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What do I do when my toddler screams over me during my attempts at all these steps ? I try to wait and give space but sometimes that results in him hurting himself. Also the last step sometimes triggers him back into the tantrum

Am just over this life am done am tired am done with this life am done completely and wanna die seriously and just praying for it ! My child doesnt sleep when asked to sleep and all tht i say she doesnt listen much she is completely an irritating stuff for me and when she runs behing her dad tht is the worst moment ! I never knew life is soo tough with kids once wished to have kids i know think what did i ask for ! I hardly get time to sit with my husband 😂and good tht i have i never have this habbit

Is this a man thing or am I the only one who feels like I'm not going to be doing this???? Real question

Can you please help me. My 5 year old daughter thinks that she doesnt belong to God because she thinks evil things, like kill, crazy, and stupid. Can you please give me some advise how to deal with it and how to stop her.

My toddler always saying Yes 😢

My 16mo daughter has mini tantrums and throws herself around into the couch haha😂 its actually really cute and funny the way she does it (i never let her see me smiling or chuckling about it) .. But its still a tantrum and i just squat down on the floor and she eventually runs to me and throws her arms around my neck, i give her lots of kisses and it ends pretty quickly, as for now at this age.

Thank you

What if head banging?

when your child is way passed 2 and still cant regulate their emotions🥲

It didn’t work she starts taunting and mimicking in a tiny voice😢now what? Please help.

I try to do the reflecting thing but she often interrupts or screams over me before I can get the idea across. Maybe she struggling because she has big emotions and doesn’t know how to express them, not because she’s trying to take her anger out on me. It’s really hard to tell. She’s 6 and she’s just now within the past 2 weeks staying dry, so it took her a long time to master that. She used to be defiant when I reminded her or told her to go to the bathroom and about a 6 months to a year ago she finally listened and decided she was tired of cleaning up the messes. I had to let her figure it out on her own, but I can’t let her figure this out on her own, or can I? Some days it’s so bad that I tell her to be angry in her room, and apparently feels like she’s being abandoned, and won’t stay in her room (her door opens inward, so I can’t stand there to hold it closed like I’ve seen Super Nanny do). So when she doesn’t get her angry energy out in her room and comes out screaming, I take my 9 year old into my room and close the door. It’s not what I want to happen, but if I’m helping her solve her problem and she is screaming over me there’s not much I can do until she stops screaming. When she’s calm we talk about that, and she understands that, but then doesn’t remember what she learned yesterday, and the cycle continues. She may have ADHD or autism, but I’m not sure. Now I do want to buy that book Say What You See, and keep watching more of your videos. Thank you!

Thank you for the suggeestions. But how do you deal with a 37 years old "toddler" throwing tentrums, falling on the floor and screaming like a little one? My daughter-in-law is like that.

When i try this with my 5year old boy he screams at me to stop talking or to go away….

Assalamualaikum ! Really good video. Plz make another one on'how to control our (parents) triggers well' ?

I tried it and it didn't work . My son is 14 months old and can't communicate yet so it's hard to reason with him

I feel that Black mailing is not the best advice (of u dont clean u dont go to the park)

I think u could say at what age it has sense to set those boundries.

Hi, My son is a 5 year and half. He has mild ADHD. He going to school. But he starts crying and shouting when teacher says he not to do anything or behave. Please help

Get someone in your personal life like your husband to give you orders for example cleaning your room and if you don't obey when he tells you too, you have no one to blame but yourself when he gives you the consequence, honestly adults aren't capable of keeping their cool when being treated like and talked to like this so why should we expect children to be? do they have a higher level of emotional control? it's simply condescending and misopaedic. The "golden rule" has been around for thousands of years across innumerable countries, it's actually to "treat other's how you like being treated" it's not what's stated in this video of be calm and collected while not treating other's how you like being treated, a threat politely worded and calmly carried through is still a threat, in fact it's more de-thatched and inhuman doing it with no emotion. Punishments and rewards encourage self centeredness, decrease empathy, neglect an opportunity for communication/negotiation (aka training in logic and reasoning) establish an unhealthy power dynamic which encourages conflict and "might makes right" all of which are horrible for humanity.

How the Dads feeling on here?

God... children are so not worth it..

My kid is doing play therapy.. they dont talk in the session and my kid doesn't ask for help and dont talk about herself she is very locked onto herself.. will that help her

Nice tips, but for a single mom with no, you can't walk away and leave a toddler unattended! Hard to do.

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thank you, will try your suggestion.

People need to go to a dog training class... 😊

"A completely disregulated and emotionally overloaded animal"

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Thanks I thought there was something wrong with my three year old until I read all the comments and I think now it’s going to be ok, it’s probably just a phase?

Wonderful!❤🎉I am 💯with you!

My almost 4 year old grandson when he's having tantrums would say to his mother "I want to kill you " what's that all about? It breaks my heart 😢she's really good at handling herself and him..I don't hear what she'll say to him when he sees that cuz I run away with the 2 year old when older brother is about to throw a fit

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My 2 years old 8 month son in his random mood could deliberately not eating or eat less than he should so that my wife would be angry then he proceed to throwing his tantrum crying out loud. Usually after that my wife would give him a hug and sympathy which is my son/s goal all along. So to deal with this? and this is just one of many example

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How do you speak to them if they're screaming so loud nobody can hear anything?

These videos are amazing

One of the greatest parenting vids I have ever seen!!

What do you do if you do that and they get angry with you

With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on TH-cam, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and social skills ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful

Why do 10 year old have tantrums

Love this. Very.

Rubbish

Hearing you speak while seeing your mouth closed because the video is not in sync is incredibly annoying.

I don’t have enough life in me to give all my kids different options on what to wear, many people don’t have options for their kids financially, meaning they only have a small amount of money to buy one winter jacket. I give my kids two options and neither one of those options is good for them, and i don’t want them to get cold and then get sick, so i guess they are staying inside until they listen.

Absolutely not funny I wish I never had him sometimes single mom and makes my life impossible 😢

My 5 year old son never listened, and like today after pool, he kept saying his ear hurts. My wife and I tried to help him, but he was running away from us very frustrated.

Thank you so much.

This seems like a lot of words to say to a toddler. There’s a lot of detailed explaining that I’m confused on how much my toddler understands verbally. Also mine has tantrums in the car I can’t pull over and have this long conversation

Well done

My 4yo starts hitting me and telling death threats if i don't do as he tells..it's horrible.