Jordan B. Peterson on 12 Rules for Life
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The clinical psychologist Jordan Peterson sets out twelve profound and practical principles for living a meaningful life. His 12 Rules for Life will offer an antidote to the chaos in our lives: with eternal truths applied to our modern problems. - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
im 98 yrs old listen to your body and treat your family friends well I know i haven't much time please listen to your inner self. life is tough make it easy and don't beat your self up over mistakes try learn be kind to you. night my fellow humans..
Good luck to you. I hope you have a further 98 years.
Very nice..stay longer
Thanks for that advice. You said a mouthful. Enough to continue to survive.
thank you..
Last year I attempted suicide. I was newly single and jobless. I was living out of my truck and extremely lonely. I couldn't even afford data on my phone to properly communicate with the outside world, or my mother in England (I live in NZ). One day, when I was sitting outside a café, using their free wifi, I saw a suggested video pop up of a "Jordan Peterson Owns..." I clicked on it. It was entertaining. That led me to watch other videos of his and soon I found out that he wasn't just someone who puts people in their place- but a loving, caring man with great wisdom and knowledge on how to fix the mess I called my life. I parked outside that same café every night for a couple of weeks and I've been obsessed with his teachings ever since. I know he hears this a lot; and for good reason, but this man has literally saved my life. I keep his book on me like a bible and I revisit old lectures all the time. I'm no longer suicidal. I'm not longer homeless.
I have a room to clean.
Thank you, Dr. Peterson.
Edit:
I'm completely blown away by all the lovely messages from people from all over the world. It gives me a great feeling of global unity, that we are all one, fighting the same battle. Endless love and respect to you all. I wish you nothing but happiness.
An update to my life:
I just got a puppy. I guess you could say I took rule 12 a little too seriously and instead of petting a cat (in this case a dog) I actually adopted one.
Take care, love to you all.
Wow. Big hug for you from Bolivia.
I agree...wow, good for you! Hug from USA
Very inspirational and I’m so happy to hear ur doing well. Much move from the USA and wish u the best of luck on ur future endeavors. ✊
Beautiful! J.P at it!!!
Your testimony is very inspiring. Thank you for sharing it with us. God bless you, from the USA!
When nobody else celebrates you, learn to celebrate yourself. We hope to see more like this.
Most times it amazes me greatly how I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over $63k per month, Utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years that there are lots of opportunities in the financial market. The only thing is to know where to invest.
@@izagdlife I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.
@@BeverlyTalley That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* my coach, you may have come across him on interviews relating to bitcoin and stocks. He trades, manage trading account and offer mentorship program for clients who wish to become professional investors.
@@izagdlife You allow people to trade for you? that's interesting, I would love to learn, hope it’s safe?
Wow I can't believe you guys are discussing about Gary Mason Brooks , I once met him at a conference in California 2019, just before the pandemic. I can testify that he’s very good in trading..Highly recommended.
I don’t think many other 17 year olds are watching this, but I for sure am. This man is amazing
Good for you!
Share this video with them, especially if you love them.
17 year old here: (I‘m assuming some things here and they may or may not be right, but I just want to make sure) Don‘t get too cocky about you being „special“ because a lot of other 17 year olds are wasting their time away with expedient goals. As Jordan Peterson said: Don‘t compare yourself with other people, especially with people that are doing worse than you. This can lead to a sense of illusionary accomplishment, which is not constructive in propelling you forward. If you want to compare yourself to someone (as a starting point or a personification of an ideal you strive towards), then make sure it‘s someone who has accomplished more than you. I fail at this often too and I think a healthy amount of acknowledging the fact that you may actually be in the small percent of soon-to-be successful people is OK, but don‘t let it go overboard and stop bettering yourself everyday.
A lot of kids think hes really something...until they realize he's not
There is, you are not special.
Being 18 years old watching him is probably the best choice ive ever made
Same here bro 👊.
I'm 32. Not too late. All the best
FAX
Same 😅
Good for you man, seriously. You go unlimited potential ahead of you, use it. Just look at how old all the other people are that are celebrating Peterson's words. You can have what they, WE, are all wishing for! Good luck
4 million people took an hour and thirty minutes out of their day to watch a lecture on how to better their lives. I officially have hope for the future.
😊
4.6 :)
Hope? It’s sad the world is as fucked up as it is nowadays. But not the fact that people are taking an interest in psychology
It is pretty amazing, isn't it. I will never understand how people see him as some kind of alt-right guru. Clearly they have not heard a word of his lectures. He changed my life in many ways and I'll never tire of hearing his talks.
You seemed like an intelligent form of life and then outed yourself as a moronic homophobe.
I am amazed at the amount of wisdom that he has been able to cram in his head,and then be able to recall it in a useful manner. He is amazing!!!!
Evolution in action aka high functioning autism
Yes he is amazing the way he relays such in depth information fluently and deeply
This gives me hope. I'm not sure if this counts as a therapy session but to me it was incredible. Thank you Jordan Peterson
well, you listened, you absolutely get to count this as a therapy session. listen, learn, adjust yourself. therapy. exactly :)
Have you read his book 12 rules of life?
@@tasophy not yet but I've listened to the audiobook, it is next on my list though
You solved my life problem by saying a child that is not socialized by 4 years will never be able to change that. My mom believed she was saving me from germs and uncleanness. So I have always been uncomfortable in groups and with people getting too close. I'm ok, but I love having this clarification about where it could have started. I have a great life and people who accept me as kind of a loner.
1. Stand up straight with your shoulders back 4:30
2. Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping 16:22
3. Make friends with people who want the best for you 22:53
4. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today 25:45
5. Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them 37:23
6.Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world 48:51
7. Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient) 58:46
8 Tell the truth, or at least don't lie
9. Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't 1:05:00
10. Be precise in your speech
11. Do not bother children when they are skateboarding 1:11:45
12. Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street 1:17:06
12 Personal Notes
1- Chapter titles come from the book. *12 Rules for Life*
2- I realize that some else has probably done this already, but I scrolled through the comments to no avail, so I helped myself
3- Be a good friend & give me a thumbs up
4- I started this last night, today I finished
5- I spent some time with my daughter today, it was good
6- work in progress
7- I plan to outlive most everyone I know
8- I only lie in bed
9- Tell me something I don't know
10- 3.1415926535
11- I give kids skateboards to leave me alone
12- My cats mostly stay outdoor & they know to avoid people, but you better be nice if you ever run into one
Thanks for these time stamps
Spelling out pi is hilarious!
@@NediSafa precisely
Just want to take a moment out of the day to recognize your service.
Thanks for the notes. Much appreciated.
I'm functionally depressed. Been listening to Peterson almos everyday for a few months now. Just cleaned my room today.
Edit: it's amazing how so many people in the comments don't see the analogy.
Good for you man. The best kind of work you can do.
Keep it up hun. A journey of a million miles begins with a first step and I believe that first step is the hardest. Your doing great.
Taken your Clonazepam yet today?
Wow! You cleaned your room!? I only learned how to do that when i was 6 years old...
@@Kriegtime101 Knowing how and being motivated to do so are two different things. Don't being pretentious.
I’ve watched this talk a few times now and it never gets boring. I hope all the people that need encouragement get to see listen to him talk.
What a shame that some colleges are prohibiting their students from hearing Jordan Peterson's very important lessons for life. What a great loss. What i've noticed in my "working class life" is that many of the younger people have found him and that his lectures are available online (youtube). We need more of this man and those like him.
They want them to be soft and pliable. They don’t want them to face their dragons. Isn’t it sad. I’m a 50 year old woman and I have an entire playlist I go to often when I need a dad. He just makes so much sense and awakens my soul.
It will find us
Any schools denying JP's teachings, I would run from.!!!!
Because he spoke up against Trudeau and Trudeau is a narcissistic evil piece of shit 😊
Yes‼️‼️ Thank you‼️‼️
The moment I found Jordan Peterson, my love of learning returned. This world has really got me down. Jordan brings me hope.
I feel the exact same!!
A benzo-addicted pseudo-intellectual sexist dude who sounds like Kermit the Frog brings you hope? Good lord
@@randomhero36 and you're doing what to help?
@@randomhero36 😂😂😂
@@randomhero36 show your work lol
I feel like I just took my brain to a five star restaurant. Wonderful!
did they serve lobster?
I LIKE THAT METAPHOR VERY MUCH
ikravchik What a nice analogy!
This was one of those "putzing around the internet and BOOM" moments. How'd I land here? Who knows? I found myself in your five-star restaurant, ikravchik, and have been nourished to the nth degree; what a miracle to have learned that Jordan Peterson is alive in the world right now! (I'm leaning down to pet my cat, to participate in Being in this one small way...) ~ The line that grabbed me the most: "Their failure to participate fully in being leaves a hole that's precisely the size of their soul in the cultural landscape." I have been moved by Jordan Peterson ... Grateful and galvanized!
What a WONDERFULLY true comment ! Thank you
4:31 Chapter 1: Stand up straight with your shoulders straight
16:24 Chapter 2: Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping
22:53 Chapter 3: Befriend people who want the best for you
25:45 Chapter 4: Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not the useless person you are today
37:22 Chapter 5: Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them
48:54 Chapter 6: Set your house in order before you criticise the world
58:47 Chapter 7: Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient
1:05:00 Chapter 9: Assume the person you are listening to knows something you don’t
1:11:43 Chapter 11: Do not bother children while they are skateboarding
1:17:09 Chapter 12: Pet a cat when you encounter one in the street
1:22:30 Q&A session
Chapter missing:
Chapter 8: Tell the truth. Or at least don’t lie
Chapter 10: Be precise in your speech
Dotty - thank you SO MUCH for doing this. Just what I needed. Bless your heart.
Thank you 😊
Thank you for this summary :-)
I was looking to see if some awesome person posted these much more useful time stamps....thanks so much for doing this! If this video was re-time-stamped by the channel to match this (ie. the book chapters), it would be very useful! :)
Thank you 💘
This man... Jesus, he is a GIFT for humanity! I cannot even express how grateful I am to him for sharing his knowledge over the decades. He helped me so much!
Dont use Gods name in vain pls :(
And here I thought he was saying “this man, Jesus, is a gift to humanity!” Now THAT would be the truth statement.
@@gooze3888that’s not what using the Lords name in vain means. It means to not pretend to be acting righteous and for God when you are not in your heart. You have misunderstood the commandment (as did I). Hope this helps
Dr Peterson mentions it from time to time but bears repeating. One reason so many people come out to listen to him is not because he's saying something 'new'. He's telling people things they already knew were true, but had never been properly articulated. He's reminding people of that which is fundamental to the human experience, that our societies have stopped teaching altogether.
@@Kriegtime101 Such a simplistic accusation! First, Dr Peterson is not just restating any of the obvious or common sense. (He does go through extensive detail from bonafide research to extract conclusions; the titles of chapters in his book are by no means the complete thesis of his findings.). Second, he is not a strict conservative and much more of a classic liberal slightly left of political center, and he is furthermore not political in the first place; he is explicitly a diligent and practicing clinical psychologist and professor. Get beyond the meaningless labels which do nothing constructive.
@@Kriegtime101 Socially retarded? Like liberals acting violent toward people with whom they disagree? I think Dr. Peterson has illustrated perfectly both directly and indirectly that lefties trend toward social retardation at a much higher rate than do conservatives or anyone else for that matter. Go clean your room, get a job and grow the hell up:)
Ironically this comment sounds just like him and I read it in his voice
Yes and it hits us in the gut real good and we intuitively know what he is saying and teaching us is good for us🙏🙏📿📿🌈🌈
Dr Peterson clearly explains the things that everybody knows along with giving us new information in a structured way that we can understand and does not just throw it at us.
To all the teenagers and early 20 s out there. I'm 27 and I wish I had heard this at 15. Do yourself a favor and listen to the man. Don't let your ego get in the way.
alot of the best people people look up to u’ll find didnt achieve/do the things we look up 2 very young & u still r
I am 21, I’ve found out about Peterson about a year and a half ago, everytime that i feel lost, even a bit, i’ll be watching his lectures and listening to his podcasts.
Being from a North African country it’s quite hard to obtain his books. I got them downloaded on my PC still, but it has been a struggle to read PDF because it does much damage to my eyes, and i had failed to obtain the audio version as well. So i just stick to what I can listen to here on TH-cam.
But even that much has been life changing for me, I can’t even count the times that i’ve listened to something that he had said that felt so profound and real to me that I just found myself crying, feeling happy that i am understood, bit ashamed of all the « dead wood » that I wasted so much time not burning, but also encouraged to do just that. Listening to Peterson (or reading) gives you the best mixture of emotion that’s just right to make you feel capable to actually start working on yourself. And it’s such a hopeful idea that just by doing so you eventually make the world a better place. I don’t think i can ever express enough how grateful i am for the existence of this Man.
Mariem Matt 21 & feel the same about him
true!
He is just another alt-lite grifter from Canada who pretends to stand for free speech but really doesn't. They are all like this.
I just discovered him like 5 days ago and I can’t stop listening to him . JP is such an inspiration.
Its 13 days now Gi, how you feel! Hehe
FIRST RULE: LICK THE ORBANUS HARD LIKE KNIGHT JORDAN S PEDERSEN THE WHITE NAZI
@@IvanIvanov-mv1gf he cant even answer cuz he is shocked how easy life is if u love urself
@@areus19891 i can only hope for that
33 years old, No education or understanding before hand on life just lived it, feeling my way through. Listening and resonating so deeply with him with what i stumbled upon, fumbled, tumbled through life so far.. haha This man is everything to humanity
b peterson Nazi orbanuskisser:
"my message to Hungarians:
what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian culture"
Exactly the same here. Hope the past 5 years have worked out for you
He defends and supports English genocide of aboriginees in America , slave trade , English opium trade and China , plunder and impoverishment of India that’s what western wealth was built on
The guy who introduces Dr. Peterson is so genuinely happy he is here.
As he should be.
it’s wonderful
@@softluvable gggggg
Could Dr P. be a thinking addict?
Look at him again and think of Jeff bezos
I literally found Jordan Peterson like four days ago. I'm addicted!
An equally important and intelligent figure to listen to is Thomas Sowell.
I recommend Peterson for psychological and life advice, Sowell for Economics and History.
Both leave you amazed and learning something new every 30 minutes you spend listening to them.
You're in for one hell of a ride.
Yay!!! Welcome to the club! I listen to him speak a little and then I go and get something done that I've procrastinated on. Best to you!
Same here. What a brilliant mind
Me too just got started
"Until the entire world is redeemed, we all fall short". Very interesting closing statement. Reminds me of the bible verse, "...for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Jesus Christ." Romans 3:23,24
21:50 "You have a light you have to bring into the world, and if you don't bring it into the world, the world is a dimmer place, and that's a bad thing because when the world is a dimmer place it can get very very very dark." This is so profound in many ways. You caught me by surprise and put words to my 40 years of action, and got a tear as a reward. I like to think of my light as a torch to light others lights, I hope that makes sense Mr Peterson. Best of wishes to you. Thanks you for the mental health breaks :)
FIRST RULE: LICK THE ORBANUS HARD LIKE KNIGHT JORDAN S PEDERSEN THE WHITE NAZI
j peterson Nazi orbanuskisser:
"my message to Hungarians:
what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian culture".
Thank you for this comment, I couldn't have put it better,
@@alescolamar1945 j peterson Nazi orbanuskisser:
"my message to Hungarians:
what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian culture".
Don’t hide your lamp beneath a bushel.
I told my girlfriend he was my favorite psychologist to while we were on the subject of psychology. She stopped responding for a bit then told me she bought us tickets to see him along with a trip to where he’s talking next. What a gift.
marry her
I thought you were going to say she stopped responding and then went on twitter to call you your toxic masculinity, what a pleasant surprise, and its sad I came to that thought first.
WOW, MARRY HER IMMEDIATELY !
You don't have a girlfriend man. It's a Angel 👍🙏
Damn, you must clean your room.
“Make the world a better place because we haven’t got anything better to do”. Thank you.
This is profoundly contradictory with the basic rule of life that states that we first have to survive and thrive by extracting energy from something or someone. Something is missing.
@@samuctrebla3221 You can extract energy from your surroundings in a way that is sustainable. So the rate of depletion is slower than the rate of regrowth. If you are wise about identifying your actual needs, and then find the optimal path to satisfying your needs, then there'll be something left over for others as well.
@@manafro2714 typically our modern society is built on non renewable resources and energy sources. The machines we use multiples the power of per person by a factor of 1000, keeping us away from many needs and hazards.
Modern democracies, not greek ones with armies of slaves, directly depend on our potential to extract energy from other sources than other men. Slavery was basically abolished thanks to the fact that it wasn't profitable anymore, we didn't just wake up one day full of compassion and humanism.
A lot more could be said on the matter. The conclusion would be : species and organizations that thrive maximize, by order of importance : extraction of energy, refining of energy, replication of theses last two functions, protection mechanisms of the group, protection of individual parts of the group (very optional at this point).
Sustainability can be a consequence of a series of adjustment of the warfare for energy, but is is, has not, and will never be a preexisting condition for thriving.
For a psychological point of view, we can visualize our needs and imagine rationally limits. This is some crazy advanced survival tactics, developed to save the group. But we are deeply cabled to break all boundaries otherwise. Peterson's work is only about maximizing individuals potential. We feel like we have to expand, procreate, handle responabilities... To live is to leave a track, but you cannot do anything without taking energy from someone or something. I think there is more to understand.
@@samuctrebla3221 Hi, thank you very much for your detailed answer, I see you have put a lot of thought into it, and so I have tried to consider your points as best as I could. I'm not sure I agree with your point on slavery: you said that it wasn't profitable anymore, but if that had been the case, then why wouldn't people have combined slavery with machines? Do you really think that in a society which relies on slavery, if someone invents machines, masters will suddenly be like "Oh, well we don't need little Timmy to dig holes in the ground anymore, we've got machines for that! Let's liberate little Timmy/kill little Timmy and his entire family!" The only goal of these masters would be to increase energy extraction: if they liberated their slaves, then there's less resources for them (because who would operate the machines? the only alternative to the slaves are the masters), but if they combine their slaves with machines, then they are better off. Someone has to operate machines after all, and if you make slaves do that, you won't have to pay them fair wages. If you need far less slaves, then you just decrease their number, but you don't get rid of them only to have them replaced by former masters who will demand fair wages. As for the other alternative already mentioned (i.e. killing them all off): that would not work for the reasons just mentioned: someone must always operate machines, plus where in history have you ever witnessed mass homicide of slaves after better ways of extracting energy were found?
As for this point: "The conclusion would be : species and organizations that thrive maximize, by order of importance : extraction of energy, refining of energy, replication of theses last two functions, protection mechanisms of the group, protection of individual parts of the group (very optional at this point)."
This would be true in a master-slave type of society, but in a modern one if you are exploiting your workers, you are usually punished. What about dictatorships? Yes, the individual most likely is worth nothing in those societies, and they try to maximize extraction of energy in order to spread their dominance in the entire world, but do they thrive? History seems to have proven that eventually, all dictatorships die.
You said "Peterson's work is only about maximizing individuals potential." My impression of JP is that he tries to strengthen those individual values which bring about a better society. He sometimes talks about rights and responsibilities, and sees the following balance: your right is my responsibility, and the other way around. So he wants to live in a society where things are balanced, you have to do your duty towards me and so do I. The opposite would be one where only one of us would have to do their duty, and the other would have rights only. This would be a master-slave society. JP wants you to develop such qualities that would lead you to have a better life by living a meaningful one, and a meaningful life is one where you are of benefit to yourself and your fellow people.
Let me know what you think, I like to exchange ideas with people who think differently from me. I mean, how else am I going to find out if I'm wrong? :) Someone has to break it to me, and I'm perfectly fine with being wrong, even though I try to be right (or to put it more precisely, I'm fine with being wrong BECAUSE I'm more interested in finding the truth instead of flattering myself with how "smart" I am for "figuring out" how a complex phenomenon actually works, i.e. deluding myself with my own grandiosity).
Thanks! :)
@@manafro2714 Hello again, sorry for the late answer.
1/ [Who operates the machines? Where are the slaves ?] Workers and qualified workers operate the modern perfect slave which is the machine. It's way more effective than feeding and forcing "imperfect" slaves (a.k.a. people) to do basic stupid tasks. I must insist on the fact that the average person, especially in developed countries literally has an invisible army of slaves. The power of your car is worth smtg 1000x the power of your legs, and everything around you takes a crazy amount of energy to produce or to run. And then you need the human cognitive capacity to put all these things (resources and energy) together and operate the system, which by the way is the work we monetize. We did not kill the slaves at all, they aren't just human anymore, for the best.
2/[exploiting the workers is punished] This is wrong to me. We always exploit workers since we only pay men. Nature, our evolutionary complexity, all living species, all natural ressources, are free by definition (Smtih, Riccardo, Say, Marx,...you choose), and the only things we value are what is available only by working. Despite that this principle is now our greatest threat beacause we rely on external sources of physical work, we only pay in men's work, either by salary or unearned income. Even when you buy machines, you eventually pay the successive workers and investors that were involved in the process. The ratio of unearned income to the salary is the toughness of the exploit (which is very fair in a lot of structures).
3/ [Dictatorships always fail, in response to my suggestion of extraordinary democracy]. You certainly speak out of few precise examples, but I cannot see how this can be legitimately true. It's pretty much the opposite. Feudalism was very stable for thousands of years throughout the entire world, either in autocraty or oligarchy. Equal rights and universal right to vote is the most recent political thing. I'm assuming you're American (and your country is a great example of extraordinary democracy and struggle for human rights), but to put things in perspective, the universal right to vote was achieved only in 1920 (women could vote), and in France in 1944. 3 to 4 generations. We could discuss many examples.
4/ [JP proposes to balance rights and duties] Yes, because on an individual basis it literraly makes a lot of sense. I like his thinking. It surely helps a lot of people, and I discovered many things about myself. But in the end, I would sum this up as "what is good for you is good for society" (stay away from chaos and resentement). It is a wish, it's not systematically effective. I wish his vision of balance could embrace the fact that we always need to exploit something or someone, and therefore preserve it. But maybe he said something about that ...
one of the most well articulated men we’ve been blessed enough to live in the same generation as. love this man.
The most important thing that should be on everyone's mind currently should be to invest in different sources of income that doesn't depend on the government. Especially with the current economic crisis around the word. This is still a good time to invest in various stocks, Gold, silver and digital currencies..
"He who has a why, can bear almost any how." That is a beautiful quote.
Viktor Frankl
Yes it is.
@@andremarais2706 you caught it as well. LOL
English is not my native language... I dont understand the point but I would like to. Can you explain for one little man ? Thank you
@@rudolfsykora3505 it's a quote by Viktor Frankl. In other words it means if a man has a reason for what he does, it doesn't matter what he has to do, he will find a way how to do it.
Here are my notes:
*Stand Up Straight With Your Shoulders Back*
• Read the great clinicians: Jung, Freud, Adler, Carl Rogers, Abraham Maslow + Skinner (behaviourist).
• The neuropsychology of anxiety - Jeffrey Grey (1800 papers worth of understanding!
• Affective neuroscience - Yak Pengsak (rats laugh).
• Lobsters and serotonin (status, emotional regulation & posture).
• Competence (intelligence and confronting fears with courage) define hierarchies.
• Confidence gives you the benefit of the doubt, for better emotional regulation + being taken seriously.
*Treat Yourself Like You’re Someone You’re Caring For*
• Jung says it’s an invitation for reciprocity - people will treat you exactly how you want them to, you need to define this (the golden rule)!
• How would you like your child to be treated?
• People are fragile, prone to temptation and imperfect, which often gets worse, and capable of malevolence - this is why we don’t like ourselves.
• Love the sinner but hate the sin!
• Taking care of yourself is a moral obligation to humanity, you have a light to bring into the world!
*Make Friends With People Who Want The Best For You*
• People that aim down while you aim up are toxic (this can be part of you too).
• You have an ethical responsibility to surround yourself with the best people that support your needs.
• Be careful about who you share good/bad news with (jealousy and habit perpetuation).
• Bad people don’t think life isn’t worth it, they demonstrate to themselves there is no necessity to strive forward by putting you down.
*Compare Yourself To Who You Were Yesterday, Not Who Someone Is Today*
• Know Dostoevsky novels (crime and punishment - murderer gets away with it [see don’t let you children…]).
• Pareto distribution - height, weight and intelligence are normally distributed.
• Creative products are distributed in a Pareto distribution.
• If you run a company, 80% of the employees do 20% of the work, 20% of customers are responsible for 80% of calls and sales.
• In a given domain, the square root of a particular group of people do half the amount of work.
• Matthew principle: To those who have everything, more will be given. From those who have nothing, everything will be taken away.
• Consider this in terms of opportunity.
• There is always going to be someone around who is better than you.
• Jung thought the Book of Revelation was a pendant to the Bible, because the Christ in Gospels was too merciful. An ideal is always a judge. Revelation has Christ coming back as a judge.
• You need an ideal because you have nothing to aim at, but an ideal is a judge and you will always fall short of the ideal.
• Set a high aim, then break the goal down into parts that are challenging enough to push yourself past where you are, but not crushingly distant (reasonable probability of success).
• At 30, the idiosyncrasies of your life make comparison futile as accomplishments are tailored by factors.
• Make today some tiny increment better than yesterday.
• Goals need to be laid out to justify life’s suffering.
• Nietzsche says, “he who has a why can bear almost any how”.
*Do Not Let Your Children Do Anything That Makes You Dislike Them*
• Freudian nightmare: Circle where people are squeezing each other’s necks hard enough to strangle them in twenty years.
• Carl Jung: The shadow (dark side of humanity) has roots reaching all the way to hell.
• Literal & metaphysical application - the very worst and then more proximal kinds of hell.
• If you understand your dark side, you will see in yourself a reflection of the darkest potential. People don’t want to see this so they don’t, but this confrontation is an inevitable barrier to enlightenment.
• Joseph Campbell: “Follow your bliss”
• Jung: “Pursue what’s meaningful and you’ll encounter that which you least want to encounter”.
• God of Horus (Egypt) was a God, but lost an eye in the battle when encountering evil. The Egyptian eye is that lost to Seth, the precursor to Satan.
• Nietzsche punishment: don’t punish people when they do something wrong, this is a moral relief to them. Wait until they do something good, then hurt them.
• When people do something you wish to be replicated, reward them!
• Consult your irritability to prevent conflict and shape the times when others hurt.
• Children must be socially desirable by four, we develop by playing! Adults like developed kids.
*Set Your House In Order Before Your Criticise The World*
• Carl Panzram - Panzram (autobiography) - “Hurry up you bastard, I could kill ten men in the time if takes you to hang me”.
• Columbine kids diaries - why did the kids shoot up the school?
• The above were judges of being as motivated by resentment.
• You must admit to resentment, its fantasies and the way out.
• A resentful person wants others to change are not to be trusted.
• TS Eliot: The cocktail party - “I hope that there’s something wrong with me”.
• If I don’t like life, is my judgement to be trusted if I haven’t done everything I possibly can to set life right?
• The Gulag Archipelago - Solzhenitsyn. One man that stopped lying could spread the dissolution of the Soviet Empire.
• GO over your life with a fine-tooth comb and determine when you took the wrong path when not shieled by ignorance. Take responsibility for where you are, what increased the probability that you came here and what would happen if set everything right in the present.
• Try not doing the things you shouldn’t do, not saying the things you know aren’t true (Mandela agrees).
Do What Is Meaningful, Not What Is Expedient
• The Messiah takes the world’s sins upon Himself - associated with Jung’s shadow.
• The terror that comes in the night
thanks
Thank you!!!
WOW! Thank you!
Thanks for your notes 📝
Thank you!!!!
the most eloquent fluent speaker I ever done heard!
lets be brave and add #13 rule! C'mon 13 ain't unlucky......Dad was child 13 so its lucky for me......
This Dr Peterson talk is perfect to revisit every so often, just to refresh, reevaluate, revitalize, and recharge. What a gift he is to us all via those who will listen, react, reap and so spread the rewards.
God bless him!
Not every so often, daily. This man is the only person On the internet that I 100% trust. All others, I listen to skeptically. And try to figure out their angle. Dr. Peterson is a hero beyond measure. I have hope in our future because him alone. Thank you.
My point exactly.He is my compass of life without his guidance I'm ' list' in this tumultuous sea called life!
I was obese, unemployed, without a girlfriend...a meaning, this man and his books helped me massively, now I have a job, I'm graduating at the university in foreign languages, I have an incredible person with me...my girlfriend, I've lost 50kg of bodyweight and...wow life is not that bad guys, thank you Jordan Peterson
50kg? Wow. How'd you get that heavy in the first place, and how'd you lose it in the last place?
Amazing
Awesome, man!
Don’t count your girlfriend as part of you meaning in life, for that can change anytime. Self-validate and determine your self-value from within.
Yaaaassss! Thing just fell right into place for you, check you out!
"if people aren't listening to you, stop talking to them" g-DAMN that hit hard....so hard... like SOOO hard
I am slowing coming to grasp with how profound this advice is.
It's some harsh truth... esp when we really wish that person would "listen "
It did the same thing to me I was like wow, whoa, and I stopped and wrote it on my instagram . so simple and splendid!
If people are listening to you, You have a good flock of sheep who will follow you to their own slaughter.
Rod 1984 to be fair, at 7, you probably talked a lot of shit.
Just been introduce to Peterson by my 23 year old son. And to say the truth I admire him for discovering this in his tender age
This Canadian guy is not just a buddy, he's a friend.
"You are devaluing what you say if you are offering it to an audience that doesn't listen"
damn
Although I somewhat agree with his thought, if you are humble enough, you won't care what people have to say/think about your own words/opinions. You will seek to just listen and observe others. I understand this may come across as "passive" or "weak" in the perception of some, but it really is a strength. If you understand that it doesn't matter what others think of your advice, stories, or speech in general, then you can say what's on your mind 100x more than you normally do, and you can also become a much better listener. In my opinion, listening trumps speaking by a long shot. But once again, this may not apply to everyone and it may also be wrong in the sense of gaining respect and/or admiration.
Damn indeed
True.,,,this why I not say much.,.cause I can tell when they not listening.,. Not waste my energy no more..,.,cause I only live buy truth and unconditional love ...that's all I seek
Aka: "Don't cast your pearls before swine"
@@emailjosie39 Oh boy!!! You stole my thunder! Lol....exactly what I was going to say!!
3:30 - Rule 1 "Stand up straight with your shoulders back"
16:23 - Rule 2 "Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping"
22:53 - Rule 3 "Make friends with people who want the best for you"
25:44 - Rule 4 "Compare yourself with who you were yesterday"
37:20 - Rule 5 "Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them"
48:52 - Rule 6 "Set your house in perfect order before you criticise the world"
58:47 - Rule 7 "Pursue what is Meaningful"
- - :- - Rule 8 "Tell the truth or at least don't lie" seems to be mixed in with Rule 7
1:05:00 - Rule 9 "Assume the person you are listening to might know something you don't.
- - : - - Rule 10 "Be precise in your speech" seems to be mixed in with Rule 9
1:11:43 - Rule 11 "Do not bother children when they are skateboarding"
1:17:06 - Rule 12 "Pet a cat when you encounter on on the street"
1:22:30 - Q&A
Ben Shaw excellent work
thanks for the recap. it looks like at some point the sound is off
Ben Shaw ..... Number 9 man ! 🙌🏿.... thanks for the summary. Some of us are really spoilt haha
"Stand up straight with your shoulders back" It will make your tiny erection look longer.
"Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street" After all, if Grab 'em By The Pussy can work for Trump, It will definitely work for you, too.
Thanks!
The greatest compliment I can give Dr Peterson is that I was living on "autopilot", and he got me to think and re-engage in life!
This channel has 260k subs and this video has 17Mn views..
That is Jordan Peterson impact
He was choking up at the end. I have such respect for this man's passion and intellect. The world truly is a better place with him in it...
Robert Strupe he was choking up because in reality he is just a lonely old boy who has no real life just labels and once he is off stage and no one is listening to his waffling he is trapped inside himself and his false thoughts..a person is their private thoughts not their public speeches
@@cosmicsprings8690 what a slanderous claim , he's lived more than half of his life splendidly, lonely and empty lables are not words than you can even remotely use to describe it. Off stage he's still an active professor and clinical psychologist, has a family too. Stop being a hateful prick for no reason. Maybe listen to what he says more closely and you might get rid of this evident bitterness in you... eventually.
Divye Kant lol 😂 I’ve just had a wonderful email 📧 from your father..telling me he was going to call you messy or hairy Kant but as you are so stupid and naive and jump on any passing bandwagon..it had to be Divie 😝 tell your father he is a wonderful man and a top joker 🃏 but he should of called you soft ..✨✨🤔😮😲🤣😂🤣😂😂✨✨✨
@@cosmicsprings8690 resorting to insults cause you lack the mental capacity to counter me with a decent argument , expected.
Plus it's your fault for not being educated enough to even read my name right lmao.
JP has helped a plethora of people out of dark places and low points in their lives , most comments stand as testaments to that. And even if your claims are true , it won't change the fact that he's had a more positive impact on society than negative.
But since you possess the mental capacity of a child and can't get over making fun of names , Its too much to expect you to even remotely understand.
@@cosmicsprings8690 too bad Jp didn't chew on you🤣
Jordan's book should be a text book in schools from first year to last year.
12 grades 12 rules
Absolutely in his element it's fantastic to see him thrive and I'm so glad he's back.
FIRST RULE: LICK THE ORBANUS HARD LIKE KNIGHT JORDAN S PEDERSEN THE WHITE NAZI
Jordan peterson is a proof for the existence of the idea of Ying and Yang.
While the world goes nuts, he appeared and sets simple things strait.
Thx a lott Dr. Peterson
This man is a gift to humanity
I’m sure Jordan will agree, that JESUS was and always will be, the best gift to humanity.
@@Anne-ku3lj he said a gift, not the best gift stop pushing religion onto everyone, this is youtube not church, nor a religious campaign
@@ZosaFN I commend Jordan for his Christian beliefs, and for talking about his faith all the time.
That's what I think. A gift to humanity.
You're joking obviously. The "man" is a eunuch and a moron. He's also a hopeless pill head.
The bloke who introduced Jordan has a magnificent voice and manner of speaking.
@cindybin2001 Yet, here you are.🤔
"gentleman"
@cindybin2001 I don't agree with it either. Free speech used to be the cry of the Democrats. Now, some leftist are so fragile and cowardly, yet they are the first to respond violently. I don't think I'm a Democrat anymore!🤣
Free speech, union/ worker rights, and "change the channel if you don't like it" Liberal! God bless Cindy(there are other platforms😉)
We need to protect this man at all costs.
You can tell how excited he gets and truley inspired by how many people showed and are happy to hear him. He is definitely a blessing to us. This is someone who I look up to. I dont understand why people would be trying to cancel him.
Because they are Marxists ~ they hate free enterprise, hate God and freedom of expression …
''Until the whole world is redeemed, we all fall short.''
Incredible.
That phrase is actually a Biblical verse from the apostle Paul. In a slight difference. Notice how he follows and quotes alot of things that Jesus christ said?
Its cause his principles are Bible based. Not all but most. He even says it.
Somente às escrituras you got it all wrong. He’s analysis is based on thousands of scientific published research papers by clinicians in Psychology. He’s a professional. He sometimes uses lines/stories from literature (even the Bible) to get a point across. He even quoted Nietzsche earlier. Listen to why he is telling those stories to highlight a broader concept.
@@DeathsAngel323
Look up that phrase then get back to me.
Somente às escrituras you know he is not religious right? So your point makes no sense. You sound like a casual listener. Is this your first time listening to him? You sound like it.
Somente às escrituras I told you why he uses lines from the Bible. He uses lines from all sorts of sources to drive his point home. You should be able to see that.
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you dont feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day!
Always push trough ! You are never suffering alone , as lonely as it might seem
Crazy how Jordan Peterson has a lot of impact. Not only his book is a financial success but also in term of psychological impact.
Some people who sell successfully their book just earn a lot of money get some media coverage and them disappears cause it was there only great thing.
For Jordan it’s more serious than most people he literally had an positive impact to many people just by communicating from TH-cam and books, when he is bad health, everybody worried years later everybody remember him.
His book is not just a financial success, a fun story that may be adapted in a movie. His book has also a psychological impact that makes lives of some people better without having to meet him in person.
To understand a psychologist we have to listen to him and what he says rationally can’t believe some people try to politicise him and his ideas just to make a confrontation.(they don’t like the way he impact people positive way)
He is mostly helping people in the need.
Perhaps in contrast Eckhart Tolle can add also add something to an individual's mental and spiritual well being. His book is called The Power of Now. How very true.
now I'm depressed
@@MikeZak101 Keep your act together Michael it'll pass away. Try to avoid being passive. Believe me I've been there and I am over it. Push yourself my man. A big hug.
54 Here and still learning ! All you youngsters there’s wisdom in Jordan’s words.
I'm 64 and I can't for the life of me understand what anybody gets out of this dude.
Well that’s a shame I’m sure there’s plenty there if you open your Mind
Whenever my life starts to feel out of control, I go to my bedroom and clean it. So when I learned of this advice from Jordan Peterson, I couldn’t agree more. 😅 He has a logical and simple way of troubleshooting life.
For me, the most admirable aspect of what Jordan Peterson has to offer is that he is making the pursuit of virtue cool again 🙌
Does he speak to virtue?
Dylan Russell : When was it not cool? Some of us missed the years of depravity, thank god.
Well, you've got incredibly lucky, my friend.
Make Virtue Cool Again
Dylan Russell Agreed
This man is a miracle. Cleaning up the world, one room at a time. Brilliant.
Myra Fleming great comment, deep and concise. Thank you.
thank you for this comment
I thought I cleaned my own room? He did show me how though.
@@hendrickgoodman8197 huh?
@@jencaligal6345 Hi
Dr. Jordan is really amazing. Giving his knowledge to lots of people and end up crying deep inside because he feels the pain from us.
FIRST RULE: LICK THE ORBANUS HARD LIKE KNIGHT JORDAN S PEDERSEN THE WHITE NAZI
j peterson Nazi orbanuskisser:
"my message to Hungarians:
what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian culture".
Very well articulated; I wish I had more time for trial and error, but I'll be 56 in October and I need ideas and advice on what investments to make to set myself up for retirement, especially with the looming inflation and recession; my goal is to have a portfolio of at least $850k at the age of 60.
There are a lot of strategies to make tongue-wetting profit especially in this down market, but such sophisticated trades can only be carried out by proper market experts...
@@marianparker7502 You still got time. Having an investment adviser is the best way to go about the market right now, especially for near retirees, I've been in touch with a coach for awhile now mostly cause I lack the depth knowledge and mental fortitude to deal with these recurring market conditions, I netted over $340K during this dip, that made it clear there's more to the market that we average joes don't know.
@@tradekings5433 If you don't mind, how can I get in touch with your consultant? I'm almost wrecked to say the least
@@Robertgriffinne My advisor is 'Corinne Cecilia Heaney'' In terms of portfolio diversity, she's a genius. You can glance her name up on the internet and verify her yourself. she has years of financial market experience.
@@tradekings5433 Insightful... I curiously looked up her name on the internet and I found her site, thanks for sharing
Jordan is like the elder around the fire 30,000 years ago for 2019
He is an elder. A wise elder. truth rings true.
And a father and example of positive manhood for western males.
2020
Nice one! :)
A+ analogy broo!!
Imagine being able to watch this for free.
Imagine being able to keep it AD free. Mm.
@@OneLifeTime.x imagine doing that and have the book
You are watching it free
Blessings
If you had to pay for it no vulnerable and damaged young men would watch it....
This man changed my life with Rule 1.
I had low self esteem my entire life and my miserable Step Father ridiculed my posture.I would put my shoulders back but still look dorky. The key is your head.Keep your head upright and back and your shoulders will follow.
I saw this video 9 months ago and internalized my poor posture.I made it a point to walk into a bar as upright as one could be.I immediately saw females look at me and so did a few men.I have made it a point to be as tall and straight as possible.The results have been tremendous.
As I write this I started crying.I am 58 yrs old and feel a big sense of loss of what my life could have been if my body demonstrated my inner confidence I developed despite my upbringing.
Do not brush over Rule 1...please.It can change your life.
I'm crying right now listening to this talk and reading your message too cause my mom used to tell me the same thing growing up and I never took it to serious out of almost rebellion against it almost like it was impossible to walk with good postures why even try.. OF COURSE I CAN!
Somehow I am crying as well reading both of these comments . I can relate to both & perhaps that's why but I believe it's mostly because of the sincerity & emotion that transfers while reading both of these comments . Congratulations to both of you & may God bless you both ! I am going to pick my head up again, shoulders back :) I used to be a lot happier & more confident until about 7 years ago, I tripped & looked down & it seems like I've been staring at the ground ever since . . . Not anymore. Not after today 🖤🤍🖤🤍🖤
❤amazing change you have made with such a small thing such as being upright.
Blessings to you, keep on moving forward x
Dr Peterson is the parent millions of us never had.
I would like to say a very special thank you for the SJW's that have wrongly accused Dr. Peterson for bringing him to the limelight and allowing him to share his amazing, peaceful, loving, caring and helpful message to all of us.
Darren Ellis Not peaceful.... you still need teeth. Even if you dont get bitten a growling dog is not peaceful when you try to take its bone.
TherealTenmanI You got the right idea, but the wrong words for it. Peaceful means prepared and dangerous, but choosing to not use violence unless forced to.
Peaceful is not the same as harmless.
In filth he was found
Yes, that one video where that SJW yelled something like "how to you excuse the presence on nazis at your talk" at peterson, was infact uploaded as a "got'cha" video of the SJW's. Free Speach at it's finest
bless them
"What you don't know is more important than what you know"Jordan Peterson
It’s not what you
Don’t know that hurts you
It’s what you know fsho
That just aint so
- the dude who wrote the Tom Sawyer
he could hold himself more to this thesis.
This man is really inspirational and his ideas and the way he presents and communicates them are a blessing for our species!
He will be a name, who future generations reference in the same way we do Einstein and Neitzsche.
I was there and it was one of the best evenings in my life
It was the best night of my life
Wow that is quite the statement guys! What a joy to have so much JP on youtube! I listent to his lectures every day!
I'm free this Saturday if you want a "2nd best evening of your life"?
@First Last: classic beta-male comment
I just shook the man's hand a few hours ago and got my copy of 12 Rules signed plus photo, and I still can't stop smiling.. still can't believe he came to NL and I got to see this legend in person by simply driving for 10 minutes.. Best evening of my life SO FAR!
Listen to this talk with an open heart. I grew up in communist Hungary, where my father was imprisoned and almost beaten to death because he spoke his mind. We were fighting against oppression, torture. and ideological enslavement. In 1956, the whole world was watching as we were fighting the invading Russian army with a few guns and Molotov cocktails. Noone helped. I guess we didn't have enough oil. Pay close attention to the lessons in this talk and do your share to make sure that history doesn't repeat itself.
Attilia, have you read the book Saving my Assassin by Virginia Prodan? She tells a similar story growing up in Romania.
I love your wisdom, Attila! We, Hungarians understand each and every word of him.
Crazy shit ♡ all of Europe couldn't be invaded by the Evil Nazi. But look at it in 2019 invades by the middle east. Halarious really. Now look at the U.S. invaded by the third world. The powers that be have just gotten sneaky. Good luck hoping the memory of any damn thing will help your people or mine.
Predicación Claudio freizon
I don’t listen to neo nazis with an open heart...
I really sincerely admire this man. I am in my room, listening to the whole lecture with full attention and at the end, I could not stop clapping for him. I like him for his intelligence, communication skills and much more which I do not want to write about right now.
Hah, I see my comment still, one year ago. Here I am watching the whole thing again. This is absolutely one of my favorite lectures from Jordan. I still haven't bought the book, but I will, soon.
About two years ago my mom passed away,. And as many people know is that it's a very difficult time, she was only 56 years old. I got very bad anxiety and panic attacks from all the stress and emotions thinking of "What is the meaning of life" or "I have lost my mom, the person in this whole world that regardless of what I do in life, she will always love me. What am I even supposed to do now?" types of questions, I also started to question if it even really was panic attacks, maybe my heart is just failing me, scared as you can be.
However, about one and a half years ago I decided that I wanted to become something, I don't want to work at a place to do something for the rest of my life that I dislike. But before I could apply for a course (in IT) I needed to study up a few subjects in order to qualify, or have enough points to even make it to the list of applicants. I did that for six months, really working my hardest, and for my panic attacks and anxiety I started running and now also taking cold showers for the bast 2-3 months, it has helped a lot with that.
After those six months I applied to the course, there was about 200 or something applicants, they only had 35 spots open, so I had to do a test that involved questions about the subjects that the course taught you. So I spent about one month or so just preparing for that test, writing down everything I could find online about it on a paper. I recorded myself all 20-30 pages on my phone and every time I went out on a walk, which I did almost every day walking 10 miles and just listening on my probably 2-3 hour recordings, and also when I worked, when I could.
I did the test and I patiently waited to see if I got in or not, 2-3 weeks of nothing and let me tell you the anxiety I had my just waiting, what if I don't get in? My future, or the live I want to live would be set back hugely, I couldn't imagine having to work with what I was working for another year. If I don't get in this time, will I even get in next year? My motivation is now. Then the email came, I got in, I got super happy and felt such a big burden lift off my shoulders.
Here I am now been studying to become a "Cloud and IT- Infrastructure Engineer", I have about a little more than a year left and so far I have aced everything on the course and I am so proud of myself.
I cried writing the part about my mom, but there is a difference between my crying when she passed and crying now. I still cry thinking about my mother sometimes, but the difference between then and now is that now I know that I am okay and I will be okay. I love Jordan Peterson and he has so many great advice.
So whatever you are going through, just know that it will be okay, you will be okay. Work on yourself.
Thank you for sharing. I'm super proud of, and happy for, you. May you live everyday feeling love and pride in yourself that leads to the most profound inner contentment.
"Resentful people who want to change the world should not be trusted" thank you Jordan for verbalising such important piece of wisdom.
I can add another piece to that, "Resentful people only want to tear down and have no clue what, if anything, should replace that which they want destroyed." Technically this is why you should not trust them.
@@grimmliberty7447 I don't think that's generally true. People usually know what they want installed as a replacement, that replacement is just generally not better. Demanding a restructuring of a system that is a product of decades of wisdom and thoughtful adjustment demands a solid foundation; one resentful people tend to lack.
I don’t agree with that. You can resent the shitty upbringing you had and how you were treated, and not want to continue to see that in the world.
We’re seeing a perfect example of this with the current woke epidemic that’s slowly ruining/infecting society.
I don't know. I can't imagine the impact of that idea, along with his paean to humility, if they were to be applied by conservatives to American politics presently. Unthinkable. It is a race between embittered resentment or all-knowing pride being the more honored. Quite like the far Left.
"A good person is someone who's trying to get better"! How I'd love to tattoo that into my subconscious!
uh... your comment / thought almost as good as the cited one. THX!
I'm actually reading this book right now and it's been such a journey of self knowledge and learning process about life in general. God bless JP!
Thank you!!!! I m going to buy The book..
He just keeps reminding me of the actor Christopher Lloyd (Back to the Future et al)
I’m also reading his book, I’m up to chapter 11 and I watch his videos to supplement what i learned in the book...I hope you have a good day and I hope you never lose the hunger for knowledge . Blessings
@@dirtyj1234 bless you too!!
18 million people took an hour and a half out of their day to listen to Jordan Peterson I have hope for the future God bless
Jordan seems to be much happier of late. It's nice to see him smile.
He was chuckling a lot in his interview on C4
yeah, he seems now to have found himself in his new role as controversial public person, understandably it must have been quite scary and taken some time getting used to. imagine the pressure
Jordan got a blunt just before the show :P. Or he just happy to be in the Netherlands with more like-minded people.
He's probably following his own rule-book.
He has commented that for the first 6 months of his recent "notoriety" (my word, not his) he was in total fear - fear of saying the wrong thing, being "found out", etc. He obviously had little to worry about. His natural demeanor is to be not only quite clever, but pretty funny at times, as well.
0:00 - Presentation
2:52 - Welcome
3:30 - Begining of the Talk.
04:30 - Rule 1: Stand Up straight with the shoulders back.
16:22 - Rule 2: Treat yourself like you're someone you care about.
22:53 - Rule 3: Make friends with people who want the best for you.
25:44 - Rule 4: Compare yourself to who you were yesterday not who someone else is today.
37:19 - Rule 5: Do not let your children do anything that make you dislike them.
48:52 - Rule 6: Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world
58:47 - Rule 7: Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient).
01:05:00 - Rule 9: Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don’t
01:11:43 - Rule 11: Do not bother children when they are skate-boarding.
01:17:05 - Rule 12: Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street.
01:21:50 - Closure + Q&A
Naice!
8 abd 10 missing. can u please mention. thanks
@@gitasn1769
rule 8. Tell the truth - or, at least, don't lie
rule 10. Be precise in your speech
Thank you!
Thank you for writing this!
I have been watching a lot of his talks over the last 2 weeks and I'm glad I have found him. It overjoys me to find other people who have the same thinking pattern as I do. I would love to meet him one day.
I was listening to Bill Mahrs podcast and Jordan Peterson was the guest. I looked him up & what I read was “WOW” which led me to his web page & eventually to here. There are no words to describe how moved I am to discover this unique individual who so unselfishly devotes himself to humankind. Speaking so that every person listening would be able to comprehend no matter their background, education, age or experience. I have moved him up into my #1 mentor spot because, above all else, I would like to experience the emotions he expresses out of pure love for every last person here on earth. I am eternally & forever grateful Professor Peterson for you and the example you are showing to all of the world with your unbelievable scope of compassion and your unselfish desire to share your knowledge so that it reaches & can be understood by all and any lucky enough to find you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! You have given me back some hope for the future and a reason to strive to follow your example.❤
I didn't even need the sound, the sight of the entire audience rising in applause brings a tear to my eye, the impact this man has..... surreal to be witnessing his existence.
Where did that happen? At what point in the video?
Konrad von Marburg 2:50
I was there and it was my birthday best gift I give my self I loved it so much 💕
Nataki Jean-baptiste helllo nataki! Its miki we went to high school together, i was 1 grade ahead of you. I was sitting 8 or 9 seats to your left, you looked directly at me a few times and i waived. You didnt recognize me lol. Anyways, i was happy to see you again looking great as you always did. Happy birthday!
Miki Miyazaki shit and she still hasn't responded.cold.
Nataki Jean-baptiste
That is awesome! I am really happy for you. I am glad that the video was posted so I could experience it with you.😄
Where was this?
You're a bitter resentful man. Sort yourself out.
Please support and pray for this man to help us save your children and their future
Came back to this lecture after a couple of years. Its as if I heard it for the first time!! ✨😇
When I listen to Dr. Peterson I want to be a better person. God bless him. He is a gift to society.
Well said.
JEAN SENN a sad drug addicted broken man , today we all need to pray for this brilliant man 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
A philosopher like here, Dr. Peterson. Has a wonder fulfilled with knowledge that can be discovered through science, wisdom, philosopher, and critical thinking.
Karka Snatschka I feel you are a very sad person, I will pray to Jesus Christ, for you,😎🙏🏼🏥🇬🇧
GAY LIVES MATTER !!! Gay lives matter hahahaha only black gay lives, are you black,😎🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻
Peterson is raising the consciousness of humankind
soulog
Peterson brings to awareness that which is convoluted or already gathered; articulating that which is deeply known, revitalizing the memory of the masses.
Peoplekind*
Peterson is putting conservatives into a deep hypnotic sleep.
I am moved. I sat through this whole thing in awe. Never heard of him before I am so glad I found this. He says what we all need to hear, over and over again. A man to look up to, to trust. Teaching good teaching what our children need to be taught. I'm going to start sharing this over and over. We all should. He is amazing. I had to rewind quite a bit because it was hard fir me ti grasp at times I mean I got it but took me a couple tries some times. I'm inspired to do better to help to be self conscious all of it. I will be listening to this again.
Thank you so much for this.
Check out Jim Rohn I call him gran pa
How wonderful to see so many positive responses to JP, who is not only an eminent psychologist but a humble and honest human being. Since this is your first exposure, I recommend that you listen to the tapes of his U of T lectures, from before he wrote this book. All of his academic career showed the same pursuit of truth. Not to mention, his incredible ability for verbal expression
One of the most engaging speakers of our time.
Peterson could never handle a single Atheist-TH-camr. I mean, he hasnt even recovered yet from getting a THREE HOUR Debunk by "Some More News" that is so bulletproof no one in the comments who loves Peterson has even TRIED to make a solid point against it and all in Unision have decided they have 'better chances' just skipping the discussion and adressing the Overweight of the Mothers of Anyone Present.
How can ppl watch this then feel the need to leave negative feedback. This man is bursting with positivity and continually spreads the love
People are just a bit pissy, man. We just gotta ignore it and then some.
Because people are very immature these days. I see it all over TH-cam. even with a perfectly normal video, in the comments they make sexual things.
I hope your house is in perfect order before you judge the world! Haha dont worry about it. You're on your way to better things and those comments wont help you like you can!
@@SweetWillyD who were you referring to?
@@nathanielschauss8695 to the OP Ali
I just had a free 1.5 hr counselling session with JP
Leon Hiebert How did that come about?!? He's so esp. busy right now!!!
P N Take a look at the length of this video
You could at least buy his book now.
Yes, good quality too - good to learn we are all really in the same boat.
You are so right!
Jordan has the gift of storytelling… factual storytelling… all the while wearing his emotions on his sleeve. A gifted storyteller draws you in and Jordan does this EVERY.SINGLE.TIME.
I love this speaker, he presents ideas in a very useful way.
One can tell that he really cares about his students, (who are all of us.)
He has a subtle humour.
FIRST RULE: LICK THE ORBANUS HARD LIKE KNIGHT JORDAN S PEDERSEN THE WHITE NAZI
j peterson Nazi orbanuskisser:
"my message to Hungarians:
what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian culture".
b peterson Nazi orbanuskisser:
"my message to Hungarians:
what your prime minister is trying to do is to restore the metaphysical foundation of Hungarian culture"
I really appreciate and respect that he takes the moments he needs to gather his thoughts and you can see how much he cares.
I heard someone say "he's a father figure for a fatherless generation"
I really have to agree
when he does that you type the time on your reply
Yeah well some of our thoughts aren't scattered like Peterson's.
Prodigal Heretic he is a total narcissistic egotistical delusional whopper whose only goal is self glorification..when you can paint 🎨 the Air then you will be happy 😃 with this bullshiter .he is nothing more than a brand new 2nd hand 🚙 car 🚗 dealer
Honestly if you complainers' lives were so enriched you wouldn't be in here bitching in a comments section. Maybe think about how wastefully you're spending your spare time before badmouthing someone you've never met on TH-cam :P
Phatt Johnson neurosis is compelled to join surrounding neurosis ..Jordan is just as lost as anyone and has many different 😷 masks 🎭 he likes to wear but they are all false ✨✨🌼🌞🌼✨✨
"Resentful people who wanna change the world are not to be trusted".
That comment is huge.
Absolutely!
@@l0rdgreasy594 or liberals
That covers the overwhelming majority of egomaniacs through the ages trying to rule humanity according to their "vision."
You only have to look at the woke and leftist group for evidence of that
ItsOnly huge on because you do posture your ability intellectually to break down that particular ability to elaborate yourself into that complex area call perception that overwhelme that thought into a clearer positive answer for you to digest that acidic tought that stops you in your own tracks learn more from life it's there for everone.
The quote at 1:16 really hit me. It made me realize I have been hiding from the negative in the world and not upholding my responsibility to add my soul/light/influence to the fabric of our society.
" The failure to participate fully in being, leaves a hole that's precisely the size of their soul in the cultural landscape. its no joke, we need all the light we can bear on the situation."
If that's what you take from this, congratulations.
"Compare yourself to the person you were yesterday." We have to protect this man.
I've never in my life bought a book. I've never had the interest.
My book arrives in 3 days and I cannot wait to read it.
ExedraCS you are an example of why humanity is failing.
@@Kriegtime101 Humanity is actually more prosperous and peaceful than it has ever been. To think that humanity is failing is ignorant and shows your lack of knowledge and perspective.
eCommerce Dean lol
Good for you.
So because he bought a book he genuinely is interested in he gets attacked. Not saying his response was appropriate, but come on people try being reasonable once and awhile.
This is what happens when a person dedicates himself to being a better human being. Wonderful man. And we are blessed by his presence among us.
Where is he right now? I heard he's very ill is there any update?
@@higgs135 th-cam.com/video/HLWgVpmo1e0/w-d-xo.html yea this an update on his health and whatnot
Here is how insane you people and your surrogate daddy are: Peterson has claimed that feminists have “an unconscious wish for brutal male domination,” referred to developing nations as “pits of catastrophe” in a speech to a Dutch far-right group, and recently told a Times reporter that he supported “enforced monogamy.”
You people all need help.
@@Kriegtime101 Lmao
If I had one word to describe Jordan Peterson it would be: INSPIRATIONAL. Because he has inspired me. And I’m a Millennial.
How many could change the world with a lecture or a book ?
Dr. Peterson you are a God send to millions!
Best choice i have ever made was starting watching him at 13yr old now 15 and I am the happiest I think I've ever been, thank you really.
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Joker Guy
Hehe nice meme.
I envy you - I'm 42. But at least I'm not NINETY-two.
Started listening to him when I was 6months now I'm 2 and I haven a PhD in clinical psychology. Thank you Dr Peterson!
thedavecorp you’re not even half way there you’re still young!
@@akpolska Started listening in the womb while my mom was on acid. I haven't been born yet, but I've applied to lots of universities.
Everyone talking about the presentation, but I'm just here to show my appreciation for the editor who muted the volume during the applause to save my ears. Thank you
Yes thank you editor 👍
Yes! Applause is a great energy.. but not in headphones.
There is a possibility that it was because some music was playing and that the audio had to be removed for copyright reasons. Otherwise he could have just lowered the volume I guess.
@@teddywelsch4853 This is true as well. Either way it worked and I'm still just as grateful.
Exactly what I noticed. Thanks
Holy Crap! The best lecture I've ever heard. I was in tears at some points. Smart? Inciteful? That doesn't even begin to describe this. JP, you are a beast! And also the most well grounded person ever. I can't even express the impact this video has had on me.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my TH-cam channel 5 months ago about self development. Now I have 305 subs and almost > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.
New sub.
@@samanthawalding4925
Thanks so much! I realized that the main reason for doing this is not about the success but the inspiration I've been providing some people with my stories while helping others do the same as I shared the lessons & experiences through making videos to have a sense of meaningful purpose. Therefore, I’m planning to quit nursing to pursue youtube full time as there are lots of issues in our traditional health systems as these don’t align with my values. It’s a huge learning curve but I love helping people through making videos. Also, as part of my video creation progress, I’m switching to a better editing software and a camera so the learning curve is much higher and slows down the completion speed of my next video. I do appreciate your support and kind words! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)