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don't detest people for when YOU think they are not trying to take on challenges.. maybe their roots and life has been so tough that even just surviving, and creating a peaceful routine, is the most important and very hard worked at, AND MUCH NEEDED calm, that they needed and maybe God needs them to be doing that too, the flowers don't work but they are still treasures

hi! good content but i hope you don't mind me saying but my instant reaction is that the lighting is too bright and you are far too close to the camera.. best not to slurp the tea too often either, you are on stage when you are filming, create the vibe i totally get what you are saying about views.. i do a channel to try to help people get through tough times faster ("Potential Techniques") and to try to help people find ways to get through depression and ptsd/anxiety etc .. i try to uplift people and help give comfort and spirit support, but some videos get like one view in a month even though they are really supportive but i keep making them in case i can help even one person get through a tough day.. so please keep on trying to make your videos, you are good to listen to -- a good thing with running is to walk a bit, then run (sprint) as fast as you can until you are nearly out of breath, then keep walking until your breath has recovered, then sprint as fast as you can until just before you need to stop but then keep walking until you are recovered and then keep on doing that over and over again a few times and through months build that up where you'll be able to sprint far further and you get your cardio and it's not boring and pontless like slow jogging that is no faster than walking.. it's much more useful to be able to sprint long distances than to be able to jog miles, in emergency situations too i hope you have a good day.. that's cool you looked into the roots of the word consistency, i do that sometimes with words but need to do that more often I hope you (and anyone who ever reads this) have a very good and happy future.. Best wishes from Rolland in Scotland

this happens to me a huge amount.. quite often they will even reply to my statements in ways that imply i said the opposite of what i really said it gets so frustrating the people do care about me, they just seem to not REALLY listen to the words i say and then they assume I'm saying something else after their mind scans through the key words i said and they take the entirely wrong meaning from what i said.. even though i am VERY specific and clear in how i state things they assune I've said what THEY think I've said, not what i actually said like i said to a family member, "you don't need to bring anything to the house, We've got everything we need so you can just make it easy for yourself and come but you don't need to bring anything". and they got a bit cross and said "i DON'T WANT to bring anything.. i want to travel light!" and even when i said "that's what I'm saying!!! you Don't need to bring anything" and they said again "i don't WANT to bring anything i was planning on trying to travel light" ..... then later in the conversation i said to them "people are wanting £2000 to get the roof painted.. if they want that much then I'll just do it myself so it is done for you" and they said "but i don't HAVE £2000 to pay them, i can't afford that" they keep ignoring the bits i say when I'm trying to say I'll make things better for them, I'll sort it out etc thanks for your video.. i hope you get good family in your life soon.. Best wishes to you from Rolland in Scotland

Just smile and wave

My girlfriend does this and it’s really driving a wedge between us. She wants me to move in with her, but this is killing me. I keep telling her about it, but she just seems to ignore it.

My ex

Got into a pretty rough one with a friend today. I was defending pringles from people who think they are gross because theyre not really a potato chip. and everything i said was taken out of context flipped on me and i relate and identify with this video

My mom 🙂

I love my sister and we get along mostly but she CONSTANTLY has the opposing opinion of me, even if I know we agree, she still chooses the opposite opinion and she makes me feel like I'm a bad person over it. Not a single time has she empathized with my situation. If my diabetes has been off, "Well it's your responsibility" when sugars for women go up and down from hormones. I explained that but no, it's my fault. But that's literally one example of countless times. Funny thing is, my life is pretty good, and stable and hers is not in any way. lol Like somehow she has all the answers despite not having any self awareness.

I loved to know this channel is dedicated to life.

Thank you, you’ve confirmed my suspicions

Elisabeth Kubler Ross.. was a She.. not a He.. from Scottsdale arizona. Though born in Switzerland to Christian Parents. ✝️ rest in peace, little sister. Wow 👌

Great video

There are people who want to bicker about literally everything. Ain't nobody got time for that.

I am hyper sensitive and I am starting to believe that my social anxiety is actually me picking up other people's insecurities.

My father was critical about minor things. You couldn’t make a mistake in front of him. I’ve met a few people like that but not many. Don’t get into a pissing contest with them. Avoid them or ignore them because they want confrontation. Others see the truth of the pettiness too.

Ignore them

I feel like IM the one with low self-esteem because I get bothered by someone always going "actually" etc. Makes me question if I talk out of my butt a lot.... though I tend to find many people talk out of their butt without contest

Thank you for this!

Give the hands a rest.

Just,thanks.

Best way to explain that whole situation.

This is a completely subjective video. I happen to be one of those people who always argues with ny authority figures (college professors). And I do it because some of them are really incompetent, like a few of them just come into the class to dictate study notes and don't even teach anything. Other times I find myself arguing with people when they spew out false information, it irritates me when people don't do proper research and I can get very argumentative to ensure the accuracy of information.

Tyvm

Thanks for the upload on this topic!

I’ve noticed it can come from someone who has pure beliefs or viewpoints, (a pedantic person) caught up in the meaningless details or strict rules that they lose the point of the conversation or activity. For others it seems to come from a narcissistic “wanting to argue or put you down” viewpoint, these people seem to lack self esteem… 👀

Sometimes, you just need to walk away from people who are toxic. It's better for your mental health

I like that… no bandwidth left ❤

I get that from some people all the time. It's not good, but you just got to carry on.

Truth! Their loss.

They don’t like you full stop. When you sense jealousy, walk away.

dealt with these kind of people maximum in my professional life ,it was time wastage and only if you have the patience of god then only you will not thrash their jaws for their idiocy or else if you are truly their bootlicker then also you wont thrash them

My solution cut them out or limit contact as much as possible. they're trying to build themselves off of you while trying to diminish you. Lol girl bye aint nobody got time for this. They sound so silly after a while it sounds obvious they have low self esteem. I hate arguing explaining or even sharing my opinions cause I aint tryna convince nobody Im confident in who I am and what I believe. Some people need to spread their bs need everybody to agree. My inner life' s too rich for that sh.

My brother use to do this but when he got sick he chilled

Me: “omg Mom I hate flies in my food!” Mom: “I think flies are kinda cute”! Me: “ mom, I really love ice cream!” Mom: “I don’t eat ice cream”. Me: “ You realize you just said you don’t like ice cream even tho u eat it everyday and u are literally just saying the opposite of what I say. Does it make you feel better about yourself to put others down?” Mom: “fu*k you” Me: “ you’re such an a$$hole!”

I'm literally trying to leave the country because my entire family is like this and I'm sincerely OVER IT. These are not nice people. Scapegoating me like I asked to be on the planet. I will be happy, I don't care.

I’m 57 and my perfectionism, and moments of indecision were fueled by my mother’s constant (unintelligent) criticism. It took me all these years to figure out why I felt so confused growing up

People like this are just insecure idiots

Omg my mother does this. For example: Me: omg Mom I hate flies Mom: I think flies are kinda cute Me: I love ice cream Mom: I don’t eat it…. Me: So you literally eat ice cream everyday but you just said you didn’t like ice cream bc I said I did. You say the opposite of everything I say. You do this literally everyday

This is a form of oneupsmanship in an effort to position themselves above you in status or value.

My friend keeps doing this and im so mad!! And he says im annoying lol

I met someone a couple of months ago that constantly disagrees with me. In the beginning it was just sometimes but has gradually increased to point of absurdity. Last time I talked with them they disagreed or ridiculed EVERY single thing I said. So rude and disrespectful..I've decided I DO NOT LIKE THEM, and will not interact with them anymore.

I know one person like this and do everything I can to avoid him

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1. Not a kind person. 2. Not confident. 3. Might hate you. 4. You have an agreeable personality and they consider you to be a great psychological punch-bag. 5. They build self-confidence by putting you down. 6. Might be manipulation to make you do the opposite you want to. 6. They like and feed on seeing you harassed, confused or annoyed. 7. KEEP THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM!

I used to try to build them up it's called appeasing and for me it was not a good thing. Because they are gaslighting you consciously or un consciously. You are re circuiting your mind to doubt yourself if you show approval and accept their behavior via their contradictions by sort of being an abuse apologist. They are programing your psyche to doubt your own thoughts. They cause you to walk on eggshells because you are letting them symbolically throw darts at you. Verbal darts. You have to be true to yourself and show your disapproval which in my life cutting the toxic relationship off. It's not your job to build them up you are being a door mat, their little puppy dog to kick. They will not do this less. It's actually coming from Satan to self sabotage your power or your God given mind. When someone contradicts you as you are describing thats a red flag to heed as soon as possible. Jesus said love your neighbor AS YOURSELF. Reject lies that come your way they demons are liars. Even Jesus once told his apostle Peter, "Get behind me Satan" because even though Peter didn't mean to undermine Jesus, his words would weaken Jesus at a moment he was soon to need all his strength, giving his life up. Jesus knew where it was coming from. Why they do it you don't own it. It was done to me out of hostility, pride, hate actual intent. That is like a spiritual slap. Jesus said when people persecute you in one place flee to the next. You have a right to emotionally / mentally protect yourself, by fleeing from the toxic person. If they are a God fearing person one day he will wake them up typically people call it Karma. There are some who have no fear of God and even God can't reach them. Who ever does not receive you hospitably Jesus said to Shake the dust from your feet. Whether it's in person or the modern day phone. I have told me they are gaslighting I call it out. When I ignored the red flags it got worse. The word in your title says "Oppose" think of that word. When Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden every thing that Eve said to the Serpent, the Serpent opposed. It's in Genesis chapter 3 I believe. The name Satan the Devil means slander and resister. Someone opposing almost everything you said is resisting you. Know where it's coming from. A psychologist once said he saw a pattern in people who got out of abusive relationships almost all of them said the same thing: I don't know why I stayed that long.

If you want to see someone like that get mad disagree with one of their strong opinions. When you catch them verbalizing it. Don't back down.

I got it..... Tell them to go f*** themselves and mind are f****** business losers problem solved.

Someone is doing this to me now, but im not seeing it as a negative, I use their own words to put them in very bad positions and have them saying some ridiculously stupid things. Making them sound crazy to other people. The thing is, the reason why this person is mad at me makes no sense. They are mad at one of my family members but are taking aim at me. If the person is relentless, dont be afraid to use their own words against them. I know it sounds sinister but some people deserve it.