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I spent many a night in full makeup reading pie and fries at Perkins.

Thank you! Now I just need a partner…

THANK YOOOOUUUUU!!!!!@

Its an ability to instantly have that part of the brain hit a specific frequency. Its akin to rem, like a diluted day dream. I guarantee if she did ketamine, or heroin, or dmt etc she would realize she's not special because she's not able to recall this skill while awake. Its simply an inability to relax and focus. At this very instant know i also cant "see" an apple in my mind but im just not in that headspace and since its being forced it cant happen. Its like tensing up your muscles as tight as possible and trying to stretch. Now, later on when im drifting off to sleep I'll be able picture the apple, and its orchard with the wind swaying in autumn. Also acting like this is a scientific term when its theoretically impossible to know what one means when they say they're seeing something with their mind is preposterous. Just because i cant conjure up this vision of an apple this moment doesn't mean i belong to some group of 2% of people, which is so stupid its depressing. Was the entire fucking earth polled on this dumbass im special and different abstraction ? You can tell she's real impressed with herself but shes just like everyone else, mostly dull, with the potential to do something meaningful on occasion. Fucking humans are annoying

Perfect😮😮😢😢😊😢😢

This was lovely🥰

To me something like half an hour feels like five minutes.

Why when the topic of sex and ADHD is brought up, the female perspective is always presented? I fell sex is overall way less boring for men, and boredom is also way less of an issue for men with ADHD. That's being said there are other challenges and distractions, what can be an issue are intrusive thoughts, something like "is she enjoying it?", "is it still working?", or "why she's always so quiet, chicks in porn are yelling like crazy" etc xD ADHD can also make men more impatient in bad, they turn on quickly and don't focus much on foreplay when for the women the whole deal is mostly about foreplay. If this sounds like men in general, it is, but with ADHD usually everything is just more elevated. So I would say that for men more crucial is work on patience and clearing your head, just be in the moment. I find that meditation helps, and of course meds cause with dopamine regulated is way easier to let go.

Ooooft. This hits hard

Great information. What I know is that ACE people should only partner up with ACE people. It’s to confusing & heartbreaking for non ACE people to be in a relationship. Being ACE is fine, but has too many assorted requirements for a non AcE person.

i cant visualize anything whatsoever (i dont have an inner monologue either so its kinda just empty in my head) meanwhile my best friend is the total opposite and can see and hear super vivid things in his head! it sounds so cool the things he tells me that go on in his brain 😂

I didn't know that aphantasia was a thing until a few years ago, but I've lived with it for 46 years.

I wish I could have had this kind of information when I was young. Discovering you are asexual later in life you have already spent so much time feeling anormal and wondering what all the fuss is about when it comes to sexuality.

What about if you have severe OCD that says “if you don’t get it done by tonight I’m not going to let you sleep let you breathe straight or let you think straight and you will not be able to do anything until you get these ADHD things done and there’s too many things to get done within the time 😭that I have to do but if you don’t, then it’s gonna happen anyways”. how do I fix this? 🙃

Yall are making it too complicated, ...a spectrum? That could include almost everyone.... To me A sexual means , not sexually attracted to ANYONE, plain and simple ...

Or maybe it's just the sex that you are having that's bad. Maybe it's not hitting right. Maybe he/she should have been in the gym more.

Thank you been struggling with this for most of my life.

I feel like you could have a lot of fun forcing players to drink water. Like treat it as a drinking game but with water.

I thought maybe this was going to be an ad for Lewd Dungeon Adventures 😂

Of course it's just candy 😂

Yay! Welcome back! I was one of the four that appreciated the Batman voices 😁. Glad you're back! Excited for the next episode ( and the book release date!)

"That I'm enough." That really, REALLY hit home. ❤

This resonates on so many levels. Thank you for sharing so many parts of your authentic self. You do truly help so many of us as we find our own way. ❤

A gallon?? I dread to think what a poorly ventilated dungeon is like when everybody is stopping to pee every 15 minutes

Engagement for the engagement god!

I havent left my bed for *anything* today. Not a single step out. And I dont play 5e anymore. Hah, I guess I win?

Cate really out saying "don't worry, still a brat." 😂😂😂 always love to see your videos. ❤❤❤

Clearly this is the kink my life has been missing

Idk if you'll see this, but I do have a question about organisms. What if your body physically reacts during M or S but no mental pleasure? I can be misunderstood the way people have described organism as a "high" in the past, also never been high, so I have no comparison. It's just weird having a body that's easily arousaled but a mind that's severely uncomfortable about it. I can't tell if tell if I'm ace, uneducated, or if something else is just happening. The only way I can describe mentally what's happening is not being in the moment, thinking about anything else but what's happening.

i cant VISUALIZE but i can like, understand?? like- i know the shapes and lines enough but thats because i always really study a picture and feel the weight of lines. i've never seen an image in my mind, but i am good at drawing and coming up with stuff so idk

Meh... I just dont get the dopamine hit. I'm happier with a nice pizza. Cuddling is nice though

when u siad name ur emotions, it has compelled me to NAME my emtions. i shall now call all my emotions diffrent cat names.

I did this yesterday in my accomodations meeting with HR and middle management. saying the environment was disabling was HIGHLY offensive to my middle management 😂 too bad turds it is!

With meditation, I just "physically" feel myself in my mind performing the task. Would be awesome to see in my head, but using my "body" in my mind makes it possible to do a lot. Agree bout clothes. I just wear black or blue cuz I can't see myself in anything.

I guess neuro typical will never understand the struggle

Er, and also I’m English, so talking about sex is existentially horrific. Add RSD, ODD, easily distracted, sensory processing issues, learning about sex from pornographic magazines before being old enough to understand and never having heard a description of a healthy relationship yet alone actually seen one. I’m as horny as a near 60 year old as I was when I was 19. The difference is that experience and understanding have robbed sex of its spontaneity and simplicity. Ha, and overthinking everything.

Finally found how to describe how it feels to work in a place where every day I hear kids crying so loud and high pitched in an echoed environment that it shuts down part of the working parts of my brain that I find it difficult to work, besides describing it as someone stabbing needles into my ear It’s disabling. And I was afraid of saying it in public out of fear of being seen as someone misusing the term or not taken seriously.

Hah, I think it's more like accidentally sleeping through your alarm all the time. 😊:

Nah …look, people, I'll tell You the truth. There is no fix…I tried everything from medication to deep psychotherapy of all sorts….you have two choices: live a very promiscuous life and get a lot of excitement, or just accept you are different and be content with a boring sex life (sex life won't last forever anyway).

37:02 IMO, pride is being able to say that ("I'm an excellent writer") and not feel the NEED to apologize for it or reiterate that it's true or reference external authorities. You might feel like you want to do those things, because social programming. But not needing to is the thing. I'm there in a few areas, and it's so freeing!

So I'm in a kink relationship with all of my friends, got it 😂

*hits delete from cart 7 times* ...I did not ask to be called out this evening.

All you need to look for is any coat you'd feel comfortable wearing inside when it's already warm inside. The lights and nerves are going to make you hot up there. Jean jacket, bolero, leather, wind breaker, even a cardigan with some oomph will do. Put on big gold earrings and cuffs. Then wear literally anything you want. Those overalls sound dope with a moto leather jacket or an oversized 80s blazer. Maybe a newer shoe, not mandatory.

Why do I do this?..... I'm trying to get on medication for my ADHD and I'm 41 and Jesus Christ. It drives me insane. I was more accomplished in my hobbies when I was suicidal and miserable and Absolutely torn up inside about my childhood and now that I'm healed more a hell of a lot more. I'm less active in my hobbies and not as good at them I think.

Same here. Same with sound, I don't have an "inner voice". It's frustrating now that I know a lot of the population can actually use their imagination, people don't just see black words on white paper when reading. I used to cry myself to sleep as a child because I couldn't remember the faces of my family. All those times when people said "close your eyes and picture this", they were seeing stuff in their head. I thought we were all just kinda pretending to see/hear stuff.

Suits only suck if you buy them off the rack. Drop the cash (if you can) and get a tailored suit. You will never feel more confident and powerful than wearing something specifically made for YOUR body for the first time.

This is the reason a psychiatrist gave for retracting his original diagnosis of ADHD after 9+ months of sessions and months of testing out two medications. Now I have no psych. Summary: "the 2 meds did nothing so you don't have ADHD" "Unfortunately, it is my opinion that XXX did not have any response to either methylphenidate or dexamfetamine which would endorse an ADHD diagnosis. He trialled high doses of both stimulants without any significant impact on focus, concentration, improvements in working memory, or overall executive dysfunction. An authoritative meta-analysis demonstrated the combined response rate of stimulants for ADHD was approximately 90% (Hodgkins P, Shaw M, Coghill D, et al. Amfetamine and methylphenidate medications for attention-deficit/ hyperactivity disorder: complementary treatment options. Eur Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2012;21(9):477-492). Whilst this evidence was based on children and adolescents, most evidence in the ADHD field with respect to stimulants is extrapolated from these populations. Seeing as ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition, it is sensible to extrapolate the response rates into adulthood. When one thinks about the overall epidemiology of ADHD, this diagnostic trial of stimulants for XXX starts to yield more concrete results. Approximately 3% of the adult population has ADHD. Seeing as 90% of those with ADHD respond to stimulants, that leaves 10% who are 'treatment-resistant’ cases of ADHD. This leads to an absolute population prevalence of 0.3% having treatment-resistant ADHD. Rather than view XXX as being in this 0.3%, I instead have encouraged him to consider himself as being more likely to be in the 97% of the population who does not have ADHD. He was open to this and very understanding."

My new psychiatrist is trying to tell me that I “probably don’t have ADHD” if the meds don’t work, and it has me feeling very unheard 😭

YES! In another example: It helps to receive compliments when the rules are "you can't tell me no, so you're forced to receive these compliments and internalize them."

So the takeaway is kink is caring. Thats surprisingly wholesome.