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Omg this is such an informative video. This really helped me 💕

Your voice is so soothing. And wonderful.

What’s the best lesson you’ve learned from a mess-up? Drop it in the comments and let’s normalize failing forward! 💪

Amazing content, thank you so much! Greetings from Croatia.

I haven’t heard of it. Most women I see online are loud and proud and being obnoxious feminists. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm absolutely in love with you and your content. I love hearing your swear words while making a point and the clear and crisp way that you explain things. ❤

New subscriber here 👋 Turning 50 March 22nd and I'm feeling extremely lost, scared, unattractive, empty, alone and like everyone left me. Mostly a homemaker raising a family, married for 32 yrs and here i am. Everyone is now grown. Trying my hardest to fix and heal myself. Trying now to find a purpose.

You look about 35! Im in.. 💛

Thank you so much for this! I discover you this morning and I am so grateful to follow up. ❤

Haha 😂 some of us don’t feel wise 😢

Omg I wish I had $ for better health, less stress, help for my kids, and of course focus of health for me, would love to take the good vitamins, classes or have time to myself without my family falling apart which the people in my family already are. I don’t care what yall say Money really helps. Another thing is soo many kids are getting stuck n brainwashed from the devices Apps like Roblox, Minecraft and whatever else Tech phone or I pads are stealing these kids lives away from them. All parents do not let your kids be on electronics it’s geared to addict and destroy your children

is this tracey anderson moves

Hi! Just found your channel. New subscriber here!

Don't forget watering your plant behind you, give "attention" to that too 😊

Makes total sense

I’m trying to apply this to health issues, but not sure that we can be assured that all will work out in the end. Thank you!

Thank you for this. I see what you said about releasing and slowing down is like the SEAL saying, "slow is smooth and smooth is fast." That one really helps me with rushing and anxiety.

Just found your channel and love your content

Thank you Hilary! 💪

Great message!

Your content is so informative and interesting that I look forward to watching every video! Great job, keep it up."

Thank you. ❤

It makes total sense, and it's inspiring to wear great outfits on your great body and look and feel fabulous 👌 👏 👍 😍 because you are valuable and powerful and exciting and deserve this type of good self care 🎉🎉STRONG 💪!!!! 😊😅

I need to set a routine .... because , actually.... I really hate routines! I love that every day may be awesome and magical

" You walk into that room like you own it, not like you want to buy it." Mama McConaughey

Excellent approach Hilary! You hit the nail on the head ,again! 😉 Thank you for sharing these pearls of wisdom with us. Challenge accepted😉!

Yeah sure...put yourself last so everyone else can benefit from your sacrifice ..what a scam! We all grew up with that doctrine ...My mother still abides by it and thinks it's shocking that I don't subscribe to that narrative anymore. I resent how much time and effort and money I sank into ungrateful people.

So true.

Very true

TRUTH!!

Excellence!

Its proven to work when you work with a therapist.

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Since I found you and started watching your videos, my mindset has changed and I can see more clearly who I am and how I can change my life! Thank you very much for your advice!

I'm so gratefull for this!! Thank you so much Hilary!! U r Fabulous !!! Please keep up the good work!

@0:12 Attractiveness can't be "spoken into existence." A woman can still be attractive when they are older, just not compared to their younger self (unless there has been a change in weight or cosmetic surgery or dentistry). The danger in this advice is that mid young women hear it and delay converting their beauty into desired life outcomes for themselves thinking they will still be considered beautiful as they age because they saw "that TH-cam video. " Every man's attractiveness has been in decline since he was 35 and every woman's has since she was 22. That's researched and published data.

Thank you, the tips are helping me greatly!

So refreshing.. so true and love this. Be you be real you are enough ❤️❤️. For women of any age.

I didn’t think I cared about what other people think of me, and before I met my husband, I actually didn’t. I was a happy, confident, outgoing woman. 22 years married to a narcissistic man, I’m in shambles not knowing who I am. I still don’t care what most other people think but unfortunately I’ve succumbed to care what HE thinks. Every so often he compares me to other women. For example when he buys me clothes or jewelry it’s because he saw it on some younger girl, then becomes horribly disappointed when it doesn’t look good on me. He points out so many things that make me feel small. I understand that this is his projecting onto me and gaslighting me, but it really sucks that for him specifically. I never seem good enough. (Thankfully I have no problems in other areas of life!). And so I waste an ungodly amount of time and mental health on this account. Is there hypnosis that can short circuit my learned behavior and thinking so I will stop giving a damn so I can recoup my life and shine again? Because I’ve tried “just not going there” and it doesn’t help.

I am 57. I went to my dermatologist and he told me to use better skincare products. I color my hair for myself. I have had women tell me why wear nice makeup and clean cool clothes. I have had some other men and women ask ny why must i color my hair. I am poor, so i should go all grey. Why do i need cute and pretty shoes. At this point of my life I don't care what idiots say to me.

I think you are a little overrated in your own head my dear.

I just came across your video and I enjoyed everything you shared. I’m in my late 60’s and I feel and look better than ever before in my life. I can honestly say that I used to feel invisible but that’s no longer an issue, I do feel seen and I’m walking in that space and it feels so good. Thank you for sharing this it makes so much sense ❤

I love this video. The more I accept that everything is my fault, the more peace I get and the better I feel. Because if take accountability, then i'm in control of my life. No one else. I'm not perfect with this mindset, we all have egos that we subconciously protect at all times. But accepting responsebility means you become in control.

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I agree with all you’re saying, but where do you start

a few weeks ago my younger sister said to me "you light up a room when you walk in " I'm 78 PRAISE GOD !

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Hey there! 🌟 Have you tried letting go of strict self-discipline? Tell me how it’s working for you! Let’s chat-like, subscribe, and keep the convo going! 💪✨

When I was 50, male colleagues in their 20s were after me. Fighting over me (I am not available, but they still almost came to blows over my attention). If you take care of yourself, dress nicely (not revealing), exercise and are fit, and are happy, you project a calm confidence that is like a magnet. Some of it is genetic, people always think I'm 10 years younger, I've taken meticulous care of my skin since my 20s.

So then what do you suggest?