Josh, I'd like to say this to you, as a mother who had a baby through the NHS. There may be a point where you have to be forceful with the midwives, not in a cruel way, but in a firm assertive way. Be insistent. If Gabby cannot go forward with the situation she could be in, it's down to you to stand up for her when she's most vulnerable. I didn't have this during my birth which ended up in an emergency C-section after 50 hours of non-productive labour. I had to fight and yell, literally. To make them give me the C-section. No one listened to me or stood up for me when I knew something was wrong. I know you're a good man and will do whatever you have to for your beautiful wife❤. Please don't let this frighten you, just be aware of what you may have to do. Sending this message with love for you all.
I second this. Guys wonder what they can do when their wife is in labour. T best answer is advocate for her when she is too vulnerable to advocate for herself. My husband did this for me and I truly believe he saved my son’s life. Sometimes unfortunately midwives in the UK don’t listen.
My sons heart rate was dropping massively with every contraction and the midwives said it was because the contractions were so strong they were losing contact. They put a clip on baby’s head to measure the heart rate a different way to reassure my husband but it showed that the heart rate was actually dropping that low. 30 minutes later I had my baby out with ventouse. All the best guys.
@@sapphireemerald6109 since she said NHS, her birthing experience must be in the UK. NHS is very anti c section, there were many policies in place that capped hospitals’ c section rates. it has caused much grief to many families. they are now doing inquiries and investigations on the c section denial issue, if you google it it’ll come up
@@stephanietraylor6052midwives and labor/delivery nurses in the US can be this way also. People need to remember, these people are NOT obstetricians, and sonetimes they just don't have the expertise to make these decisions, but they believe they do. Make sure you or your coach/partner are able to stand your ground and demand a obstetrician make the call. I had an emergency c-section also. Don't let anyone jeopardize your or your babies lives and well being!
I'm going to be blunt. Giving birth is painful. Don't be a hero. Get the epidural. Have that baby in a hospital, you can have have all the plans in the world, but things can happen in an instant that are out of your control. You want an immediate response. Best of luck on your delivery! ❤
also people underplay the very common complications of natural birth, incontinence etc are common following a natural birth. Also the UK seems waaay too reluctant to do C-sections, even if it is safer- my sister in law and her sister had their first kids naturally-and their pelvises were too small for it to be safe- they were both very lucky to get through and both needed transfusions afterwards. Don't be a hero, and do consider C-section if it is even suggested
@@alicehughes4926 Read my entry above. My pelvis was too small also, and after 59 hours of labor, finally had a c-section. C-sections are SURGERY under anathesia! It is NOT natural birth, and it is NOT safer. Your body is equipped for birth, not surgery, and the shock to the body produces many more afteraffects than natural.
@@shishurhuhajhso No One can say what it'll be, that doesn't need to be said-my point is that she should Only take it if necessary, otherwise an "epidural-free" birth could actually go quite smoother and faster. That shouldn't be hard for anyone to understand what I wrote in the most simplest terms-no need to complicate things.
Hey Gabbie! I’m a nurse, nothing in medicine is a 100% safe we can’t promise that but from what I have seen some moms would come in rejecting the epidural but 5 hours into the pushing process they give up and ask for it. The amount of pain you will experience is unexplainable so don’t make it harder for yourself, make it as smooth as possible. One thing I would add is the amount of strain you put on yourself does affect the baby and the longer the process and pushing the more risk for the baby’s heart beat to decrease. I had this hilarious mom who would wait with her husband for the epidural to ring ( it’s patient controlled anesthesia) to press for it, they made it a fun activity.
I concur with you. Josh would also have to be assertive when advocating for Gabi when she is in active labour when there are midwives or a staff member being complacent or too aggressive when foremost part is they listen to Gabi when she is the 1 living in her skin, flesh & bone.
On this show about women having babies, I saw one woman who opted for no epidural. At one point, she was in so much pain and shaking. It looked like she was having seizures, but she wasn’t. She ended up having an epidural.
Best birthing advice ever is - Just Surrender. Surrender to the fear, surrender to the pain, surrender to whatever happens. Enjoy your last few moments as a couple, because once the baby is born, it’s a hectic flurry of changing nappies, breast-feeding, sleepless nights, crying etc. Just surrender to it all from a state of relaxed happiness, and know that all is well, no matter how your baby comes earthside. Remember back to when this was your wish? When all you wanted was to be pregnant? Don’t let a day go by without being grateful for the blessing, and just surrender and be in the now moment. All will be well. Enjoy x
'Surrender' was my mantra going into each of my births - you can't control what happens, so you might aswell trust in your body and go with it. Experience it intentionally, be curious about how incredible your body is. If you need drugs, go for it. If you need intervention, let's go. If you get through it without anything, then that's good too. It's not a competition and no one should judge you for what happens, not even ourselves. xx
You both have fought so hard just to be pregnant with your baby girl. Don’t let delivery scare you I had my first with drugs and my second natural. There’s no right or wrong it’s whatever makes y’all happy. I’m now 70 years old and I can still recall my pure joy at giving birth. You will be fine. Trust in the Lord because with Him you’ve got this!! Peace, love and blessings from Oklahoma ❤️
무통은 무조건 맞는 게 맞아요.. 인간이 가장 강하게 느끼는 고통 중 하나가 출산인데 무통 주사 맞지 말라는 건 너무 이기적이죠... 여러 분들이 말씀해주신 것처럼 가비님은 노산이시기 때문에 risk factor가 별거 아니더라도 크게 작용할 수 있어요. 무조건 자연 출산이 좋은 게 아니니까 여러 방면으로 많이 생각해두시는 게 좋을 것 같네요!! 너무 겁먹으시지 마시고 의료진들 믿고 선택해주세요!!
@@nicolad8822 yep:) kinda misleading. it means like She is not giving birth in early age, could be little bit older compared to other ppl who's giving birth. And there is a short term for that in Korean that could be bit misleading 😊 (bc it's an old term came from chinese character so translator might get it wrong) The commenter is saying they definitely need ephidural because there's higher chance that Gabie could have more pain or risk situation bc of age factor☺️
I've had 3 babies with 3 very different labours - epidural, no epidural and then emergency c-section. Each where as scary but as powerful as each other because I got to see how strong I could be, and what my body can do (with and without intervention) to bring my babies into the world. We're incredible no matter what happens xx
가비님 영국에서 의사생활하고 있는 레지던트입니다. 영국은 midwife 가 텃세가 장난아니고 대부분이 의사들에게 internal 적대감이있는것같아요. 그리고 they try to make the patient feel that having a doctor is a bad thing. 그래서 emergency 일때 의사를 부르려하고 마치 의사를 부르는게 나쁜것처럼 부정적이게 생각하는게 없지않아 있는것같아요. 그렇기에 남편이나 가족들이 산모가 아이를 낳을때는 항상 advocate 대신 해주는게 중요하다고 생각해요. 특히 staff shortage 가 심한 nhs 병원같은경우에는요. 가비님이 epidural 받으시면 midwife led unit 이아닌 Labour ward 에 계시기때문에 ctg monitpring하고 의사들이 상주해있어 midwife 들의 텃세가 덜할수도있지만 nhs maternity unit 들중 엄청 환자들이 만족감이 큰 병원은 별로 본적이없어서 조쉬님이 옆에서 잘 모니터 해드려야해요... 그렇다고 private 병원이 더좋다는건 아니고요. 보통 시술같은것은 private 에 그냥 가겠지만, 아이 낳는것은 오히려 nhs 가 더안전하다 봅니다. 가비님이 어디로 결정 하셨는지는 잘모르겠지만, 사립은 물론 시설은 좋겠지만 Emergency 여력들이 불확실하고 큰일나면 e.g. major haemorrhage protocol 등 문제가생기면 확실하게 crash team 과 마취과 중환자실 전문의가 있는 대학병원보다는 안좋기에 (무슨 큰일 나면 무조건 앰뷸런스타고 어차피 nhs A&E 가야해서) private maternity unit 은 잘 알아보실필요가있어요 (물론 private 병원마다 다르겠지만요). 어떤 결정을 하시던 순산하시고 어찌됬던 산모가 마음이 편해야 아이도 편안하니 어떤결정을 하시전 걱정말고 잘되실거에요. God bless.
저는 자궁내막종 보유자였고 피임약 처방받아 1년 넘게 복용하고 내막종이 완전히 없어진 후 자연임신을 했어요. 한국서는 막달 초산모에게 유도분만을 많이 권해서 생각 없이 유도분만 들어갔고 진통 겪다가 애 머리가 골반에 끼어서 결국 제왕했습니다. 제왕을 위해 몸을 열어보니 어이 없게도 임신기간동안 자궁내막종이 2센티 자라있어서 주치의가 오픈한 김에 같이 떼주셨습니다. 진통과 제왕을 모두 겪어보니 그냥 처음부터 제왕할 걸 후회합니다 ㅎㅎㅎㅋㅋㅋ 남들보다 체력저하가 심각하고 각종 뼈마디가 다 열려서 회복에 1년이 훨씬 넘게 걸렸어요. 글구 결정하실 때 가비씨가 실질적으로 노산인 것도 무조건 고려하세요. 노산은 진통 때 몸이 잘 열리지 않는다는 걸 제가 경험하였네요 ㅠㅠㅋㅋㅋ 어떤 결정을 하든 순풍 낳으세요!!
저도 35살에 임신 36살에 초산했는데요. 윗분처럼 하루종일 진통하다가 제왕절개 부탁했는데, 남편반대로 계속 진통하다가 결국 아이 심장에 무리가 와서 8cm 자궁문 열어놓고 제왕절개 했네요. 회복 2배로 힘들었고요 ㅠㅠ 저희 친정엄마가 난산하셨다고 하는데… 그런 것도 닮을 수 있다는 점 참고하세요. 둘째 낳다가는 대량출혈로 대형병원 응급실에서 1주일간 입원도 했네요. 산모의 건강이 최우선이네요. 병원에서 출산하시고 순산하시길 ~
저는 독일에서 촉진제로 자연분만 유도하다 결국 제왕절개 했구요. 전신마취 아니고 하반신만해서 정신 말짱하게 수술했는데 후회 없었어요. 하나도 안무섭고 5분이면 아기 만나거든요.... 둘 이상 제왕절계는 힘들지만 아니면 저는 추천해요. 둘다 경험한 사람중에 수술자리 아무는것이 자연분만 아래 절개보다 덜아프단사람도 있고... 사람마다 다 달라서 결국 본인선택이지만. ,, 제왕절개 하나도 안무섭구 회복도 빨라요 .100년전에도 여자들 애가 낳았대요~걱정마세요^^
What I learned from my birthing classes was that if I could RELAX, my body would open up and baby would come out. I chose a home birth, which was beautiful and best for me, but maybe not best for everyone. I would recommend getting answers to all your questions, then doing what will help you be the most relaxed during labor and delivery. For example, I learned that only 1 in 10 women who birth at home need to be transferred to hospital. That gave me peace of mind about my decision to birth at home. Praying for you!
You should check out Sarah’s Day first birth. She went for a natural birth but she was so tense that her muscles actually prevented her from birthing, the epidural was needed to relax everything. Whatever you all decide, it’s right for you, regardless of what hospitals prefer.
Our body is crazy. I went in for scheduled csection at 37 weeks. 2 hours and a half before going in the OR they inserted the catheter and the result of that my water broke immediately. Doctors didn't say the reason that happened but because I went through the same thing with my first daughter, I suspect it was because of stress. Crazy how our body can response to things.
자연주의 좋은거 누가 모르는지.. 순리대로 낳는거 가장 저도 원하는 바에요 (10월 출산 예정) 하지만 초산인 산모는 자신의 상황을 예상 할 수 없고 (하물며 의료진들도.. 자연분만 하다 응급제왕으로 넘어가는 경우 진짜 많이 보고 들음) 고통도 얼마난지도 모르죠 그러니 자신의 몸과 아이의 태어나는 모든 과정은 가장 안전한 상황에서 하고싶고 그러하니 선택은 부부 두분이 잘 상의해서 현명한 선택 하길 바랍니다 진심으로요. 만일에 상황에 대비해 병원 출산이 좋다고 생각 합니다
그냥 단순한 문화차이라는거 당연히 알고 있지만 그래도 제왕과 무통 주사의 부작용은 설명하면서 자연주의와 가정출산의 부작용은 설명하지 않고 후자로 은근히 유도하는게 없지 않아 있는거 같아서 충격이네요..😂 무엇이 됐든 조쉬가 이야기한거처럼 가비가 원하는 방법으로 하는게 맞아여 다 떠나서 '내 몸'으로 겪는 일이니까요
첫출산이라 아무래도 겁이 나시겠지만,병원에서 출산은 아무리 응급상황이라고 해도 의료진이 대처할 수 있으니 너무 걱정마시고 순산하시기를 바래요.. 진통이 시작되면 아마 무통주사를 바로 찾을 정도로 고통스러운데,아기가 너무 크거나 진행이 더딘 경우는 산모와 아기의 안전을 위해 제왕절개도 염두해 두시는게 좋아요
아이를 낳고 키우는 과정에서 희생해야되는 부분이 많으니 힘드실 꺼예요 근데 어느정도 키워놓으니 그시절 너무 예쁘고 귀엽고 더 귀한 시간이였는데 왜 충분히 예쁨을 못 느끼고 더 잘해주지 못 했는지 아쉬워서 울컥 할때가 있답니다 두분이서 너무 잘 키우시겠지만 아이에 대한 사랑과 행복을 꼭 충분히 누리시길 바랄께요~건강하게 순산하시고 행복하세요😊❤
임밍아웃하고 같이 울었던게 엊그제같은데 이렇게 배부르다니 진짜 시간빠르네요 아기 키우는것도 그래요 순식간에 크는것 같다니까요 제발 늦게 커라 말할 정도 그래서 항상 순간을 즐겨야해요~~^^ 그리고 선택이 의미가 없기도 해요 상황따라ㅋㅋㅋ 저는 자연분만을 엄청 주창하던 사람였어요 근데 의사샘은 제왕절개 가능성이 있다는거에요 전 완전 무시하고 진통하면서 자연분만할거라면서 고집피웠죠 12시간이 넘도록 자궁문 열리지 않고 진행이 안되서 결국 이러다 둘다 클나지싶어 결국 제왕했잖아요 사람들은 이게 제일 안좋은 케이스라는데 전 그래도 진통해보고 한게 후회없어요 아이를 위해 선택을 해봤으니까 처음부터 진통없이 수술로 바로 갔음 몰랐을 경험이고 아이도 준비할 시간도 주었고 아이한테 덜 미안하더라구요 수술후에도 통증이 또 있어서 아이안고 젖먹여야하는 고통에 죽을맛이었지만 엄마니까 해낼 수 있고 해야한다고 생각이 들었던게 저도 신기해요~~ 그렇게 아이낳으면 독하리만치 강해지더라구요. 일단 자연분만 선택해서 제왕으로 바뀌더라도 아깝다 내가 왜 진통을 생으로 겪었나 후회할 필요는 없다는거에요. 경험자로서^^ 그또한 소중한경험입니다. 몸작은 사람이 더 자연분만 잘하는게 국룰이던데 가비씨는 가능할듯~~
제왕 했어요^^ 수면마취 중이라 사람 많은지 그런거 모르고 잘 자고 일어나니까 다 끝나 있었어요ㅋㅋ 저도 수술과정이나 사진을 봤으면 어땠을지 모르겠는데 지금은 후회하지 않아요 제주변에 자연분만 했던분들 중에 허리디스크가 생긴 분들이 많아서(아이가 나오면서 척추가 눌리면서 디스크가 터진대여)저는 엄마의 강력추천으로 제왕했고 제 허리는 무사하답니다^^
저는 영국남자 구독자지만 임신 응원하고 있었고 해서 댓글 남겨봐요..제가 배우기는 신생아는 밤낮이 없어 못자니까 엄마도 수면이 줄어드는??호르몬이 나온다고 하더라구요 (정확한 단어는 생각이 안나네요)막달되니까 진짜 저는 4시간자고 했어요 점점더 힘드시겠지만...힘들게 얻은 만큼 어떤 방식이든 꼭 건강히 출산 하시길 응원합니다🙏🏻 너무 아름다운 부부화이팅입니다👍🏻
You guys discussing your impressions as well as all the pro/cons is SO good, bc people get very up in arms about this subject very quickly (thinking that one is the correct choice and all the others are wrong). Good idea!
조쉬님이 산모가 가장 마음이 편하고 출산 방식에 확신이 있는게 중요하다는 말에 너무 공감해요! 아기도 중요하지만 결국 순산이란 엄마와 아기가 모두 안전하고 건강하게 잘 출산하는거니까요 꼬옥 순산하세요 가비님! 멀리서나마 응원하고 있겠습니다:) 점점 더 몸도 힘드실텐데 영상으로 소식 전해주셔서 너무 감사드립니다😊
Gabi, you look more and more beautiful with each day. Baby girl, Carrot, is a real beauty. Enjoy each day and each and every change your body goes through... you're growing a miracle! Congratulations! ❤😊
I cannot WAIT to see Baby Carrot out of the belly!!! She's going to be so beautful and so loved!!! I had a baby girl 26 years ago, and she was the best thing that happened to me. I had a 29-hour long, fairly painful labor, but I got drugs to ease the pain, and instead of an epidural, I got a single shot in the spine, which *I* thought made me sleep for two hours, but I guess I was awake and talking to people. But after the two hours, it was time to push, and she came out perfect (well, a little hairier than I thought babies could be...she looked like a little chimpanzee!!!)!!! It'll be a great experience, and honestly, I didn't remember the pain when I saw the little hands and feet and lips and deep dark eyes. It'll be exceptional. :-) You two are in my prayers!!!
저는 22시간 진통 후 골반이 작아서 아이가 더 내려오지 못한다고해서 제왕절개로 출산했는데요~😅😅 무통맞고 진통이 길어지다보니 제왕 후 마취에 깼을때 회복하는데 시간이 오래걸렸어요~ 부종이 심해 걷기도 힘들었죠~~ 전 당연히 자연분만 할 줄알았는데 진통을 그렇게나 오래하고 제왕 할줄 몰랐습니다ㅎㅎ 애기 낳으러 가기 전까지, 낳으러 병원가서도 어찌될지 모르는게 제왕이냐 자연분만이냐 같아요~ 물론 처음부터 제왕을 하겠다고 날짜맞춰 가는 케이스도 있지만요~~ 순산하신길 기원하며~~ 제 케이스를 풀어봤어요ㅎㅎ
출산형태에 대해 고민해본다는 자체가 너무 좋다고 생각해요! 저도 한국에서 자연주의 출산으로 아이를 낳았는데 무엇보다 어떤형태로 출산을 할지 고민을 해보니 아이도 어떻게 키울지 등등 주도적인 육아를 하게 되더라고요! 어떤 선택을 하시든지 중요한건 산모가 중요하게 생각하는 부분이 무엇인지에 따라 출산형태를 선택하시면 되요! 어떤것이든 장단점이 있으니까요^^ 정말 아이 갖기 전부터 계속 응원했어요!! 힘내세요!!
한국에서도 자연주의 출산 하는 곳이 있고 받아주시는 조산사분도 여럿 계셔요^^ 자연주의 출산으로 좋았던 점을 알려드리면 아이낳고 탯줄을 늦게 끊을수 있었던것...아이가 탯줄안에 있는 혈액(줄기세포에 쓴다는 혈)에 있는 혈을 다 먹을때까지 기다렸다가 탯줄을 끊고요. (그래서 탯줄이 2~3일만에 배꼽에서 빠져요^^) 아빠가 1시간동안 윗옷 벗고 심장소리 들려주며 캥거루 케어 할 수 있는것!(한국에선 캥거루케어 못하죠) 그리고 함께 출산에 아빠가 참여하다보니 아이를 낳고나서 엄마보다 아빠가 더 힘들어 했어요ㅋㅋㅋ 계속 마사지 해주고 같이 힘주고 하느라요 ㅋㅋㅋ
This was such a nice and healing topic to watch and it’s so cute to go with you guys throughout this journey! I cried my eyes out after you guys have been trying and it’s finally getting to the day! Congrats again and I’ve come to appreciate my mum more watching the process haha
So excited for the both of you! Not too much longer and you will get to see your baby girl and hold her in your arms. Hope your delivery is smooth with no complications.
I like how Josh is supporting you and letting you decide whatever is best for you. I know I was most comfortable having an epidural. I had two beautiful girls with epidural and it worked beautifully. Prayers yours goes very smoothly.
Did you gain any after effects? A lot of people I know who had epidural said they got long term back pains as a result. So I’m really undecided about the decision to do it if I ever do have a child. The unpredictability of it all is what scares me because all women are different and respond differently to things. And it’s hard to know what to do until you’re in that position. It’s scary for sure.
@@JoeMama-kz4sx I did not have any after effects, although the epidural actually only worked on one side of my body for my second daughter. They tried to get me to lay on my other side, but it was too late because it was time to push. But still it did help. And it worked absolutely perfectly for my first daughter. It’s something that you have to decide for yourself for sure. Wishing you the best.
I had to do an emergency c-section, because my son's heart rate dropped too low. I was so worried about my son. My doctor assured me that once they get me into the operating room, they could get him out in 6 seconds if they had to. They didn't have to rush that fast because, luckily, his heart rate stabilized, but it was reassuring that the doctors and staff know what they're doing. You will be fine. And the epidural is the BEST thing ever. (In my opinion) There is no right and wrong. You do what feels right for you. So excited to see baby Carrot! Congratulations again!
I am so excited for yall! Gabbie you are going to do wonderfully no matter what you choose. I love how supportive Josh is and how ready you are to see your baby girl. Seeing your baby for the first time is hands down the moment jn life that will instantly change you forever ❤❤❤
저는 한국의 전문의에요. 제 경우 아이가 38주가 되어도 아래로 잘 내려오지 않아서 선택제왕했어요. 인턴 전공의 과정에서 자연분만에 여러가지 불확실성이 있는 것을 많이 보기도 했구요. 수술하고 나서 주치의샘이 아이가 탯줄을 목에 세바퀴 감고 있었다며 제왕 선택하길 잘했다고 하셨어요. (하반신 마취여서 아이 꺼내는 걸 느낄 수 있었는데 꺼내며 엄청 낑낑대시는게 느껴졌었어요. 아마 탯줄을 목에 감고 있어서였던 것 같아요) 아이가 목에 탯줄을 감고 있는지는 막달에 초음파에서 자세히 보이지 않고, 또 아이가 그사이에 몸을 돌리며 감을 수도 있기 때문에 잘 모를 수 있거든요. 결국 제왕이 제가 살면서 가장 잘한 선택이 되었네요. 아무쪼록 가비님도 주치의와 잘 상의하셔서 현명하고 안전하게 출산하시길 빌어요~
저는 쌍둥이라 안전 1순위로 여겨셔 제왕했는데 둘째가 탯줄을 목에 감고 있었던 상황이었어요.. 후에 제왕하길 정말 잘했다 싶더라고요!! 막달에 컨디션, 상황 잘 보시고 선택 하시길 바래요.. 둘째같은 경우도 초음파에서 알 수 없었던 터라.. 산모와 아이 모두 안전한 출산에 제일 중요한 것 같습니다!! 가비님, 순산하시길요❤
Sweet Gabie, your body is getting ready for sleepless nights. My babies are in their late thirties and forty. But I remember waking up during the night and not being able to sleep, while I was still working. Then when baby was born, they woke me up at the exact time I was during pregnancy. Labor is hard, no doubt. But you do what makes you and Josh most comfortable, and safe for precious baby girl. She is beautiful, and your life will never be the same. Oh the joy awaiting you both!
Man, I've been following your journey for some time, since way before your first injection, but now every video is hitting me super hard in the feels. I became an uncle for the first time on May 15th, so now everything baby-related is a LOT more interesting! Best wishes to you and your soon-to-be family of 3 :D
I can’t tell you how happy I am to see you guys becoming parents, my sister had very similar struggles but after many’s years I FINALLY HAVE A NIECE!!!!! So I wish you all the happiness and health x I just remember crying so much during this journey and when you said you were pregnant I cried because I knew how much it meant.
I had an emergency c section with my son after 18 hours of labor and then a planned C with my daughter after that. No matter what method, do whatever works for you and is safe for both you and the baby. Everyone will have opinions so trust your own feelings. Sending all our love and support to you, Josh and baby Carrot from NY!!
I am hooked with you two! Jour journey be it the beginning of EnglishKoreanman and your married life and now this pregnancy, mind-blowing to say the least!. All is well. All will be well!!
제가 제왕절개를 두번 했는데 솔직히 전 진통하다가 수술한거라 수술이라는 선택지가 있어서 내가 사는 구나 싶을 정도로 감사했어요 첫번째는 경황없는 사이에 누워있기 때문에 아이가 태어나는 것만 생생하게 느끼지 다른건 보이지도 않고 어서 재워줬으면 했고 둘째는 미리 날짜를 정해서 간거라 수술실에서 수술 준비시간이 40여분 걸리더라구요 그때가 좀 기분이 울쩍해지면서 두려우면서 좀 다운됐는데 일단 수술 시작하면 금방이고 다 끝났구나 하는 순간 머리맡에 앉아계시던 마취의사 선생님이 축하해주시고 칭찬해주셔서 평생 잊지 못할 위로를 받았네요 전 제왕절개할때 깨어나지 못하고 피도 많이 흘려서 수혈해야 할거 같다고 하셨는데도 다행히 당일날 일어나서 걸어다녔어요 회복기간이 진통하는 시간보다 절대적으로 저는 힘들지 않았어요 그냥 선택의 순간이 올때 제왕절개도 너무 두려워하지 마시라고 글 남겨봅니다
Gabie, watching your journey reminds me of when I had my son. I had a room full of medical staff due to a situation that arose. It happens. It was uncomfortable but baby boy had to come out. Just focus on your task at hand - delivering a healthy Baby Carrott. My hubby really took charge as I was a bit out of it. Make sure Josh is ready to take control. We decided on what point hubby would take over beforehand. That really helped us. So excited for you to see Baby Girl!
i wish you all the best for you and your family ❤️ may your little carrot be born healthy and happy without any complications. you guys are always in my thoughts, stay strong!!
Josh is correct. Gabi, you have to do what makes you the most comfortable. This means you are more relaxed and less stressed for the entire experience. That makes it easier on your body. You guys are going to be amazing parents! Can't wait for photos of the beautiful baby carrot! 🧡
Also, remember that sometimes the epidural don't work! I had 2 epidural, and both didn't work! I had both babies 5 weeks early and both came out perfectly fine! Just learn to surrender to your body! Let your body do what it has to do to get the baby out! When you are in the moment.. nothing else matters but your health and the baby health!
저는 지금 캐나다에 사는 국제커플이지만 아이들은 다 한국에서 낳았어요. 당근이 입체초음파를 보니 13년전 우리딸 초음파 사진 생각이 나서 뭉클했어요 ㅜㅠ 가비님처럼 자궁내막증으로 첫째딸 어렵게 낳았고 아기가 너무 커서 힘들거라는 의사선생님의 권유로 제왕절개를 했어요. 제왕절개 수술하시고 의사선생님께서 병실로 오셔서 아기 낳은거 기적이라고 하셨어요. 자궁내막이 너무너무너무 심한 케이스였대요. 둘째 가지고 싶으면 빨리 시도하라고 하셨어요. 자궁내막이 또 자라니까요. 저희는 딸만 잘키우자 했는데 삼년뒤 아들을 또 낳았네요.😊 저도 첫째 출산전에 너무 무서워서 남편이랑 엉엉 울었던 생각이나요 ㅋㅋ 고통은 잠시고 행복 시작일거에요. 첫째딸 낳고 남편이랑 진짜 재밌게 꽁냥꽁냥 육아했거든요. 우리 둘이서 하던 모든게 새멤버랑 하니까 너무 새롭고 재밌었어요. 조쉬님과 행복한 육아하시길요❤
Josh, I'd like to say this to you, as a mother who had a baby through the NHS. There may be a point where you have to be forceful with the midwives, not in a cruel way, but in a firm assertive way. Be insistent. If Gabby cannot go forward with the situation she could be in, it's down to you to stand up for her when she's most vulnerable. I didn't have this during my birth which ended up in an emergency C-section after 50 hours of non-productive labour. I had to fight and yell, literally. To make them give me the C-section. No one listened to me or stood up for me when I knew something was wrong. I know you're a good man and will do whatever you have to for your beautiful wife❤. Please don't let this frighten you, just be aware of what you may have to do. Sending this message with love for you all.
Hi, can I ask you where you're from? Did they deny you a csection when you've in a NP labor for 50 hours?
I second this. Guys wonder what they can do when their wife is in labour. T best answer is advocate for her when she is too vulnerable to advocate for herself. My husband did this for me and I truly believe he saved my son’s life. Sometimes unfortunately midwives in the UK don’t listen.
My sons heart rate was dropping massively with every contraction and the midwives said it was because the contractions were so strong they were losing contact. They put a clip on baby’s head to measure the heart rate a different way to reassure my husband but it showed that the heart rate was actually dropping that low. 30 minutes later I had my baby out with ventouse. All the best guys.
@@sapphireemerald6109 since she said NHS, her birthing experience must be in the UK. NHS is very anti c section, there were many policies in place that capped hospitals’ c section rates. it has caused much grief to many families. they are now doing inquiries and investigations on the c section denial issue, if you google it it’ll come up
@@stephanietraylor6052midwives and labor/delivery nurses in the US can be this way also.
People need to remember, these people are NOT obstetricians, and sonetimes they just don't have the expertise to make these decisions, but they believe they do.
Make sure you or your coach/partner are able to stand your ground and demand a obstetrician make the call.
I had an emergency c-section also. Don't let anyone jeopardize your or your babies lives and well being!
When Josh said, "This is not my decision." I felt that. That is how a true partner thinks, and acts.
That’s exactly how I felt!!! 😊 Josh is literally the best husband ❤
I'm going to be blunt. Giving birth is painful. Don't be a hero. Get the epidural. Have that baby in a hospital, you can have have all the plans in the world, but things can happen in an instant that are out of your control. You want an immediate response. Best of luck on your delivery! ❤
also people underplay the very common complications of natural birth, incontinence etc are common following a natural birth. Also the UK seems waaay too reluctant to do C-sections, even if it is safer- my sister in law and her sister had their first kids naturally-and their pelvises were too small for it to be safe- they were both very lucky to get through and both needed transfusions afterwards. Don't be a hero, and do consider C-section if it is even suggested
@@alicehughes4926 Read my entry above. My pelvis was too small also, and after 59 hours of labor, finally had a c-section. C-sections are SURGERY under anathesia! It is NOT natural birth, and it is NOT safer. Your body is equipped for birth, not surgery, and the shock to the body produces many more afteraffects than natural.
ALL births are Not "painful", I know plentyyy of women who do noT have complicated births so she should noT get that unless absolutely necessary!
This is pure ignorance @@nikkirockznikkirockz8551
@@shishurhuhajhso No One can say what it'll be, that doesn't need to be said-my point is that she should Only take it if necessary, otherwise an "epidural-free" birth could actually go quite smoother and faster. That shouldn't be hard for anyone to understand what I wrote in the most simplest terms-no need to complicate things.
Hey Gabbie! I’m a nurse, nothing in medicine is a 100% safe we can’t promise that but from what I have seen some moms would come in rejecting the epidural but 5 hours into the pushing process they give up and ask for it. The amount of pain you will experience is unexplainable so don’t make it harder for yourself, make it as smooth as possible. One thing I would add is the amount of strain you put on yourself does affect the baby and the longer the process and pushing the more risk for the baby’s heart beat to decrease.
I had this hilarious mom who would wait with her husband for the epidural to ring ( it’s patient controlled anesthesia) to press for it, they made it a fun activity.
I did my first 2 births all natural…they were grueling 24-26 hours. On my third I “caved” and got an epidural. OMG, it was like a vacation.
I concur with you. Josh would also have to be assertive when advocating for Gabi when she is in active labour when there are midwives or a staff member being complacent or too aggressive when foremost part is they listen to Gabi when she is the 1 living in her skin, flesh & bone.
On this show about women having babies, I saw one woman who opted for no epidural. At one point, she was in so much pain and shaking. It looked like she was having seizures, but she wasn’t. She ended up having an epidural.
Best birthing advice ever is - Just Surrender. Surrender to the fear, surrender to the pain, surrender to whatever happens. Enjoy your last few moments as a couple, because once the baby is born, it’s a hectic flurry of changing nappies, breast-feeding, sleepless nights, crying etc. Just surrender to it all from a state of relaxed happiness, and know that all is well, no matter how your baby comes earthside. Remember back to when this was your wish? When all you wanted was to be pregnant? Don’t let a day go by without being grateful for the blessing, and just surrender and be in the now moment. All will be well. Enjoy x
'Surrender' was my mantra going into each of my births - you can't control what happens, so you might aswell trust in your body and go with it. Experience it intentionally, be curious about how incredible your body is. If you need drugs, go for it. If you need intervention, let's go. If you get through it without anything, then that's good too. It's not a competition and no one should judge you for what happens, not even ourselves. xx
Excellent advice
As if you have a choice😂😂😂
I must have a different personality type, this sounds terrifying to me. That said I was terrified of giving birth and opted for the c section ☺️
True.
You both have fought so hard just to be pregnant with your baby girl. Don’t let delivery scare you I had my first with drugs and my second natural. There’s no right or wrong it’s whatever makes y’all happy. I’m now 70 years old and I can still recall my pure joy at giving birth. You will be fine. Trust in the Lord because with Him you’ve got this!! Peace, love and blessings from Oklahoma ❤️
무통은 무조건 맞는 게 맞아요.. 인간이 가장 강하게 느끼는 고통 중 하나가 출산인데 무통 주사 맞지 말라는 건 너무 이기적이죠... 여러 분들이 말씀해주신 것처럼 가비님은 노산이시기 때문에 risk factor가 별거 아니더라도 크게 작용할 수 있어요. 무조건 자연 출산이 좋은 게 아니니까 여러 방면으로 많이 생각해두시는 게 좋을 것 같네요!! 너무 겁먹으시지 마시고 의료진들 믿고 선택해주세요!!
Elderly? I hope that is a lost in translation thing!
@@nicolad8822 yep:) kinda misleading. it means like She is not giving birth in early age, could be little bit older compared to other ppl who's giving birth. And there is a short term for that in Korean that could be bit misleading 😊 (bc it's an old term came from chinese character so translator might get it wrong) The commenter is saying they definitely need ephidural because there's higher chance that Gabie could have more pain or risk situation bc of age factor☺️
Josh is such a great partner. That's what every woman needs.
I've had 3 babies with 3 very different labours - epidural, no epidural and then emergency c-section. Each where as scary but as powerful as each other because I got to see how strong I could be, and what my body can do (with and without intervention) to bring my babies into the world. We're incredible no matter what happens xx
가비님 영국에서 의사생활하고 있는 레지던트입니다. 영국은 midwife 가 텃세가 장난아니고 대부분이 의사들에게 internal 적대감이있는것같아요. 그리고 they try to make the patient feel that having a doctor is a bad thing. 그래서 emergency 일때 의사를 부르려하고 마치 의사를 부르는게 나쁜것처럼 부정적이게 생각하는게 없지않아 있는것같아요. 그렇기에 남편이나 가족들이 산모가 아이를 낳을때는 항상 advocate 대신 해주는게 중요하다고 생각해요. 특히 staff shortage 가 심한 nhs 병원같은경우에는요. 가비님이 epidural 받으시면 midwife led unit 이아닌 Labour ward 에 계시기때문에 ctg monitpring하고 의사들이 상주해있어 midwife 들의 텃세가 덜할수도있지만 nhs maternity unit 들중 엄청 환자들이 만족감이 큰 병원은 별로 본적이없어서 조쉬님이 옆에서 잘 모니터 해드려야해요... 그렇다고 private 병원이 더좋다는건 아니고요. 보통 시술같은것은 private 에 그냥 가겠지만, 아이 낳는것은 오히려 nhs 가 더안전하다 봅니다. 가비님이 어디로 결정 하셨는지는 잘모르겠지만, 사립은 물론 시설은 좋겠지만 Emergency 여력들이 불확실하고 큰일나면 e.g. major haemorrhage protocol 등 문제가생기면 확실하게 crash team 과 마취과 중환자실 전문의가 있는 대학병원보다는 안좋기에 (무슨 큰일 나면 무조건 앰뷸런스타고 어차피 nhs A&E 가야해서) private maternity unit 은 잘 알아보실필요가있어요 (물론 private 병원마다 다르겠지만요). 어떤 결정을 하시던 순산하시고 어찌됬던 산모가 마음이 편해야 아이도 편안하니 어떤결정을 하시전 걱정말고 잘되실거에요. God bless.
저도 영국에서 출산 예정이고 프라이빗도 알아보고 있었는데 또 그런 문제가 있군요.. 정보 감사합니다!
영국에서 제왕절개는 선택할수있나요? ㅠㅠ 너무무섭
역시 딸은 아빠를 닮나봐요!! 진짜 똑닮ㅋㅋㅎㅎㅎ
무슨 결정이든 임산부 본인이 결정해야 한다고 한 조쉬의 말이 굉장히 위로가 되네요😊 어떤 결정을 하든 본인에게 가장 잘 맞는 쪽으로 찾으시길 바래요!
저는 자궁내막종 보유자였고 피임약 처방받아 1년 넘게 복용하고 내막종이 완전히 없어진 후 자연임신을 했어요. 한국서는 막달 초산모에게 유도분만을 많이 권해서 생각 없이 유도분만 들어갔고 진통 겪다가 애 머리가 골반에 끼어서 결국 제왕했습니다. 제왕을 위해 몸을 열어보니 어이 없게도 임신기간동안 자궁내막종이 2센티 자라있어서 주치의가 오픈한 김에 같이 떼주셨습니다. 진통과 제왕을 모두 겪어보니 그냥 처음부터 제왕할 걸 후회합니다 ㅎㅎㅎㅋㅋㅋ 남들보다 체력저하가 심각하고 각종 뼈마디가 다 열려서 회복에 1년이 훨씬 넘게 걸렸어요. 글구 결정하실 때 가비씨가 실질적으로 노산인 것도 무조건 고려하세요. 노산은 진통 때 몸이 잘 열리지 않는다는 걸 제가 경험하였네요 ㅠㅠㅋㅋㅋ 어떤 결정을 하든 순풍 낳으세요!!
너무 도움되네요 감사합니다 🤍
저도 35살에 임신 36살에 초산했는데요. 윗분처럼 하루종일 진통하다가 제왕절개 부탁했는데, 남편반대로 계속 진통하다가 결국 아이 심장에 무리가 와서 8cm 자궁문 열어놓고 제왕절개 했네요. 회복 2배로 힘들었고요 ㅠㅠ 저희 친정엄마가 난산하셨다고 하는데… 그런 것도 닮을 수 있다는 점 참고하세요. 둘째 낳다가는 대량출혈로 대형병원 응급실에서 1주일간 입원도 했네요. 산모의 건강이 최우선이네요. 병원에서 출산하시고 순산하시길 ~
@@jinakim5912남편분의 반대가 너무 어이없네요… 힘드셨겠어요
저는 독일에서 촉진제로 자연분만 유도하다 결국 제왕절개 했구요. 전신마취 아니고 하반신만해서 정신 말짱하게 수술했는데 후회 없었어요.
하나도 안무섭고 5분이면 아기 만나거든요....
둘 이상 제왕절계는 힘들지만 아니면 저는 추천해요. 둘다 경험한 사람중에 수술자리 아무는것이 자연분만 아래 절개보다 덜아프단사람도 있고...
사람마다 다 달라서 결국 본인선택이지만. ,, 제왕절개 하나도 안무섭구 회복도 빨라요 .100년전에도 여자들 애가 낳았대요~걱정마세요^^
저도 위에분이랑 비슷했어요
유도분만으로 진통 2일동안 겪다가
자궁문 1센치 밖에 안열려서
조금더 하면 애기
위험할거 같다고 해서
제왕했는데
진짜 5분만에 끝나서
어이없었어여ㅜㅜ
진통이란 진통은 다 겪었는데
결국 제왕..
첨부터 제왕할껄 후회 했어요
What I learned from my birthing classes was that if I could RELAX, my body would open up and baby would come out. I chose a home birth, which was beautiful and best for me, but maybe not best for everyone. I would recommend getting answers to all your questions, then doing what will help you be the most relaxed during labor and delivery. For example, I learned that only 1 in 10 women who birth at home need to be transferred to hospital. That gave me peace of mind about my decision to birth at home. Praying for you!
I had a similar experience with home birth! I agree it's not best for everyone, we are all such different people with different factors in our lives.
You should check out Sarah’s Day first birth. She went for a natural birth but she was so tense that her muscles actually prevented her from birthing, the epidural was needed to relax everything. Whatever you all decide, it’s right for you, regardless of what hospitals prefer.
Our body is crazy. I went in for scheduled csection at 37 weeks. 2 hours and a half before going in the OR they inserted the catheter and the result of that my water broke immediately. Doctors didn't say the reason that happened but because I went through the same thing with my first daughter, I suspect it was because of stress. Crazy how our body can response to things.
저는 독일에서 두 아이모두 무통주사 신청도 했었는데(고위험군) 진통오고 병원도착하고 자궁문 다 열려서 무통맞을 시기도 없이 순풍 낳았어요. 순풍기운 팍팍 드려요.
자연주의 좋은거 누가 모르는지.. 순리대로 낳는거
가장 저도 원하는 바에요 (10월 출산 예정) 하지만
초산인 산모는 자신의 상황을 예상 할 수 없고 (하물며 의료진들도.. 자연분만 하다 응급제왕으로 넘어가는 경우 진짜 많이 보고 들음)
고통도 얼마난지도 모르죠 그러니 자신의 몸과
아이의 태어나는 모든 과정은 가장 안전한 상황에서
하고싶고 그러하니 선택은 부부 두분이 잘 상의해서
현명한 선택 하길 바랍니다 진심으로요.
만일에 상황에 대비해 병원 출산이 좋다고 생각 합니다
그냥 단순한 문화차이라는거 당연히 알고 있지만 그래도 제왕과 무통 주사의 부작용은 설명하면서 자연주의와 가정출산의 부작용은 설명하지 않고 후자로 은근히 유도하는게 없지 않아 있는거 같아서 충격이네요..😂 무엇이 됐든 조쉬가 이야기한거처럼 가비가 원하는 방법으로 하는게 맞아여 다 떠나서 '내 몸'으로 겪는 일이니까요
오랜만에 들어왔더니 이런 소식이 ❤
정말 축하드려요 순산하시길 바래요 :)
가비님 걱정하지마세요 ㅋㅋ 순산하시길바랍니다 당근아 보구싶다 ❤❤❤사랑해
I wish you have a safe & easy delivery and a healthy baby.
축하해요 예쁘고 예쁘고 또 예쁜 귀엽고 귀엽고 또또 귀여운 넘나 귀여운 아기를 갖게되신거
늦었지만
축하해요❤
너무 이쁜커플이에요. 건강하게 출신하고 행복하세요
출산은 정말 경이롭지만 그만큼 무서울 것 같아요~
가비님 잘 해내실태니 걱정마세요 ❤
엄마가 안전하고 엄마가 행복한 방법이 최고입니다 응원할게요 가비님❤
오랫동안 가비님 영상으로 항상 힐링하던 사람으로서..가비님과 조쉬님 그리고 앞으로 태어날 아기까지 항상 건강하고 행복하시길 다시 한 번 바라게 되네요🥹
예쁜아기 무사히 잘 만났으면 좋겠네요..!
어또케 벌써 너무 예뻐요~!
몸과 마음이 모두 건강한 아기를 낳으실거에요. 가비님도 몸과 마음이 건강하길 축복하고 기도해요. 늘 지켜보고 있던 저도 올해 결혼을 하네요^^ 출산선배님의 삶을 보며 많이 배울께요
첫출산이라 아무래도 겁이 나시겠지만,병원에서 출산은 아무리 응급상황이라고 해도 의료진이 대처할 수 있으니 너무 걱정마시고 순산하시기를 바래요.. 진통이 시작되면 아마 무통주사를 바로 찾을 정도로 고통스러운데,아기가 너무 크거나 진행이 더딘 경우는 산모와 아기의 안전을 위해 제왕절개도 염두해 두시는게 좋아요
가비님~ 시간이 정말 빠르게 흘러가네요. 항상 건강하시고 행복하시길 기원합니다❤
가비님 너무 행복하고 예쁘게 웃네요❤
아이를 낳고 키우는 과정에서 희생해야되는 부분이 많으니 힘드실 꺼예요 근데 어느정도 키워놓으니 그시절 너무 예쁘고 귀엽고 더 귀한 시간이였는데 왜 충분히 예쁨을 못 느끼고 더 잘해주지 못 했는지 아쉬워서 울컥 할때가 있답니다 두분이서 너무 잘 키우시겠지만 아이에 대한 사랑과 행복을 꼭 충분히 누리시길 바랄께요~건강하게 순산하시고 행복하세요😊❤
가비님 순산하기 늘 멀리서 기도하고 응원합니다^^!
임밍아웃하고 같이 울었던게 엊그제같은데 이렇게 배부르다니 진짜 시간빠르네요 아기 키우는것도 그래요 순식간에 크는것 같다니까요
제발 늦게 커라 말할 정도
그래서 항상 순간을 즐겨야해요~~^^
그리고 선택이 의미가 없기도 해요 상황따라ㅋㅋㅋ
저는 자연분만을 엄청 주창하던 사람였어요 근데 의사샘은 제왕절개 가능성이 있다는거에요
전 완전 무시하고 진통하면서 자연분만할거라면서 고집피웠죠
12시간이 넘도록 자궁문 열리지 않고 진행이 안되서 결국 이러다 둘다 클나지싶어 결국 제왕했잖아요
사람들은 이게 제일 안좋은 케이스라는데 전 그래도 진통해보고 한게 후회없어요
아이를 위해 선택을 해봤으니까 처음부터 진통없이 수술로 바로 갔음 몰랐을 경험이고 아이도 준비할 시간도 주었고 아이한테 덜 미안하더라구요
수술후에도 통증이 또 있어서 아이안고 젖먹여야하는 고통에 죽을맛이었지만 엄마니까 해낼 수 있고 해야한다고 생각이 들었던게 저도 신기해요~~
그렇게 아이낳으면 독하리만치 강해지더라구요.
일단 자연분만 선택해서 제왕으로 바뀌더라도 아깝다 내가 왜 진통을 생으로 겪었나 후회할 필요는 없다는거에요. 경험자로서^^
그또한 소중한경험입니다.
몸작은 사람이 더 자연분만 잘하는게 국룰이던데 가비씨는 가능할듯~~
저두 기다려져요 응원합니당 이쁜커플!! 당근아 사이버이모들이 기다린단다❤❤
im crying so much, josh & gabie! 😭 im genuinely so so happy for the both of you 💗😭💗
아빠닮았어요!!딸바보 이미 예약이네요 ㅎㅎ
부디 건강히 순산하시길 기원합니다.
숨풍 순산하실거에요. 임신축하드릴때가 엊그제 같은데 진짜 세월이 빨리가네요. 정말 축하드립니다. 조심하시고 순산하세요.
"The first time ever I saw your face.." Congratulations to you both.
Omg so much going on I feel like I missed out on so many things 😭😭😭😭 Congratulations you guys 💕💕💕 Stay blessed and happy ❤️
You guys are going to do great, whatever you decide! So excited for you both to meet your baby girl!
제왕 했어요^^ 수면마취 중이라 사람 많은지 그런거 모르고 잘 자고 일어나니까 다 끝나 있었어요ㅋㅋ
저도 수술과정이나 사진을 봤으면 어땠을지 모르겠는데 지금은 후회하지 않아요 제주변에 자연분만 했던분들 중에 허리디스크가 생긴 분들이 많아서(아이가 나오면서 척추가 눌리면서 디스크가 터진대여)저는 엄마의 강력추천으로 제왕했고 제 허리는 무사하답니다^^
저는 영국남자 구독자지만 임신 응원하고 있었고 해서 댓글 남겨봐요..제가 배우기는 신생아는 밤낮이 없어 못자니까 엄마도 수면이 줄어드는??호르몬이 나온다고 하더라구요 (정확한 단어는 생각이 안나네요)막달되니까 진짜 저는 4시간자고 했어요 점점더 힘드시겠지만...힘들게 얻은 만큼 어떤 방식이든 꼭 건강히 출산 하시길 응원합니다🙏🏻 너무 아름다운 부부화이팅입니다👍🏻
You guys discussing your impressions as well as all the pro/cons is SO good, bc people get very up in arms about this subject very quickly (thinking that one is the correct choice and all the others are wrong). Good idea!
조쉬님이 산모가 가장 마음이 편하고 출산 방식에 확신이 있는게 중요하다는 말에 너무 공감해요! 아기도 중요하지만 결국 순산이란 엄마와 아기가 모두 안전하고 건강하게 잘 출산하는거니까요
꼬옥 순산하세요 가비님! 멀리서나마 응원하고 있겠습니다:)
점점 더 몸도 힘드실텐데 영상으로 소식 전해주셔서 너무 감사드립니다😊
애기가 너무 이뻐요 ㅠㅠㅎㅎ
Gabi, you look more and more beautiful with each day. Baby girl, Carrot, is a real beauty. Enjoy each day and each and every change your body goes through... you're growing a miracle! Congratulations! ❤😊
아이코가 오똑하네요~~~벌써부터 미모가 돋보이네요~~
Absolutely adore how you can see the love between you two and how much your daughter will be loved. Congrats
Yall so cute ❤🥲❤️ I hope you have a safe delivery and healthy baby❤️
건강한 아기 순산하시길 항상 행복하세요~
오오 얼굴 보니까 딱 조쉬 닮았네요
높은 코에 눈두덩이 좀 들어간거
딱 서양인 느낌 크 얼마나 이쁠까 ㅎ❤🎉
무조건 가비님을 우선으로 생각하셨으면 좋겠어요. 오랜시간 가비님 채널을 보면서 울고 웃고 행복했었던 구독자로써ㅜㅜ 가비언니가 ㅜㅜ 최대한 편하고 좋은 쪽으로 선택했으면 좋겠어요 😊💕
They baby looks like Josh so far! Lots of luck going forward.
josh is so supportive and caring
Josh is such an amazing husband! Y’all will be GREAT parents! ❤❤❤
가비님 항상 태교잘하시고. 애를 안낳아봐서 난 잘 모르겠다리. 항상 응원해요❤
I cannot WAIT to see Baby Carrot out of the belly!!! She's going to be so beautful and so loved!!! I had a baby girl 26 years ago, and she was the best thing that happened to me. I had a 29-hour long, fairly painful labor, but I got drugs to ease the pain, and instead of an epidural, I got a single shot in the spine, which *I* thought made me sleep for two hours, but I guess I was awake and talking to people. But after the two hours, it was time to push, and she came out perfect (well, a little hairier than I thought babies could be...she looked like a little chimpanzee!!!)!!! It'll be a great experience, and honestly, I didn't remember the pain when I saw the little hands and feet and lips and deep dark eyes. It'll be exceptional. :-) You two are in my prayers!!!
저는 22시간 진통 후 골반이 작아서 아이가 더 내려오지 못한다고해서 제왕절개로 출산했는데요~😅😅 무통맞고 진통이 길어지다보니 제왕 후 마취에 깼을때 회복하는데 시간이 오래걸렸어요~ 부종이 심해 걷기도 힘들었죠~~ 전 당연히 자연분만 할 줄알았는데 진통을 그렇게나 오래하고 제왕 할줄 몰랐습니다ㅎㅎ 애기 낳으러 가기 전까지, 낳으러 병원가서도 어찌될지 모르는게 제왕이냐 자연분만이냐 같아요~ 물론 처음부터 제왕을 하겠다고 날짜맞춰 가는 케이스도 있지만요~~ 순산하신길 기원하며~~ 제 케이스를 풀어봤어요ㅎㅎ
완전 백인어린이 느낌입니다! 예쁘기까지 하면 얼마나 즐거울까요!
저는 골반이 좋은케이스인데도 안내려와서 응급제왕했어요ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 결국 애기가 선택하는거더라구요😂
지금 힘들어도 그래도 뱃속에 있을때가 좋았다ㅡ할거에요 ㅋ 엄마되기 부모되기 쉽지않죠 이쁜아기 만날날 기대되네요 아기 낳을만하답니다 얼마나 이쁘게요~~
You have been on such a long emotional journey for this baby. I am so happy for you. 💜
너무너무 축하드려요!!! 애기가 가비씨 닮아서 눈이 너무 이쁠것 같아요!
출산형태에 대해 고민해본다는 자체가 너무 좋다고 생각해요! 저도 한국에서 자연주의 출산으로 아이를 낳았는데 무엇보다 어떤형태로 출산을 할지 고민을 해보니 아이도 어떻게 키울지 등등 주도적인 육아를 하게 되더라고요! 어떤 선택을 하시든지 중요한건 산모가 중요하게 생각하는 부분이 무엇인지에 따라 출산형태를 선택하시면 되요! 어떤것이든 장단점이 있으니까요^^ 정말 아이 갖기 전부터 계속 응원했어요!! 힘내세요!!
한국에서도 자연주의 출산 하는 곳이 있고 받아주시는 조산사분도 여럿 계셔요^^ 자연주의 출산으로 좋았던 점을 알려드리면 아이낳고 탯줄을 늦게 끊을수 있었던것...아이가 탯줄안에 있는 혈액(줄기세포에 쓴다는 혈)에 있는 혈을 다 먹을때까지 기다렸다가 탯줄을 끊고요. (그래서 탯줄이 2~3일만에 배꼽에서 빠져요^^)
아빠가 1시간동안 윗옷 벗고 심장소리 들려주며 캥거루 케어 할 수 있는것!(한국에선 캥거루케어 못하죠) 그리고 함께 출산에 아빠가 참여하다보니 아이를 낳고나서 엄마보다 아빠가 더 힘들어 했어요ㅋㅋㅋ 계속 마사지 해주고 같이 힘주고 하느라요 ㅋㅋㅋ
구독자인 저도 같이 당근이 볼 준비 하는게 너무 떨리고 기대 되네요🥹💖
출산 전까지 가비님, 당근이 둘 다 건강하기!!❤️❤️❤️
This was such a nice and healing topic to watch and it’s so cute to go with you guys throughout this journey! I cried my eyes out after you guys have been trying and it’s finally getting to the day! Congrats again and I’ve come to appreciate my mum more watching the process haha
So excited for the both of you! Not too much longer and you will get to see your baby girl and hold her in your arms. Hope your delivery is smooth with no complications.
I like how Josh is supporting you and letting you decide whatever is best for you. I know I was most comfortable having an epidural. I had two beautiful girls with epidural and it worked beautifully. Prayers yours goes very smoothly.
Did you gain any after effects? A lot of people I know who had epidural said they got long term back pains as a result. So I’m really undecided about the decision to do it if I ever do have a child. The unpredictability of it all is what scares me because all women are different and respond differently to things. And it’s hard to know what to do until you’re in that position. It’s scary for sure.
@@JoeMama-kz4sx I did not have any after effects, although the epidural actually only worked on one side of my body for my second daughter. They tried to get me to lay on my other side, but it was too late because it was time to push. But still it did help. And it worked absolutely perfectly for my first daughter. It’s something that you have to decide for yourself for sure. Wishing you the best.
Sooo cute! I’m so excited!
I had to do an emergency c-section, because my son's heart rate dropped too low. I was so worried about my son. My doctor assured me that once they get me into the operating room, they could get him out in 6 seconds if they had to. They didn't have to rush that fast because, luckily, his heart rate stabilized, but it was reassuring that the doctors and staff know what they're doing. You will be fine. And the epidural is the BEST thing ever. (In my opinion) There is no right and wrong. You do what feels right for you. So excited to see baby Carrot! Congratulations again!
I am so excited for yall! Gabbie you are going to do wonderfully no matter what you choose. I love how supportive Josh is and how ready you are to see your baby girl. Seeing your baby for the first time is hands down the moment jn life that will instantly change you forever ❤❤❤
Can't wait for baby carrot💟
저는 한국의 전문의에요. 제 경우 아이가 38주가 되어도 아래로 잘 내려오지 않아서 선택제왕했어요. 인턴 전공의 과정에서 자연분만에 여러가지 불확실성이 있는 것을 많이 보기도 했구요.
수술하고 나서 주치의샘이 아이가 탯줄을 목에 세바퀴 감고 있었다며 제왕 선택하길 잘했다고 하셨어요. (하반신 마취여서 아이 꺼내는 걸 느낄 수 있었는데 꺼내며 엄청 낑낑대시는게 느껴졌었어요. 아마 탯줄을 목에 감고 있어서였던 것 같아요)
아이가 목에 탯줄을 감고 있는지는 막달에 초음파에서 자세히 보이지 않고, 또 아이가 그사이에 몸을 돌리며 감을 수도 있기 때문에 잘 모를 수 있거든요. 결국 제왕이 제가 살면서 가장 잘한 선택이 되었네요.
아무쪼록 가비님도 주치의와 잘 상의하셔서 현명하고 안전하게 출산하시길 빌어요~
저는 쌍둥이라 안전 1순위로 여겨셔 제왕했는데 둘째가 탯줄을 목에 감고 있었던 상황이었어요.. 후에 제왕하길 정말 잘했다 싶더라고요!! 막달에 컨디션, 상황 잘 보시고 선택 하시길 바래요.. 둘째같은 경우도 초음파에서 알 수 없었던 터라.. 산모와 아이 모두 안전한 출산에 제일 중요한 것 같습니다!! 가비님, 순산하시길요❤
당근이 눈 깜박일 때 조쉬?! 생각이 들었어요 ㅋㅋ
아이 산모 다 건강하게 출산하길 기도해요 :)
So excited for the both of you! and I just noticed that baby carrot looks like joshie 🥹🧡
Sweet Gabie, your body is getting ready for sleepless nights. My babies are in their late thirties and forty. But I remember waking up during the night and not being able to sleep, while I was still working. Then when baby was born, they woke me up at the exact time I was during pregnancy. Labor is hard, no doubt. But you do what makes you and Josh most comfortable, and safe for precious baby girl. She is beautiful, and your life will never be the same. Oh the joy awaiting you both!
저는 양수가 먼저 터져서 병원가서 촉진제 맞고 아기 심박수가 떨어져서 수술 들어갔었어요. 아기가 태반을 조금 먹어서 지체했으면 위험했을 수도 있었다고 하더라구요. 그때그때 변수가 많으니까 여러가지 생각해놓으시는게 좋을 것 같아요.
The same happened to me. Water broke Saturday afternoon, my baby boy was born Monday at 8 pm.
Man, I've been following your journey for some time, since way before your first injection, but now every video is hitting me super hard in the feels. I became an uncle for the first time on May 15th, so now everything baby-related is a LOT more interesting! Best wishes to you and your soon-to-be family of 3 :D
I can’t tell you how happy I am to see you guys becoming parents, my sister had very similar struggles but after many’s years I FINALLY HAVE A NIECE!!!!! So I wish you all the happiness and health x I just remember crying so much during this journey and when you said you were pregnant I cried because I knew how much it meant.
무통은 꼭 맞아야 해요 정말 최고의 고통이 있어요
초음파사진 보자마자 아빠판박이다는 느낌받았어요 초음파사진보고 얼굴닮은거 첨음느끼네요 한번도 이런적없었는데 ㅎ 진짜이쁜아가가 나올듯요 순산하세요
첫아가는 부성애 키우기 위해 아빠 닮은 경우가 많대요. 특히 첫딸은 아빠 판박이 많더라구요
I had an emergency c section with my son after 18 hours of labor and then a planned C with my daughter after that. No matter what method, do whatever works for you and is safe for both you and the baby. Everyone will have opinions so trust your own feelings. Sending all our love and support to you, Josh and baby Carrot from NY!!
I love how supportive Josh is with your potential choices!
저도 내막증있다가 ..시험관2번 실패후! 쉬는동안 자연으로 첫째가 찾아와주었고자연주의 출산했어요!!! 글고 둘째도 자연스럽게 연년생으로 생겨서 키우고 있습니다아~❤️ 둘다 자연주의 출산 했는데 너무 만족스럽고!남편과 출산할수있다는게 장점같아요!!😍
I am hooked with you two! Jour journey be it the beginning of EnglishKoreanman and your married life and now this pregnancy, mind-blowing to say the least!. All is well. All will be well!!
건강한 아기 출산하실겁니다. 화이팅!!!!!!!!!!!
You two are going to be amazing parents!
제가 제왕절개를 두번 했는데 솔직히 전 진통하다가 수술한거라 수술이라는 선택지가 있어서 내가 사는 구나 싶을 정도로 감사했어요
첫번째는 경황없는 사이에 누워있기 때문에 아이가 태어나는 것만 생생하게 느끼지 다른건 보이지도 않고 어서 재워줬으면 했고 둘째는 미리 날짜를 정해서 간거라 수술실에서 수술 준비시간이 40여분 걸리더라구요 그때가 좀 기분이 울쩍해지면서 두려우면서 좀 다운됐는데 일단 수술 시작하면 금방이고 다 끝났구나 하는 순간 머리맡에 앉아계시던 마취의사 선생님이 축하해주시고 칭찬해주셔서 평생 잊지 못할 위로를 받았네요
전 제왕절개할때 깨어나지 못하고 피도 많이 흘려서 수혈해야 할거 같다고 하셨는데도 다행히 당일날 일어나서 걸어다녔어요 회복기간이 진통하는 시간보다 절대적으로 저는 힘들지 않았어요
그냥 선택의 순간이 올때 제왕절개도 너무 두려워하지 마시라고 글 남겨봅니다
The only thing i know is that Gabbie's tears are contagious. Everytime she cries, I cry lol.
Gabie, watching your journey reminds me of when I had my son. I had a room full of medical staff due to a situation that arose. It happens. It was uncomfortable but baby boy had to come out. Just focus on your task at hand - delivering a healthy Baby Carrott. My hubby really took charge as I was a bit out of it. Make sure Josh is ready to take control. We decided on what point hubby would take over beforehand. That really helped us. So excited for you to see Baby Girl!
I’m so happy for you Guys . You’re in my prayers ❤️
i wish you all the best for you and your family ❤️ may your little carrot be born healthy and happy without any complications. you guys are always in my thoughts, stay strong!!
Stay strong Gabie! We're all excited to see baby carrot! We'll pray for your safe delivery
Omg we’re all here for you and we all hope you make it through safely! ❤
Josh is correct. Gabi, you have to do what makes you the most comfortable. This means you are more relaxed and less stressed for the entire experience. That makes it easier on your body. You guys are going to be amazing parents! Can't wait for photos of the beautiful baby carrot! 🧡
Also, remember that sometimes the epidural don't work! I had 2 epidural, and both didn't work! I had both babies 5 weeks early and both came out perfectly fine!
Just learn to surrender to your body! Let your body do what it has to do to get the baby out! When you are in the moment.. nothing else matters but your health and the baby health!
저는 지금 캐나다에 사는 국제커플이지만 아이들은 다 한국에서 낳았어요. 당근이 입체초음파를 보니 13년전 우리딸 초음파 사진 생각이 나서 뭉클했어요 ㅜㅠ 가비님처럼 자궁내막증으로 첫째딸 어렵게 낳았고 아기가 너무 커서 힘들거라는 의사선생님의 권유로 제왕절개를 했어요. 제왕절개 수술하시고 의사선생님께서 병실로 오셔서 아기 낳은거 기적이라고 하셨어요. 자궁내막이 너무너무너무 심한 케이스였대요. 둘째 가지고 싶으면 빨리 시도하라고 하셨어요. 자궁내막이 또 자라니까요. 저희는 딸만 잘키우자 했는데 삼년뒤 아들을 또 낳았네요.😊 저도 첫째 출산전에 너무 무서워서 남편이랑 엉엉 울었던 생각이나요 ㅋㅋ 고통은 잠시고 행복 시작일거에요. 첫째딸 낳고 남편이랑 진짜 재밌게 꽁냥꽁냥 육아했거든요. 우리 둘이서 하던 모든게 새멤버랑 하니까 너무 새롭고 재밌었어요. 조쉬님과 행복한 육아하시길요❤
산모와아기가 건강하기만 하세요~~^^오래전에 경험한 사람이지만 건강이 최고인거 아시죠~~^^음식도 건강하게 몸도 건강하게 관리유지~~^^
what a amazing you got baby i proud both of them