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Hi,
I am currently in the process of a divorce almost a year after learning my husband was cheating. After going through the ups and downs , trying to make it work and then the stages of separation leading to divorce I felt led to share my story with other women like me who may be struggling like I was and sometimes still do. In my darkest moments I found myself surfing the internet for any video, blog or any information that could help me not feel alone and get through the horrible moments of my experience.
I hope by going on the journey of my story of cheating, divorce and separation through expressing my feelings, thoughts of pain, hopelessness but then somehow, finding faith, hope, joy and gratitude during my separation and divorce women who are experiencing what I was and sometimes still do can find healing and hope in our faith, words and in each of our shared experiences.
Please subscribe I will be posting videos on different topics of my separation..divorce journey soon!
I am currently in the process of a divorce almost a year after learning my husband was cheating. After going through the ups and downs , trying to make it work and then the stages of separation leading to divorce I felt led to share my story with other women like me who may be struggling like I was and sometimes still do. In my darkest moments I found myself surfing the internet for any video, blog or any information that could help me not feel alone and get through the horrible moments of my experience.
I hope by going on the journey of my story of cheating, divorce and separation through expressing my feelings, thoughts of pain, hopelessness but then somehow, finding faith, hope, joy and gratitude during my separation and divorce women who are experiencing what I was and sometimes still do can find healing and hope in our faith, words and in each of our shared experiences.
Please subscribe I will be posting videos on different topics of my separation..divorce journey soon!
How Obedience Brings God's Blessings: Unlocking God's Promised Blessings | Choosing God's Direction
In this devotion, inspired by Marshan Evans Daniels' "100 Days of Believing Bigger," we explore the profound connection between blessing and obedience. Reflecting on Deuteronomy 28:8, this message emphasizes that God's blessings are not just possibilities but guarantees for those who align their lives with His will. Discover how to overcome doubt, embrace God's promises, and walk in the path He has set for you. This devotional encourages you to align with God's direction, understand that blessings are tied to obedience, and recognize that divine provision goes beyond material gain to include peace, fulfillment, and joy. Join us in this journey of faith and find assurance in God's unwavering commitment to bless everything you do.
How Obedience Brings God's Blessings: Unlocking God's Promised Blessings | Choosing God's Direction
#blessings #faith #obedience
Introduction (00:00 - 00:53)
Understanding God's Guarantee (00:53 - 01:34)
Blessings in Every Endeavor (01:34 - 02:58)
The Role of Alignment and Obedience (02:58 - 03:38)
Following God's Path (03:38 - 05:00)
The Nature of True Blessings (05:00 - 05:49)
Choosing God's Direction (05:49 - End)
How Obedience Brings God's Blessings: Unlocking God's Promised Blessings | Choosing God's Direction
#blessings #faith #obedience
Introduction (00:00 - 00:53)
Understanding God's Guarantee (00:53 - 01:34)
Blessings in Every Endeavor (01:34 - 02:58)
The Role of Alignment and Obedience (02:58 - 03:38)
Following God's Path (03:38 - 05:00)
The Nature of True Blessings (05:00 - 05:49)
Choosing God's Direction (05:49 - End)
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Wonder what they would say to women who have been abstinence or even virgins after 35+ years. Look beautiful and still single?
It's funny when women are not abstinent from sex. They're considered Jezebel but men having sex on and off is a behavior we permit. The truth is if they were really being honest, there is no fantasy woman out there to meet their expectations. Let's talk Truth It is truly 1 in a million to find a selfless man out there. Relationship with Jesus is the only reason or having a kids that's about it.!
I’m glad they are at least talking about fornication. Im 34 years old and have never had intercourse. It’s been a hard journey because almost every guy I’m met, Christian or not didn’t give a crap about abstinence. In fact, many would pressure me into having sex. I can’t take a “Christian” man seriously who doesn’t mind fornicating. To me that’s being religious and it’s one of the reasons outsiders don’t take the church seriously.
And the they bring all those spirits that come with confusion and devastation. If they can’t abstain for “ sex” then how in the heaven can they be trusted with any other thing that requires patience gentleness and long suffering? If I can wait…then so can he!! Or he is just not the man for me. The female sex organ has 3000 nerves while the male organ has one. So who shouldn’t be able to abstain because of the need for pleasure? ..WOMEN! What about if you have to abstain if one of you has an illness or recovery from some physical ailment. It’s all a farce to escape accountability and self control….As a matter of fact we as women get offered sex much more than men and have the opportunity to do it and don’t. I call BS 👈🏾So all of those excuses are just that “ excuses”. IF HE CAN’T WAIT HE’S NOT MY MATE! 👈🏾👈🏾👈🏾
Proud of you for making this video... It's going to help more women and even Virgins more than you know!!! GOD is Great... super proud of you...Leeeetttssss Gooooo!!!! #My2Centz
Dear Ladies, I can almost 98% guarantee that if you end up a consensual casualty/choice of Anthony's or LaTerras's Celabacy journey (when they fall off as they say)... You can rule yourself out of getting proposed to!!!! Anthony said that "we put so much emphasis on sex (premarital)" ...Like/as if that is NOT GOD's heart (read yo' Bible). Part of GOD's heart is focusing, minding, and disciplining/chastening our Libido...period! I wish Pastor Daniels would've chimed-in, challenged, or corrected that point ... like he did some of the others. #My2Centz
A great relationship should be built on something other than sex. If your single get to know yourself so when you get in a relationship you would be ready.
Thank you
If people are struggling with staying celibate until marriage, I advice that they examine themselves to see if they are really Christian and really have Christ in them. I used to fornicate all the time. I knew it was wrong, but sometimes I just didn't have control. I was going through some emotional challenges one time after a hard breakup and I cried out for help. I must have been serious in my heart because this was different from times in the past that I had cried out. Christ is not coming to help when you are not serious in the heart. You have to really want to give up your sins (if Christ takes them away, you won't miss them). Next thing that I know, sinful acts that I had been participating in for years (not just premarital sex) started falling away. Some of those acts were acts that I thought I could never stop doing. They didn't all go away over night....it took time bit by bit. But eventually all gone. I didn't even put any effort to "try" to stop. Those acts just faded away. Today, I haven't had sex in nearly 9 years and I use no effort to stay that way. I definitely would like to have sex again (married of course). But right now, there is no desire in me to have it unmarried. In the old days, I couldn't go to a place like Miami Beach without almost going crazy trying to contain myself from lusting and wanting sex. Nowadays, I will feel nothing if I were there....might even get a little disgusted at what I see.
And all women aren’t holy holy either but the main ones judging women can cheat and not tell a soul, it’s not just the man. I feel like it takes being honest with yourself fr
2:26 no one is perfect and JUDGING is something that only God can do. He kept it real he stopped then started again
Judge everything...this is Biblical...we can't condemn or persecute tho...but, judge everything...Judge where you eat...judge what you buy...judge your tooth paste...judge that sketchy looking person at the end of the block...judge how rotten or ripe that watermellon at Wholefoods is...Judge is it's a good bag of Brazilian weave...Judge that shampoo...Judge that parking spot on the Target lot...most importantly...Judge a person by the fruit that they are bearing forth...Judge everything! #My2Centz
YESSIR! Jesus is better than anything this world has. AND purity is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. But only having sex in covenant is a basic Christian principle.
That Luke warm definition or narrative is WRONG. The Bible clearly tells us what Luke warm is. People are stuck on “neither hot or cold” and seem to stop reading. Let’s discuss. “So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth. Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked:” Revelation 3:16-17 KJV Maybe it’s because the text puts a period before because that trips people up. A Luke warm person is on that have not been through the fire of Holy Spirit and feel like they are on top of the world. One that is rich and need of nothing. We can see this from the book of Job. A lukewarm person is JOB before he went through his trial and tribulations. “There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and eschewed evil. And there were born unto him seven sons and three daughters. His substance also was seven thousand sheep, and three thousand camels, and five hundred yoke of oxen, and five hundred she asses, and a very great household; so that this man was the greatest of all the men of the east.” Job 1:1-3 KJV Job was rich and needed nothing. Then God spued him out His mouth to Satan. “And the LORD said unto Satan, Hast thou considered my servant Job, that there is none like him in the earth, a perfect and an upright man, one that feareth God, and escheweth evil? Then Satan answered the LORD, and said, Doth Job fear God for nought? Hast not thou made an hedge about him, and about his house, and about all that he hath on every side? thou hast blessed the work of his hands, and his substance is increased in the land. But put forth thine hand now, and touch all that he hath, and he will curse thee to thy face. And the LORD said unto Satan, Behold, all that he hath is in thy power; only upon himself put not forth thine hand. So Satan went forth from the presence of the LORD.” Job 1:8-12 KJV You see God was warning or letting the church of Laodiceans know that they were about to go through some trials and tribulations. He was getting them ready. “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent. Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me. To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne. He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches.” Revelation 3:19-22 KJV God bless!
My Error….I meant to say my husband might not held out over 20 years as myself….but I believe it will be years that I am Satisfied to hear his years of celibacy…..All Glory to God🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I have been Celibate over 20 yrs…..I use to think my husband would not be celibate when I meet him…However God said to me if I can give your husband you and you Save yourself for him….Why would I not give you a Man who is Saving himself for you….God had to reveal to me that my husband could not get up anyway with another woman…..God always has my back….So knowing this and I trust God with all my Heart….i know God would not take me off the Dating scene and keep my man on the Dating Scene….So I know when I meet my Husband he would be a Man that has been celibate as I am also….Now he might not be now he might not held out over 20 yrs as myself however I believe it will be some sort of yrs…..God gets all the Glory🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Of course they can. If i did so can they. Idk if they are willing to deny the flesh frfr tho.
Do speak for Christian man bro, speak for yourself, God kept me for 9 years until I was married
Amen! So proud of you!
Wow… I’m bout to unsubscribe from both of their channels smh. No wonder why Anthony and Laterras ain’t married.
A question was asked to Anthony about a particular area in his left and he just so happens to fall short there. He isn’t promoting for men or women to practice pre-marital sex. Why are you unfollowing him for confessing his sin? I did watch this on the 2x speed, did I miss something? You are free to do what you please but since you put it out there I wanted to know if you are unfollowing because his sin is known to everyone or something else? From what I know, his platform is about financial education. So I’m just wondering.
@@Chrissy-Jay he talks about God a lot on his platform that you would think he would understand the importance of celibacy. He said that’s where he falls short but he didn’t say what if anything he’s doing to fight that sin. It’s disappointing because there are so many women like myself trying to be pure and it makes me question are there any men love God enough to try to do the same? He has a large following so I imagine this might make other men comfortable instead of pushing them to do better. It’s also hard that someone with his wealth would be sleeping around when he could get a woman pregnant that would zap his wealth. Also The Bible speaks that sexual immorality is a sin that hurts your own flesh and it’s not to be taken lightly. Though I appreciate his honesty, I will be willing to listen to him when he takes God more seriously.
@@MutedMinimalistI agree with you 100% it's not a good testimony to hear how he speaks of fornication
At least he was honest.
MEN DO BETTER, The body is a TEMPLE
What about Christian virgin men only desiring Christian virgin women? Specifically on simply following equally yoked.
I don't give a man a hard time for abstaining because I haven't met him yet. I have decided to be celibate so I won't be tortured in Hell for all Eternity! My creator means more to me than my flesh.
Truth Spoken 💯 right here! This video should go VIRAL. Everyone who have ears 👂🏽 to hear let him/her hear.
If the goal is to abstain from sex until marriage and not to abstain bc it’s a SIN and it doesn’t pleases God……
This is the one! Know your why. Don’t abstain for a spouse, but abstain because you want to please God and honor Him with every part of your being… that’s when it gets a TINY bit easier.
The thing is sex is not a sin, sex outside the marriage is sin, so the person is abstaining until marriage because it doesn’t please God.
@@mariowatson5376bingo
What so dangerous about that panel is the lack of understanding of the severe danger they are in with God. The scripture says the sexually immoral person will NOT inherit the kingdom of God. It also says fornication should not be named once among us. I know it’s a real challenge for single men and women, however we are all required to live right in this area if we want to be saved. Man this is dangerous what they are saying
Celibate 4yrs 4 months 😅
🎉🎉🎉Congratulations!
Leeeeettttsss Gooooooo... with the Holy Ghost's help you can/will go even further with a Health/Blessed/Favourable outcome...HIS Blessing make Rich (Tangibly and inTangibly) and HE adds no sorrow...Lastly, please stay away from self pleasure and immorality (P0rn, S*x toys, etc) GOD is able to do a complete work without our help BUT, thru our obedience!!! (Jude 1: 24 Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,) #My2Centz
Yes, but we are rare.
I can do all things through Christ who strenthens me....
This scripture is referring to something else. Read the scripture before this one.
@@cortashaelam320 it is very much relevant.... Stayn pure in a world tht promotes adultery, fornication, masturbation etc requires spiritual strength... Hence the holy spirit can keep us standing, not by our own strength or wisdom
Thank God for Pastor Flowers… because that first clip was .. phew .. Lord.
He needs to crucify his flesh and stop making excuses for his sins. He's doing something, looking at some things that are distracting him and drawing him away to sin (man in the baby blue suit).
God would not tell you to do it without giving you the power to abstain. Men and women need to stay on their face in prayer and if killing the flesh daily.
It won't stick until you've fallen in love totally with God.
Tony Gaskin is accurate. I thank God for keeping me for years from greedy men. Celibate men is rare, however I know some men who can abstain.
0:24 Um....so what have you been doing all this time?? Lol I thought you were "waiting" for your wife?
I will counter question that question: Can Christian men stay _saved_ until Jesus returns? If yes? Then men can stay abstinent
Anthony full of it
So during the falloff period I guess the men be finding women who they just want to sleep with but not to marry, BUT talk about women with a body count they don't like when some of these men have added to the body count.
Exactly, I can't believe my ears, so they sleep with women while waiting for tat one woman who will take their sin away? What about the wmen they slept with, they just stop because they are married now?
Yes they can. The Holy Spirit has given us all self control. You use it if you want to
God bless this man and his ministry ❤🙏
They still seem to be putting the responsibility on women to be pure to help them stay pure. But that's not how that works. Each person is supposed to be pure for their own sakes. If you truly are a man of God living for Christ and have him as your center of attention, it doesn't matter what a woman throws at you, you should be able to say "get behind me Satan," and mean it. And if you lose control or fall don't, blame her, blame yourself.
Exactly Jesus said remove anything that causes you to stumble that includes yourself.
Being engaged to someone does not give you a license to fornicate. It is premarital sex. point blank period.
John 8:1-11....the woman caught in adultery is a demonstration of Jesus's love, compassion and forgiveness towards those who fall under the strongholds of the flesh, including sexual sin. It was yhe leaders who brought the woman to Christ for Him to condemn her, but He addressed the sins of the teachers/ leaders of Israel...as they read their sins written by the finger of El Roi (Jehovah sees) they filed out from the oldest to the youngest....they were not without sin to cast the stones. Therenis Victory IN CHRIST TO OVERCOME SEXUAL SIN/IMPLUSES... By beholding Christ, we become CHANGED...stay in the Word- Abba Father speaks clearly to us via His written Word...stay in pray, fasting and build a wall of scripture around yourself. Study Proverbs...SHE= WISDOM IS FOUND THERE
I’m reading Proverbs now 💯
Abstinence should not be for a season, if you are single it should be something that is practiced all the time until you get married. Sin separates men from God. Sexual sin can destroy you spiritually and physically.
Say it again
Yep and these christian man are failing
@@aphiwemncube1550failure only happens when one gives up.. don’t pass judgment on people so quickly
@@derekfultz3285 🙏🙏🙏🙏true
For all you christians speaking on Manogamy one Man one woman for life 🧬 No Born again VIRGIN Christian talking points your manogamy is now gone. so If a Woman is not a VIRGIN is she really being Monogamous asking for a friend????
yes, but I've never encountered one in 40 years
I’ve never understood why Christian men don’t care about purity.
Because it’s not enforced on them like it is woman 🤷🏾♀️ so why would they care.
But make it make sense. Why enforce it on one gender and not the other? It takes two to tango. @@cbb391
And it's sad because the bible said flee immorality and it didn't say oy women should flee
_some_ men. The men that take God seriously, don't play that.
Uh plenty do. You just don't pay any attention to us.
When was this⁉️
I understand that once you truly find GOD and you understand the true wrath that you get once you become a reprobate you will do what GOD says love GOD love yourself then you will truly know worth
Yes they can my now intended been abstaining Almost 9 years by the time we’re married a decade it’s not easy he said lots of prayers and cold shower but it’s doable! I’m also abstaining it not easy but doable
I’m glad Walgreens hat (sorry I don’t know his name) said what he said. The right person can help on your journey and the wrong person will draw you closer to sin
Not Walgreens 😂
@jadew9177 Put some respect on that cap. Lol. The cap represents my hometown baseball team... the Washington Nationals.
@@SabbathDay Oh...I dont watch sports like that and it looks like the Walgreens symbol lol
@@jadew9177 I don't follow baseball and I live in Atlanta now, but I think I'm on point with whose cap that represents. I could be wrong, too. Lol
That’s Corey Arvinger. He’s the CEO of the Support Black Colleges clothing brand.
Prayer is important to ask God to help you control your flesh.
Exactly 💯