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KEN READS - AVOIDANT THOUGHTS | PILOT EPISODE
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​Ken Reads should not be considered a substitute for professional counseling or therapy. It serves as a platform for validation, psychoeducation, and entertainment. Ken's approach to letter readings differs from traditional counseling sessions.
​In his capacity as an Australian counselor, Ken will not provide advice or offer diagnoses. While he may suggest potential issues, he cannot provide official diagnoses.
Whilst attachment styles are not formal diagnoses, Ken can share his opinion on whether a particular attachment style seems evident based on the information in the letter.
​Letters submitted should be between 500 - 2,000 words, with a +/- 10% margin. If a letter falls outside of these parameters, Ken reserves the right to decline reading it and will issue a refund to the letter sender.
​Ken Reads will accept submissions based on availability.
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KEN READS | EPISODE 38: I TOOK CARE OF HIM DURING THE PANDEMIC BUT HE NEVER RECIPROCATED
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DISCLAIMER: ​Ken Reads should not be considered a substitute for professional counseling or therapy. It serves as a platform for validation, psychoeducation, and entertainment. Ken's approach to letter readings differs from traditional counseling sessions. ​In his capacity as an Australian counselor, Ken will not provide advice or offer diagnoses. While he may suggest potential issues, he canno...
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A sign that you’re not emotionally connected with your avoidantly attached partner is when you feel lonely, disconnected and angry. If this goes unaddressed it can lead to a lot of mental and emotional burn out for yourself, depression and may make you feel like you’re the problem. It may not be your partner’s fault as it may be their way of coping with closeness and intimacy. But if they’re no...
KEN READS | EPISODE 37: I CAUGHT HIM CHEATING AND HE THREATENED ME IN RESPONSE
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DISCLAIMER: ​Ken Reads should not be considered a substitute for professional counseling or therapy. It serves as a platform for validation, psychoeducation, and entertainment. Ken's approach to letter readings differs from traditional counseling sessions. ​In his capacity as an Australian counselor, Ken will not provide advice or offer diagnoses. While he may suggest potential issues, he canno...
BPD VS AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT = DISCARDS
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I see a lot of people comparing avoidant attachment to borderline personality disorder. In one hand I get why because the two can coexist and they’re both marked by emotional dysregulation and a capacity to discard people close to them. Based on a few sources, it is speculated that individuals with a fearful avoidant attachment style are more likely to be marked by BPD than the other attachment...
KEN READS | EPISODE 36: HE STARTED A NEW FAMILY WHILST WE WERE STILL MARRIED
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DISCLAIMER: ​Ken Reads should not be considered a substitute for professional counseling or therapy. It serves as a platform for validation, psychoeducation, and entertainment. Ken's approach to letter readings differs from traditional counseling sessions. ​In his capacity as an Australian counselor, Ken will not provide advice or offer diagnoses. While he may suggest potential issues, he canno...
KEN READS | EPISODE 35: IT WAS A LONG DISTANCE, OPEN RELATIONSHIP
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DISCLAIMER: ​Ken Reads should not be considered a substitute for professional counseling or therapy. It serves as a platform for validation, psychoeducation, and entertainment. Ken's approach to letter readings differs from traditional counseling sessions. ​In his capacity as an Australian counselor, Ken will not provide advice or offer diagnoses. While he may suggest potential issues, he canno...
AVOIDANTS MAY STRUGGLE IN DISCERNING REAL VS IMAGINE ABUSE
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Avoidant attachers are masters at being able to navigate highly combative and high stress situations. These individuals are extraordinary at being able to navigate difficult interpersonal experiences with inflammatory people due to their ability to compartmentalise pain. However, they run amok when engaging with healthier individuals because their fears of intimacy and commitment have a tendenc...
KEN READS | EPISODE: 34: "HE CALLED ME A COVERT NARCISSIST"
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DISCLAIMER: ​Ken Reads should not be considered a substitute for professional counseling or therapy. It serves as a platform for validation, psychoeducation, and entertainment. Ken's approach to letter readings differs from traditional counseling sessions. ​In his capacity as an Australian counselor, Ken will not provide advice or offer diagnoses. While he may suggest potential issues, he canno...
THE FEELINGS BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR AVOIDANT PARTNER WERE REAL
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Yes, your feelings and love with this person was likely very real. Avoidant attachers who haven’t worked on their trauma, would be more likely to have stayed if the intensity of your love wasn’t great, or stuck around but reacted increasingly defensively due to their fears of intimacy and commitment. Growing intimacy is triggering for these folk and it is a gift you both achieved such level of ...
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It can be very hard for a lot of people to recognise whether they’re in a secure relationship or a trauma bond, regardless of their attachment style. However, there are ways that can help avoidant attachers become more discerning. Firstly, having an understanding and an education on abuse can provide some foundational knowledge. Secondly, I highly recommend somatic work to help avoidant attache...
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When two avoidantly attached partners get together it can feel initially euphoric and satisfying. At last, they’ve met someone who appears put together, self-sufficient, independent and won’t intrude on their space. However, this dynamic often starts to come undone as growing space between them means an absense of emotional intimacy. What this means is that one partner starts to feel very needy...
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KEN READS | EPISODE 31: A SITUATIONSHIP AFTER YEARS OF THERAPY
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KEN READS | EPISODE 31: A SITUATIONSHIP AFTER YEARS OF THERAPY
KEN READS | EPISODE 30: THEY WERE SELF-AWARE OF THEIR AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT BUT STILL DUMPED ME
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HEALTHY COMMUNICATION MAY NOT ALWAYS BE APPROPRIATE WITH AN AVOIDANT PARTNER
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HEALTHY COMMUNICATION MAY NOT ALWAYS BE APPROPRIATE WITH AN AVOIDANT PARTNER
KEN READS: EPISODE 29: THEY BROKEUP AND CAME BACK TO ME
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KEN READS: EPISODE 29: THEY BROKEUP AND CAME BACK TO ME
KEN READS | EPISODE 28: HIS MUM AND SISTER GOT IN THE WAY OF OUR RELATIONSHIP - AUDIO ONLY
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KEN READS | EPISODE 28: HIS MUM AND SISTER GOT IN THE WAY OF OUR RELATIONSHIP - AUDIO ONLY
HOW to DETACH to Attract them back
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HOW to DETACH to Attract them back
KEN READS | EPISODE 27: SHE DIDN’T WANT TO DISCUSS THE PAST
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KEN READS | EPISODE: 26: HE LOVEBOMBED ME THEN DUMPED ME
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KEN READS | EPISODE: 26: HE LOVEBOMBED ME THEN DUMPED ME
KEN READS | EPISODE 25: SHE MADE ME WALK ON EGGSHELLS
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KEN READS | EPISODE 25: SHE MADE ME WALK ON EGGSHELLS
KEN READS | EPISODE 24: WAS SHE EVER IN LOVE WITH ME?
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KEN READS | EPISODE 24: WAS SHE EVER IN LOVE WITH ME?
KEN READS | EPISODE 23: BLINDSIDED
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KEN READS | EPISODE 23: BLINDSIDED
KEN READS | EPISODE 22: HE BROKE UP WITH ME BECAUSE HE SAID HE NEEDED MORE PERSONAL GROWTH
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KEN READS | EPISODE 21: WHY YOU ATTRACT AVOIDANT PARTNERS
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KEN READS | EPISODE 21: WHY YOU ATTRACT AVOIDANT PARTNERS
QUESTION: COULD ATTACHMENT STYLES BE BIOLOGICAL?
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QUESTION: COULD ATTACHMENT STYLES BE BIOLOGICAL?