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Wa alaikumus Salam Wa rahmatullahi Wa barakatuh

Wsallam, oh I didn't know that, thank you sister

Take your time. Don't marry someone for the heck of it! Discuss everything beforehand before you marry!

@ yeah,that’s right I’m waiting for this special man for me I hope he will find me❤️❤️ With Allahs permission,Amin🤲🏻

@@Shinobu2506. Ameen! May you find him soon! Make a good detailed nikahnama that protects your rights! And have in depth discussions with potential partners to assess them! Never settle for low quality! Hard work, patience, honesty, ambition, humility, kindness, dignity, sacrifice, spirituality, fortitude, and a pleasant demeanor is what you need!

80% of men ? How would you know, are you married to 80% of men please don’t make sweeping generalisations ‎جزاك الله خيرا.

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That is one main reason I’m unmarried I’m not an animal

Emotional well- being is your right in marriage. Females are not robots that can hand over their bodies mechanically for another's well being n satisfaction! Having said that, the reasons that make you emotionally dissatisfied should be genuine. Long term emotional abuse is reason enough to avoid intimacy, but only do it if communication on improving things has failed miserably over n over! You deserve your self respect n well being as well!

​@@Shinobu2506.Make a list of qualities you need in a partner. Make a list of the qualities you think you have! Make a list of what you expect in a marriage. Ask a potential spouse to make their own lists. Make a list of tasks in a marriage. And a list of rights n duties in marriage. Match the lists with a potential spouse! Go into the details of things and communicate what will be unacceptable to you! Marry only if you both have absolute commitment to their part in a marriage! Don't be scared of marrying! Make an informed choice!

Walhamdulillah

No, you don't go to hell if one strand of hair shows! Huge difference between showing your hair on purpose and by mistake! Even a woman with uncovered hair may not have it in her heart to show her hair deliberately to gain attention. Her culture may have hair uncovered! Although religion wants women to cover up! Intention matters! And actions matter! And regard for religion matters! But you don't get punished for mistakes as these!

you welcome sister

Yes! The maulanas are making statements that are completely ill- formed. Anal comes under unnatural sex and is completely haram. The suggestions given by scholars make it seem like a man with such tendencies still has a place in his marriage with his wife. A Pakistani maulana when addressing a lady's question whose husband was forcing her for it, said that she should seek a divorce. But since she was a dependent woman with none of her own relatives able to support her, he recommended her to tell her husband to seek that type of sexual fulfillment outside n not force her for the haram. This is not a good recommendation, as the husband's getting naked in front of others outside (sexual activity with men or women) is a huge disgrace to any woman. Plus, anal increases chances of acquiring STIs/STDs that he'll pass on to his wife/a future child. Maulanas are living in their own world. They think only the men have gheerah! They don't recognize that women have more gheerah than men. A woman whose little child doesn't behave well with other kids feels embarrassed because of the child because she feels the family/home as a part/projection of her. A woman whose brother engages in inappropriate language/ actions feels the same gheerah. A wife feels gheerah! **** When you marry someone, you marry them for certain qualities. If they show you the opposite of that, can you still love them/ respect them/ stay with them???

Wa Iyyaaki

Wa Feekum BarakAllah

Ameen

Yeah I wonder

You should consult a counselor or take him to Islamic court, if he constantly deny you intimacy

Du Glückliche 😊

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Wow you're such a backbiter.

Whatever wrong he does is between him and Allah. I am not going to watch such video, that’s waste of time

It's the fact that It is agreed upon with Scholars that it is haram for a woman to give Dawah in this form On youtube Secondly there is a difference of opinion if a woman should have her face covered But there is no difference of opinion between Scholars on the fact that men do have to avert their gaze from your face. So for every man that sees your video And does not avert his gaze in this sin that he commits you will share so say you get 10 000 views or one million views whatever amount is of men you will gain this amount of sins Imagine 500 000 sins you share with To face on the Of judgment or even 500

​@@realfactslocalThe scholars are parked into the privacy of women using remote spyware. They listen to women's private phone calls, read WhatsApp messages sent to friends and family - all without your knowledge or permission. And they do all of this because some comment you wrote somewhere interested them. If they get super interested, they'll hack you like clingy leeches for 7 years straight following every little detail of your life, turning you into an unsuspecting Kardashian. Yes, they notice even things like why you wrote LOL in a comment or a pvt WhatsApp chat, the softness of a woman's voice (is she trying to appear submissive in her phone conversation to this man), how much phone does she use/ empty scrolling, "how does this person think", and what time does she wake up/if she sleeps at night. Oh, and things like "why she doesn't feel like dressing up on Eid (in spite of Palestine situation making her sad)! With other women they notice, "is she trying to virtue signal to opposite gender" I know this, because Mufti Menk, NAK, Yasir Qadhi, Mohd Hijab, and many more clung to my pvt data like leeches, hearing n reading even the phone conversations I had with my relatives n making lectures on those topics within the next few hours to 24 hours since 2017. In their Islam, you say things about purdah in public, while hacking n violating women in private.

And if you have access to the above men, confront them!!!

In Islam men are told to lower their gaze, my video thumbnail clearly shows I am a woman, so any man who chose to watch have himself to blame. If I should go with your logic you are saying we shouldn’t talk or go out because any man who see us and not lower his gaze we automatically share the sins with him. Can you share any evidence to prove that women share part of that sin.

@@F_a_t_i_m_ah Allah n the Prophet PBUH have warned against extremism in religion. To bloat gheerah so much so that women's existence in society becomes painful is NOT Islam. It is only Talibani extremist version of Islam. Out of all the sects, the sect of Islam with piety, purity n humility in people's hearts and sincerity towards the core values of Islam is the rightly guided one, if it is balanced! To know how to tread the path of life light while balancing n while having high virtues and values n with Allah as the centre of life is Islam! Anything not balanced right is an attempt to do Islam, but NOT Islam!

That’s totally unacceptable. Us sisters should be very mindful of earning the wrath of Allah which might lead us to the Jahannam due to our actions(the tongue especially)

If the wife is denying him intimacy,why is she even married?

So your saying if a man commit adultery and is proven, the woman should still sleep with him without running a test to clear him of any STDs

​@@F_a_t_i_m_ahAnd you find it dignified to accept someone who cheated on you back again after their tests come negative? Do women not have gheerah over their men??? Forget the emotional hurt caused to you, but someone not respecting his own self is OK by you? Before someone marries, they check a potential spouse on certain parameters. And the most important of those parameters are dignity/ self respect and self control. If those elements stop existing, can you like such people in the same way? Can you do without repelling such people away?

Can you mention something that he said that is wrong?

@@F_a_t_i_m_ah it's not about being right or wrong but about giving the prove of whatever a person said regarding the deen. I went to his video many times regarding specific subjects but I am always disappointed because he does give evidence and I don't take anything in my religion without clear prove. For instance where Allah have said that a when a husband cheet on his wife or the opposite you have a right to refuse him or her intercourse? I am not saying it's wrong or right but where is the evidence .We can't blindly believe him without evidence.

When you say evidence do you mean, the Quran should explicitly say “when your husband or wife cheat on you don’t have intimacy? Is that what you mean?

​@@PisyumThe Quran and the Sunnah do not provide you the sequence of tasks you have to do after waking up. Should you brush your teeth first or relieve your bladder first? Should you have a glass of lukewarm water first? Similarly, there are many aspects of life the Quran doesn't speak about. Even the hadith and the Sunnah do not cover those aspects of life. The purpose of religion is not to give you the recipe for chicken Tikka masala or Naan, but to give you broad guidelines about living your life. Whatever the Quran and the Sunnah do not speak on but people need explanation on, therefore needs a fatwa. Fatwas are deduced from broad principles and values of religion. While the suggestions/ recommendations in the fatwa may not be mentioned anywhere in the hadith n the Quran. There is a lot in Islam that is the work of humans and didn't come directly from Allah in the form of Quran or from the Prophet's hadith/sunnah! That's why there are differences in the 4 madhab (because human interpretations and deductions can be different)!

Not explicitly, but there should be a verse in the Quran that can be used to support that final interpretation. For instance, if I state that the husband always has the right to his wife in terms of sexuality, I should provide a verse in the Quran that supports this claim (verse 223 baqarah ).

Go to the nearest Muslim community near you and talk to the imam or whoever is in charge about your situation

As salam ali kum of the highest the responsibilities is given dawah it makes one extremely responsible to allah I see that you want good for Islam one must understand where they are Chev9362 is not a woman but a man who is a Christian propagator Looking for ammunition against Islam and you are playing into his hand ​@F_a_t_i_m_ah

He doesn't have to give you divorce you can obtain it go to the mosque and tell them he has abandoned you.

That a good topic

You seem very triggered do you have something against wn knowing their rights?

And if you can't provide provision and protection then you have no business calling anyone your wife.

You can't deny your wife provision and protection and neither to your kids! The goal of a family is the right raising of kids. Even though the well being of the parents matters, but it is secondary to what is best for your kids. You should try resolve your issues with your wife but never deny anything to the family, even if you have no kids! Only a highly thankless uncooperative "completely provided for" wife can/should be divorced, if things come to that. In rest most cases, be grateful for the companionship the wife provides and try to communicate with the wife on what more can be done that can bring well being into both of your lives!

​@@lail111so you agree not to give intimacy to the husband. Yet call him a husband. Come on you can't be greedy and selfish like this

Are u saying any reason is good to deny him?

Not for a woman who believe in Allah and the last day.

SubhanAllah, if she denies you for no reason like you stated, then she's committing sin, I'm guessing you reported her her families, Islamic court, or someone that can help.

You should tell her the sevrerity of the sins it's a major sin. The wife is cursed by the angel, Allah's anger and wrath is upon her her prayer is not accepted and any hood deeds she does will not be accept until she repents and her husband is pleased with her

Never new of parsley infusion, thank sis

Hadith books

Emotional harm in this context refers to situations where the husband engages in abusive behavior, bullying, or betrayal. For example, betrayal could occur if a husband claimed to be a virgin and his wife married him believing he was truthful, considering him a good Muslim. If she later discovered that he had lied, it could cause deep emotional pain and trauma. In such a situation, intimacy would likely be the last thing on her mind, as she might struggle with feelings of mistrust and thoughts about the women he was with before their marriage. However, what you mentioned does not fall under emotional harm. She is just expressing her feelings and this feeling are not valid

@@F_a_t_i_m_ah thanks for the clarification 🙏.

You welcome and thank you for bringing up those points

​@F_a_t_i_m_ah come on fatimah u are more intelligent then this what happen in the past is past she can't use.it on him now.to refuse sex

Duties go above feelings? I’m not an animal for a man Thank God,I’m unmarried

lol

Polygamy is outmoded in many countries. Yet the gang of scholars wants to revive the practice. Without any regard to the dynamics of the culture, cost of living, need of the society (in some countries, there is a deficit of women because of female feticide), or child rights. Most of the world is poor or comprises of first or second generation middle class that came out of poverty and achieved some education. Polygamy and surplus kids begotten by men who can't control themselves will result in a world that is less educated, less nourished, and less civilized - people with lower order life cycles! Can we afford that? Already women's status is quite low across the world!

if they wife states before hand then it would be haram, and then the wife would easily divorce if he goes and does that u think anyone wouldnt mind if husband randomly decides to get another wife, if the wife has told him in marriage contract then he isnt allowed to, its so lustful nobody needs more then 1 wife dont be greedy.

@itsizrasroblox no muslim woman can put this condition, only her father and family can ask her husband to not go for 2nd wife, just like Prophet Muhammad PBUH did for fatime RA. askd hazrat ali not to hv a 2nd wife. bcoz muslim woman cannot break ayat of Quran by stopping husband, he is allowed by Allah to hv 4 wives at 1 time. only options she can use is take khullah if he is not just or is not equal with wives. muslim women shd take their limits from Quran only.

There is no such thing in Islam saying a wife has to cook n breastfeed children on her own. Maids n wet nurses should be roped in?

@@saniazehra6017 im talking abt Quran, ayat of Quran will remain as it is, we will perish in the end, if islam doesnt ask you to feed your child, dont feed him, enjoy ur freedom. No one shd make rules to restrict you, if Allah didnt put any restriction. new laws new man-made rules r taghoot in islam.