this father is a real man. crying openly, going to therapy, admitting his mistakes, willingly changing and bettering himself for his son. what an incredible man!
@@Big-nk3zi it sounds so easy when you put it like that but some people need outside help to deal with their issues. sometimes the hate has been internalized and is too rooted in their personal values. there’s nothing wrong with therapy and it’s actually an amazing thing that manny’s dad made the effort to seek professional help to better understand his son.
Me too! Idk how I never saw this video. I think that can be has helpful for any parent struggling with issues with their children to just engender that little baby we cuddled with and be supportive throughout anything that comes.
This just proves that using the line “they’re from a different generation/time/culture” is not a justification for discrimination. Your father didn’t use that as an excuse and instead educated and bettered himself. It takes a brave person to recognise their mistakes, especially when it’s a sensitive topic. So much respect for both of you 💖
I had a great father. He was born in the 20s on a farm in the Midwest. He always looked for me in my space and didn't expect me to be anything other than who I was.
I was born in the 50ties, and I’m a Christian, so I never believed in this life style but I don’t want to remain this way and be closed minded! This is good, and helpful! Thank you, I’m tryin
ladied56 I am happy you’re trying and I hope you get there. But a good first step is recognizing and understanding that being LGBT+ isn’t a “lifestyle”. It’s not a choice, you’re born like that. (:
Like everyone else said, it’s not a lifestyle. Trust me, I wouldn’t choose to be rejected by my parents and other family members. Thank you for looking into us, you’ll find that we love our families and significant others really really hard. All we want is to not be rejected for being able to love.
Adrianna I think she brought it up because Latino families, especially in Mexican communities, there are very strong machista ties & sexual orientation is a very taboo topic.
I completely agree, things tend to be as Manny said "Don't ask don't tell" in the Latino community and when things like sexuality or even mental health are brought up, they tend to be taboo and swept under the rug. It's not a race thing as much as it is traditionalism, and how things are passed on through family. Talking about this is a HUGE deal and I commend anyone of any race who are able to do so and come out with a more educated understanding. Much love to Manny and his dad for doing this💗
I have a friend who is Latina and she's gay. Due to her family and the way they were brought up, being anything other than straight was heavily frowned upon. Sure all family's are different and function different ways but she explained to me that there are a lot of Latinos who frown upon lgbtq life. I am not an expert. I cannot speak as an experienced person on this I can only speak from what my single experience is and what my friend shared with me during her hard times.
Seriously! This IS going to change lives. In the Latino Community, it's often times taboo to talk about things like this and I am so appreciative of him doing this. It is so important.
My daughter went through a stint of depression last year (6th grade)and really started withdrawing into herself. I'll be honest, I was really scared. With so much more light being shown on teen suicide lately, I couldn't bear the thought of ever losing my little girl like that. We talked a lot and decided that counseling was a good idea to help her find tools to help deal with her depression and anxiety. We went for a couple of months until she felt comfortable with the tools she had learned to use. Even after all that though, I still felt like she wasn't the same kid. It took her awhile, but when she finally came out and told me she was gay, let me tell you! When I told her that I didn't care if she liked girls, boys, or whatever, I just wanted her to be happy and love life, something clicked in her and there was my fun, goofy little girl again! Just being able to be herself and know that she is loved and supported from both her mother and her father...man! I feel like the world opened up for her. I hope parents can be more open to loving their children for who they are and not for who "WE" think they should be. Manny, thank you to you and your father for sharing this struggle. You are awesome!!!💖💋
@@MyLife1nNewYork I only want my children to be happy. It's really too bad that there are parents out there that don't have an understanding of that very simple concept.
Wow! Your dads complete transformation and then him also wanting to get on social media and have a platform to help other parents and kids going through the things you both went through is just phenomenal! ♥️
I started crying right away ‘cause you can tell he’s still hurt by himself and he regrets it. Mr. Gutierrez I respect you for sharing your story, I can only hope there are more parents and family members that are as welcoming and hard working for the genuine love of family! Also, PS, Manny, your younger brother (Nick?) looks a lot like your dad! Well you both do lol aww
I just stumbled on this. Thank you both!!! My story is reversed. My dad is gay. It took me awhile to see Dad in a different light but still my Dad. You guys are telling a beautiful and important story. Thank you!!!
I agree .... Never love someone less based on their sexual preference ... Let him live his best life .... I know many gay people they don't choose it ... Its who they are .... Years ago the world didn't agree with it so many were forced into a life they weren't meant to b in .... 2015 many were able to b who they were born to b..... My gay uncle was forced into q marriage with a kid which isn't who he is .... Years later still not happy i was 7 i asked him how do you know you're gay he says well honey when you're in highschool & realize you're more attracted to the football team & not cheerleaders i knew then however at that time i knew i couldn't b that person ...smfh I have 3 kids 17/16 year old boys 10 year old girl i will always love them no matter what ..... I am that parent !!!!!
This is something my brother is going through. I'm his number one supporter. I always knew but he recently came out 6 months ago. It's still a struggle. I wish I could help take the pain and struggle away that he has. This is a beautiful video.
As a Mexican I can totallyyy relate to how the Latino culture doesn’t really talk about lgbt or any other differences in the world but it’s something this generation should change!
Maria Gamez agreed. I come from a very religious Mexican family, and there are a few lgbtq members in my family, and even though my fam is “technically” accepting of them, there is still a lot of judgment coming from my non lgbtq family members
Your father is a true representation of the light we need in the world. I am so appreciative and grateful you two took the time to be so candid and genuine about your journey to where you are today. THIS is why I love you, and I can see why your dad does too. Major respect to your father, he seems like an amazing man 😊
When your dad started thanking your followers for being there for you when he should have, I broke down 😭😭😭 Your dad is awesome!!! Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so glad your story has a happy ending ❤️
Papa Manny, Thank you. As a lesbian Latina raised catholic, my birth parents kicked me out and was placed in foster care at an early age... in part because of their struggles in understanding homosexuality. So many LGBTQ+ have unfortunately... been faced with the choice of losing themselves, or losing their loved ones. DADT(Don't Ask Don't Tell), followed into my military service. Though the world may still not feel comfortable with who we are, eeevvvery change of heart makes a difference! Your voice, your story, your sharing and vulnerability has the power to make a true change. Happy Father's Day and thank you both for the gift of closure and understanding. 💖🧡💛💚💙💜 🌈🌈🌈
now your father is a real man, hes owned up to his mistakes. he knew his wrongs and spoke on it, not alot of men are that brave and you manny are so brave for everything you have gone through ❤
My Mom had such a hard time with my brother. He’s gone now and it’s 22 years now. I saw her depression when he died in ‘97. I know if she didn’t have Alzheimer’s I would love for you to speak to her. I’m not saying she didn’t love him, she did. She just always knew he was different and didn’t know what it was. Hugs & Love to you both. Thanks for allowing us to hear this. It helps me know where was Mom was in her feelings.
This video is very touching and beautiful. Hard to watch without crying :( your dad is so sweet and strong for being able to admit the struggle that he went through. Especially as a latino. And thanking your fans was so extremely sweet:(
I really like this as Latinos we know how hard it is for the man to talk about emotional stuff and even accepting of something like this.. big big ups to your dad and thank you so much for doing this video!! Love you manny!!
Thanks for letting your dad do most of the talking. People need to hear him; he's a lesson in maturity and wisdom. You are very lucky to have him. (And he you.)
Mad props to Mr. Gutierrez for opening up about his journey with his son and how they have been able to come back together stronger than before. You both have made a truly beautiful and thoughtful video and I hope more parents watch this. This is truly a powerful and moving video. THANK YOU!!!
Wow dude.. I cry so much man!. I know as a Latino Gay Men, how hard this is. Tears are running through my face as I write this. God bless you dad man, that's truly a blessing. So inspirational! I can only hope my dad I can also have a candid conversation like the one you guy's had.. But for now, I'll pray for your relationship with your dad.
Wow if I admired you before I admire you even more! I don’t know if you’re ever going to read this but I want to thank you for this. I’m going through something similar... my 17 year old son came out to us last year and it was a little hard for my husband. He is supporting now but I will still show him this video. We support our son and we’ll always be there for him. I’ll be for sure one of the first people to follow your dad in every social platform. I would love to hear your moms story, I’m sure it’ll still help me. Love you and your awesome family. Keep doing what your doing, you’re doing great! 😘❤️
Your Dad is AWESOME! May God bless him for speaking out and sharing his experience. This took so much strength, and it's also a profound testament of his love for you, Manny. If only every LGBTQ child had a Father like this man...
Okay holy shit I’m crying😭 The fact you can see in his eyes and hear in his voice how much he regrets not being there for Manny when he needed him most❤️ Unlike many fathers (or parents in general) who aren’t there for LGBTQ+ community and for men in makeup or in drag but HE is there for Manny, whether it took him a while or not, he loves him for everything that he is and I’m crying because that’s beautiful❤️
CRYING . so inspiring to see a latino father do this. growing up in a latino household I really really am shocked by your dad's vulnerability! so touching .
I grew up in a very religious Hispanic household and I understand you Mandy's Dad. We appreciate you admitting your struggles, you are not weak and you are not a bad dad. I am so proud of you and your strength to educate us a little but. ❤️ keep the love strong. We support Manny 100%. 🙌
My story is so similar.... first child, first male grandchild (Older female cousin on both sides), LDS, Perfect People Pleaser, Seminary, Conversion counseling, depression, etc. I'm just 25 years older and it was a very different time. I'm so happy to see your father do this video, mine has never gotten over it or dealt with his demons and my mom tries, but she still doesn't accept and I've been out since I was 16... no computers then but there was porn and mom searched until she found it... Thank you for being you and the inspiration you are to me personally. I too dabbled in drag back in the day (San Diego native as well) performing at WCPC and the Brass Rail to express my creativity, sneaking out windows and changing in my car. You've given me the courage to glam it up on occasion as a man and I'll always appreciate you for that. Love always.....
That, my friends, is a REAL man. Well done, Manny ii. Best video. You just helped and supported thousands of ppl. Bless you, guys. Happy Pride Month! 🌈
Damn, you’re dad did that!!!!! I love this!!!!!! My family is also traditional Latinos. I was dragged out of the closet. My dad confronted me and was pissed. This was 10 years ago and we still are “don’t ask don’t tell” and I’m married now to another woman. My mom took it hard. But when I got married, I gave her an ultimatum. Either she accepted me or she wasn’t going to have a relationship with me. She said that she had to learn to accept it. Now, she asks me about my wife all the time. IT DOES GET BETTER. love this. Love y’all!
LUXANDPUPS that is so amazing I don't go that way myself but I support all lgbt people and all colors as long as your a nice person I don't care cause it doesn't matter as long as they are happy who cares!!!?👍👏💟💞💝💘💗💖💕💓🙌😊
Manny your dads humility and growth like brings me to tears. I am so grateful for his willingness to share your story and your families experience. This makes you so unique and amazing on TH-cam. I really believe this will help so many people....ugh so much love and positive vibes going your way. So amazing.
Loved this video!! I was disowned by my stepdads entire family when my cousin outed me to them, I was out to friends and my parents but not to his side of the family.. When they found out we never got invited to family functions so my stepdad called them to see if they were doing the regular Easter lunch and they said that my parents were more then welcome but I wasn’t because they didn’t “agree with her lifestyle” So holidays are very lonely because it’s just me, my mom, and my stepdad.. holidays are extremely sad and depressing times because I grew with them since I was 9 and I’m 26 now. It’s been over 3 years and still really effects me:( Sorry for the long paragraph but this video really hit me. I’m so glad your father had changed his views and lives and supports you ❤️❤️
I absolutely LOST it when he brought out the baby pictures 😭💗 Your Dads Story is amazing.. I have a feeling this video is going to help SO many people!!
I totally lost it😭. This is beautiful Manny. This will def help other parents understand better. At the end of the day, parents just want one thing: to see our kids happy.
I am so proud of you, Dad. I was told by my daughter at the age of 13 she may like both and I never thought twice about it. She said it and the first thing I said was, "that doesn't change my love and support for you and of and with you."
I wish my parents thought like you and loved my unconditionally... I came out as a lesbian years ago, because I truly thought I was a lesbian and I went on to have an long-term relationship with a woman until her death a few years ago. I now find myself interested in guys even though I've never dated one, but I'm also still attracted to girls and it's weird for me and my parents are so closeminded. In particular, I wish that my mom could be someone I could talk to about absolutely anything, but it seems it'll never ever happen. People always say it will get better, but this is something that is never going to get better. I know she loves me, but it's conditional and I can't be myself (whoever that is). ♥️ Hugs.
Thank you for uploading this! I can see how hard it was for your dad but I can also see how much he loves you and wants to really understand which is a huge step forward !
OMG! Made me cry! I’m so proud of your dad for Being so strong and brave to lay his emotions all out there like that! What a beautiful story. My nephew came out to me when he was about14 I believe. ❤️ much love for your sweet family!
Thank you for sharing this so many people need to see this. I’m a therapist and I see so many depressed teens and young people because they either have to hide their sexual identity from their parents or the parents’ religious views refuse to accept this and believe this is a choice instead of how they are born.
When my daughter came out. She asked me What If I was gay? I was...And? I honestly had no issue with who she loves. I love her. Period. She's my life. My only pause for thought was , people will discriminate against her. We live in Oregon a very progressive state, so bigotry isn't as prevalent as other places. So it wasn't so bad. Now 10 yrs later she's married and has adopted a child.. Life is just life. It's great.
Gigi Dodson soo beautiful!! Thanks for sharing! Made me tear how much you love your daughter. My parents surprised me with how accepting they were of me when I came out.
That is awesome! It’s great to hear that she had the support from her family. Btw I’m also from Oregon and I totally understand why you were worried about her.
I’m so proud of you for staying true to who you are, and I also proud of your Dad for admitting how he was not there for you when he felt that you needed him the most, and he’s showing such remorse. That shows true growth, and what it means to be a parent. The fact that he started educating himself shows his true love.
Aw your father is so sweet🥺 he’s a real man👏🏻 there’s not many men who will openly cry on a video on TH-cam by his mistakes of not being supportive enough to his gay son, respect🤍
That made me cry at least 6 times. Thank you Dad for sharing your story from your perspective. I so appreciate your honesty. I can tell you love your son and he loves you.
I am so happy that a not only a Latino man, but a Mormon Latino parent can grow to be accepting of his lgbt son. This is true love and true christ like action. You can see how hard it was for him to open up, but so much good will come from him sharing his story! Thank you Manny G. Jr!
Literally my mom said the same thing! I just want the old happy bailey back but we all grow and become our own people! Shout out to you manny for being brave enough to be yourself! 🏳️🌈
OMG! Papa Lunar had me cryingggg this whole video! Manny I'm so proud of you and your growth and your amazing launch and Im so proud of Papa Lunar for coming on camera and admitting his past in hopes to help others! This is honestly an amazing video and now im gonna go cry some more! This video is MUCH needed for a lot of people out there
From a queer girl in California who grew up in a strict Christian home whose parents abandoned her, this video went straight through my heart. Your dad is such a blessing. The humility it took to come on your channel and be so candid is breathtaking. I was crying the entire time. His heart to want to help other parents...that shit can change the world. I love this, I love you, I’m blown away. Thank you Manny for introducing us to your dad, and thank you for being yourself. You both light up this world.
Can I just say.. not only the “accepting” you… but the fact that he talked about counseling, because that’s still such a taboo in the Latino/Hispanic culture… is even better.
Your dad is the definition of a man, he worked to change his thoughts so you guys would be stronger as a family and not lose you! I’m in tears form this video wow so emotional.. your dad’s candor and honesty in this video is very appreciated and I’m so happy that you guys are in a great place now❤️ this video is going to help a lot of parents I think!
Lex King I enjoyed reading your comment, but you don't get to define a man's manhood. A man defines himself just as women do, too. Just because a guy doesn't fit your description of a "real man" it doesn't mean he isn't a one. Instead, he just may not be the man for you or your life. We don't get to define other peoples manhood and/or womanhood, nor a persons sexuality either.
Brock An-Ra I don’t want this to be taken as me saying what a man should be or shouldn’t be. But in MY opinion after hearing the story it was the right thing to do as a father and a man to accept his son. I don’t have a dad in my life so seeing this man is something I wish I had.
Lex King Lex King I agree that it was the right thing to do as a parent, but also as a father. Every parent should accept their child for who they are despite how difficult it might be to come to terms with it. Also, I'm sorry to hear that your father isn't present in your life. Personally, I take issue with those who try and define a persons manhood/womanhood, sexuality, race, etc. That's why I felt the need to share my thoughts on this when I read your comment. In saying that, I don't think it was your intention to try and define someone as being a "real man" or not. Although, it is something we should all try and avoid doing because it's not up to others to label or define us based on their perceptions. Enjoy your day/night. :-D
I’m LDS and I’m gay too. I really don’t know how to face lots of church members and that’s the reason why I became inactive member for a year. I live alone and independent and still moving on the past life that I have growing in the church. I’m thankful for my friends that I have for being supportive and for my family that are still supporting me morally and I always feel their love so much. I wish that not just all the church parents but all the parents love their children and never abandoned them just like my dad did. So much happy and inspired for this video. Love you Manny and I love your dad too!♥️🏳️🌈🎉🥂
Your father's voice is so soothing, and I'm so proud that he used his introduction onto your channel by telling this story. Thank you so much for sharing!
I had the same number of brothers, was born when mum was young (16) and my father struggled the same way as yours did. I'm so glad years later, he embraced my sexuality and fully accepts it. It is amazing men like your father and mine that give me strength. Totally amazing when you think of their backgrounds. My father is Aboriginal, so his upbringing was similar to that of a Latino one. Please thank your dad for being so honest and having the strength to show his love by doing this video with you! Amazing man.
I remember when you had to take off your makeup because your dad didn’t like it. So now seeing how supportive your parents are warms my heart, you can see how proud they are of all your accomplishments❤️ Bravo papá Manuel 👏🏻
I love your Dad...... Thank you Papa Manny. As a mom who has believed for 18 yrs that this is going to be my reality, I need the help to bring other members of the family into acceptance. 💜🖤💙
I don’t have any words to describe how amazing this video is. The authenticity in the TH-cam community is not common these days and this casual but very important video just melts my heart. I love how your dad wants to give back and help others and bring awareness. As a Latina I know how hard it can be for Hispanic families to accept the community so this really touches my hearr
Im so effing happy that this story has a happy ending. Theres a little part of me that wonders if the fact that Manny became famous has anything to do with his dad finally accepting him. I really hope not, but im happy that he finally accepts and supports you
I just wanted to say how powerful, both of you are, in this video! Bravo! My dad never fully realized who I am, he passed in 2008. We'd gotten a little closer before he died, but no where near what I'd prayed could be. Your Dad is so real, in his honest recollection of his journey. Because as I see it, it wasn't only about learning to accept you. But how to be a real man! A real man is loving, caring and shows their heart when it matters. Not only to his family but to the world, by standing up for those who aren't able to yet! Thank you both!
I love that his dad knows his wrongs and says he was educated on it and that ladies and gentlemen is an amazing father admitting his wrongs and learning from his past instead of hiding it. LOVE THE GUTIERREZ FAMILY
When your dad started to tell his part of the story and started choking up at the very beginning and you just looked at him and encouraged him and told him this was so long ago! I started crying immediately. I could see your dads pain and then your support was amazing!!! And then you continuing to embrace him through out the video and the continuing support for him to tell his story was so sweet and yalls love is so strong! I admire yalls relationship and I hope this video continues to be shared and many many people see this bc it can help sooo many individuals and families. And not just families of children who are gay, but any differences that aren’t understood or accepted. This is soooo POWERFUL, and truly beautiful.
Manny I love ur Mom & Dad’s story, it’s the best! Think ur dad is very brave for opening up n being honest! Hope this video helps other families going thru similar situations.
Your father has so much strength! Vulnerability is SO HARD but it’s such a beautiful thing. My heart is so touched by this! I absolutely love how he is advocating therapy because so many men...and women see it as a weakness but nothing is stronger than admitting you need help. What a beautiful relationship you guys have. I hope with my whole heart that if my son is gay (he’s only 2 so who knows) that he will find this support with his dad. ❤️
It's hard growing up in a Latino and religious household and coming out as something that's so frowned upon in the community. Alot of them are so stubborn to get educated and I'm proud your dad got educated and is still with you.
So glad that your dad got over the difficulty of having a son that everyone considered "different". At the end of the say family should always stick together. You gotta cool dad and glad to see y'all together
Omg me quito el sombrero ante tu papà!!! Sr.Gutierrez lo mejor que pudo haber hecho, jamas dar por pèrdido el amor a su hijo 👏 I'm literally crying my eyes at 1am 😭 Love it ❤
Mr. Manny Jr. I just want to commend you for coming forward & opening up to us, strangers about such a personal matter. I really hope you forgive yourself bc in the Latino culture, in your era especially, it was unacceptable to accept or to even admit your child is gay. It’s considered a huge embarrassment especially for a Father to come to terms with their sons being gay. Most families shun their children bc of this. We are taught that so, you did not know any better. It’s ok bc what matters now & what’s important is the relationship you have now. Also, ppl whom are gay have to allow their parents to grieve the life they envisioned their kids to have & to accept what they never imagined their families life to be. I actually heard this from a gay man & it was a ah ha moment. One of the BEST & important videos on YT! This may save MANY lives!!! Thank you!
Elsa-Lee Treasure this was a beautifully written comment! The way you understood his father and how he shouldn’t be too hard on himself was the way i wished people would think about this kind of situation.
My stepdad is a hardass who probably isn’t going to change (he wrote off a biological son decades ago and as far as I know hasn’t tried to get back in contact), so thank you for showing me a healthy father/son relationship! Also thanks for the emotional release, you got a sub from me.
What a proud moment.. this father is the pure example of what a loving father.. SHOULD DO!!! His father loves him soooo much that he change his entire world for his son.. makes me sooo emotional bcs that what a parent should do... thanks for sharing this..
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Im so proud of my dad for doing this... and I am so grateful to you guys for being there for me when even my family wasnt
Manny Mua we love you manny!!
Much love manny 🤗🤗
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Manny Mua we love you❤❤❤
There are no perfect dads, only dads who try. Your father is the best example of that.
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So well said
Good dad
VII agreed completely!
Well stated
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this father is a real man. crying openly, going to therapy, admitting his mistakes, willingly changing and bettering himself for his son. what an incredible man!
Everything was good but the therapy no need for therapy just don’t hate people cause there differnt end of story
@@Big-nk3zi it sounds so easy when you put it like that but some people need outside help to deal with their issues. sometimes the hate has been internalized and is too rooted in their personal values. there’s nothing wrong with therapy and it’s actually an amazing thing that manny’s dad made the effort to seek professional help to better understand his son.
He's the same baby you held in your arms... I'm in tears here 😢
I couldn't hold the tears anymore!!
I’ve been crying. 🥺💚💚
Me too! Idk how I never saw this video. I think that can be has helpful for any parent struggling with issues with their children to just engender that little baby we cuddled with and be supportive throughout anything that comes.
That's a man. Much respect to your dad.
This just proves that using the line “they’re from a different generation/time/culture” is not a justification for discrimination. Your father didn’t use that as an excuse and instead educated and bettered himself. It takes a brave person to recognise their mistakes, especially when it’s a sensitive topic. So much respect for both of you 💖
imchristinac • facts!
imchristinac • YES. THAT!!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 exactly people just want to make excuses but there is no excuse !!!
imchristinac • Preach 👏🏼
I had a great father. He was born in the 20s on a farm in the Midwest. He always looked for me in my space and didn't expect me to be anything other than who I was.
"Thank you for being there for him when I wasn't" his dad really is sweet
I was born in the 50ties, and I’m a Christian, so I never believed in this life style but I don’t want to remain this way and be closed minded! This is good, and helpful! Thank you, I’m tryin
ladied56 I am happy you’re trying and I hope you get there. But a good first step is recognizing and understanding that being LGBT+ isn’t a “lifestyle”. It’s not a choice, you’re born like that. (:
Thank you for trying that's all anyone can ask for
it's not a "lifestyle" being gay doesn't "define" you and you don't choose to be apart of it. thank you for trying 💕
Like everyone else said, it’s not a lifestyle. Trust me, I wouldn’t choose to be rejected by my parents and other family members. Thank you for looking into us, you’ll find that we love our families and significant others really really hard. All we want is to not be rejected for being able to love.
Thank you so much for trying to understand 😭😭 my mom is old baptist and Ive cried and explained and begged and she just won't Budge
Being a Latina, and hearing a Latino dad speak like this is going to change lives, Manny! This was beautiful!
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Why does his ethnicity matter?
Adrianna I think she brought it up because Latino families, especially in Mexican communities, there are very strong machista ties & sexual orientation is a very taboo topic.
I completely agree, things tend to be as Manny said "Don't ask don't tell" in the Latino community and when things like sexuality or even mental health are brought up, they tend to be taboo and swept under the rug. It's not a race thing as much as it is traditionalism, and how things are passed on through family. Talking about this is a HUGE deal and I commend anyone of any race who are able to do so and come out with a more educated understanding. Much love to Manny and his dad for doing this💗
I have a friend who is Latina and she's gay. Due to her family and the way they were brought up, being anything other than straight was heavily frowned upon. Sure all family's are different and function different ways but she explained to me that there are a lot of Latinos who frown upon lgbtq life. I am not an expert. I cannot speak as an experienced person on this I can only speak from what my single experience is and what my friend shared with me during her hard times.
Seriously! This IS going to change lives. In the Latino Community, it's often times taboo to talk about things like this and I am so appreciative of him doing this. It is so important.
this is a MAN he’s able to admit his wrong doings and he’s using his past to help others and isn’t afraid of crying on camera this is a MAN
My daughter went through a stint of depression last year (6th grade)and really started withdrawing into herself. I'll be honest, I was really scared. With so much more light being shown on teen suicide lately, I couldn't bear the thought of ever losing my little girl like that. We talked a lot and decided that counseling was a good idea to help her find tools to help deal with her depression and anxiety. We went for a couple of months until she felt comfortable with the tools she had learned to use. Even after all that though, I still felt like she wasn't the same kid. It took her awhile, but when she finally came out and told me she was gay, let me tell you! When I told her that I didn't care if she liked girls, boys, or whatever, I just wanted her to be happy and love life, something clicked in her and there was my fun, goofy little girl again! Just being able to be herself and know that she is loved and supported from both her mother and her father...man! I feel like the world opened up for her. I hope parents can be more open to loving their children for who they are and not for who "WE" think they should be. Manny, thank you to you and your father for sharing this struggle. You are awesome!!!💖💋
Sara Berrier YOU are awesome!!! You probably saved your little girls life!❤️
This had me in tears
Sara Berrier you’re amazing mom 🤗
Wow your comment made me cry. You are such a great mom.
@@MyLife1nNewYork I only want my children to be happy. It's really too bad that there are parents out there that don't have an understanding of that very simple concept.
Who is cutting onions 😫.. this is beautiful to watch ❤️
It takes a real man to admit fault and be willing to put the work in to change.
Amazing amazing amazing ❤️❤️❤️
This really inspired me I was your first comment could you please like it I love you🤦🏼♂️ your one of my favorite
PatrickStarrr ♥️♥️♥️
much love
So inspirational
PatrickStarrr 💕💕
Very touching! We must love our kids. Never abandon our kids.
Wow! Your dads complete transformation and then him also wanting to get on social media and have a platform to help other parents and kids going through the things you both went through is just phenomenal! ♥️
This is iconic, the fact he admit his mistakes and see how successful you’ve become due to LGBT culture its amazing!
He really is amazing im so proud of him!
I started crying right away ‘cause you can tell he’s still hurt by himself and he regrets it. Mr. Gutierrez I respect you for sharing your story, I can only hope there are more parents and family members that are as welcoming and hard working for the genuine love of family! Also, PS, Manny, your younger brother (Nick?) looks a lot like your dad! Well you both do lol aww
I cried reading this
I just stumbled on this. Thank you both!!! My story is reversed. My dad is gay. It took me awhile to see Dad in a different light but still my Dad. You guys are telling a beautiful and important story. Thank you!!!
@Ruben Elenez Spot on sir well said !
I agree .... Never love someone less based on their sexual preference ... Let him live his best life .... I know many gay people they don't choose it ... Its who they are .... Years ago the world didn't agree with it so many were forced into a life they weren't meant to b in .... 2015 many were able to b who they were born to b..... My gay uncle was forced into q marriage with a kid which isn't who he is .... Years later still not happy i was 7 i asked him how do you know you're gay he says well honey when you're in highschool & realize you're more attracted to the football team & not cheerleaders i knew then however at that time i knew i couldn't b that person ...smfh
I have 3 kids 17/16 year old boys 10 year old girl i will always love them no matter what ..... I am that parent !!!!!
This is something my brother is going through. I'm his number one supporter. I always knew but he recently came out 6 months ago. It's still a struggle. I wish I could help take the pain and struggle away that he has. This is a beautiful video.
Just keep being there for him. Let him know you care for him and he can talk to you. Just keep being supportive
As a Mexican I can totallyyy relate to how the Latino culture doesn’t really talk about lgbt or any other differences in the world but it’s something this generation should change!
Maria Gamez agreed. I come from a very religious Mexican family, and there are a few lgbtq members in my family, and even though my fam is “technically” accepting of them, there is still a lot of judgment coming from my non lgbtq family members
Your father is a true representation of the light we need in the world. I am so appreciative and grateful you two took the time to be so candid and genuine about your journey to where you are today. THIS is why I love you, and I can see why your dad does too. Major respect to your father, he seems like an amazing man 😊
This planet need more dads like this one. Wooooow.
When your dad started thanking your followers for being there for you when he should have, I broke down 😭😭😭
Your dad is awesome!!! Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so glad your story has a happy ending ❤️
Papa Manny,
Thank you.
As a lesbian Latina raised catholic, my birth parents kicked me out and was placed in foster care at an early age... in part because of their struggles in understanding homosexuality. So many LGBTQ+ have unfortunately... been faced with the choice of losing themselves, or losing their loved ones. DADT(Don't Ask Don't Tell), followed into my military service. Though the world may still not feel comfortable with who we are, eeevvvery change of heart makes a difference!
Your voice, your story, your sharing and vulnerability has the power to make a true change. Happy Father's Day and thank you both for the gift of closure and understanding.
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TheNocturnalpheonix , I couldn’t say it any better. U r an incredible person.
Thank u for ur service. God bless u. 🏳️🌈💓
now your father is a real man, hes owned up to his mistakes. he knew his wrongs and spoke on it, not alot of men are that brave and you manny are so brave for everything you have gone through ❤
This is the most genuine video I’ve seen in a while
My Mom had such a hard time with my brother. He’s gone now and it’s 22 years now. I saw her depression when he died in ‘97. I know if she didn’t have Alzheimer’s I would love for you to speak to her. I’m not saying she didn’t love him, she did. She just always knew he was different and didn’t know what it was. Hugs & Love to you both. Thanks for allowing us to hear this. It helps me know where was Mom was in her feelings.
Your dad is so cool for doing this. Thank you for sharing your story. You have a truly amazing family. ❤
Brad Mondo I love you Brad 💞
Brad we love you
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Brad Mondo thank you so much Brad :)
Hi Manny Mua how are you and her father .
I didn't expect to ruin my inner corner highlight from watching this Manny...
Lmaooo i love that
omg when he brought out the pictures 😭😭
😂😂 yassss girl porcelain
Me too 😭 there goes my mascara ..
Porcelain, you've ruined many a'highlight with your moving vids too!
This video is very touching and beautiful. Hard to watch without crying :( your dad is so sweet and strong for being able to admit the struggle that he went through. Especially as a latino. And thanking your fans was so extremely sweet:(
Dad, I couldn't keep a dry eye seeing u get emotional. Thanks for being an inspiration and role model for the world
Your dad is so brave for telling us all his story and the story of your family. I respect you so much.
I really like this as Latinos we know how hard it is for the man to talk about emotional stuff and even accepting of something like this.. big big ups to your dad and thank you so much for doing this video!! Love you manny!!
Thanks for letting your dad do most of the talking. People need to hear him; he's a lesson in maturity and wisdom.
You are very lucky to have him. (And he you.)
Your dad is epic! Not accepting his own views and setting it as a goal to change how he saw his son is absolutely awesome and inspiring
😭😭😭 this was so touching.I’m in tears
iluvsarahii I seriously crying too! 😢
It's a waterfall. From the beginning to the end. 😭
iluvsarahii aw thank you babe!
I can't even begin to explain how proud I am of your father, that's such an amazing growth !!
This is my second time watching this after watching the year anniversary video. This is such an amazing thing...
Love you manny sr and Jr;)
Dubz Delusion Not sure if Manny will see it. Try his fathers IG or Twitter LBGB2018
I watched the anniversary video first and then found this one, my heart and eyes are welling up at his love and acceptance of his son!
Mad props to Mr. Gutierrez for opening up about his journey with his son and how they have been able to come back together stronger than before. You both have made a truly beautiful and thoughtful video and I hope more parents watch this. This is truly a powerful and moving video. THANK YOU!!!
Wow dude.. I cry so much man!. I know as a Latino Gay Men, how hard this is. Tears are running through my face as I write this. God bless you dad man, that's truly a blessing. So inspirational! I can only hope my dad I can also have a candid conversation like the one you guy's had.. But for now, I'll pray for your relationship with your dad.
That day will come sooner than u think ... God bless u ..
An amazing comment
chloe Lauren thank you! 😉
Chiky Baby thank you so much!
Wow if I admired you before I admire you even more! I don’t know if you’re ever going to read this but I want to thank you for this. I’m going through something similar... my 17 year old son came out to us last year and it was a little hard for my husband. He is supporting now but I will still show him this video. We support our son and we’ll always be there for him. I’ll be for sure one of the first people to follow your dad in every social platform. I would love to hear your moms story, I’m sure it’ll still help me. Love you and your awesome family. Keep doing what your doing, you’re doing great! 😘❤️
*who else is here to recap after his new video with his dad? So touching* 😢
Your Dad is AWESOME! May God bless him for speaking out and sharing his experience. This took so much strength, and it's also a profound testament of his love for you, Manny. If only every LGBTQ child had a Father like this man...
Okay holy shit I’m crying😭
The fact you can see in his eyes and hear in his voice how much he regrets not being there for Manny when he needed him most❤️
Unlike many fathers (or parents in general) who aren’t there for LGBTQ+ community and for men in makeup or in drag but HE is there for Manny, whether it took him a while or not, he loves him for everything that he is and I’m crying because that’s beautiful❤️
CRYING . so inspiring to see a latino father do this. growing up in a latino household I really really am shocked by your dad's vulnerability! so touching .
Jess Angel yes! People don’t understand how important this video is to the Latino community. This is awesome Manny. ❤️
Jess Angel i
I grew up in a very religious Hispanic household and I understand you Mandy's Dad. We appreciate you admitting your struggles, you are not weak and you are not a bad dad. I am so proud of you and your strength to educate us a little but. ❤️ keep the love strong. We support Manny 100%. 🙌
My story is so similar.... first child, first male grandchild (Older female cousin on both sides), LDS, Perfect People Pleaser, Seminary, Conversion counseling, depression, etc. I'm just 25 years older and it was a very different time. I'm so happy to see your father do this video, mine has never gotten over it or dealt with his demons and my mom tries, but she still doesn't accept and I've been out since I was 16... no computers then but there was porn and mom searched until she found it... Thank you for being you and the inspiration you are to me personally. I too dabbled in drag back in the day (San Diego native as well) performing at WCPC and the Brass Rail to express my creativity, sneaking out windows and changing in my car. You've given me the courage to glam it up on occasion as a man and I'll always appreciate you for that. Love always.....
That, my friends, is a REAL man. Well done, Manny ii. Best video. You just helped and supported thousands of ppl. Bless you, guys. Happy Pride Month! 🌈
Damn, you’re dad did that!!!!! I love this!!!!!! My family is also traditional Latinos. I was dragged out of the closet. My dad confronted me and was pissed. This was 10 years ago and we still are “don’t ask don’t tell” and I’m married now to another woman. My mom took it hard. But when I got married, I gave her an ultimatum. Either she accepted me or she wasn’t going to have a relationship with me. She said that she had to learn to accept it. Now, she asks me about my wife all the time. IT DOES GET BETTER. love this. Love y’all!
LUXANDPUPS that is so amazing I don't go that way myself but I support all lgbt people and all colors as long as your a nice person I don't care cause it doesn't matter as long as they are happy who cares!!!?👍👏💟💞💝💘💗💖💕💓🙌😊
Jessica Anne that’s is amazing of you. Thank you!!
LUXANDPUPS you go girl!!!🙌😁😊
Manny your dads humility and growth like brings me to tears. I am so grateful for his willingness to share your story and your families experience. This makes you so unique and amazing on TH-cam. I really believe this will help so many people....ugh so much love and positive vibes going your way. So amazing.
Loved this video!!
I was disowned by my stepdads entire family when my cousin outed me to them, I was out to friends and my parents but not to his side of the family..
When they found out we never got invited to family functions so my stepdad called them to see if they were doing the regular Easter lunch and they said that my parents were more then welcome but I wasn’t because they didn’t “agree with her lifestyle”
So holidays are very lonely because it’s just me, my mom, and my stepdad.. holidays are extremely sad and depressing times because I grew with them since I was 9 and I’m 26 now. It’s been over 3 years and still really effects me:(
Sorry for the long paragraph but this video really hit me.
I’m so glad your father had changed his views and lives and supports you ❤️❤️
I absolutely LOST it when he brought out the baby pictures 😭💗 Your Dads Story is amazing.. I have a feeling this video is going to help SO many people!!
same!
Kait Nichole exactly
I HELD OUT SO LONG, I LOST IT TOO!
This is a great video. Your dad is fucken awesome!
Kait Nichole Oh god me too! I'm a mess after that 😭
I totally lost it😭. This is beautiful Manny. This will def help other parents understand better. At the end of the day, parents just want one thing: to see our kids happy.
RosyMcMichael hay tan linda rossy ❤
RosyMcMichael
OMG ROSY I AGRRE WITH YOU. YOU AND MANNY ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION. LOVE YOUR VIDEOS... 💜💜💜💜
RosyMcMichael i was just watching your video!! You're so sweet ❤
Many es de descendencia mexicana?
I am so proud of you, Dad.
I was told by my daughter at the age of 13 she may like both and I never thought twice about it. She said it and the first thing I said was, "that doesn't change my love and support for you and of and with you."
I wish my parents thought like you and loved my unconditionally... I came out as a lesbian years ago, because I truly thought I was a lesbian and I went on to have an long-term relationship with a woman until her death a few years ago. I now find myself interested in guys even though I've never dated one, but I'm also still attracted to girls and it's weird for me and my parents are so closeminded. In particular, I wish that my mom could be someone I could talk to about absolutely anything, but it seems it'll never ever happen. People always say it will get better, but this is something that is never going to get better. I know she loves me, but it's conditional and I can't be myself (whoever that is). ♥️ Hugs.
Thank you for uploading this! I can see how hard it was for your dad but I can also see how much he loves you and wants to really understand which is a huge step forward !
So much respect for your dad talking openly about this x
Full grown man !!! Bless him !!!
YOUR DAD IS AN INSPIRATION - WHAT A GOOD, GOOD MAN HE IS 👊🏼
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OMG! Made me cry! I’m so proud of your dad for Being so strong and brave to lay his emotions all out there like that! What a beautiful story. My nephew came out to me when he was about14 I believe. ❤️ much love for your sweet family!
Thank you for sharing this so many people need to see this. I’m a therapist and I see so many depressed teens and young people because they either have to hide their sexual identity from their parents or the parents’ religious views refuse to accept this and believe this is a choice instead of how they are born.
When my daughter came out. She asked me What If I was gay? I was...And? I honestly had no issue with who she loves. I love her. Period. She's my life.
My only pause for thought was , people will discriminate against her. We live in Oregon a very progressive state, so bigotry isn't as prevalent as other places. So it wasn't so bad.
Now 10 yrs later she's married and has adopted a child..
Life is just life. It's great.
bless you 💗💗
Gigi Dodson soo beautiful!! Thanks for sharing! Made me tear how much you love your daughter. My parents surprised me with how accepting they were of me when I came out.
Gigi Dodson omg this is so sweet and made me so happy💖💖
I wish more parents were like you! It makes me so happy!💕
That is awesome! It’s great to hear that she had the support from her family. Btw I’m also from Oregon and I totally understand why you were worried about her.
A true role model for Latino dads who may struggle moreso due to how we are raised in old school households. Such a wonderful video
Lady Calysta true since most of Latino father are so machos
I’m so proud of you for staying true to who you are, and I also proud of your Dad for admitting how he was not there for you when he felt that you needed him the most, and he’s showing such remorse. That shows true growth, and what it means to be a parent. The fact that he started educating himself shows his true love.
Aw your father is so sweet🥺 he’s a real man👏🏻 there’s not many men who will openly cry on a video on TH-cam by his mistakes of not being supportive enough to his gay son, respect🤍
“I don’t give a shit, I’m gonna do it anyway.” Such a dad move 😂 This was such a great video 💞
“I brought pictures and he probably doesn’t want me to show you them, but I don’t give a shit.” He’s so proud haha
Ayla ASMR Hahahaha he really is, such a brat
Manny Mua Like father, like son 😂
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That made me cry at least 6 times. Thank you Dad for sharing your story from your perspective. I so appreciate your honesty. I can tell you love your son and he loves you.
I wish more people were capable of change like your dad! It takes a real man to grow up and educate himself and be accepting.
I am so happy that a not only a Latino man, but a Mormon Latino parent can grow to be accepting of his lgbt son. This is true love and true christ like action. You can see how hard it was for him to open up, but so much good will come from him sharing his story! Thank you Manny G. Jr!
Literally my mom said the same thing! I just want the old happy bailey back but we all grow and become our own people! Shout out to you manny for being brave enough to be yourself! 🏳️🌈
OMG! Papa Lunar had me cryingggg this whole video! Manny I'm so proud of you and your growth and your amazing launch and Im so proud of Papa Lunar for coming on camera and admitting his past in hopes to help others! This is honestly an amazing video and now im gonna go cry some more! This video is MUCH needed for a lot of people out there
Kaila Kake girl I’m sobbing rn😭
From a queer girl in California who grew up in a strict Christian home whose parents abandoned her, this video went straight through my heart. Your dad is such a blessing. The humility it took to come on your channel and be so candid is breathtaking. I was crying the entire time. His heart to want to help other parents...that shit can change the world. I love this, I love you, I’m blown away. Thank you Manny for introducing us to your dad, and thank you for being yourself. You both light up this world.
Can I just say.. not only the “accepting” you… but the fact that he talked about counseling, because that’s still such a taboo in the Latino/Hispanic culture… is even better.
What a wonderful father..... admitting his faults on such a massive platform shows such strength.... and love!! ⭐
Your dad is the definition of a man, he worked to change his thoughts so you guys would be stronger as a family and not lose you! I’m in tears form this video wow so emotional.. your dad’s candor and honesty in this video is very appreciated and I’m so happy that you guys are in a great place now❤️ this video is going to help a lot of parents I think!
Lex King I enjoyed reading your comment, but you don't get to define a man's manhood. A man defines himself just as women do, too. Just because a guy doesn't fit your description of a "real man" it doesn't mean he isn't a one. Instead, he just may not be the man for you or your life. We don't get to define other peoples manhood and/or womanhood, nor a persons sexuality either.
Brock An-Ra I don’t want this to be taken as me saying what a man should be or shouldn’t be. But in MY opinion after hearing the story it was the right thing to do as a father and a man to accept his son. I don’t have a dad in my life so seeing this man is something I wish I had.
Lex King Lex King I agree that it was the right thing to do as a parent, but also as a father. Every parent should accept their child for who they are despite how difficult it might be to come to terms with it. Also, I'm sorry to hear that your father isn't present in your life.
Personally, I take issue with those who try and define a persons manhood/womanhood, sexuality, race, etc. That's why I felt the need to share my thoughts on this when I read your comment. In saying that, I don't think it was your intention to try and define someone as being a "real man" or not. Although, it is something we should all try and avoid doing because it's not up to others to label or define us based on their perceptions.
Enjoy your day/night. :-D
True strength is the strength to say "I am sorry" and to change. No more toxic macho stereotypes. Just radical love and healing. 💗
I’m LDS and I’m gay too. I really don’t know how to face lots of church members and that’s the reason why I became inactive member for a year. I live alone and independent and still moving on the past life that I have growing in the church. I’m thankful for my friends that I have for being supportive and for my family that are still supporting me morally and I always feel their love so much. I wish that not just all the church parents but all the parents love their children and never abandoned them just like my dad did. So much happy and inspired for this video. Love you Manny and I love your dad too!♥️🏳️🌈🎉🥂
Something that really helped open my world up was joining Free Dad Hugs. It was positive therapy for everyone.
Your father's voice is so soothing, and I'm so proud that he used his introduction onto your channel by telling this story. Thank you so much for sharing!
Hajira S. It's always the accents that get me
I love your dad and your relationship you two have now god bless you both
I know, love the voice plus he's hot😉😁 BEAUTIFUL video
Manny’s family has some good genes! This video is so inspiring and your poppa has come such a long way! You can see how proud he is of you❤️
I have nothing but full admiration towards your dad and I hope all dads in the world with a gay child should learn from this and do the same.
I had the same number of brothers, was born when mum was young (16) and my father struggled the same way as yours did. I'm so glad years later, he embraced my sexuality and fully accepts it. It is amazing men like your father and mine that give me strength. Totally amazing when you think of their backgrounds. My father is Aboriginal, so his upbringing was similar to that of a Latino one. Please thank your dad for being so honest and having the strength to show his love by doing this video with you! Amazing man.
I remember when you had to take off your makeup because your dad didn’t like it. So now seeing how supportive your parents are warms my heart, you can see how proud they are of all your accomplishments❤️ Bravo papá Manuel 👏🏻
Manny’s dad is a real man! He has admitted his faults, changed, and is moving forward. That’s true love🤗
Michelle Ridley 100% agreed!!!
Manny is such a real ass. His gestures with his father make him so damn genuine and real.
I love your Dad...... Thank you Papa Manny.
As a mom who has believed for 18 yrs that this is going to be my reality, I need the help to bring other members of the family into acceptance.
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I don’t have any words to describe how amazing this video is. The authenticity in the TH-cam community is not common these days and this casual but very important video just melts my heart. I love how your dad wants to give back and help others and bring awareness. As a Latina I know how hard it can be for Hispanic families to accept the community so this really touches my hearr
your dad is an amazing speaker!! I could see him helping so many parents of LGBT youth. This is an amazing video
Im so effing happy that this story has a happy ending. Theres a little part of me that wonders if the fact that Manny became famous has anything to do with his dad finally accepting him. I really hope not, but im happy that he finally accepts and supports you
I just wanted to say how powerful, both of you are, in this video! Bravo! My dad never fully realized who I am, he passed in 2008. We'd gotten a little closer before he died, but no where near what I'd prayed could be. Your Dad is so real, in his honest recollection of his journey. Because as I see it, it wasn't only about learning to accept you. But how to be a real man! A real man is loving, caring and shows their heart when it matters. Not only to his family but to the world, by standing up for those who aren't able to yet! Thank you both!
I love that his dad knows his wrongs and says he was educated on it and that ladies and gentlemen is an amazing father admitting his wrongs and learning from his past instead of hiding it. LOVE THE GUTIERREZ FAMILY
Hes the BEST
I never saw you comment on jennas video. How did you feel about the bed for cermet? Lmaoo
Thank you for sharing this.
I love the way life forces us to reconsider our closed-minded stances through the people who are closest to us.
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thank you babe
superholly 👏🏼💯
OK your dad crying thanking all your followers is CHOKING ME UP!!
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Te amo! 💚✨❤️
When your dad started to tell his part of the story and started choking up at the very beginning and you just looked at him and encouraged him and told him this was so long ago! I started crying immediately. I could see your dads pain and then your support was amazing!!! And then you continuing to embrace him through out the video and the continuing support for him to tell his story was so sweet and yalls love is so strong! I admire yalls relationship and I hope this video continues to be shared and many many people see this bc it can help sooo many individuals and families. And not just families of children who are gay, but any differences that aren’t understood or accepted. This is soooo POWERFUL, and truly beautiful.
Manny I love ur Mom & Dad’s story, it’s the best! Think ur dad is very brave for opening up n being honest! Hope this video helps other families going thru similar situations.
Your father has so much strength! Vulnerability is SO HARD but it’s such a beautiful thing. My heart is so touched by this! I absolutely love how he is advocating therapy because so many men...and women see it as a weakness but nothing is stronger than admitting you need help. What a beautiful relationship you guys have. I hope with my whole heart that if my son is gay (he’s only 2 so who knows) that he will find this support with his dad. ❤️
It's hard growing up in a Latino and religious household and coming out as something that's so frowned upon in the community. Alot of them are so stubborn to get educated and I'm proud your dad got educated and is still with you.
So glad that your dad got over the difficulty of having a son that everyone considered "different". At the end of the say family should always stick together. You gotta cool dad and glad to see y'all together
Omg me quito el sombrero ante tu papà!!!
Sr.Gutierrez lo mejor que pudo haber hecho, jamas dar por pèrdido el amor a su hijo 👏
I'm literally crying my eyes at 1am 😭
Love it ❤
Mr. Manny Jr. I just want to commend you for coming forward & opening up to us, strangers about such a personal matter. I really hope you forgive yourself bc in the Latino culture, in your era especially, it was unacceptable to accept or to even admit your child is gay. It’s considered a huge embarrassment especially for a Father to come to terms with their sons being gay. Most families shun their children bc of this. We are taught that so, you did not know any better. It’s ok bc what matters now & what’s important is the relationship you have now. Also, ppl whom are gay have to allow their parents to grieve the life they envisioned their kids to have & to accept what they never imagined their families life to be. I actually heard this from a gay man & it was a ah ha moment. One of the BEST & important videos on YT! This may save MANY lives!!! Thank you!
Elsa-Lee Treasure this was a beautifully written comment! The way you understood his father and how he shouldn’t be too hard on himself was the way i wished people would think about this kind of situation.
Ruth Duenas awww thank you Ruth! I really appreciate it:)
seeing your dad get emotional got me. it really shows how much he loves you
My stepdad is a hardass who probably isn’t going to change (he wrote off a biological son decades ago and as far as I know hasn’t tried to get back in contact), so thank you for showing me a healthy father/son relationship!
Also thanks for the emotional release, you got a sub from me.
What a proud moment.. this father is the pure example of what a loving father.. SHOULD DO!!! His father loves him soooo much that he change his entire world for his son.. makes me sooo emotional bcs that what a parent should do... thanks for sharing this..