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The Modern Buddhism Podcast
United Kingdom
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 8 ก.ค. 2024
Welcome to the Modern Buddhism Podcast, where we explore how meditation and Buddha's timeless wisdom can help all of us to cultivate a deeper inner peace, happiness, and resilience in daily life. Join us for inspiring conversations with people who live these teachings every day. Hope you enjoy it.
Produced by the New Kadampa Tradition
Produced by the New Kadampa Tradition
FINDING MEANING AND PURPOSE IN YOUR LIFE
In this episode, Agnes Bednarczyk is joined by Buddhist monk Gen Doryning to explore the deep sense of searching many young people feel in today's world. Surrounded by uncertainty and overwhelmed by modern challenges, many struggle to find meaning and direction through traditional paths. When asked where one can look for purpose, Gen Doryning offers gentle yet powerful guidance, suggesting simple, transformative changes that anyone can make to cultivate a sense of direction and a deep, lasting purpose each day. His inspiring words remind us that small steps can lead to profound shifts, helping us rediscover our true path in life.
0:00 Intro
00:25 Social media can keep us chained in meaningless activities
03:39 Looking for a solution : The trap of not being gentle with ourself
05:46 Be your own friend, be your own guide, be your own teacher
09:04 Contribution : Love is the most powerful healing
11:15 Create a vision for ourself
15:01 Protect ourself from self-sabotage
16:51 Failure increases our humility and compassion
22:59 There is no greater failure than not doing anything
29:24 Happy alone and happy with others
Book references
How to Transform Your Life: kadampa.org/books/free-ebook-download-howtotyl
Gen Dornying is the Resident Teacher at Kadampa Meditation Center Leeds. www.meditationinleeds.org/
The participants of these podcasts are practicing meditation according to the New Kadampa Tradition, which has over a thousand meditation centers worldwide. See more kadampa.org/
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0:00 Intro
00:25 Social media can keep us chained in meaningless activities
03:39 Looking for a solution : The trap of not being gentle with ourself
05:46 Be your own friend, be your own guide, be your own teacher
09:04 Contribution : Love is the most powerful healing
11:15 Create a vision for ourself
15:01 Protect ourself from self-sabotage
16:51 Failure increases our humility and compassion
22:59 There is no greater failure than not doing anything
29:24 Happy alone and happy with others
Book references
How to Transform Your Life: kadampa.org/books/free-ebook-download-howtotyl
Gen Dornying is the Resident Teacher at Kadampa Meditation Center Leeds. www.meditationinleeds.org/
The participants of these podcasts are practicing meditation according to the New Kadampa Tradition, which has over a thousand meditation centers worldwide. See more kadampa.org/
WANT MORE?
Find a meditation center near you kadampa.org/nkt-center-search/?lang=en
Listen to teaching clips: th-cam.com/users/nktikbu open.spotify.com/show/5QPCFEyZz74nOHZbQr1B4z
Follow the Modern Buddhism Podcast
Facebook: modernbuddhismpodcast
Instagram: modernbuddhismpodcast
TIkTok: www.tiktok.com/@modernbuddhismpodcast
Spotify: open.spotify.com/show/7lgQNhbjMGoHOxBnjkfmK4
Amazon Music: music.amazon.co.uk/podcasts/519b6d69-b6ed-46b2-ab56-ebaf59adf96e/the-modern-buddhism-podcast
#modermbuddhismpodcast #buddhism #podcast #discouraged #meaningoflife #meaningful #motivation #mentalhealth #inspiration #meditation #spirituality #happiness #calm #innerpeace
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Proud native New Mexican here. I follow a lot of spiritual teachers on TH-cam. So grateful to find this channel. Was touched by this interview especially your observation and curiosity around something leaves. I experienced the same as my Mother passed in her home and also when my beloved Great Pyrenees Merlin passed. I could see his eyes change almost like the shuttering of a camera lens when he passed. I had never experienced anything like that. I was very sad, but knew I had experienced something sacred with both experiences. Your description of feeling like a kid at Christmas in the Continuing Ed class reminded me of reading Eckhart Tolle’s book A New Earth. I was hooked. Still am! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your story.
I think we will always have regrets.
I am not convinced that the mind/ spirit carries on. I wish for proof! I too have had “out of body” experiences, but i am suspect that in order to have an out of body experience, you need a body! And if you don’t have a body, then you don’t have any kind of experience at all. You are non existent and at death, the biological energy that sustained the body transfers back to the universe, without any conscious awareness of this happening. I wish for proof of existence in the non material energetic realm
Your soul is in your brain. If your brain dies, your soul dies with it. Read human evolution. You are an ape, like a chimpanzee. But instead you are telling yourselves fairy tales. Good luck with that.
i would love to see this in action. Speaking about his versus living through it are two different stories, especially if you have CPTSD or similar.
@tlc1of3 Thanks for engaging with our channel. You're so right! Having knowledge and being able to speak about something versus actually putting it into practice are two very different things. Gen Rabten definitely walks the talk so what he's sharing is coming from experience. Is there a particular topic mentioned here that you'd like to know more about? I can send through some quotes and suggestions for practical application if you like.
@@modernbuddhismpodcast - Many people are struggling to just put food on the table and keep the lights on and freezing in the winter. No amount of meditation can stop that. I don't understand how one can meditate away anxiety for a family and the children that sense anxiety in their parents. If you live alone it can be contained it, but it's different for a family. Ultimately this is a societal problem. Anxiety reflects the state of society within an ecological system that's being eroded and collapsing with each passing year. Death is easy and inevitable. Living is the hard part as the trauma is passed down to the children.
What a wonderful podcast..and I so love around minute 27 "Everyone has the potential to be strong" and the being "soft strong" comment. Great wisdom.
@kelsangdragpa2390 Thanks for highlighting this quote. Such practical advice for redefining what it means to be a strong person. Thanks for tuning in!
It's common practice on podcasts to introduce the guest and to establish their qualifications - I think this would be helpful as, presumably, we want completely new people who are not Kadampas to be listening to these. This is a very wonderful and helpful podcast otherwise.
@Lineageholder Thanks so much for this suggestion. I'll make sure it's passed on to the filming/editing team.
Beautiful podcast ❤
@yeshidolma09 Thank you for commenting! We're glad you enjoyed it.
Another extraordinary episode!! Thank you soooo much 🎉❤💎🙏🏻
@florsantos Thank you for commenting!
Great conversation. Thank you both ❤
@tarakadampameditationcentr4770 Thanks for watching!
❤️📿 Thank you. This conversation reminds me of this quote from Dr Peter Levine. “I have come to the conclusion that human beings are born with an innate capacity to triumph over trauma. I believe not only that trauma is curable, but that the healing process can be a catalyst for profound awakening - a portal opening to emotional and genuine spiritual transformation. I have little doubt that as individuals, families, communities, and even nations, we have the capacity to learn how to heal and prevent much of the damage done by trauma. In so doing, we will significantly increase our ability to achieve both our individual and collective dreams.”
@meredithbrownwishpathheali4356 What a quote! Thanks for sharing and for tuning in.
Failure is the 'mother of success' Thank You Dornying!
@dewlay2 Brilliant sound bite! One of many wonderful take-home messages from this conversation.
The Tibetan book of Living and Dying - Sogyal Rinpoche
@mathewsgeorge8250 Thanks for the reference, and for tuning in.
Fantastic pod cast. Thank you
@EileenDouglas-m1o Thank you so much for tuning in!
Life is a chronic illness.
@michaelcharlespackenham8620 This is such an interesting comment. I think everyone has days, weeks, maybe years when they would absolutely agree with this. And in a sense, Buddha did as well. The first words of his first teaching were 'You should know sufferings' and he spoke of how life contaminated by the inner poison of unpeaceful states of mind, so called 'delusions', is in the nature of suffering. Gen Demo, the nun in this video, is such a great example of how the practice of meditation helps us to overcome our unpeaceful states of mind and thereby dramatically change our perception of an instance of significant suffering. Thanks for watching!
@@modernbuddhismpodcast Phew! I'm glad you took it the way I meant it. After I posted it I thought maybe it would be taken as someone just being snarky. I have chronic lung disease. I was in the hospital for a year a while back and barely made it out. I'm actually living at IKRC Grand Canyon and Gen Demo is coming to be our resident teacher in January. I'm so excited to meet her. Like her, my disease has made me stronger and helped me to make great strides along the spiritual path. It has helped me to realize that I am not this body. It's very hard to breathe but I've never been happier!
@michaelcharlespackenham8620 Wow! Thank you so much on behalf of everyone reading this for sharing your experience. It's wonderful that you've been able to transform this adversity into the spiritual path. "It's very hard to breathe but I've never been happier!" This is hugely humbling and inspiring. And I rejoice that Gen Demo will soon be your teacher!
LOVE IT!!!
@michaelcharlespackenham8620 Thanks for tuning in! We're glad you enjoyed this conversation.
People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness starts with extern factors like status, money, material things, looks, lust.....all means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society. Thats why a lot of people buy stuff or look a certain way to create an illusion for the outside world out of emptyness.....sad. Happyness starts inside you. The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, double standards, own benefits, hypocrites, judgement, comparing etc...... reflection of their broken souls. Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time to reflect and work on yourself in the here and now where the magic happens. No, not feeling superior or better then others but more be carefully and aware. Be the light in your own life. 90% unhappy stuck in the system or relationshit pleasing and self destruction
@chirovandenbos2339 Thanks so much for sharing your insights on this subject. The real source of happiness is inner peace - it absolutely starts inside you as you say. There are ways that we can be around other people and remain grounded in peaceful, beneficial states of mind (thankfully, since so much of our time is spent in others' company!) But spending at least a little time alone each day is important too. A favourite quote of mine from Geshe Kelsang is, 'Since the real purpose of meditation is to increase our capacity to help others, taking time each day to meditate is not selfish. We have to manage our time and energy in such a way that we can be of maximum benefit to others, and to do this effectively we need time alone to recover our strength, collect our thoughts and see things in perspective.'
We only fear our own death because we think we can experience and witness it. It's impossible to experience our own absence. Whatever created us or whatever we are a part of has put some kind of clause in the system.
@Makethematrixserveyou This is a really interesting reflection. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. In Buddhism, death is likened to falling asleep. We experience the process to an extent but then, as you say, we cease to appear and cannot experience our own absence from this life. Where Buddhist beliefs perhaps diverge from this is that we go on to have further experiences as a different self, a bit like continuing to have experiences as a dream self whilst asleep, and a newly arisen self when we wake up. Thanks for watching!
Not anyone is capable to become a monk, he’s a monk-wannabe.
@MrDaigoRiki Thanks for sharing your opinion. I agree that ordained life is not for everyone, though in the case of Gen Dornying he's been a fully ordained monk for about 20 years.
I'm looking for skate boarding cats, and rabbit holes 😂😂😂
@markkunath8440 Hahaha! Sorry to disappoint...
Amazing Conversation!!! I loved it !!! ❤❤❤❤
@christielli Thanks for watching!
Thank you ❤
I find Gen Doryning so inspirational. Thank you ❤
@Basilincyprus Thanks for tuning in! Gen Dornying certainly has a real skill in communicating Buddhist wisdom in a light, accessible yet profound way.
"we need to be removing things, not doing things". that wisdom!!
@deboradecassiamartins9284 Thank you for highlighting this quote! Definitely one of many wonderful takeaways from this conversation. Thanks for tuning in!
Thanks so much for all these wonderful insights!
@RebeccaGauthier Thanks so much for watching! There really were some lovely gems of advice in this conversation.
Absolutely amazing!! Loved this!! 2 of my favourite people on this podcast ❤️ What’s interesting is I came onto TH-cam tonight to kill some time, with the intention of mindlessly scrolling, yet this piece of gold appeared straight away. Dharma always saves me ❤️
@The_Modern_Buddhist Hahaha! That's absolutely perfect. So often I'll attend Dharma teachings and think 'This is exactly what I needed to hear!'. It's amazing how often that happens.
Thank you🙏🏼❤️❤️
@madhuribhat7506 Thanks for watching!
Thank you 🙏🏼♥️
@zoelee7900 Thanks so much for watching!
Thank you for this!
@lenfoley4507 Thanks for tuning in!
Beautiful, gentle, kind and full of love
@MonicaMReis This really was such a light, heartfelt discussion, wasn't it? Thank you for tuning in!
I’m incredibly soothed by her teaching of the mind. My deep gratitude to you and the host.
@rosafang7308 Thank you for your beautiful comment. Wonderful to hear that you've found this conversation so healing. Thank you for watching!
Thank you, so inspiring 🙏❤❤
@lisamcmaster133 Thank you for your comment. Glad you enjoyed this conversation!
Another great episode. I think sometimes my saboteur is trying to keep me safe and doesn't know another way or change can be good. I try to thank my saboteur and gently keep moving forward. Thanks for reminder 🙂
@msgilsification Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It's interesting to observe the way our outdated thought patterns, self-limiting beliefs and habitual defense mechanisms undermine our happiness and freedom. We certainly need to move gently and steadily - like a broad river flowing year after year as we say in Buddhism.
Obrigada por enfatizar a importância da meditação.
@vitoriaborgo5821 Obrigado por seu comentário!
This is so deep and amazing. Somebody who has been working on themselves for so long sharing honestly the challenges of the spiritual path. Thank you so much!
@mere_name Thanks for your lovely comment. Two very inspiring practitioners here!
Many thanks for this reflection. What works for me: Set the intention. Don’t get lost in language/concepts of success/failure. Be kind and encouraging to self regardless of how quickly or slowly the intention is reached. Self compassion is a great motivator. Regarding self as a failure never helps me regardless of the situation. Blessings. 🌈🐞
@michaelacarr1931 Thanks so much for sharing what you find beneficial with respect to this topic of purpose and self development. Very wisely articulated!
@michaelacarr1931 Thanks so much for sharing what you find beneficial with respect to this topic of finding purpose through inner development. Very wisely articulated!
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Mind without a brain? Hmmm. Sounds a little iffy, eh? I presume you want to believe in that. That’s understandable.
“one of the nicest contributions we can make is love” ❤️😌
@conceptionvessel Thanks for highlighting this beautiful quote. Inspiring wisdom to live by!
The greatest gift is love.
@dalemyers9439 Beautifully said. A heartfelt wish for others to be happy is so precious.
He is great, thank you
@jorgepivo5139 Thanks for watching! Gen Dornying is indeed a wonderful teacher with so many insights to offer. We have another conversation featuring him called 'How I Used Meditation to Deal with Conflict' in case you're interested.
So beautiful ❤❤❤
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@chedda3d @dilsenavirathna5960 Thanks for tuning in!
This is a beautiful talk. Thank you for your work. My direct experience is that the realest me is even beyond mind.
@josthom Thank you for watching and for sharing this interesting insight. It's our pleasure to be bringing these meaningful conversations to the world.
I've been with children who were dying for 20 years. They have very similar experiences, no fear, only worry that their parents and often pets will be OK. I've had a difficult time with depression for years with no religion that even touch the pain. Have begun my path with Buddhism = feeling hopeful.
@riverrun3995 Thank you for sharing this very intimate insight from your experience - more examples of the power of compassion that Gen Gomlam refers to, even when staring one's own mortality full in the face. It's wonderful to hear that you're feeling hopeful after years of difficulty. We do have an interview exploring the subject of depression and Buddhist practice being released in future. Do keep an eye out for it!
Great interview. One of my favorite quotes from the writings of Mary Baker Eddy (who discovered Christian Science in 19th century America) is "Brain is not mind." Although she never studied Buddhism, the fact that both of these great teachers had similar incites into the nature of mind as separate from body is fascinating and encouraging because it shows that this teaching goes beyond being religious or denominational, but touches on universal truth available to anyone to understand and practice in their life.
@4Nvoice Thanks for sharing this quote and your reflections on this subject. The parallel you point out is indeed fascinating and certainly points to a universal truth that transcends any one faith or belief system. This was the first thing I loved about Buddhism when I was new. I didn't feel I was being forced to believe anything simply because 'this is what Buddhists believe', but rather that I was being provided with the means to explore the true nature of things in my own experience - of happiness, suffering, my mind, the world and so on.
Please put the name of the person interviewed in the title. From a random youtube surfer, I notice this mainly happens with female guests. This is truly annoying when trying to find guests’ writings, talks, whereabouts etc.
@karinegendron2280 Thanks for your suggestion! I'll ensure it's passed on to our editors. This particular video is with Gen Kelsang Gomlam, a Kadampa Buddhist teacher in the United States.
Sister, as interesting as your experience is, to say you don’t fear death, I would say, only as you experience death will you know if that’s true! If that is reality. As we would bite into an apple and say this is tasty, it is not true of all apples. Each death is unique, as you bite into your death only in that direct moment, will you know if it’s fearless. I would hope that it is your experience.
@zendog8592 Thank you for sharing your thoughts and reflections on this subject. Indeed, even the most well-prepared person can't be 100% sure. But what we can be certain of is if we take the time to reflect on and embrace the truth of our mortality, we will be as close to free from fear and regret as we possibly can be, and best placed to pass peacefully. Thanks for engaging with our channel!
Thank you for this inspiring podcast. ❤
@kadampameditationcentreott6659 Thanks for tuning in!
Super inspiring! Thank you Gen Demo for sharing your journey and such a personal topic in such an easy and beautiful way!
@eduardmonteagudo7795 Thanks for your lovely comment. What an extraordinary conversation this was!
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