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Kristann on FIRE
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Hello! I'm Kristann, and I am a GenX Financially Independent Early Retiree (FIRE) - retired at age 56. In this channel I'll be documenting my FIRE life which will include discussions retirement finances, slow living, gardening, health and wellness, creative pursuits, and travel - really, anything that is capturing my interest. I live in Virginia, USA, with my husband Greg (if you like to read, check out his TH-cam channel at Another Bibliophile Reads) and four cats.
Channel Updates
This is a quick video for my subscribers/regular viewers about a couple of changes I'm making to my channel: 1) change to posting tempo for the rest of the year and 2) personal finance videos removed.
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Fall Into Bliss: Early Retirement Adventures!
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Friends, I can't believe October is almost over! This has been my busiest and most enjoyable month since I retired at the end of May. In this video I share what I've been up to this month and discuss the joys of early retirement during my favorite season of the year. I hope you are loving autumn where you are too!
First Retirement Vacation: The Good, The Bad & The COVID
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I just returned from my first vacation in retirement and here are my takeaways. 00:00 Introduction 00:46 Travel hassles: is travel worth it? 02:51 How my view of vacations has changed post retirement 04:04 Is this the best use of my retirement income? 05:58 Introverts on a cruise: people overload! 06:43 Obnoxious people doing rude things! 08:27 Travel is so much worse if you aren't ambulatory! ...
When Will You Retire Early?
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Do you want to retire early? There is ONE thing you MUST have to start you on the road to early retirement. In this video I'll share why having a planned retirement date is so important and also share my own story of how I set date(s) (and how that worked out). CHAPTERS: 00:00 Introduction 00:45 Do you have a retirement date yet? 01:18 Why committing to a date is so important 02:02 What happene...
How Early Retirement Has Transformed My Life As A Highly Sensitive Person
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I'm a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) (also an INFP). In this video I'll be discussing the characteristics of HSPs and how my recent early retirement has changed my life for the better. Learn more about HSP by visiting Dr. Elaine Aron's website, hsperson.com. Her website has a free assessment to take to see if you are an HSP. There are numerous interviews of Dr. Aron on TH-cam; do a search of her...
The Good And Bad Of 55+ Community Living
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I've seen PLENTY of videos on TH-cam warning people not to buy a home in a 55 "active adult" community. After living in such a community for 3 years, I'm sharing what I consider to be the best reasons to live in an active adult community as well as things that are annoying or could be a total deal-breaker to a potential buyer. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 00:58 55 Community Amenities 04:09 One L...
TO RETIRE EARLY, NEVER BUY THESE THINGS
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If you are planning or dreaming of retiring early, there are several items you should never buy because they're expensive money pits. I'll explain the reasons why each of these purchases are not worth the cost. 00:00 Introduction 00:29 Things you should NEVER Buy before you are financially independent 00:42 Timeshare 04:40 RV 07:45 Boat 10:36 Luxury car 12:16 What about appreciating assets? 12:...
Pension Pitfalls: Exploring The Dark Side
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Pensions are great, right?! Well, maybe not! I'm going to explore the dark side of pensions. There are several reasons why having a job/career with a pension may not be as good as a job/career without one. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Pensions may be promised but not given 02:02 US federal debt is terrifying - something must be done 02:47 Jobs with pensions probably pay less than those wit...
3 Truth Bombs About Early Retirement
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If you are interested in retiring early, I'm going to drop 3 truth bombs on you about early retirement. These are things I wish someone had told me many years ago as they could have changed my life. As referenced in the video, I invite you to watch a TED Talk video on the Harvard Study and the Secret to a Happy Life (I think you'll get a lot out of it!) th-cam.com/video/8KkKuTCFvzI/w-d-xo.html ...
Early Retirement Splurges & Things I Don't Think Are Worth the Money
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In this video I discuss 3 areas of my budget where my husband and I splurge, and 3 categories of spending that we don't think are worth the money. How does your list of splurges vs. not-worth-it line up to mine? Please leave a comment and let me know! 00:00 Introduction 00:19 Splurge #1: House cleaning services 01:27 Splurge #2: Dining Out 02:39 Splurge #3: Travel 04:25 Not worth it: Salon serv...
Secrets of the Happiest Retirees Revealed
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I'm reviewing the book "What the Happiest Retirees Know" by Wes Moss. He conducted extensive research to identify habits the happiest retirees have in common and habits that can derail a happy retirement. I'll take you through his findings and share some some of my thoughts. 00:00 Introduction 00:10 What the Happiest Retirees Know by Wes Moss 00:34 10 Habits the Happiest Retirees Have 00:47 Mon...
8 Weeks Post Retirement: Mistake to Retire Early?
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I retired 8 weeks ago and in this video I discuss what my life is like now and whether I think I made a mistake to retire in my mid-50s. 00:00 Introduction 00:26 Was it a mistake to retire early? 00:47 How long it took to stop thinking about my old job 01:20 Insomnia still happens! 01:49 I'm spending a surprising amount of time doing this 03:02 Something I need to keep an eye on! 03:34 The ONLY...
Learn How I Reached $1 Million In My Retirement Fund And How You Can Too!
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When I retired in May, I had $1 Million in my pre-tax retirement account, which put me in the top 2% of retirement account holders in the USA. I'll tell you the actions and strategies to get there and a couple of mistakes I made along the way. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 01:29 I started saving in my 20s - even though it hurt! 02:23 I started small - just 5% of my salary to start 02:49 I took ad...
4 Essential Steps to Prepare for Early Retirement
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Planning to retire soon? Check out these 4 tips to ensure you are ready for a successful retirement!
These Things Changed Immediately After My Early Retirement
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I just retired in May and several things changed immediately in my life once the time and stress of my job were gone. Most of them have been great but there was one big surprise!
Is Retiring At 56 With A Pension Real FIRE Or Fake FIRE?
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Is Retiring At 56 With A Pension Real FIRE Or Fake FIRE?
Cozy Rainy Day Chat: The Importance of Downtime
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Cozy Rainy Day Chat: The Importance of Downtime
I read the book Die with Zero. I have thoughts.
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I read the book Die with Zero. I have thoughts.
5 Early Retirement Things I’m Really Excited About
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5 Early Retirement Things I’m Really Excited About
I understand. We have financial freedom and that is what matters.
You need to make decisions that are best for you. You still have so much more to share and I'll be here for it. 💕
Good for you Kristann! You should always follow your gut. You have lots of great ideas to share without the personal finance! I for one will keep watching! 😊
I noticed the video before this one and the it was gone before I got to view it. Thanks for the explanation. I am so glad you decided to pull those down- there are few places today that full disclosure is safe. You have much else to share. Your channel can pivot. Thanks!
I know that was a tough decision to make and am happy that you made the decision that gave you peace of mind. I hope you continue to share your more general thoughts on retirement finances and how you prepared to take on this challenge before retirement.
Good for you--the financial information was a lot of personal and sensitive information you shared. I do think that should be kept private vs. public. You can't be too safe with some of the people who you are unaware of their motives. I will continue to look forward to your experiences and perspectives in retirement--I do think that as you go forward, there is a lot of good information you can share on that.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your style and wish you a happy healthy retirement.
@@CuriouslyInquisitive thank you so much for the kind words! I am totally loving retirement so far! Have a great day! 😁
Wow--sounds like you had a GREAT October. I loved the beautiful colors of Vermont. Did you visit Ben & Jerry's headquarters--and if so, tell us about the ice cream creation you got! I want to ask you a hard question. Do you think you are still in the "honeymoon" stage of retirement. I hear the first 9 months to a year it's a lot of fun but then after that it can get boring unless you find a new "purpose". So that is why I ask, not to be critical but curious. But thanks for sharing all the pictures with us. I have always wanted to go on a trip out east and see the fall colors.
Hi! We drove by the Ben & Jerry's HQ but didn't stop for a tour. TBH I'm not really an ice cream lover (weird but true). I do think I am still in the honeymoon stage of retirement (it's been 5 months to the day since I retired), but at the same time I don't know if I'll have a disenchantment stage because I don't see my life changing a whole lot in the next 10 years or so. My first summer of retirement was very relaxed and I mostly stayed close to home, but I have been traveling a lot since September. I think November and December will be quieter and a bit slower. I have so many varied interests and fun things to do and plan for that I am never bored. In fact, lately I've been feeling a bit overwhelmed with all the travel and social activities I've been doing. It has been a bit much for an introvert like me! Many of my friends/neighbors are also retired, as I spend a fair amount of time with them each week doing social things like playing card games and going out to eat or having potlucks. I think if I retired really young, like in my 40s, it would be more challenging because at that age I didn't really know any retired people aside from my mom and some of her friends. I could see loneliness/boredom being an issue if you're really social and nobody in your social group is retired. I hope you can come east sometime, it is really beautiful here in the autumn! It's by far my favorite season. :)
This is such a fantastic channel - I really enjoy your perspective on FIRE - I look forward to the investments progress video
I was worried a bit about you ,too. Glad you are well. Isn’t fall great?🍁🍂
Welcome back. I'm glad to hear you were gone to have fun. ❤
Just wanted to say that I really enjoy your videos - you have such a great energy and manner about you!
Glad you're back! I was worried about you. 😄 Your trip looks gorgeous! Fall is so beautiful.
I had a portable pension with the Ontario Nurses government pension but I decided to cash it out at age 49 and I am so glad I did - I started living this philosophy back in 2008 and it is a beautiful way to live - my nest egg continues to grow even though I have been unemployed for 16 years. Planning is everything. Frugal most days but when I spend I go all out and enjoy to the full!!! Highly recommend. Thanks Kristann
I love this! Thank you for sharing! Congratulations on your amazing early retirement!
Great video! Truth being told, MOST people are not afraid to leave "too much" money behind; most people are afraid that they run out of money. With finance "gurus" like Dave Ramsey telling us that we can withdraw safely 8% of our nest egg, and Suze Orman claiming that $2M in the nest egg is "nothing," it's no wonder that the financial uneducated are confused. The big elephant in the room is assisted living. Worse case scenario, both spouses need 24/7 help for a decade or longer; in that case those numbers can really add up. Bill Perkins claims that if the individual doesn't have money, the government will chime in. I think that's a poor position to be in. Another point I'd like to make is that it's darn near impossible to die with zero if you have a home, unless you sign up for a reverse mortgage, which I despise as it's a huge corporate scam. So even if you almost depleted your nest egg at old age, your heirs will still enjoy hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of real estate. That ain't nothing, no? My wife, 62, and I, soon to be 67 will retire coming spring. We'll sell our overpriced California home and buy our forever home in a lower cost of living area with cash. With housing cost out of the way, how much money does a frugal retired couple really need to live well off? According to my spreadsheet, about $2,5K per month, or $30K per year. Most couples cover that with their SS checks alone. All the money in our IRAs is just padding for extensive travel and God knows what. Brenson himself has revised his 4% rule to 4.7%, but I think, unless we hid a serious recession soon, an older couple can safely withdraw 5 if not 6% of their retirement funds. The one consideration that really matters is Roth conversions; imagine your substantial nest egg doubles by the time you are 63 and doubles again by the time you approach RMD time, that could really spoil the fun! I'll check back in. Cheers!
My state's pension doesn't have COLA, so that's a negative about it for sure. Another is that we can't leave it to anyone else after we/spouse (I'm single)die. I am saving outside my pension, partly because I know about the no COLA, and because I DON'T want to feel trapped at my employer. It'd depressing and creepy to think of just "well I have to get through the next 20 years to get to my good pension amount, then i'll be free". GROSS. I see it as that if I'm happy I'll keep working there, and I've figured out how much my pension will be worth if i were to leave now and take it at 62 (thats the most it seems to go up if I weren't contributing any more). I also know that, based on my current details, each year I continue it will go up 1k value, which is the equivalent of 25k invested, based on the 4% rule. I ALSO could cash it out and use the amount its worth to invest if I leave my job all together and forfeit. But, I see it as valuable, kind of like a bond allocation, and it would be something I'd be unlikely to want to give up after all these 14 years I've contributed so far. Anyway, I agree, its definitely pros and cons to the pension scheme scenario compared to just 401k !
Thanks so much for your comment! I am sorry to be so late in responding - I have been traveling a lot this month and got behind on responding to comments. It sounds like you have a good plan to save outside your pension; I had the same mindset when I was working. I never wanted to take for granted that I would have/keep my pension, given how politicians can be so fickle! I hope you are enjoying your work and that the time flies between now and when you decide to retire!
@@kristannonfire thank you! and, no worries about delay, I'm gald you are having fun traveling!! Living the dream! There's uncertainty at my job currently. I'm happy now, so I'll see how it goes, and if it ends, I'll switch gears into my desire to have lower income and coast fi NOW! I would love to take a year or two off to do slow travel at this age - mini retirement!
Every day is a holiday, I like that.
Very inspiring! Will follow your channel and learn from your journey. Although my husband and I older than you. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your kind comments! I really appreciate you watching my videos! I have been traveling a lot this month and got dreadfully behind on responding to comments!
My husband will be 55 before I. So does it mean I can’t live in a 55 community?
Hi, almost certainly you can move into the community along with your hubby. Most 55+ communties allow a certain number of people to live in them that are under the age of 55 and I can't imagine they would not allow a sale if one partner is 55 and the other is younger. If you have your eye on a specific community, you can ask the sales representative (if a new build) or a real estate agent (on a resale home) about that and they could quickly get you an answer. I was not 55 when I moved into my home (but my husband was and that was sufficient to allow the sale to proceed).
Kristann- I just found your channel this morning and a lot of your financial journey sounds like mine! I was fortunate that my parents talked about money when we were growing up and then during my second year of teaching 2 of the teachers explained all the financial ins and outs of our school district. Anyway, it’s 10:30 PM and I need to get back to grading papers. Tomorrow I’ll watch your second video ☺️
Hi there and thank you so much for your kind comment! I am sorry to be responding to this so late - I have been traveling a lot recently and got behind on responding to comments. I am sooo glad you got good financial advice early in your career. I wish there was a mandatory course on personal finance for all high schoolers to teach them the power of compound interest (great for investing, and horrible for consumer debt like credit cards). I have many friends who never got a good financial education and now are in mid life and are wondering how they will ever be able to retire.
Great job! I retired from local government at the end of March (at 54). I would not label yourself, FIRE or not FIRE…your choice! Even though it does apply. My pension is 80% of my salary, so I think you are doing great!!!! Don’t get trapped in the labels. Likely you had a lower salary working for government which was an investment toward your pension instead of a large brokerage account. Just know that you ARE ON FIRE!!!!
I love this and congratulations on retiring at 54 - WOW! That is amazing! I hope you are absolutely loving your early retirement!
I’m sorry you got sick! I work for a cruise line in Alaska and we have quite a few guests getting Covid.
Sorry you caught COVID. Hope you feel better soon.
We came home with Covid on our cruise as well... 4 out of 5 of us. Gladly it was only on the last day!
@@OurRetireEarlyJourney that stinks! At least it was the last day of the cruise! I was really turned off by how many people weren’t washing their hands or taking sanitizer gel before entering the buffet. I cut that rant out of the video though, to spare everyone the complaints.
@@kristannonfire Oh we know, lots of bad behavior. We've cruised many times.
Thanks for sharing. I’m not a huge traveler anyway, but I can also foresee that my first retirement years will be close to home caring for my mom. You actually affirmed that it’s ok we are homebodies. Hope you kick COVID quickly. Take care.
Hi Kristann, I look forward to every new video you put out. You have a friendly and easy way of chatting like an old friend and very informative. I ❤ yr sharing videos like this one and the one on your housing community. Thank you for sharing and may you be blessed.
@@christinekee8455 Thank you so much for your kind comment and your support!
I bought an RV on a lake last week. That will be my future vacation spot. I normally drive around the country in my car for a month or so, but that will be less Frequent now. Much more fishing 🙂
I've had Covid twice. Once from being on a plane and once from my classroom. It really puts a damper on travel!! There are obnoxious people everywhere you go unfortunately. I don't know if I could do a cruise. I think I would feel trapped! Feel better soon!
@@HappyonMonday thank you my dear! I’m sorry you had Covid twice! You can get amazing deals on Alaska cruises from Seattle early in the season (like April) and I bet the ships are not close to full. If you ever want to try a cruise I’d recommend that. There’s such beautiful scenery and Alaska was one of my favorite cruises ever.
@@kristannonfire Thanks! I'll keep that in mind. ☺
I can’t tell you how much I enjoy your videos. We have something’s in common. My husband and I live in a 55+ community and have no children. And like you I really enjoy my alone time. I know for me a cruise would not work for me. But glad you were able to enjoy the sights. Take care of yourself and look forward to your next posting 😊
Hi! I worked with a lovely lady named Cynthia Rhodes and I’m wondering if it’s you! Did you know me before I retired?
No we have never met before. I’m in Seattle WA. But you are a natural in front of the camera. And just love your authenticity.
Oh no! Hope you feel better soon. Travel is definitely a way to see things afresh…
@@HannahsBooks Thanks Hannah! Greg caught it too but not until we were already home. It’s not terrible, just like a bad cold. Hope you’re doing well! 😀
@@kristannonfire ♥️
Congratulations on your retirement. I think this book is more about selling more books than giving good financial advice. The part about spending more than what you earn during younger years may or may or may not work out depending on what happens in the future. It might be overly optimistic at least in that section. Robot might replace your job in 10 years and you may have to rebuild a new career from scratch at a time that you built up debt in your younger years. It's written to cater to younger spend-a-holic to buy the book and talk about it so that others can follow. The 4% rule doesn't always work. Inflation for each person is different. Basic needs tend to go up faster than government published inflation (think housing, medical, food, energy, basic transportation (not a Ferrari)). Aside, even when 4% rule did "work", it was only up to 30 years and would not apply if you're trying to retire in your 30's for most people because you may live a lot longer than 30 years. It's ok when you reach point where even with the most conservative calculation and lofty medical inflation numbers you can throw at, you'll still likely to end up with too much money left over--that's the other audience the book was written for. Let's say you died at age 85 with $1 million of assets. If you could spend the equivalent amount 60 years ago at age 25, how much would that equate to in lump-sum amount be assuming 6%/year after inflation? $30,314.34. The magnification of life experience early on might not equate to the comfort of a fallback cushion you are building if you didn't spend that money that early. So I think there's a great deal of exaggeration on how much money was left behind and how much how much more enjoyment you could have earlier in life if you spent it on experiences back then. Money is a weird thing. Sure, giving to adult kids who are just starting out has a bigger impact to them. But there's a point where you have to decide if you're doing more harm than good by handing out money. What was that comment from Warren Buffett....Leave enough to do something, but not enough to do nothing.
Thank you so much for the thoughtful comment! You make very good points.
We were shooting for 55 but didn't think we would actually go through with it. If my kids didn't move away half way across the world for university, we probably would have continued working. We missed our kids so much that we decided to go for it when my husband was 53 and I was 52. It was the BEST decision we made. Retirement life is so amazing that it feels like a dream!
I am so thrilled for you that you are loving your early retirement! YAY!!!
Thanks for sharing. Nice to hear about your “splurges”. I feel like the transition to spending in retirement will take some time for me. Scarcity mindset has helped me get ready to retire, but now I need to learn to trust the numbers and be willing to spend and move out of the accumulation phase.
Thank you for your comment! I am going through a confidence to spend challenge now ... I had a mini panic attack this week when I was looking at how much money was coming out of the account. Even though I had planned for it and I'm spending money in line with the plan, seeing the bank account balance constantly falling instead of growing is a bit nerve wracking. I know this is pretty normal for retirees, I just have to get used to it!
Great video! We retired at age 52 and 53 with a pension and often wondered if we qualify as FIRE too. We retired last October and it's the BEST decision we've ever made.
That is awesome! CONGRATS!!!!!
My date has been set at Dec2025, but for the past few weeks I’ve been really “trying on” the date of Dec 2024. It has been a great exercise and has helped me do detailed investigation. Dec 2024 is very good. Dec2025 is great. That led me to see that Dec2025 may be the winner!
Thanks so much for the comment! I found that my last year before retirement passed very quickly. I hope the same happens for you ! I'm excited for you!
Good morning! Yes! I’m an HSP as well, but at least 4 years from retirement as an elementary school teacher…not the best place for someone who gets overstimulated easily. 😢. I look forward to time alone from the moment I wake up! Lol.
Teaching little ones must be extra super challenging for an HSP! I spent a year teaching high school English when I was fresh out of college, and I quickly realized teaching was not for me. I bet you are very attuned to the emotional needs of your students and I bet they love you!
My date was when I turn 59 1/2. I couldn't make it that long. I just couldn't do it! But you are right, having a date is important!
You deserve all the happiness in the world! Thank you so much for your support! It means more to me than you could know - especially now when your channel is getting so big (yay!) and I know you have lots of fans. I think of you as my smart older YT sister whom I look up to and want to be like someday!
@@kristannonfire You are so sweet! Your channel is fabulous! You are just a very real person and I enjoy your videos! ☺
We hope to retire at 60. Health care is a concern though.
I have a dream date - 2030 and a backup date - 2034. Our pension rules changed, and we're not sure if we're covered under the old rules or the new rules. It's difficult to plan. We're committed to hitting the road as soon as we are financially able.
@@Bailey1879 thank you for the comment! I hope your pension works out so you can retire at your earliest date!
12/29/2028 - 50yrs old & 52yrs old with traditional FIRE 😊
@@OurRetireEarlyJourney that is sooo awesome and I know you will do it! 😀
My date was when I turned 59 1/2. But it shifted to 55 when I was laid off a month after my birthday.
Thank you! I love your channel and am so excited to see it growing! Yay!!!!
@@kristannonfire Thank you! 💕
I hope to retire in two years on the early side and four or on the later side in my 50's, depending on how work goes, how life goes, and how finances go. I've been planning it and working for it for the last 10+ years. Those are my two dates. Happy Labor Day to all the working people out there, and also to the retired people for all that you did over the years in your jobs and all that you're still doing to inspire people in your new retired roles!
@@bigbobby5555 thanks! You’re getting close to retirement- I’m so excited for you!!!
@@kristannonfire Thanks!!😀
I did not have a date other than as soon as possible.
I had every federal holiday on my calendar.
@@FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle me too!!!!
I started my Channel in May. Retired at 52 (almost 5 years ago). I’m here because @agingonyourterms sent me. Your truth bombs are spot on. I’ll put some thought into your challenge! (Also just subscribed)
Thank you so much for your comment and subscribing! I bet you have TONS to share about early retirement!
New sub. 😂 Hi from New Zealand. Im a Gen xer and thinking about my future plans This was very interesting I love the idea of the Lodge central meeting place. Lots of friends and activities sounds fun. My lifestyle is very different atm.❤ i just did a pro and con sort of video about living in the country.
Kristann this was fascinasting! I've never heard of HSP before. I can see some of my family members may be this way. Thanks for sharing!
Yep, one of the biggest benefits is ability to go do stuff during work hours. I'd also add it's also a great time to take group fitness classes. The people that are there also have flexible schedules. Thank you!
I can relate to your realization about being mentally exhausted after a day working from home.
So that is interesting. My son is sensitive to loud areas--wonder if he is a highly sensitive person. When he was little, we could never go to the school fun fair in the gym it was too loud. So I would work a booth in the hallway where it was quiet and he would hang out with me there. Regarding your alone activities, I love writing and have joined an international postcard exchange (postcrossing) but work is so busy, I haven't been able to keep up. But I look forward to doing that again, to gardening and joining a water aerobics class. I can imagine shopping on Monday is MUCH better than shopping on the weekend (especially Costco). You make me want to retire--soon! Thanks for sharing.
Hi thanks for the comment! Your son may be an HSP. There’s a free quiz on Dr Aron’s website that he can take (or you could take based on your knowledge of him). It might be helpful. I definitely have always felt overwhelmed being in a crowd.