She wants a divorce.
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- Granger Smith Podcast Episode 87: What do you do after your wife or husband wants a divorce? How do you go about life without that person? My buddy Christian and I talk about this topic and much more on this week's podcast!
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Divorce Attorney here. This is a difficult topic that I often have to discuss with my clients, especially when it seemingly comes out of nowhere. The best advice I have to give is to turn to prayer and put one foot in front of the other because there's a Perfect Plan for us imperfect people.
AMEN!!!
@@tameradavis4973 Amen 🙏
Went through the exact thing. 7.5 years and she decided to leave. I prayed everyday up until the ink dried that she would change her heart. After that, I still prayed for her and now me and my wife of 9 years pray for her and her husband.
"You've got to be open to moving on." I believe this might be my favorite piece of advice from this episode. So many of us get stuck in life because we won't allow ourselves to be open to to opportunities of being unstuck.
I listened to the podcast and Granger you said something I never thought of. Danielle the woman still hurting 6 years after losing her Mom and what you said. That she loved her Mom so much that her Mom was so worthful. That hit me I lost my Mom 7 years ago and I haven't thought of it that way. I had a wonderful Mom and I was blessed.
Thank you for capturing that! Very heartwarming, indeed.
"Grief, I've learned, is really just love. It's all the love you want to give, but can not. All the unspent love gathering in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in their hallow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” -Unknown
This quote has helped me with grieving! Like you said, it’s a form of love!
For those who are seeing the title and calling it clickbait or thinking this is in reference to Granger's marriage, I'm guessing you're new here. Granger regularly creates a title for these that comes from one of the topics sent in from a viewer that will be discussed in the episode. Looking forward to a great episode.
Agree!
So right usually not Granger’s story in the title
I am new to this channel and I must admit my heart sunk for a minute...but I realized there had to be more to the story...
had me worried for a second there
THANK YOU! Kind internet stranger!
My wife just told me the same thing after 7 years and about to be 4 kids together I'm lost with out her now!! This hit home today I appreciate you all for these podcasts!!!
Hang tough Vinny!
Dated in highschool.
Married 11 years.
3 children together.
Told the same thing.
Now, 12 years later i just celebrated my 11 year an anniversary with my new wife. I am happier, and life is better.
I went through hell, but my kids that I was so worried about are doing great.
I kept one son through it all and everything worked out
It will be tough, the toughest you have ever experienced.
Just remember that she is not on your side anymore, and take care of yourself. Only through your strength can you help your new family through this.
@@johngault7329 happy for you John!
Watching/listening to your podcast faithfully every Monday I actually look forward to this,
Would love to see Christian on your podcast again. You two were great today with lots of amazing advice. God Bless & have a great week.
It's an honour to be a part of this beautiful podcast an special channel thanku so much love and God bless x
Love my Pastor Christian! So excited to see you here today. Please come back!
Happy Monday Morning!
God Bless The Smith Family❤️🦋
Gm hru
Love you 😘❤️
Love you 😘❤️
Love you 😘❤️
@@jordangray98 stop
Love all your guests I listen while I’m driving my truck. Keep up the great pod cast. Yeeyee
This podcast was exactly what I needed today! You both have AMAZING advice and Christian was a great guest! Thank You!
Dear person that's reading this, we don't know each others but I wish you all the best in life ❤️ don't ever blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious and a key for happy life,,,,
Thank you and back at you
You to
Thank you
Thank you so much that made my day
Such a good pod cast, thanks guys🤗
Just what i needed to hear, god bless! More Christian!
So thankful for your podcast & all your amazing guests. The marriage question was one I can relate to. Been married for 37 years to my high-school sweetheart. We have been through so much heartache & tragedies. Our oldest son passed at 23 from a motorcycle accident, then 4 yrs later our youngest flipped his track & was paralyzed from it. Our marriage seems to have fallen apart from these tragedies. There's no communication between us. We are strangers living in the same house. I know God has a plan & I continue to have faith & hope that our marriage will someday he healed. Thanks so much for all your wisdom & kindness to each of us. God bless.
love the greif advice really helps alot. love yall and God bless ❤
Great advise for Dalton in PA!
Good show brother. Helping me get through putting the pool up. I shouldn't have waited so long
May 2012, a week before my birthday, and about three weeks before our 25th-year anniversary, my wife that I dated in high school, decided that she didn't love me anymore. I was shocked. I have remarried and am very happy.
Same here.
2008, 11 years marriage.
Remarried, and happier now....
the concert on saturday was one i will never ever forget
thank you granger
when you played i kill spiders my dad put his hand on my shoulder i put my hand on top and he put his head on mine it was a special moment
the concert was a great way to end my junior year of high school and my dad suprised me with the meet and greet
Great show today thank you.
Man I can’t tell you how much this podcast has helped me in may this year I lost my gf and all my friends because of a rumor that was not true and this podcast helped me get through it all thank you so much granger
Just keep going no matter what. Just do good and good will return to you
I love this podcast. I love you and all of your guests, as well. Y'all give the best advice!🙏🤠💞
More Christian! What a great guest
G'day Granger and all , Im from Australia. Im a new fan but I love your music and these podcasts - keep them coming
Saw your show at the Kern County Raceway over the weekend, it was awesome. Thanks for coming out and giving us California country boys a chance to get back some normality. Yee Yee!
California an country boys don’t go together
Wow! Great podcast today!
I live in Alabama
I know where it is, I live near Birmingham
i am canadian and i love your music and i think it is cool that you can still play those songs but replace it with other contry names
Un related but my son got to see his superhero earl Saturday night at the concert for a cause in Bakersfield. He dresses like earl almost every day walks around the house singing don’t tread on me and country boy !! Thanks for a killer show it’s one we will remember for ever
Currently listening to this while working on my granddad's 83' Chevy single cab
Yep, I know exactly where Pell City is! Hello from Mississippi! Great video!❤️🙏
Great show guys
I was like “Click bait?” And that scared me!
They used to toe,but I realized that it totally has to do with one of the emails they will be discussing, I dont think we have anything to worry about Granger and Amber they truly make a great pair,you can see it..
I truly don’t think that would be something we would learn about from a podcast anyway. We would definitely notice differences in this family before that ever happened. I also don’t think Granger would say “she wants a divorce”. Heaven forbid if that ever happened it would be a joint, mutual decision and it would probably be presented by them together. But we’re not gonna think about that anymore!!!!!
I am holding onto these two nuggets:
1. Christian ‘Bible says an idle mind can be deceitful. Encourage you to get busy’. Granger ‘Grief is a thief.’ Makes me think of Granger building that rock wall by the pond, two years ago. I am going to have to replay that episode as Granger had such a great saying about that.
2. Bible...definition of a Fathers Leadership - I am still blown away at how Granger lead his family through the most challenging time of their lives with Riv’s fast pass to heaven. God first, it was so incredible to witness how they leaned in together. London and Lincoln have a childhood! Life didn’t freeze in grief. The Smiths seem to keep piling on meaning in River’s honor.
FocusonGrowth , that's something you had written about Granger's rock wall and in their TH-cam video today the water had washed it away.
@@elainehardy3502 God has amazing timing, doesn’t he? I am still looking for that video when Granger started building that rock wall. This evening, I fast forwarded through 10 videos and had to pause to reflect on their journey. Amber with her closet confessions, Granger’s keeping busy with manual labor and guiding his family forward. I know God was always at the center of their family but you can just see their faith building and bursting out. They are making Riv’s 1000 days hold meaning that words can’t even quantify!
That hits home talking about greiving over your mom. I lost my mom when o was 16 i am now 34 and i still have my times of grieving her.
Great episode Granger! Christian is a good dude.
More Christian PLEASE PLEASE!! BEST PODCAST EVER
Marriage is hard. My husband and I married at 18 and he was 20. We had no idea what we were getting into. We had no clue that we both had no idea who we were. It was the worst first 5 years and it slowly got better and then worse and then better. We almost separated for good back in January. I was done. I didnt want it anymore. But he fought for us and I chose to not shut him out and now things have been great. You both have to want it and both actively work at it. *added we will have been married for 8 years in june.
Cassidy, you're right marriage takes work and both have to work at it to make it last. My husband and I been married 34 years. We have been through many trials and tribulations but the one thing we knew we wanted to stay together. You sound like you have handled it well as young as you are.
@@elainehardy3502 Thank you. I'm honestly so thankful we keep growing together and not apart. And I think its wonderful you and your husband have been together so long, it's a beautiful thing ❤
@@cassidyschulz5433 Thank-you.
More Christian please. Y’all are great together ❤️❤️
Jacksonville Alabama here.
1969 Ford Mustang (Boss 302.) specifically Grabber Blue.
Good stuff!!
Sorry Christian, but Roll Tide! Love these every week. YEE YEE!
I'm from lincoln and work in pell city! Great to see other bama folk out there. ROLL TIDE.
I’m 1/16 Choctaw and 1/2 Irish. My mom is full Irish.
This podcast is great 😁
I asked about the quarter Cherokee too, answered on your first version of this q&a podcast 🤗
More Christian Williamson! He was awesome!
I’m from Huntsville Alabama
When something happens that makes one feel that can't move on. It takes only 1 thing to make that past experience to make the first devastating experience like it never happened. Hold your head high. Life is a blessing and the blessings will never disappoint as long as you are in for the long haul.
謝謝分享, thanks for sharing!
A friend from Taiwan (not China).
Thanks for reading my question about touring overseas.
I agree with your reading but, exactly… just heard it… what is the character of mom or dad? That makes a big difference.
Enjoyed you on the keeping it Dutch Channel, and clicked on and subscribed to you to see what your channels like. Look forward to future videos. God bless take care. Tony
Roll tide lol I’m from Cherokee county
I live in Pell City!
I love ur songs!!!!
Scared me for a second
More Christian!! Just found this podcast thanks to Kentucky Ballistics but wow this episode is so amazing. Will be watching more! Shout out from North Houston but a Longhorn always! Y’all from Texas know, you either pick the Horns or the Aggies! We fuss like siblings but all love our Texas!
More Christian. Loved this episode
North Alabama listener here.
Listening from moody al, love the podcast!
My ex divorce me 3 years ago after 10 years, it was hard and took 8months to get over her while in a semi relationship with someone else, it was killing me but my kids got me through it, hope you are well keep safe everyone.
Thank you for your pod casts. I enjoy the information given and how to take what is said and continue the information for the benefits of further important decision and the ability to study and take or not take the offer put before you . Plus the spiritual needs provided is a great need and your not saying this is it and there is no way except my way. Your pod cast is a great informant need in this world right now. Praise God for blessing you on our lives at this time. May other actions and questions be set out for future questions and information needed in the future with great information blessed by God.. Looking forward to more in the future. A fan of your videos and your wife's as well. New to your TH-cam channel. Subscribed and liked
You give some great advice and yes more Christian please
Really cool.
I’m from Florence 256 I’ve Ben to pell city a few times to see family and roll tide
Dang bro im from moulton 256
Go through Pell City on the way to the emerald coast...the most beautiful beaches on earth
I was listen you about lost love one i lost my grand mom in 1991 and I have hard time around Christmas time and Easter . Yes have grief support did some good .
NOOO
YES Windsor Ontario Canada 🇨🇦 loves the saying for Merica replaced with Canadian saying
Been to Pell City….pretty terrain. I even know whereGardendale and Pinson are.
I'm going through a divorce now , we were together 30 years , I'm going to be 57 , I'm seriously crushed ...she cheated many times I'm finding out and I wish I could rid my heart of the pain .
Good luck to you , I pray everyday to get through it but it's hard . I have no skills left due to a spinal disability that's literally killing me inside and out ,CPTSD and of course a great daughter sucked into this vacuum of a mess ...
I hate it so much . I'm so lost , hurt and can't seem to move forward ...
In regards to the "MERICA thing.
I'm an Aussie. I have a huge respect for American Military achievements, the pure grit shown by soldiers of ANY nation is held in very high regard. So we're proud of you, our Allies and I'd be the loudest bogan cheering on Merica if you blasted it here! Keen for COVID to bugger off so we can have you over!
Lol who else heard Granger say raycon while talk about vitamins. YeeYee! Love the talks. From Ab,🇨🇦❤️
Raycon doesn’t upset the stomach. Lol phew!
Such a great podcast Grainger!
Men with Godly character🙌🙏💚
MORE CHRISTIAN! I have known Christian since he was 2 years old! His parents are my best friends! Christian, I am so proud of you and the strong young man you have become! May the Lord continue to lead and guide you! Oh, and ROLL TIDE!
I live in Birmingham, AL
Oh no
Canada Granger, when you coming to Calgary Stampede. It’s the bigger show in Alberta. Happens in July. 😊
I live in heflin it’s about 45 mins from east of Pell City. 🐘 RTR 🐘
Granger I love your music your write all your and you do a hell of a job of doing it you are so fricken good good bless you man just think of stuff positive about all the people that love you just think of that stuff
Go ahead. More Christian. Enjoy your interaction with your various guests.
Granger! Holey heck give us a heart attack! We seen the name of today's video and like died a bit inside! I put your video on and oh god we were about to cry. I don't know if you realize or not but at least me and the hubby are very completely invested in you and your families life and oh god our hearts skipped a bad dear when we read the name of this video. THANK GOD we love you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending joy and love and strength.
He does this every week with these broadcasts. The title is always from one of the emails that they'll be answering, not his life.
My Heart came from Birmingham, Alabama for transplant.
Needed to hear the arena metaphor today, dealing with people hating on my faith in Jesus. Y'all's content is a blessing, thank you for posting and being honest with us. Love from Texas 💖🙏
I’ve been going thru some stuff and I just want to know where I get tickets for your show on July 31st. I don’t even remember the town. It’s some river ruckus place I’ve never heard of. I just want to enjoy a mini vacation with my Husband.
HI man ! Shouting out from 71 degrees North in Europe! Always loved Your songs, now I'm super broken exhausted of dealing with love ... how can I can kill it so I can move on ?
Pell City I used live 30miles east in the Oxford/Anniston area
My wife and partner of 8 and i just separated in April was not my choice I literally did everything I could but nothing was enough. I feel like I failed and it's the worst feeling I've had since the first few mo ths after my deployment in 2012. Divorce is by far the worst feeling I've felt. I am doing the best I can to remain upright and trust the lord but the hurt and desire to get her back won't go away. I know she wants nothing to.do with me and she's told me she doesn't want to try again she's done. It just makes no sense we have 3 kids together and it really wasn't what I wanted for my 5 year anniversary and our 8th year together overall
Amen man I'm going through the same thing now brother I'll be praying for you all!!
I'm so sorry for your pain. My husband of 26 years walked out and never even gave me a chance to save our marriage. I was completely blind-sided. The rejection and betrayal is so unbelievably hard to handle and overcome, but I did it by fully surrendering to God and His greater plan for my life. It has been almost 2 years now, and I still look back and can't believe this happened and how I could have missed the signs. But God has been with me every step of the way, and I'm on the other side of the pain. You will get through this by leaning on God. Find a community of believers to talk to and other people who understand your pain. Validation helps a lot.
Amen thank you for telling us this it helps alot I appreciate you GOD BLESS YOU!!
I'm going through the exact same thing only 30 years , CPTSD as well...your not alone Brother , I will pray for you and your family as well ..it is so hard , I get it .Stand tall everyday Brother we got this ya hear !
Thank you for serving our country ,God Bless you , believe because he already has just look in that mirror !
So sorry to hear that you're suffering so. I am praying for you.
I live about 8 miles from Pell City. :)
Daniell think about all the positive memories you have about your Mom. Thank God for ALL the things your Mom gave you, all the things she left you, all the values she passed on to you. Praise God for who your Mom was to you. Praise God for who she made you to be. Yes get involved in a group or organization that would honor your Moms memory. May God Bless you richly.
Every title is such clickbait but I’m still here 😂
Ever connect with a friend/ brother Eric Nelson. Drummer. He is family. Did tours with similar