I think maybe he just had a couple of his clothes maybe a toothbrush & 2 draws @ his girl crib & now she liable for about $5000 worth of property. Either way lesson is don't move in with a female.
Agreed I don’t think it’s got nothing to do with the figure of the dude, regardless of yo size you gotta be smart enough to evaluate your situation like I think this guy is here.
He's doing the right thing. Just record all of the damage she is causing and sue her in court. Just keep back from her and keep the camera running until you get in your vehicle.
yep and also record before hand and when yall get a GF cause anyone can believe a women even when she is actually wrong and people see her do wrong things but cause she's a women she can get away with it just by crying her tears out.
Prepare the break up and get your things in a safe place first, then break up with her. Mentally break up with her for sure, then stick it out for a day or so n prepare your things n leave before she knows it
You could always buy new clothes. Remember felles, before you break up with a chick you love with you gotta have your ducks in a row. Make sure the electronics and important items are gone, make sure you have a place to stay that she does not know about, make sure all passwords and personal information is changed or in the process. Switch bank accounts if you have too. Breaking up with a live in is like quiting a long term job.
Exactly! First as a guy you know things are going south many months in advance...he should have quietly moved all of his stuff prior to letting her know that he was leaving OR I am sure she went to the store or out with friends and he should have scheduled his move out (using his own bag!!!) during the 5-10 minutes while she was gone. Then he should have just left her a letter on the door or even the floor (since there was no table!) that things were over!
@@medraymedray5139 yep cause no matter how chill or "submissive" a chick is she still has the capacity to do some crazy shit when heartbroken.. and they don't see it as just heartbreak they see it as wasting their time. Because we all know they turned down alot of better opportunities to stay loyal and that shit eats at them lol
Men, get a police escort going to into these situations. That way no one can lie and she can't mess up your things. She might talk trash but she won't do this type stuff. Don't give any women the benefit of the doubt after a break-up. Women are emotional and act off of their emotions.
Yes this is what you do, very important! I have had to do this multiple times. Even when the situation doesn’t seem escalated, never put anything past a women especially when you go through a breakup and one party has to go back over to the others place to get their stuff. Fellas, always get a police escort in these situations. Better safe than sorry. From my experience, most women are vindictive by nature and will ruin your life just for kicks.
Nope. Simply wait until she’s not there and then move your things out. Or or or….don’t move into a woman’s place. Establish yourself and then vet women to enter your orbit.
@@patrickcalvary8384 Same here. Every time I see videos like this it makes me glad I got married in my early 20s. I’m 47 now. I’m trying my best to make sure my son (12) and daughter (19) don’t end up situations like this.
Well, legally, if you buy someone something, it becomes their property. So, you can't take it back just because yall break up or whatever. My advice would be not to buy anyone something expensive unless they're a spouse or truly worth the financial sacrifice. And, for the love of God, don't propose to a woman on her birthday or on a holiday. It's no longer considered a conditional gift, therefore, she can keep the ring as a traditional gift. In this case, just because she paid for the shoes, she admitted she gave him the shoes. So they've now become his property. He can sue her for the damages she's caused. He has a record of her doing it AND confessing as she's doing it. He'll be fine. 👌🏼
what women do you know defended her. Or are you making this shit up in your head to demean women. Now in this comment section show which women defended her atrocious actions.
@@SuperTruthful you gotta be kidding me you definitely live in a bubble I forgot females are so oppressed today that their free to do what they want and people like you are one of the reasons women don't hold themselves accountable lmao
I've only lived with women that I was in relationships with, but for some strange reason I've always kept my apt🤣 Like 1 time, the lady and I got into a disagreement and i was packing my stuff to leave, she asked me where I was going, I simply said my apt, she was so shocked like you still paying rent on your place, I said I've never let it go and left, she came over at around 1am in the morning apologizing and saying she was out of line, fella's get and keep your own spot, this moving in with a female is not what that is, until marriage..
I have experienced this from a TOTALLY different aspect: I was staying with a woman in an RV, her's, while I built my house just a few miles away. She got mad and MOVED while I was at work, after she gave me an ultimatum of to quit supporting my 2 sons in college so she could get into the house sooner, I told her that my sons future was more important than mine...she drove off with RV. I just had to laugh, drama dodged. BTW, one son is a doctor and his brother is an accountant. I have no clue what happened to her.
Had a chick I formerly dated cut ✂️up my pants and shirt cause she THOUGHT I was doin her dirty (cheating) and come to find out I was called to military duty and was not doin something shady. 😒 That red flag became the beginning of the end of our relationship. I left her some time later.
To preemptively address the people saying "what if she bought all of that for him?" What if the roles were reversed and the man was destroying the woman's stuff even though he bought it, still doesn't make it right.
It doesn’t matter if she bought the stuff. Once she gave the items to him, they belong to HIM. But, this guy is wrong for living in her house in the first place. That’s part of the control she tries to have over him. She can put him out anytime. She destroys the man’s items (throwing all her money away) in order to embarrass him. She is the “boss” in her house and he “belongs” to her. And all the stuff she paid for is HERS. He wasn’t going to leave the relationship with any benefit of being with her. He was smart to leave this crazy woman. The smarter thing would have been to move his items out slowly or wait until she was gone, then just take all his stuff in one shot and ghost her.
If she purchased the items FOR him, those items are considered as "gifts" and therefore belong to HIM. Then she had the nerve to go "yall see him try to touch me" oh lord
Oh, men do it too. Lol. My ex threw my Army uniforms in our fireplace when I wanted to leave after he told me he cheated on me. But, I absolutely agree that women do it more. I get second hand embarrassment over most of these videos. The fake pregnancies really get me. I will never understand why women use that. Women get far too desperate and far too bitter. And the bitterness only makes them worse.
Guys-the same way a woman would have to wait till her crazy man is out of the house to pack her belongings and bounce,so she wouldn't be murdered is the same way guys now have to do when we want to break up with a woman and bounce...Never tell a woman (nor anyone)your thoughts and plans..They can't react to an unforseen act.
I was just about to comment the same thing. Avoid the drama and just move out while they are not home. All they can do is blow up your phone and all you have to do is Block them and your out of a toxic situation for good!
Sadly, this isn't uncommon. Women do this the way the worst men take to assaulting a woman when she's done with a relationship. It's an emotional, immature, destructive assertion of power. Fellas, VET your women better. VET. YOUR. WOMEN. BETTER. So sick of seeing folks learn the hardest of ways that what seems tolerable on the upswing becomes chaotic on the downswing.
Women aren't taught how to treat a man when they are growing up, men are taught they can never put their hands on or disrespect women. I don't want to sound misogynistic but, it started after we gave women "equality".
First, I wouldn’t be with a women this masculine or overweight . Second, if I do get so desperate to be with that yeti I wouldn’t be living under her roof or lease agreement.
Agreed. No man should be with a women like her, she belongs in the priory, nothing that crazy belongs on the streets. Yeti 👌🤣😂 I go with beached whale, but I’m going to have to borrow that one 👍
number one rule no man has ever said and that is don't feel like your desperate its one of the main reasons lot of dudes are in a toxic relationship. Learn your worth and value your self as that's why these wingman love advice always say love your self before loving someone else. Trust me i've seen what happens to those who doesn't think they can find another and only that one and feel into depression.
@@macanthonyonyirimba3096 everyone has a choice and everyone should be vetting any potential partner before getting serious with them. Intelligent questions alway filter the chaff, it’s not difficult. Even if you connect, you should be vetting, you don’t purchase on face value or because you feel connected.
Not gonna lie I wouldn't be with a women like this, I wouldn't be in this situation because I would notice the red flags, kick her to the curb and keep it pushing. This gonna sound a little heartless but he played a part in this because he chose to stay with this women. If I was in this predicament though I would call 911 and record not gonna lie.
@@mellowvibes4702 I'm saying that it shouldn't even get to that point though and yes she is out of line but we dont and will never know the true story. There had to be some red flag that was clear as day thay he decided to ignore. I feel for this man I really do but you gotta look at things from a "different perspective" pun intended.
Damn i am so glad he didn't marry her. She's crazy, disrespectful, immature and her personality is so awful. Don't let anybody talking to you or touch your stuff like that.
U don't need to date and if it was that simple ,situations like this wouldnt exist . Besides how important are clothes ,u can always and will get more as life goes on.
No matter his size, if she did all this im sure he thought she would call the cops and lie to get him arrested... he dodge a bullet, literally and figuratively
This is what happens to a man when he moves into a woman’s apartment or home. He will always be at her mercy. Either have your own place or live separately. A fool and his money and possessions shall soon part if that lesson is not learned.
He doesn't have any money or he'd be in his own place. she brought those clothes and things and that's why she is destroying them. He was a being treated like the girl in the relationship. And he will move onto the next and the next one will get tired of his ass too.
@@SuperTruthful I figured as much. It was painfully obvious. I’ve known guys like this. It’s typical of their lifestyle decisions. Freeloading on any willing woman.
@@huhhahuh don’t assume he is freeloading. It doesn’t look like he had much clothes there so it could just be things he left at her home just to have clothes there. I’ve had women I’ve dated leave a few outfits, shoes and underwear at my house to have a change of clothes if they needed it. And what freeloading man do you know that would break up with a woman who was his lifeline?
@@MontrelW you may be right. The video doesn’t doesn’t give the full story. He should have squared away his property before breaking up or just called it a loss. There’s no way I would sit through that nonsense. He was better off cutting his losses and leaving.
Hopefully he is recording for proof that he didn't touch her. He should use this as evidence in court to get funds for the destruction of HIS property.
Nobody think it's unfair that a woman in many states can keep the wedding ring and engagement ring. Despite the fact of knowing that she file for divorce after a few months. Knowing that women are not only more likely to file for divorce for no reason. But also more likely to be abusive. More like make proven fraudulent claims.
I choose AGGRESSION: Rule #1: NEVER, EVER, NEVER, EVER, state your intentions of leaving your soon to be ex-female without having your belongings ALREADY removed from her house. Rule #2: NEVER, EVER, NEVER, EVER, have your soon to be ex-female in YOUR house to initiate a break-up. {Pro-tip: Meet her at a public location, away from your home, with all her shyt in a box, bag, or whatever the fuq you can find to fit all of her belongings.} This dude is a rookie. Lessons learned.
Once you’ve moved anything into someone else’s house, that becomes your residence as well in terms of the law when it comes to protecting your property. So he legally CAN go in there and grab his shit. And if she tries to stop him by putting hands on him then he can charge her with assault. If she tries to stop him by destroying his property then he can charge her with vandalism
Yea no, it’s not your residence because you have “stuff” in their legal residence. However you can press charges on the Items she damaged as long as he can prove it is his and/or it was a gift.
Yeah I'd definitely let her just so I could press charges against her. Doing over a $1,000 worth of damage that's fine. I hope you like that felony the States going to charge you with.
Hot take on the second video: The gut is actually smart in this situation as he does not approach robbing her the opportunity to claim that he is trying to harm or threaten her and also getting it on camera that this is her reaction to his leaving her. This is destruction of property and, depending on the state they're in, he may be able to recover damages in small claims.
That boy in the second clip isn't going to better himself he's just going to move in with another chick. Men destroy women's items too when they break up or ask for them back it happens a lot.
Just wait for the ex GF cheats or very shortly after breaking up goes out and get pregnant. Then tells you and her parents that it your child. Then have them take you to court to make you pay for her medical bills do to get pregnant. If you don't demand a DNA test for the court. Have the judge and attorney agreed with you that once proven that you are not the father they have to pay you and your insurance company back with interest for all her medical expenses. Watch how fast she changes her mind
Why is no one talking about the fact that she was apparently lying about being pregnant in the beginning? I wouldn't argue with her. I would just tell her her to remember her actions when she's trying to get back with me next week. I would tell her that she's making me dislike her more and more. That won't stop her from doing it, but she'll remember those words later when she's in her feelings.
My co-worker's mom said the most illuminating thing: "They make new stuff everyday." All that material stuff is replaceable. Now, personally, I'm more liable to have told her keep all that crap and I'm out rather than spend any more time entertaining crazy. But, if he was going to try and retrieve things, filming her destroying them was probably the right move. Whether he wishes to try and press charges or just sue in civil court, the footage would be helpful. Though, I'll reiterate, for me personally, a thousand dollars of stuff is a reasonable price to pay to never have to deal with a person like this again.
I would leave that right there on the floor.She destroyed that floor with that bleach.She messed up her security deposit.He need too walk out the door.Get your own gear.....
I would have let her get my stuff but the moment she started destroying stuff is the moment all that respecting my space goes out the window. At that point I am getting my own stuff or giving her notice that the very next item she destroys of mine will lead to the destruction of something of hers and mean it. I am sure this will slow her roll. Hey if she want to call my bluff she will learn quickly especially since i wont become an auditor and try to find something of equal value to what she destroyed. I am going for whatever is closest regardless of relative value. That's real talk. If I am feeling particularly civilized, then I allow her to do what she is doing but you better believe that video is exhibit 1 in a civil suit.
Nope, don’t destroy her stuff. Go sue her for destruction of property. Then she has to sell her stuff to replace your stuff. Record her doing it. You will win easily.
Nope, let her just do it and keep recording.. don't go near her and don't touch her at all.. yu touch her, then she gonna claim assault. Don't go anywhere near her bro, it'll get turned on yu
Not taking up for her but what got to this point? And why is he living in HER house? Thats a setup in itself. Also men don't destroy stuff? So women don't get stalked by exs and sometimes end in tragic situations bc some men can't get out their feelings or handle the emotions. I see it all the time. Been through it myself.
I would record and just keep it pushing. I remember giving all my gift , and even some money to my ex cause he was acting like this. I those gifts didn't fit him but the peace of mind was the best type of mind to have. I rather start over then to beg for items now he can do as he pls. If he love those items I think he would care more but this is just a last resort to have him beg for her back that back fired. And the pregnancy one was even worse of a backfire cause he called her bluff. I wish them both the best of luck and hopefully that didn't get back with the women in the video cause I seen that before too.
Cops won't do anything but it's still good to have it documented that you tried. SMALL CLAIMS baby. So if she can trash "her stuff" then where is the stuff he bought her? Cuz that's "he's stuff" funny how that works.
Wow. She caught in 4k capping...🤦 The second clip - that's where you bring an officer in to help you gather your stuff.... Also, this behavior just shows how materialistic women are these days. She trying to hurt him as much as she can so she goes for his stuff. Speaks volumes. Why tf would he wanna stay if she act like that??
Imagine being so vindictive you have to do anything in your meager power to hurt the guy just to have to have some type of superiority over him. And you women ponder over why any worthwhile man doesn't stay with you.
Only women like her have to worry about that not every woman is in her category. She has a really evil way of doing things and I’ve never been surrounded by any woman that acts the way she does.
@@sunkissedmami9233 I agree, but I think you are underestimating how often this exact scenario plays out. Of course the level of the vindictiveness varies but in my experience the majority of women do petty stuff like this when they lose the power in a relationship. And I am not only talking about my experiences, I’ve seen it happen to many friends and family as well.
@@shanemurphy7277 I don’t associate with women that act as low as she does. Instead of the commenter saying “And you women” they could’ve said “women that act like this”. You women sounds like we’re pointing the finger at all women so I was clearing it up. I just find it strange that anyone in a relationship would assume anyone has power over anything but themselves. I’m submissive so I’m a yes man I love doing things for my s/o we’ve had breaks before and there were no hard feelings. It’s just so crazy seeing people lash out on the people they “love”, “loved” or “cared for” it’s weird. And I’m sorry that you even had to experience something like that and I hope you’re no longer surrounded by anyone that acts in this manner.
I’m not gonna use the clips inside the video as an indictment on women as a whole, I’ll use it as an indication of the types of cultures to be aware of when choosing a woman. I can say women that come from certain cultural backgrounds breathe negativity and toxicity into the air around you.
Because destroying your now ex’s property on video will definitely make him stay with you. And any man who watches this recording will definitely think your wife material and will definitely want to be with you.
I would have day by day taken some of my things out of her place and once I got all my stuff out then break up with her or wait until she goes to work and then grab my things
I may be the only person to feel this way, but I want to know why he broke it off with her? Did he leave her for another woman? Is it her attitude? Depending on the answer, I can see why she would destroy his stuff. (not saying it's ok but I can understand) I would like to know more to this story instead of casting judgement.
Even if cheated on, no matter what reason I was left for- I would never destroy a man’s property. 1 that’s crazy and 2 its illegal. I am curious why he decided to leave, but whatever reason doesn’t justify this behavior.
Doesn't matter. Are you saying that his reason would make her less wrong? Her attitude stinks. That's a possible reason. He found someone better (more agreeable, in better shape, more attractive, whatever). That's a possible reason. Neither of those reasons can justify her actions. Mainly because if you flip the genders, the police would be on the scene immediately, and he'd be in handcuffs.
You do not destroy property, regardless of what the other party did. It solves absolutely nothing and if she were a dude, that’s be an easy destruction of property charge.
Recording is the best action that guy could take. Nothing is worth the legal trouble a guy would get it if she calls the police. So often they will not believe a man. If he would have just left she could still call in a report and say anything she wants so a recording like that could keep him out of jail
Breaking up and knowing it's over with someone is no secret. Could've avoided all that drama and destruction by playing nice, giving himself plenty of time to remove all his stuff while she was out running errands.
Are you serious … another female putting blame on the guy… however he broke up with her she still is accountable for her actions . Stop blaming men for bad female actions
@@macanthonyonyirimba3096 That guy knew he was on his way out of that relationship. Why break up with her before he had a chance to move all his stuff safely out of an apartment he obviously had access to since they were cohabiting. It was no secret to him what kind of women he was dating. Am blaming part of that drama on him for not using the same energy he had at sneaking with other chicks behind her back. He could've used that same sneaky energy to sneak his stuff out of her apartment & out of her reach.
@@randymorninstarr5011 yes am serious. When you about to break up with someone, you know. It's no secret except to the one that's about to get dumped. They lived together so he had keys, he knows what kind of chick he was dealing with. This was not a mature way to handle this. He could've gotten all his stuff out of that apartment while she was out and about. And avoided all that drama and went on ghost mode.
What will I do? I would’ve waited for her to leave or go out with her friends. Then I would’ve grabbed my stuff and become Casper. Of course make sure make sure I have a place to live before hand. Then! I would’ve told her. If she mad she can mess up her own stuff.
12:09 He got the footage. He should just leave and get his money in court. She cut everything but a few shirts and some pants but are now bleached. Get a bag? For what, shreds of clothes? Just dip homie
My father destroyed our whole apartment including mine and my brother’s room after my mom said she didn’t want to put with his abuse or his cheating. So yeah there are men who do it too. Thank we weren’t harmed in the first place.
Why did the guy watching that chick destroying his things not call the police and report the destruction of property. We need to set the precedent that they need to be held accountable for her actions.
Fellas, if you hit that "we're done" moment...DO NOT SAY IT WHEN YOU ARE THINKING IT!!! Take a step back, take a deep breath, tell her you're going for a drive and reserve a U-Haul. Call in sick on a day you know she's not going to be home, get your stuff while being respectful of hers. Once your stuff is safely in your dad's garage, the storage place, or your best friend's house... that's when you go back and give her the (for her) bad news. A lot of guys let their emotions get ahead of them, and they break up without an Exit Plan first. Some, but not all women, feel that the only way to make you feel the way they feel, is to destroy your stuff. They're wrong, it's more of a really bad annoyance at us having to get replacements. But, it's best are you to keep a cool head, and stop that kind of thing before it happens. And when all is said and done, make sure your parking your car somewhere that's under video surveillance.
He did right, just record then take her to civil court get his money plus for damages and go on about his business, moral of the story, start removing your stuff before you drop the news
I would have called the cops because I can't restrain her or else I'm going to jail. I have a legal right to defend myself and my property and I have video evidence of the destruction of my property.
I do tattoos and if I'm trying to get my stuff and go and you're stopping that, you're impeding my business which is another charge in and of itself...
It is so pathetic that she lied about being pregnant to try and keep a man. Same thing with the man shaking up in a woman's house and having her buy his clothing. If you do not want to be with her keep your silence, get your stuff while she is gone and LEAVE!
the destruction of property is something that is instigated from the female in the relationship. and to those women who are saying "she bought it for him", if you say you don't want to be together anymore with a man who has proposed to you, are you ok if he destroys the ring that he gave you?
13:26 Agreed. I’ve noticed that it hurts more when a person acts cool calm and collected. It confuses the person wanting to leave cause they expect an argument but instead you help them pack up, nicely escort them to their car, wish them better luck with their next relationship, you will see that in several months they will be trying to come back. Unfortunately once that chapter has closed it’s done for ever. So yea lesson to the ladies who like to argue and fight all the time. Don’t waist the energy on arguing over a topic you know will go nowhere, instead listen and abide with what ever the other person wants. If they want to leave, just let them know that there is no coming back, than proceed to see if there can be someway to work it out, but if he is determined to leave just get up help him pack up even if you are dying inside and your emotions are all over the board, help him pack up, wish him the best and when the door closes behind him, that’s when you go and let all your emotions go. Throw the pillows drink some wine, write on the journal, anything to relieve the pain but don’t cause more damage and stress on anyone else. Just my opinion. I can only pray that women and men can take some advice sometimes, the world would be a better place.
Yo! Fan from South Africa here!!! This happens too often. A friend of mine went through the same thing. His girl found out he's cheating and went to his home and destroyed his R 24 000 PC. And the girl just walked away with no charges. If i was the guy, i would have sued the heck out of her
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I'd let her cut the clothes too she has a deadly fucking weapon
If he puts his hands on her he charged he winning the case now
That is clearly the acts of a child this person because she feel that he don't want to be with her so he's not going to look good for anybody else
And she's the bully in a relationship
She’s wrong, but I will never let anybody put me in this kind of compromising position. Living with a girl in HER space ain’t it boss.
Yes I did this and it was a big mistake never again
@@stefbaws I concur. Not doing that again.
I think maybe he just had a couple of his clothes maybe a toothbrush & 2 draws @ his girl crib & now she liable for about $5000 worth of property. Either way lesson is don't move in with a female.
Yeah, that didnt look like he lived with her; just had a drawer or two worth of clothes.
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I'm sure he backed up so she couldn't claim he put his hands on her. Recording and pressing charges is the best thing to do in that situation.
But she’ll hit all on him and call the police to save her from an A**whoopin
Seriously! The last thing he needs is a scuffle. Get his probation violated over some manatee. 🙄
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I was about to say the same thing
Agreed I don’t think it’s got nothing to do with the figure of the dude, regardless of yo size you gotta be smart enough to evaluate your situation like I think this guy is here.
As a woman I’m disgusted by her behavior. What did she gain by doing that? Besides a lawsuit and a major L
And she looking stupid. He dont want you so what let him go. Cry and then choose different, maybe thats just me.
A couple of Jordan's now is gonna cost her up to $5000
@@Chaunceyadams230 all he gotta say rare or special to me
I agree sis
He's doing the right thing. Just record all of the damage she is causing and sue her in court. Just keep back from her and keep the camera running until you get in your vehicle.
yep and also record before hand and when yall get a GF cause anyone can believe a women even when she is actually wrong and people see her do wrong things but cause she's a women she can get away with it just by crying her tears out.
He's not going to sue. This is pathetic to watch
Lol for what she brought everything dude probably don't even got the money to pay for court cost
I'm definitely pressing charges, destruction of property is serious
Here it's 3 1/2 years in jail
Me too I’m calling the cops on the spot like she would do you if you bleached all her stuff.
She throwing away her own money
@@shirleymassey4515 that famn near makes it worse. You're this pressed to destroy and waste your own money over emotions?
I'd just leave. I'd consider the stuff in her place a lost cause. Cut your losses and go. Don't prolong any interaction with her.
he shouldve been moved his stuff. If he knows how she is. He shouldve did some pre planning
Prepare the break up and get your things in a safe place first, then break up with her. Mentally break up with her for sure, then stick it out for a day or so n prepare your things n leave before she knows it
You could always buy new clothes. Remember felles, before you break up with a chick you love with you gotta have your ducks in a row. Make sure the electronics and important items are gone, make sure you have a place to stay that she does not know about, make sure all passwords and personal information is changed or in the process. Switch bank accounts if you have too. Breaking up with a live in is like quiting a long term job.
And pay more attention on her actions instead of how hot she is cause all that can fade but personality and how she treats people does not.
Exactly! First as a guy you know things are going south many months in advance...he should have quietly moved all of his stuff prior to letting her know that he was leaving OR I am sure she went to the store or out with friends and he should have scheduled his move out (using his own bag!!!) during the 5-10 minutes while she was gone. Then he should have just left her a letter on the door or even the floor (since there was no table!) that things were over!
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 exactly the warning signs were always there but we over look em cause she's fine or she got a big butt
@@medraymedray5139 yep cause no matter how chill or "submissive" a chick is she still has the capacity to do some crazy shit when heartbroken.. and they don't see it as just heartbreak they see it as wasting their time. Because we all know they turned down alot of better opportunities to stay loyal and that shit eats at them lol
@@medraymedray5139 leave a letter right next to the pork chops.... I'm gone 🐈
Men, get a police escort going to into these situations. That way no one can lie and she can't mess up your things. She might talk trash but she won't do this type stuff. Don't give any women the benefit of the doubt after a break-up. Women are emotional and act off of their emotions.
Exactly what i commented.glad to see others know the right way
Yes this is what you do, very important! I have had to do this multiple times. Even when the situation doesn’t seem escalated, never put anything past a women especially when you go through a breakup and one party has to go back over to the others place to get their stuff. Fellas, always get a police escort in these situations. Better safe than sorry. From my experience, most women are vindictive by nature and will ruin your life just for kicks.
Nope. Simply wait until she’s not there and then move your things out. Or or or….don’t move into a woman’s place. Establish yourself and then vet women to enter your orbit.
@@Roccofan that will work as well! I don't have to worry about that as I am married!
@@patrickcalvary8384 Same here. Every time I see videos like this it makes me glad I got married in my early 20s. I’m 47 now. I’m trying my best to make sure my son (12) and daughter (19) don’t end up situations like this.
Those same women who defend her actions are the same ones who if they were dumped/separated she would expect to keep everything YOU bought her
Oh you know it. Even if the stuff you bought is at your house, she'd expect you to give it back to her.
it only takes another women to tell the truth to another women
Well, legally, if you buy someone something, it becomes their property. So, you can't take it back just because yall break up or whatever. My advice would be not to buy anyone something expensive unless they're a spouse or truly worth the financial sacrifice. And, for the love of God, don't propose to a woman on her birthday or on a holiday. It's no longer considered a conditional gift, therefore, she can keep the ring as a traditional gift. In this case, just because she paid for the shoes, she admitted she gave him the shoes. So they've now become his property. He can sue her for the damages she's caused. He has a record of her doing it AND confessing as she's doing it. He'll be fine. 👌🏼
what women do you know defended her. Or are you making this shit up in your head to demean women. Now in this comment section show which women defended her atrocious actions.
@@SuperTruthful you gotta be kidding me you definitely live in a bubble I forgot females are so oppressed today that their free to do what they want and people like you are one of the reasons women don't hold themselves accountable lmao
This is one of those young ladies that Daphne would have to hold accountable because she tried to bash the guy online!🤦🏾♂️
Lady! Is this what you call a lady? I have less kind words to describe her.
I've only lived with women that I was in relationships with, but for some strange reason I've always kept my apt🤣
Like 1 time, the lady and I got into a disagreement and i was packing my stuff to leave, she asked me where I was going, I simply said my apt, she was so shocked like you still paying rent on your place, I said I've never let it go and left, she came over at around 1am in the morning apologizing and saying she was out of line, fella's get and keep your own spot, this moving in with a female is not what that is, until marriage..
IDC how good a woman is that I would meet, I'm buying my own place. I don't have the time for this BS.
This guy seems broke
Always how I rolled in all my relationships. Male or female, always have a plan B just incase.
My ex of 6 years lived with me after 3 months cux she got kicked out of her place an it got crazy an I made her move to a shelter for a bit
I have experienced this from a TOTALLY different aspect: I was staying with a woman in an RV, her's, while I built my house just a few miles away. She got mad and MOVED while I was at work, after she gave me an ultimatum of to quit supporting my 2 sons in college so she could get into the house sooner, I told her that my sons future was more important than mine...she drove off with RV. I just had to laugh, drama dodged.
BTW, one son is a doctor and his brother is an accountant. I have no clue what happened to her.
Women can never take an L. I don’t blame him. I wouldn’t want to be with a Women like that either. These kind of Women deserve to be single.
Had a chick I formerly dated cut ✂️up my pants and shirt cause she THOUGHT I was doin her dirty (cheating) and come to find out I was called to military duty and was not doin something shady. 😒 That red flag became the beginning of the end of our relationship. I left her some time later.
To preemptively address the people saying "what if she bought all of that for him?" What if the roles were reversed and the man was destroying the woman's stuff even though he bought it, still doesn't make it right.
It doesn’t matter if she bought the stuff. Once she gave the items to him, they belong to HIM.
But, this guy is wrong for living in her house in the first place. That’s part of the control she tries to have over him. She can put him out anytime. She destroys the man’s items (throwing all her money away) in order to embarrass him. She is the “boss” in her house and he “belongs” to her. And all the stuff she paid for is HERS. He wasn’t going to leave the relationship with any benefit of being with her.
He was smart to leave this crazy woman. The smarter thing would have been to move his items out slowly or wait until she was gone, then just take all his stuff in one shot and ghost her.
so true and some people think like this men and women
He did the right things. Recording proof and not do anything to her. She would tear him apart in court with false allegations
If she purchased the items FOR him, those items are considered as "gifts" and therefore belong to HIM. Then she had the nerve to go "yall see him try to touch me" oh lord
Oh, men do it too. Lol. My ex threw my Army uniforms in our fireplace when I wanted to leave after he told me he cheated on me. But, I absolutely agree that women do it more. I get second hand embarrassment over most of these videos. The fake pregnancies really get me. I will never understand why women use that. Women get far too desperate and far too bitter. And the bitterness only makes them worse.
well she tried to fake a pregnancy but was tested with his knowledge and he knew the truth.
We know that men do it, but you never see it on video. That how often it happens….
Duh men do it too BUT this ain't about men!!! Why always have to flip it to something it's not about???
Guys-the same way a woman would have to wait till her crazy man is out of the house to pack her belongings and bounce,so she wouldn't be murdered is the same way guys now have to do when we want to break up with a woman and bounce...Never tell a woman (nor anyone)your thoughts and plans..They can't react to an unforseen act.
true and thats the bottom line i think both men and women have done this i would rather be alive and my clothes fuck up
I was just about to comment the same thing. Avoid the drama and just move out while they are not home. All they can do is blow up your phone and all you have to do is Block them and your out of a toxic situation for good!
Sadly, this isn't uncommon. Women do this the way the worst men take to assaulting a woman when she's done with a relationship. It's an emotional, immature, destructive assertion of power. Fellas, VET your women better. VET. YOUR. WOMEN. BETTER. So sick of seeing folks learn the hardest of ways that what seems tolerable on the upswing becomes chaotic on the downswing.
Women aren't taught how to treat a man when they are growing up, men are taught they can never put their hands on or disrespect women. I don't want to sound misogynistic but, it started after we gave women "equality".
@@Audio041194 Facts, it all started at giving them the vote.
@@Audio041194 it started when feminism started
@@Audio041194 sadly it’s because of modern feminism they constantly allow stuff like this to happen
When women deny being unable to handle rejection, show them this video.
First, I wouldn’t be with a women this masculine or overweight . Second, if I do get so desperate to be with that yeti I wouldn’t be living under her roof or lease agreement.
True true. But yeti? Savage! 🤣
Agreed.
No man should be with a women like her, she belongs in the priory, nothing that crazy belongs on the streets.
Yeti 👌🤣😂
I go with beached whale, but I’m going to have to borrow that one 👍
number one rule no man has ever said and that is don't feel like your desperate its one of the main reasons lot of dudes are in a toxic relationship. Learn your worth and value your self as that's why these wingman love advice always say love your self before loving someone else. Trust me i've seen what happens to those who doesn't think they can find another and only that one and feel into depression.
This is the dumbest shit I read first pdf she second of all you wouldn’t even know who you will actually have a connection with
@@macanthonyonyirimba3096 everyone has a choice and everyone should be vetting any potential partner before getting serious with them.
Intelligent questions alway filter the chaff, it’s not difficult.
Even if you connect, you should be vetting, you don’t purchase on face value or because you feel connected.
Not gonna lie I wouldn't be with a women like this, I wouldn't be in this situation because I would notice the red flags, kick her to the curb and keep it pushing. This gonna sound a little heartless but he played a part in this because he chose to stay with this women. If I was in this predicament though I would call 911 and record not gonna lie.
Man fuck that I’m getting my shit and if she put her hands on me while I’m recording I’m rocking her shit
Lol. If they were to have a kid together, everyone would be calling you ignorant XD
@@mellowvibes4702 I'm saying that it shouldn't even get to that point though and yes she is out of line but we dont and will never know the true story. There had to be some red flag that was clear as day thay he decided to ignore. I feel for this man I really do but you gotta look at things from a "different perspective" pun intended.
@@mellowvibes4702 right
Guys like this make these women act so masculine
Damn i am so glad he didn't marry her. She's crazy, disrespectful, immature and her personality is so awful. Don't let anybody talking to you or touch your stuff like that.
It's real simple: don't leave your stuff at her house. Likewise, don't let her leave stuff at yours. Break those rules and you get what you get.
I think he was living with her, that's why there are so many clothes at her place.
He's living there he had no other place to go until he probably met another girl he's going to slide in there and repeat this cycle.
If you truly have to set such immature guide lines as such you really shouldn't be dating .
U don't need to date and if it was that simple ,situations like this wouldnt exist . Besides how important are clothes ,u can always and will get more as life goes on.
@@SuperTruthful yeah that probably about right
What's great he can take her to small claims court, and win. He's an idiot just call the police and let her spend a few days in jail.
Had he called the police all she had to was he hit her. They both would have went to jail.
Exactly, and I’d walk away saying now you have a mess to clean up
Some people just can't handle rejection all that well.
No matter his size, if she did all this im sure he thought she would call the cops and lie to get him arrested... he dodge a bullet, literally and figuratively
My belongings can be replaced 💯 . i would just leave and not return
This is what happens to a man when he moves into a woman’s apartment or home. He will always be at her mercy. Either have your own place or live separately. A fool and his money and possessions shall soon part if that lesson is not learned.
He doesn't have any money or he'd be in his own place. she brought those clothes and things and that's why she is destroying them. He was a being treated like the girl in the relationship. And he will move onto the next and the next one will get tired of his ass too.
@@SuperTruthful I figured as much. It was painfully obvious. I’ve known guys like this. It’s typical of their lifestyle decisions. Freeloading on any willing woman.
@@huhhahuh don’t assume he is freeloading. It doesn’t look like he had much clothes there so it could just be things he left at her home just to have clothes there. I’ve had women I’ve dated leave a few outfits, shoes and underwear at my house to have a change of clothes if they needed it. And what freeloading man do you know that would break up with a woman who was his lifeline?
@@MontrelW you may be right. The video doesn’t doesn’t give the full story. He should have squared away his property before breaking up or just called it a loss. There’s no way I would sit through that nonsense. He was better off cutting his losses and leaving.
Hopefully he is recording for proof that he didn't touch her. He should use this as evidence in court to get funds for the destruction of HIS property.
He knew better, she didn’t just start acting like this. What he should have done was filter his stuff out before telling her he’s done
I wouldn't be in this position in the first place. Broads know who and who not to try.
Nobody think it's unfair that a woman in many states can keep the wedding ring and engagement ring. Despite the fact of knowing that she file for divorce after a few months. Knowing that women are not only more likely to file for divorce for no reason. But also more likely to be abusive. More like make proven fraudulent claims.
I choose AGGRESSION:
Rule #1: NEVER, EVER, NEVER, EVER, state your intentions of leaving your soon to be ex-female without having your belongings ALREADY removed from her house.
Rule #2: NEVER, EVER, NEVER, EVER, have your soon to be ex-female in YOUR house to initiate a break-up. {Pro-tip: Meet her at a public location, away from your home, with all her shyt in a box, bag, or whatever the fuq you can find to fit all of her belongings.}
This dude is a rookie. Lessons learned.
Once you’ve moved anything into someone else’s house, that becomes your residence as well in terms of the law when it comes to protecting your property. So he legally CAN go in there and grab his shit. And if she tries to stop him by putting hands on him then he can charge her with assault. If she tries to stop him by destroying his property then he can charge her with vandalism
Yea no, it’s not your residence because you have “stuff” in their legal residence. However you can press charges on the Items she damaged as long as he can prove it is his and/or it was a gift.
Won't go down like that. One quick lie and they'll side with her. She'll say... He hit me my baby my baby my baby 🐈
This stuff happens more than women care to think - that’s one of the major reasons why no one wants to be with y’all dealing with that BS
Yeah I'd definitely let her just so I could press charges against her. Doing over a $1,000 worth of damage that's fine. I hope you like that felony the States going to charge you with.
If this guy had no legitimate reasons for leaving her, she sure gave him one now.
right hope he was not pranking her
Frfr...
Hot take on the second video: The gut is actually smart in this situation as he does not approach robbing her the opportunity to claim that he is trying to harm or threaten her and also getting it on camera that this is her reaction to his leaving her. This is destruction of property and, depending on the state they're in, he may be able to recover damages in small claims.
This is the natural instincts of the BBL Beasty. Folks keep trying to domesticate them tho, idk 🤷🏿♂️
You know how we men are. "You can't domesticate them!" "Oh really? Hold my beer." 🤣
Oh really? Destroy my shit then bc I'm backstroking in that yomper if I got the chance. Stand aside for the real men.
I once broke up with a guy, so he stole all of my clothes to give to the girl he had been cheating on me with. And she couldn't fit into them 🙊
That boy in the second clip isn't going to better himself he's just going to move in with another chick. Men destroy women's items too when they break up or ask for them back it happens a lot.
Just wait for the ex GF cheats or very shortly after breaking up goes out and get pregnant. Then tells you and her parents that it your child. Then have them take you to court to make you pay for her medical bills do to get pregnant. If you don't demand a DNA test for the court. Have the judge and attorney agreed with you that once proven that you are not the father they have to pay you and your insurance company back with interest for all her medical expenses. Watch how fast she changes her mind
He should have just called her a petty beach and leave 😆 buy himself some new shit and bounce.
Why is no one talking about the fact that she was apparently lying about being pregnant in the beginning?
I wouldn't argue with her. I would just tell her her to remember her actions when she's trying to get back with me next week. I would tell her that she's making me dislike her more and more.
That won't stop her from doing it, but she'll remember those words later when she's in her feelings.
throw her a chicken bone then run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run
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My ex threw out my moms ashes so it happens, just not as often!
My co-worker's mom said the most illuminating thing: "They make new stuff everyday." All that material stuff is replaceable. Now, personally, I'm more liable to have told her keep all that crap and I'm out rather than spend any more time entertaining crazy. But, if he was going to try and retrieve things, filming her destroying them was probably the right move. Whether he wishes to try and press charges or just sue in civil court, the footage would be helpful.
Though, I'll reiterate, for me personally, a thousand dollars of stuff is a reasonable price to pay to never have to deal with a person like this again.
The one destroying the clothes, your proving his point why he wants out. Sir run! You can replace the clothes.
I would leave that right there on the floor.She destroyed that floor with that bleach.She messed up her security deposit.He need too walk out the door.Get your own gear.....
Never move into a woman’s home!!!
I would have let her get my stuff but the moment she started destroying stuff is the moment all that respecting my space goes out the window. At that point I am getting my own stuff or giving her notice that the very next item she destroys of mine will lead to the destruction of something of hers and mean it. I am sure this will slow her roll. Hey if she want to call my bluff she will learn quickly especially since i wont become an auditor and try to find something of equal value to what she destroyed. I am going for whatever is closest regardless of relative value. That's real talk. If I am feeling particularly civilized, then I allow her to do what she is doing but you better believe that video is exhibit 1 in a civil suit.
Nope, don’t destroy her stuff. Go sue her for destruction of property. Then she has to sell her stuff to replace your stuff. Record her doing it. You will win easily.
See you in prison buddy. For physical assault and destruction of property and whatever else she can sprinkle in there
dont let ur emotions ruin you fam. Its all on camera 💰
Star trex.the original series the corbomite maneuver 🐈
Nope, let her just do it and keep recording.. don't go near her and don't touch her at all.. yu touch her, then she gonna claim assault. Don't go anywhere near her bro, it'll get turned on yu
Not taking up for her but what got to this point? And why is he living in HER house? Thats a setup in itself. Also men don't destroy stuff? So women don't get stalked by exs and sometimes end in tragic situations bc some men can't get out their feelings or handle the emotions. I see it all the time. Been through it myself.
I would record and just keep it pushing. I remember giving all my gift , and even some money to my ex cause he was acting like this. I those gifts didn't fit him but the peace of mind was the best type of mind to have. I rather start over then to beg for items now he can do as he pls. If he love those items I think he would care more but this is just a last resort to have him beg for her back that back fired. And the pregnancy one was even worse of a backfire cause he called her bluff. I wish them both the best of luck and hopefully that didn't get back with the women in the video cause I seen that before too.
Cops won't do anything but it's still good to have it documented that you tried. SMALL CLAIMS baby. So if she can trash "her stuff" then where is the stuff he bought her? Cuz that's "he's stuff" funny how that works.
Wow. She caught in 4k capping...🤦 The second clip - that's where you bring an officer in to help you gather your stuff.... Also, this behavior just shows how materialistic women are these days. She trying to hurt him as much as she can so she goes for his stuff. Speaks volumes.
Why tf would he wanna stay if she act like that??
He'll just take her to court for the destruction of his property and get more money from her 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ this is why he is recording
Imagine being so vindictive you have to do anything in your meager power to hurt the guy just to have to have some type of superiority over him.
And you women ponder over why any worthwhile man doesn't stay with you.
Only women like her have to worry about that not every woman is in her category. She has a really evil way of doing things and I’ve never been surrounded by any woman that acts the way she does.
@@sunkissedmami9233 I agree, but I think you are underestimating how often this exact scenario plays out. Of course the level of the vindictiveness varies but in my experience the majority of women do petty stuff like this when they lose the power in a relationship. And I am not only talking about my experiences, I’ve seen it happen to many friends and family as well.
@@shanemurphy7277 I don’t associate with women that act as low as she does. Instead of the commenter saying “And you women” they could’ve said “women that act like this”. You women sounds like we’re pointing the finger at all women so I was clearing it up. I just find it strange that anyone in a relationship would assume anyone has power over anything but themselves. I’m submissive so I’m a yes man I love doing things for my s/o we’ve had breaks before and there were no hard feelings. It’s just so crazy seeing people lash out on the people they “love”, “loved” or “cared for” it’s weird. And I’m sorry that you even had to experience something like that and I hope you’re no longer surrounded by anyone that acts in this manner.
Call police, keep recording for evidence, then take to small claims court.
When it is all done I would leave the mess there for her to clean up.
I’m not gonna use the clips inside the video as an indictment on women as a whole, I’ll use it as an indication of the types of cultures to be aware of when choosing a woman. I can say women that come from certain cultural backgrounds breathe negativity and toxicity into the air around you.
I'd let her and sue her. Gotta hit people in their pockets
Because destroying your now ex’s property on video will definitely make him stay with you. And any man who watches this recording will definitely think your wife material and will definitely want to be with you.
I would have day by day taken some of my things out of her place and once I got all my stuff out then break up with her or wait until she goes to work and then grab my things
If you buy someone a gift, its theirs. No ifs or buts. Gift someone something, now its theirs.
I may be the only person to feel this way, but I want to know why he broke it off with her? Did he leave her for another woman? Is it her attitude? Depending on the answer, I can see why she would destroy his stuff. (not saying it's ok but I can understand) I would like to know more to this story instead of casting judgement.
Even if cheated on, no matter what reason I was left for- I would never destroy a man’s property. 1 that’s crazy and 2 its illegal. I am curious why he decided to leave, but whatever reason doesn’t justify this behavior.
Doesn't matter. Are you saying that his reason would make her less wrong? Her attitude stinks. That's a possible reason. He found someone better (more agreeable, in better shape, more attractive, whatever). That's a possible reason. Neither of those reasons can justify her actions. Mainly because if you flip the genders, the police would be on the scene immediately, and he'd be in handcuffs.
What difference it makes if he don't want her anymore she can't force him to stay by destroying his things. He should have been left her.
You do not destroy property, regardless of what the other party did. It solves absolutely nothing and if she were a dude, that’s be an easy destruction of property charge.
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Recording is the best action that guy could take. Nothing is worth the legal trouble a guy would get it if she calls the police. So often they will not believe a man. If he would have just left she could still call in a report and say anything she wants so a recording like that could keep him out of jail
Breaking up and knowing it's over with someone is no secret. Could've avoided all that drama and destruction by playing nice, giving himself plenty of time to remove all his stuff while she was out running errands.
Are you serious … another female putting blame on the guy… however he broke up with her she still is accountable for her actions . Stop blaming men for bad female actions
So you blaming the guy now wtf only thing I blame homie for is by moving in with a girl at her house
@@macanthonyonyirimba3096 That guy knew he was on his way out of that relationship. Why break up with her before he had a chance to move all his stuff safely out of an apartment he obviously had access to since they were cohabiting. It was no secret to him what kind of women he was dating. Am blaming part of that drama on him for not using the same energy he had at sneaking with other chicks behind her back. He could've used that same sneaky energy to sneak his stuff out of her apartment & out of her reach.
@@randymorninstarr5011 yes am serious. When you about to break up with someone, you know. It's no secret except to the one that's about to get dumped. They lived together so he had keys, he knows what kind of chick he was dealing with. This was not a mature way to handle this. He could've gotten all his stuff out of that apartment while she was out and about. And avoided all that drama and went on ghost mode.
What will I do? I would’ve waited for her to leave or go out with her friends. Then I would’ve grabbed my stuff and become Casper. Of course make sure make sure I have a place to live before hand. Then! I would’ve told her. If she mad she can mess up her own stuff.
Sometime u have to say to urself, how did I get myself into this? We have to take responsibilities for dealing with folks like this!
You get the police there. Period! She wouldn't do that in front of law enforcement.
Wow i really don't understand people that do this i just dont ive been hurt too but not that hurt to fu someone's stuff
Women rarely face the consequences for their actions
12:09
He got the footage. He should just leave and get his money in court. She cut everything but a few shirts and some pants but are now bleached. Get a bag? For what, shreds of clothes? Just dip homie
Record//document and file a lawsuit for destruction to private property. Depriving me of my property.
I commend him. Takes q strong man to keep his cool like he did while someone being a psycho like that n tearing up qll his shit. He's a good dude
My father destroyed our whole apartment including mine and my brother’s room after my mom said she didn’t want to put with his abuse or his cheating. So yeah there are men who do it too. Thank we weren’t harmed in the first place.
Ok and… it’s not a good behavior in HUMANS PERIOD.
Yea Yea dont deflect
What does that have to do with this video?
🧢 lmao plus we talking bout the video its not abt u
2nd clip, I’d never be in that situation, I don’t date crazy. If I was him I’d just leave, cloths can be replaced, bullet dodged.
Look here pimpn: he knew he was going to break up with her so he should have packed all of his stuff out of the house first then do that🤔🤔🤷🏿♂️🤦🏾♂️
Record and leave. File it with the police and sue for destruction of property.
Why did the guy watching that chick destroying his things not call the police and report the destruction of property. We need to set the precedent that they need to be held accountable for her actions.
Fellas, if you hit that "we're done" moment...DO NOT SAY IT WHEN YOU ARE THINKING IT!!! Take a step back, take a deep breath, tell her you're going for a drive and reserve a U-Haul. Call in sick on a day you know she's not going to be home, get your stuff while being respectful of hers. Once your stuff is safely in your dad's garage, the storage place, or your best friend's house... that's when you go back and give her the (for her) bad news. A lot of guys let their emotions get ahead of them, and they break up without an Exit Plan first.
Some, but not all women, feel that the only way to make you feel the way they feel, is to destroy your stuff. They're wrong, it's more of a really bad annoyance at us having to get replacements. But, it's best are you to keep a cool head, and stop that kind of thing before it happens. And when all is said and done, make sure your parking your car somewhere that's under video surveillance.
She losing in the end that bleach is going to mess up the floor.
He did right, just record then take her to civil court get his money plus for damages and go on about his business, moral of the story, start removing your stuff before you drop the news
I would have called the cops because I can't restrain her or else I'm going to jail. I have a legal right to defend myself and my property and I have video evidence of the destruction of my property.
He better be taking her to court with that video evidence!
If a man Did something like that to the woman's belongings or possessions, she would call the cops and make up all kinds of stories!
Why this fool just sitting there letting her do that.
Moral of the story : Always rescue your luggage home to safety before you break up 😂
I do tattoos and if I'm trying to get my stuff and go and you're stopping that, you're impeding my business which is another charge in and of itself...
It's real simple!!!! Never live in a woman house?
It is so pathetic that she lied about being pregnant to try and keep a man. Same thing with the man shaking up in a woman's house and having her buy his clothing. If you do not want to be with her keep your silence, get your stuff while she is gone and LEAVE!
the destruction of property is something that is instigated from the female in the relationship. and to those women who are saying "she bought it for him", if you say you don't want to be together anymore with a man who has proposed to you, are you ok if he destroys the ring that he gave you?
Can't, call the cops, fore it will be twisted and turned against him
He should've called the police and and pressed charges on her. I'd have her locked up for destruction of personal property.
Record, Call the Police, and Press Charges.
13:26 Agreed. I’ve noticed that it hurts more when a person acts cool calm and collected. It confuses the person wanting to leave cause they expect an argument but instead you help them pack up, nicely escort them to their car, wish them better luck with their next relationship, you will see that in several months they will be trying to come back. Unfortunately once that chapter has closed it’s done for ever. So yea lesson to the ladies who like to argue and fight all the time. Don’t waist the energy on arguing over a topic you know will go nowhere, instead listen and abide with what ever the other person wants. If they want to leave, just let them know that there is no coming back, than proceed to see if there can be someway to work it out, but if he is determined to leave just get up help him pack up even if you are dying inside and your emotions are all over the board, help him pack up, wish him the best and when the door closes behind him, that’s when you go and let all your emotions go. Throw the pillows drink some wine, write on the journal, anything to relieve the pain but don’t cause more damage and stress on anyone else. Just my opinion. I can only pray that women and men can take some advice sometimes, the world would be a better place.
Record and call the police. Then press charges.
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 wait wait wait lololol if this is her house..... Where is her "table" ? I found that funny
Yo! Fan from South Africa here!!!
This happens too often. A friend of mine went through the same thing. His girl found out he's cheating and went to his home and destroyed his R 24 000 PC. And the girl just walked away with no charges. If i was the guy, i would have sued the heck out of her
Call the cops, record everything and get restitution for the property damaged.