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I do not like when filipinas get interviewed about foreigners because it's misleading. When filipinas think of foreigners it's a white man. So imagine me being black come to the Philippines it was not a good experience with women. Some girls told me they don't like or want a black man.

Be responsible

There are lots of good smart people out there with good intentions.. I would never judge a large group of people by the actions of just a few.. personally I do not judge anyone.. I may not like them but I will not judge them.. I grew up in a small rural town in Southern United States and a good friend of mine was a judge.. he said to me one time you know why I like you? I said I guess because we went to school together and always got along.. he said, you do not bitch and complain and you are honest.. when you talk you say what you mean and you mean what you say and you do not judge people you just like them or dislike them.. I told him that is the way I have always lived my life and so far so good.. I am also 6'4" and 245 lb and an ex price fighter so nobody ever gives me any crap even at 70 years old..ps.. my judge friend died at 55 years old from a massive heart attack and I would imagine brought on by stress related.. be happy and non-judgmental and try to look for the good in the world and in people and try to like everyone and live happier and longer👍👍🤔🧐😲🏖️🏝️🍺🍻👙👙😁😎🇺🇸

Just look at the beatty queens all tall ,western in looks

Could not have said it better!

People will always compare their home country to other countries, the good and the bad, the food and the women's or man if they are into that... But they should also compare it with others countries... Example Philippines vs combodia vs their home country... It is a big step to move to a different country ... people need to understand why they are moving there and if they going to like it or not there ... By the way if a women want to have a white child is because she is racist, it should not matter what color the child is

From what I am gathering. It seems that a lot of this points to the pale skinned men and not the dark skinned men. Entitlement, privileged, uppity, disrespectful, etc.

Hey bro l hope you feel so good , but l have a question , where is Razel ? after her parents passed away ( we felt so sad ) but , we didn't see her anymore by your side , why ?

You are correct about babies being born from expats who run off after they do the deed. Lots there - fatherless children. And expats pretending to have lots of money is part of the scam to hook unsuspecting young Pinays. The women may be looking to upgrade their lives and have hopes of hooking up w/ expats to remove themselves from their current predicament/s. It is just best to be frugal and prudent.

Vasectomy or bust! You can be an awesome failure at getting them pregnant, but you get to keep trying over and over again

That wink from the girl w/ a bf in one hand - I used to get that a lot when I was deployed there. LOL. I felt bad for the guys there trying to hang on to their women. Taking candies from babies is an understatement. I know- terrible me. My apologies.

First they’ll date you and then get pregnant and then take your money 🤔

There is a delusion on both sides

Really, do many expats think they're rich in Ph.? For many expats it's wishful thinking, but you're giving damn good advice...too many think with their small head instead of the one above their shoulders😅

Good advice.

Are you still with Razel? Is that in the states? If so, are you guys going back to the Philippines? Take care!

THE MOMENT YOU OFFER MONEY... YOU LOST.

I'll make sure to count my money when i exchange the currency tomorrow 😂 Thank you Sam!

I would like to communicate/meet him. How will I give my contact number?

Yeah! I will understand after 1 to 2 yrs but 7 yrs????🙄🙄

On point!!!!

informative and true video. If you're not serious and want to be friends then you don't F...k the Filipina. Because, Unlike the US friends in the Philippines don't f...k.

Age difference is big so go for a college educated person like yourself. Good communication is easier when people have similarities. Support her when when goes to church.

Man absolutely great advice.

Of course if my Ford sedan circa 63 is only running on 5 cylinders I would update it to Toyota Pathfinder 87 or newer . The cost of taking an older husband for repair shop every time I have day sex marathons is just too great. The Filipinas are smart and wise investors

It all plays into chemistry, which develops into love and relationship. In the long run, a good friendship and mutual goals and values is what holds a couple together. But then... this is the Philippines... why not enjoy it all! :) Kath and I found love, sex, passion and attraction... along with mutual respect, appreciation, and valuing traditional roles.

the dirty old men should find someone their own age… simple really

I'm still at the age where you would probably consider me very young. But I resonated with every word you said there. It's like an eye opener on something I already thought of deep within me too. Thanks for that video and your insights. I will stay around on your channel for other good insights. Thanks @Sam Lamb!

Compassion and empathy trumps ALL in my opinion. I could be with a drop dead gorgeous girl and if she shows no compassion for me not alone anyone else, she's out. Hope everything is great with you Sam.

The data suggests that men that have a more attractive wife tend to be married longer because the men are more willing to put up with the crap a woman gives out if she is good looking.

I think caring, compassion, kindness and forgiveness are probably the traits I hope most to find, though sexual attraction would be great to have again. I’m so repulsed now by attitudes of a lot of the women I interact with now in the West, though, that I may have aged myself out of potential relationships in my early 50’s. 😂

It's hurting for some Filipina women who are still conservative. Don't generalized Filipina women. There are still who possessed good attitude and reputation

You grab 3 prisoners to a chopper, Sam - and you throw out the window the first. one. The 2nd one - you ask her name and then throw her out too. The third one -is pretty much guaranteed to tell you anything you want to know. LOL> Women are not that different. The first sign of 'tampo' - I kick that one out and I go to the next one. It is rare a 2nd or 3rd will try to do the same. I will not be the one over a barrel - Your power out of their control is walking away. Just remember that. All the things you mention can be all rolled together in a hot relationship. I met few before and I was truly super attracted to them - sneaking the women out w/o their boyfriends noticing takes a real artform. I enjoy James Bond movies - kind of like that. He does not really take the women w/ him coz they are all committed. LOL. If you are thinking about settling down...again - could be tough. At end of your life, that will take too much time to invest in that type of relations. You do that kind of stuff when you are young and marry the one you think you will spend the rest of your life with.

Very insightful.

Hey Sam, greetings from the ATL. appreciate the insightful video. funny how it always seems to boil down to which head we are thinking with😅 hopefully this information will be useful when the time comes 🤞🏻

Hi Sam and thanks for this video. I noticed several things about women in the Philippines. This allowed me to define the profile I will be looking for. Tempo = goodbye, thanks, next! (communication is, for me, very important, it's a couple saver). Women in their twenties = beautiful, very attractive. But! She will want to get married and have children. She has very limited personal development, so she practices tempo. Sexually, she doesn't know much about it. I'm not criticizing, it's normal at her age, it's just an observation. Woman in her forties = She remains attractive, she will have had children, so she will generally not want any more. Marriage will only be as imperative with a 20-year-old girl. Her personal development is better than that of a 20-year-old girl. Sexually, she has much greater knowledge. Woman in her fifties and above = it's not for me. Morality, although I am very attracted to girls in their 20s, I think I would be much happier with a woman in her 40s. Ok, let's say 35 - 45, or something like that. Sometimes we should make decisions with the brain above our shoulders and not the one between our legs.

Anyone else get the impression this was directed at someone specific!

Hello Sam I will wait on next video...something different but not about these women... Thanks, glad you are doing well.

I don’t understand po

Hi Sam, great video!

these women are NOT pretty !

Thank you Sam for your well reasoned opinion on this subject. I have been wrestling with this for not only the optics of age, and the socio-economic aspects; but I also have two adopted children male and female, both Cambodian, in their mid twenties. I am a Caucasian American. Your analogy of wealthy/powerful men, having large age gap relationships with younger women in the West vs. in the same in the East is truly though provoking. Are western women somehow smarter or more enlightened than eastern women? Does simply being western, allow them to compete for these desirable men in a manner that is more acceptable than others of a different background ? Do eastern women suffer from a lack of clarity about their situation or potential? I think not. I believe that when the layers of the onion are peeled back we will find that there are universal things that men and women look for in each other. Devotion, trust, and honesty, to begin with; ability to provide, character, and beliefs are probably at the top of most lists. The physical age difference, in and of itself, probably doesn't even make it on the longest list. Best of luck to you please keep up the videos!

I agree with you 100% and it sense

The problem sam is you keep saying girl you need a woman

I wish I could have seen this video in nineteen eighty

good video,, 6 days and counting !!!

WELL SAID, I FEEL YOUR MESSAGE

Get a virgin Sam👍👍

It depends where you live and the culture of that country. In the West it is expected the age gap should be close. In the Philippines no one cares as long as her life is improved. I left the US because the country no longer benefits me and doesn’t care about me. The last thing I worry about is what people there think of me. If I go to a country like the Philippines, I am respected, treated well and people care about me. If I want a relationship with a younger woman I can without any social stigma.

When are these men going to realize relationships are for the younger generations. If a man is retirement age he had his shot and for whatever reason it didn’t work. Women hit “the wall” but so do men. Then when he finds a woman at least 20 years younger from a foreign country and a different culture he will look like a fool when the inevitable happens. Of course she will look for a younger man. I am in my 60s and if I want a younger woman, I pay for play. If I want more, I can date, but she will never be more than a girlfriend. Let’s be realistic. An older man does not want an older woman but the same goes for a younger woman. The difference is an older man can but her affection and attention.