@@ohboi6210 I actually read it’s first half but i dont know sometimes i get sidetracked by all the scenarios he insert in between and I dont really know how to utilize this book
@@scarfacemmm first of all, this book is about helping you changing by yourself, it’s not about how you utilize whatever the scenarios he input, and you even haven’t finished the book. If you really get what he’s trying to convey, you wouldn’t have this problem
This book is incredible and should be a standard for anyone suffering from OCD and Pure OCD. It has worked for many people we know. Great book Mark, and fantastic interview.
product of our environment is strong. And being like our parents comes from genetics. I'm Not a specialist but have spent most of my life trying to not to be like one of my parents as far as the negative stuff I see that parent does. We have mental health issues in my family and Im always trying to figure out what not to be like.
Hey Lewis, long time listener but never commented on any of your work. Just wanted to reach out and say I really appreciate all the content you put out, the story you tell, and everything you do. Thank you, thank you thank you!
Suffer better..........That is it for me. Pain = pain, grief is grief, missing=missing, business = hard work. Life has 2 sides, problems have 2 sides, success has 2 sides of it. Lewis just acknowledges this. The meaning of the hurtful lesson (s) : What can I learn from this ? Lewis gets better, and better. Mark just go back ! and making some music, give yourself this present. The experience of living your true potential........Thanks.
3 minutes in and I can't wait to watch the whole thing. One of my favourite books, I plan on making a video reviewing that book. Always get good vibes after watching your videos!
Interesting discussion. It's weird how the word 'like' is used as every second word in a sentence/statement these days. It's surpassing age barriers. I noticed a couple of things seemed drawn from Big Magic but I guess the more motivation out there in the universe the better. Nothing is original after all. I think most self help is impossible to be absorbed and applied but if you can draw a motivational vibe from it then it has done some good.
Great, priceless talk! I just finished reading his book and that brought me here (: Truly the BEST book I've read this year. Thank you, Mark! You're so honest, real, hilarious and I like that you don't try too hard. You talk like you write and write like you talk, which is definitely a very good thing!
Lewis, This interview is life changing. Iv been stuck in the mode of perfectionism and people pleasing. Now I have something different to meditate on to see what I really want. Thank you!
Thank you so much Lewis for the inspiration and many different fronts. Mark, I'm looking forward to upgrading my problems. I am enjoying the process. Much obliged, ~Roberto
Hey Lewis, I have enjoyed many of your interviews recently and they have given me amazing insights but I have to say that this one was just mind blowing! Outstanding down to earth talk between two amazing men. Congrats to both of you and thank you so much for sharing it. Beijos from Brazil!
Great interview, my only criticism is at the beginning the interviewer says the way to end suffering is to stop being self obsessed, but no enquiry goes into that point, because of course easier said than done..
The dream... That was me and becoming a doctor back in college. It sounded good and I said it for YEARS in my childhood but I wasn't taking the MCAT or even studying... fact is I sucked at sciences lol Great interview!
I've been following Mark's blog for some months now and I have to say that the guy has great articles, love it. Well done Lewis! Any chance to have Tucker Max on the show ? Would be great
Lewis, I was amused when you read out the title. I listened to so many of your podcasts and never heard you swear before :) (You don't even say "Oh my God"). Anyways, keep up the good work!!!!!!!!!!!
yuuuusssssss. gold. i had this book in my hand yesterday at Barnes and Nobel but couldn't decide what books to buy. concider me convinced. great interview. time to dip into audio books for my cruising around the islands 🚘🏝💯
Hey. I would recommend a book called "the confidence gap". Its similar to "subleArtofNotGivingAfuck" but it goes more in depth and its scientific on how to live a better life. But it might not be as entertaining as marks book. Its based on Acceptance and Commitment therapy
I'm not a housewife, not even a parent, but I can't believe that Lewis thinks that "housewives" have no impact. Parents have tremendous impact, whether they also work outside of their house or not.
Ellen Eastwood homemaking is a natural calling for most women and if done right then it betters the society by creating good character men and women. Today, society sucks because there was no mother to work on their character or should i say no good mother or father to model oneself after. Home is the foundation of society and good homemakers, wives and mothers is what the society needs today and not more gadgets to numb our brains and pollute the earth.
The question "What is the next step?" is the reason why there shouldn't be pressure. The next step (in my opinion) could go to the left or right... not only up. One could add products (merchandise, courses) or go in a different direction with the next Book (children's picture book and stuff). Having reached that level is a great fundament for failure I guess :) Downloaded the Audiobook... Thank you for that.
I loved this interview! Good Job, Lewis!- I would love to see Bethenny Frankel on here. She has insight into the business world and lots of life lessons. Just a suggestion! Love your work!
Agreed! For some reason tho Gary V has always seemed genuine and motivational to me, but I group Grant Cardone with the scammy guys selling a fake lifestyle. Idk if it’s just me though lol
Can someone please explain to me that on page 139 when he says “I say don’t find yourself. I say never know who you are. Because that’s what keeps you striving and discovering.” I don’t get it??? Help please!!
Let me explain you, it's a late reply though ! If you think that you're an introvert , you will define yourself by thinking that speaking with crowd is impossible to you. Now you've got an opportunity to present your project to new people ,let's say you need to give a speech about your project to a large group of people . Now you have two options, one is to recognise the opportunity and work against your fear of public speaking and the second is to avoid the opportunity by justifying yourself that you're an introvert. What would you do ? Both choices have its own set of problems , neither the options are problem less nor avoidable . We cannot get rid of problems rather than we can choose better problems. If you don't define yourself as an introvert then you'll choose to give a speech and probably you will get a pay raise along with new responsibilities (problems). When you choose the second option by defining yourself ( introvert ) then you will worry about missing an opportunity with your former salary . So it's not about who you are, it's about what you choose . Hope it helps♥️
It's a great book. I just started it. I always want to find more about any author that pushes any sort of life advice and see if they practice what they preach. For the most part, Mark seems very authentic so that is relieving. I wouldn't want to continue a book about environmentalism and find out the author flew first class everywhere. I mean, a little deviation is normal and expected since it's a little reassuring to know we are all fucked up people and will constantly fuck up. The only thing I can say about not giving a fuck is that Mark actually did give a fuck about music (and most likely still does) but maybe he was and still is too scared to stop writing and commit everything to making music. He craves that security of being a good writer and making money from it so he will likely never give it up. And of course now that he has notoriety, it's difficult to have to give that up in order to switch gears and do what you want. I'll argue that if you don't give a fuck about money (you shouldn't past a certain point since it has diminishing returns obviously) then you'll give up what you think you need to do in order to do what you want to do, even if you suck at it. I don't buy this "do what you're good at" all the time. We all suck at everything until we improve at it. Of course the better you are at something the more you're going to enjoy it. But you don't "get good" until you invest copious amounts of time. I know it sounds a bit like I'm just looking for a flaw to shout "a-ha!" but it's really not that. I get that once you're super successful at something it becomes hard to walk away from it. But is that truly not giving a fuck? Constantly challenge what you think is worthwhile and how much you actually need out of this world in order to find what it is you truly enjoy. Put another way, there's no point in tirelessly trying to seek another book success which is what the book would adamantly argue against. He seems very concerned about "good ideas" and dismissing "bad" ones. I don't know, there's a little contradiction there. I know the book is a "guiding light" and nothing that anyone can absolutely adhere to, but I do think Mark is falling victim to trying to define himself. Overall, great book with some very good actionable advice.
Loved this interview. One of the most powerful things I took away from this is that Mark really does seem to give a fuck which may be why he is struggling to write his next book. Looking at his eyes, I see deep sadness. I may be way wrong but I think there is a lot more brewing in his mind.
Man, the interviewer, Lewis, is the sweetest, kindest, most genuine seeming person. Not hiding anything, that is refreshing
Mark Manson's "The subtle art of not giving a fck" is one of the best books I have ever read. No exaggeration! 👍👍👍
Me too.
so true just finshed the audio book!
Mark is so raw and real. So down to earth. I really appreciate his suggestions. Thank you!
Mark is great, every guy should read his book Models.
how did that book affect really ? like did u feel a change or did it have an implication on ur life ?
@@scarfacemmm read it
@@ohboi6210 I actually read it’s first half but i dont know sometimes i get sidetracked by all the scenarios he insert in between and I dont really know how to utilize this book
@@scarfacemmm what scenarios?
@@scarfacemmm first of all, this book is about helping you changing by yourself, it’s not about how you utilize whatever the scenarios he input, and you even haven’t finished the book. If you really get what he’s trying to convey, you wouldn’t have this problem
Mark & Lewis at one table is such an inspirational uplift! Thx for putting that out.
So true!!
This dude is the real deal. I’ve been reading his articles for a looooong time and I’m super thrilled for his success.
I see Mark Manson, i click like
Wow, extremely well done. 2 of the most authentic in the industry having an amazing conversation.
This is the longest video i have watched on TH-cam and it was over in a flash. Great work.
Two of the best doing what they do. Great chemistry and amazing vibe as well.
This is one of the best podcast episodes I have ever seen! Mark Manso is great.
Mark Manson rocks, love his book.
This book is incredible and should be a standard for anyone suffering from OCD and Pure OCD. It has worked for many people we know. Great book Mark, and fantastic interview.
This guy is awesome! I just finished the audible version and loved it! So inspirational.
I was not watching this podcast for some time now but coming back and starting with this was just gold !
product of our environment is strong. And being like our parents comes from genetics. I'm Not a specialist but have spent most of my life trying to not to be like one of my parents as far as the negative stuff I see that parent does. We have mental health issues in my family and Im always trying to figure out what not to be like.
Can you please please please do an interview with me Mr Howes?!
I have so much to say about an incredible journey, at the point before the major breakthrough, and already successful..!
Hey Lewis, long time listener but never commented on any of your work. Just wanted to reach out and say I really appreciate all the content you put out, the story you tell, and everything you do. Thank you, thank you thank you!
Mark + Lewis = SO PUMPED FOR THIS INTERVIEW
Mark's book was great, and this was an awesome interview that helps get to know the auther better. Thanks again Lewis!
Mark idea is so down right great and sounds so stoic philosophy and loving it all again and again listening to it.
Suffer better..........That is it for me. Pain = pain, grief is grief, missing=missing, business = hard work. Life has 2 sides, problems have 2 sides, success has 2 sides of it. Lewis just acknowledges this. The meaning of the hurtful lesson (s) : What can I learn from this ? Lewis gets better, and better. Mark just go back ! and making some music, give yourself this present. The experience of living your true potential........Thanks.
Big thank you so much ☃️🌲☃️🌲☃️🌲🎄🌲☃️
Loved it ! About to read it again!!!
3 minutes in and I can't wait to watch the whole thing. One of my favourite books, I plan on making a video reviewing that book.
Always get good vibes after watching your videos!
Successful Minds I've been amped up just seeing the video's waiting until getting to the library.
Interesting discussion. It's weird how the word 'like' is used as every second word in a sentence/statement these days. It's surpassing age barriers. I noticed a couple of things seemed drawn from Big Magic but I guess the more motivation out there in the universe the better. Nothing is original after all. I think most self help is impossible to be absorbed and applied but if you can draw a motivational vibe from it then it has done some good.
Mark is man great vision . back again to hear this man on good mood .
I see Mark Manson,I liked.
Now watching.
Great, priceless talk! I just finished reading his book and that brought me here (: Truly the BEST book I've read this year. Thank you, Mark! You're so honest, real, hilarious and I like that you don't try too hard. You talk like you write and write like you talk, which is definitely a very good thing!
A different kind of motivation, especially about hating the work. Very true.
Lewis, This interview is life changing. Iv been stuck in the mode of perfectionism and people pleasing. Now I have something different to meditate on to see what I really want. Thank you!
this was such a good interview, i wish it was 3x as long!! thankyou
Good point being honest with what you’re good and bad at.
I freaking love this book!
So happy this interview came to fruition.
Thank you so much Lewis for the inspiration and many different fronts. Mark, I'm looking forward to upgrading my problems. I am enjoying the process.
Much obliged,
~Roberto
Hey Lewis, I have enjoyed many of your interviews recently and they have given me amazing insights but I have to say that this one was just mind blowing! Outstanding down to earth talk between two amazing men. Congrats to both of you and thank you so much for sharing it.
Beijos from Brazil!
Great interview, my only criticism is at the beginning the interviewer says the way to end suffering is to stop being self obsessed, but no enquiry goes into that point, because of course easier said than done..
Great book, life changing.
I am ordering this book today! Lewis, I love your interviews and I hope to someday to share my story! Thank you to you both! Keep rocking on!
I seriously love these podcasts
Lewis Howes yup! Totally subscribed!
I bought both books on the table about halfway through watching this!
Loving this podcast, thanks so much for all your work Lewis!
I think that this amazing how he made a good life for himself with writing blogs .
Glad to have stumbled upon this channell. Casual yet deep. Thanks for putting this out there.
This is one of my favorite books! Love the people you have on your pod casts!!😍
Yes I am subscribed so it comes up daily for me
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wow, first time i actually hear mark speak! he talks just like he writes 😂(which is a good thing!)
i hope to one day get him on my channel as well...
The dream... That was me and becoming a doctor back in college. It sounded good and I said it for YEARS in my childhood but I wasn't taking the MCAT or even studying... fact is I sucked at sciences lol Great interview!
letting go of the narrative. thank you for that part.
I can't believe I haven't read his book yet - definitely on my must-read list now. Awesome vid again! Love watching these.
Literally just yesterday I finished his book!! Noice
I’ve wanted to buy this book, but never got around to it. Half way through, I’ve gone and ordered the book. Can’t wait to dig in xx
love his book! very brilliant and cool guy! wish to have the actual book and have him sign it!
Great book, Mark puts it down honestly
I'm going to audible right now. Funny. It's been suggested to me by audible but I wasn't sure. So excited !!🌸🌸🌸🦄🦄🌸🦄
Howes new book looks awesome! Will definitely have to check it out after I finish reading "School of Greatness."
I've been following Mark's blog for some months now and I have to say that the guy has great articles, love it. Well done Lewis! Any chance to have Tucker Max on the show ? Would be great
This was a great talk! Very wise and intelligent.
sooo GOOOD! great job guys
this was INTRESTING
Lewis, I was amused when you read out the title. I listened to so many of your podcasts and never heard you swear before :)
(You don't even say "Oh my God"). Anyways, keep up the good work!!!!!!!!!!!
Idol Lewis great to ( all his guest have lot sense of humor ) have good sense
Amazing! No more words.
i enjoyed this so much :))
Can you please interview Susan Cain
I love your videos 🌼
INSPIRING VIDEOS FOR DIFFERENT COUNTIRES Greetings from MEX!
yuuuusssssss. gold. i had this book in my hand yesterday at Barnes and Nobel but couldn't decide what books to buy. concider me convinced. great interview. time to dip into audio books for my cruising around the islands 🚘🏝💯
Hey. I would recommend a book called "the confidence gap". Its similar to "subleArtofNotGivingAfuck" but it goes more in depth and its scientific on how to live a better life. But it might not be as entertaining as marks book. Its based on Acceptance and Commitment therapy
Love your content 💞💕
Very inspiring! Thank you 😊
I'm not a housewife, not even a parent, but I can't believe that Lewis thinks that "housewives" have no impact. Parents have tremendous impact, whether they also work outside of their house or not.
Ellen Eastwood think you missed the point
kinda missed the point bro.
Ellen Eastwood homemaking is a natural calling for most women and if done right then it betters the society by creating good character men and women. Today, society sucks because there was no mother to work on their character or should i say no good mother or father to model oneself after. Home is the foundation of society and good homemakers, wives and mothers is what the society needs today and not more gadgets to numb our brains and pollute the earth.
"The bigger the dream the longer it's gonna take usually" Lewis Howes
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fook - Conor Mcgregor
haha
Mark good artist , ( make good suggestions and re - up hands ) good explain from inner feelings . great !!!!
very informative video.
I found Lewis thru Mask of Masculinity Book and Mark thru Models book
What I love about this guy is he would consider that vast majority of people on this stream as crackpots and would never say it.
The question "What is the next step?" is the reason why there shouldn't be pressure. The next step (in my opinion) could go to the left or right... not only up. One could add products (merchandise, courses) or go in a different direction with the next Book (children's picture book and stuff). Having reached that level is a great fundament for failure I guess :) Downloaded the Audiobook... Thank you for that.
How about the Panda :) use the panda for a comic series, where you take very prominent problems and let the Panda "solve" them.
I loved this interview! Good Job, Lewis!- I would love to see Bethenny Frankel on here. She has insight into the business world and lots of life lessons. Just a suggestion! Love your work!
This should have more views than the like of Gary Vaynerchuck and Grant Cardone.
No problem. Thank you for uploading!
Agreed! For some reason tho Gary V has always seemed genuine and motivational to me, but I group Grant Cardone with the scammy guys selling a fake lifestyle. Idk if it’s just me though lol
31:27 my boy... Reigning in some real intellect!! You gotta listen to your own book Mark lol. Amazing stuff Lewis as always. Great interview
Amazing interview!
Every time he says « yeah », take a shot.
Thanks ;)
Does anybody know what Headset he is using? The Audio quality is so clear!
This pairs well with that meditation book "30 Days to Stop Giving a Shit" by Corin Devaso.
Lewis great to ( in -- large - visions ) salute idol .
Lewis may be non-threatening and very civil but he doesn't pussyfoot on real and vital questions.
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Yo i remember that too dood 😁
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Can someone please explain to me that on page 139 when he says “I say don’t find yourself. I say never know who you are. Because that’s what keeps you striving and discovering.” I don’t get it??? Help please!!
Let me explain you, it's a late reply though ! If you think that you're an introvert , you will define yourself by thinking that speaking with crowd is impossible to you. Now you've got an opportunity to present your project to new people ,let's say you need to give a speech about your project to a large group of people . Now you have two options, one is to recognise the opportunity and work against your fear of public speaking and the second is to avoid the opportunity by justifying yourself that you're an introvert. What would you do ? Both choices have its own set of problems , neither the options are problem less nor avoidable . We cannot get rid of problems rather than we can choose better problems. If you don't define yourself as an introvert then you'll choose to give a speech and probably you will get a pay raise along with new responsibilities (problems). When you choose the second option by defining yourself ( introvert ) then you will worry about missing an opportunity with your former salary . So it's not about who you are, it's about what you choose . Hope it helps♥️
Mark Manson is the modern day Buddha!
Uber driver says: Have a good night guys... funny story :D
It's a great book. I just started it. I always want to find more about any author that pushes any sort of life advice and see if they practice what they preach. For the most part, Mark seems very authentic so that is relieving. I wouldn't want to continue a book about environmentalism and find out the author flew first class everywhere. I mean, a little deviation is normal and expected since it's a little reassuring to know we are all fucked up people and will constantly fuck up.
The only thing I can say about not giving a fuck is that Mark actually did give a fuck about music (and most likely still does) but maybe he was and still is too scared to stop writing and commit everything to making music. He craves that security of being a good writer and making money from it so he will likely never give it up. And of course now that he has notoriety, it's difficult to have to give that up in order to switch gears and do what you want. I'll argue that if you don't give a fuck about money (you shouldn't past a certain point since it has diminishing returns obviously) then you'll give up what you think you need to do in order to do what you want to do, even if you suck at it. I don't buy this "do what you're good at" all the time. We all suck at everything until we improve at it. Of course the better you are at something the more you're going to enjoy it. But you don't "get good" until you invest copious amounts of time.
I know it sounds a bit like I'm just looking for a flaw to shout "a-ha!" but it's really not that. I get that once you're super successful at something it becomes hard to walk away from it. But is that truly not giving a fuck? Constantly challenge what you think is worthwhile and how much you actually need out of this world in order to find what it is you truly enjoy. Put another way, there's no point in tirelessly trying to seek another book success which is what the book would adamantly argue against. He seems very concerned about "good ideas" and dismissing "bad" ones. I don't know, there's a little contradiction there.
I know the book is a "guiding light" and nothing that anyone can absolutely adhere to, but I do think Mark is falling victim to trying to define himself.
Overall, great book with some very good actionable advice.
Loved this interview. One of the most powerful things I took away from this is that Mark really does seem to give a fuck which may be why he is struggling to write his next book. Looking at his eyes, I see deep sadness. I may be way wrong but I think there is a lot more brewing in his mind.
Anyone know the tim ferriss book he's talking about
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What if you simply don't know what do you enjoy in your life? Writing or painting, I don't enjoy. Strange what if you really do enjoy nothing.
vitaliy bulgarov brought me here