@@Psych2go Hai Cindy,I am big fan of psych2go and you.You are the right person to ask this question.What do you think is the reason for Marilyn Monroe low self esteem and traffic life and suicide.I am not asking about someone killed her .I am asking why she suicide(if possible chance probability) and why she has so much depression? PLEASE REPLY
If someone has a pattern of continually “misunderstanding” you, there’s a good chance you’re getting manipulated. You could end up talking yourself in circles which will be draining, harm your mental health, and make you too emotional so that you can’t think clearly. Many people like this are no different at their core than people who are OPENLY verbally and physically abusive, they’re just more sneaky about it, and there’s a good chance that the physical and/or verbal (aka overt) abuse is on its way. Covert abuse is very hard to spot
Cant believe Susie had boyfriend like Trevor, even Franklin and Michael cant handle him, or even the whole LSPD. Wait, why he acting like he lost his job? Aint he have his own industries? Hes totally a millionaire
As a person who has been repeatedly and easily emotionally blackmailed to the point of a somewhat depression I deeply appreciate this video.keep up the good work !
One obvious emotional black mail is "if you love me you'll do it" over something trivial. It's the adult version of "if you don't do this when we're not friends anymore." It just shows how little they value your relationship if they're willing to throw everything away so easily.
Theoretical reply to "if you love me you'll do it" : Fine. I won't do it. It's so painful loving you, I don't love you anymore. Now suck it up and get out of my life! Never mind, I'll get myself out of your life. Bye. (I usually just freeze and become silent when people say those hurtful things, I wish I can stand up for myself more assertively...)
And don't forget those famous two words, "Trust me," when you are expressing a need not to cross certain personal boundaries. I honestly thought he was the one!
Another way to deal with emotional blackmail is to ignore it. This is not about becoming cold and uncaring. It's about staying inside your head and taking care of your feelings. You can care about someone else's feelings, but you cannot take care of their feelings👍
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo yeah but if u have a bad liver, that pain causes to wanna die even more right? And as i also am dying emotionally because of my parents, i m too afraid to kill myself. And if i drink(temporary pleasure) that will cause me to have an extra burden(liver problem) and wanting to die even more but i cant Edit: i never drink. what does it tase like?
Don't just bottle your feelings like that, if you're dealing with emotional blackmail, you need to work things out with the person causing it. It's not an internal problem.
Emotional blackmail is the use of fear, obligation, and guilt to control someone else - this is bad! Friendship is mutual blackmail elevated to the level of love - this is good 😊
But what if it’s his car, and you want him stop the car, he won’t. At home, if you want to leave , he will block the door, and take away your cellphone, sometimes ID, what will you do then.
@@kennethaylott4529 if you missed the red flags for it to get to that point what were you doing? Follow your intuition not anxiety, manipulators use fear to get what they want from people. If you can intuitively feelin what situation you want to happen not what you don’t want to happen then logically come up with a plan that’s 2 steps ahead of them. Then you can get outta any situation. You have to have faith in yourself or you’ll be stuck and the longer you stay the harder it’ll be to get away and the more time it will take to emotionally heal from the abuse afterward. Differentiate intuition from anxiety and move cautiously. Don’t think about revenge or anything like that, you want to get AWAY not get back at them. They’ll play off your feelings so don’t give them any, respond to the situation don’t react and if that’s hard then you have to train yourself to do that because that’s going to help you in life not just one situation.
Seriously, I was so excited when she kicked that asshole out. It might be a bit messed up, but I always get a sense of glee when shitty people get what they deserve! I'm not sure if it's toxic or not, since I'm HAPPY about someone else's "misery" though I can imagine that, this mindset might not be the best one to have. But I guess it's better than feeling empathy for the wrong people :P
Have you ever dealt with emotional blackmail before? We also have a video on how do you know you're dealing with emotional blackmail, you can watch this video: th-cam.com/video/XeysIVjJtuc/w-d-xo.html
@@thisismynamepal i agree, i was that kind of susie you’re talking about before. my previous relationship with my boyfriend is so toxic and my friends always advice me to break him up already but, i was so lost and being blind of the idea of love. we’ve dated for 3 years and it’s sad to think that he’s not the one. but i realized that it’s more sad to suffer and let myself be ruined by staying to that kind of relationship.
Oh my God this is so awful. Hugs for everyone who's going or went through this. For those still in it. Please find a way out of a relationship like this. You deserve better. They won't change. You deserve peace of mind.
I think you shouldn't refer to them as sick or evil. If they are doing something wrong they might not realize it or it may come from a personal flaw that they need to deal with. Maybe help them instead of treating them like the bad guy.
@@-Teague- tried helping them.....many....they have to acknowledge its hurtful or unhealthy first and they don't/can't.......they manipulate counsellors and doctors too....
@@suhaibbsasa3656 Im not saying that they aren't wrong I'm just saying you should try and see it from a platonic/unbiased perspective. Stand up for the person being manipulated, but never attack or insult the person doing wrong.
The art style and Susie look so adorable I love how you all try to help everyone find out more about mental health And I love this story way, It's actually kind of easier to understand
Thank you so much! We're so happy to hear this animation and story helps. I hope more people find out more about mental health. It's such an important discussion that a lot of people stays away from. - Cindy
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo alcoholism is not good actually, they only make you feel "free" for a short term, and sometimes damages your healty. By eh, that doesnt mean im trying to convince you, just do whatever the best for you :) Have a nice day!
Yep, back to when I was toxic, I used to emotionally blackmail people when I wanted to keep them in my life. Then I changed and I got emotionally blackmailed a lot. Now I respect others and myself again and none is hurt :3 everyone can become a better person!
it’s great that you’ve changed your behaviour! it’s also sad that it happened to you but i’m glad you knew how to change and improve to become someone better
I love when people are ready to grow! When you where toxic you thought that this was in some way normal.. But you realized your behavior and changed it..and this is what healing is about❤️❤️❤️
I'm glad you changed. I'm so proud of you but I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you find someone who makes you feel special and brings out the best in you.
I love the fact that the video was made with somewhat concrete example of how such manipulation would work in practice, the "red flags" of said behaviours and how to spot + eventually let go of said people who emotionally blackmail others. This in a way tells a story that can happen to anyone, anywhere. Great job!
I really want more videos with this format. I find this the most thorough and it will probably cause fewer people to self-diagnose and to instead feel empathy for the people genuinely going through these things to these *extreme* levels.
I have a friend of over 20yrs who I’ve noticed more recently falls in “The Sufferer” category more and more. It’s overwhelming to try and help pull them out of their misery and situation. I’m emotionally drained for days/wks afterwards. They don’t turn on the waterworks w me, but they use their kids as an extra manipulation tool. I’ve just decided to cut off the “friendship” to protect my mental health.
I enjoyed the story type style of this video. I've experienced some "sufferers" in the past. This video has taught me some examples of behaviors to stop blaming myself for. I don't want to be angry at myself, but the emotional blackmailer does.
I feelt so bad for Susie until 8:36. THAT'S how to respond to blackmailers, manipulative people, false people, gaslighters and every other kind of psychopath. Just move on. No use in trying to change them. You're so valuable. You can.
It doesn’t work. I tired. They will just say you always think yourself is perfect , got no problem. It takes two ppl to fight . Unless the example is exactly like his, he won’t admit and understand that feeling you are suffering, and they will point at you, it’s because of you make him this way. 🤦
I want to learn how to be assertive like Suzie so that if I'll be prepared to stand up for myself if I encounter low life like my manipulative ex and dealing with my aggressive insensitive sister.
My ex-boyfriend is the last type, the sufferer. He used to get what he wants from me by saying how unhappy he will be if we wouldn't do what he wanted to do. Couple months after the break up we started texting every now and then as friends and I tried to cut it off because it made me feel uncomfortable somehow but he said how unhappy he will be if we don't have contact anymore and even said he gets suicidal if he knows we don't have contact. I called him out on his behavior now that we are not together anymore and repeatedly said that his happiness is not my problem. It's his work to do to stay happy without the need of some other person to fill the void. Now we have contact again but on my terms and if he ever should complain again how I am not responding enough or something I'm gone for good.
Thank goodness I came across you (^), ever since the day you assisted me to get my personal files deleted from the device of the person blackmailing me, my peace has know no bound and for this, I will be eternally grateful to you for this. Thank you kyte
I’m glad I watched this video. I thought emotional blackmail was just “if you don’t/do this then I’ll hurt/do something bad to myself/others.” Turns out it’s so much more than that
Oml wait my best friend always says "if you don't say/do ___ then I'll cut myself" (she gets me to say things I don't want to say/do things I don't want to do bc she finds them funny but they make me uncomfortable or upset), and she knows it upsets me when she cuts herself, so,,, do you think she's being toxic? I didn't know that was considered emotional blackmail- or at least a minor form of it-
@@marolina9329 Sadly I think she is, bc I remember on multiple occasions she'd ask me to say a phrase I felt uncomfortable saying, and when I said no, she kept saying, 'it's the only thing that will make me happy, do you not want me to be happy?', and 'if you don't say it I'll cut myself again'. She also kept saying things that she knew made me upset at my expense, and when I didn't laugh or respond she said I was boring. She was my only friend, but strangely I feel better knowing she's toxic and that I can cut her out of my life
@@solseclipse I think she's toxic too. You'll be okay without her and I assure after dumping her you'll feel a weight is off your chest that you never realized you were living with. All The Best! I believe in you. You will find people who deserve you and respect you. Lots of Love
Psych2go community is a friendly one, the channel portrays problems in the best possible way and i always end up feeling better seeing these videos. Good job!
My mother is this way, the sufferer way specifically, thanks to your videos i learned to be assertive and say no, i cant explain how much this helped me, seriously, thank you
Emotional black mail is a scary thing to hear for me mainly because I am an emotional person and am stressed easily I also feel like I'm in a constant state of danger so it's probably something else
I recently got out of a toxic friendship. And apparently i was at the receiving end of emotional blackmailing. I soon figured it out after watching your videos about toxic friends. So ig you helped me realise the reason of the uneasiness i felt when i was around her lol. Thanks
I LOVE THE DIFFERENT APROCH TO EDUCATION THEY TOOK ON THIS VIDEO! Instead of just telling us things, they added a storyline and characters and it helped me stay focused throughout the video
I watched this video with my hands clenched and dreading the idea that I was doing this to someone without knowing it. But as I watched, it felt more like they were doing it to me instead.
Im really a fan of this 'scenario' format. I personally see this as a great way of displaying the idea of the video, while providing realistic, relatable experiences
@@Psych2go Maybe a bit personal, but have you been subjected to mamipulation by other people, and how do those pretenses set a standard for the videos you make today?
Man I've witnessed and heard about about these kinds of relationships. It's they more like looking for someone to take care of them rather then actually commiting to the relationship. A motherly figure.
@@LadyIcee Glad to hear you are. Really. It always baffles me to see other guys who act like such children. Some women take advantage of that which is something I also witness. It's really freakin sad to see.
Thank you! Glad to hear you think storytelling was helpful. Sometimes making list may not be relatable to others. Should we do more of these format for some topics? - Cindy
Psych2Go Yes. As I said before. It can help people actually understand what the experience is like, and therefore know what to do if they ever end up in that situation
I'm glad and appreciate this video. I always suffer from an emotional blackmailer and i will make sure to remember this video so i can deal with them next time
It's weird how some people can be so sweet at first but after you really know them it's a whole different person. If each person could have a small trailer so I'd know what I'm getting into...
Then all relationships would lose the magic of discovery. It would be easier, but it would be less special. We'd aleays find the one one the first try.
@@Jack1994hoo I know I think you're right in every way...but sometimes the magical way isn't that magical...don't mind me in just saying things that probably don't make sense. Thank you for listening tho
There aren't many women who won't emotionally blackmail their partners. The way this video portrays the blackmail as only a male is showing how unreasonable the modern woman is. The result - an on growing collapse of the western family structure.
I’m sorry this was..gorgeous! In every way! It displays it so perfectly and I haven’t even been through it 🥺 I know you’ve changed lives everywhere just from your “10 mins of wisdom”☺️
I suffered emotional blackmail from my fiance's step mother. Everytime she would stomp on the floor to get us to come up; it was 90% of her criticizing us for being "too loud", or blaming us for something we didn't do. Fortunately I don't go to that place anymore due to how toxic that place was. Heck, I still hear from my fiance that she holds grudges on me for my past.
This hurts me to watch, my father whom i live with now is like this. He always manipulates me for what i need. I cant tell whos lying to me and who actually cares about me anymore. I dont know anymore...
I am so sorry for that. My father is always makes sure that i am bad person. He called selfish, unreasonable, brat, idiot ect. He is just a same. I hope you will overcome this. Just don't give up
@@itz_ic21gaming97 thats exactly what its Like, i do everything but always its my fault when things go wrong. He stopped hitting me when he realized i could fight back but now he just threatens to kick me and out says no one will take me but him. I work a hard job with 12 hour shifts yet still im expected to do the chores around the house for that day that he was just to lazy to do. He constantly compares me to my peice of shit of mother whom he divorced and left us when we were 5 and my puce of shit uncle who stole from the family, sold it all online, and then ran away. What worse is that i cant even bring myself to hate my father.
@@thechameleos6334 i am so sorry. I lost my mother when I was 15. Also my brother makes my father anger even. My father hit me but instead fight back i step back because i didn't want to push further. You don't deserve father like that you deserve batter. Also my uncle he always drunk and he made me make bad things that I still regret.
@@itz_ic21gaming97 my father isnt a bad man in my eyes, miss guided for sure. But i cant bring myself to really hate anyone, thats not who i am. But he learned one day that i will not put up with being hit when i broke his nose and cracked his jaw with a single punch. But he has many many ways of bending people to his will, even if he doesnt do it intentionally. Ive tried to tell him he needs to go to therapy but he wont listen.
@@thechameleos6334 thats why i step back because i saw in his eyes he is not a bad man. If I hit him it will worse and my father doesn't listen me either. Tell me how you felt when you saw his eyes. You didn't even had to punch in the face there is so many ways but that is not one of em. I know my father use this tactic too
When things were at their very worst: 2 Suns, Cross in the sky, 2 comets will collide = don`t be afraid - repent, accept Lord`s Hand of Mercy. The first sign - the Earth will spin faster. The second sign concerns the sun, which will loom larger, brighter and begin to spin. Scientists will say it was a global illusion. Beaware - Jesus will never walk in flesh again. After WW3 - rise of the “ man of peace“ from the East = Antichrist - the most powerful, popular, charismatic and influential leader of all time. Many miracles will be attributed to him. He will imitate Jesus in every conceivable way. Don`t trust „pope“ Francis = the False Prophet - will seem to rise from the dead - will unite all Christian Churches and all Religions as one. One World Religion = the seat of the Antichrist. Benedict XVI is the last true pope - will be accused of a crime of which he is totally innocent. - banking collapse was deliberately masterminded by the Antichrist - Antichrist will step in and create a false peace in the state of Israel by joining them with palestine in an unlikely alliance. - „He will recite extracts from My Teachings, which he will passionately proclaim from every secular stage in the world, until people sit up and take notice of him.“ The Book of Truth mdmlastprophet.com/the-time-for-the-schism-in-the-church-is-almost-here-and-you-must-get-prepared-now/ mdmlastprophet.com/the-schism-in-my-church-will-be-broken-into-different-stages/
This video is pretty accurate on the emotion manipulation/ blackmail topic. Personally, i find approaching such 'manipulators' with dialogue/ tact is a waste of time. It feels like talking to a wall. It feels like these people can't be helped no matter how much you want them to change their ways.
Absolutely brilliantly made video. Friendly, cute and really well explained. I also love the humour in it. Keep up the great work. I will be checking out your other content :)
Self-analysis reassurance Hat trick today: this lead me to look up my attachment style because both my parents do this. I didn't understand why exercising independence was helping me alone and reaching out tended to lead to dependence until I learned about "disorganized attachment", which put together why I have a hard time trusting people but desperately need to ^^. So the work I've been doing for myself the past 2 years is consistent with how to handle that. This also taught me some ways my dad operates, and my mom, and some habits I could gave learned from them that I should look out for as I move forward in my life. So I feel validated that the honesty I'm developing with myself is paying off. And the 3rd goal i scored from this, I learned some tactics for both of my parents. My mom plays waterworks A LOT and says I never do enough for her because I don't see her. My dad demands an imidiate answer when I say I can't do something, like "what are you even doing with your life", or "your career didn't work out, why do you think it will work now? (Mostly him telling me that I'll "never be an illustrator" every time I applied for a job outside the county or did something that wasn't his advice lol) ". Telling me that I never do anything responsible... I can't kick his ass to the curb because I live with him, but I just learned a few ways to assert myself and separate from him. I may also be surprised to find some empathy if I tell him how he makes me feel (doubt it tho). As for my divorced mom who lives in an apartment she never leaves with narcissism and bpd who doesn't contribute anything I need, I can tell her to screw off. So I have gained awareness of my triggers and both of their tactics over the past year. A long winded, open-book, THANK YOU! For psyche2go :)
past friends / people ive been in situationships with have used some personal information that I disclosed at a vulnerable time as ammunition when we get into arguments. They would bring things up that had NOTHING to do with the conversation / argument. Emotional blackmail is honestly the worst :(
I feel like Psych2GO always understands my problems. This is such a warm and relatable channel.
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Kinda a bad and good thing tbh.
@@Psych2go Hai Cindy,I am big fan of psych2go and you.You are the right person to ask this question.What do you think is the reason for Marilyn Monroe low self esteem and traffic life and suicide.I am not asking about someone killed her .I am asking why she suicide(if possible chance probability) and why she has so much depression? PLEASE REPLY
These videos are very Helpful and informative, but also relatable.
Yeah this channel has helped me get through some rough times. I am so grateful for them!
If someone has a pattern of continually “misunderstanding” you, there’s a good chance you’re getting manipulated. You could end up talking yourself in circles which will be draining, harm your mental health, and make you too emotional so that you can’t think clearly. Many people like this are no different at their core than people who are OPENLY verbally and physically abusive, they’re just more sneaky about it, and there’s a good chance that the physical and/or verbal (aka overt) abuse is on its way. Covert abuse is very hard to spot
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It’s surprising most people are just getting toknow about Brian hacks now, he’s the most genius I know.
I have a question
“His name is Trevor”
Why am I not surprised? His name is literally TREVOR- 👏 TREVOR 👏
This is very true and i don’t know why
Bruh why is this trueee
Trevor Phillips!!
Cant believe Susie had boyfriend like Trevor, even Franklin and Michael cant handle him, or even the whole LSPD.
Wait, why he acting like he lost his job? Aint he have his own industries? Hes totally a millionaire
Trevor from GTA. Also nice Zuko pfp
As a person who has been repeatedly and easily emotionally blackmailed to the point of a somewhat depression I deeply appreciate this video.keep up the good work !
Been there stand tall.
Hopefully this video made you more aware of how it happens. You are strong enough to stand up from emotional blackmail💪🏾💪🏾
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I have a question
This comment section is the most friendly and laid back environment you will ever set your foot in, everyone just wants to be happy together :3
@Sofia Gudiel wanna be friends :D?
FORREAL I love this community
Welcome. 🤗
you encourage me to leave a comment...
@@najrenchelf2751 ty ✨∩^ω^∩
One obvious emotional black mail is "if you love me you'll do it" over something trivial. It's the adult version of "if you don't do this when we're not friends anymore." It just shows how little they value your relationship if they're willing to throw everything away so easily.
That means how some people can be an assholes
Theoretical reply to "if you love me you'll do it" : Fine. I won't do it. It's so painful loving you, I don't love you anymore. Now suck it up and get out of my life! Never mind, I'll get myself out of your life. Bye.
(I usually just freeze and become silent when people say those hurtful things, I wish I can stand up for myself more assertively...)
And don't forget those famous two words, "Trust me," when you are expressing a need not to cross certain personal boundaries. I honestly thought he was the one!
yeah or when you dont wanna do something they say and they start going "you suuuck. I hateee youuu" n shit
@@Chad22That's their teenage response 😂
It’s nice to see these characters again.
Aww I'm married to a Derek ^_^
@@RedRoseSeptember22 and you are SUSIE!?
Thanks for sharing your feedback! Glad you like the characters! And yes, Suzie deserves better!
Another way to deal with emotional blackmail is to ignore it. This is not about becoming cold and uncaring. It's about staying inside your head and taking care of your feelings. You can care about someone else's feelings, but you cannot take care of their feelings👍
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo i think that's an option for **destroy liver**
Yo thats stoicism right there
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo yeah but if u have a bad liver, that pain causes to wanna die even more right? And as i also am dying emotionally because of my parents, i m too afraid to kill myself. And if i drink(temporary pleasure) that will cause me to have an extra burden(liver problem) and wanting to die even more but i cant
Edit: i never drink. what does it tase like?
No excuse but you can't live with someone like this and be happy this Cind of ppl change emotion in 2s
Don't just bottle your feelings like that, if you're dealing with emotional blackmail, you need to work things out with the person causing it. It's not an internal problem.
Emotional blackmail is the use of fear, obligation, and guilt to control someone else - this is bad! Friendship is mutual blackmail elevated to the level of love - this is good 😊
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That “get out!” she yelled sounded like bubbles from powerpuff girls lol
But what if it’s his car, and you want him stop the car, he won’t. At home, if you want to leave , he will block the door, and take away your cellphone, sometimes ID, what will you do then.
@@kennethaylott4529 if you missed the red flags for it to get to that point what were you doing? Follow your intuition not anxiety, manipulators use fear to get what they want from people. If you can intuitively feelin what situation you want to happen not what you don’t want to happen then logically come up with a plan that’s 2 steps ahead of them. Then you can get outta any situation. You have to have faith in yourself or you’ll be stuck and the longer you stay the harder it’ll be to get away and the more time it will take to emotionally heal from the abuse afterward. Differentiate intuition from anxiety and move cautiously. Don’t think about revenge or anything like that, you want to get AWAY not get back at them. They’ll play off your feelings so don’t give them any, respond to the situation don’t react and if that’s hard then you have to train yourself to do that because that’s going to help you in life not just one situation.
Seriously, I was so excited when she kicked that asshole out. It might be a bit messed up, but I always get a sense of glee when shitty people get what they deserve! I'm not sure if it's toxic or not, since I'm HAPPY about someone else's "misery" though I can imagine that, this mindset might not be the best one to have. But I guess it's better than feeling empathy for the wrong people :P
Yeah, she has some real Tara Strong vibes here :-)
Have you ever dealt with emotional blackmail before? We also have a video on how do you know you're dealing with emotional blackmail, you can watch this video: th-cam.com/video/XeysIVjJtuc/w-d-xo.html
Hi
yeah ive dealt with it before :(
i was in a toxic relationship with someone that threatened to hack into my account because i "sounded suspicious"
Yeah they blackmailed me with secrets and photos
Yayyy!
No but I want to help those who my experience this that I know.
Hopefully no one will HAVE to use this 😔
We really hope not! If they are in a sticky situation. We hope this video helps! - Cindy
Um.. I gotta send this to my mom...
I needed to :(( but at least it helped
@@marsp5636 same lol
@@missmaipai I’m so sorry you were put in a situation like that. I am happy this video helped you.
Fun Fact: All Trevors Disliked the video xD
I like it, but careful. There's probably a lot of Susie's who disliked this because they feel very powerless and don't believe things like these yet.
@@thisismynamepal i agree, i was that kind of susie you’re talking about before. my previous relationship with my boyfriend is so toxic and my friends always advice me to break him up already but, i was so lost and being blind of the idea of love. we’ve dated for 3 years and it’s sad to think that he’s not the one. but i realized that it’s more sad to suffer and let myself be ruined by staying to that kind of relationship.
i liked the video.. thank you tho for that..
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Plot twist: Trevors are the new Karens
It's actually good that you're doing situational stuff and response.
My friend also does blackmail .That hurts a lot.She who was very trustworthy, is blackmailing me.what a luck!
Oh my God this is so awful. Hugs for everyone who's going or went through this. For those still in it. Please find a way out of a relationship like this. You deserve better. They won't change. You deserve peace of mind.
Thank you for kind words. Stay safe, healthy and happy!
I’m in it
"Trevor has no response." Perfect part to stop for a bit at lol
I love how a narrative is used in this animation, it makes the lessons much more powerful. I also love the voice acting.
Thank you for sharing your feedback! Glad you enjoyed this video!!
how sick can someone be to do such thing to another human being.😦
very....they were treated like this as a kid....so only know this....sad....painful
I think you shouldn't refer to them as sick or evil. If they are doing something wrong they might not realize it or it may come from a personal flaw that they need to deal with. Maybe help them instead of treating them like the bad guy.
@@-Teague- but if they acknowledge their habits its awfully manipulative in that context
@@-Teague- tried helping them.....many....they have to acknowledge its hurtful or unhealthy first and they don't/can't.......they manipulate counsellors and doctors too....
@@suhaibbsasa3656 Im not saying that they aren't wrong I'm just saying you should try and see it from a platonic/unbiased perspective. Stand up for the person being manipulated, but never attack or insult the person doing wrong.
7:27 "It's been 8 YEARS!"
XD XD XD
I love this! XD
I love how they made a whole story for this video. It makes it easier to understand. I like this and the other methods. Keep it up 👍🏾
The art style and Susie look so adorable
I love how you all try to help everyone find out more about mental health
And I love this story way, It's actually kind of easier to understand
Thank you so much! We're so happy to hear this animation and story helps. I hope more people find out more about mental health. It's such an important discussion that a lot of people stays away from. - Cindy
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Hello Dream, and George. At this point just bring the whole Fandom while you're at it.
How to respond to emotional blackmail:
*RIP AND TEAR UNTIL IT IS DONE*
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
@The Genderqueer Cringy Emo alcoholism is not good actually, they only make you feel "free" for a short term, and sometimes damages your healty. By eh, that doesnt mean im trying to convince you, just do whatever the best for you :)
Have a nice day!
It's like the lyrics on doom crossing😂
If I was that girl who get blackmail by trevor I would hella escape the house and find a new life somewhere
Susie: *sigh* It's been 8...
Me: months?
Susie: YEARS!
Me: Nani 👁👄👁
Awwww, this is one of your best videos based of visuals alone.
Psych2Go is better *than all therapists.*
Thank you! 💕
Tremendously true and deserved :3
🤗 SELF HELP FOR LESS...😊
But if you need professional help, you should get that :)
Definitely when you can't afford one like me
This is my favorite youtube channel ever!!! It is truly helpful! THANK YOU SO MUCH Psych2gGO
Yep, back to when I was toxic, I used to emotionally blackmail people when I wanted to keep them in my life. Then I changed and I got emotionally blackmailed a lot.
Now I respect others and myself again and none is hurt :3 everyone can become a better person!
it’s great that you’ve changed your behaviour! it’s also sad that it happened to you but i’m glad you knew how to change and improve to become someone better
I love when people are ready to grow! When you where toxic you thought that this was in some way normal.. But you realized your behavior and changed it..and this is what healing is about❤️❤️❤️
I'm glad you changed. I'm so proud of you but I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you find someone who makes you feel special and brings out the best in you.
@@changedmyusernameagain7654 thank you so much. I did, and this person is just amazing, I'm so lucky to have her in my life 😊
@@Blounem that's amazing. I'm really happy for you and your SO. Stay safe ❤❤❤
I love the fact that the video was made with somewhat concrete example of how such manipulation would work in practice, the "red flags" of said behaviours and how to spot + eventually let go of said people who emotionally blackmail others. This in a way tells a story that can happen to anyone, anywhere. Great job!
I really want more videos with this format. I find this the most thorough and it will probably cause fewer people to self-diagnose and to instead feel empathy for the people genuinely going through these things to these *extreme* levels.
Thank you for sharing your input! I will share your comment with the team. - Cindy
I have a friend of over 20yrs who I’ve noticed more recently falls in “The Sufferer” category more and more. It’s overwhelming to try and help pull them out of their misery and situation. I’m emotionally drained for days/wks afterwards. They don’t turn on the waterworks w me, but they use their kids as an extra manipulation tool. I’ve just decided to cut off the “friendship” to protect my mental health.
I enjoyed the story type style of this video. I've experienced some "sufferers" in the past. This video has taught me some examples of behaviors to stop blaming myself for. I don't want to be angry at myself, but the emotional blackmailer does.
I feelt so bad for Susie until 8:36. THAT'S how to respond to blackmailers, manipulative people, false people, gaslighters and every other kind of psychopath. Just move on. No use in trying to change them. You're so valuable. You can.
I agree
This kind of lessons should be taught in school...period❤
I used to deal with this ALOT. I’m glad you’re trying to help people that are in these kinds of situations. (also, love the dream and george ;>)
How do I send this to my in-laws without actually sending it haha
Causally (slowly) walking by while this video playing at max volume XD - Cindy
@@Psych2go LOL exactly!
It doesn’t work. I tired. They will just say you always think yourself is perfect , got no problem. It takes two ppl to fight . Unless the example is exactly like his, he won’t admit and understand that feeling you are suffering, and they will point at you, it’s because of you make him this way. 🤦
Hey, you, yes you. You are the reason i finally take a break after my breakdown. I feel SO much better after your videos!
Who here wants to protect Susie ✋
Susie needs to learn to take responsibility for her life. The best way to protect her is to encourage her to do this.
Trevor is lucky he has a girl that cares ....
I want to learn how to be assertive like Suzie so that if I'll be prepared to stand up for myself if I encounter low life like my manipulative ex and dealing with my aggressive insensitive sister.
@@mysticalpie4695 A girl who cares for *8 years.*
You wont solve it like that. She must learn.
I like the short story! Its fun to see an example of all the types of emotional blackmail all in one nice story. love your stuff!
Omg Susie needs an entirely new life
Update: omg!! Susie got an entirely new life and I am so proud of her
Aww we hope you like the ending
Thank you! The ending is the best!!!!
Yett I really Love how there are specific kinds of characters in these videos now! :)
I totally Love it! ❤️
I really liked this video format, even more engaging then normal 🥰 would love to see more of these types of videos! :)
My ex-boyfriend is the last type, the sufferer. He used to get what he wants from me by saying how unhappy he will be if we wouldn't do what he wanted to do. Couple months after the break up we started texting every now and then as friends and I tried to cut it off because it made me feel uncomfortable somehow but he said how unhappy he will be if we don't have contact anymore and even said he gets suicidal if he knows we don't have contact. I called him out on his behavior now that we are not together anymore and repeatedly said that his happiness is not my problem. It's his work to do to stay happy without the need of some other person to fill the void. Now we have contact again but on my terms and if he ever should complain again how I am not responding enough or something I'm gone for good.
Thank goodness I came across you (^), ever since the day you assisted me to get my personal files deleted from the device of the person blackmailing me, my peace has know no bound and for this, I will be eternally grateful to you for this. Thank you kyte
I’m glad I watched this video. I thought emotional blackmail was just “if you don’t/do this then I’ll hurt/do something bad to myself/others.” Turns out it’s so much more than that
Glad to hear you learned something new! - Cindy
Oml wait my best friend always says "if you don't say/do ___ then I'll cut myself" (she gets me to say things I don't want to say/do things I don't want to do bc she finds them funny but they make me uncomfortable or upset), and she knows it upsets me when she cuts herself, so,,, do you think she's being toxic? I didn't know that was considered emotional blackmail- or at least a minor form of it-
@@solseclipse she's toxic, try to stay away from her.
@@marolina9329 Sadly I think she is, bc I remember on multiple occasions she'd ask me to say a phrase I felt uncomfortable saying, and when I said no, she kept saying, 'it's the only thing that will make me happy, do you not want me to be happy?', and 'if you don't say it I'll cut myself again'. She also kept saying things that she knew made me upset at my expense, and when I didn't laugh or respond she said I was boring. She was my only friend, but strangely I feel better knowing she's toxic and that I can cut her out of my life
@@solseclipse I think she's toxic too. You'll be okay without her and I assure after dumping her you'll feel a weight is off your chest that you never realized you were living with. All The Best! I believe in you. You will find people who deserve you and respect you. Lots of Love
Oh my God. The timing of this video is just perfect! I've been dealing with emotional blackmail since yesterday. This is really helpful. ❤️
This type of storyline content is great
This channel is the definition of no weapon formed against me shall prosper
I can’t get over they trauma.History cannot be forgotten! You are a legend *FOCUSUTENSIL* Taking this Role and fighting for Justice.
Psych2go community is a friendly one, the channel portrays problems in the best possible way and i always end up feeling better seeing these videos. Good job!
4:36 so I'm a guy so this might seem wierd but that dress is awesome. Whoever animates this has very unique and cool fashion sense.
Not weird!
@@EpicMrMustache thanks lol
My mother is this way, the sufferer way specifically, thanks to your videos i learned to be assertive and say no, i cant explain how much this helped me, seriously, thank you
Emotional black mail is a scary thing to hear for me mainly because I am an emotional person and am stressed easily
I also feel like I'm in a constant state of danger so it's probably something else
Why is no one appreciating the new idea of psych2go teaching and explainibg through stories thats just amazing
I recently got out of a toxic friendship. And apparently i was at the receiving end of emotional blackmailing. I soon figured it out after watching your videos about toxic friends. So ig you helped me realise the reason of the uneasiness i felt when i was around her lol. Thanks
Me too
Explaining the types using a story was really very innovative and interesting
Amazing video!!! 😃😃👍
I LOVE THE DIFFERENT APROCH TO EDUCATION THEY TOOK ON THIS VIDEO! Instead of just telling us things, they added a storyline and characters and it helped me stay focused throughout the video
I watched this video with my hands clenched and dreading the idea that I was doing this to someone without knowing it. But as I watched, it felt more like they were doing it to me instead.
This new form of VO is amazing 😍😃 great job!
Why can’t people just be nice ugh this world just pisses me off.
What a stupid simple minded statement, please grow up.
I've been blackmailed-
@@usernotfound5935 truth? This is just a wish, not fact.
Yeah I just wish everyone was nice 🤦♀️🤦♂️
@@invaliduser323 that will never happen here, only in Heaven
Im really a fan of this 'scenario' format. I personally see this as a great way of displaying the idea of the video, while providing realistic, relatable experiences
Glad you enjoyed it!
@@Psych2go Maybe a bit personal, but have you been subjected to mamipulation by other people, and how do those pretenses set a standard for the videos you make today?
This video probably took a long while to make - so I’m watching every last second of it and you cannot stop me! 😉
Nice work y’all!
I like the new signs point out in a story, easier to concentrate on then separate points
Man I've witnessed and heard about about these kinds of relationships. It's they more like looking for someone to take care of them rather then actually commiting to the relationship. A motherly figure.
You hit the nail head my friend. I was in one of these types of relationships too, but I cut him off and now I feel so much better 🙂
@@LadyIcee Glad to hear you are. Really. It always baffles me to see other guys who act like such children. Some women take advantage of that which is something I also witness. It's really freakin sad to see.
I like how you told a story this time, at her than just made a list. It helps me understand the experience more.
Thank you! Glad to hear you think storytelling was helpful. Sometimes making list may not be relatable to others. Should we do more of these format for some topics? - Cindy
Psych2Go Yes. As I said before. It can help people actually understand what the experience is like, and therefore know what to do if they ever end up in that situation
My dad who left emotionally blackmailes me
You are not alone my father did the same. Hug :) ❤️ i totally understand you be strong
:::Hugs::: My sister emotionally blackmails me. Family can be so exhausting. I'm so sorry you have to deal with it.
@@Laurtew i am so sorry my brother is just a same
Psych2Go education by a story is a really good way to end my day
Thank you for your feedback!! We're glad you enjoyed it
@@Psych2go I really did! Thank you so much for your hard work on this, you've literally become my favourite channel on TH-cam❤
Why is there only two likes and 8 views
You deserve more than 5 million subscribers
because its not published yet!
How is your comment 1 hour ago?
@@rubyy2923 Shhhoosh
Because it was uploaded an hour ago
@@blagoevski336 oh really ? So how is it saying uploaded 3 minutes ago
I unfortunately had to use this. I’ve been in a toxic relationship for 3 years and this helped me.
I think this kind of storytelling format is probably more effective and engaging than just using "5 REASONS" or "7 SIGNS" bulletpoints.
Mhm It’s really good :)) I love it Maybe make the animation style more “UwU-like”
Like this gif images.app.goo.gl/kAG3UJa4QvyfbiMc8
More unique too, listicle style stuff is already everywhere.
I'm glad and appreciate this video. I always suffer from an emotional blackmailer and i will make sure to remember this video so i can deal with them next time
It's weird how some people can be so sweet at first but after you really know them it's a whole different person. If each person could have a small trailer so I'd know what I'm getting into...
Then all relationships would lose the magic of discovery. It would be easier, but it would be less special. We'd aleays find the one one the first try.
@@Jack1994hoo as much this would happen, there are times when someone wishes things can be different. I get that it's Magical but sometimes it's not.
@@estherkissoon4956 not knowing if its gonna work is what makes it magical. So, yes. It does.
@@Jack1994hoo I know I think you're right in every way...but sometimes the magical way isn't that magical...don't mind me in just saying things that probably don't make sense. Thank you for listening tho
There is someone in the world who has solution to every emotional problem
Thanku psych2go 👍😘
There's also the opposite: emotional blackmail from the woman.
Or, more realistically, sometimes it can go both ways at the same time.
yes ur right but i think they were just using this as an example
There aren't many women who won't emotionally blackmail their partners. The way this video portrays the blackmail as only a male is showing how unreasonable the modern woman is. The result - an on growing collapse of the western family structure.
@Kitsu Shii but what's factually wrong with that statement?
I’m sorry this was..gorgeous! In every way! It displays it so perfectly and I haven’t even been through it 🥺 I know you’ve changed lives everywhere just from your “10 mins of wisdom”☺️
I suffered emotional blackmail from my fiance's step mother. Everytime she would stomp on the floor to get us to come up; it was 90% of her criticizing us for being "too loud", or blaming us for something we didn't do. Fortunately I don't go to that place anymore due to how toxic that place was. Heck, I still hear from my fiance that she holds grudges on me for my past.
I am so sorry. I wish you everything will be better soon just hold. I believe you that anything can change
The characters are a good touch because it can make you understand them more rather than assuming based on personal experiences what they feel-
Thank you for your videos! 💞
Thank you for watching! I hope this video will be helpful to those are in the situation. - Cindy
Psych2Go, you are gaining importance back in my life now. The people are extremely fake now.
This hurts me to watch, my father whom i live with now is like this. He always manipulates me for what i need. I cant tell whos lying to me and who actually cares about me anymore. I dont know anymore...
I am so sorry for that. My father is always makes sure that i am bad person. He called selfish, unreasonable, brat, idiot ect. He is just a same. I hope you will overcome this. Just don't give up
@@itz_ic21gaming97 thats exactly what its Like, i do everything but always its my fault when things go wrong. He stopped hitting me when he realized i could fight back but now he just threatens to kick me and out says no one will take me but him. I work a hard job with 12 hour shifts yet still im expected to do the chores around the house for that day that he was just to lazy to do. He constantly compares me to my peice of shit of mother whom he divorced and left us when we were 5 and my puce of shit uncle who stole from the family, sold it all online, and then ran away. What worse is that i cant even bring myself to hate my father.
@@thechameleos6334 i am so sorry. I lost my mother when I was 15. Also my brother makes my father anger even. My father hit me but instead fight back i step back because i didn't want to push further. You don't deserve father like that you deserve batter. Also my uncle he always drunk and he made me make bad things that I still regret.
@@itz_ic21gaming97 my father isnt a bad man in my eyes, miss guided for sure. But i cant bring myself to really hate anyone, thats not who i am. But he learned one day that i will not put up with being hit when i broke his nose and cracked his jaw with a single punch. But he has many many ways of bending people to his will, even if he doesnt do it intentionally. Ive tried to tell him he needs to go to therapy but he wont listen.
@@thechameleos6334 thats why i step back because i saw in his eyes he is not a bad man. If I hit him it will worse and my father doesn't listen me either. Tell me how you felt when you saw his eyes. You didn't even had to punch in the face there is so many ways but that is not one of em. I know my father use this tactic too
The narrator's voice is so clear and clean
I feel like we all just got tested by this video.
This is like a exam or something for us Psych2Go fans XD
Unrealistic, childish, toxic, uninspired, almost annoying. But I try to get the message out of it.
Looks like Trevor’s coming to Smash
Lol this sounds wrong tho XD
i just wanted to cuddle and play connect four.. lol
When things were at their very worst:
2 Suns, Cross in the sky, 2 comets will collide = don`t be afraid - repent, accept Lord`s Hand of Mercy.
The first sign - the Earth will spin faster.
The second sign concerns the sun, which will loom larger, brighter and begin to spin.
Scientists will say it was a global illusion.
Beaware - Jesus will never walk in flesh again.
After WW3 - rise of the “ man of peace“ from the East = Antichrist - the most powerful, popular, charismatic and influential leader of all time. Many miracles will be attributed to him. He will imitate Jesus in every conceivable way.
Don`t trust „pope“ Francis = the False Prophet
- will seem to rise from the dead
- will unite all Christian Churches and all Religions as one.
One World Religion = the seat of the Antichrist.
Benedict XVI is the last true pope - will be accused of a crime of which he is totally innocent.
- banking collapse was deliberately masterminded by the Antichrist
- Antichrist will step in and create a false peace in the state of Israel by joining them with palestine in an unlikely alliance.
- „He will recite extracts from My Teachings, which he will passionately proclaim from every secular stage in the world, until people sit up and take notice of him.“
The Book of Truth
mdmlastprophet.com/the-time-for-the-schism-in-the-church-is-almost-here-and-you-must-get-prepared-now/
mdmlastprophet.com/the-schism-in-my-church-will-be-broken-into-different-stages/
@@josephka5149 ..am I the antichrist? I always thought I was
..but I am working on myself to heal myself so that others can do the same.
This video is pretty accurate on the emotion manipulation/ blackmail topic.
Personally, i find approaching such 'manipulators' with dialogue/ tact is a waste of time. It feels like talking to a wall. It feels like these people can't be helped no matter how much you want them to change their ways.
Hey Psych2go, can you please make more videos about abandonment issues. Love your content :D
Absolutely brilliantly made video. Friendly, cute and really well explained. I also love the humour in it. Keep up the great work. I will be checking out your other content :)
I clicked the instant I got the notification since my friend does blackmail a lot :( but this will be helpful!
You don’t need them. If they can’t act right that’s their problem. You can help them but if they don’t try, they don’t try. I wish you the best
@@biggaylol5438 true
You need to drop them before it gets worse bub
Lol
More like toxic friend
Self-analysis reassurance Hat trick today: this lead me to look up my attachment style because both my parents do this. I didn't understand why exercising independence was helping me alone and reaching out tended to lead to dependence until I learned about "disorganized attachment", which put together why I have a hard time trusting people but desperately need to ^^. So the work I've been doing for myself the past 2 years is consistent with how to handle that.
This also taught me some ways my dad operates, and my mom, and some habits I could gave learned from them that I should look out for as I move forward in my life. So I feel validated that the honesty I'm developing with myself is paying off.
And the 3rd goal i scored from this, I learned some tactics for both of my parents. My mom plays waterworks A LOT and says I never do enough for her because I don't see her. My dad demands an imidiate answer when I say I can't do something, like "what are you even doing with your life", or "your career didn't work out, why do you think it will work now? (Mostly him telling me that I'll "never be an illustrator" every time I applied for a job outside the county or did something that wasn't his advice lol) ". Telling me that I never do anything responsible... I can't kick his ass to the curb because I live with him, but I just learned a few ways to assert myself and separate from him. I may also be surprised to find some empathy if I tell him how he makes me feel (doubt it tho). As for my divorced mom who lives in an apartment she never leaves with narcissism and bpd who doesn't contribute anything I need, I can tell her to screw off. So I have gained awareness of my triggers and both of their tactics over the past year.
A long winded, open-book, THANK YOU! For psyche2go :)
even psych2go, with its soft narration and avoiding judgement, said _dump his ass_
Thank god for having this video
past friends / people ive been in situationships with have used some personal information that I disclosed at a vulnerable time as ammunition when we get into arguments. They would bring things up that had NOTHING to do with the conversation / argument. Emotional blackmail is honestly the worst :(
I know i know a lot of people did that to me. I feel you
What a class! Best Psych2go video ever
This happen in relationship without the party knowing most of the time.
This story format is much more helpful!
Keep it up
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So unoriginal
I really love this storytelling format
I response to emotional blackmail by ignoring it. I'm so done that i casually ignored emotional blackmail from someone.