Parts needed:
Gentex 453 auto dim homelink mirror
I got mine used off ebay for about 30$
For the harness go to
www.bobsmirrors.com/Custom-Mirror-Adapter-Harness_p_1650.html
Then select:
1. Male to Female
2. 6 wires (yes…even though there are only 5 in your truck’s original mirror connector, the power wire gets split into two as there are two separate power connections on the Homelink mirror).
3. Select the desired length of the adapter harness, I used 6"
4. In the freeform text box type or copy & paste "Standard Gentex 10 pin Homelink female to 16 pin male F150 connector”
Here is a link to a kit with everything for a plug and play solution but if you buy used you can get everything for much cheaper.
www.bobsmirrors.com/Gentex-Auto-Dim-Mirror-wHomelink%C2%AEV4-Plug-Play-For-2011-2023-Ford-F150_p_1760.html