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- Rev. Jesse Lee Peterson, Founder and President of BOND, delivers powerful talk about the role of men and fathers at BOND's 7th Annual Conference on Fatherhood and Men over Father's Day weekend (6/18/16). Visit BOND's website: rebuildingtheman.com/
BOND is a nationally recognized 501 (c) 3 nonprofit organization dedicated to "Rebuilding the Family by Rebuilding the Man." Founded in 1990 by Rev. Jesse Lee Peterson, BOND offers family and indiviual counseling, mentoring, workshops, townhalls, and other programs and services designed to help men and families. The organization is based in Los Angeles, but has national reach through its various media platforms.
Order Jesse Lee Peterson's book, "The Antidote: Healing America from The Poison of Hate, Blame, and Victimhood": www.amazon.com/Antidote-Heali...
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Damn....after listening to several of Jesse's messages about forgiving parents, a couple days ago I told my father that I loved him for the first time - in 30years, all my life! My life literally changed since then, weird, but true. Thanks Jesse
This is Absolute Truth
How has your life changed?
It seems to be a pattern brought about by ignorance and immaturity. I lived most of my life resenting my parents for not supporting me emotionally. As I grew older and experienced life on my own, I began to understand how damaged, ignorant and immature my parents were when I was born. It was only then that I forgave them because they were too young to know as I was too young to know at their age. It is hard to give children love and attention while in an unstable economy and no marketable skills. The financial burden was great on my father and the motherly caring was just as heavy on mom. Three infants that required constant feeding, dirty dippers, etc. I now understand. I feel blessed that I did not fathered any children; it was not that way with my sister or brother. I saw their suffering because they followed the herd, without really analyzing their choices.
@@javiermgtaoism5702 Niiiiice, so nice to wake up🙏💙
@@javiermgtaoism5702kids have nothing to do. You still are not awake and I say this with love. As Jordan Peterson said: pick your cross and carry it. In your case you picked the no kids cross but it will have bad impact on you later in life. People think they can game life. You don't run from poison. The only benefit you have is that you can chose what you will drink. I say that to say this: last year wife decided that she doesn't want a relationship anymore. While I disagree with her choice for putting our kids in that situation I moved on. I was bad for a while. But ever since I embraced the shit I had to deal with: debt, two kids(5 and 4) 3 day a week job, full time university, I haven't seen my family in years and I also had no place to live after divorce. With that being said, one year and exactly 3 months after divorce I managed to pay off my debt, my Uny has only A' so far, job I make progress inside the company, my kids are amazing and I have women who want to marry me but I prefer to stay single. For the first time in my life I don't look at women to fill what I was missing because now I live as a man. I picked my sacrifice and I care it with pride and man how things change when u do that. What you despised once now became a reason to wake up in the morning. All the best.
we need this man in office with leaders like him we can go far
We would live in paradise again...literally
This man speaks TRUTH.
I met my dad today at 28 years old. Thank you Jesse, I feel liberated from the stress and anger that plagued me my whole life from longing for my father.
Good to hear. Didnt you see him for 28 years because of resent or issues with him of some kind? And waited for him to apologise to you and he didnt do that so the years of noncontact went by? Or was there another reason of no contact.
@@matthijsstellaard9905 Hey another Dutch guy here. Mooi😉👍🏽
Jesse, Forgiveness is the answer, Absolutely. My mother turned me against my father also. What a Mess! We need to Forgive and we all need Forgiveness too. Love ya. Amen.
Jesse, you are spot on! Keep sharing the truth!
The truth only to someone who lies. this man is an evil tool of Satan
These are the words of wisdom that we didn’t receive long ago. Thank you Jesse for bringing it!
Speaking as a father to a son, fatherhood feels absolutely sacred. Anything that seeks to get in the way, be it work or sometimes my own spouse, I push away at that moment.
Nurturing and strengthening his young soul is the cornerstone of my purpose in life.
And that's how it should be.
God protect this man
He is protected.
He speaks the truth
Thank you for this message it’s helping me to be a better wife /mother and allow my husband to be the father I am less angry because I have forgiven my parents and I c the peace love joy flowing in my house
What a MAN!!! Jesse! Thanks for being the Man!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And to show us the way! Many thanks indeed!
Daaaaaaaaaaaaam he's good!!!
I have to say it "no man is good" I agree with you. He is
Awesome teacher that's changing lives generational. Now that's Salvation from God Almighty ♥️
He speaks truth folks 👏
This may be the best videos you have ever made. Jesse has helped me to recognize my issues with my father. This has helped me to become a better father because I finally forgave my father. You have helped me to save my relationship with my son and with God.
We must forgive everyone. God won't hear our prayers unless we forgive. "Don't let the sun go down on your anger, because it will give the devil a foothold."
Kim Van Note that’s not true what you said that’s not in scripture anywhere thatGod won’t hear our prayers. If you have the scripture please send it to me and I’ll apologize...
@@howardmanley3388 John 9:31
Servant Michael that doesn’t say any where , that we must forgive everyone in order for god to hear us?
Servant Michael or God won’t hear us unless we forgive?
@@howardmanley3388 If u won't see it then God has blinded you not to see it. Study the bible. Even Jesus said it in His prayer in Matthew 6.
I white and Jesse has helped me so much with my feelings.
maybe he can help with your grammar too!
@@charliedilltarde9881 You sound like a woman hahha correcting grammar, get out of here
@K Dub 😂🤣😂 exactly
@@charliedilltarde9881 🗣️ BETA MALE!
I White, I Black, He White, He Black, etc...
It's all part of the JLP Show, BETA MALE.
@today is not yesterday
🗣️ LEZZ-BEE-UNZ!
I'm glad Jesse speaks about reconciling with our fathers. I know many preachers that say they forgive them but their actions say otherwise. It's not easy to forget when you've been wronged.
🔷🔷🔷Great teacher. Our Warfare is against Good and Evil...
The enemy hates man because He was made first in God's Image
Genesis 2:7And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.
Should have millions of views
Jesse the man
So powerful!! There is nothing like a return to the father.
Wow I love you man people need to hear this great guy
How can you love God whom you cannot see if you hate your earthly Father whom you can see?
Preach Brother Peterson!!!
This is so good
Excellent Jesse
This is right on!!!
If you have enmity in your heart towards your earthly father it gets in the way with your Heavenly Father.
This what the mainstream media and liberals don’t wanna talk about, I’m so grateful for JLP
if i had a passport id be there to tell my story . in church
Perhaps in the future you can visit!
I love how he combines religion and a philosophical point of view. That's why religion is constantly being attacked because religion attached importance to the father and family unit, but feminists don't seem to like that. Another part that really touched me is when he said there are forces working for evil without knowing it. The main stream feminists, SJWs etc are pushing evil knowingly or unknowingly, and religion calls it out which is why they do away with religion
Thank's Jesse inspiring as always, you've done more for, race relations than any left-wing, establishment
jesse, thank you.
jesse i would love one day to see you interview OJ Simpson one day he would have no answers for you
Good one
This is amazing!
thank you jesse for this great video..really good advice that i will try to implement. for the job part, i already do and i noticed that more and more coworkers come to me for help and advice in the workplace...cool
God bless Jesse
This is so powerful
Love to this channel
this guy speaks the truth
I love you jesse
Thank you man, love you too.
Amen
How to forgive if dad is dead: Jesse!
Get to know yourself by doing the Silent Prayer, and truly realizing that you can't help yourself, you'll also see your parents could not help themselves. It's a playlist on JLP channel: How to forgive dead parents (or someone else who died) th-cam.com/play/PLpSkvyhrlXrYQ1U1qP1apPlR3uN8asJ88.html
@@rebuildingtheman Finally understood, after the 3rd time reading it.
-0:34--1:00Men represent GOOD3:38Christ20:09BORN AGAIN 21:12********
My dad abandoned me, he is a complete narcissist and controlled by my stepmother. I always do something wrong, can't stand up for myself, they just shame and guilt trip me to the point I start crying and run away. I hate myself for being so weak, if only u could forgive them and let their low behavior not bother me anymore.
Forgive him, he couldn't do better... He is not God
Let it go... He's possessed. Couldn't help himself
Amazin
🔥🔥amazin
the pain i have for my not being able too participate in my son's upbringing has me questioning alot about reality and the God honest point to it all, and why it has denied me that privilege to be a dad. why did i get such a nasty woman to deny my human right to my own flesh and blood ?
Im not a christian, never was raised to be a christian, i've been taught christian values, but never taught how or why to believe in the existents of god, it seems to be impossible for me. I smoke pot every weekend, but more as a ritual combined with meditation and a way for me to let go of whatever anger i've collected throughout that week, and to look at things from diffrent and more accepting perspective. I don't drink alcohol or use hard drugs, I did in the past and I have finally realized these substances don't do me any good, only helped me escape my self and my anger towards my self, others and society. Even though I might not been convinced in god, even though I smoke pot regularly, I still get so much out of these speeches. The whole hate/love thing has really helped me and had a huge impact on my daily life, I can now much more often see through other peoples anger and don't stick to it, I've learned to let go of my own anger towards others and myself, which has given me a much more peaceful state of mind in my daily life. I've learned to forgive my parents and accepted them for what they are, how they've raised me and to understand why they sometimes react through hate and not love and how it's not their fault. So even though my life don't live up to everything that Jesse think is best for the individual, he's really helped me opening my eyes and to have a better quality of life. Im forever thankful and I love you Jesse. - 21, Denmark
drugs are just plants that do a job
@@charliedilltarde9881 lmao what??
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I had to do this and have never met my father. It has taken over 55 years and I'm 60.
JUST DO IT !!!
You will never feel better with yourself.
I’m stating this not to argue but because it is so. In the Gospels before Jesus died it says when we forgive others of their trespasses then your Heavenly Father will forgive you of your trespasses. But after His resurrection the epistles say forgiving one another EVEN AS GOD FOR CHRIST SAKE HAS (past tense) FORGIVEN YOU (Ephesians 4:32). So I don’t forgive to be forgiven I forgive others because I have been forgiven. Forgiveness is a gift given by God through Christ.
Excellent video. Im not religious, but I think you can remove all the God stuff and have a lot to learn here. Amazing guy.
When JEsus said that he was teaching law God has already forgiven all of us by dyeing on the cross ..we then entered in under Grace. We are no longer under the law....
If the bald headed father forgives his father, who probably hated his own father, will the son forgive him? What if the son is as stubborn as the father? Or perhaps the son knows that his father is unforgiving so why should he be forgiven?
He Black!!!!
sorry for saying one day twice
Keep the money leave the man type of mentality
Jesse could you do a series on MGTOW and singleness and Christians.
What name did he mention? @2:16 Somebody help pls. God bless
he talkin about president Lyndon Baines Johnson..hope that helps..God bless..
“spiritual warfare” men/fathers is suffering n falling short n women n wives don’t care
I like JLP. But I have at least one difference of opinion w/him. He states: if you don't forgive your father, God will not have you, more or less. I disagree. So does that mean I'm dammed? While you should be "reconciled one to another", sometimes, it's hard to forgive. I'm no theologian, but humans aren't perfect.
If the only price that you have to pay to go to heaven is to forgive your father, then that's a small price to pay. It's worth it.
20:35-imma need u to wake up sir
evil in this context just means women. thats kind of a evil message in it self
Explain.
18y old birthday boy sounds like a little lady, he needs his daddy
Jesse isn't even married or father
Jesse does have a child, a son. And they worked things out to have a good relationship.
let go of the anger
He even says he has a son in this video.
People actually listen to this garbage. Smh. He is not married himself. Where are his kids.
Jesse does have a son that he has reconciled with and they now have a good relationship. So he speaks from experience.
they are grown up
forest wilson, so true! also, wouldnt you listen to those with experience? a sinner that has put a huge effort to no longer sin and try to help others not sin either. would you take advice on how to drive from someone that has never driven?
How is encouraging men to lead their families and communities to be good and moral, garbage? I would argue it's the opposite of garbage.
marty's view of the world you sound like an idiot