I ended a relationship yesterday, based exactly on this principles. I avoided so much damage because I paid attention to the signs and acted on time. Today I feel relief. Now I can continue with my life, walking with integrity. In a total synchronistic event, this video was also released yesterday, confirming even more that my decision was right. Thank you Dr. Peterson.
Good for you. This could very well be the best decision you've ever made. Or perhaps the worst. It really depends on how you choose to view it. Your choice makes it so.
Betrayal is almost impossible to prevent over the course of life, but you can organize your life such a way that it would run smooth if you were completely alone, that way the betrayal hurts only emotionally
@@marcoantonio078 one pain can lessen another, extreme physical stress is nice solution, your mind goes go quiet in the deafening agony of your muscles
@@archity1242 I think this is an unofficial channel. Jordan has a different channel, it has longer videos on it. I'm not sure what is the affiliation between two channels if any
Psychophysiological damage is the most accurate term to describe what actually happens then.. It is a dark place and one must confide to someone, only one trustworthy person or a professional counsellor, with what happens in their daily activities and what emotions they come across or else they might deviate into a darker place and who knows what might happen after.. Betrayal is a terrible thing..
Traumatising experiences break Our safetynet apart. Every time it is harder to rearrange surviving. The more it happens, the more it takes hope away and it takes longer to overcome.
I agree with Richard ^ you can only get stronger as your brain had somewhat adapted to the past memory. The meaning of life is to find meaning through suffering, don’t forget that!
03:19, I've experienced this. Been betrayed by a narcissistic person. When I met her, she was everything I was hoping for in a person... It destroyed me as much as it saved. I was left with doubts, low self-esteem and I had to rebuild all my beliefs up but I don't think I would had been able to see how much my previous beliefs built me up as a "perfect victim" if I didn't had the opportunity to question them that deep.
if your partner flirts with someone else in front of you, I think the greater concern would be what this person is doing when they're not in your presence...
This all make sense but why is our job to spot and stop betrayal. I mean if you bring it up to your partner they might deflect it back and accuse you. I guess if you catch it can save some heartbreak but ultimately if you go into relationships looking for signs of betrayal, is that really a person you want to be with
@@kobieta3906 in that case I just need to trust one person. That's manageable. Everyone else is monitored for distrustful behavior, since that seems to be how most people are these days; disloyal and self consumed. If you give these power power over you, you will suffer.
@@TimberWulfIsHere Hello, unfortunately I agree with you.And microwave radiation (cell phones etc) have the (tested,reseacrhed) effect of disrupting the Vagal Brain-Heart-connection, as well as destroying man's love for the human being! besídes all the many other attacks on our souls and spirits, going on with(out) our knowledge and informed consent.
I’ve noticed a lot of the art I’m doing is correlating more and more with the images you show in Maps of Meaning. So much so I’m now going to use them as a guide to make sure I’m on the right track
What do you do, when the betrayal builds up from the avoidance of those necessary fights, refuses too listen, won't retool because they think they know better?
Become an asshole yourself. I don't know, relationships are tough and personal. Clint Eastwood said, " it works for me." Do what works for you. My wife and I never really liked each others behaviour but stuck together because we were too frightened or lazy to leave.. Forty years later we're still together. I joked the other day about her dying and me finding someone else. She said " it'll take you Forty years to train her too."
It sounds cliche but you have to go through that pain of the betrayal to then retool your mind. You seek meaning in the little things in life, like walks, conversations & family. And the best advice I could say, is to do the things you have always avoided
If they refuse every conversation about anything, including finances, it might be a personality disorder. Try setting boundaries and refusing NOT to talk about them. No marriage can survive without healthy communication. I was in a situation like this. I had to leave
You can choose your own behavior. You can only suggest behavior for others. If they show no interest in improving or at least keeping it together, you might want to think about leaving. There are people which reject all responsibility and are unable and unwilling to change. You cannot force them to adapt and be kind, but you can go away.
I hope Doctor Peterson succeeds in his venue in London later this year. Our world needs healing as much as exposure of those that managed to screw it up the way they did.
No doubt Mr Jordan Peterson is one of the greatest 100 percent your astounding ability to see the world the way it really is has helped a lot of people I'm sure definitely has helped me long the way
Thanks Jordan, I am not crazy then. The level and number of evil I have been exposed to has made me chess mate. It is done by social security, responsible for providing personal assistence for Aspergers' diability an. What when the betrayals come by those put to help heal, and more, and I ma told to remov self-preservation, my own interests,human needs and individual will,.gut-feeling, intuition, intelligence, good will, creativity, learning. The evil combined with withholding me my home, rights nd money, as well as proper health-care, is so fríghtening, depressing, demoralizing , depersonalising, desimpowering and desorienting.Stealing the money and tiny income from me on top f all the abuse is too much in a weakened, isolated, C-PTSD Aspergers situation.SOS! With gratitude. .
This is one of the best videos I've seen of Peterson. It explains what takes place in relationships.....the gradual landslide ......you don't want to have a scene.....so you accept. But, over the long term, it is an end of certain relationships. Imagine being a woman with young children......the height of vulnerability. It takes money to leave someone......how do you when you are dealing with someone you trusted......but over time realize you never really knew. I don't understand totally what happens with betrayal - He states that your world crumbles. What you thought was true is not true. It makes you wonder if children would be born if we really saw one another as we really are. Is illusion necessary to propagate the human race?
Once a year the Angle would stir the water and the first person to get in would be Healed. Life is very much like the game of pool. The game of Pool, like the game of Life, IS a game of control. (If) you have any plan at of winning at either of these games, then, then your first priority should he to CONTROL YOURSELF. Controlling yourself more often than not will consist of transferring the amount of your personal psychological self from your emotional bank account to your intellectual account. With this basic understanding of the Scale, and with practice , you'll be exposed to instances of Betrayal less often. This is the result of interacting with others with a realistic view of yourself and overall life as a whole. You may still be betrayed by others but you'll eventually come very close to invincible from the emotional turmoil that may be associated with the events that turned. You are falable, and so are others. On the pool table, the rules of physics reign as king. Not so much is the same on the dinner table. Betrayal doesn't cut as deep in your heart if you moderate your emotional gifting to others. When your serving dinner to friends, you only place the amount of food on the plate that the friend can enjoy at that particular setting. My, who taught me how to be a friend, also taught me to have one rule in my life (among enough rules survivable) ie: : "There will be no more victims for me: and this list is to include Me!" For, should I allow myself to serve toooooo much of myself for dinner to another,then how shall I even survive long enough to have my friend with me for dinner again?
@@lounaannajung4454 well no he has his own podcast so he can “bloody well” talk about anything he wants. He has definitely leaned more into the culture war front. He shifted left in the period that he first recovered from his coma, but now he has shifted ever more to the right. He’s even admitted to hating the left now on Lex Fridman.
@@kevinkelly2162 it’s called learning from people and preponderance of thoughts, logic and arguments. News flash my dude: at least 95% of the ideas you have, you heard or read from somebody else. We either listen to all sides and then carefully decide what the truth is, or we let our animal brain randomly pick the narratives. Also I don’t know what my comment has to do with yours, that you’re actually tagging me in your comment. Seems pretty unrelated to me.
Daniel 7:13-14. Luke 19:9-12. John 12:30-41. Isaiah 53. 2Corinthians 12:1-4. Hebrew 1-1-5. Hebrew 1:8-9. Philippians 2:6-7?!. ONE MOMENT IN TIMES. COUNT ON YOU. PSALMS 144:9. Hebreo 4:12. Blueprint.
Gratitude Sir, For helping to seek wisdom Through the Syncroncity with the energy that enlighten to sustain a better Generation. Recovering from PtStd cause The Prohesy of Gravity which connected with you thank you to lord and also to you for the creation to build a better world. Jk
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
The two nastiest hos I ever met were religious hypocrites. Telling me not to have sex before marriage but cheating on their husbands.. My church was full of those people every Sunday..
There is no such thing as betrayal, it's a feeling of having unrealistic expectations of another human being. Let everyone live their own way of life. If you love someone let them do what they want. Simple , don't complicate things inside your psychological world.
World views are for a world end. We who know Christ teaching know we are in the world Not of it or Its veiws. The world will lead you to HELL. HEAVEN not formed from this world belief. But family trust and belief must be first base to every game or HELL stands around every corner wanting to end the family and heaven on earth over envy form arrogance from HELL.
**Hey, they still don’t get the point of why I’m Black this time. People presume I was always Black. It kinda gives me the opportunity to take advantage of being denied before mankind. Being German makes my job that much easier. I’m just gonna let them get the picture when they do. Whether it’s late or never😎
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
I ended a relationship yesterday, based exactly on this principles.
I avoided so much damage because I paid attention to the signs and acted on time. Today I feel relief. Now I can continue with my life, walking with integrity.
In a total synchronistic event, this video was also released yesterday, confirming even more that my decision was right.
Thank you Dr. Peterson.
Good for you.
This could very well be the best decision you've ever made.
Or perhaps the worst. It really depends on how you choose to view it. Your choice makes it so.
@@natethegr8230 It definitely wasn't the worst.
It's a matter of integrity... of quality. Not really opinion.
Is this water clean?
We fool ourselves into ignoring red flags when we know we should take action.
It's the human condition.
And when you do try to nip it in the bud before it becomes a mountain, you're told that you are being too sensitive or that you are imagining things
KABE=W knowledge aquired by experiance = wisdom or KE=W
Betrayal is almost impossible to prevent over the course of life, but you can organize your life such a way that it would run smooth if you were completely alone, that way the betrayal hurts only emotionally
Happened to me recently, it hurts, but I agree, if you organize your life into a way where the effects are lessened, it’s a lot easier to cope with.
@@marcoantonio078 one pain can lessen another, extreme physical stress is nice solution, your mind goes go quiet in the deafening agony of your muscles
Alternatively you could just get over yourself. Just saying......
@@kevinkelly2162 the kinda guy to say "just roll over and die, gg"
im glad to see hes posting his old lectures again, i love these. i know that these lectures on betrayal helped me a lot when i went thru a situation
These are not uploaded by Jordan, I think
@@VEE727 no he has a team do it but he's still in charge
@@archity1242 I think this is an unofficial channel. Jordan has a different channel, it has longer videos on it. I'm not sure what is the affiliation between two channels if any
@@VEE727 he owns both channels as shown by the verified check mark. he puts full videos on the other channel and clips on here
Psychophysiological damage is the most accurate term to describe what actually happens then.. It is a dark place and one must confide to someone, only one trustworthy person or a professional counsellor, with what happens in their daily activities and what emotions they come across or else they might deviate into a darker place and who knows what might happen after..
Betrayal is a terrible thing..
Knowing that it has been said many times…we are so fortunate to have access to such brilliant logic
Traumatising experiences break Our safetynet apart. Every time it is harder to rearrange surviving. The more it happens, the more it takes hope away and it takes longer to overcome.
Or it makes us stronger & more resilient.
I agree with Richard ^ you can only get stronger as your brain had somewhat adapted to the past memory. The meaning of life is to find meaning through suffering, don’t forget that!
That’s not a given that’s a belief
Don't forget to wrap up warm and stay home if it is raining you poor wee soul.
The easiest way to put this into practice is to accept that most people are awful.
And one needs to be resilient. Know your weaknesses.. I'm pretty weak.
03:19, I've experienced this. Been betrayed by a narcissistic person. When I met her, she was everything I was hoping for in a person... It destroyed me as much as it saved. I was left with doubts, low self-esteem and I had to rebuild all my beliefs up but I don't think I would had been able to see how much my previous beliefs built me up as a "perfect victim" if I didn't had the opportunity to question them that deep.
As always, Thank you and your Family for your dedication to helping others Bravo!
Betrayal can easily invoke “dark night of the soul”.
Thanks, Dr. Peterson, for an excellent, inspirational, and informative video episode.
if your partner flirts with someone else in front of you, I think the greater concern would be what this person is doing when they're not in your presence...
This all make sense but why is our job to spot and stop betrayal. I mean if you bring it up to your partner they might deflect it back and accuse you. I guess if you catch it can save some heartbreak but ultimately if you go into relationships looking for signs of betrayal, is that really a person you want to be with
I expect betrayal from everyone I meet.
Absolutely helps when it's anticipated, as getting surprised it what gets you.
Being distrustful of everyone is also pathological
@@teddybearroosevelt1847 it is what it is. So be it.
You wont find trustful people if you yourself wont trust others. When it comes to relationships its disrespectful to not trust your partner.
@@kobieta3906 in that case I just need to trust one person. That's manageable. Everyone else is monitored for distrustful behavior, since that seems to be how most people are these days; disloyal and self consumed. If you give these power power over you, you will suffer.
@@TimberWulfIsHere Hello, unfortunately I agree with you.And microwave radiation (cell phones etc) have the (tested,reseacrhed) effect of disrupting the Vagal Brain-Heart-connection, as well as destroying man's love for the human being! besídes all the many other attacks on our souls and spirits, going on with(out) our knowledge and informed consent.
Your insightful and aspiring ,thanks in advance JP👍👍
I’ve noticed a lot of the art I’m doing is correlating more and more with the images you show in Maps of Meaning.
So much so I’m now going to use them as a guide to make sure I’m on the right track
What do you do, when the betrayal builds up from the avoidance of those necessary fights, refuses too listen, won't retool because they think they know better?
Become an asshole yourself. I don't know, relationships are tough and personal. Clint Eastwood said, " it works for me." Do what works for you. My wife and I never really liked each others behaviour but stuck together because we were too frightened or lazy to leave.. Forty years later we're still together. I joked the other day about her dying and me finding someone else. She said " it'll take you Forty years to train her too."
It sounds cliche but you have to go through that pain of the betrayal to then retool your mind. You seek meaning in the little things in life, like walks, conversations & family. And the best advice I could say, is to do the things you have always avoided
If they refuse every conversation about anything, including finances, it might be a personality disorder. Try setting boundaries and refusing NOT to talk about them. No marriage can survive without healthy communication. I was in a situation like this. I had to leave
No one really answered you
You go out from that relationship and hopefully learn that having no standards and no balls leads you to a betrayal
You can choose your own behavior. You can only suggest behavior for others. If they show no interest in improving or at least keeping it together, you might want to think about leaving. There are people which reject all responsibility and are unable and unwilling to change. You cannot force them to adapt and be kind, but you can go away.
This is the type of video we subscribed for
Your mate can pull the wool over your eyes, but once exposed, you can't pull the wool back over your own eyes.
I hope Doctor Peterson succeeds in his venue in London later this year. Our world needs healing as much as exposure of those that managed to screw it up the way they did.
6:55 The Red Flags
Immeasurable love by its fundament in reality is a desire of each one self.
Love old lectures 💪🏻🙌🏼
I see you, pre LCHF. Looking good today.
Great talk of course. very therapeutic
Wow, what an interesting way to explain this.and exactly what I'm doing now.
Feeling sorry for your delicate self?
Thanks Jordan 🖖
I wish i had seen this video after my breakup.
Thank you for this teaching.
Thank you 💯...
"Red Flags" start at 7:12 ....
Needed this.
No doubt Mr Jordan Peterson is one of the greatest 100 percent your astounding ability to see the world the way it really is has helped a lot of people I'm sure definitely has helped me long the way
Thanks Jordan, I am not crazy then. The level and number of evil I have been exposed to has made me chess mate. It is done by social security, responsible for providing personal assistence for Aspergers' diability an. What when the betrayals come by those put to help heal, and more, and I ma told to remov self-preservation, my own interests,human needs and individual will,.gut-feeling, intuition, intelligence, good will, creativity, learning. The evil combined with withholding me my home, rights nd money, as well as proper health-care, is so fríghtening, depressing, demoralizing , depersonalising, desimpowering and desorienting.Stealing the money and tiny income from me on top f all the abuse is too much in a weakened, isolated, C-PTSD Aspergers situation.SOS! With gratitude. .
This is one of the best videos I've seen of Peterson. It explains what takes place in relationships.....the gradual landslide ......you don't want to have a scene.....so you accept. But, over the long term, it is an end of certain relationships. Imagine being a woman with young children......the height of vulnerability. It takes money to leave someone......how do you when you are dealing with someone you trusted......but over time realize you never really knew. I don't understand totally what happens with betrayal - He states that your world crumbles. What you thought was true is not true. It makes you wonder if children would be born if we really saw one another as we really are. Is illusion necessary to propagate the human race?
Can you (or your partner) handle the truth?
Ughh, this makes so much sense on an extremely deep level and is truly heartbreaking 💔 to ponder
Once a year the Angle would stir the water and the first person to get in would be Healed. Life is very much like the game of pool. The game of Pool, like the game of Life, IS a game of control. (If) you have any plan at of winning at either of these games, then, then your first priority should he to CONTROL YOURSELF. Controlling yourself more often than not will consist of transferring the amount of your personal psychological self from your emotional bank account to your intellectual account. With this basic understanding of the Scale, and with practice , you'll be exposed to instances of Betrayal less often. This is the result of interacting with others with a realistic view of yourself and overall life as a whole. You may still be betrayed by others but you'll eventually come very close to invincible from the emotional turmoil that may be associated with the events that turned. You are falable, and so are others. On the pool table, the rules of physics reign as king. Not so much is the same on the dinner table. Betrayal doesn't cut as deep in your heart if you moderate your emotional gifting to others. When your serving dinner to friends, you only place the amount of food on the plate that the friend can enjoy at that particular setting. My, who taught me how to be a friend, also taught me to have one rule in my life (among enough rules survivable) ie: : "There will be no more victims for me: and this list is to include Me!" For, should I allow myself to serve toooooo much of myself for dinner to another,then how shall I even survive long enough to have my friend with me for dinner again?
So in other words, one should love with one's head and not one's heart.
DR JORDAN:::::::
IT'S SWEET YOU JET-SET AROUND THE WORD IN FLASHY SUITS INTERVIEWING CELEBRITIES
24 in Lisbon...I will be there 🙂🙂🙂😉
From witch lesson is this?
Back when Jordan Peterson's talks are actually complex.
Well.. also back when people weren't asking him only about politics all the time and were actually interested to learn from what he had to say
@@lounaannajung4454 well no he has his own podcast so he can “bloody well” talk about anything he wants. He has definitely leaned more into the culture war front. He shifted left in the period that he first recovered from his coma, but now he has shifted ever more to the right. He’s even admitted to hating the left now on Lex Fridman.
In the past, he only gave lectures to a small class. The more the audience gets bigger, the less complex a lecture gets.
@@kevintse2870 Pity you have to rely on someone else to know what your own point of view is.
@@kevinkelly2162 it’s called learning from people and preponderance of thoughts, logic and arguments. News flash my dude: at least 95% of the ideas you have, you heard or read from somebody else. We either listen to all sides and then carefully decide what the truth is, or we let our animal brain randomly pick the narratives.
Also I don’t know what my comment has to do with yours, that you’re actually tagging me in your comment. Seems pretty unrelated to me.
Gems 💎
Hmmm... you can no longer continue the same path because you see that it will not lead to anything good.
This was made and posted for me. Im listening lol
Or completely start new if u know it's cursed
In the words of my baby moms…. THROW BIKE!😂
Very nice👍
Never seen this before but also mentioned this in lot simpler less educated way ofcourse
Theology of the body by Christopher West 🕊️🌅
EX. #ParentalAlienation
Jesus can heal our hearts 💕
Daniel 7:13-14. Luke 19:9-12. John 12:30-41. Isaiah 53. 2Corinthians 12:1-4. Hebrew 1-1-5. Hebrew 1:8-9. Philippians 2:6-7?!. ONE MOMENT IN TIMES. COUNT ON YOU. PSALMS 144:9. Hebreo 4:12. Blueprint.
*tosses a comment to the algorithm*
Gratitude Sir,
For helping to seek wisdom
Through the Syncroncity with the energy that enlighten to sustain a better Generation.
Recovering from PtStd cause
The Prohesy of Gravity which connected with you thank you to lord and also to you for the creation to build a better world.
Jk
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
You were going to be betrayed because our culture has betrayed what it means to be human.
EVER SIN - CE THE WORLD BEGAN. PSALMS 144:9. MY WAY. HEBREO 4:12.
This is forcing meaning on meaningless events.
Get a new partner - or Better yet, stay single - issue Solved
Yasssss
Trust in Godly people,
We are a better chance of not betraying you.
The two nastiest hos I ever met were religious hypocrites. Telling me not to have sex before marriage but cheating on their husbands.. My church was full of those people every Sunday..
You Tube does not want me to see the reply listed to this post.
I miss the old Jordan. I hope Ben Shapiro sets you free one day.
He's not being held hostage, you know.
He was about the only one who talked about the micro personal issues in life. Many talk about macro issues.
There is no such thing as betrayal, it's a feeling of having unrealistic expectations of another human being. Let everyone live their own way of life. If you love someone let them do what they want. Simple , don't complicate things inside your psychological world.
What a bullshit advice. It's important to know the signs of betrayal so that you are well prepared with respect to your own safety and well being.
What. If you both agree to be exclusive then you take that oath
😏🥰🥰😏
BUT UNTIL YOU INTERVIEW NOAM CHOMSKY, I WON'T COMPLETELY RESPECT YOUR WORK.
AND YOU/WE ARE RUNNING OUT OF TIME
World views are for a world end. We who know Christ teaching know we are in the world Not of it or Its veiws. The world will lead you to HELL. HEAVEN not formed from this world belief. But family trust and belief must be first base to every game or HELL stands around every corner wanting to end the family and heaven on earth over envy form arrogance from HELL.
Proverbs 11:11((G.N.T.))🇩🇪
**Hey, they still don’t get the point of why I’m Black this time. People presume I was always Black. It kinda gives me the opportunity to take advantage of being denied before mankind. Being German makes my job that much easier. I’m just gonna let them get the picture when they do. Whether it’s late or never😎
You are Gabriel. Only! If! you want TO BE? A voice that people look to. A collection of thoughts. Divine in their own right. No?
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
You are Gabriel. Only! If! you want TO BE? A voice that people look to. A collection of thoughts. Divine in their own right. No?
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
You are Gabriel. Only! If! you want TO BE? A voice that people look to. A collection of thoughts. Divine in their own right. No?
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess
An oldie but a goodie. A young Jordan finding his voice. As a wolf finds his call. As a bear roars. A lion grows from a cub. You may help everyone. But I've been watching you for 10yrs. You are more than Jordan. Maybe an angel 😇. Gabriel is my guess