I’m going to get a lot of mixed opinions about my choice to continue riding through my pregnancy…
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- At the end of the day, you know your body the best and what is or isn’t safe for you and the baby. And if your Dr. approves and you understand that you need to listen to your body - I see nothing wrong with continuing to ride as long as you’re able.
When my body tells me it’s time to stop - we stop.
I love hearing everyone’s sides and thoughts on this subject - however rude and disrespectful (and just downright mean) comments will be deleted and you will be blocked. You’re free to share your opinion but please do so with kindness and free of judgement.
@@rudniktheroan I’m just concerned for you and the baby. Reach out to @CamillesMustangs who did ground work with a mustang while pregnant. Maybe she can help you decide. ❤️
Good call!
Thanks for defending yourself. I think you are doing the right thing for all three of you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My comment about your pregnancy is this: Yippee...CONGRATULATIONS...SO happy for you!🎉🎉
It's no one's business.
He's a beautiful horse!
I had a good friend who rode all the way through two pregnancies. Her OBGYN said that a woman can do pretty much anything as long as she was doing it before she became pregnant. She used common sense and had no problems at all. It's not uncommon to see runners and gym rats go through pregnancy with no break in routine. Of the women I've known the ones who stay active actually seem to have fewer problems.
Yes! That’s the main part people forget. ‘As long as she was doing it before’! Don’t decide to pickup a whole new sport or hobby after finding out you’re pregnant. In that situation then yes, it absolutely becomes a much higher risk. But women who body build, compete in competitive sports etc - all of them continue to do so through their pregnancies because their bodies are already used to it. I’m not going to randomly decide to pickup body building now because I would 100% be doing so much damage to my body.
I had a barn full of horses during my pregnancy. My labour was a total of 2 and one half hours. Two pushes and my daughter was born, easy peasey.
@@rudniktheroan There is a bit more bouncing it looks like with riding, then say lifting weights.... But you and your horse have the bond and as long as your doc says it is safe then you should keep doing what brings you peace as long as it is safe.... I do not own a horse nor have I ever been on a horse, so honestly I do not know how much bouncing there is... Some riders seam to stay sitting in the saddle, some seam to push them self's up with there legs and lower in pace with the horses movements... I am here to learn about horses after all, so please do not take this as saying to keep going or to stop, as end of the day you know more about riding then I do so trust your judgement and listen to the folks in your life like your guy and your doc... Keep in mind your guy should point out what he sees as risks to help keep you healthy and safe as your partner, and your doc should know your body the best outside of you so really lean on them 2 for input.... End of the day it is your life and your body, so you got the last say tho I would say strongly listen to there advice of them two only...
@@jonathanbair523 "Some riders seam to stay sitting in the saddle, some seam to push them self's up with there legs and lower in pace with the horses movements" -- that depends a lot on the gait of the horse (how fast it is going). When the horse is at a trot, it helps to move your body up and down in time with the horse's movement to avoid being bumped and to make it more comfortable for the horse. However, if the horse is walking or galloping, you don't need to do that.
Seriously. One of my yoga students just had her baby. She missed two classes and one of them was because she gave birth the night before.
This is between you, your doctor and Rudnik. Everyone else needs to mind their own business.
I am not a horse person. Tho a friend may have me helping them if they get a ranch for her horse so I do watch a few horse channels like this.... Anyways I agree with you gwenniegirl50 and was about to post the same thing...
Exactly!
Exactly!
I think Rudnik knows you're pregnant and you'll both be fine.
Rudnik stumbling is no more of a worry than you doing stairs or crossing the street. Listen to your body. You got this girl!
Exactly! Life is full of risks if we really pay attention.
It was a most graceful recovery from a little stumble! Well done to the 3 of you!
Rudnik would never do anything intentionally to hurt her or that baby . After three children,you know when enough is enough .Both your energies are beautiful. Looking forward to your new addition......lots of prayers for you all.
Ride as long as you can into late pregnancy. You will thank yourself when it’s time to deliver the baby. Trust yourself, your horse and your doctor.
That’s what I’ve heard from so many who did continue to ride! They said their delivery went so much smoother because of all the muscles and mobility they had from riding! I’m really hoping this will be true in my case as well 🥲
@@rudniktheroan It is true! No matter what you do to be fit, it makes all the difference! Please trust this old lady!
I like what you said "Trust yourself, your horse and your doctor." I would add in trust her partner to...... Tho I am hear to learn about horses and never been on a horse. I grew up with cats and dogs, so I know some of them you can trust while others have that wild free spirit... Rudnik seams to be the kind of animal that really bonds and cares for his human, so I do not think he would do anything to hurt her. Some of the past videos I see she had mentioned where he rubs the side of his face on her front allot more gently then he did before she was pregnant with his own will rather then her telling him to be gentle... But ya with my extreme limited bit of knowledge and never been on a horse my self, I would say trust the input of her Fianc'e and her doc and her bond with Rudnik.... *shrugs* Keep working as a team, as they are there to help support you and see you healthy/safe..... Folks that have horses would know more then me, and lady's that had kid while the time they rode would be best for advice outside of your team (your partner, doc and horse)...
I rode my trusty mare until it was uncomfortable for me. That was 44 yrs ago. I did sit-ups until the birth and started them soon after. No one said anything to my face that I needed to stop. You will absolutely have a healthier pregnancy and birth for being active. Enjoy every minute!
That’s what I’m hoping for! I’ve heard a lot of people say that riding through pregnancy made their birth go so much smoother!
@@rudniktheroanThat’s what my mom did when she was carrying me!
Every time we get on the back of a horse we take a risk. I was 6 1/5 months pregnant with my oldest when I won a cross country event and that was 35 years ago. You are keeping yourself fit by riding. I bet Rudnik senses something is different and he will accommodate you. When your body tells you to stop, you can lunge him so you keep your relationship going. Just being around him, grooming him, rubbing his ears is great for your mental well-being and his. Enjoy your time together.
Wow! I get so winded just trotting some circles I can’t even imagine cross country at that point, I’m very impressed! And yes so true! There’s so much more we can still enjoy from the ground once it gets to that point - thankfully as we move into colder weather I’ll feel less eager to hop in the saddle anyways 😂
@@rudniktheroanI don’t ride any more after having had spinal fusion surgery from an accident but I still love to be around horses and only horse people get what it means to walk into a stall and take a big deep breath in through your nose and watch for a huge smile crack across your face. The days you are unable to ride are not so tough when you can breath in that aroma of happiness!!!
@@rudniktheroan Physiologically, it is now known that the baby's cells mix with the mother's cells. Part of the fetus becomes part of the mother and vice versa. Therefor, I would imagine that Rudnik will be able to know, by scent, that the baby, when born, is part of you and you of them. This is a new discovery about pregnancy, and informs the bond between mother and child. I would not be at all surprised that animals, especially horses, who travel in bands of mares, can sense it. We would LOVE to see Rudnik's response to first meeting with your new little one!
@@trishignao Ohh HELL YEAH!! Even now at 72 years old, that "horsey smell" puts me in a heavenly place!
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I agree - this is an issue between you, your doctor and Rudnick…
When I was pregnant - it’s been a while, the Boy will be 26 in about a week. - I was told to continue ALL physical activity as long as I felt safe.
I was, at the time, a competitive pistol shooter in something called IPSC, which is basically a “combat style” competition.
I competed until 2 weeks before delivery - I made adjustments, never shot alone after a certain point during practice, and if I thought a shooting position was potentially “hazardous”, like going completely prone for a shooting position, I took the penalties and shot the stage in a way that I felt was safer for me and the baby.
Never EVER discount your own instincts when it comes to your safety.
Rudnick is a big guy, even for a quarter horse (haven’t ridden in years, but LOVE my cow ponies!!) and he doesn’t see you as “fragile”.
You’re the “boss mare”, and respected as such…
Stumbles happen and being a strong rider helps. Riding in pregnancy is good for you so tell the naysayers to go away. It didn't really look like you'd lost your balance, it just looked like he tripped.
We mainly agree that as long as you're able, you ride. Rudnik is quite careful with you since you conscieved, and he sure seems aware that you are trusting him to be steady, not spook at scary weeds, and to obey commands smoothly.
I do think it would be good for all of you if B takes over riding Rudkin when you choose to not ride anymore. Sure you can work him by lunging, but it is also a great opportunity for B and Rudnik to have Boy-time together, and B can hone his new riding skills. The boys will do fine in the arena, and even on short trail rides!
I don’t agree with you! I have tried to get B in the saddle more however I only have the dressage and treeless saddle and he only likes riding in western right now due to still being so green. So I’d have to find a way to get him a western saddle and then I’m sure he’d be down for it!
@@rudniktheroan Ooh I see. Well, maybe train B in lunging so the boys have more Boy time, and he can work Rudnik if you're busy with the baby? Bring baby when you can and "let" B work the Rudnik! Maybe?
I get it about being so green and feeling inadequate as a rider. Maybe someone can lend you some western tack for a bit, help B and Rudnik learn a flow together. Saddles are expensive!
He looked so sad as you walked away ,clearly loves you and your BF.
Breaks my heart 💔 hopefully someday we’ll have our own land for him and never have to say goodbye again 😭
As long as you're happy with what you're doing and you're safe with it nobody else's business
He stumbled a bit and recovered. As long as you and your physician are happy with you riding that's what matters.
I fully understand your need to ride. It is the best therapy in the world for me as well. It is the only time that my brain is in the here and now. It is definitely keeping me sane.
Yes! Especially when depression is at such a high risk in pregnancies - I need SOMETHING that I can still enjoy (while doing so SAFELY)
You know your strengths and weaknesses, you know Rudnik’s, you’ve talked with your doctor so what you choose to do is your business and no one else’s. You could deny yourself the joy and exercise that riding provides and then slip just walking across the floor. As long as you’re being careful while riding you’re probably safer on Rudnik than in a car. So I hope you get to enjoy you passionate for riding as long as you want.
You and only you can say what is good for you or not. You are safe and your boy is safe with you. Just be careful anything can happen at any time. Oh and screw the haters you are Awesome. Thank you for sharing
He kept his feet, you kept your seat, all is well
Your riding is keeping all your core muscles strong and it is good for you mentally & emotionally. For all 4 of you!❤
God bless you
Don't let anyone get inside your head . It's none of their buisness.
40 years ago when I was having my kids my doctor said whatever your body is used to doing is fine to continue doing. I think you’re good.
That seems to be the most common response and makes complete sense!
I rode when I was 8 months and big belly. A friend had purchased a new horse and as it was only a 5 mile ride to her place. I rode her new horse home with my big baby belly sitting on the pommel. It was great. 😊 You do what is right for you. Who cares what other people think, its none of their business
8 months! Wow! That gives me hope I won’t have to quit too soon - even if it’s just sitting in the saddle and my fiancé leads us around the arena 😂
@rudniktheroan I was huge during all 4 of my pregnancies. My last two were home births, my choice. My last one we had a house cow, II milked her by hand. The baby belly got in the road but she was very sweet and constantly checked my belly out. Animals just know and adjust their behaviour to suit. So for you if you carry on for as long as you feel comfortable even if it is as you said, with your finance leading I salute your choice because as we know life is about choices and you will make the right one for you. Enjoy your pregnancy.
Nothing wrong with being careful. You have common sense. One thing to think about: you might blame yourself the rest of your life if you had an accident because you wanted to ride a few days longer than you should. Blessings on you and your family!
Rudnick is incredible! So are you….you’ve got a wee baby who will likely be destined to be an equestrian. I love you’re continuing to ride throughout your pregnancy…keeping you and baby…and Rudnick fit 💜💜💜
Thank you 🥰
I wish i could ride Rudniik. Riding a horse is on my bucket list. I no one that has a horse. My dad broke horses at 13 to put food on his mom and dad's table. Everytime i see someone riding a horse. I get very teary eyed. Give him a hug for me please. Thank you so much for sharing.
Aww thank you so much for joining us on our adventures 🥰
Texas USA 🇺🇸 These videos are so good. I have to admit I jumped at the little incident & I had to grab my heart & put it back in my chest. 😊 lol. You & Rudnik handled that well. Your so cool & calm. The best part is you continued to walk around a few more times which probably helped you both. You are a very smart & educated woman. You know your limits. And your doc gave the green light. Just remember: you are so much wiser & smarter & caring & prettier than any of those knottheads that rain & poop on our parade. You keep up the great job. You too B. LOVE BLESSINGS PEACE & PRAYERS ❤️❤️ Take care. ✝️ 🍁 🇨🇦
My buddy was training two year olds right into her eighth month. Never had an issue. In fact, one of her fillies won the national Appaloosa show in two year old English pleasure and two year old western pleasure. She just had someone who profiled better ride in the class. You do you.
" western pleasure" Never heard for that as a riding event, just for fun... Very cool then again I am just learning about horses so there is allot I do not know, LOL...... From what I understand you want to be 1/3 of your horse weight with your tack weight and your weight... So that means I if I was to ever get a horse I would need a big draft horse as I am a big guy... If I was to ride I would want to have a western Saddle and ride for pleasure with a trail horse.
People need to keep their opinions to themselves. You know what's best for you.
Its your decision, its between you and and your fìance and the doctor your child and your responsibility nobody else's responsibility or decision, plus i believe Rudnik KNOWS whats happening and is being extra careful animals know better than us a lot of times, also things happen you handle things beautifully as well:)
It’s your body your choice. The only other people you should even consider is your partner and your doctor.
You being active and riding i will bet, will make delivery easier. You are strengthening all those core muscles. I would just be concerned about the heat. You know how you feel and that is all that is important. You are also lowering your level of stress and that ALWAYS is a good thing. 💜💜💜
That’s what I’m hoping for anyways! Thank you 🥰
Anything that gets you moving and exercising is good for you and the baby. Walking is the best exercise for everyone.
Rudnik is awesome. Love his personality. Please do not listen to the negative comments regarding pregnancy & riding. The motion of the horse is extremely beneficial. If I may, please research posting. You should be posting w/his outside front leg… not his inside leg. “Rise & fall w/shoulder on the wall.”
My posting is one of the things I’m working on right now. I am aware of the correct way to do it but as we’re also working on direction changes I can’t always keep up to the changes but it’s a work in progress! I’ll get there eventually 😂
@@rudniktheroan 🥰
What a beautiful pair you guys are!
He will take care of you!
You know your own body, mind and soul and you trust Rednik as he is a calm horse to ride. The general rule of thumb is to keep riding until you are in your 6 or 7 month of pregnancy. It's the getting on and off which becomes the marker for pregnant ladies. You will know when to stop when it becomes uncomfortable for you to do so, don't let the negative comments put a stop to something you love doing just because you are pregnant.
I can’t believe you’re 6 mos pregnant! You look great!
Thank you! I’m trying so hard to remain as active as possible through it all but I’m definitely starting to FEEL 6 months pregnant 🥲😂
@@rudniktheroanriend of mine stacked shelves for 8 months which was very manual. Her baby ( number 3 after a 10 year gap) was born one hour after contractions started because she was physically fit from 8 months of work. You will know when you are not able to ride. Till then enjoy your pre baby time.
My aunt rode through 3 pregnancies, now I have 3 amazing horsemanship cousins. Gently riding can be done quite late into pregnancy. Enjoy yourself and Rudnick time.
I believe that rudnick knows how much you trust him and is more then willing to show you why you should trust him as much as you do.
(Former RN and mother of one).
I have to say you should consult with your doctor or midwife.
There are a couple of issues:
Hypoxia or lack of oxygen. Your baby gets its oxygen through your blood. If you find yourself breathing heavily, remember that's what your baby is experiencing, except that s/he can't breathe; s/he's counting on you.
Physical damage. In the later months, you may perforate the amniotic sac, and the baby needs to be delivered within a day or so because of the danger of infection. If the baby is fairly mature, it may not be a problem (neonatal ICU), but if it is not, you may lose it.
On the other hand, two approaches, same outcome: I had a friend who was pregnant around the same time as I was. I walked a lot for exercise, but she was a tomboy and jogged and went skiing. Her doctor was on her case to sit still. Her baby was born at five pounds, and she looked pretty poorly when she was born (like a bluish, drowned rat), but grew up to be beautiful and smart and is now a mother herself. My baby was born a bit underweight at 6.11 because my placenta failed and my amniotic sac began leaking at six months (due to an amniotic procedure earlier in the pregnancy and the fact that I was forty). My doctor was on my case to have an abortion. I spent the rest of the time in bed after the leaking. I also bled several times throughout the pregnancy. My baby was pink and beautiful after an emergency c-section (before which her heart stopped). She is also beautiful and smart but so far, not a mother.
So you are right, and you'll know what to do. The issue I would fear is the lack of oxygen. If you are panting, your baby is also.
That’s actually a very good point and I will keep that in mind! Being my first pregnancy I’ve always heard that shortness of breath is normal but I’ll definitely look into how short is too short - to ensure I’m not pushing myself beyond the limits. Thank you for that!
@@rudniktheroan There's a difference between the shortness of breath you'll feel when you're toting a watermelon around in your belly and it's pressing on your lungs and the panting you may have after heavy exercise. Best wishes.
Keep enjoying your rides with your boy while you're physically able to. You're listening to your body and not taking silly risks so enjoy it while you can and don't listen to the negative comments. Your well being is important too 💖
Thank you 🥰
Listening to your body is important (different situation but as someone who lives with chronic pain since the age of 14 & another disability I’ve had to listen,stop & slow down when it comes to my body)Even when it means having to forgo one or more days doing something I really enjoy which is either swimming or going for a long walk,I used to beat myself up about it bc I am about 90 percent ambulatory and try & push myself more but found out the hard way that it’s not the best idea to always do it that way. Everyone is different & will have their own plan,way to go about doing something and it is ok that everyone does what works for them. Rudnik is a good boy and he’ll continue to take care of you no matter how long you decide to keep riding I for one can’t wait to see him with his newest BFF.🤗🐎🖤💙
That stumble on some horses could have resulted in an all out fit. Or sudden stop. Rudnik caught himself and as gracefully as possible maintained forward motion slowed. He is highly aware of you. Perhaps when you are further along showing him obstacles such as trail events use and walk him around and over them will keep you both active and engaged in enjoyable time together while expanding experiences. He is a Darling. ❤
It's always a risk vs reward. I'm sure you and your doctors have discussed those. I agree that Rudnik will have a role in the child's future - I believe that horses' senses of smell detect your chemistry and he obviously enjoys it.
Remember that your center of balance changes as your pregnancy progresses, so pay attention to that. Issues can happen any time. Ride your horse and listen to the Doc.
My secretary rode up to the day she gave birth, which was 3 weeks late! Doesn't hurt a thing if you are used to doing it (per doctors)! And the others are right, it's no ones business but your own.
You look wonderful!
Keep doing what you feel able to do. But be careful. Rudnik still knows you are expecting. Hopefully he understands to be careful also.
Good for you! You go girl! Love Rudnik so much!
Every woman is different and every pregnancy is different. As long as you follow your obgyn's advice and you discuss the matters with your partner, it's up to you to decide what to do. At six months I was the size of a hot air balloon and completely out of breath, so I stopped riding, but you look in pretty good shape. And you don't sound like a foolish, careless person, so I don't see the problem.
Personally I think you'll know when it's time to stop, your body will tell you, probably the last month or so, when your bump is bigger your lungs will be pushed upwards so you won't have the breath but you're not stupid so do what feels right, your horse will look after you❤❤❤❤
Good for you and thank you for sharing the videos. I notice that you manage to keep excellent riding form, Stay safe.
Good for you! Good for Rudnik!❤❤❤
It breaks my heart when you have to walk away, too. I’m glad you are still able to ride, and I know Rudnick misses you, too. ❤❤❤
Just listen to your body ❤
Hello :-) Just a random idea but, have you ever thought of perhaps learning carriage driving with Rudnik? That doesn't take a super long time, and could be an enjoyable interaction/training time when you're feeling like riding isn't the right choice anymore. Anyway, congratulations!!
While that would be fun - right now probably isn’t the best time to be learning something new. Exposing him to new situations and environments could increase his risk of a reaction that could put myself or baby in danger. It’s best to stick with what we’re both familiar with and know until have baby is born but that is a great idea for the future!
It is your choice. Go with how you feel!
I had a friend who was ultra runner. She got alot of opinions about her running long distances while pregnant. Her doctor was fine with it. She clocked her fastest marathon time ever when she was four months pregnant!
Wow that’s impressive! Good for her!
I think you should keep doing what you love. You and Rudnik are very in tune to each other. I was expecting something much worse. Your body is used to riding so I think it’s good for you. This would not be a good time to start riding a horse if you’d never done it before. But for you this is normal. The two of you are beautiful together. ❤
Thank you 🥰
Yes, anything can happen on a ride. However, accidents can happen anywhere - you can trip walking up a curb, or slip in the bathroom. You really can’t live in “worst case scenario” mentality. Use the best wisdom and caution you can, which you are doing. I’m an old lady now, but my friend and I rode during our pregnancies. It was wonderful!
I know wheremyou are coming from, I do photography, so I understand where you are, so you do what is good for you. =))
Love the magic spell you cast on your fiancé: 'you didn't see that, ignore that'.
I could just see him stiffen up after it happened so I had to try 😂
You go girl, you know your body and if you sense any issues you know to slow down❤
It’s great exercise and it’s a myth that any accident will give you a miscarriage. Your doctor says fine; you’re good to go 😊
When I was pregnant, I asked my doctor about continuing to ride. He said since I regularly rode my horse already, I could continue to do so…
When it comes to horses, I’ve found “everyone thinks they are an expert” and want to tell the owner what they are doing wrong 😆 so even if your doctor says it’s ok, be prepared for obnoxious opinions 😉
Good for you like you like you say you know how you feel and you trust him. When i rode Holly I trusted her she wouild either stop or slow down if shee though you had lost your balance and wait untill you had sorted yourself out to continue, at the end of the day you build a bond and a level of trust and respect. we also remember that they are an animal and have the potential to spook if something startles them they would not hurt you delibratley and just elike us they will protect themselves. Youre right in what you say with the right horse riding is good for the mental health / outside in the fresh air. i miss riding but thats down to the costs these days and finding somewhere to ride that safe (our roads in the uK are full of idiots ) and of course i would still be searching for another Holly. Nice of you the share you days with Rudnik
C’mon, the kids learning posting trot 😊
You have complete discretion about how far through your pregnancy you wish to ride. In fact, some say that the fitter you are the better you will manage with the actual birth, and i feel like there is some truth to that 💖💖
For what it is worth, and having listened to such medical advice as I could access at the time, I was for a time teaching horse riding to a woman who was eight and a half months pregnant. Her doctor was cool with that. Show jumping for her was a no-no, but dressage was fine. There were other riders present. My main concern was that if she went in to labour I would need to clear the riding arena and send for midwifery assistance.
8 and 1/2! Wow!! That’s awesome! It’s such an amazing workout too I’ve heard it helping so many when it comes time to deliver!
@@rudniktheroan You being riding fit also strengthens your pelvic floor muscles - this reduces the likelihood of any post birth issues in that part of your body.
I hope your pregnancy is not exhausting you too much - one of your previous videos refers.
I wish you well!
It’s lovely to see you out there, doing something you enjoy. You have great instincts. I wish you continued good health. ❤
I rode until I was about 5 months pregnant. By that time I started feeling easily unbalanced as I was mounting. Nothing happened while riding, but since (a) I've always been a little bit timid rider and (b) I didn't have my own horse and was only going to rental stables at that time, I decided to call it off for a while. Of course it took some time to get back to it - several years! but it was fine.
It’s always smart to listen to your body and know when enough is enough but I’m so glad you got to continue enjoying it as long as you did! I know I’ll definitely be happy to get back to our ‘crazy’ riding next summer 😂
Your body will tell you when it's time to take a break from riding. Ignore the haters and enjoy!
You do you! Its absolutely your decision which you make from your very own and very knowledgeable stand point. I applaud you... and Rudnik of course ❤
You got this
Be safe and well. U know ur body and it's abilities and capabilities. U know ur horse. Blessings 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💞 I' m sure u will realize the moment that tells u, time to stop and rest for ur coming delivery. 💕 🤗 💕 🙏 for u and ur close ones.
If you and your doctor are ok with it, and Rudnik is calm and your rides are easy (and you'll get there as your pregnancy progresses).... It's NOBODY'S business but your own. The work your lower body is doing now, since you ride English, is strengthening you for labor. It's better than just sitting around watching your belly grow.
Oh I would go absolutely stir crazy if I couldn’t get out even for a little bit. Even once I can’t ride I’ll be finding any excuse I can to get out to the barn haha
My mom was riding motorcycles at nine months. I think I’m okay😄
😂 and I find motorcycles TERRIFYING so that’s amazing!
That’s your choice. One day you just want fit in the saddle. 😊
you will know, till then enjoy
When I was 10, my mother was pregnant with my baby sister and she was overdue. My dad had the bright idea to put her on a horse and not just any horse but a walker named Rusty. She went into labor that very day. You do you and don’t worry about what anybody else says.. that was a little glitch; a split second but you and Rudnik recovered nicely. Good luck I’ll be keeping up.❤
Sidenote: Rusty was famous for throwing people. He once threw my sister on an electric fence. He reared once and fell backwards on top of my uncle. But he was a good horse and he put my mom into labor that day. This was 53 years ago.
Aw wow! That’s amazing. Thank you so much for sharing that’ 🥰
Actually, riding during pregnancy is good. It strengthens core muscles and muscles you will need when giving birth. It is also beneficial to the fetus. Your deeper breathing adds oxygen to your bloodstream. Not to mention that once you have the baby, please do bring him/her with you into contact with Rudnik, and the dust and other horses. It cuts down on allergies. Early exposure is key. I know people whose parents were almost antiseptically clean... and the child was allergic to everything! Plus, horses sometimes have a real relationship with very young children. They recognize the child's age and frailty (with regards to horse size and strength) and are gentle and even watchful over the child.
I love this, thank you! We are definitely planning to introduce Rudnik to his new bestie as soon as we’re able. With my due date being in January I’m not sure how cold it will be but hopefully we have a mild winter this year haha. I just know Rudnik is as excited as we are to meet the little one!
Or falling in the bathtub, which can be more about being in the moment
It's not like you are just starting riding thus stressing out the body with strange activity on top of pregnancy. I wouldn't go JUMPING or racing (thus bouncing around hard) but if you're feeling okay? Go for it. And your baby is going to find comfort with the motion of a moving horse, so they'll be even more comfortable when they're big enough to ride.
Exactly. We’re keeping it nice and light. Nothing crazy like we used to do just a bit of trotting and slow cantering around the arena 😊
“ ….. opinions ….. continue riding ….. pregnancy ….. “
Not from me.
U know what’s best for u and ur child and its not my business to question it.
Rudnik knows ur pregnant.
He knows u love him and the baby.
He won’t endanger either of u.
Just wait till the baby’s here and watch how Rudnik interacts w/it.
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Was his leg/ hoof okay ? He seems off a bit after stumble. 🤷🏼♀️❤️
It was good! We walked it off and he hasn’t had any issues since the trip. He’s just not used to the footing in this arena yet so it’s been a learning adjustment for us both
Did he step on something that made him stumble? Why did you let go of the reins when it happened? Just curious, not a criticism. I love to watch horse videos but I’m not a rider myself.
He tripped in the sand. It’s a new footing for him so he could still be getting used to it - and I have a VERY loose rein, I’m not gripping them very hard so when his head jerked down they just flew out of my hands 😅
@@rudniktheroan Thanks for reply ❤️
Well you also have to know the biology of pregnancy, so you don't just have to rely on how you feel. Some women have a weaker cervix and are bedbound due to the stress on it causing bleeding etc. They would get issue much faster on a horse. Echoes to see where your placenta is. Nearing delivery your tendons soften to allow for birth resulting in pelvic instability which lands some women in a wheelchair. Obviously that makes riding a horse a bad idea in case anything slips out of position. You may only feel that when it's too late.
Riding a horse always carries a risk, another horse woman I follow had an incident in which she fell of her horse despite all her expirience and the horse being nice and she wound up in a coma, it was kind of a miracle she got out of that as well as she did. Young strong working with horses all day, two young kids, she was also wearing her helmet. A horse is simply a flight animal, they don't have to be easily spooked to move in strange ways, they slip too. So I think that's another reason to not ride close to 9 months when there is so little amneotic fluid to carry any bumbs.
Wouldn't Shaken baby syndrome happen every time you bounce? Surprised the Dr encouraged you.
Not at all - i can promise you I get more rattled going over some speed bumps than I do riding
There’s so much fluid inside the sack they’re cushioned. Otherwise everytime we move we’d risk giving them SBS
Shaken baby syndrome is when someone violently shakes an infant or toddler (after it's born)
The new life growing in your womb is your responsibility. You need to put his or her safety first, not your own "needs".
It's also HER decision with HER doctor and HER partner 🙂
I agree prioritize your child. You’ll never forgive yourself if something happens. You can “trust” your horse all you want, but he’s still a prey animal with instincts.
So we shouldn’t ride bikes or drive cars either because of all the accidents that can happen? Pregnant women have ridden horses for thousands of years. We can’t just sit in our houses in a bubble in fear of what ‘might’ happen.
@rudniktheroan your reasoning there is flawed.
Those are machines that you're in control of.
A horse is an animal, you might try to control him, and being such a gentle, loving & clever horse , he'll trust your directions, most of the time.
I do enjoy your videos but please, please be careful.
But you’re not in control of the drivers around you? How many accidents are caused by others? I understand your point but at the same time - we can’t stop our lives. The toll it would take on our mental health. As pregnant women were already so susceptible to depression and mental health problems. If we have an outlet that allows us to still enjoy our lives (while still listening to our body and knowing when enough is enough) then we need to be able to continue to enjoy them. We are always cautious which is why we don’t do anything crazy and we have stepped back and toned down a lot of what we do to decrease those risks that come
with it. But like with anything in life, anything can happen no matter how in control you may think you are, but we can’t live in fear. We can just be cautious and careful in continuing to enjoy those things