1. Start dating before getting over your ex. 2. Dating someone who believes in God and doesn't follow Jesus Christ. 3. When you ignore your intuition 4. Dating someone that you hope will change after marriage. Marriage reveals people, it doesn't change. 5. When your gut tells you this is not right, you don't have peace. 6. When your mentors don't support your decision. 7. There is no mutual attraction.
A lot of red flags when you are dating someone. We all have some red flags since no one is perfect, but you have to set boundaries so that you can make it better.
I just got out of a relationship that I Ioved. I found out that the many counselors that my beautiful girlfriend had were all divorced women. They hated my relationship with her. Do not date a person with a lot of divorced friends. The lick each other wounds and never get healed.
This is what millenials must hear and practice Lordship and obedience is appropriate coz Jesus Christ is the best firm foundation of any relationship. Thank you Pastor.
This is so helpful to me in this moment. Thank u pastor if you see this message please don’t forget to pray for me . I need powerful prayers to get right decision in my life. God bless you
Finding a real Christian Woman/Man as described is the hardest thing to do. I search, yet I find lukewarm to none. God has a plan for everyone, this I believe 100%
Please will someone pray for me. This is the third man I have dated where I have lost my peace. We love each other deeply and seem to be very compatible. He loves God. Only thing could be that I feel called into ministry and he doesn’t (I know this is not a prerequisite- but I’m trying to understand why I would be unsettled). I just feel like I cannot go through another heart break. I’m already 40. I really need support right now.
I was recently when I met my former bf. He was insecure and it caused a myriad of issues....he's not following Christ like he should as he likes to drink and justifies it...so again...there's issues. I'll take that year and move cross country...start fresh and own a business! God bless him. 🙌
100 % true......... Amen... God all the time reveals to me in my dreams earlier if I am with a wrong person or friends.... This is true.... I been through abusive relationship. Nightmares. Exactly same as we watch in pysco movie abusive movies.... It's painful. But Jesus was with me all the way through.. Amen Tq Pastor Vlad for this message
I watched your viral videos on tiktok with a heart touch background music with lyrics and i search you from your beautiful line which is "one secrate make a standard for yourself "and finally i found you in TH-cam thanks for that's nice line and love you from India bro
This video played a huge part in protecting me from moving forward with a marriage that was never meant for me. Thank you for allowing the Spirit to flow through you, Vlad
Don’t be with someone you hope will change, Be with someone you hope will Never change. God be with you all ♥️ in Jesus name I pray you find love that endures & flourishes 💞 Amen 🙏 🧎♀️🧎♂️
Pastor I love how you always hit us with the word, I'm telling you when u feel down n out of place with God I just go on your videos and surprisingly everytime I'm going through some thing the video I want to watch n listen to always showed up.....always on time...God bless your ministry
Well spoken Pastor, It's like you were describing and fixing my love life through out this message. It has changed my point of view on dating. may God bless you
Thank you so much I was slowing the decision I’m not having peace I’m breaking up with my bf today This came in time. I was thinking I’m going to change him but I’m not having peace with doing so ..I love him but I’m stopping it bcz I don’t have peace with it
Amazing, great message! This has truly helped me to see that I made the right decision, following the tension the Holy Spirt placed in me! Thank you for this message!
May God Bless you and thanks God for help me to get rid of any bad habits that I have especially Listening music and thanks again for help me to stop completely stop drinking wine .
Thank You Pastor Vlad & team, these teachings are really helpful for us and it helps us in getting ready for the things which God has kept in store for our present & future.
As a single person how do you meet a Godly wife..not like we can go to church ask who's single..or clubs bars even dating apps..it's hard to meet single Christians
That’s a good point. I really don’t know either as a lot of people in church are married between 21-30. Once you reach 28, it’s zero singles there, or those you meet have children or not legitimately divorced. See Matt chapters 5, 19, 1 Corinthians 7. I keep encountering the latter and it’s quite discouraging. I’m not keen to try dating apps or websites either, as lying / misrepresentation is far too easy to do through a screen.
Great video but some things to remember. 1. NO ONE IS PERFECT. 2. Keep in mind you are both works in progress. 3. God will not put blinders on you or rose colored glasses. If the person is unattractive to you then move on. 4. Even if you check all you boxes (celibacy before marriage, etc...) it's gonna be tough. 5. If you are fighting more than normal before marriage it will only get worse.
Yes Pastor at least a year if intimate with him this is like a soul tie bond and I made a mistake got involved with divorced non believer wasn't healed and rushed our dating too fast not equally yoked. I did not date 6 months now I'm healed bit I am not sleeping with a man unless I vet him and he is proved marriage material ty
I had a new prophet tell me the man that i liked at church wasnt going to be my husband and i didnt feel that conviction from the holy spirit. But ever since then ive been really sad
Message is awesome and needed in our culture but the volume is too loud. I have tinnitus (ringing in the ear) due to extreme gun noises during military active duty. I hope there's a softer (2nd) version for people like us.
2:12 "....what went wrong." OK, yes, but we must take ACTION. We must have the knowledge and tools to FIX what went wrong. I am having a hard time finding the SOLUTIONS, the ACTIONS, the WORK. I am looking for advice for someone very close to me. Since I cannot truly understand HOW they feel and WHY they do the things they do... simply telling them what is right or wrong, good or bad, beautiful vs toxic is mere talk. What good is that? I need advice in PURE ACTIONS they could take (or not) knowing I said and did everything "I" could have. 😏😉👍
this is good, but I always wonder how non-believers make it in relationships. they spend many years married and not being saved. so I wonder how they make it work.
1. Start dating before getting over your ex.
2. Dating someone who believes in God and doesn't follow Jesus Christ.
3. When you ignore your intuition
4. Dating someone that you hope will change after marriage. Marriage reveals people, it doesn't change.
5. When your gut tells you this is not right, you don't have peace.
6. When your mentors don't support your decision.
7. There is no mutual attraction.
i agree the first one you need to be over the ex at least
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A+.
Ask God's discerment on that person and God reveal that to you.
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A lot of red flags when you are dating someone. We all have some red flags since no one is perfect, but you have to set boundaries so that you can make it better.
"Guys can be such liars"...😆. Well said brother
@quinis1961 Women too 😏
That's why I'm still not married as I want a true Godly man who put God first 🙏🏼
I know its hard to find such men more often, but our God works in miraculous ways
I got your 30 second short video, and I was searching for you, I'm happy I found you brother. Love from India
Same thing for me
I'm just from seeing his 30secs video on a WhatsApp status and I immediately wanted to look for him😄
Ya that one true
Same
same ❤❤❤❤
Plus One
Yes!!! I’m a witness of doing the wrong thing! It leads to torment!!
Be equally yoked together
God is the best matchmaker.
Yes
marriage don't change people, marriage reveals people. amazinggg`
I went through hell for years to learn what he is preaching in 30-45 mins.
To those with ears let him hear. ❤
I just got out of a relationship that I Ioved. I found out that the many counselors that my beautiful girlfriend had were all divorced women. They hated my relationship with her. Do not date a person with a lot of divorced friends. The lick each other wounds and never get healed.
I don't understand why you don't have more subscribers! Everything you put out is so relevant and valuable. God bless your ministry!!🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is SO good!! I always pray that the man I marry loves God more than he could ever love me! God bless Vlad!
People should take this warning VERY seriously
The gut thing is very true.
Very very true. Never ignore your inner voice people.
It is ALWAYS right. No matter how 'good' things might look.
Follow your Gut if, only if your gut is submitted to your GOD!!
This is what millenials must hear and practice Lordship and obedience is appropriate coz Jesus Christ is the best firm foundation of any relationship.
Thank you Pastor.
All 6 red flags and still pursued the relationship... God is merciful and good for being present even with the wrong person
Same here
Are you guys still together?
Are you still together.
@@julievermette2395 nope
An excellent message that will prevent many divorces in the future because the person will now marry the right partner.
Hey cute
Let talk dear
Amen
4:54 YES! Marry someone u hope *will never change* ♥️
Pay attention to your tension 🙌🙌🙏
Right
Hmmm ...thinking of dumping someone.....my problem is they always make me feel guilty for dumping them..
Always listen to your gut guys, it never lies
Never hurd of him before but I needed to hear this.
This is so helpful to me in this moment. Thank u pastor if you see this message please don’t forget to pray for me . I need powerful prayers to get right decision in my life. God bless you
Finding a real Christian Woman/Man as described is the hardest thing to do. I search, yet I find lukewarm to none. God has a plan for everyone, this I believe 100%
I can agree, it’s a trying experience and in my 30s, I can better understand why some people give up looking after a certain point.
Always a pleasure! I will keep commenting to help out the algorithm🙌🏽
Word, I watched your 30 seconds video and I loved what I heard. Inspirational words 🙏🏾
Who's here 2020✋🏿
2021
I was searching for you some months ago and here i am... I found you...i am always inspired by you🙏🙏... New subscriber here.. 😊😊
Thank you,God bless you
Me too subscribe to
Wow... amazing message.. so happy to have found this ministry.. God bless you Pastor..
Please will someone pray for me. This is the third man I have dated where I have lost my peace. We love each other deeply and seem to be very compatible. He loves God. Only thing could be that I feel called into ministry and he doesn’t (I know this is not a prerequisite- but I’m trying to understand why I would be unsettled). I just feel like I cannot go through another heart break. I’m already 40. I really need support right now.
I was recently when I met my former bf. He was insecure and it caused a myriad of issues....he's not following Christ like he should as he likes to drink and justifies it...so again...there's issues. I'll take that year and move cross country...start fresh and own a business! God bless him. 🙌
100 % true......... Amen... God all the time reveals to me in my dreams earlier if I am with a wrong person or friends.... This is true.... I been through abusive relationship. Nightmares. Exactly same as we watch in pysco movie abusive movies.... It's painful. But Jesus was with me all the way through.. Amen Tq Pastor Vlad for this message
I watched your viral videos on tiktok with a heart touch background music with lyrics and i search you from your beautiful line which is "one secrate make a standard for yourself "and finally i found you in TH-cam thanks for that's nice line and love you from India bro
Praise the Lord for His wisdom... Thank you Pastor.
Well this man went ahead and preached in here today!🙌🏾🙏🏾🥳😲🙌🏾
Yes amen. The lack of peace etc. I had to make sure it wasn’t just me being uncomfortable with men or own insecurities. But it has to feel right
This video played a huge part in protecting me from moving forward with a marriage that was never meant for me. Thank you for allowing the Spirit to flow through you, Vlad
May you always heed the Holy Sprit. God protected you. Thank you for watching.
Don’t be with someone you hope will change,
Be with someone you hope will Never change.
God be with you all ♥️ in Jesus name I pray you find love that endures & flourishes 💞 Amen 🙏 🧎♀️🧎♂️
Pastor I love how you always hit us with the word, I'm telling you when u feel down n out of place with God I just go on your videos and surprisingly everytime I'm going through some thing the video I want to watch n listen to always showed up.....always on time...God bless your ministry
Well spoken Pastor, It's like you were describing and fixing my love life through out this message. It has changed my point of view on dating. may God bless you
🙏🙏
0:02
So blessed by this ! May God keep using you pastor 🙏🏼
Spot on!!
Thank you pastor Vlad for these eye openers.
May God help me make the right choice
Catholic on Sunday and Alcoholic on Saturday 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol , 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂, alcoholic even after church, Jesus is Lord.
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 them rhymes 🤣🤣🤣🙏🏾
No bad. How about the lifestyle and attitude, not only alcohol?
Thank you so much
I was slowing the decision I’m not having peace
I’m breaking up with my bf today
This came in time. I was thinking I’m going to change him but I’m not having peace with doing so ..I love him but I’m stopping it bcz I don’t have peace with it
How are things going now?
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Thank you Pastor for the precious sermon.
Truly blessed. 🤲
Thank you Pastor. Praise the Lord Jesus CHRIST hallelujah
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All of these are so on point!
Amazing, great message! This has truly helped me to see that I made the right decision, following the tension the Holy Spirt placed in me! Thank you for this message!
Glad it was helpful!
@@vladhungrygen i like to listen to you Pastor. Your teachings help me, wish to meet you one day
Father. Give me strength in singleness let me focus wholeheartedly on you to do your work and forget these things. Let me focus on You. Jesus Christ
This is really good! Listen to the Holy Spirit!
I'm compelled to share this with my fiance. 4/6 is not good!! Thx for the message!
word of wisdom here!!
Thankful I found you again! Very good preaching...real deal here ...so many preachers speak only to tickle the ears
May God Bless you and thanks God for help me to get rid of any bad habits that I have especially Listening music and thanks again for help me to stop completely stop drinking wine .
Thank You Pastor Vlad & team, these teachings are really helpful for us and it helps us in getting ready for the things which God has kept in store for our present & future.
Thank you.
Powerful 👏🏼🔥
Holy Fire 🔥 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes God bless you abundantly Pastor ❤️🙏
Thanks you Jesus thank you Jesus amen God and bless the powerful prayer points 🧡🤗☝🙌🙏🙏👏💙💖💖
Thare is this guy I have dated for marriage purpose. I have not been content. I felt spirital attacks and spiritual draining
Preach Brother Vlad! 🙌🔥🙏
wow. I think I might be dating the wrong person...
U r mind-blowing 🤯, I wish I heard this earlier
Helpful. Thank you. Hallelujah 🎉🎊
Wow this is amazing 🙏 thank you
Preach!!!
Thanks for sharing this one!!
Amen what a word 🙏🏽
As a single person how do you meet a Godly wife..not like we can go to church ask who's single..or clubs bars even dating apps..it's hard to meet single Christians
That’s a good point. I really don’t know either as a lot of people in church are married between 21-30. Once you reach 28, it’s zero singles there, or those you meet have children or not legitimately divorced. See Matt chapters 5, 19, 1 Corinthians 7. I keep encountering the latter and it’s quite discouraging. I’m not keen to try dating apps or websites either, as lying / misrepresentation is far too easy to do through a screen.
Even many in the church are fake.
Datings apps don't work unless you want short-term dating. Lol
Hahah very well said Pastor!👏
This was so good and needed
Am turning 30 next year, could not find a genuine Christ follower, now am dating someone who is not at the same Spiritual level.
Thanks pastor!❤️
Great video but some things to remember.
1. NO ONE IS PERFECT.
2. Keep in mind you are both works in progress.
3. God will not put blinders on you or rose colored glasses. If the person is unattractive to you then move on.
4. Even if you check all you boxes (celibacy before marriage, etc...) it's gonna be tough.
5. If you are fighting more than normal before marriage it will only get worse.
God bless you sir
Yes Pastor at least a year if intimate with him this is like a soul tie bond and I made a mistake got involved with divorced non believer wasn't healed and rushed our dating too fast not equally yoked. I did not date 6 months now I'm healed bit I am not sleeping with a man unless I vet him and he is proved marriage material ty
Your message is strong and good views about date and live for god.
Thank you. God bless.
This is true . God is still working on me . I only expect God to change me.I only want Jesus
God bless you soo Importand 🙏
Marriage reveals people
Word🥂🙌
Wohooo🥰 Amen
Thank you!!!
i so needed it ryt now..
True
I had a new prophet tell me the man that i liked at church wasnt going to be my husband and i didnt feel that conviction from the holy spirit. But ever since then ive been really sad
Why are you listening to a maybe prophet who you don't know; ask God for wisdom and don't talk to people as it causes confusion.
Wow I love this
Message is awesome and needed in our culture but the volume is too loud. I have tinnitus (ringing in the ear) due to extreme gun noises during military active duty. I hope there's a softer (2nd) version for people like us.
Blessed.
Can we talk plz
Powerful
Powerful 😫❤️
"If you follow your gut, and your gut is not submitted to God, then you will end up in a rut."
2:12 "....what went wrong." OK, yes, but we must take ACTION. We must have the knowledge and tools to FIX what went wrong. I am having a hard time finding the SOLUTIONS, the ACTIONS, the WORK. I am looking for advice for someone very close to me. Since I cannot truly understand HOW they feel and WHY they do the things they do... simply telling them what is right or wrong, good or bad, beautiful vs toxic is mere talk. What good is that? I need advice in PURE ACTIONS they could take (or not) knowing I said and did everything "I" could have. 😏😉👍
this is good, but I always wonder how non-believers make it in relationships. they spend many years married and not being saved. so I wonder how they make it work.
They probably didnt dump the first one though to be hurting and in a new relationship
If a person prays diligently, God will always give you the right person to marry.