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My father is an EXTREME NARCISSIST! Then my Ex husband DID NOT SHOW SIGNS UNTIL AFTER HE FILED FOR DIVORCE AND TRIED TO PUNISH ME BY ALIENATING MY CHILDREN FROM ME! But the SADDEST PART FOR ME IS I DONT FEEL LOVE since all of the Abuse from my dad. So HOW DO YOU MAKE YOURSELF FEEL ANYTHING INCLUDING LOVE! I WANT SO MUCH TO LOVE! The ONLY PEOPLE I LOVE ARE MY 3 young adult children and my dog! I want soooooo desperately to Love and not be Numb and Afraid. PLEASE HELP !!!!

I just learned from you few months ago-20 years ago I divorced narcissist!!! For years I thought he was a child of holocaust survivor and I was not good enough to “cure his wounds”. Last few months I lived with my 33 y old daughter, who gave me MONSTROUS REPETITION of years with him!! I am still recovering , learning from your podcast and DREADING her visiting me! And I am no longer trying to make my other daughter make a peace with her sister. But what is a future for my Narcisa ?!?!??? Thank you doctor !!! Elizabeth, MD

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Definitely a grieving process, and taking yourself back. Loved Ramani's new book, beautifully written

Yes, he didn’t intentionally hurt me, but he didn’t even think about me and how his actions affected me. And yes, he offloaded his shame on me and was the one that looked good in public, so I’ve borne the brunt of shame on so many levels. I left but haven’t been able to work because I’m now prone to trauma responses, and I don’t know what the rest of my life is going to look like. The grief is overwhelming on so many levels. Even my parents have decided he’s the one who has his act together, and have chosen his side in many ways. So much grief over THAT.

Yes, he didn’t intentionally hurt me, but he didn’t even think about me and how his actions affected me. And yes, he offloaded his shame on me and was the one that looked good in public, so I’ve borne the brunt of shame on so many levels. I left but haven’t been able to work because I’m now prone to trauma responses, and I don’t know what the rest of my life is going to look like. The grief is overwhelming on so many levels.

Lol what horse shit.

The generational labels were very wrong, generations don't move with time lol. If you're born '65 (or so) to '80 you're gen x, '81-'95 (or so) is the millenial generation. This coming out last year would make millennials 28-42 , early 20s were already gen z

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It is hard, just found out my narc is Machiavelli and he planned it....heard he even makes jokes to let me getting killed now he knows I really am going to leave this time....

"Grandiose excuses" is such an apt description. I am all too familiar with them and truly exhausted by them. It seems like everything, no matter how small, becomes a huge issue for narcissists.

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Online dating sucks because few people will ever meet up, and there are many losers and fake profiles. I tried it off and on over the years, and I'm attractive and educated. And men over 60 are mostly fat and lame. No thanks. How old is her study on online dating?

Ask Sophie why the WE charity money landed up in her bank account

Ask Sophie why the WE charity money landed up in her bank account

Dr Ramani speaks way too fast for me.

This was an INCREDIBLE interview! I am listening to Dr. Ramani crash course! I need help as I have been with a narcissist mom, spouse and “friend”. In process of getting away from all. Thank you!!! How can I be part of your group please?

It took me 8 years to figure it out. I have been told multiple times by my friends that her behavior is not just acceptable. I was blindsighted. Now that I realized, it feels like it got too late. The emotional and psychological abuse that I have received for such a a long time has made this overall trauma more painful.

I don't believe in staying in a relationship when kids are involved as it teaches your children that this is a normal relationship so damaging. Teach your children respect selfworth and self-esteem to leave a abusive manipulator.

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Stumbled upon this podcast, as I follow Dr. RAM, and she has been teaching me and opening my eyes that this is a real thing, and its not my emotions, or being unkind. Narcs are soul sucking and want to control you. Robin, keep being the warm and kind person you were wonderfully made to be. It's not you.

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I was dating a toxic person, who's chronical people pleaser, he wanting to date forever, used me as a company, no progress in relationship. I broke after ten month of dating to nowhere, he was keeping all on superficial level, it felt like he didn't care. New type of toxic personality to me

I’ve had things said to me. I gotta keep it more respectful on there, but I don’t know you guys have been around for a while and listen to a lot of people. I’m sure you’ve heard a lot of comments, but I’m telling you these hurt and at the time he was always telling me that I was crazy Stuff like that and I never realized until Dr. Ronnie turn the light on for me. It’s not me it’s And. He doesn’t own up to it. That’s all there is to it and if you did have empathy and love it would be I would think I would give up for somebody, it’s hard to

Eight years of physical abuse, emotional psychological gaslighting my nebulization eight years that’s just have a part of before it was. I knew there was control there. Thank you.

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Great points

This lady is lovely. I pray your channel grows exponentially

Thank you so much!

I was told by a male therapist to be kinder to the marc😮😢😅

I just ordered your book 😅❤

This is really insightful. Thanks Dr Ramani, I appreciate all your videos and the time and effort you have taken to do this. I am grateful that there is valuable content as such on TH-cam, designed for audiences that have gone through or are going through narcissistic abuse. I had lost my self, gave up on my self, values and even passion for my career because of one nasty narcissistic person who threw me away in the bin in just one second, after a 1.4 year relationship… Thank you god and the universe for saving me from this evilness.

Do that yourself! ❤ Absolutely!

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Gary what a grace to hear what you’ve opened up for me to recognize happening within me Im 91 years old or young actually as spirit deeply in love with life now I all if life now more than II can hardly believe is possible especially that I’m a bit handy capped in body use theses days lovingly

Dr Ramani is my only voice of rationale that keeps me going.....

And it so sucks that the person was is goodlooking and I thought I did pretty good I felt good about that she was so pretty. That was gratifying that someone attractive would think I was attractive. But it was a narc so sad and I like her body and her hair is so curly and lovely and her eyes are very pretty. I'm not shallow but she was like an angel. Who turned out to be an angel of death. Now I got to put her on news weather and sports no personal or she will take me under water again and try to drown me period end of story. Hard pill to swallow but I will dang sure swallow it I'm not into suicide.

Dr.Ramani I am not there! I am divorced just over a month and hurting badly. I went to my mothers grave and told her off for constantly invalidating me as I was honest about my dads abuse. She cared only about protecting my dad who was a narcissist. Obviously this has been a huge day for me. But I watched another video of yours when in passing you mentioned a person choosing a narc because their mother invalidated them and the familiarity of it brought on the comfort and the narc brought the trauma voila trauma bond... But I am not there yet with my ex I am sending at least 1 email a day to her yet I have her responses blocked "I am trying to get there. This person got inside me on the love bombing and hooked me good. But my goal is news sports and weather. O, and my ex lives 100 yards away in another apartment I see her vehicle when I check my mail. This woman nearly killed me with stress... Whats weird is she had a couple mental breakdowns IDK what you call the narc breakdowns but she is still the same. But at least I understand what happened and have put so many pieces of this puzzle together and am slowly feeling myself coming back. I can't fathom news sports and weather but it is what has to happen period. What is weird is I have had therapy years ago and for over a year I thought I was pretty well rounded and am also struggling that I let this weak low vibe person take me down with such pure ignorance and insanity. At least I am the one who told her to get the hell out and opened the door! I knew I was being abused heavily but didn't know how.. Thanks for reading....

Gary has changed many peoples life

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Dr. Ramani has written a profound book , it will be life changing for many people who have been impacted by these relationships . It’s complicated and she is bringing it out into the light .

So True living their life..about food..vacation..i left my Job...move to his country..Great video..i am in proces od healing..Thank you ❤

Sorry Gary but I think you are wrong on many levels. There is still a lot of insight in what you ve written. Multi sensory doesn't mean it's an evolutionary upward step. There is not enough emphasis of relationship to God. I definitely do not see this in current generations I see them enslaved and addicted to self and self image.

I am SOOOOOOO glad that I walked away from that situation. My gut intuition notified me the very first time he did something and that never left. Yes, it did take a while to figure out what was happening and it was on the Universe's timeline since I had to really figure it out. I am now writing my new chapters in Life with so much excitement! I am thankful that my headstrong heart, soul, mind, and body with the keen gut instincts, were never brought down or destroyed. I learned a whole hell of a lot about narcissistic behavior from this person, and from Dr. Ramani during her many different podcasts, and have all that in my toolbox going forward. I also learned even more about myself and solidified more what I want with an emotionally stable/grounded gentleman in the future. Being true to me!! ♥

I felt the love in this podcast and am ready to embark on my Heroes Journey. Thank you both for sharing this with us 💗

How do i deal with a narcissist sister in-law?

Thank you - I think it’s potentially last video I’ve watched on this subject. Next one would be business development related content. I’ve lost this person forever. Great advice - I’m very grateful. Thanks x