It's crazy that I prayed a few days ago telling God "the things I want to do I don't do and the things I don't want to do I do" and you upload a video about doing the things you want to do, guy you're the answer to my prayer keep on pursuing your dream you're out here making a difference in the world don't ever stop what you're, you're doing what you're meant to do and you're made for, keep up the great work 💪
I can testify to this, some months ago I was praying to God on how to balance my life, and his FOREST framework popped up , I'm not there yet but the forest framework consciousness is going to stick with me till I breath my last. GOD is very Intentional about our all round growth
There’s a reason I watched this video on 1st Jan, 2025. Public pressure does nothing for me though, I pray God gives me the wisdom to develop a system that will help me turn my “shoulds” into “musts”
had a friend who was the laziest guy have ever had, bro got into the Nigerian defence academy, he came back a changed man; in that place there is no forgiveness and you get immediate consequence immediately. This guy when he come back home during break use to amaze me; he overachive basic task like a robots and always have spare time unlike me a mere civilian.
Thank you for this video. I bought a forex trading advanced course and any time I want to learn, i get distracted easily, I feel so lazy. I know I should learn, but I feel like something is drawing me backwards. Atleast with this video, I can convert my 'should to must'. Thank you once again
Everyone is guilty of setting goals and not achieving them. There is one thing I've noticed about those who are very disciplined, they have someone they are accountable to and they're also into a community with like minded individuals. You can do more videos like this because most of us could relate with it and also learn how you tend to solve the problem at hand. Keep up, Eyitemi.
Nice❤ This is exactly how have been able to also stay consistent and getting thing's done I tweet them and once people see it then have implicated myself
you know, a few gary vee clips have come up in my YT shorts and i...have not hated them. he seems to have relaxed with the hustle culture, emphasizing more on living from your values. the same with Vusi. thank you for this video, so much of what you described is literally me.
This is profound, Eyitemi! Being vulnerable yet sharing tips for other people to grow is beautiful. So, yes, this journal entry style is nice. It causes us to sit still and reflect on areas of our lives and the extent of our discipline and intentionality to grow. Thank you. Cheers to more of this 🥂🥂✨✨
You are not different 😢 I struggle so well with achieving my goals - having the mindset of not being guilty or punish of not achieving it. Thanks for this video, it's all I need! I told people that you are the best Nigerian male TH-camr and they thought I was saying trash! I bless the day I came across your TH-cam channel 🔥
Yet another creative and fire video! 🔥 Your ability to experiment with different styles while still delivering great content is 🔥 . No matter the format, your videos always leave us with lessons that contribute to growth and a better understanding of life. We’re always ready to consume and learn from everything you share. Keep them coming!
I had this realization about myself a long time ago and I've been putting it into practice. Not sure I would say its Bolu's concept per say,perhaps the name but the concept itself is a bit more universal and probably relatable for anyone with ADHD
This realization just hit me hard, I hope it’s not just the motivation effect. But now I realize changing everything to must do is the key, I realized there were parts of my life that I did the must and I stayed up and did it, as compared to decisions I made flimsy-ly. Thank you Eyi
I enjoyed the video you taught us something today, you are very correct with the exam effect but I think is better said as "people will not do what they should do but they will do what they want to do" and to add to it "what you want to do changes or you end up not doing it for a reason (This are important tools in life) For instance you are fat and feel you should work out maybe because you feel it's not medically advisable to be fat then you hit the gym(in one week you will give up) let say you then finally later have a reason you want to be fit but you start then give up, if you analyse the situation you will notice there was a reason that guy gave up (it could either be maybe he just saw no reason in being fit or feel they aren't burning any the fat they wanted to be or others
Thanks, it felt like you where talking to me personally. Ave been going through this problem since I started be conscious about my self growth. I'll try out the concept and be back with a feedback
Eyitemmmi…. You are challenging me. If it is journals from 4 years ago when I was in my teens probably same as you, there are a gazillion projects I’ve abandoned, I’m even ashamed thinking of it. 🙈🙈
You just got a new subscriber I have been looking at my old journals too and oh mine was kind of a prophetic journaling--i didn't even know it was at the time. I will make a video on this on my channel. Your video has given me a pattern Thank you
Thank you Eyitemi -Exam effect: Turning shoulds into must! One of the most resent systems that's has helped me dive into goals is the heaven and hell. Heaven is the positive outcome of the goal I look forward to hell is the worst-case scenario of what may happen if I don't get moving. Can't say for sure if it's lazy proof but it's helped my lazy ass so far😂
Make soo much sense never thought about it like this i realise after two weeks of internal motivation it dies because there is no one holding me accountable. I really love this technique thank you
Great video. I recently meditated on discipline and how it can drastically change my life. Also, please what mic did you use? I want to get a mic. Thanks
So I have been watching your videos, while I can relate to almost all of them the only thing is I'm still staying with my mom But this video just confirm with I have being struggling with. Thank you so much Tho I'm still trying to fit my shoulds to my must I know how lazy I could get 😢
Value ✔️ Atomic Habits calls it having an accountability partner. Just got some evidence to do more, though I tried before and the person I worked with got tired, which also affected me. 😂
Any accountability partner will get tired eventually because they are not been paid for it. The best is to have a mentor, a paid accountability partner(e.g gym instructor). joining a community is best. Join and stay engage in it. You will see effect. Hopefully.
I get really get the 'Turning your Shoulds to Musts', Thank you for so much sharing. I have a question. As someone who is also building a career in tech, I find that I procrastinate on things but my creative juices seem to pour in at the last minute. It might be a 'toxic' work trait 😂. I don't know if you have any wisdom to share on this. Thanksss
I can very much relate with what you're saying @Adeola-Babs - That surge of creative juice and adrenaline pump that comes just when the deadline is almost up! I believe that realizing the severity of the consequences to be suffered on missing the deadline is responsible for that pump. After many of such experiences (which I'm still having), I've got to understand that in many cases, the challenge is not really in knowing how to go about a project. Rather, it's usually a case of stalling in starting the project out of doubts/fear of the unknown. It's funny how that very fear goes missing or very easily ignored once the deadline is almost up. Checking closely, you'd notice that this usually happens when the consequence of missing the deadline weighs more. While it seems like there's a surge of creative juice in such situation, looking closely you'll realize that you actually could've gotten a whole lot more tasks or projects done within that same timeframe. Incorporating the idea Eyitemi shared on this journal entry is really a hack to getting out of such dilemma! Tweak the project to become a must, by cranking up the consequences of not meeting the deadline! Cranking up the consequence/turning your "shoulds" to "musts", promises to help us in many ways such as actually getting the work done creatively, and having the time to work on other things too. Crank up your consequences, make your deadlines seem closer! I hope this helps.
This is exactly what I just need, if i could i would have sent the screenshot of me asking chatgbt to Tell me something that would hurt me anytime i am procastinating. Thanks alot 🙌, i really wish there was someone like a mentor to check up on my progress and push\force me towards my goal.
It's crazy that I prayed a few days ago telling God "the things I want to do I don't do and the things I don't want to do I do" and you upload a video about doing the things you want to do, guy you're the answer to my prayer keep on pursuing your dream you're out here making a difference in the world don't ever stop what you're, you're doing what you're meant to do and you're made for, keep up the great work 💪
I can testify to this, some months ago I was praying to God on how to balance my life, and his FOREST framework popped up , I'm not there yet but the forest framework consciousness is going to stick with me till I breath my last. GOD is very Intentional about our all round growth
Not me liking the video before even watching
Me too ❤
@@TheBlessedAnalyst A guy we're all glad we came across on this platform. Great guy
Me too 😂❤
Samee 😂❤❤❤
Oh myyyy
Sooooo meee!
There’s a reason I watched this video on 1st Jan, 2025. Public pressure does nothing for me though, I pray God gives me the wisdom to develop a system that will help me turn my “shoulds” into “musts”
had a friend who was the laziest guy have ever had, bro got into the Nigerian defence academy, he came back a changed man; in that place there is no forgiveness and you get immediate consequence immediately. This guy when he come back home during break use to amaze me; he overachive basic task like a robots and always have spare time unlike me a mere civilian.
The exam effect; Turning all your SHOULD into MUST.
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for this video.
I bought a forex trading advanced course and any time I want to learn, i get distracted easily, I feel so lazy. I know I should learn, but I feel like something is drawing me backwards. Atleast with this video, I can convert my 'should to must'.
Thank you once again
the editinggggggggggggggggg. your editor actually ATE. well done boss
Righttt!
In simple terms, be accountable to yourself and others around you.
Take responsibility for your life.
S million thanks for this man❤
Everyone is guilty of setting goals and not achieving them.
There is one thing I've noticed about those who are very disciplined, they have someone they are accountable to and they're also into a community with like minded individuals.
You can do more videos like this because most of us could relate with it and also learn how you tend to solve the problem at hand.
Keep up, Eyitemi.
Nice❤
This is exactly how have been able to also stay consistent and getting thing's done
I tweet them and once people see it then have implicated myself
The caption literally screaming me!
you know, a few gary vee clips have come up in my YT shorts and i...have not hated them. he seems to have relaxed with the hustle culture, emphasizing more on living from your values. the same with Vusi.
thank you for this video, so much of what you described is literally me.
I feel so seen 😭 because self motivation doesn't work for me at all! It eventually just fizzles out. I'll definitely try this out. Thank you!
I have to make myself uncomfortable this year to achieve what I want
This is profound, Eyitemi! Being vulnerable yet sharing tips for other people to grow is beautiful. So, yes, this journal entry style is nice. It causes us to sit still and reflect on areas of our lives and the extent of our discipline and intentionality to grow. Thank you. Cheers to more of this 🥂🥂✨✨
You are not different 😢
I struggle so well with achieving my goals - having the mindset of not being guilty or punish of not achieving it.
Thanks for this video, it's all I need!
I told people that you are the best Nigerian male TH-camr and they thought I was saying trash!
I bless the day I came across your TH-cam channel 🔥
Yet another creative and fire video! 🔥 Your ability to experiment with different styles while still delivering great content is 🔥 . No matter the format, your videos always leave us with lessons that contribute to growth and a better understanding of life.
We’re always ready to consume and learn from everything you share.
Keep them coming!
I had this realization about myself a long time ago and I've been putting it into practice. Not sure I would say its Bolu's concept per say,perhaps the name but the concept itself is a bit more universal and probably relatable for anyone with ADHD
In your Precious vlog, your friend mentioned “converting your should to your must” and I run with it.
Hi Eyitemi I was wondering if you could make a video on how you are planning ur goals for 2025
Yes please
Yes please!!!
Please Please please 🥺
Please 🙏
My inner David Goggins😂
Keep it up brother.
😅😅😅
This realization just hit me hard, I hope it’s not just the motivation effect. But now I realize changing everything to must do is the key, I realized there were parts of my life that I did the must and I stayed up and did it, as compared to decisions I made flimsy-ly. Thank you Eyi
First time here. God bless you🤍
Damn y’all his gon be Great. Keep it up💪
I love how you speak.
(Continues to watch the video)...
I enjoyed the video you taught us something today, you are very correct with the exam effect but I think is better said as "people will not do what they should do but they will do what they want to do" and to add to it "what you want to do changes or you end up not doing it for a reason
(This are important tools in life)
For instance you are fat and feel you should work out maybe because you feel it's not medically advisable to be fat then you hit the gym(in one week you will give up) let say you then finally later have a reason you want to be fit but you start then give up, if you analyse the situation you will notice there was a reason that guy gave up (it could either be maybe he just saw no reason in being fit or feel they aren't burning any the fat they wanted to be or others
The edits >>>>>> 🔥
You are on point! I have this mindset too. We will conquer ❤️📌
Upgraded editing🥂✨
Thanks, it felt like you where talking to me personally. Ave been going through this problem since I started be conscious about my self growth. I'll try out the concept and be back with a feedback
Too much sense here, Eyitemi!!❤️👏
Eyitemmmi…. You are challenging me. If it is journals from 4 years ago when I was in my teens probably same as you, there are a gazillion projects I’ve abandoned, I’m even ashamed thinking of it. 🙈🙈
There's just how your videos are always relatable 😩❤...... thank you so much....🙏🙏🙏
You just got a new subscriber
I have been looking at my old journals too and oh mine was kind of a prophetic journaling--i didn't even know it was at the time. I will make a video on this on my channel. Your video has given me a pattern
Thank you
Bro thanks for this God bless and strengthen you.
This just made my day.
Great concept bro... Definitely need to start using this
Thank you Eyitemi, this is beautiful.
❤
Thank you Eyitemi
-Exam effect: Turning shoulds into must!
One of the most resent systems that's has helped me dive into goals is the heaven and hell.
Heaven is the positive outcome of the goal I look forward to
hell is the worst-case scenario of what may happen if I don't get moving. Can't say for sure if it's lazy proof but it's helped my lazy ass so far😂
Turning my should into a must. Thank you
Converting should to must is one of the wisest things I've heard this year
Beautiful. Thank you so much for this. God spoke through you to me. I needed this. God bless you
First time coming across your video
And I loveeee
You just got a new subscriber ❤
Please can you make a video about building systems? Thank you.
he made one some time ago
If I must say, this was really helpful 😊. Thank you so much for this video ❤
First thing that catches my eyes are the edits, pretty clean i must say, loving this style
Make soo much sense never thought about it like this i realise after two weeks of internal motivation it dies because there is no one holding me accountable. I really love this technique thank you
Real ma
Me*
You're not the only one
People don’t do what they should do but what they must do!!! This is so true😢
Turn your “should” into “must”….hmm
This is like really really really the best video I have seen on goals.
Your channel blesses me
Thanks bro.
LOVED THIS!!!!
From should to must is kind of being disciplined from my own point of view.
Thank you for the content. I appreciate
Thanks for this. You're doing amazing.
Wow.....This is helpful😍
Thanks for sharing
Love the editing ❤
Great video
Thank you 🥺
Guy you're doing well👏
Great video. I recently meditated on discipline and how it can drastically change my life. Also, please what mic did you use? I want to get a mic. Thanks
Good stuff
Thank you so much for sharing
Awesome awesome
I enjoyed every bit of this.
Nice one.
First time here, this is an amazing video. Came in at the right time man
Very Profound.
The title got me
So I have been watching your videos, while I can relate to almost all of them the only thing is I'm still staying with my mom
But this video just confirm with I have being struggling with. Thank you so much
Tho I'm still trying to fit my shoulds to my must
I know how lazy I could get 😢
Insightful.
In as much as I know this is a copied thumbnail, I’m glad someone who I can relate to posted it….I’ll download to watch later so help me God
let's goooo! 🔥🔥
This is a great video thanks Eyitemi
Value ✔️
Atomic Habits calls it having an accountability partner.
Just got some evidence to do more, though I tried before and the person I worked with got tired, which also affected me. 😂
Any accountability partner will get tired eventually because they are not been paid for it. The best is to have a mentor, a paid accountability partner(e.g gym instructor). joining a community is best. Join and stay engage in it. You will see effect. Hopefully.
yourr editor dey cook bro
Very educative video👏
Who's behind your editing?!
I get really get the 'Turning your Shoulds to Musts', Thank you for so much sharing.
I have a question. As someone who is also building a career in tech, I find that I procrastinate on things but my creative juices seem to pour in at the last minute. It might be a 'toxic' work trait 😂. I don't know if you have any wisdom to share on this. Thanksss
I can very much relate with what you're saying @Adeola-Babs - That surge of creative juice and adrenaline pump that comes just when the deadline is almost up!
I believe that realizing the severity of the consequences to be suffered on missing the deadline is responsible for that pump.
After many of such experiences (which I'm still having), I've got to understand that in many cases, the challenge is not really in knowing how to go about a project. Rather, it's usually a case of stalling in starting the project out of doubts/fear of the unknown.
It's funny how that very fear goes missing or very easily ignored once the deadline is almost up. Checking closely, you'd notice that this usually happens when the consequence of missing the deadline weighs more.
While it seems like there's a surge of creative juice in such situation, looking closely you'll realize that you actually could've gotten a whole lot more tasks or projects done within that same timeframe.
Incorporating the idea Eyitemi shared on this journal entry is really a hack to getting out of such dilemma! Tweak the project to become a must, by cranking up the consequences of not meeting the deadline!
Cranking up the consequence/turning your "shoulds" to "musts", promises to help us in many ways such as actually getting the work done creatively, and having the time to work on other things too.
Crank up your consequences, make your deadlines seem closer!
I hope this helps.
@@godwinijioma1903 Thank you so much Godwin. This makes so much sense!
needs louder music, but editor cooked
Beautiful. Always learning new ideas from your videos, thanks. What application did you use to make your daily routine?
True📌
This is exactly what I just need, if i could i would have sent the screenshot of me asking chatgbt to Tell me something that would hurt me anytime i am procastinating.
Thanks alot 🙌, i really wish there was someone like a mentor to check up on my progress and push\force me towards my goal.
I'm going to da da da da da da da.... you got me bro 😂😂
I'm early ❤😊
I will definitely be trying your suggestion, thanks for sharing. Also what is the bible school?
I also want to join in your remote job program
Which app did you use for journaling?
Please, is there a way to connect with you directly?
Do you edit your video yourself?
my bro it's perez.....guy omo we go own 2025
Please what's the name of the mic 🎤 you are using
Accountability
And am gonna dadadaada😂😂😂
What app do you use to edit?
what's your podcast bro
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Boss read my email about the thumbnail 🤲🤲 please
Help me get a job