat-pat
    @patty-pat-pat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    and then these same males are stunned when their own daughters get pumped & dumped...

  • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
    @PettyIsMyMiddleName 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    2 things my daddy instilled into me
    1. ALWAYS have my OWN. Go to college in a well paying field, trade school, business whatever just DO NOT rely solely on a man . He wouldn’t even let me ask men for money in college, he told me to ask him.
    2. Never have more kids than I can successfully provide for on MY Own if needed.
    As the years went by dad was correct. Miss u dad ❤

  • @lcpaille
    @lcpaille 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

    Women, go on strike in 2024!

    • @unicorn73212
      @unicorn73212 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      We should actually because when you think about it if we don't do something about them they will just keep creating problems.

    • @lcpaille
      @lcpaille 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@unicorn73212 100 percent. They expect, don’t respect. Go on strike. No bangmaid or unpaid labor. Make them go out and buy sex and everything else women do for free

    • @jonathanjacob5453
      @jonathanjacob5453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@unicorn73212 I am afraid that most men just don’t care about sex as much as they use to.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@unicorn73212Which problems exactly?

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jonathanjacob5453They don’t get it the world is bigger than the USA. And those that have never left won’t understand. So let them strike I encourage it 💯

  • @RasheedahNizam
    @RasheedahNizam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    Decenter Men is a great source of knowledge! It's like how we say that we don't want a man who says that he is a "nice guy" because being nice is a default. For some men these days, a woman who has a good job and will pay all the bills is the default. They don't want to hear the woman talk about it because it is expected. I don't think it is that they feel intimidated by degrees. They want a well-educated woman who won't trouble them with educated conversation. It follows that they won't want to hear about your job. So don't expect to come home and share your day with a partner. Pay the bills and shut up.

    • @unicorn73212
      @unicorn73212 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Yeah that's what I heard them say too but that doesn't work either because they will act resentful of you and start snatching your stuff if you just pay the bills, work and shut up then he will start running his mouth and asking you a bunch of stupid questions they build careers out of trying to destroy womens lives and it's a pathetic way to live when you think about a lot of them just want attention anyways there scared to be alone because the silence speaks loudly to them. The older and more jealous or bitter they get the less women want them.

    • @jonathanjacob5453
      @jonathanjacob5453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sounds great most women don’t want to be bored listening to a man talk about work. Everybody wins.

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow! Is that really your reality? Those men sound like lazy women. Well I guess it’s all fair in the scope of equality. Can’t have it both ways, at the same time.

    • @WellBeing999
      @WellBeing999 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      They want a mother, basically

    • @jonathanjacob5453
      @jonathanjacob5453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@WellBeing999 some men would say some women want a daddy. It would be best for everyone to go their separate ways

  • @cvzdez
    @cvzdez 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Here's the thing a lot of women. Of course, value financial stability apart now. But a lot of women have actually dated beneath their status beneath the economic status. They've got what guys to help them. And you know what they do. Those guys that they help they screw them over. They leave them. They never come in, even ask for helping them. So don't blame the woman for saying that. Because there's a lot of women. That have said that and done otherwise and many of them have actually left those women. So if they're lonely out that sounds like a them problem

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Women who choose to take care of men financially have no one to blame but themselves when things go south

  • @asgoodasthe1sttime
    @asgoodasthe1sttime 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    They went all over the world to conquer spice(seasonings) and don't use them and don't wash their legs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    I lost it on this one!!

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Lololololol

    • @areyourhandsbroke
      @areyourhandsbroke 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Scandalous!

  • @MsBehavena
    @MsBehavena 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    2:25:39 Yassss! Abuse the weaponized incompetence! Do some gardening, clean the garage, wash the cars, change the oil, wash the pots and dish wear for dinner, remove all hot items from the oven, deep clean the entire house for trash, ect. My mother would put the men to work if they aren’t in the kitchen doing something sufficient. Who don’t know would learn. The way they want you for labor they have to adjust to the muling (imagining a sexy man perfect folding and ironing my closet) 😊 SLL always be of use to be able to utilize others in meaningful ways.

  • @TinfoilHatGirl
    @TinfoilHatGirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    You put childcare on the list but often they want women's childcare for their kids from former relationship expecting you to stay a fit good looking CHILDFREE bangmaid who works and pays for herself being in that role.

    • @robynr3130
      @robynr3130 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @TinfoilHatGirl "You put childcare on the list but often they want *women's childcare for their kids from former relationship expecting you to stay a fit good looking CHILDFREE bangmaid who works and pays for herself being in that role."* ^^So good I felt your post needed to be *posted again!*

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly

    • @Strega4646
      @Strega4646 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Nah! This is why I dont wanna be with single dads coz Ive seen my stepmoms throw their lives away to please an old man and us. Single women with no kids dont date single dads because you will sacrifice your life being someone's slave.

    • @jenbodhi1133
      @jenbodhi1133 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Strega4646 this is 100 percent true

  • @ladywillow2961
    @ladywillow2961 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I was apart of the statistics. I was 13 he was almost 25.😢

  • @reelfly
    @reelfly 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Men what submissive providers. 😂

    • @anka6356
      @anka6356 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All that pron fried their brains.

  • @EmpressFerra
    @EmpressFerra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    An old childhood acquaintance recently admitted to me that he had a few women on rotation as friends with benefits. He said that all of these women wanted more from him and to be taken seriously. But because they already had given up sex on a casual basis, he doesn't take them seriously because he said how a woman starts with him is how he will continue to see them. Meaning these women should've kept their legs closed if they wanted to be seen as a serious prospect by him. Funny thing is that he is actually looking for marriage again after things didn't work out between him and his 1st wife over the frustration of infertility issues. But none of the women who chose to casually sleep with him/friends with benefits will ever get considered by him because they are stuck in the compartmentalized box he mentally view them as. It sounds like a double standard but it really is as simple as it always was. They mentally categorize and they do not equate emotions with sex like women eventually will. It's better to not develop a soul tie with a man anyway before you know how he truly sees you and what potential demons he may possibly possess. I was always taught that sex is not just physical but also spiritual and that you develop soul ties that can bond you to someone in a very uncomfortable way if it turns out that the person is toxic and or does not value you.

    • @iwhippedcreamcode4642
      @iwhippedcreamcode4642 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He s Trash! It's not the Ladiez. He s lying to hold on to Them while trying to look down on them! They need to Drop him! Let Life teach Males who aren't prepared for Life! A Husband

    • @FeefailsGetDecapitated
      @FeefailsGetDecapitated 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Can we extend this to BITTER PARENTAL ties as well. We're a product of RAMPANT excess outside families and pizz poor fathers. 'Soul ties' are family first and can wreesk havoc in our intimate lives. It would be my guess to totally detox from American mindset and date overseas to avoid the soul drain of recycled negative energy that is passed around to the innocent. I'm over this country and am happy for its downfall 👍

    • @Darth_Bateman
      @Darth_Bateman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, that's not true at all.
      I'm gonna blow your mind : A guy can fuck you on the first date and take you seriously long afterward.
      It's just that ya'll don't realize :
      A man has to have game to sleep with you.
      A woman has to have game to get him to marry you.
      Get an audible account, get Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

    • @newtrollaccount384
      @newtrollaccount384 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      He was looking for women to have casual sexual relations with. If those women hadn't had sex with him he would have stopped talking to them.

    • @FeefailsGetDecapitated
      @FeefailsGetDecapitated 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@newtrollaccount384 than these males aren't worth marriage than since bedroom is their goal BEFORE prenuptials. So than they are pointless to date procreate or stress over. I'll gladly have a coffin for 1 please I'm so OVER it so tired so done I don't care if this earth evaporates I'm ready for NOTHING land to get here!!!

  • @verleewashington8305
    @verleewashington8305 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Tell them to hurrup and get that passport! HURRUP!!😂😂😂

  • @olive6679
    @olive6679 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I've been forced to reassess which content providers I follow. Tonya, Thanks for being one of the few youtubers who doesn't hate bw. The majority twist every story to call bw names (desperate, stupid) and blame bw for being used or hurt. Many bw ingest that content and it is shaping their ability to interact with other bw. We can't heal if we focus on being better than other women.

  • @invisiblerevolution
    @invisiblerevolution 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "He has a BATMAN suit and 2 stockings.... in the background." 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @stacierose1692
      @stacierose1692 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Real 😭 tearsss 😂😂

  • @andreadrake4890
    @andreadrake4890 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Lately I've been hear how men see us, thats why I'm retired from dating, smh my daughter is married, they share the housework.

  • @rennynewborn2247
    @rennynewborn2247 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The one and important thing, I did not see, that's number One is Babysitting. Daycare is very expensive.

  • @lovelylady5613
    @lovelylady5613 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    SLL - I have removed myself from free labor and have been doing the work mentally not to ever perform said duties ever again!

  • @annmarieknapp
    @annmarieknapp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Decenter Ladies. Just focus on yourselves.

  • @patwilliams8973
    @patwilliams8973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    JESUS IS NOT MISOGYNIST.
    SADLY A LOT OF HIS MALE FOLLOWERS DO NOT FOLLOW HIS EXAMPLE IN HOW TO TREAT WOMEN.
    [YOUR RESIDENT CHRISTIAN]

    • @EnzoIsabella
      @EnzoIsabella 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Then they are not Christians

  • @pkp6791
    @pkp6791 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Men want everything on your board AND loyalty without reciprocity.

  • @shontiabrooks4131
    @shontiabrooks4131 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Hey Tonya
    What you said in the intro about Thanksgiving and being under appreciated-- Sooooooo True. I think we ( Holiday expectations) are breaking up next year 😂

  • @LadyAsia93
    @LadyAsia93 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    flee fornication

  • @dw3473
    @dw3473 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    They want a massage therapist and personal shopper.

  • @Danna-iw9po
    @Danna-iw9po 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    BUT IT STARTS WITH KNOWING YOUR SELF LOVE,WORTH AND ESTEEM AND BEING ABLE TO BE ALONE UNTIL YOU SEE A MAN WHO CAN RESPECT YOU PERIOD! IM.NIT YOUR MOTHER AND REFUSE TO TAKE CARE OF ANYONE IN ORDER TO BE WITH THEM

  • @hyperspeedyblue
    @hyperspeedyblue 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    They forgot (for the list) MOMMA

    • @rayofirst8885
      @rayofirst8885 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So true! That should be #2 after trophy

  • @justicevibes1252
    @justicevibes1252 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love this so much. Thank you for this truthful content. Make it make sense because these double standards are real. 💯

  • @Baaaybeeeh
    @Baaaybeeeh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Girl you got my subscription when you said the WM conquered the world for seasoning now they don’t use them, nor do they wash their legs. 😅 You said it with such a serious face too! LOL We bout to be internet friends ❤

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🤭🤭🤭

  • @patwilliams8973
    @patwilliams8973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    IT'S THE TONYA "GUY VOICE" TALKING ABOUT "IT DONT MATTER WHAT A WOMAN MAKE..." FOR ME! LOL!!!! 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ShortDarknLovely
    @ShortDarknLovely 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    After watching this, my self love lesson is: to expect respect... from myself and others. To be treated in a humane manner and accept nothing less.

  • @bunneywolf
    @bunneywolf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    1:41:14 They're hanging out at the school yard and a block up from the school buildings just waiting to plunder these childrens childhood and youth

  • @cvzdez
    @cvzdez 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    14:01
    Getting no poom poom

  • @pearlpearl3806
    @pearlpearl3806 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    23:45 and they go on the internet and get addicted to porn (which doesnt respect women)

    • @jonathanjacob5453
      @jonathanjacob5453 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Corn should be censored. It would give women more power

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Well women don’t respect women either. And damn how does porn disrespect women?

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@jonathanjacob5453Internet porn should be banned in the USA for ten years. Meanwhile, prostitution should legally instated and taxed.

    • @theeamazingkrabb5358
      @theeamazingkrabb5358 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's porn! It's NOT supposed to respect women! Duh!

    • @Todaysreminder918
      @Todaysreminder918 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chakradjuzeus9275 Is this a joke? You know what type of corn males like to watch right? Please show me respectful corn. Please do that. They like to watch triple X shyt with YOUNG girls none the less. You’ve got to clueless or joking with that question.

  • @FIRSTLAST-df1gi
    @FIRSTLAST-df1gi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank Tonya for taking the time to make these inspirational videos with jewels our moms and dad didnt teach us...u my new virtual big sis❤❤❤
    Strong women stick together in the physical and spiritual realm obviously bc u confirmed alot of divine information i recieved from Mama Omniverse

  • @beatricehudgins2836
    @beatricehudgins2836 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    💗💃 This has been some show, more than entertainment.

  • @jacquelinef7174
    @jacquelinef7174 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    48:20 Excellent segment where you showed the whiteboard and listed all of the things men expect from women. Wow!!! 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @hyperspeedyblue
    @hyperspeedyblue 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I also put my mustard greens in the freezer @tonyatko when I thawed them out and cooked them, they stunk 😅

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Wait. Lol. What?? Smellier than usual? Lol

    • @hyperspeedyblue
      @hyperspeedyblue 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @TonyaTko they suppose to stank? 😅

    • @chakradjuzeus9275
      @chakradjuzeus9275 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ask your mom how to cook greens. She would know

    • @hyperspeedyblue
      @hyperspeedyblue 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chakradjuzeus9275 she does

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My aunt said you have to boil them TWICE and pour the water off of them each time. Then you add your seasonings. I hope this helps.

  • @nikkyjackson6500
    @nikkyjackson6500 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I always tell women to never fall for a 50/50 relationship or marriage Men secretly will eventually resent you for not being a provider.
    A man who truly loves and desires you will never ask you to split your bills something isn't just right about how He views your relationship with him. Don’t be surprised this type of man will cheat on you with someone they provide for. Don’t fall for this Morden-sick trend of a 50/50 relationship.

  • @patwilliams8973
    @patwilliams8973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    W-0
    I THINK THEY SOMETIMES TAKE IT FOR GRANTED AND FEEL ENTITLED TO THESE THINGS.

  • @FirstLast-ns8kf
    @FirstLast-ns8kf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    If they're making it so men are just for sex. Then why would we not go for the sexiest guys.

  • @nikk4105
    @nikk4105 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved the message... Love you more... you are so beautiful... Ladies stay beautiful... ONE LOVE... FEMININE LOVE ❤️

  • @GP-91
    @GP-91 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s the old home telephone for me… 😮

  • @missxmarvel
    @missxmarvel 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If women need to be providers then why not marry ourselves? We are more manly that modern men.

  • @1stwastheword893
    @1stwastheword893 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    shaved bald men with beards give
    me the hee·bie-jee·bies

    • @teresacroft7409
      @teresacroft7409 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's not attractive at all. Especially with those Amish looking scraggly beards. Like the beard makes up for the bald head

  • @danaagenbroad
    @danaagenbroad 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What would these services cost if men had pay for them? Handd him your itemized bill each week, based on local wages

  • @HewhocS
    @HewhocS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nobody has money to provide for themselves. Why would anyone be looking to provide for someone else??

  • @psionicpowers132
    @psionicpowers132 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Aquarius age making these changes

  • @areyourhandsbroke
    @areyourhandsbroke 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Those husband's doing crap while the women were getting ready for guests I thought those were the MEN jobs that they say they do all the time, they should have bin done already.

  • @EnzoIsabella
    @EnzoIsabella 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    All these men need rc blakes

    • @SC-sn3xs
      @SC-sn3xs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Correction they need Jesus! But they reject him because they don’t want to held to Christ’s standard!
      To accept Jesus is to hold ourself accountable for everything thought and actions, regard others outside of yourself, and diligently work on improving our inner man by upholding the standard that God came to teach, given by example having taken on the flesh suit along with all its temptations.
      Men love the sin more than they love God cuz to love God is to love humanity and consider his creation. Yet greed and selfishness rule the hearts of the majority of men. They rather set the world in flames just to keep themselves warm!
      The constant crimes and continual wars are evidence of that.

  • @Amazin..A
    @Amazin..A 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg Tonya I’m only 10 mins in and my fav cousin and I fell out after he started spewing talking points from fresh and fit. Luckily it was just a phase but it lasted almost two years. We have recently linked back up.

  • @patwilliams8973
    @patwilliams8973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    RIIIIIIIIGHT! THE LEAST HE CAN DO IS PROVIDE THE MONEY FRFR!!!

  • @DominiqueSaltH2OWife
    @DominiqueSaltH2OWife 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    @IAMGROOT4EVA EVERYTHING YOU SAID...WOW...Just thinking back...wow...

  • @unconventionalaf
    @unconventionalaf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The Swedish guy was coreect. The Nordic countries have much higher levels of gender equality. I think its also Sweden where the fathers are really involved in the childcare.

  • @diaryofanislandgirl
    @diaryofanislandgirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The Hypocrisy!

  • @kayleefredenburg
    @kayleefredenburg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    16:09 this man looks like he talks down to service people

    • @kayleefredenburg
      @kayleefredenburg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He’s giving epstein island/ pleasure island (Pinocchio)
      Also it’s known that the KKK tell young men not to masturbate so it makes them fired up for the cause. These grown men are using and manipulating young men to punish women bc these older men are hurt. This is like revenge for whatever denial the older man faced.

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wheeewwww!!!!

  • @DangBlast
    @DangBlast 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The men are outside because they can avoid work, and that is the part of the house that they will be judged for maintaining

  • @debbieallen5473
    @debbieallen5473 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 love T TKO #LovefromLondonUK

  • @peacejoylove8542
    @peacejoylove8542 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I got the sneaky demeanor vibe from that man while he was talking to his wife, too. It was gross watching her walk into his trap to put her on blast.

  • @1stwastheword893
    @1stwastheword893 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    it's corno
    corno has ruined male specimens

    • @Spiritfba
      @Spiritfba 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly. And no one wants to talk about it. These men are cucked by their own hand. Going soft in more ways than one. I refuse to date because almost every man lies about how frequently they watch and then can’t please me in real life.

  • @kayleefredenburg
    @kayleefredenburg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m very triggered by the couple talking it’s giving CULT vibes

  • @reneec4711
    @reneec4711 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think he wants a young boy. Be careful out there 😂😂😂

  • @ladywillow2961
    @ladywillow2961 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    SLL. I believe in me and will invest in me. Choosing to put the energy I gave out to others to myself.

  • @gracebayclt5511
    @gracebayclt5511 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    19:27 The problem seems to be the young women don’t understand these guys. What are they even talking about? I can’t even feel sorry for them because they could learn but they come to women spaces talking crazy also. Like the one you had to check😂.

  • @Maclyn88
    @Maclyn88 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So, when women got closer to having equal rights we flourished and prospered for ourselves and men suffered because we don't Have To get married anymore to gain access to a bank account 🙄

  • @legitbait86
    @legitbait86 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The imagery of the man in his grey-looking room is that of military-industrial-style...it gives the impression of "going to war against the 'problem' of women"...we need to move away from the idea that we are at "war" with each other and start to approach it as more of a "gender disconnect", then we can focus on re-connecting ourselves in more humane ways💕

    • @nothereyetlost
      @nothereyetlost 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let me guess you’re a woman? The men are big confused that there’s a war going on. Be confused if you wish. These men despise you and only desire complete enslavement from women. Be confused if you wish.

  • @letricelee6118
    @letricelee6118 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Provide= nutrition food , shelter etc

  • @perrykeshahwalker5321
    @perrykeshahwalker5321 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I thought I was gonna have to fan you like a shouting woman in church for a second there Ms Tonya.😂Don’t let those clowns get under your skin. I know it's hard but don't let him.

  • @Todaysreminder918
    @Todaysreminder918 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just discovered you and I freaking love you girl! New sub! I love your spirit and this movement ❤

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you. Welcome!!

  • @Buildsolarhomes
    @Buildsolarhomes 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Touche on the title !!!!

  • @llehsir
    @llehsir 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I will say that I think the pattern interrupt seems more present because of the additional Apple Breaks. I think with the apple breaks, longer stretches of hearing the actual video would be a bit more streamlined

    • @TonyaTko
      @TonyaTko  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a 3 hour video. We took 3 breaks.

  • @patwilliams8973
    @patwilliams8973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    INSTEAD OF PRAYER WARRIOR, SAY... MINISTER

  • @terrispeas4928
    @terrispeas4928 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I. Just came out and work but my man that took care of me for 14 years been doing it all by himself as i took care the house now that I work he takes care the kids the house and he still work

  • @jonathancowley1758
    @jonathancowley1758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Women have no problem telling men what they expect
    And how she developed all these standards
    But we cant have any expectations or standards??

  • @jonathancowley1758
    @jonathancowley1758 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We had to kill something to eat because we was starving to death forging for sticks and leaves!!!!!!!!!

  • @psybelle
    @psybelle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Never heard of the term "homosocial". Very very interesting!!!