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Hazel onni 저는한국어하고영어를 공부해요. 그레서 당신의 생각들 저에게 좋해요.고마워요❤❤

It got easier for me with age. Being older, I’ve had a lot of the experiences other people are having for the first time. So seeing good things happen for them doesn’t make me feel envious so much as it reminds me of when I experienced something similar. Sometimes I’m even grateful that I was sort of able to vicariously experience that thing again with them. I’m not sure I directly mirrored anyone’s happiness like you’ve described, but there is empathy I think

Comparisons are the thief of joy, so it makes sense that when you dont feel the need to compare their joy with your own, it's much easier to be genuinely happier for them. Your vid made me realized that ive impulsively compared myself to some of my friends and therefore failed to empathize with their joy 🙏 I know what i want to work on next, thank you!

Kind of like a similar comment here, I think not feeling super joyful about other peoples achievements can be rooted in our competitive culture. Instead of celebrating others wins, we find ourselves lacking and we wonder "why am I not achieving success like them?". I also think there's an emotional aspect of it, like feeling a sense of disconnect, either from our friends or from our emotions. I think with me, sometimes my mind isn't fully here so it never fully clicks for me. Also, sometimes we are just so busy with our lives that we just don't have the brain/emotional capacity to fully feel happy Anyways, I love your content and I'm looking forward to your next video! I love hearing your thoughts + experiences on things like these

I think that, when we tell someone we’re happy for them, but don’t actually feel the emotion, it’s usually rooted in comparison. For example, we may see they’ve hit a milestone in their life and of course we’re not unhappy for them, but because we see something in them that maybe we have yet to achieve in or for ourselves, it becomes difficult to display the actual emotion. In such a case, I don’t think it’s quite jealousy or envy as much as it is a feeling of untapped potential in ourselves that we see in them.

I also had similar experience with my friends recently. And I also had the new feeling of happy for someone else(genuinely) without jealousy :> something happened to my friend and that news literally made my day, made me smile. And realizing itself was also deep and raw self-love moment I guess. I'm so happy rn as watching you smiling and sharing your fulfilling moment. Miss you xxx 💌

헤이즐에게 사과하지 마세요! 동영상이 편안합니다 Do you write in your diary daily? Or whenever the feelings come to you? I also have a director character that makes me seem emotionless, but it's actually the opposite. Someone told me that emotions are like the ocean - some days we'll feel the intensity and other days barely anything. Hmm... I think that the English progress between you and your friends also includes a lot of empathy. Even with the language progress, it makes you want to share and feel those feelings more (I might just be rambling here) P.S. 지난주에 기차에서 당신을 본 것 같아요! 하지만 방해하고 싶지 않았어요

It’s relaxing watching you live your life and talk - nice head stand 😉

찰나의 순간이지만 그런 감정을 느꼈다는건 정말 좋은 사람들을 만났다는거니까! 언니가 소중한 사람들이랑 같이 있어서 좋다 🫶🏻 오늘두 행복한 하루 보내용

I resonate with you. Not to sound cliché. In actually reality, I've questioned myself several times if I've felt genuinely happy for others. It's difficult unless you really care about that person or even admire that person I guess. Sometimes it also, turns toward me and I ask if others genuinely feel happy for me too. It is a rare emotion to come by for me.

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This is so on point. I recall reading in a philosophy book a while back-I think 😂-, regarding a concept known as subjective objectivity. It stuck with me because it made so much sense in that sometimes, well meaning advice is regarded as an objective truth by a group of people but if you zoom out, you realize that the advice is subjective to that group, in essence making the objective truth subjective. Hence, “subjective objectivity”.

Long comment alert: I typically take advice only from people who have navigated the specific problem I'm having and have come out of that situation on top. For example: If you had to solve the math problem 2+2= x and you weren't sure what to do, you could turn to your friends. Let's say you have three friends: Friend 1) Took the same test as you and got the answer wrong. 2+2=6 Friend 2) Took the same test as you and got the answer correct. 2+2=4 Friend 3) Didn't take the test, they're a baker who makes muffins. I would seek out friend number 2 for a chance at the best possible advice. You *might* be able to learn from friend 1 on how they went wrong but they wouldn't be able to teach you the correct answer. Friend 3 would not be useful at all but if you ever need to learn how to bake muffins, then I'd go to them. A lot of people love offering advice who have no experience in what you're going through or trying to do so you have to be thoughtful with who you ask and make sure you're not just trying to find someone who is going to side with what you want the outcome to be.

Love ur video 💞 Thanks for ur shares.

ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ can you sorry,,,? 내가 항상 언니에게 도움이 되지 못하는거같은 느낌을 받는다는 느낌이 들었는데 ,, 묵묵하게 그냥 언니의 얘기를 들어주는 사람이 되고싶어 항상 옆에서 응원할게 ♥️

헤이즐 괜찮아요. 괜찮을 거예요. 내가 있잖아. 이제 헤이즐의 연기 역할을 쓰고 싶어요... 🤔 Sometimes we definitely just need to sit with our friends or have them sit with us when we're having troubles. Whenever there's a problem, I try to ask: do we want to solve this and workshop solutions or do we want to agree that this sucks and sit here together? Are there any books that you're currently reading? P.S. 헤이즐 먹기는 재미있어요 😆

Thank you for advice not sure if it’s right for me though 😉

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I am also feeling isolated in friendship and not happy with my study bc its not what i wanted. I am not enjoying the process. Feeling of regretting for not trying. It's crazy.

Your voice is so peaceful

5:09 I saw a comment i really liked the other day where, on feeling disappointed about past mistakes and thinking about how you could have done better, it said that this realization is proof you grew as a person 😊 you got this!

동영상 편집이 멋지네요! 나는 당신의 개성을 볼 수 있습니다 😊 연기할 때 자연스럽게 끌리는 캐릭터 유형이 있나요? Viewing yourself from a distance is a nice way of being alone with yourself. At the moment, I'm coming down from an emotional high and trying to weather the whiplash of the emotional low. And the thing I've finally been able to articulate after listening to your thoughts is that you are someone even when you feel crushingly alone. 당신은 위로가 되는 사람이에요 헤이즐! P.S. Any tips on cutting your own hair? I used to shave my head but now my hair is longer, I don't know what to do 🤔😅

I look forward to seeing some vlogs 😉

My vote is for the bear in the background to be the main character

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Você está indo bem aproveite o processo querida Deus abençoe😊

Hello Brazil 🇧🇷

cute vibes, cute smile, cute eye contact :P

i like your vids, keep it up

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omg... you really look like this person "Annette lee" , you should search her up and see the similarities! its interesting haha

Happy Happy birthday to you, Hazel님! 생일 축하해요🎉🎁🍰 It’s a TMI but my birthday was the day you uploaded this video and this video is like a birthday present to me:)) Thank you! As Japanese person who have been learning English & Korean, spending various types of birthdays in my life, the message you deliver to people in this video hit so hard✨ Though I spent alone my birthday this year, got messages from my family and friends makes me so happy🌈 Of course sometimes I miss days when I used to celebrate with my uni friends on each birthdays. But people are going through different life stages and changing. For the most, there are lovely friends who celebrated my birthday whishing me good luck with message✰ I mumbled a lot here but sincerely hope you had a lovely birthday and wishing you good luck! (P.S. I like your videos how inspirational, honest and cosy:)) I’m watching your other videos as well! Thanks for sharing your story and thoughts✨) 좋은 동영상을 만들어 공유해 주셔서 정말 감사합니다😉앞으로도 무리가 되지 않는 범위에서 Hazel님의 생각을 공유해 주셨으면 좋겠어요 🌈응원하고 이어요:)) 날씨가 점점 추워지기 있으니까 건강 조심하세요~✨

this is so timely. Happy birthday, hazel! May you continue to celebrate your wins each day 👏 This year, it wasn’t a great birthday even though I had all these expectations and I even travelled out of country. I’m gonna redo my birthday somehow and make a belated special day this month 😅 I felt forgotten but youre right, I can remember myself or celebrate myself! With or without others.

I related to your reflections, worries, and ponderings, SO MUCH, especially when you said that you chased freedom. SAME. I've always been a person that lived below my means, fear risks - like staying at a job for financial security but hating it. i'm beginning to feel like maybe I should live abit more. It's hard to live a life that's worth enjoying when you are constantly worried about costs enough to curb life experiences that could change the way you experience your life.

this is so relatable and I felt all the emotions you expressed in this video.. my birthday is on this coming sunday and i've already dropped alot of dollars just because I don't want to like I didn't do enough for it on the day! I've lost the friends I spent my birthday with last year, but I guess that means there's new room for people to come into my life. and Happy Belated Birthday!

생일 축하해요🎉🎉

I was scrolling down TH-cam and I'm so happy to have come across your TH-cam channel! I feel like your channel is such a hidden gem, it's everything I love about a channel. It's cozy, comforting, filled with thoughts of the future and reflections of the past. I love the way the video is filmed and how you stitch together pieces of your story. I'll definitely be watching your other videos! Happy birthday Hazel! I hope more people can come across your content and appreciate it. My birthday is coming up too, so it's cool our birthdays are around the same time!

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생일 축하합니다! 생일 축하합니다! 사랑하는 헤이즔씨! 생일 축하합니다! 🎂🎉 Was that an eye roll when you mentioned aging? 😅 I think that's normal! The want/need to be loved and comforted, especially on your birthday. I admire how proactive and communicative you are! No one is really a mind reader, so having the courage to say that is great. 나도 같은 여정 (I don't know if that's correct?) 생일은 나를 슬프게 했다 하지만 감사합니다. Time with people you love and cherish will always matter the most. What kind of cake is your favourite?

Happy Birthday :)

Happy birthday Hazel!!

Happy birthday hazel 🎉❤

Why did you choose to leave Korea to live in Australia and Canada? I think it's very difficult for a young girl to go and live in a completely new country, but it's also very exciting. You were really brave🎉

우연히 알고리즘 덕분에 영상을 보게 되었는데, 예전에 한국에서 대학 다닐 때 함께 수업 들었던 분이라 정말 반가웠어요! 저도 지금 미국 내쉬빌에서 대학원을 다니며 unpredictable한 하루하루를 보내고 있는데, 영상을 통해 많은 위로를 받았습니다. 멀리서도 헤이즐 님을 응원하겠습니다!

Thank you for sharing your story, I admire your courage. Keep up the great work.

your videos are my shadowing materials 😊cuz your pronunciation is so good I would like to read follow them hundreds of times ❤❤❤

Congratulations

Thanks for your video. It is really useful for me. I was learning a lot of English knowledge about your channel 🎉🎉

역시헤이즐! 축하해요 1000!!! 축하합시다 Different paths and different purposes… to me, it’s kinda like music. Different notes result in harmony. Usually. 😅 당신은 혼자가 아닙니다. 나도. Does the freedom feel overwhelming because of all the possibilities? Is the pasta story from personal experience? 🍝😅 But then you can have leftovers! I think that means you can get creative with the pasta that you couldn’t finish. 나도 걱정해. 하지만 할 수 있습니다.

First of all, I think it's incredibly wise that you're able to step back from your life and tell yourself that future you will applaud you for heading into uncertainty so actively (your future you will DEFINITELY celebrate you!). Even if it's a detour, you're gonna find a way forward and that's far better than not doing anything. One detour forward towards the goal tape is better than not moving. Second, I also had a period where I was unemployed and spent a lot of time with my mom. To us, we're worried, but sometimes life is more important, and our moms are at the stage where they would be ecstatic if we prioritized them. You reminded me to spend more time with my mom, thank you