As a pansexaul teenager who is not out I really don’t get to see many pan people in the media so it’s kinda nice to finally see people I can somewhat relate to
You are awesome! And just because your orientation is not represented in the mainstream media doen't mean it doesn't exist! It's not fair that mainstream media represents straight men and women, or on occasion a gay guy or a lesbian girl. Please please please don't get your reference from sitcoms You can enjoy certain shows, but they do not represent you You are a pansexual person and that is awesome, you get to love people for who the are and not for what they are. It's incredible! Pan people are not represented in the media, but please don't ever let that put you down You are one of few people who can love everyone, regardless of sex or gender. And that's pretty neat! It's one of the best features humans can have and most of us can't even appreciate it because we are jealous
Weird, I relate to a lot of people and sexual orientation has literally nothing to do with it. I look at everyone as individuals and I judge everyone based on how they project their energy across their wake. There are a lot of people I can’t stand either and once again, it is the attitude and the way they project themselves and how they influence the overall happiness around for one.
I grew up in a very diff time. I had no peers w my orientation. I had 2 friends my entire life of same orientation in spite of living in places like NYC or Paris. Didn't matter. I'm glad it's better now. I feel better too. Still sad for all those years. Kinda ignored how rough its been until I see something like this Anyways ..onwards, yay Pan!!
As a pansexual individual, I'd like to thank you for bringing light to our community. 🖤 people often inferiorize us and treat us like we dont belong. We are valid and we deserve more representation. Thank you 💜
When I saw the title of the video I almost cried, and when I finished watching it I felt very good, very relieved to see other people's experiences. Likewise in my case my father has no idea, and he is the main reason that for many years I stayed in a limbo of not understanding myself, feeling things that confused me and made me feel "abnormal", but with time was moving away from him, and finally I was able to be myself. The first person I told was my best friend, and he gave me a gift that I never expected, because he treated me normally, making me feel that I was not a freak, that I was NORMAL, and that he accepted me as which was. Thanks to him I started to stop hiding and more to be myself, today if I want to laugh, I laugh, if I want to cry, I cry, if I want to scream, I scream, if I want to run, well, I can't because I'm also handicapped, but yes I could do it, and I'm very happy about it. Thanks to all of you who are after this channel, with a lot of junk content that abounds in this platform, I am happy to see something so special, and necessary, like this.
I’m so glad you got to have that experience with your best friend! Everyone deserves to just be treated like a normal human being and with respect. I wish you the best on your journey!
@@jenisinjapan grindr is a gay male/male app. We aren't interested in women. So why are they here? Not only are they here but now shouting "WE ARE HERE AND VALID". It's nonsense because we aren't interested in women regardless of their sexual orientation.
I’m pansexual and I came out to my parents at 19 (I’m 22 now) and recently just got outed by my aunt to my grandma, I wanted to tell her when I was ready but I guess not lol, my dad was the one who took it the hardest he damn near cried😂
@@kstephane1444 why would you even say that. Who are you to define how anyone else defines themselves (even if it is to make themselves understood better by others)
@BuTtRz_99 i'm sorry you got outed. Dont ever let anything like that hold you down. You are a beautiful person no matter what anyone else thinks or says
Gosh, I came out in the early 80's. It's been very challenging. I used to just tell myself I was " from the near future" . I was right. Wish I'd been born 20 years later. So glad for pan visibility now. Wow.
My story is a very interesting one, when I first came out I came out as Pan and later corrected it to Demi Sexual but because I was so effeminate I had a lot of people just telling me to be gay and so I started calling myself gay. Also dating women scared me because I didn’t want to play the role of a “man” to satisfy my partner. That’s when we fast forward to today where I am Agender Trans Femme who is Andro-Demi sexual. And like these guys I agree that I really don’t need the labels for myself it just paints a picture for other.
I don't see what's so instresting about it though 👀, it might be an interesting journey for yourself, through all the quite unnecessary jargon that makes you seem "interesting" I suppose to these children who seem believe the more such labels you gather the cooler you are, but honey there isn't anything intrinsically interesting about random words puts together. You are a human being, tap into that! That makes you interesting!
Bruh I really needed this, cause I agree that I identify myself as Pansexual just for another person sakes. I don’t like labels either, I just like people in general depending on how they act and how they carry themselves, it’s just the most sexiest thing in my point of view.
I came out by casually telling it to my family over dinner. We're from an Asian country but our household was never strict or hostile in gender, political views, religion, etc. My parents are just happy and content I'm not off to prison or doing hard drugs. When I got into college, I realized how lucky I was to have my kind of family as almost everyone I knew, his having trouble coming out. Still, whether it was greeted by warmth or indifference, it's nice to come out. I feel like I understand myself more.
This is so relatable, It's good to know to see a video where pansexual people are gathered. I consider myself pansexual and in my country, it's still too vague. Every time people ask me about my sexuality, I just tell them I am gay because I feel like it's easier to understand compared to pansexual. I came out recently through a vlog. Coming out online is harder than I thought.
Seeing this made me so happy. I really don't see much talk about pansexuality or representation in larger media. I've been out as a pansexual since like middle school. Only thing that would make it any better is if you did another Pansexuals video with at least 1 pansexual female, mostly out of curiosity on if the female pansexual and the male pansexual have similar answers to each question. Love all these guys though! Their personalities are so unique.
The shit about being a pansexual cis person is that sometimes, even after coming out as not straight, we still have the fear stigma from other member of the queer community in addition to straight people paranoia. I'm a pan, cis, non binary in my gut but my appearance is closer to a masculine stereotype (I'm Brazilian so my pronouns are ele/ela/ O SER (my favorite) . So straight women think I won't enjoy sex with them or that I won't be good in bed, some gay guys have told me the same and that I'm only saying I'm pan for attention, Lesbians outright despise me and a trans person thought I was just flirting with them for a kink, fetish, or that I had lost a bet. When you're openly pan, people think you're either begging for attention or a filthy, promiscuous person they wouldn't wanna be with. I've decided to just pretend to be whatever the person I wanna bang is looking for, whatever...
you are absolutely right. You do NOT need to go out of your way to explain yourself for people to "understand" you. Either they accept you or they do not. Noone has ever said they need to understand me, love me or dont. Its that simple.
I tried to come out to my mom when I was 25, told her that I had had an experience with a same sex cousin and that I had enjoyed it.She started screaming at the top of her lungs that ''You are not going to turn gay, you will not do that to me!'''.I tried to explain that I'm not gay but I may not be completely hetero either but she would have none of it so that was that and it was never talked about again.From time to time I would get all kinds of looks of disgust from her until a year ago I finally had enough and basically I no longer have any relationship with her or any other relatives.There are other issues than homofobia with my family also, narcissistic behaviour etc. but this was one of the main ones I felt I needed to distanse myself from them.
Believe me they do get alot more love lol.... I left a really bad 10 yr relationship with my ex fiance whom was straight. Which I know doesn't necessarily have to do anything with the point I'm getting to.... but now I'm in an open relationship with 2 pansexual men and they are wonderful, sweet, caring, fun, etc. Though I know everyone is different, especially with relationships, this just happens to work for us is all. 😊
For some no-good reason there is a lot of hate towards bisexual people, coming from all sorts of non-bi people. Do you guys (and/or any other pan people reading this) experience that too, or is it different?
Yes! I often experience this and have heard of others in the community who experience it too. The negative experiences I've come across sadly have been from the bisexual community ):
Sadly, I read the comments here and there was lot of hate. I'm disappointed. I'm abrosexual, which means my sexuality is fluid, but I've identified as pansexual. A lot of people accuse pansexual people of being biphobic, which is ridiculous. I'm also genderfluid and non-binary, so I wouldn't feel comfortable identifying as bisexual. I know many bi people who include nbs in their spectrum of attraction or even identify as such, but, at the end of the day, it's about each person's comfort and we should all respect that. If you go through this awful comment section, you'll see a lot of biphobic comments, accusations of biphobia, and slutshaming based on orientation. So I think that answers your question. I'd wish LGBTQ* people just stopped hating on each other.
@@silverghostcat1924 It baffles me. I know hate towards bi and pan people exists, but to see it still so ever-present in the comment section of a grindr video. 🤦🏾🤦🏾
@@silverghostcat1924 99,9% of the bi-hate I have ever seen/heard in my life came from gays and lesbians. You'd think they of all people would know better than to exclude someone because of their sexual orientation
I’m 35, and still not out as I was never sure if I was gay or straight, and then there was the idea of being pan. I have had sex with all genders but I never new there was a community for what I was. I just thought I was wired. You guys are lucky. I was malignant for 5 years and then I discovered myself. I have had more sex in the last year than I all my whole life. Tbh I feel like I wish they taught this shit at school when I was young. Maybe then I might of had some kind of a relationship and not feel so hopeless now!
Cis woman, never dated other than men. current partner is new to all this 🏳️🌈 stuff. now not only walks in pride with me, he is also exploring nonbinary. doesnt change anything for me, I guess that drags me over in pan? I do not care what he calls himself, he is still.. that person.
The only thing you can explain is how ignorant you are. You're not the authority on what's confusion and what's not, and you most certainly don't have the decency to respect other people's background experiences because you clearly have an attitude about this community self. Do better. Work on those biases.
@@dpcisunbreakable Thanks, but what are you talking about exactly? It just seems to me there's been a lot of assumptions made and your comment is basically a character assassination without any substantive content. Oh, sorry for breathing in your presence with my "attitude" , Wise One
@@EfHaichDee If you can't comprehend the words I stated, then maybe you need to read for more for understanding and not for response. Perhaps you're the one that made poor assumptions to begin with. By suggesting anyone was confused to begin with. A hit dog will holler, as evidenced by your reply. And the next time you do breathe, make sure you don't taint the air around you with your negativity.
@@dpcisunbreakable Well there are people in the video saying they are pansexual and people in the comments who are telling them they aren't. So someone is confused - that's a logical inference not an assumption. My comment above was suggesting that you maybe spend a little less time on ad hominem, and maybe state your case. Your responses are so ambiguous I can't tell if we're arguing or agreeing with each other. My OP was directed at people in the comments trying to argue that pansexuality doesn't exist and that it's just bisexuality. And who are you to talk about spreading negativity with this ^ mess happening up here?
@@EfHaichDee Look if I need judgment, t certainly would be from someone so low-budget and preoccupied with picking apart my replies as if what you have to say will impact all writing on social media. Maybe you should be more clear about who you're referencing instead of trying to educate me in ways you never could. At least be good at what you're now failing to teach. If you're not receptive the posted replies, that's your problem. M
I agree, unfortunately, certain subgroups have hijacked our lexicon to the point where words like "bisexual" are becoming seemingly outdated, which is a total joke.
As a gay man (also trans and major Bowie fan) with a pansexual man who came out later in life, I'm sharing this with him. ...and father's, yeah. There is something up with them.
I came out as bisexual at first to my sister, when i told her i was part of a community... (i was not finished, just struggling with my words...) she told me: "oh shit! Your not a Nazi?! Are you?...😶" and when i came out to my parents... well, lets say they are still really homophobic 😅 so yeah, so far so good...🙃
"I'd rather we not label ourselves", as nice as that sounds in theory I think labels can be useful, as long as we don't place judgements on those labels that we use to help define who we are (whether we're defining sexuality or other aspects of life).
I agree. Because even tho they feel it's an inconvenience to label themselves it shows their own confidence in what they want. There's nothing more frustrating than not knowing what one wants on either side of dating.
If you don't like the label to begin with, and you don't think coming out is even important, then why the hell are you doing this video? Geez. How about you do you and leave the rest of us alone? We didn't ask for or need your explanation.
If you don't like the video to begin with and don't think it's even important, why the hell are you doing this comment? Geez. How about you do you and leave the rest of us alone? We didn't ask for your opinion
@@zazazipper9331 I watched the video because I wanted to hear about their points of view on pansexuality and was eventually greeted with their condescending b.s. at the end, once again, prompting the age-old question of "Why the !#$%@ did you even bother to do this video?".
Basically, if a person is "bisexual" then that person is: "attracted to more than one gender" whereas a pansexual is "attracted to all genders(with no regard to gender)". The difference is a bisexual can be attracted to women and trans-gendered folk but no men or any combination, like being attracted to non-binary pple and men but not attracted to women. Get it? Bisexuality blankets being attracted to more than one but not all. (An omnisexual and pansexual are the same with one crucial difference...)
For me coming out still a history Knowing my sexuality it was totally difficult through several rape and no help from family discrimination but i have been influes so much with women like whitney Houston Maria Carey also other singers like cilindion i was shy during my twenties
Maybe it's just me but I have a problem with people having this overwhelming need to label themselves, like a label is going to help you understand yourself better. To me labels narrow who you are or can be. I'm human and that should be enough. Everything else is just a way to try to find who you "belong" with. If that makes sense.
You must not have had to struggle with your sexual orientation ever in life, and that leaves me to assume that you don't know have a clue what these guys struggled with. Maybe you should actually talk to them instead of judging them about being labeled. And maybe you should educate yourself on the difference nuances of sexuality. Clearly you have no understanding of what being more than human means to them.
@@dpcisunbreakable you completely misunderstood what I meant. I'm not judging these guys. I think they're fine exactly the way they are. I was talking about people in general. Though even in the LGBTQ community there's discrimination based on labels. You're "XYZ" so you can't be " whatever, fill in the blank". These guy themselves said that the labels were more for other people than for themselves. I'm just saying that people get hung up on labels without even getting to know a person first. If we could start with the premise that we're human first and foremost then go from there, realizing that most of us just want to be loved and accepted for who we are rather than the label someone wants to put on us or force us to wear for their comfort.
That's great for you, but some people like labels because they find comfort in the stories that people similar to them tell. I think it's valid to want to feel connected to someone through a label.
It has a variety of definitions but the most common one is "attraction regardless of gender". Some people say it's the same as being bi, and some bi people actually use that very same definition, so it can be hard to differentiate between the two. Generally, pan people like to call themselves "blind to gender", which is something that they feel has not properly been defined by bisexuality.
I first came out as Bisexual when I was 16 then re-came out as Pansexual when I was 21. I always knew I was attracted to both men and women but when I got to college I learned more about gender and how many there are, so Pansexual was more fitting to me the more I learned. I came out to my very catholic grandma at Thanksgiving back in 2018. To my knowledge I'm the only person in my whole family who's LGBTQIA+ and I was nervous as to what she'd say. But she said she loved me even more and we cried together and hugged and I was so relieved
But sexual orientation deals with sex, not gender identity. It doesn't make logical sense to base a sexual orientation off of a non-physical self-assigned identity.
Enlighten me when was pansexual born? I have never heard of it in my corner of the world ... sounds a lot like bisexuality to me...can someone shed some light please, thank you
There are more genders than m/f thus pan more comprehensive than bi. Besides Bi sounds like either/or. I'm Pan ..either/or doesn't describe how I am or how I feel
As a pansexaul teenager who is not out I really don’t get to see many pan people in the media so it’s kinda nice to finally see people I can somewhat relate to
You are awesome! And just because your orientation is not represented in the mainstream media doen't mean it doesn't exist! It's not fair that mainstream media represents straight men and women, or on occasion a gay guy or a lesbian girl. Please please please don't get your reference from sitcoms
You can enjoy certain shows, but they do not represent you
You are a pansexual person and that is awesome, you get to love people for who the are and not for what they are. It's incredible!
Pan people are not represented in the media, but please don't ever let that put you down
You are one of few people who can love everyone, regardless of sex or gender. And that's pretty neat!
It's one of the best features humans can have and most of us can't even appreciate it because we are jealous
Who is to say you can only relate to pansexual people? You could relate to any living thing
Weird, I relate to a lot of people and sexual orientation has literally nothing to do with it. I look at everyone as individuals and I judge everyone based on how they project their energy across their wake. There are a lot of people I can’t stand either and once again, it is the attitude and the way they project themselves and how they influence the overall happiness around for one.
I grew up in a very diff time. I had no peers w my orientation. I had 2 friends my entire life of same orientation in spite of living in places like NYC or Paris. Didn't matter. I'm glad it's better now. I feel better too. Still sad for all those years. Kinda ignored how rough its been until I see something like this Anyways ..onwards, yay Pan!!
You are just a brainwashed kid
As a pansexual individual, I'd like to thank you for bringing light to our community. 🖤 people often inferiorize us and treat us like we dont belong. We are valid and we deserve more representation. Thank you 💜
Pansexual Pride for Life!!! I Love Being Pansexual!!!
🖤🖤🖤 we love to see it!!
Totally agree as a another pansexual person ❤️😁
Fellow Pansexual humando over here... 💯 Agreed! 👏🔥🌈
You guys are Bisexual.
They’re all so handsome but Adrian’s septum ring makes him my fave
Alex is my fave but i love them all
It looks trashy
unless it's a cow wearing it
@@blackvol2233 Of course your close-minded self would think that
Alex is my favourite
When I saw the title of the video I almost cried, and when I finished watching it I felt very good, very relieved to see other people's experiences. Likewise in my case my father has no idea, and he is the main reason that for many years I stayed in a limbo of not understanding myself, feeling things that confused me and made me feel "abnormal", but with time was moving away from him, and finally I was able to be myself. The first person I told was my best friend, and he gave me a gift that I never expected, because he treated me normally, making me feel that I was not a freak, that I was NORMAL, and that he accepted me as which was. Thanks to him I started to stop hiding and more to be myself, today if I want to laugh, I laugh, if I want to cry, I cry, if I want to scream, I scream, if I want to run, well, I can't because I'm also handicapped, but yes I could do it, and I'm very happy about it. Thanks to all of you who are after this channel, with a lot of junk content that abounds in this platform, I am happy to see something so special, and necessary, like this.
I’m so glad you got to have that experience with your best friend! Everyone deserves to just be treated like a normal human being and with respect. I wish you the best on your journey!
@@sarahallegra6239 Thank you so much. Same for you
Proud pansexual woman here!!!! *WE ARE VALID*
YES WE ARE!
Lol
Why are you here if you're a woman 🤔
@@benjaminreyes3624 What does that have anything to do with anything? Only pansexual men can watch this video in your opinion?
@@jenisinjapan grindr is a gay male/male app. We aren't interested in women. So why are they here?
Not only are they here but now shouting "WE ARE HERE AND VALID". It's nonsense because we aren't interested in women regardless of their sexual orientation.
I’m pansexual and I came out to my parents at 19 (I’m 22 now) and recently just got outed by my aunt to my grandma, I wanted to tell her when I was ready but I guess not lol, my dad was the one who took it the hardest he damn near cried😂
Pansexual is not a thing
@@kstephane1444 why would you even say that. Who are you to define how anyone else defines themselves (even if it is to make themselves understood better by others)
@BuTtRz_99 i'm sorry you got outed. Dont ever let anything like that hold you down. You are a beautiful person no matter what anyone else thinks or says
@@kstephane1444 you are not a "thing" .....get over yourself
@@kstephane1444 period
I'm not pansexula but I've always found men more attractive when they were comfortable with being themselves
Im So Happy To see more Talk about Pansexuality. As a Pansexual Person this Makes My Heart Very Happy
Me too. What a relief
Gosh, I came out in the early 80's. It's been very challenging. I used to just tell myself I was " from the near future" . I was right. Wish I'd been born 20 years later. So glad for pan visibility now. Wow.
glad to see my community represented
They've all grabbed corners of my heart and are tugging. I love this episode and I adore them.
My story is a very interesting one, when I first came out I came out as Pan and later corrected it to Demi Sexual but because I was so effeminate I had a lot of people just telling me to be gay and so I started calling myself gay. Also dating women scared me because I didn’t want to play the role of a “man” to satisfy my partner. That’s when we fast forward to today where I am Agender Trans Femme who is Andro-Demi sexual. And like these guys I agree that I really don’t need the labels for myself it just paints a picture for other.
Lmao no just no
I don't see what's so instresting about it though 👀, it might be an interesting journey for yourself, through all the quite unnecessary jargon that makes you seem "interesting" I suppose to these children who seem believe the more such labels you gather the cooler you are, but honey there isn't anything intrinsically interesting about random words puts together. You are a human being, tap into that! That makes you interesting!
Discovering your sexuality and/or gender can be complicated. Well done for figuring out who you are (ignore the morons who don’t get it).
Bruh I really needed this, cause I agree that I identify myself as Pansexual just for another person sakes. I don’t like labels either, I just like people in general depending on how they act and how they carry themselves, it’s just the most sexiest thing in my point of view.
I came out by casually telling it to my family over dinner. We're from an Asian country but our household was never strict or hostile in gender, political views, religion, etc. My parents are just happy and content I'm not off to prison or doing hard drugs. When I got into college, I realized how lucky I was to have my kind of family as almost everyone I knew, his having trouble coming out. Still, whether it was greeted by warmth or indifference, it's nice to come out. I feel like I understand myself more.
This is so relatable, It's good to know to see a video where pansexual people are gathered. I consider myself pansexual and in my country, it's still too vague. Every time people ask me about my sexuality, I just tell them I am gay because I feel like it's easier to understand compared to pansexual. I came out recently through a vlog. Coming out online is harder than I thought.
Seeing this made me so happy. I really don't see much talk about pansexuality or representation in larger media. I've been out as a pansexual since like middle school. Only thing that would make it any better is if you did another Pansexuals video with at least 1 pansexual female, mostly out of curiosity on if the female pansexual and the male pansexual have similar answers to each question. Love all these guys though! Their personalities are so unique.
they're so good looking and seem like really nice guys
They are all attractive i am also pansexual too
The shit about being a pansexual cis person is that sometimes, even after coming out as not straight, we still have the fear stigma from other member of the queer community in addition to straight people paranoia. I'm a pan, cis, non binary in my gut but my appearance is closer to a masculine stereotype (I'm Brazilian so my pronouns are ele/ela/ O SER (my favorite) . So straight women think I won't enjoy sex with them or that I won't be good in bed, some gay guys have told me the same and that I'm only saying I'm pan for attention, Lesbians outright despise me and a trans person thought I was just flirting with them for a kink, fetish, or that I had lost a bet. When you're openly pan, people think you're either begging for attention or a filthy, promiscuous person they wouldn't wanna be with. I've decided to just pretend to be whatever the person I wanna bang is looking for, whatever...
you are absolutely right. You do NOT need to go out of your way to explain yourself for people to "understand" you. Either they accept you or they do not. Noone has ever said they need to understand me, love me or dont. Its that simple.
This makes me happy, knowing there are more pansexuals out there!!!!!!!
It’s amazing to see my community here 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Thank you for this…as a newly discovered pansexual I had so many questions and this helped so much!!
So you’re bisexual ?
I’m more proud of my pan sexuality now.
I tried to come out to my mom when I was 25, told her that I had had an experience with a same sex cousin and that I had enjoyed it.She started screaming at the top of her lungs that ''You are not going to turn gay, you will not do that to me!'''.I tried to explain that I'm not gay but I may not be completely hetero either but she would have none of it so that was that and it was never talked about again.From time to time I would get all kinds of looks of disgust from her until a year ago I finally had enough and basically I no longer have any relationship with her or any other relatives.There are other issues than homofobia with my family also, narcissistic behaviour etc. but this was one of the main ones I felt I needed to distanse myself from them.
Thanks. Everyone deserves the "beauty of enjoying'...
I told my parents when we went out to dinner so they wouldn't overreact.
Trapped 'em
I'm a Bisexual guy. I want to hug my Pan brothers and sisters right now.
sir with pink is SERVING
I love them sm
Thank you for this video❤
What a wonderful panel!
pan people deserve more love
Yes we do!!
Believe me they do get alot more love lol.... I left a really bad 10 yr relationship with my ex fiance whom was straight. Which I know doesn't necessarily have to do anything with the point I'm getting to.... but now I'm in an open relationship with 2 pansexual men and they are wonderful, sweet, caring, fun, etc. Though I know everyone is different, especially with relationships, this just happens to work for us is all. 😊
For some no-good reason there is a lot of hate towards bisexual people, coming from all sorts of non-bi people. Do you guys (and/or any other pan people reading this) experience that too, or is it different?
Yes! I often experience this and have heard of others in the community who experience it too. The negative experiences I've come across sadly have been from the bisexual community ):
Sadly, I read the comments here and there was lot of hate. I'm disappointed. I'm abrosexual, which means my sexuality is fluid, but I've identified as pansexual. A lot of people accuse pansexual people of being biphobic, which is ridiculous. I'm also genderfluid and non-binary, so I wouldn't feel comfortable identifying as bisexual. I know many bi people who include nbs in their spectrum of attraction or even identify as such, but, at the end of the day, it's about each person's comfort and we should all respect that. If you go through this awful comment section, you'll see a lot of biphobic comments, accusations of biphobia, and slutshaming based on orientation. So I think that answers your question. I'd wish LGBTQ* people just stopped hating on each other.
@@Marinacarmenp a long time ago I told a gay co-worker I was bi and he told me there was no such thing, I just hadn't made up my mind yet! WOW!
@@silverghostcat1924 It baffles me. I know hate towards bi and pan people exists, but to see it still so ever-present in the comment section of a grindr video. 🤦🏾🤦🏾
@@silverghostcat1924 99,9% of the bi-hate I have ever seen/heard in my life came from gays and lesbians. You'd think they of all people would know better than to exclude someone because of their sexual orientation
Love this video! Can’t say the same about some of the comments.
Uncle Jesse is still HOT too! Just sayin!
U have helped me see that this will get easyer
Why are do they all sound high AF? 😂😂😂
I’m 35, and still not out as I was never sure if I was gay or straight, and then there was the idea of being pan. I have had sex with all genders but I never new there was a community for what I was. I just thought I was wired. You guys are lucky. I was malignant for 5 years and then I discovered myself. I have had more sex in the last year than I all my whole life. Tbh I feel like I wish they taught this shit at school when I was young. Maybe then I might of had some kind of a relationship and not feel so hopeless now!
The one is the blue is for me!! Tell him I said what's up!!
I’m pan 🏳️🌈 😇
I’m still learning to understand and accept pansexuals. I have a best friend and I don’t understand. I’m glad I watched this.
Love the response to how important coming out is! 💙
Me too💞
Aye that’s Eddie from the cut videos
I opened the cabinet and just couldn’t resist myself. And that’s when I knew I was pan sexual 🙏
As a pansexual genderfluid person. I want to date them all 😍 lol
Came out last year and have only met one pansexual(that I know of). Love this 💖
Some of us are been rejected
Pansexual and bisexual is another way of being gay without the label of gay 🌈 like a scapegoat I dig it
I came out when I was 47. Felt ashamed.
Cis woman, never dated other than men. current partner is new to all this 🏳️🌈 stuff. now not only walks in pride with me, he is also exploring nonbinary. doesnt change anything for me, I guess that drags me over in pan? I do not care what he calls himself, he is still.. that person.
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They all came out so young❤
I had to google the meaning of pansexual.
It's ok to just say 'I'm confused and I don't understand' after watching this video. There's plenty of people who can patiently explain it to you.
The only thing you can explain is how ignorant you are. You're not the authority on what's confusion and what's not, and you most certainly don't have the decency to respect other people's background experiences because you clearly have an attitude about this community self. Do better. Work on those biases.
@@dpcisunbreakable Thanks, but what are you talking about exactly? It just seems to me there's been a lot of assumptions made and your comment is basically a character assassination without any substantive content.
Oh, sorry for breathing in your presence with my "attitude" , Wise One
@@EfHaichDee If you can't comprehend the words I stated, then maybe you need to read for more for understanding and not for response. Perhaps you're the one that made poor assumptions to begin with. By suggesting anyone was confused to begin with. A hit dog will holler, as evidenced by your reply.
And the next time you do breathe, make sure you don't taint the air around you with your negativity.
@@dpcisunbreakable Well there are people in the video saying they are pansexual and people in the comments who are telling them they aren't. So someone is confused - that's a logical inference not an assumption.
My comment above was suggesting that you maybe spend a little less time on ad hominem, and maybe state your case. Your responses are so ambiguous I can't tell if we're arguing or agreeing with each other.
My OP was directed at people in the comments trying to argue that pansexuality doesn't exist and that it's just bisexuality.
And who are you to talk about spreading negativity with this ^ mess happening up here?
@@EfHaichDee Look if I need judgment, t certainly would be from someone so low-budget and preoccupied with picking apart my replies as if what you have to say will impact all writing on social media.
Maybe you should be more clear about who you're referencing instead of trying to educate me in ways you never could. At least be good at what you're now failing to teach. If you're not receptive the posted replies, that's your problem.
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i was in denial about my sexually for a long time and im starting to set my true self free.
I’m so blessed to have a family where there was never a need to come out it would just be a case of oh you are dating this person now epic
Do bisexual next
If you're attracted to both male and female, then you're bi-sexual. Trans male and trans female are sexual identities, not sexual orientations.
Periodt
I thought transgender was a gender identity
Transgender is a gender identity. Not sexual orientation
I agree, unfortunately, certain subgroups have hijacked our lexicon to the point where words like "bisexual" are becoming seemingly outdated, which is a total joke.
@@RedNekLvr22 Or maybe you need to evolve and keep up with the times.
Been out as pan for 4 years now
Good video and content.
Team Adrian forever hahahahahah
As a gay man (also trans and major Bowie fan) with a pansexual man who came out later in life, I'm sharing this with him.
...and father's, yeah. There is something up with them.
I love being pansexual
They’re all so handsome
They hold too much power tf
@Grindr brought me here 💙💙💙
I know my parents would react well about my pansexuality but I don't feel like they need to know
And for my genderfluidity... how could I explain ?
im not open open about being pan, but some of my close friends know
This comment section is dissapointing🙄
Right? 🙄
I came out as bisexual at first to my sister, when i told her i was part of a community... (i was not finished, just struggling with my words...) she told me: "oh shit! Your not a Nazi?! Are you?...😶" and when i came out to my parents... well, lets say they are still really homophobic 😅 so yeah, so far so good...🙃
"I'd rather we not label ourselves", as nice as that sounds in theory I think labels can be useful, as long as we don't place judgements on those labels that we use to help define who we are (whether we're defining sexuality or other aspects of life).
I agree. Because even tho they feel it's an inconvenience to label themselves it shows their own confidence in what they want. There's nothing more frustrating than not knowing what one wants on either side of dating.
If you don't like the label to begin with, and you don't think coming out is even important, then why the hell are you doing this video? Geez. How about you do you and leave the rest of us alone? We didn't ask for or need your explanation.
If you don't like the video to begin with and don't think it's even important, why the hell are you doing this comment? Geez. How about you do you and leave the rest of us alone? We didn't ask for your opinion
@@zazazipper9331 I watched the video because I wanted to hear about their points of view on pansexuality and was eventually greeted with their condescending b.s. at the end, once again, prompting the age-old question of "Why the !#$%@ did you even bother to do this video?".
@@RedNekLvr22 You sound resentful.
@@dpcisunbreakable And you sound like an armchair psychologist.
@@RedNekLvr22 Considering the fact that my master's degree focus was mental health, that's the biggest compliment I know you never intended to pay me.
I love being pan
Bruh I'm Bi but I can't understand the difference between Bi and Pan
Basically, if a person is "bisexual" then that person is: "attracted to more than one gender" whereas a pansexual is "attracted to all genders(with no regard to gender)". The difference is a bisexual can be attracted to women and trans-gendered folk but no men or any combination, like being attracted to non-binary pple and men but not attracted to women. Get it? Bisexuality blankets being attracted to more than one but not all. (An omnisexual and pansexual are the same with one crucial difference...)
Pansexual guys make me have the same attraction I have towards Bi guys.
All more attractive than gay guys.
I came out when I was 11 to a summer camp group and my crush was bi
Pan woman here 💖😘🌈
Also….i know some of these guys and they identified as gay and bi up until this video but I digress
For me coming out still a history
Knowing my sexuality it was totally difficult through several rape and no help from family discrimination but i have been influes so much with women like whitney Houston Maria Carey also other singers like cilindion i was shy during my twenties
Maybe it's just me but I have a problem with people having this overwhelming need to label themselves, like a label is going to help you understand yourself better. To me labels narrow who you are or can be. I'm human and that should be enough. Everything else is just a way to try to find who you "belong" with. If that makes sense.
You must not have had to struggle with your sexual orientation ever in life, and that leaves me to assume that you don't know have a clue what these guys struggled with. Maybe you should actually talk to them instead of judging them about being labeled. And maybe you should educate yourself on the difference nuances of sexuality. Clearly you have no understanding of what being more than human means to them.
@@dpcisunbreakable you completely misunderstood what I meant. I'm not judging these guys. I think they're fine exactly the way they are. I was talking about people in general. Though even in the LGBTQ community there's discrimination based on labels. You're "XYZ" so you can't be " whatever, fill in the blank". These guy themselves said that the labels were more for other people than for themselves. I'm just saying that people get hung up on labels without even getting to know a person first. If we could start with the premise that we're human first and foremost then go from there, realizing that most of us just want to be loved and accepted for who we are rather than the label someone wants to put on us or force us to wear for their comfort.
That's great for you, but some people like labels because they find comfort in the stories that people similar to them tell. I think it's valid to want to feel connected to someone through a label.
@@DR-yy1tx Exactly!!
@@DR-yy1tx I agree with that. I only have a problem with labels when they're used to hurt and divide.
What does pansexual mean?
It has a variety of definitions but the most common one is "attraction regardless of gender". Some people say it's the same as being bi, and some bi people actually use that very same definition, so it can be hard to differentiate between the two.
Generally, pan people like to call themselves "blind to gender", which is something that they feel has not properly been defined by bisexuality.
Here watching from Kenya 🇰🇪 doing it secret no relative know it,lam pure bottom ,lam in grindr, welcome all
Can women get on Grindr? For all the bi & pan guys, they should
We love representation :))
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I first came out as Bisexual when I was 16 then re-came out as Pansexual when I was 21. I always knew I was attracted to both men and women but when I got to college I learned more about gender and how many there are, so Pansexual was more fitting to me the more I learned. I came out to my very catholic grandma at Thanksgiving back in 2018. To my knowledge I'm the only person in my whole family who's LGBTQIA+ and I was nervous as to what she'd say. But she said she loved me even more and we cried together and hugged and I was so relieved
But sexual orientation deals with sex, not gender identity. It doesn't make logical sense to base a sexual orientation off of a non-physical self-assigned identity.
@@vp9549 idk dude. I just don’t care about what genitals you have or what pronouns you go by. If I like you I like you
What a sweet seeming bunch
What do girls feel about bi-pan guys who present so obviously as gay?
Labels is a funny topic to me….. if you don’t identify yourself or go by something what are you just blank space….
What is the difference between being pansexual and bisexual?
Attraction to all without regard to gender or gender identity and attraction to two or more genders.
The guy in the middle with a jacket has a cute face
I really love to share my coming out😍😍
I came out 21 yrs old
Where in the…. My uncle touched me…..
Enlighten me when was pansexual born? I have never heard of it in my corner of the world ... sounds a lot like bisexuality to me...can someone shed some light please, thank you
There are more genders than m/f thus pan more comprehensive than bi. Besides Bi sounds like either/or. I'm Pan ..either/or doesn't describe how I am or how I feel
I came out from my mother
So those who love Eminem are Stansexual?
If those guys are pan then I'm a latent hetero😋
I don’t get the difference between pan and bi, why no one is asking that…
Bi: person + gender matters
Pan: just the person matters, not the gender
I love you guys to death
Interview demisexuals please. With so much focus on sex it would be nice to see more representations of those to who that does not come first.