IF YOU DON'T DO THESE THINGS IN 2024, YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 มิ.ย. 2024
- In this video, I have highlighted several attributes that it is desirable to possess as an African Lady if you truly intend to get and stay married.
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Beautiful
Great points. Can we also get a guy to talk about the men’s part? Cause it seems everyone is only interested in training and advising the girl child. We need to invest in our men as well.
Fact
True talk
Well said
Exactly, I’m so sick for always being told what to do but never seeing the same for men
Beautiful 😍
Loool that last point made me laugh because my husband loves cooking from the day I met him. From day one we have always shared the cooking 50/50 and still do. I also love cooking and it has never been an issue for me. I think people should do what works for their families. I will add that I am Caribbean and my husband is Nigerian. And yes I cook my husband Nigerian food and sometimes he cooks Caribbean food. And I have a great relationship with my inlaws. I am blessed to have them and they equally love me. I am glad they are not super traditional and quite progressive because sometimes my husband is in the kitchen and sometimes its me 😂😂😂
Hmm,I love that too my husband will always drag the kitchen with me but I don't give him space, it's my my my
I agree with Ify 💯. My wife humbled me with her humbleness... now she gets everything she wishes... I cook for her daily with pleasure
You are a great man ❤️
sis @@Ifyskitchen i try my best...
Na man you be💪
This is so amazing.. she's a definition of a woman with wisdom
@olamisojioluwakamikun8819 yes ooo
Please let's debunk the myth that culture should dictate our roles within a marriage. The notion that cooking is solely the wife's responsibility stems from outdated norms when men were expected to be the sole providers. However, in today's world, we recognize the importance of shared responsibilities and equal partnership. In a modern marriage, both partners should contribute their 100 percent to the household, including tasks like cooking. It's not about assigned roles based on gender; it's about teamwork and mutual respect. If one partner is less busy or available, they should step up and take on the responsibility of preparing meals. Marriage is about giving your all, without reservations or limitations based on outdated cultural norms. To expect one person to bear the burden of cooking simply because of their gender is unfair and, quite frankly, inhumane. Let's strive for a marriage where both partners give their best to ensure its success and happiness. It's time to break free from the chains of outdated cultural expectations and embrace true equality and partnership in marriage.
God bless you Ify🤗
You have said it all
This is how I've always felt marriage should be done as I became an adult. I thought was the weird one who doesn't agree with gender roles created by the society.
@@kallmekoko6277 No, dear, you are not weird. Marriages where partners give their all are the most successful and enjoyable. When each partner complements the other in every role at home, it alleviates stress and fosters a fulfilling dynamic home.
Continue deceiving yourself with your no gender roles bs.
FYI, sometimes it does not work how you think!
Ify, i did all these and more, still yet, i de where i de. Some didn't do as much and are married. My friend's husband caught her with another man weeks b4 they got married, they have 3 kids now. Am a firm believer that the spiritual controls the physical. Know this and know peace.
Like what will be will be. I bet you that if some of these married women were still single in 2024, they will be single. Sometimes, it’s not about what you do or don’t do. It’s a crazy world jare. What some of them even tolerate all in the name of marriage will shock you. Abeg, leave story.
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@@Olivia_W my dear, in the context of what ify posted, my view is many don't have to do this much to get married. I have a friend whose husband says his wife was the one who made him to start hustling and hustle hard because she wanted the finest things of life and he had to provide. That was hs exact reason for marrying her. Her demands. She motivates him. So what works for one might not necessarily work for the other. Not everyone is seeing shege in their marriage too. Understand the meaning of powershifts and negotiation in marriage from time to time.
My dear u are 💯 on the truth of the whole matters
Long as we humans are not perfect but always trying our best this video is totally accepted in peace and love for those who are ready to learn ❤️💞
A woman who brings home money is helping the man in his job to support the household financially. A kind husband will have no problem pitching in to help keep the home clean. 😊
Wise words
You are my role model
I always enjoy whatever you say and preach even though I'm a Muslim.
I don't know how you do it, but you do say what I need every time.
Kudos to you.
May God continue to help, I pray to see you physically one day.
My warm regards to your family ❤
I'm still a young boy
But I'll keep everything you said here in mind 😅... I know I'll need these points in the future
I really love this! So refreshing to hear in 2024.. I hope people listen to understand. Especially keywords like “responsibility”.. And of course every marriage has peculiarities but this is very sound advice generally speaking.
Thank you for watching ❤
I did everything you said Ify, but he just wanted an end to the marriage. Am ok with my son now. Thanks so much for taking time for this video. Young ones please pray not to have wrong partners
Don’t mind her they are always against women
Amen 🙏🏻🙌🏻
I love the 'primary responsibility' you used!
Thank you mama😊
I agree with you a 100%, great video Ify, I pray they take your advice.
ALL the points ARE very IMPORTANT!! Thank you.
My pleasure ❤️
This is very insightful and glad watching this video, thanks for making it. Beautiful outfit there too. Keep the good work up.
Thank you so much Ify's Kitchen!!!
This was so helpful
Love you 🎉🎉
Still young buh already downloaded the video, promise to keep watching till they are part of me...... thanks for ur tym to keep us learned❤❤❤❤(WhatsApp family)
Wow, I loved the advice you're giving to those looking for a partner or hubby. Will definitely be sharing it with the young people in my church. Strong sound advice. Look forward to the next one.. 🙏🏾
Thank you❤️
Thank you so much Ify ❤
Love your outfit,hair and makeup up
So much wisdom here. Thank you so much, big sis. God bless you,ma.
Thank you ma for your sound words of wisdom. You have shaken and in fact broken the table but it's for the best. More videos like this please 👍👍👍
Real wise words.... My mommy Ify is just the best, from the best kitchen tips to marriage tips.... Hopefully one day, these will be useful to me😅😅..... Thank you for always looking out for us ❤ and Happy new month mom🎉❤
Thanks big sis 🥰
U are truly one of a kind
Thank you for being honest and realistic on this topic, Ify. Love it. I'll like to know your opinion on single ladies that intentionally foster friendship with married men, disregarding their wives. Their flex is usually along the lines of "I don't make friends with girls..." they also feel like an achiever when they drop statements like "I'm closer to her husband, actually..."
I'll be really happy to see/hear your thoughts on this, please ❤
Flawless makeup, beautiful top, you are glowing Ify.
I really enjoyed watching this
You have really done well with these teachings of yours. God bless you.
Pure truth! 💯
Happy New Month Mama❤️
Well said ma❤️
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Wise words❤ & Amen🙏 to all p rayers. Thanks & Remain Blessed
Words of wisdom 👏 thanks ify, this will help a lot of people
I agree with you. Love it! Thank you Ify.
I agree ❤ these are wise words
Ify well done ❤❤
I really enjoy your teaching thank you
Since it's not a man's duty to help with household chores,it shouldn't be a woman's duty too to be financing the family,we should all know our duty, African women are not slaves. If we women must help men financially in the family then nothing should stop men from helping us with household chores.Imagine foreign women watching this won't they call African women slaves the way they do call Africans slaves
I love you more for this Mrs Ify
You said it all my love… all you said is true n am not bragging I do this alone…. I wanted to pause for a while but this talk you have given me the strength to keep it up.
Keep going love.❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing sis
Nuggets of wisdom
I respect you Ify.With your beauty , you still know this as a young lady ❤❤❤
Really appreciate this. Thank you so much ma 💖💖💖
Thank you so much for the advice😊
Thanks ify for this advice...❤❤❤
Beautiful points, thank you ma❤
Thank you ma'am... this gives hope.
So refreshing I really love this video so much thank you sis look so beautiful❤
Wow this is what I call motivation thank u so much lfy for this advice
You are so welcome 🤗
This is why I love you!! God bless you ❤❤❤
Thank you for this video Ify. These are important issues that people hardly want to hear these days, yet they can't be overlooked or avoided. I love that you have a sound mind and you are reasonable too. Lots of love from here.
By the way, you look so beautiful. ❤❤❤
I appreciate this❤️
Please 🙏 this truth is correct and i love you and the way you communicate an express the truth. Please more of this named Ify talk common sense
I'm not yet married but i love this video and I learnt alot from it ❤
Pure truth ma'am,I've added your points to the one I know before.Thanks ❤
Anyways,like your style and make ups💋😊😉
Ify this video is really really helpful!! thanks for sharing...
You are welcome ❤️
Thanks Ify for the advice 😘💯
Proverbs 31 woman that was soo beautiful👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 keep being you Ify 👸🏽😘, You look absolutely stunning and gorgeous love your top 😊. you are blessed and highly favoured. God bless you and your family mightly in abundance forever. Amen🙏🏽🥰 💛💐🧡✨👑✨🤗💜🤗
Thank you so much dear friend ❤️❤️❤️
@@Ifyskitchen You are most welcome my dear IFY God bless you. 💖💖💖
I love your charisma. And thanks for this great piece. Kudos.
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I totally agree with you, my husband said he married me based on what I did for him years back, he didn't ask & i went all the way to help him with something he need at the time
Beautiful video, insightful 👌 👏 ❤️, facts 👏 💯
All your points are on point ❤
I love you Na you are now my mentor thank you so much
Thank you Ify for the lovely advice Ohhh wow I've learnt a lot here ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
You are so welcome 🤗
Pure truth. All ladies need this priceless fact.
WISE WORDS!!!
Well said 👍
Thanks for the teaching Ify, God bless you more and more.
Amen. God bless you too❤
Wise words Ify. I agree totally.
This was very helpful Ify. Thank you❤
Glad it was helpful!
Well done so much wisdom from you keep inspiring this generation ❤
Thank you, I will❤️❤️
Pure truth. I love your videos ❤❤❤
I love your charisma
I love your values, Ify❤
Pure truth ify thanks for this
Weldon Ify you have spoken well.
Thank you for this🙏🏾
Great point ma
It's really helpful
I would make sure I don't slack myself
I always knew I loved u, even from the way you cook.. thank you ma, please we need more videos ❤❤
Totally agree with all you said Ify😊
Wise words ify 👏🏻
Thanks big sis 🥰
U are truly one of a kind ❤️
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Wise Words Ify🎉
Pure truth. Nice one ify
You’re absolutely correct 👍. Beautiful top dear❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much 🤗
I agree, Thank You Ma!😍😍🙌
Wise words ify
I AGREE 💯
Points on point 💯
Wise wisdom 💕
WISE WORDS!
Thank you for this video ❤
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So nice of you❤️
Pure truth you are one of a kind 🤩
You are on point.
Thank you Ma, you look so beautiful 😍
This is really making a lot of sense beautiful Sis❤
Wise words Sis❤ Ride on 😊 More of this hooo Sis
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All your point are purely truth, god bless you
WISE WORDS
I really enjoyed your teachings 😍 keep it up ma👍💖
Thank you, I will❤️
Word from the Kitchen ...Thanks Ify
Any time!❤️
Good morning ma I will say ur words motivate me ❤❤❤❤ more love
Wise words. Thank you
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All well said thanks 👍
Totally agree with everything you said Ify❤
I like what you are saying.
Nice words and also interesting.
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God bless you ma, i really learn alot.