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Carl Jung makes sense if you are what he is talking about because it’s not a puzzle if you’ve managed to do the work before you find the stuff on what it is that is up with you as in what type you are. It’s that simple

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Even you don’t get it

I am NOT a Fast Talker like you, but somewhat slow, but not too slow, trying to be articulate, trying not to speak beyond one's understanding. Yes, I have been known to tune out in some conversations one is having on a phone, that I feel Had I not been there, more private things would have been said, And, yes I will be caught staring at something,, nothing really in particular, and it takes me a second to realize I am being talked to. I do tell them that, and apologize that I have a tendency to tune out when people have phone conversations

being an INFJ , even before I was told by a Psychologist who gave me a number of Tests I had set goals Art, I planed on doing 2 paintings a week. I get the wildlife in just fine, but the hardest part is adding their environment, second guessing when adding plants. If setting is Spring. are some I add not in season yet. or is Fleabane seen in same area as Columbine, due to soli? Which ends up I am BEHIND in my goal, plus fitting all the WEEKLY TO-LIST I have . I do not like Spur of the moment invites.

Meant to say something in a quick pod cast about Speaking. Most pod cast that READ FROM a SCRIP, mention that Are Careful when they speak, Me being Dyslexic. besides inability to really read, even what I am typing, Speaking, able to pronounce words, in my mind I can see a whole lecture, but to translate not easy. Sometimes once I am comfortable. Know my subject very well., but learned to not exactly have the idea totally mine. I will use the words "I heard someone once mention ***" to see what they thought. Deceptive, perhaps. But it avoids being Criticized , and question if that "SOMEONE " was really wrong, and this makes the other person rethink as well.. My way of trying to escape the peg hole, of coming up with crazy ideas, that other people just drop entire subject immediately. This way I have some chance. SMILE, I was TOLD I had a FAKE SMILE. Not sure if he was trying to gain a reaction with his insulting words . I of course just shrugged it off.. He meant it as an INSULRT. Therapist my son would visit..

76 years old Dyslexic, recently told by a Psychologist I am a bona fide INFJ. I you left a note, because you are the FIRST PERSON who did not sound like they were reading from a script. Perhaps you can help, get psychologist to dig deeper and help kids, who just might be INFJ's , but suffer from DYSLEXIA. and have to go 365 days hearing how Dumb, stupid, slow learner, Lazy. they are by adults and other kids that learn from the adults. Especially when a teacher uses a kid to demonstrate what NOT TO DO WRONG , and have to hear the kids Laugh, and be taunted at recess. I am an artist, but too poor to even enter any shows that demand a lot of money upfront, or need belong to a Guild. My work is Wildlife, on the order of Robert Batemans, whom I met when younger, before he was Famous, He liked my work then.

A neighbor psychologist stopped by while I was working on some art work, taking breaks to work in the garden whiled outside. He said he have been observing me for some time, because I was so unlike other neighbors. Meaning when he would see them they were constantly on their phones, barely keeping watch on the kids, or their dog. rarely did any yard work, or took time to put the trash carts back. And then he asked if I would take some tests. Some what reluctant, I agreed, but explained I was DYSLEXIC and needed to use some items to read, and that is one reason why I do not have a phone. Weeks go by, and he stops by to tell me the results of the tests I took. He said in so many words I was a BONA FIED INFJ. I took some Psychology courses, but was not familiar with the Acronyms. He explained a bit. I told him I am surprise why so much work was done on finding out personality types. I was not sure being an INFJ is a curse or saved me. Far too often because I am not a big open person, some what a busy person, when something happens or goes MISSING , so how far too many people thought I was the ONE. ONE person even said I fit the description police described of a bomber. like the one they were looking for in the 1986 Olympics ended. Or some Killer in the area. and they give the Profile , "probably lives alone, keeps to themselves, intelligent. loaner.. YET all these years, STILL no real help in testing school age children with 5-7 signs of being DYSLEXIC. I WAS HELL growing up , learning I was stupid , dumb. before I entered school. ALL the adults teachers, parents, school psychologist , said I was just lazy, and Border Line Retarded, because he looked at my Results for School NATIONAL TESTING. which I mainly just circled in. because I was told i could not have the red clear plastic that helped me see the words better. 365 Days a year, every year. NOT a day went by that I was not called a NEGATIVE NAME. Throughout my teen years as well into Adult. ENDED up due to a date Rape drug, got pregnant. Did not know I was until 4th month. Father , A journalist, found out I was not able to read very well with out some aid materials considered me as Damaged GOODS, DYSLEXIA still was not really out in the public in the late 70's , nor 80's on up WHY NOT? Why do Psychologist and Psychiatrists, take time to help CHILDREN and develop some tools to help. Why do kids like me have to be mislabeled as being DUMB or Lazy. Henry Wynkler , founder of IKEA. TOM CRUZ , AND even Famous Albert Einstein was DYSLEXIC.. but it is assumed just because Einstein was able to adjust around his problem EVERY OTHE CHILD should be able too. WHEN ? Am sure Many kids committed Suicide , I tried when I was 6 years old because I failed First Grade. lucky my pants got caught on a bolt on the unfinished bridge, and a worker came back for his tools. I was smart enough NOT to run directly to where I lived .Or he would have knocked on the door.

Infjs are special but there are 15 other special types.

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Very precious advices, thank you for direct recommendations.

Hi Eric, ok, I’d like to collaborate with you. Sensors and intuitive types have natural antipathy for each other. You are an ISFP I am an INFJ. I am thinking of making a video called, “what ever happened to Eric Thor and what is wrong with MBTI.” I think the study of typology is a better metrics than modern psychology to collect data. I find self-typing and making type comparisons preferable to presuming I can change and improve my personality. Self-improvement is a myth. Typology and typological studies makes better sense to me.

0:30 this moment right here. So relatable 😂😂😂😂😂

🧻 for you. Couldn't find a napkin

You can’t always negotiate. Not if what you want is to be the boss and you have to negotiate with the current boss.

Introverted intuition means you’re super quick to see how things that appear to be completely different are extremely similar in their patterns and underlying meanings and dynamics. That’s all.

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undx ASD L1, frequently with intellectual giftedness. Because think about it - - what kind of autism goes undiagnosed and can be unaware of itself? It has to be the kind with a high enough IQ to intellectually compensate. Early ASD dx STOPS the adaptive IQ climb because the child conforms to the sick proxy role. The pathogenic etiology of ASD (and SIDS) is postpartum psychosis (wish for the child to become “unborn“). See “autism fever effect“. So the most important thing for us to know is that we have been deliberately groomed to self-defeating selflessness. And the second thing we need to know is never take prescribed or off-label prescribed antipsychotics (e.g. Trazodone to sleep or Abilify to boost an antidepressant). They can induce autistic catatonia which is misdiagnosed as “early onset dementia” (or maybe Diogenes syndrome or abandonment anxiety) when it’s actually annihilation anxiety. Which can be differentiated by lorazepam challenge.

i never ask for help

😅 spot on

i want to share this everywhere but i dont think anyone will get why🤣🤣everything is just yes🤣

Tomdaya is ENFP-INFJ

Humans do not blink that often!

Yea ive been told I have big eyes with a deep stare

Ni is INTJ and INFJ sense of direction

Thank You Sir

I wonder if this also applies to INTJs, since they both share the same inferior and hero functions. So do you think INTJ's also need space, to have a small to do list?

Awesome vid! I want to expand on my gift of empathy and counseling others. I just have to give myself small tasks and rest/solitude time like you said❤

Extroverted sensing is really rough for me. Like the remembering or listening to somebody talk details about something. Nothing zones me out faster.

I have these traits but I am INFP

Have you read the book "same people"? It's like reading my relationships with the 2 INFJ in my life (friendship and dating). Tbh yeah it's really painful to date or have really close friendships with an INFJ. They don't deserve the INTJ for anything deeper than the intellectual realm. They will only torture our Fi. You should go with Fi and Ne combo, because less intensity and depth so you won't hurt them as much as you hurt us. You are the most amazing people when it doesn't get so deep. But once we grow on you, your critical Fi will sabotage the friendship/ relationship.

I (infj) married an enfp… we definitely have taught each other different perspectives! 😂

Please let me know what is the name of the book you mentioned 😊??

Thank you 😊😊 this is the phase I'm in right now. It helped me to understand myself better ❤ I have changed I thought why am I so cold but this was an eye opener 😮

I remember feeling tired while listening to a conversation among friends when one asked me what was wrong. I’d drifted (dissociated) I guess. I was giving a lecture once when I was asked an interesting question. After a bit my thesis advisor asked me what was wrong.

I'm an INFJ remote working freelance translator

I really appreciate this video!

Well, I was a little confused, 'cause there's something happen just now in my life, and into that is lost contact with my friends and all I know, even so I still thinking about theories of how live well, and I study a lot, overall philosophy and psychology, I don't have fear to change my mind, but my connections with these important persons is what hurts me, thinking of losing them. So after all, what I'm care the most about is, how can I do something what helps the world or even my close circle, to be better

First comment, yahoo!! I love your videos

Omg I do have a really good body language ability were many times I've been out and I've spotted undercover police in a bar looking for people who sell drugs but I spotted them right away and I was right I've done it a good few times and people have said how did I spot them

As much as I am a social cameleon, my introverted function is very strong and formed some good standards and ideas over the years so I am not anywhere near to give them up for anyone. But what comes to my ideas I am quite rigid about those, maybe because my both parents are narcissists. I was very lost when I was young, but surprisingly I healed myself ( with help of homeopathy and psychology). Remember INFJs you can heal others, but heal yourself FIRST!

that's why i thought i am an INTJ

So much useful info here, also I feel seen, thank you!

Doesnt everyone gesture outward? 🤔

Oddly enough, this seemed like a good advice for my mom. Unfortunately, she passed away in 2022. She was INFP. I tend to have strong ideals and am actually quite obstinate. If I have thought through all aspects of a situation, you can gather an entire army and it will not persuade me from my vision. The issue I have is: how much should I push against the norm? Sometimes, too much is too much so I need to dial it down. And yes, it does affect one’s true self. In a world where following set ideas is the easiest (and surest) thing to do, revolutionizing things is considered crazy.

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Don't tell me a cut INFJ like you isn't having any girlfriend. I'm too old for you by the way. But I'm sure if you put in front your INFJ kindness you will find a match😉😇.

4:37 or the question “what’s wrong?” All. The. Time.