Dark Reality Of Indian Marriages EXPOSED By Top Divorce Lawyer | The 1% Club Show | Ep. 15
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What is the dark reality of Indian Marriages, as told by India’s TOP divorce lawyer
Meet Adv. Vandana Shah, India's eminent Divorce & Family Lawyer, a best-selling author, and a recognized figure in the legal realm.
In this exclusive video, we delve into the intriguing realm of Divorce Finance, covering:
💼 5 steps to safeguard wealth in divorce for men
⚖️ The legality of prenups in India
💔 Impact of cheating on divorce
🤯 Shocking reasons that lead to divorce
💰 Alimony dynamics for women
🛡️ 3 things women can do to protect themselves from divorce
💸 Cost of a good divorce lawyer in India
Ready to have your mind blown? 🚀
Watch the full video and share your thoughts in the comments below. Vandana Shah's insights are gold - let's make this conversation enlightening! 🗣️👇🏻
Disclaimer: This video is for educational purpose only.
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Timeline
[0:00] : Highlights
[0:55] : 5 steps to safeguard wealth in divorce for men
[5:38] : Legality of prenups in India
[6:30] : Bollywood's high-profile divorces
[7:00] : Impact of cheating on divorce
[10:27] : Shocking reasons that lead to divorce
[12:40] : Reality of Indian family courts
[13:35] : Bribery in divorce cases
[14:50] : Largest divorce settlement
[15:30] : Women's divorce protection
[17:20] : Divorce due to abuse
[19:19] : Cost of a good divorce lawyer in India
[20:03]: Marriage tips for happiness
[20:22] : Advice for those in divorce
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Sharan Hegde is a personal finance expert who has been featured in Forbes, Economic Times, Mint, Times of India and many more. He is the Founder of The 1% Club, India's biggest finance community which helps people achieve financial independence.
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Someone once said, "A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything, a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing."
Its fidelity not loyalty. That's because Indian society is still based on "Man is a breadwinner logic" of the family. This needs to change.
this will not chagne till the end of this world. lol . nature decided like this way . go and watch baja govindam lyrics . Once breadwinner is women she wil control the relationship making it un easy for both. @@KaranBagga87
@@KaranBagga87 for that the gynocentric laws of marriage also has to change , compulsory dna testing of child at birth, no alimony for an independent women etc tbose have to happen first do you agree?
@@GODdankthen there should be a law that you can't force your independent wife to do household chores.
both will equally pay for the maid
and will pay for their own expenses.
@@AM-nx2iw only if both work and the type of profession the man has for example if the man does labour intensive job like a construction worker,surgeon or any of those types of jobs the man is already exahuasted he should not have to come and do house chores if that is the case the same goes for the women. For a good relationship balance has to be maintained.
Feeling bad for the good men and women who give their best for their marriage to work.
there is nothing bad about it - think that way in old times one main person was the leader and many son/grandkids where taken care by elderly person - same concept but now that individual income is happening they have to take the responsibility
videos like this bring out the bad in front of us and scares us to shit
The irony is that nowadays in most couples only one of them is honest and sincerely working on the marriage, the other is just trying to take advantage. If husband is trying, then wife is the culprit and if wife is the sincere one husband is the culprit
@Trentz2 so true
@@Trentz2correct 😢
This woman is very mature and well-informed. She isn't running any agenda or something, just talking practicals. Loved this conversations.
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Its her profession, so naturally she is knowledgeable
@@itn0687many people tend to take sides in their profession too. She doesn't look like those. She even advised women as well to take some precautions.
Bcz she has faced the same with only 750 rupees
She is talking from life experience. In her first marriage, she was thrown out of the house with just 750 rupees in her hand. Her own divorce battle took 8 years and she was abused and character assassinated. She has emerged like a Phoenix.
By listening to this podcast I m getting the vibes like preparing for divorce before getting married. My God it's really Scary 😨
Same feeling😂😂
Dont rush on your marriage. See a girl through and through. Dont hesitate if she is bit elder, bit shorter or bit dusky. You never know if she is the one who will be treating your parents better than you, teaching your kids better than school and loving you more than anything. Respect is the key. Also dont marry someone who has dated mindlessly before. The flashbacks of her past will ruin your marriage.
This is 1%club not for everyone😅
Don't marry
@@codingiscreativity without intimacy can a male live ?
It's scary to get married. Better to be single than be cheated and go through all these mental exhaustion
Scare kicchu na, bhalo chele dekhe biye koro
@@sayanghosh3544 kothai pawa jai tader. Ami to bari thekei beroina 😂😂😂
@@Figuringout.404 "S" diye naam shuru hoy r "ayan" diye naam sesh hoy dekho seo hoyto tomar e moton karuke khujche 😎
I wrote exactly this in my comment that girls would not wanna marry if they were to become Bhikhari after giving years into marriage instead of earning for themselves?
Ki kora pabey ?
Tomra sudhu Boro lok khujba to pabey Poisa poisa kora chaley khojo
Ar jokhon sai poisa wala onno may nia moja kora tokhon tomar jhaal laga jai 😂😂😂😂
Dosh ta tomader Women is Worst decision maker@@Figuringout.404
Marriages are scary but family forcing for marriage is more scary 💢 💢
Families only force for marriage if ur earning well😂.
Being attacked by a bear is scary - not these things. Weakling generations.
😂@@SodiumSyndicate
Good point
@amisri5026 I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT in a MNC AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
For those who don’t know, the industrialist is Sandeep Toshniwal and his estranged wife Dr.Ashrita, a Mumbai-based dentist. The Bollywood actress is Karishma Kapoor, sister of Kareena Kapoor who had filed for divorce from her ex-husband Sunjay Kapoor.
But Sandeep and Karishma broke up poor things 😄
Don't even trust a wife even after 25 years! Her uncle dessha drohi Nambinarayan the ISRO scientist!😂😂😂😂😂protected her from police?
If only men are cheaters, then all are them are gay!😂😂😂😂😂😂
Both persons don't know divorce and remarriage are to save income tax!😂😂😂😂
Nambi narayan was not a anti national guy
You don't know anything
He got so many offers but he rejected
He was a Princeton graduate
Some people trapped him
Supreme court said he Is innocent
@@dhanamjayas
This is an eye opener for women in India. Financial stability for a woman is very important to protect herself and her children.
Yeah but what she said was a bit confusing. She told men to not have joint property with their wives and then told women to get their names under at least one property to have a roof over her head.? 👀
There are false 498a and rape cases and DV cases just for money and land and laws are so biased they dont listen to man side and tilk the time his turn comes he is alsready been to jail, a d dorced to pay maintenence.
As per NCRB there are 90% false 498a and 80% rape cases.
Ao women can easily get money by false case where as men suffer BUT what this trend is doing is causing the taint to the reputation who are actually suffering.
@@parishmitadeori92 true that..was looking for this comment...this padcast seems biased
@@abhimanyu7748 yeah according to me, I think it is much better to buy a house together after marriage instead of living with in-laws, and pay the EMI of that house together as well so at least if it comes to divorce, no one would feel bad to divide the assets value 50/50. And it would be easier to buy a new house that way too.
Financial stability at the cost of?
Other women? Who work as maids, hair and makeup artists?
I kept my jewelry separate and didn't give it to my mother-in-law, Its been 15 years and she never spoke to me just because of jewelry
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
That's a good thing. If she isn't speaking, enjoy the peace. 😂
So it's a win-win situation. Great!
So you're telling me that you saved your own jewellery from your greedy mother- in- law and on top of that she doesn't talk to you.😅
Good move
If she is not talking because of jewellery better not have her
it's laughable how many men are saying marriages are scary now. like it hasn't always been that way for women in an arranged marriage society
Men are scared about losing his money
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So before having a meal, you check everyone in your neighborhood has eaten? Why should I care about other people and other timelines. I will only care about my wellbeing. Do you care about the men who do vast majority of dangerous jobs? No you don't and you shouldn't have to. Similarly men need to look after themselves.
@@thusspokezarathustra1847 "do you care about men who do dangerous jobs"? do you mean workers? the proletariat? the labourers? because when we do talk about the conditions of the mines which btw also employ children people like you start throwing around words like commie like insults. do you care about the men in gaza dying for no reason? do you care about the congo crisis which also affects believe it or not men? do you support the farmers here? many protesting rn are also men. do you care about manual scavengers? it's a job that shouldn't exist but does because casteism
When she said the man gets richer and finds her wife not good enough...
Is said.
My parents went through divorce idk the reason
I'm still trying my best to find out I'm still 19 and i think I've right to find out..
This gives me attachment anxiety..
My mom and dad both are Living their new lives with new spouse I'm with my father and
I feel I'm the one suffering from their separation the most!
It's scary relationship are really scary
hang in there.. patiently.. It will take time to understand. Find good friends.... any friendship/ relationships are built over time.
God bless u. Find your own life
Chill bro, divorced kid here, you are your own life, not your parents, live life for you first.
Not for them.
You will heal, you will be loved. You will have to believe that.
Make friends and hobbies. Their lives is not your life.
It's so rewarding to have a good partner no matter what changes in life. These rich people have no clue what they miss out on. God evens it out eventually.
Have a personal connection with God and explain to God what today's world has become. God can see
But women want rich guys
yes... no amount of money can beat the comfort of having someone you love dearly and who loves you back dearly
that's basic.. no one want to see their child grow up in poor household. just like not every women wants to be mothers, similary not every guy deserves a woman@@roshinitoenlightenment
nobody wants to willingly choose a bad person. Where is the question of missing out! Maybe its the payoff of our karma but nobody wants bad people in their life. Don't blame someone for missing things out. They did not want it that way.
I grew up in an upper-middle-class Indian neighbourhood in the 90s. It was an open secret that 9 out of 10 husbands cheated repeatedly. Some were verbally or physically abusive too. But we rarely saw divorces, the wives had to swallow the bitter pill and look the other way. If divorce was so lucrative, why did it not occur more frequently then, or why do some women rather kill themselves instead of getting divorced. I can't help but wonder what changed from then to now.
Social stigma has changed over the years. Also society cares less now a days about others. For example Now pornstars have become celebs. In 90s they would have been ostracized from society.
Previously a divorcee was seen with a very stigmatized lens. Now every alternative household may have one person getting divorce. After few month of gossip, No one judges whether you got divorce or how much money you got in alimony.
@nickim270 I think, not much has changed. Getting a divorce is still a hassle and expensive for a middle class family. Also, less women are financially dependent on their husbands now. And can earn a living on their own.
@@DEEPANJANBISWASwhat pornstars are celebrities? The indian divorce rate is less than 1% for your information.
isn't that a good development though? why should anyone be forced to stay in relationships when either of them is cheating?
@@hitesh6245 it definitely is a good development and I feel sad when people are against divorces and want women to compromise and live in an abusive marriage in the name of culture and traditions
Great topic by sharan . I am glad that the creators are coming forward and talking about the ground reality of matrimonial disputes.
the same person was already interviewed.. in a similar topic, by ranveer allahbadia.
I think sharan is rich
@@nomadd27828 Ra Shamani
How cool ! India doesn't have a word for divorce or talaak. Dharm compares more than one partner to animals who lack morals.
See the uneasiness feeling on Sharan's face doing such sensitive interviews. He is very careful. Kudos to him!
Loved the Video Sharan. A much required one. And perfectly balanced😊
You are a good podcast host, you don't disturb others
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
Her advice are so genuine, practical and basic. She must be a good person too!
Listening to this after being shot, it took me 6 years to meet my own daughter introduce myself, inform my 7 year old my name... It isn't only about the money - torcher is prevalent on both sides but identified as women's issue only in our country...
@madhusmitasethi768 I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
Wdym shot? Your wife shot you!??
Most women don't accept men are having issues. They have made it a competition as men vs women.
Nothing compared to what men do to women on a daily basis
It's nothing compared to what XY chromosomes do to women on a daily basis
A must-watch for young urban couples looking to tie the knot. Thanks so much, learned a great deal.
Choosing wisely for partner I think is the only best advice for singles
Humans can change anytime so just go with the flow 😄
It's easier not to make a choice at all. Because it brings the odds of a mistake down to 0, essentially.
@@pritapp788 Right. It is like a gambling. If you get good, loyal partner then your life is good otherwise heartbreaks and challenges are inevitable.
@@aileen8492no I don't think it's true. A lot of people have said these post-break up that the red flag signs were always there. They just overlooked it until they couldn't. I'm pretty sure with divorce also it's the same.
What I feel is you should date each other for at least 4-5 yrs to know whether you're compatible or not with each other and then think about marriage.
@@parishmitadeori92 date 4-5 years in India? Everyone is not so lucky
I'm unmarried and watching this video 😅
Lucky guy😂
This video is for unmarried people.
Bruh i am 14 yr old 😂😂
.don't see the beauty of the girl ..see the family. Ensure the girl mother is docile..in most cases it's mother and the character she inculcate into girl matters...
Much better to marry with foreigner like in PHILIPINES or RUSSIA or NEPAL instead of indian girl, CROSS BORDER divorce would be very hard and forgot about COMPENSATION
If u had to take so many precautions and feel like u need protection from ur own spouse, just don't enter into that relationship, better not marry. The best advice is to not marry until u feel like ur marriage is definitely going to add to ur happiness and not to ur insecurities. No trust, no marriage. Also take care to not be blackmailed into trusting.
I really like this comment.
It's better to date for at least 4-5 yrs to properly know whether you are compatible with each other or not.
l take. definitley said by a woman or a simp. if woman trust their lovers whats the need for marriage certificate
@@Terahydronlegal contract is there so she wouldn't get dumped after getting pregnant.
@@kanikakumari7219 but cheating is legal?
Even if the woman cheats,the asks for divorce he still has to pay alimony?
Would have loved to hear about asset protection trusts and if that would be useful
Seedhi baat no bakwas.
Loved the podcast.
Marring someone is getting scary and scary with each day ! be it in abroad or her itself in India
abroad is better
In future there will be no marriage in India
Its better be scary bcos you raja betas are always the privileged one when it comes to indian marriage market. I mean no matter how bad u guys look you know your mom will find you the best looking young girl after rejecting and judging almost 20 girls ..thad lady will become the slave of your house for the rest of her life. That has been norm of our typical indian society which is still practiced in many parts of india and u guys also believe in it. But fortunately women have their own voice now , they cant be fooled , they have understood their worth and wont take bullshxt for anyone . Her parents have also invested in her education She too works hard. So she gives it back and thats where problem starts
@@Sylhetihindu23so just because of some asshole whole men community should suffer. I think you need a therapist madam🙏
@@FXBillionaire no
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First time I have like the Interviewer, allowing the guest to speak and asking to the point questions.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do I reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white, and she is a great spiritual counsellor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Hi...I'm sorry you are going through this. However, it is not her that you're missing. These obsessive thoughts about her, you not being able to stop thinking about her, not being able to see your life with anyone else but her- all of this indicates an issue that runs much deeper. It deals with your unmet childhood needs.
I have been through what you're going through and trust me, I can relate.
Here's a video to help you get out of this rut. It definitely kickstarted my journey of getting out of the rut that I was in and I'm sure it will help you as well.
Here's the link: th-cam.com/video/8ExpDtgRnLc/w-d-xo.html
You will get out of this phase. You just need to get to the root of why you're in there in the first place. Good luck, and best wishes :)
I always felt middle class is the community that is upholding the values, culture and tradition of our country but it was just a hunch based on my observation of my surroundings. But now this video confirms it. Middle class is actually great. Meanwhile the poor and rich are not that different. Both get drunk and pass out on the kerbs, both have no culture and dont value tradition, both get involved in scandals, both have no inhibitions etc The root cause of thehir behaviour ? For the poor its the lack of money and for the rich its the abundance of money. Middle class live their life on moderation. Proud to be one
I agree 100% I'm a middle class girl with a family deep in spirituality, and never have a been more proud!!!
Absolutely 💯 true
Exactly
The middle class doesn't exist. If you earn 25000, you are in the top ten percent of earners in the country. The poor are the middle class de facto. And stop feeling morally superior to the poor; you force them to work for you for barely a living wage, and then when they drink to forget their troubles, you sneer at them. If tomorrow, all the farm labourers, all the sanitation workers and maids, all the mechanics and plumbers, all the street vendors of groceries vanished, your precious society would be on its ass.
exatly... poor ppl become lazy from freebies of middle class tax payers
ultra rich leave the country to avoid paying tax,, only middle class runs the country...
but a succesful nation is that country where the ultra rich works like middle class values and ethics and ultra poor works hard to become a middle class
This video is so informative and fun to watch as well seeing how the Lawyer is chill & cool.
We need such kind of information and educational videos especially for us men
Good episode. Thanks for calling her on board for this!
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Most informative 20 mins for this generation 😢.. keep up the good work Sharan😊
Thanks for time stamps
Superb talk! Deadly and smart combination... finance and relationships
Pre-nup is not illegal. It is legal in Goa. In other places, it is a big grey area and courts are ruling in favour of pre-nup. It is being said that UCC will validate pre-nup but nobody wants to give up money received for free.
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
no need to bringin ucc to get pre nup .stop spaming sanghi propaganda
Thank you so much mam, you are saving millions of lives. ❤
Better not to marry. No live in. Nothing. Engage only in casual and fun and non committal or engage with a married woman whole life do this. Simple
Much needed video brother,thanks a lot for this⚡️👊
Kudos to Sharan for picking this topic up and damn this lady is so mature, experienced and knowledgeable in this. Her expressions and communication skills are actually very good.
Thanks for asking good questions. ❤ from Karnataka
very informtive Sharan and maam
Editing is Fantastic ❤
Thanks for making video on important topics. And please continue make like this topic it Will help us some level
Very Important and Must listen Podcasts for Young Generation.
Maam has a great sense of humor, loved listening to her.
Problem is when you are so calculated like what she says..ypur marriage is bound to fail and youll end up needing her..choose the right person no hurry.
This was quite informative as per the length of the video
Money matters most . If no money no relation. No money no honey
Hence why modern women are undesirable.
No equal effort no freeloading,
@@Travel_Junkie007no seal no deal 😅
@@imrankb022goes both ways.
That’s the basic filtration i use if she looking at my money bye bye from me no matter how much you cry… also i developed an eye for early detection of such people eyeing my money. I respectfully break up with them nd they still wonder what happened really.
Sharan I think you can make some videos educting people to research properly before investing in stock market and also you can recommend some of the safe stocks to invest as a beginner....
I will engage with married woman only, no risk of divorce, No live in and full enjoyment. No commitment. No obligation, no responsibilities, no children. I WILL BE ABLE TO CONCENTRATE ON CAREER AND HUGE MONEY AS THEIR WILL BE NO Responsibilities. WILL BECOME A VICE PRESIDENT, SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT, AND WILL ENGAGE IN CASUAL DATING AND MARRIED WOMAN ONLY. VERY SIMPLE FUNDA IN LIFE
this is a much needed lesson for young men! m 35 and i faced this first wife cheats then she steals! u r screwed!
U r right
I am thinking on switching careers and becoming a divorce lawyer. I am tired of this boring 9 to 5.
First get divorced. That would be a good start to your new career.
@@christopherlobo8082wtf😂
And it sounds like an action packed career!
In this Era 40% people don't want to marry
Really?😅
Food for thought!!! the law of a country speaks a volume about its people 's mentality. meanwhile in india. Adultry is legal but prenup is not? what does that says about us as a socity!!!!
It says that women's participation in the workforce is low and the govt has to think abt such ppl as well. And what better way that making them someone else's responsibility
@ritikasingh9555 begging at his finest
@@thanos4570 true
@@thanos4570😅😅😅😅
@@ritikasingh9555 if wife leaves with her boyfriend, then why husband be responsible for maintenance to wife?
Awesome session and awesome knowledge transfer 🔥🔥
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The case she is mentioned is it sandeep toshniwal and karishma kapoor? It was in news.
Badi badi batein wada paw khate.
@@ba-dum_tss You are such a stupid .......It does not work that way .......when both partners are making money it becomes joint income. and that is half n half divided between the two party but if he has included his Ancestry properties to add name of his partner or wife He has to pay half to her Plus all man makes women takecare of childeren and if that reason she has to get extra support to child expense for each child - Father has to contribute
she is talking BS no one can sit on board of directors of so many companies , she didnt meet anyone in her gym either its all a made up story and you dont meet gym dudes with 1000 crore networth in a gym they are indoors making deals daily, and with just 20cr net worth you can afford to have a home gym at home..
@@arunsadanandabhat8518one can have gym membership which is an chain across India/abroad
In mumbai 20 cr is nothing u wont be able to built ur home gym..in suburbs u get 400 sq ft in 1.5 cr..apartments in south mumbai are in 20 -35 crore range..@@arunsadanandabhat8518
Hi Sharan, Make a complete series on this topic from both males and females perspectives, how both can defend their resources, i think this topic still needs proper education and syllabus in India.
Women happily share dominant superior succesfull men as long as the men take care of them. Chastity is valued in women by men, women only value success and provision in men. When a man can take care of a 100 women, they will share him happily - this is something weak pathetic men refuse to understand about the real nature of women.
Prenups are not illegal, they are just not recognized by the courts. There's a difference. In rare cases, prenups have been recognized though.
In US pre nups is the norm accepted by the courts
Great.
Raj shamani and beer biceps should start doing content on similar topics. Indian laws on marriage and everything related
Raj shamani has already done a 1 hour podcast with this lady
Yes....same interview
I as man think, firstly we should try to earn more and more money then marry a good girl or if you are unable to be rich it is good to marry a poor good lady
Love vandana madam... Great podcast
Mark my words, Next 10 years in India, Divorce rate is gonna SKY ROCKET.... Everyone will have atleast 1 individual in their aquaintance who got divorced or getting divorced.. I can see change in People's behavioural pattern. Millenials, Gen Z are getting more self centric. Take screenshot of this. See after 10 years India's Family culture system is slowly dying.
You are 100% correct. I am saying this right now
I don't think so Indian people tend to marry at generally 27-30 unlike America europe where there are lot of teenage couple getting married and in India getting a divorce relatively harder.
@@ashishdhal4614shits changing
I am a GenZ and I am indeed slowly becoming Self Centric
New generation .....will not spend so much money on marriages.....in next 10 years....
Superb topic....👌
Thank u sharan.. i am going through this phase.. mams insights have shown me direction..
Very interesting and informative one!!
Its better to just be, earn for ur parents, provide them with everything, then sage off and die after they're gone... This marriage is depressing, ones things go south. Even if u have reselience to adapt and live through any situation, your partner wont have the same tendency and mind set.
Always men, a cursed life. No where can they enjoy their own hardwaork, no where can they exit this loop...
Good women (mothers) have such a different loop .
This has trippled my depression.
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People have to be taught how to find a good partner rather than all this coz it is your partner and the kids you have with who you have a long lasting relationship in your life and your friends don’t deserve as much credit rarely they stay throughout your life.
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Thank you Sharan for this episode
She seems very genuine person. Very soothing voice also.
If you are not ready to give 50% of your money to your wife, you shouldn't get married. If you can not divide the household income 50-50 every single month, do not get married. If the wife can not share her income with you 50-50, do not get married. Marriage is a 50-50 partnership. If you can not commit to that partnership, better stay single. Spend at least 7-8 years with your fiance before getting married to understand her completely. My 2 cents.
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What's the need to monetary exchange in alliance of consenting two people lol. Both should earn, no need to divide household income. Go for simple court wedding and in case it fails get a mutual divorce without any monetary exchange.
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs There's a difference between roommates and family. In the poor class both the husband and wife has to work like slaves in offices to earn enough money to feed the family. However, when the husband earns more than enough, then the mother can look after the children. She doesn't need to work as an office slave. Brining up children with absent working parents is the worst a parent can do to their children. A slave working in an office doesn't have a higher status than a mother who stays at home. Yes, I am calling all jobs as slavery because it is what it is. No other way to put it. If it is for self-actualization, then do it without pay.
To some extent it’s true. I would give it happily. The question remains of assets on both parents sides.I guess that’s where the scale of acrimony and potential difference would start to affect the outcome
Yeah, those assets should be transferred to a trust or something because that's totally different. Some people might only marry because of such assets.@@mganla
This has been very insightful and makes so much sense. Being a general lower middle class below median paid employee of MNC in contemporary time, not getting married makes so much sense.
Great and a very important conversation!
It’s a great intersection into how finance and a divorce overlap with each other. Which is why this conversation is important but there is somewhat of a bias between who can abuse and who can’t . A rich guy can only be exploited but a woman can’t experience emotional abuse, unavailability at the hands of a rich guy but she can face abuse in middle class and poor families only. It assumes that because a rich guy is educated he cannot be abusive whereas there are many such examples.Infact rich guys can be abusive because of having many options. They are higher instances of cheating their spouses.
You are right...some data released last month is that rich people divorce rate very less than the middle class.. so mutual understanding between couples is to healthy relationship...
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Madam you are thinking are very much the old kind of generation. Nowadays boys have a gaurav rai case type condition of every Indian man 😢
@@forgaming5640 well as you may have heard the advocate men cheat way more than women and unfortunately it’s still a reality of the Indian society.
If anything goes bad then go for a counselling. If both are willing to change themselves then put effort. It will work. Don’t go for divorce. ❤️
People don't change. With time and experience they get better at hiding their flaws and activities.
marry me lol
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Sharan Thank You .....its informative
superb information got from blogs, thanks madam & Sharan👌👌
Weird to say but the truth is Investing wisely is crucial, especially considering the financial implications of divorce settlements
Divorce settlements often involve significant financial adjustments. Investing strategically can help mitigate the impact and ensure long-term financial stability.
Any experiences or advice on managing investments during or after divorce?
How can a person start without making big initial mistakes?
I've heard positive things about advisors, Nathan Travis Cook, who specialize in divorce financial planning amongst other expertise
I didn't know he was known in india too
The Prblm is women have laws to protect their interest but men don't have it.
If women cheats she still going to get child custody, property sharing, alimony, maintenance Money etc.
But if a men cheats he still looses all those things.
Heh didn't you watch the video? She clearly said that the judge's decision mostly shifts towards the victim in case of adultery even if it is legal cuz no one likes an adulterer.
@@parishmitadeori92 this is no way to live at the mercy of judge. what is adultery cant be proven. anyway no one getting a virgin bride
Women get custody because they are going to be the ones to change a child's diaper, bath them, feed them. Men can file for custody as well they just don't because it's easier to pay money than taking care of a child 24x7.
@@parishmitadeori92 yeah but in most cases they think the womn are the innocent ones, but in reality this things only work against malws
@@PushkarVichare-tb6hy ok then tell me one case you know around you where women was cheating but the case went against the man. Come out of your delulu world. Any case in India takes years because our law believes no innocent should be punished no matter how long justice takes.
Amazing Podcast🙌🏼👏🏼
One of the best informatory videos seen recently
How does Vandana Ji gets compensated? If she settled a 500 crore deal, which is a huge amount, she should be paid accordingly, as she deserves that amount
😂😂 so if doctor performs and saves life of big shot he should give doctor crores 😂😂😂
Sharan, your dimples are to die for ❤ please keep smiling.
Much needed topic!!
Thank you brother for such podcasts. This is a social service of awareness i will say. 🙏
Relationships nowadays have been very scary
For men not for women
For men not for women 😂😂😂
Yea if there are rights for women protection, there should be equal rights for males also, there are too many things which males are suffering.
@@KartikiTrivedi I'm leaving India in few months because of this laws. As a man i feel unsafe to live in a country where these people are making this kind of stupid one sided laws
As a woman I'd like to highlight that feminism and constitutional laws are being misused by some of the women, Men to stay safe and alert if they get any false alarms. All women are not misusing their protective rights, there are issues where women are still suffering like work life balance in patriarchy, not having freedom of career, choice and talent, social insecurities, workplace harassment, these are still prevalent across India where true feminism is supposed to be shown.
Why to get married in the first place when you are independent enough to take care of yourself
Not everyone is the same, some people need companions after an age while it might sound cool to not marry while young, while some love kids , while other follow the culture/tradition or for religious reasons. both have ad and disadvantages:
Not marrying would make you do whatever you wish to and not have any major responsibility except those who are taking care of parents but also are lonely at later stages.
Marriage can have lots of responsibility and specially nowadays is of no use for men, but also at later stages you have good companion and children who takes care of you even if it's sometimes provided you have good children and not the bad ones who leave parents.
she is so knowledgeable. can hear her talk all day...
Informative podcast..❤
Very sensible! After a marriage still continue to be individual and keep bills separate. It takes ages to get to know someone. No need to put 100% trust into a chance.
If youre marrying a good person, they wouldnt have problem with your boundaries
Better not to marry. No live in. Nothing. Engage only in casual and fun and non committal or engage with a married woman whole life do this. Simple
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@akhosla9460 nah not all men are that degenerate , atleast a lot i know aren't but you are still right due to things like these becoming so complicated more and more men are pushed towards that idea , i mean wasn't love supposed to be one of the most raw feelings and look at it now how complicated
Women happily share dominant superior successful men as long as the men take care of them. Chastity is valued in women by men, women only value success and provision in men. When a man can take care of a 100 women, they will share him happily - this is something weak pathetic men refuse to understand about the real nature of women.
Stop marrying rich and successful guys then. Career women are undesirable to any manly man.
@@RealRock9460 Prostitution is the oldest female career, no wonder.
When you view everything with the lens of money it goes bad,boy or girl find someone who was culturally bought up they celebrate all festivals and not pampered much and have wisdom,if you go by looks and money that last maximum for 2years you need to connect at a different level once you do you can’t live without each other.
Super interesting podcast!✨
im 37 getting rejected amazingly , why because i never wanted to take a risk,
Be brutal before getting married with every single habit in the first call or meet, don't run behind impressing people.
@ 9:10 it seems Karishma Kapoor's story.😂
Who is the industrialist?
It is her story.
Sorry but the podcast was more about how bad it is for men rather than how to protect yourself (for men) especially
thats the sad fate in this country.. when they copied all the western culture, they didnt copy the import ones like the prenap... that shows how good the law is!
I liked the ring Sharan wearing on index finger. Where can I get? Someone please help.
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As you mentioned about The MWP act , there is a possibility of revocation of MWP and then the Fresh nomination is possible. change of nomination with a small process. Surrendering or closing a policy would not be the right. Correct me if I am wrong.
The purpose of the video, is not to get scared of marriage, if you are patient and loyal enough to yourself and your partner, focus on building a successful marriage with love, then divorce wouldnt happen, this is just for educating ourselves in an untowardly situation, marriages our beautiful with a right person beside !! Believe in it !!
Agreed but people are losing faith in marriages that's sad reality in India
People should live in reality. It's not being scared it's being careful. There are literal WhatsApp groups where women plan on getting millions from famous guys like NBA players etc.
It's better not to get married.
That was not the point😅, how to prepare to take the hit😅
Most of the laws in India are biased towards women many girls accuse guys of false rape cases there is no law to protect men unfortunately
this is how marriage works you listen to him or he listens to you it doesn't go both ways or it will end up in divorce
In our family 2 of my cousins had divorce. Onn got divorce cuz he was in affair with a girl and afte divorce he paid 25 lac to his ex wife. Meanwhile other cousin also filed for divirce bt this time women did adultery. bt his wife didn't pay any money 😂. Marriage is biased😂
Did your 2nd cousin give alimony to his cheater wife? Please tell
@@amiyarana8733 why? Cuz his wife was the culprit. And they didn't have any kids. But according to law in adultery the culprit should pay money to the victim if the victim asks for it. They were living in US where adultery is still a crime in some States. Although in India if wife does adultery then it's not crime💀. Our laws related to marriage are archaic. I literally have a fear for arriange marriage. Cuz I saw so many arriange marriage divorces till now. Women are becoming more and more materialistic & marrying for money and when men stop earning women ditch men. and when man marries for lust and then his partner fails to satisfy sexual needs then men do affair. Now sex is taboo so I don't think any man or woman talks about it before marriage.
There is no provision for a women in adultery tonpay any money. Courts could summon adulterer and cross question But that is a non compulsive notice.
@@bowman3431 yeah there was , supreme kotha struck it down
I just love this woman. She advocates for both sides. I especially love how she advocates for women's financial independence. It's not only beneficial for the woman but for the family s a whole.
This is very new information that one wouldn’t even think of as a young adult but looks so important. Thanks!
This conversation reminds of a meme that
Modern zamana keh kar dahej nahi lia tha
Lekin jab divorce hua jaate jaate aadhi property lete gayi