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As someone who has been struggling to build a social media platform for years in order to have a better chance with publishers, this insta poetry is not it 😭 i kinda hate the popularity contest going on in the publishing industry right now, and i also hate that the poem has to make no sense in order to receive recognition from organizations like poetry foundation.

Her : Tell me about love, beauty and life. Edger Alan Poe : Hold my dead raven.

Ironically, this video is what got me interested in reading poetry, esp classic stuff. Tysm! The way you describe poetry is beautiful

How the fuck is poetry niche

I LOVE THAT U INCLUDED RANI LAXMIBAI HERE OMG

ur yt shorts give wes anderson vibes

I'm a poet on Instagram, and you have no idea how many times I facepalmed over other accounts' poems being 'fake deep'.

Your poetic voice remains incomplete until your face covers most of the screen, and you wiggle the fingers

I think Shakespeare kinda sucks 😂 he had his place in time but it's not something I enjoy reading nowadays. I think the purpose of art is inspiring by FREEDOM and not by following stupid rules

A friend took me to see Rupi Kaur and she was the worst! I blame her for instagram poetry!

the real answer is because all the good poets are called "rappers" nowadays

Great video

Fin; Did I tho?

I feel like the script for this video was poem by you called Gate Keeping. Btw I’m not going to list all 30 (37 now) unrelated questions. I’m a look at all or enough content to see if maybe you answered the question in other videos. And whatever’s left, yea I’ll send yea

2 minutes and 44 seconds in and i already have 30 unrelated questions to ask you….this is gonna be an interesting night/morning

Hahahahaha gen Z is the MOST cringe. Boomers seem annoying to every other Gen because what they got is sickeningly LUCKY and someone with an 8th grade education now has multimillion+ dollars spread all over the place making even more money to spend, donate, or pass down to kids etc. then you have my gen (which personally i think is the best one to belong to) we aren't afraid of much, dont care about anything (except our kids) have the best music are aging gorgeously and we economically we are all over the place some rich some not, non of us shy away from challenge work or adversity. Millenniums. Idk what to say. As I recall they have never even for a minute been considered cool, strong, independent, or self starters. I swear they vaporize if they hear or see something that is "offensive" to them. Gen x does not get offended. If an ignorant mofo wants to be an idiot we take pleasure in showing them the error of their ways. Millennium=cringe. Say the made up word "adulting" again.... Ugh Then there is Gen. Z. Oh holy hell. Where the hell did you people come from? Who raised you? I have two gen z kids and two alphas. Let's just say my gen z offspring decided they wanted all the attention and to fit it with all their peers that had traumatic upbringings. Soooo my upper middle class spawn told their fable to their peers bosses partners etc then went no contact with me their dad and my 2 alphas. I said Happy trails deleted their numbers and any and all contact avenues blocked them out of my alphas electronics and things have been so nice ever since. I liked that no contact thing they taught me so *I* decided to not just go no contact with the entire rest of my extremely abusive family (not my parents they were amazing unfortunately they died way too young) so with this new found courage i told them ALL how I felt about them one by one including the person I used to call brother. It was cathartic. Then blocked every one of them in every way possible and it was the best thing to happen to me. I find myself that my adult kids are the rule not the exception in Gen z. You guys are soooo difficult to understand, to get to know, to be around, to listen to, and to like. God save us all if there ever comes a time when there are a lot of genzs in positions of power. The white house will have to install a "feelings room" for all butthurt staff to go to to cry over the fact that not everybody intends to vote for the candidate THEY want. And don't get me started on the Jesus Christ on a bikes audacity of you people thinking others should refer to you in the plural. Fucking no. You are an individual. Love as you like. But you will only have the impact, take up the room, and no matter what story you have convinced yourself, you will always just been one human. Find yourself a singular pronoun. Idgaf what you choose to do to your body if you used to be Jill now you're jack fucking awesome congrats. I will always respect all identities. I will never address an individual as a plural. Now go find your safe place and cry. I'm not the only one that feels that way. Gen alpha. Too young to really dunk on besides the stupid skin care thing that's in their idiot parents that are PRAYING for a kid to be an influencer so they can steal all the money. It's true. Not to pay my own back, maybe I am a little, but my two gen alphas are effortlessly self confident smart strong have the best sense of humor and beautiful and handsome. It is my belief that when gen alpha is in college they will begin to take over their particular countries then eventually will be world and country leaders. They will skip the stupid fear of adulthood and the annoying failure to launch yet believe that anything that goes against what they think or want is racist and offensive and is a personal attack so instead of trying to settle any conflict like an adult they stomp over to tik Tok and whine and annoy literally everyone which is why i ignore tik toks existence. There you go. The very blunt opinion of a Gex X woman that is bored of this whole thing avoids genz and really, with every fiber of my being, just doesn't care

Gen Z is already cringe. Boomers, Gen X and Millennials are not irrelevant. No generation of people is irrelevant. The problem with Gen Z is that they ironically are the most obsessed with age groups and generationalism while at the same time being the least productive and least creative generation in almost 100 years. Gen Z Slang - Late 90s. Gen Z rap - Late 90s/Mid 2010s Gen Z fashion - Late 90s Gen Z rock - Early 90s Gen Z Politics - 2010s Gen Z Literature - Non-existent (Gen Z can't write for shit) Gen Z Philosophy - Non-Existent (Gen Z are the worst philosophers since the 1910s) Gen Z Art - Non-Existent (Gen Z created the least amount of artists in recorded history) Gen Z tech - Non-existent (Gen Z in study after study show are less technical than Millennials and Gen X) But because internet memes and a few tiktoks Gen Z wants to act like they created today's culture when they didn't. The future is going to laugh at Gen Z in ways no generation has ever seen. Boomers created the transistor era, Gen X created the internet, Millennials created social media. Gen Z has created...... literally nothing, and the oldest Gen Z are already 29. All Gen Z does is judge and judge and judge and obsess over age groups while creating nothing but idiotic videos. It's insane.

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I apologized to the guy who hit me from behind and totaled my car while I was sitting at a stoplight. I didn’t mean to apologize to him. It was just a reflex, but it’s telling that it’s such an ingrained reflex that I apologized in a situation where nobody thought I did anything wrong. The driver’s brake went out. He felt bad about hitting my car. The cop was complimentary because I avoided hitting the cars in front of me when my car was pushed forward.

Transmasculine Non Binary person here (obvs AFAB)... we got the same chip girl, ofc I over apologize... but... slowly with my transition I have been leaving it behind, and to add to the point at the end of the video... I was aware and actually didn't want to lose it (unless it actually harms me)... cause I too have always thought *some* people (ehem, men+) should apologize more... HAHHAA and I defined apologize passive aggressively to aggresors hahaha

I have this but instead of saying sorry I blindly give things sometimes to my detriment, like when someone on the street asks for money or food

6:30 this actually reminds me of how so many abuse victims (like me), struggle to cope with how abusers are able to "seek us out" to be able to abuse us, i've always wondered how i got so unlucky coming across so many abusive people in my lifetime, it felt like i was just doomed to attract these kinds of people forever, and it's probably little things like over-apologising that abuse victims don't even realise they're doing in their day-to-day life that signals to abusers that they can get away with abusing you with stuff like this.. it makes sense why women are abused at higher rates than men

background music was so loud and distracting i couldn’t finish the video

25:07 Oh, yeah.I remember a few years ago when melanie martinez was being blasted for getting mad at her fans for taking pictures of her without her permission. Like no, you ask before you take a picture of someone.She has every right to get mad.

Oh yeah image confidence like somebody I was friends with called me pretty and I said I know in a joking manner like Then I got the worst glare ever. Like they expected a thank you.

I overly apologize a lot even when I didn't do anything that I feel it's my fault but it isn't .

I can’t stop saying sorry because I was a victim of human trafficking. I didn’t apologize a lot before being punished for taking showers or eating alone in the table. I apologized because I slept over after only having 2 hours of sleep every day in an eleven hour job. I don’t want to stop saying sorry, I want people to stop defining me for that, because I always have to give this uncomfortable explanation. I wish people were ok with people who apologizes a lot. I am not trying my best not to do it because I really think I’m not doing anything wrong yet you people are wrong by remembering me a lot in different situations that I do this often and I didn’t used to. I need to say it because it has made me very upset to see this video on my feed when I don’t even watch you. I know I say that often, I’m ok with it. I don’t know why the society makes me think like I’m in the wrong and not the abusers that make people apologize too much. I’m ok with it but not ok with people reminding me I doubt

Glad to have a dad who called me out on this behavior. He also had a serious problem with society in general and passed down his f*ck em all attitude to me. I consider an all around win.

Mm this was so good. Chef's kiss. I can't believe your videos don't get more traction! But 700!! Omg let's goo that's soo good 🥺 just wait till the video essay girlies/ them find you! Ahh I can't wait to listen to more.

I dont know how you did the audio but I'm enchanted by the way your voice comes through on this video. Like the windmill verse in the gorillaz song.

This is a great video but could you pleas emake the background music quieter

this was such a great video.. ! so in-depth..! i say sorry way too often; this all hit so hard. im going to my best in applying mindfulness towards my language and the subsequent behaviors that come as a result of what language im using :') i looooove your look..! your eyeliner gives me such a retro vibe.. and, ahhh omg your name is hans, and my name is also hans !!!!! im looking forward to watching all your future videos.. ! :)

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I bumped into a woman watching this and we both kept saying sorry. lol I😂😂

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Deadass I have been talking with my girlfriend about this. I was taught to try not to take up a ton of space because of how negatively black men get perceived. Both of us over apologize. But we try to hold each-other accountable in overcoming it! Thanks for this!

If you find a research paper behind a paywall, see if you can find an email address for the author and reach out to them directly and ask if they can send it to you. Usually, they tend to be so pleased someone wants to read their work, they’ll just send it. If they did a whole study and wrote a whole paper on the subject, they’re truly passionate and I’ve found that most seem to want to share their passion projects with the world, journals be damned.

Andrea Gibson, Richard Siken, Ada Limon, Kae Tempest, Matthew Dickman, Warsan Shire. Just a few modern poets to cleanse the palate from NotesApp + Insta 'poetry'. As a writer/poet, nothing fills me with more rage than seeing some lineated deepity sold off as poetry.

The background music was so distracting it feels too loud, I’m so sorry my brain can’t do it. I will try again another time bc I really wanna see your take on this topic!

Wow, how do you have less than 1000 follwers? You totally deserve wayyyy more.

This is a huge thing in the queer community too, regardless of gender. Society tells us our mere presence is offensive so we feel like we always have to apologize

I do agree that women apologize too much for little things. But whats funny is the ones that really hurt me in a big way somehow never felt the need to apologize.

I say sorry all the time and im amab (assigned male at birth) i was just constantly used to getting guilt tripped from making any sort of mistake in my family life i make Lots of mistakes im austistic so it happens and because of that i say sorry at any sort of inconvenience even if its not an inconvenience 😭

So SICK of these safe ass poems! I can smell an MFA graduate a mile away. Any of their poems are completely unrelatable. That's how you know. It's an easy tell and quick to spot!

Critique if you're in a headspace to listen: The BGM is competing with your voice, you should turn it down by like ~20% so your voice is shining through.

Backround music is too loud seems like itd be a great video though and like you know what youre talking about

I used to tell my sister she needed to stop swearing and apologizing so much, and every time she'd say, "Shit, I'm sorry." While giving girls more confidence is good, maybe boys could have used more of those kind of ambiguous messages and maybe learning they need to use empathy and judgment, then we might see fewer dudes who won't shut the &$#! up about things theey know nothing about, or acti g like the wait staff should treat them as the Lord of the Manor because they deigned eat at Olive Garden.

About the not apologizing enough being a more common mistake and the trojan horse, I absolutely agree. There are many guys, especially one dude, in my class, that do not know the word sorry, no matter what they do. Especially that dude to me, since his crush and I have beef, and I absolutely love saying sorry to him and not change what I said sorry for. For eg anytime I somehow take up his space (which most of the time was MINE) I say sorry and make myself bigger, anytime he bumps into me because he does not care if he causes someone else to spill their paint, I make a point out of tripping him and so on and so forth. Learning how to not be a doormat took long, but it's worth it every time ✨✨

little volume suggestion: I'd suggest increasing the audio for your talking and/or decreasing the audio of the background music. It was just kinda hard to hear you, (really struggling to not end this sentence with an apology lol.)