@Us Us Maybe, but Joao is acting much differently this season compared to last (except for some rude comments to Aesha). However, you're allowed to evaluate yourself, change, grow, and mature as a person. This is by no means definitive, but judging by his behavior/actions this season it appears Joao has made an effort to change for the better. This is coming from a Joao hater last season. Lastly, you mention Joao pretends to be Mr. sensitive in between acting out aggressively. You can be sensitive and aggressive. Many people are. These are not mutually exclusive qualities. I'm not excusing his behavior from last season or his poor moments from this season, just clarifying something that you potentially overlooked. That is all :)
If you've noticed, João's few rude comments that he's made this season come only when he is drinking too much. I absolutely hated him last season, too, but he has really redeemed himself. He was kind of like the Travis of last season, binge-drinking and acting like a prick. But seeing himself like that on TV - combined with having his heart broken by Brooke - have really caused him to take a good look at his life and make some changes, and I respect that. The morning after his last judgmental comment about Aesha's dancing, he reflected on it (to Colin, I think) and said, "Why do I do that? That's me done for drinking." Because he realizes he's going to lose the crew's respect if he does that. And I don't think we've seen him make another comment like that since that night, because he hasn't gotten overly drunk and let 'Jezabub' out. I think that's part of the reason Travis' drunken behaviour bothers him so much - because it reminds him a bit of himself when he gets smashed. That, and he can't stomach violence against women, for obvious reasons. I really respect João for the changes he's made in his life since last year. Most of the time, he's kind and respectful to everyone on the ship - as long as he feels like everyone else is pulling their weight. A few of them call him 'The Morality Police', but for the most part, I agree with him. I never, ever thought I'd actually find myself liking and respecting João this season, but I do. Travis could change a few things about himself too, if he really wanted to, but he's too busy denying he has a problem. Until he recognizes that he does, that's not going to change. I really thought slapping Anastasia might be a wake-up call, but no, not only is he whitewashing that as "normal behavior," he feels like she's turned on HIM for calling him out on his drinking. It's a shame, because he'll ultimately find himself friendless if he keeps this up. Well, except for fellow partier/slackers like Jack...
Bottom line... stop blaming culture, or what you do to your buddies. You were drunk, and it hurt her, and affected her. Take responsibility and quit trying to excuse drunken abusive behavior.
@Josh Alfirenko absolutely. I personally know many people who are outstanding citizens when they are sober and wonderful warm-hearted... But they second they get drunk the demons come. The important thing is to tackle the issue and try to abstain from getting to that level of drunkenness if you can help it. And if you can't, seek help.
If it really hurt her then she would press legal charges for assault. Exaggerating horse-play into violent abuse is probably offensive to those who have actually been abused for real. The same type of delusional b.s. from women claiming being cat-called on the street is equal to being raped.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn I would never have an issue with a friend doing that to me, but my friends and I know that about each other, you can't just assume everyone else is ok with getting slapped in the face. Is it abuse? No, but just because an action isn't bad enough to be considered abuse doesn't make it ok.
termitater squared Agreed! I hate when they use their “culture”. Just like when the Jersey Housewives misbehave and day “We’re Italian!” So what! I’m Italian and I don’t scream at people in a restaurant, flip tables, throw cake or break glasses.
Can we stop calling that a "love tap"? Zero respect for a man who tries to justify slapping a woman on the face because he thinks it's funny. There is nothing to "appreciate" about that regardless of the culture.
You really disrespect the power of a man by thinking that love tap was anything close to a man's full strength. It didn't hurt at all, a human's pain tolerance is much higher.
So people who DON’T want to be slapped in the face aren’t fun and are too sensitive? 🤔 Twisted logic. How about just apologizing and saying you were wrong? Maybe you do that to your mates but you don’t do that unless you KNOW you have that dynamic with someone. Grow up and admit you were wrong!
If he really slapped her in a violent way that actually caused any pain, he would have been fired with legal charges filed. Even Aesha saw that Anastasia is overreacting playing the victim because she craves attention.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn it doesn't matter if it was strong or not, she never allowed him to invade her space and touch her, she was sleeping; maybe someone else can be chill about it but if you don't have the consent you never know hoe the other person can react, she said how she was in an aggressive relationship with someone before, that could have been triggering to that time, let's be mindful of people's spaces. It was wrong, no excuses are valid.
I agree. Joao acted the way I would have expected someone to react after seeing a woman being slapped by a man. No one should put their hands on another human being whether male or female.
Kudos to Hannah, she was appalled with Travis for doing what he did. I am surprised with Capt Sandy, Travis should of have some consequences. She should of been more vocal about it.
Yep, she didn't know. Anastasia decided not to go to her about it, but to try to talk to Travis about his drinking instead (which ultimately did no good). I don't think Sandy knew about it until much later, maybe even when the program aired (unless we see otherwise on future episodes). You can see she's still pretty speechless about it here. And speechless is not normally Captain Sandy's M.O...
He slaps her then HE decides when they’re done talking about it? He is such a misogynist ego maniac narcissist who can’t see anything from another’s point of view.
Actually the narcissist is the attention seeking Anastasia lying about a love tap causing real pain, when it wasn't even strong enough to squash a bug.
I legit gasped out loud when he slapped her! Had that been me I would have sucker punched him right in his drunk face! Don’t put your hands on people especially their face! This was a perfect example of why I try & avoid being around drunk people at all costs! They are unpredictable & dangerous!
That wasn’t a love tap at all. Nor do i think you should slap somebodies face, period. Like Anastasia it was a trigger cause she was in an abusive relationship....
I agree with u 💯 percent. As well as Aesha she when her boo made a joke about her face looked as if she was getting rapped it triggered her and she got ticked off at that moment until she cooled down. So she cannot be judging, if she was in her shoes when she already behaved a way that she got triggered.
Star G I thought the same thing, they lack empathy.... and realizing that maybe to them it didn’t seem that big of a deal but to a victim of domestic volience it takes them back to a dark place
Part of Australian culture? I am Australian and I have never seen anyone do that! Ever! He is a total creep. He is in total denial about his alcoholism. Twice he prioritised getting drunk ahead of having a date with Hannah and enjoying that exquisite hotel in Monte Carlo. Then as a bonus he tells the waitress to #*!# off! But "its not a problem". Ugh. Repulsive.
In this episode, he has issues that is why he turned to drinking because it's easier to forget things than working on the problem. He might considered seeing a therapist.
pete t That IS NOT true. He is making that up to explain himself. I worked VERY hard served in the military tours in Iraq and I never slapped anyone ever before.
Jack isn't helping by whitewashing his behaviour as 'social drinking,' either. I think even Jack knows that's BS, but he's afraid to say anything to Travis's face because he knows Travis will take that as Jack 'turning on him,' too. I have been in Travis' position, and I lost a lot of friends simply because they called me out on my alcoholism - and those were the ones who cared to stick around. It's hard to watch him come up with so many rationalizations as to why everyone else is wrong about his drinking and his poor behaviour. It's going to take a LOT for this guy to wake up and smell the coffee.
They always make excuses for each others leud and reckless behavior! Her voice is so annoying and some of her behavior is sooooo off, but she seems to be loyal, sweet and has a kind heart that's overshadowed by her prison behavior!
Anastasia is just a drama queen looking to play the victim, overreacting to a playful slap that didn't really hurt at all, just because Anastasia craves attention. Aesha is a cool modern age girl that has fun being treated as one of the guys, while Anastasia is still operating under the old female mindset of wanting to be put on a pedestal like a frail little baby that needs to be tiptoed around.
@chollettgarrett Tbf on previous times the crew went out, Travis was drunk and acted in not ideal ways so if anything Joao suspicions weren't wrong if he suspected Travis would act idioticaly again.
So irritating to hear Travis minimize what he done. No ownership. He back tracked and said that it was cultural. Bullshit. Then Aesha and Jack minimizing it as well, and even Anastasia sorta giving him a pass with the whole: he really helped me in the galley a lot. He may have helped you in the galley, but he also smacked or gave you an unsuspected 'love tap' while your eyes were closed. I mean, I wouldn't be fine or okay with it. And I'm not entirely sure she is either, but don't excuse bad behaviour, even when someone has been helpful. It only fuels perpetrators into thinking that they can and then they will.
No minimizing, Travis is just telling the truth of what actually occurred when selfish Anastasia massively overreacted because she craves attention. By the way, Anastasia was punching Travis earlier. By the way Anastasia was falling asleep at the table. Two double standards showing why women are still not equal to men no matter how much this feminism claims otherwise. You don't want to be treated as equals, you want to be allowed extra leeway to get away with stuff that you so hypocritically have a problem with men doing.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn Wow. Seems like you have some strong opinions. I'm going to disagree. I don't recall Anastasia punching a sleeping Travis. I also don't recall Anastasia being so drunk, on MULTIPLE occasions, that she fell asleep at the table. But hey, I'm sure you are a 'nice guy' and are just stating the facts. No one deserves to get slapped or given a 'love tap' while they are unaware. But, Mr. Nice Guy, feel free to respond. All 'Nice Guys' would lol
@@christinew1663 You didn't notice the man being hit by the woman, because men aren't irrational cry babies making a big deal out of nothing just for some attention. Anastasia sleeping at the table was the reason Travis gave her that love tap to wake her up... how brainless are you... very it seems.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn Wow. Again. Wow. Let's assume Anastasia was actually sleeping at the table, and just didn't have her eyes closed. And let's assume (for your argument) that she was shit faced drunk at the time (and not drunk, and just closing her eyes after many shit services as a chef) Did anyone actually hit Travis, who was shit faced drunk multiple times out in public (as well on the boat, not on service as I recall) while he was sleeping off his drunken stupor at the table, or when he wrangled the cork screw off the table server to 'try' and open a bottle? Did that happen when? Look bud, if you have an issue with 'feminism' or women in general, I would advise you to seek some help. But I truly think that you are just a troll, with some serious self confidence issues and are just looking to blame them on feminism. That isn't what my point was and I don't think that this was the take of many on what happened. If you ever move out of your mom's basement, and got over your insecurities, you might see that treating ALL people with just basic decency, is much better than blaming it on feminism.
@@christinew1663 It is a fact that Anastasia was punching Travis earlier in the day, apparently opening herself up to being okay with horseplay. It is clear you have no relevant rebuttal to the two different instances of double-standard hypocrisy, when you have to resort to making up nonsense stories. Pathetic.
its not happening and if it did to me i would call the cops. in australia this is not acceptable. think they had to make it work for tv. disappointed on this message that Australians do this. they do not
It was nice Joao came to Anastasia's defense, but don't forget the many nasty, humiliating things he has said to women when he was drunk. At least he's cleaned up his act this season. Both he and Travis need to stay away from alcohol.
@Us Us Well, for one thing, he's not flirting and coming on to two women at the same time, and he seems to be drinking less and being more serious about his job. But, yeah, he still needs to work on being judgmental. We all have something we need to work on. I think he has potential.
So what if João was waiting? If Travis hadn’t done it, João couldn’t have said anything. Listening to the “defense” of his actions, is laughable. C’mon! If João had done it to you Aesha, you would be ticked off!
If Joao was "waiting" it's because the entire restaurant could see Travis was smashed and didn't know what he was going to do next and as Collin says Travis behavior was getting worse each time they went out. Joao being the Bosun even during off hours meant he was in charge of handling the situation.
@Nates Grandma I agree completely. Travis needs help. He has a drinking problem. And I’m more than a little tired of seeing Aesha & Jack groping each other. I have no problem with them being a couple but it was rather gross watching them “tongue swirling” & playing tonsil hockey in the kitchen while Anastasia was cooking. Get a room guys.
kkossor I think if he was waiting which it didn’t seem that way to me but I didn’t watch the show just this clip it’s probably because he was able to read a drunk persons body language and also intuition! If I think someone is going to do something I def have my eye on them
Right like how are they all like omg he totally overreacted to seeing a grown man SLAP a woman?? And he was “waiting” to be a “knight in shinning armor” like wtf he wasn’t over reacting & stepping in to tell him off because he like didn’t open a door for her or said something rude. Idc if he didn’t do it hard enough so it wouldn’t hurt bad that’s fucking RUDE like crossing the line. U aren’t with ur mates back home but ur coworkers ur friendly with. Just admit u were wrong & misjudged the situation
zdwade i disagree. Travis was so drunk. He smacked Anastasia while EYES CLOSED!! You could hear it!! Had he been sober and did it, he’d not likely had done it because he’s a fucking man & she’s a woman. And don’t get me wrong, if it were a woman hitting a man, it wouldn’t be ok either. It’s just respect ✊
@@MelsLife570 Women playfully hit men all the time and we never say anything because the fact is it doesn't actually hurt at all, even for women. Men just aren't crybaby drama queens looking to play the victim every chance there is. By the way, that is another double standard of the female being allowed to fall asleep at the table when it was considered so inappropriate for travis to do so earlier.
@@MelsLife570 He wasn't fully asleep either, but not admitting fault for your double standards and pulling justifications out of your backside is a woman's specialty, isn't it.
Jenny Mosley-Wu I agree! I couldn’t believe Ashia would ever justify that kind of behavior. She’s too worried about being the life of the party and stranded up for her “friend” than standing up for what is right.
Oh how sad for you a woman is exposing your gender's exaggerated lies, that you create for no reason than enjoying the attention received by playing a victim.
EXACTLY! I just made a comment about this above, on the main thread. Jack is whitewashing everything Travis does wrong, and it's not helping anything but Travis's (apparently) fragile ego.
First off, hello fellow Amy! Second, I agree! He seems like a genuinely nice/good guy. Definitely not one of those "nice guys" that have ulterior motives. I've liked him since I first saw him.
No sorry, I'm Aussie and it's not 'cultural' to slap each other in the face. It may be something he does with his circle of friends but don't call it cultural.
You can tell Captain Sandy never knew about the situation and from her reaction, Travis is probably lucky that Captain Sandy didn't know about it because it wouldn't of been pretty for him.
Travis saying that Anastasia had time to think about the incident and then making him look bad ( 9:17 ) pisses me off so much. I can't even count how many times a male co-worker has made me feel uncomfortable and I've just nervously laughed it off as not a big deal until later when I'm alone I rethink the situation over and realize that their actions actually weren't ok. I don't think I've ever gone after the person later on and told them how their actions made me feel uncomfortable, so good on her for standing up for herself.
I'm so sorry that you've had to endure that 😢 I know.. many women will laugh when uncomfortable. I think some men DO see they're making someone uncomfortable, they enjoy it, and will keep pushing. It's disgusting. Everyone deserves to have their space respected and everyone deserves to feel comfortable in their work environment!
I can't believe he's still making excuses after watching it himself. It appalls me, seeing it again. Keep your hands to yourself. It was a slap...no "love tap" about it.
Men who are lazy get to be puppies who you can’t get mad at. When I think about how the female stus who have been accused of being lazy are treated.. there is a double standard with women being held to a higher standard on this show and the men getting away with mistakes and laziness because they are charming.
that's so true, and its generally like that in this industry ,Im speaking from the point of view of a flight attendant I cant speak for others in hospitality but it cant be too different
Me too. You do not EVER lay your hands on another person unless it's in self defence because you don't know what that person's capable of, do they have a knife? I'm from Glasgow and we have a massive knife problem.
How is slapping someone “culture”. Sounds more like to me that the culture is the excessive drinking to the point you can’t control your actions. That ain’t cute.
It’s a cultural thing? BS and Umm a 4 finger slap that is hard will hurt as much as a 5 finger slap. He may not have slapped her very hard, but that doesn’t mean it didn’t hurt. Best rule to follow is probably not to smack someone especially you’ve only known a couple months
I dont think anastasia is good enough friends with travis for him to be that way with her. Aisha is travis friend, to compare the two is ridiculous. People have different boundaries... travis, jack and aesha dont have boundaries at all. Respect other peoples.
I don't like Joao but am totally with him when he went for Travis. if I told anyone about that kind of behaviour and he told me to piss off I would have punched him in the face right then and not stopped until they dragged me off.
Travis: you are so full of it! And Jack: get your head out of Travis’s butt! That is NOT how you show love! And you do not work hard. And Jack doesn’t work at all!
That was not a “love tap” so please quit calling it that! He slapped her in the face and their is no justification for what he did! Period! The fact that Jack and Aesha defend this is unbelievable! I know plenty of people from down under and have asked them if this is “customary” and they’ve all said it’s not. So yes Travis you are an alcoholic and border on being a woman abuser!
Good question. One producer on Potomac accused Michael for sexually assaulting him for bumping into him. This was clearly assualt that the world witnessed. And nothing was done about it.
Joao was right to react like that and they even pointed out how Colin on of the most cool people on the ship had to point out how out of control Travis’ drinking was
@@SuperBellaChicka Anastasia put her hands on the men earlier jokingly punching them, nobody even noticed because men aren't irrational drama queen cry babies.
NO-ONE I repeat NO-ONE should get physical with anyone else. Not a light smack, a love tap whatever. In my honest opinion the people not reacting is worse than an over reaction. I am glad Joao stood up, Aesha sounds like she would blame the victim for getting abused. I am very proud of all the South-Africans on this show. I've watched lots of clips and their attitude, work ethic and general comportment is step above the rest.
The fact that Ashia , Jack, Travis and Anastasia are giving Travis a pass on this is absolutely ridiculous. Travis was drunk and out of control. I’m appalled with all four of them. Don’t care to see this group on any other season. Joao has changed so much this season. Love him.
Oh no, not one of your own kind, a woman spilling the truth about your gender's constant overreactions, for no reason other than you girls get a cheap thrill out of being drama queens.
@Us Us Can you really be considered mature Women when you act like little crybabies throwing temper tantrums over anything and everything. Just little baby girls.
I call BS to that comment! Joao has an issue with Men hitting or attacking a woman as was shown on the episode where the person from the neighboring boat came on and starting going after the baseball guys wife he promptly escorted him off in no uncertain terms!
@Josh Alfirenko New York. I come from a warm, loving Italian family. My father would never raise a hand to my mother. I have alot of uncles...who are so proud of their wives and daughters, you never slap a woman in the face...not cool Travis.
Never put your hands on someone that are in a vulnerable state. I’m sure Travis didn’t really learn anything from the last two years in regards to a woman’s personal space.
It wasn’t blown out of proportion at all... Travis clearly wasn’t raised properly. You can never hit someone playfully it is always disrespectful between no matter the gender you’re hitting/the one doing the hitting.
I love Aesha and Jack but to excuse travis’ actions with culture and say Joao overreacted was disappointing. As someone who has had experience with an alcoholic, what they think is a “light tap” really isn’t. The fact that the influence of alcohol was brushed over [with colin only mentioning it] is really not it because that is the root of the problem
I’ve served with women, I’ve worked with women, I’ve worked for women… I never felt the need to “carry” them, it’s a level playing field. No one will hit a women in my presence and not learn consequences. That’s what you call a parenting fail.
Not going to lie the explanation Travis gave was Monday morning quarterbacking if you ask me. And Jack's laziness just befuddle me. How they both were not fired after the slap is the wrong image for women out there. I just pray that eventually karma equals up with them both. Bc this is such the wrong message to give with such a young audience and such a big platform.
Ok. So in Australia is ok to slap a woman. Yep. I guess I will not go there. Aesha, you are wrong in this one. If you are ok with that. Joao 100% right. Anastasia, it's so hard on herself. She rocked. Oh, Jack.😂star gazer
Oh my god! This crew makes me sick. The only person that did the right thing was Joao! I hate that everyone sympathizes with the drunk jerk! This is really bad. Bravo please step in and prove you don’t condone this behavior.
I’m shocked at how these guys, and that one girl think it’s okay. They’re really over here justifying it. He should’ve gotten fired immediately. Good for Joao to step up like that.
So if you accidentally throw up on someone, that's unacceptable and you're a d-bag, but if you intentionally smack a sleeping girl on the face, that's okay, because it was all just fun and "drunken banter"? That's brilliant logic, Travis. Go drink another keg of beer.
I def wouldn’t appreciate being woken up by being slapped in the face. Even tho it wasn’t that hard. It was the principle of it. You don’t wake anyone up by slapping them across a face. Especially a woman. You can fool around with your guy friends like that but not a young woman you met 3 weeks ago. And once Joao explained his reaction, it makes a lot more sense but even putting that experience aside, I don’t think he over reacted.
Wait what?? That’s how we show love?? It’s not culture it’s being a jackass. And the constant excuses and trying to explain his way out is baffling to me. It’s not funny. It’s not banter, it’s not cultural it’s 100% unacceptable. The co-stars making excuses for Travis’ behavior is frankly just as bad
Travis is obviously an alcoholic, and it’s disgusting how he is justifying his behavior. Victim blaming at its best him trashing Anastasia after she decided to tell him how that slap really made her feel. Jack and Aesha making excuses for his behavior is crap too. Man or woman- you don’t hit people. Period. It’s not hard to keep your hands to yourself.
He did hit a woman, end of so it’s wrong for jack to say he didn’t! Whether he was drunk or not, the bottom line is he did hit a woman as his hand imapacted with her face... how do people not recognise that is hitting 🤷🏽♀️
🙄🙄🙄 Travis talking shit on the guest (who def should’ve apologized)... and yet if Travis had spewed on the camera man you know he would NOT apologize and try to normalize it 🤣🙄🙄... and jack would’ve backed him 🙄🙄🙄
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Joao absolutely did not over-react. I would hope someone would stand up for me like that if another man slapped me.
I would defend your honor...If any man would raise a hand or speak out of line to my sister...then they are going to answer to me...
@Us Us Maybe, but Joao is acting much differently this season compared to last (except for some rude comments to Aesha). However, you're allowed to evaluate yourself, change, grow, and mature as a person. This is by no means definitive, but judging by his behavior/actions this season it appears Joao has made an effort to change for the better. This is coming from a Joao hater last season. Lastly, you mention Joao pretends to be Mr. sensitive in between acting out aggressively. You can be sensitive and aggressive. Many people are. These are not mutually exclusive qualities. I'm not excusing his behavior from last season or his poor moments from this season, just clarifying something that you potentially overlooked. That is all :)
@Us Us You very well could be right.
Absolutely right!
If you've noticed, João's few rude comments that he's made this season come only when he is drinking too much. I absolutely hated him last season, too, but he has really redeemed himself. He was kind of like the Travis of last season, binge-drinking and acting like a prick. But seeing himself like that on TV - combined with having his heart broken by Brooke - have really caused him to take a good look at his life and make some changes, and I respect that. The morning after his last judgmental comment about Aesha's dancing, he reflected on it (to Colin, I think) and said, "Why do I do that? That's me done for drinking." Because he realizes he's going to lose the crew's respect if he does that. And I don't think we've seen him make another comment like that since that night, because he hasn't gotten overly drunk and let 'Jezabub' out. I think that's part of the reason Travis' drunken behaviour bothers him so much - because it reminds him a bit of himself when he gets smashed. That, and he can't stomach violence against women, for obvious reasons. I really respect João for the changes he's made in his life since last year. Most of the time, he's kind and respectful to everyone on the ship - as long as he feels like everyone else is pulling their weight. A few of them call him 'The Morality Police', but for the most part, I agree with him. I never, ever thought I'd actually find myself liking and respecting João this season, but I do.
Travis could change a few things about himself too, if he really wanted to, but he's too busy denying he has a problem. Until he recognizes that he does, that's not going to change. I really thought slapping Anastasia might be a wake-up call, but no, not only is he whitewashing that as "normal behavior," he feels like she's turned on HIM for calling him out on his drinking. It's a shame, because he'll ultimately find himself friendless if he keeps this up. Well, except for fellow partier/slackers like Jack...
Bottom line... stop blaming culture, or what you do to your buddies. You were drunk, and it hurt her, and affected her. Take responsibility and quit trying to excuse drunken abusive behavior.
@Josh Alfirenko absolutely. I personally know many people who are outstanding citizens when they are sober and wonderful warm-hearted... But they second they get drunk the demons come. The important thing is to tackle the issue and try to abstain from getting to that level of drunkenness if you can help it. And if you can't, seek help.
If it really hurt her then she would press legal charges for assault. Exaggerating horse-play into violent abuse is probably offensive to those who have actually been abused for real. The same type of delusional b.s. from women claiming being cat-called on the street is equal to being raped.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn I would never have an issue with a friend doing that to me, but my friends and I know that about each other, you can't just assume everyone else is ok with getting slapped in the face. Is it abuse? No, but just because an action isn't bad enough to be considered abuse doesn't make it ok.
termitater squared Agreed! I hate when they use their “culture”. Just like when the Jersey Housewives misbehave and day “We’re Italian!” So what! I’m Italian and I don’t scream at people in a restaurant, flip tables, throw cake or break glasses.
hurt her? while its a douchey move, it did not hurt her....
Can we stop calling that a "love tap"? Zero respect for a man who tries to justify slapping a woman on the face because he thinks it's funny. There is nothing to "appreciate" about that regardless of the culture.
Stop yourself.
You really disrespect the power of a man by thinking that love tap was anything close to a man's full strength. It didn't hurt at all, a human's pain tolerance is much higher.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn You are too funny. Completely missing the point.
@@a.m.3921 The point is it was harmless horseplay not a real slap, if no pain was involved, so shut the hell up with your delusional b.s. fool.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn If Travis had actually hurt Anastasia, no doubt he would've been fired immediately. The point is, his action was inappropriate, period.
So people who DON’T want to be slapped in the face aren’t fun and are too sensitive? 🤔 Twisted logic. How about just apologizing and saying you were wrong? Maybe you do that to your mates but you don’t do that unless you KNOW you have that dynamic with someone. Grow up and admit you were wrong!
If he really slapped her in a violent way that actually caused any pain, he would have been fired with legal charges filed. Even Aesha saw that Anastasia is overreacting playing the victim because she craves attention.
Jon Doe wow you’re really under every comment I’m literally dying at how pathetic you are 😂😂😂
@@thaliap3125 And still not one relevant rebuttal from any of you brainless broads
@@JonDoe-dz9tn it doesn't matter if it was strong or not, she never allowed him to invade her space and touch her, she was sleeping; maybe someone else can be chill about it but if you don't have the consent you never know hoe the other person can react, she said how she was in an aggressive relationship with someone before, that could have been triggering to that time, let's be mindful of people's spaces. It was wrong, no excuses are valid.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn stay far away from women!
*women beware, this guy could possibly be a murderer! He hates women *
Sorry....Joao did NOT overreact. Aesha and Jack siding with Travis disgusted me.
Omg yes
I'm glad Joao was there. And Travis should be glad it wasnt me he slapped. He would have wore my chair over his head. Disrespectful as hell.
I agree. Joao acted the way I would have expected someone to react after seeing a woman being slapped by a man. No one should put their hands on another human being whether male or female.
Ruth O'Hara I’m completely feel the same he acted in a way any decent person would. Jack and aesha are troubled minded so they see things differently
You fools are acting like this was a real hit. When a man hits a woman for real, they aren't waking up from it, it will knock them out cold.
Kudos to Hannah, she was appalled with Travis for doing what he did. I am surprised with Capt Sandy, Travis should of have some consequences. She should of been more vocal about it.
I don’t think she knew about it at the time.
@@travler786 Exactly. If no one told her about it, she wouldn't have known until she watched it.
Yep, she didn't know. Anastasia decided not to go to her about it, but to try to talk to Travis about his drinking instead (which ultimately did no good). I don't think Sandy knew about it until much later, maybe even when the program aired (unless we see otherwise on future episodes). You can see she's still pretty speechless about it here. And speechless is not normally Captain Sandy's M.O...
Yeah, captain Sandy should have forbid him to go out, because he was ALWAYS getting to drunk or even have fired him
Hannah was a pos who got fired for drugs use and the bad vibe she brought with every single crew member.
I LOVE that Hanna was like "Uhhh...i'm Australian too...???" She was like whose culture? Where they do that at???
He slaps her then HE decides when they’re done talking about it? He is such a misogynist ego maniac narcissist who can’t see anything from another’s point of view.
Nailed it.
And don’t forget he popped Aesha in the face earlier that night with the seat in the van. He wasn’t sorry for that either. What a pig!
👏👏👏exactly!! He is one that says I am a good guy but so many issues that others pay for it
Actually the narcissist is the attention seeking Anastasia lying about a love tap causing real pain, when it wasn't even strong enough to squash a bug.
Travis actually using the phrase that he doesn't have a problem with alcohol. 😂 😂 😂
I legit gasped out loud when he slapped her! Had that been me I would have sucker punched him right in his drunk face! Don’t put your hands on people especially their face! This was a perfect example of why I try & avoid being around drunk people at all costs! They are unpredictable & dangerous!
Lol
Honestly you never hit the face even if horseplay. If he flicked her ear or gave her a wet willie I wouldn’t care.
I just KNEW he would be fired ASAP. But, no, everyone covered for him.....again. Please fire him! It’s never ok to hit a woman. Period.
I'm afraid my immediate reaction would be throat punch..not clever or funny.. A man slapping a female is not excusable period..
@@kayhathaway6956 shut up It ain't OK to hit anyone you whiteknight
That wasn’t a love tap at all. Nor do i think you should slap somebodies face, period. Like Anastasia it was a trigger cause she was in an abusive relationship....
I agree with u 💯 percent. As well as Aesha she when her boo made a joke about her face looked as if she was getting rapped it triggered her and she got ticked off at that moment until she cooled down. So she cannot be judging, if she was in her shoes when she already behaved a way that she got triggered.
Star G I thought the same thing, they lack empathy.... and realizing that maybe to them it didn’t seem that big of a deal but to a victim of domestic volience it takes them back to a dark place
get a life and shut up
Part of Australian culture? I am Australian and I have never seen anyone do that! Ever! He is a total creep. He is in total denial about his alcoholism. Twice he prioritised getting drunk ahead of having a date with Hannah and enjoying that exquisite hotel in Monte Carlo. Then as a bonus he tells the waitress to #*!# off! But "its not a problem". Ugh. Repulsive.
pete t well said
In this episode, he has issues that is why he turned to drinking because it's easier to forget things than working on the problem. He might considered seeing a therapist.
pete t That IS NOT true. He is making that up to explain himself. I worked VERY hard served in the military tours in Iraq and I never slapped anyone ever before.
Jack isn't helping by whitewashing his behaviour as 'social drinking,' either. I think even Jack knows that's BS, but he's afraid to say anything to Travis's face because he knows Travis will take that as Jack 'turning on him,' too. I have been in Travis' position, and I lost a lot of friends simply because they called me out on my alcoholism - and those were the ones who cared to stick around. It's hard to watch him come up with so many rationalizations as to why everyone else is wrong about his drinking and his poor behaviour. It's going to take a LOT for this guy to wake up and smell the coffee.
pete t . Notice he always is in denial about his drinkng, actions, and unless he acknowledges he has a problem he will not change.
Well said Hannah 3:17 -4:45 👏👏👏👏
Alley yes!!! 👏👏👏👏
Alley and peep Captain Sandy looking at Hannah with a lot of respect while saying that! Yes Hannah!
Alley Very well said Ms. Hannah! 🙏🏼🎉
The only person who seemed to understand the situation?? 👏🏻
Kind of repulsive to see Aesha and Jack stand up for Travis like that. Joao has been killing it this season!
They always make excuses for each others leud and reckless behavior! Her voice is so annoying and some of her behavior is sooooo off, but she seems to be loyal, sweet and has a kind heart that's overshadowed by her prison behavior!
David Manion agree with you!
They are a match made in dirtbag heaven
DEAN S I legit lol at prison behavior!
Anastasia is just a drama queen looking to play the victim, overreacting to a playful slap that didn't really hurt at all, just because Anastasia craves attention. Aesha is a cool modern age girl that has fun being treated as one of the guys, while Anastasia is still operating under the old female mindset of wanting to be put on a pedestal like a frail little baby that needs to be tiptoed around.
Culture? I'm an Aussie, and never heard of this. Might be fine among guys, but hitting a girl is not OK.
our girls have different sense of humours coz they would do the same back and think this was funny
Just shut up
"Hitting"
Honestly this kinda banter is common in New Zealand tbh
@@makovixen81for teenage boys maybe
Travis calling out the guest for not apologizing for throwing up yet he slapped Anastasia and was acting all high and mighty 😒
I’m sorry, I’m an Australian and men do NOT slap people in the face! It is NOT our culture at all. It’s about respect for a person.
I think Joao reacted appropriately.
Robin H agreed.
I agree but Aesha wasn’t wrong that he was waiting for a moment to be mr righteous.
@chollettgarrett Tbf on previous times the crew went out, Travis was drunk and acted in not ideal ways so if anything Joao suspicions weren't wrong if he suspected Travis would act idioticaly again.
So irritating to hear Travis minimize what he done. No ownership. He back tracked and said that it was cultural. Bullshit. Then Aesha and Jack minimizing it as well, and even Anastasia sorta giving him a pass with the whole: he really helped me in the galley a lot. He may have helped you in the galley, but he also smacked or gave you an unsuspected 'love tap' while your eyes were closed. I mean, I wouldn't be fine or okay with it. And I'm not entirely sure she is either, but don't excuse bad behaviour, even when someone has been helpful. It only fuels perpetrators into thinking that they can and then they will.
No minimizing, Travis is just telling the truth of what actually occurred when selfish Anastasia massively overreacted because she craves attention. By the way, Anastasia was punching Travis earlier. By the way Anastasia was falling asleep at the table. Two double standards showing why women are still not equal to men no matter how much this feminism claims otherwise. You don't want to be treated as equals, you want to be allowed extra leeway to get away with stuff that you so hypocritically have a problem with men doing.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn Wow. Seems like you have some strong opinions. I'm going to disagree. I don't recall Anastasia punching a sleeping Travis. I also don't recall Anastasia being so drunk, on MULTIPLE occasions, that she fell asleep at the table. But hey, I'm sure you are a 'nice guy' and are just stating the facts. No one deserves to get slapped or given a 'love tap' while they are unaware. But, Mr. Nice Guy, feel free to respond. All 'Nice Guys' would lol
@@christinew1663 You didn't notice the man being hit by the woman, because men aren't irrational cry babies making a big deal out of nothing just for some attention. Anastasia sleeping at the table was the reason Travis gave her that love tap to wake her up... how brainless are you... very it seems.
@@JonDoe-dz9tn Wow. Again. Wow. Let's assume Anastasia was actually sleeping at the table, and just didn't have her eyes closed. And let's assume (for your argument) that she was shit faced drunk at the time (and not drunk, and just closing her eyes after many shit services as a chef) Did anyone actually hit Travis, who was shit faced drunk multiple times out in public (as well on the boat, not on service as I recall) while he was sleeping off his drunken stupor at the table, or when he wrangled the cork screw off the table server to 'try' and open a bottle? Did that happen when? Look bud, if you have an issue with 'feminism' or women in general, I would advise you to seek some help. But I truly think that you are just a troll, with some serious self confidence issues and are just looking to blame them on feminism. That isn't what my point was and I don't think that this was the take of many on what happened. If you ever move out of your mom's basement, and got over your insecurities, you might see that treating ALL people with just basic decency, is much better than blaming it on feminism.
@@christinew1663 It is a fact that Anastasia was punching Travis earlier in the day, apparently opening herself up to being okay with horseplay. It is clear you have no relevant rebuttal to the two different instances of double-standard hypocrisy, when you have to resort to making up nonsense stories. Pathetic.
I highly doubt women in his culture appreciate being slapped.
J S this culture talk is rubbish...I have never seen or heard of such a thing in the antipodes
@@pixl8me in the what?
I'm aussie and never seen this been acceptable here
@@moodycactus 😉
its not happening and if it did to me i would call the cops. in australia this is not acceptable. think they had to make it work for tv. disappointed on this message that Australians do this. they do not
It was nice Joao came to Anastasia's defense, but don't forget the many nasty, humiliating things he has said to women when he was drunk. At least he's cleaned up his act this season. Both he and Travis need to stay away from alcohol.
@Us Us Well, for one thing, he's not flirting and coming on to two women at the same time, and he seems to be drinking less and being more serious about his job. But, yeah, he still needs to work on being judgmental. We all have something we need to work on. I think he has potential.
Talking is not the same as a slap
@@corie619 can hurt longer though
How is comparing jao to Travis. That is horrible.
So what if João was waiting? If Travis hadn’t done it, João couldn’t have said anything.
Listening to the “defense” of his actions, is laughable. C’mon! If João had done it to you Aesha, you would be ticked off!
If Joao was "waiting" it's because the entire restaurant could see Travis was smashed and didn't know what he was going to do next and as Collin says Travis behavior was getting worse each time they went out. Joao being the Bosun even during off hours meant he was in charge of handling the situation.
@Nates Grandma I agree completely. Travis needs help. He has a drinking problem.
And I’m more than a little tired of seeing Aesha & Jack groping each other. I have no problem with them being a couple but it was rather gross watching them “tongue swirling” & playing tonsil hockey in the kitchen while Anastasia was cooking. Get a room guys.
Denying you have a problem is definitely proof you do if you black out and someone has to remind you of the night before
kkossor I think if he was waiting which it didn’t seem that way to me but I didn’t watch the show just this clip it’s probably because he was able to read a drunk persons body language and also intuition! If I think someone is going to do something I def have my eye on them
Right like how are they all like omg he totally overreacted to seeing a grown man SLAP a woman?? And he was “waiting” to be a “knight in shinning armor” like wtf he wasn’t over reacting & stepping in to tell him off because he like didn’t open a door for her or said something rude. Idc if he didn’t do it hard enough so it wouldn’t hurt bad that’s fucking RUDE like crossing the line. U aren’t with ur mates back home but ur coworkers ur friendly with. Just admit u were wrong & misjudged the situation
I’m baffled how Aesha can defend Travis.
It’s a lil horseplay. Stupid but not the end of the world.
zdwade i disagree. Travis was so drunk. He smacked Anastasia while EYES CLOSED!! You could hear it!! Had he been sober and did it, he’d not likely had done it because he’s a fucking man & she’s a woman. And don’t get me wrong, if it were a woman hitting a man, it wouldn’t be ok either. It’s just respect ✊
@@MelsLife570 Women playfully hit men all the time and we never say anything because the fact is it doesn't actually hurt at all, even for women. Men just aren't crybaby drama queens looking to play the victim every chance there is. By the way, that is another double standard of the female being allowed to fall asleep at the table when it was considered so inappropriate for travis to do so earlier.
Jon Doe Travis didn’t fall asleep at the table - he passed out. She wasn’t really asleep...she closed her eyes. Not drunk.
@@MelsLife570 He wasn't fully asleep either, but not admitting fault for your double standards and pulling justifications out of your backside is a woman's specialty, isn't it.
The way Aesha and Jack laughed it off drove me nuts.
Jenny Mosley-Wu I agree! I couldn’t believe Ashia would ever justify that kind of behavior. She’s too worried about being the life of the party and stranded up for her “friend” than standing up for what is right.
I agree I hated the way Aesha sat there and did nothing.
Oh how sad for you a woman is exposing your gender's exaggerated lies, that you create for no reason than enjoying the attention received by playing a victim.
M
So Jack is ok with Travis smacking Anastasia but not ok with someone accidentally puking on you?!?
Good point!
Weird, right? The guy getting sick was an accident, unlike Travis's actions.
EXACTLY! I just made a comment about this above, on the main thread. Jack is whitewashing everything Travis does wrong, and it's not helping anything but Travis's (apparently) fragile ego.
Jacks a tosser what do you expect?
I love Collin. Damn i bet he would be an awesome friend (boyfriend???) He is funny and truly talented. And kind. And generous. Sweetheart...
First off, hello fellow Amy! Second, I agree! He seems like a genuinely nice/good guy. Definitely not one of those "nice guys" that have ulterior motives. I've liked him since I first saw him.
He is cute
Wonder if he will take all of us as his wives. 😂 He is such a great dude. And we know he loves his mama and not in a needy creepy way😁
He needs a hookup.
He is so adorable..I would date him, marry him and have his babies
No sorry, I'm Aussie and it's not 'cultural' to slap each other in the face. It may be something he does with his circle of friends but don't call it cultural.
I don't give a f*** if Travis was joking or not, he'll spiral out of control with his drinking problem ... get your s*** together man!!!
Yes Jao was right and so what if he was looking at Travis. Maybe he knows Travis is a weirdo and needs to be watched
You can tell Captain Sandy never knew about the situation and from her reaction, Travis is probably lucky that Captain Sandy didn't know about it because it wouldn't of been pretty for him.
Travis saying that Anastasia had time to think about the incident and then making him look bad ( 9:17 ) pisses me off so much. I can't even count how many times a male co-worker has made me feel uncomfortable and I've just nervously laughed it off as not a big deal until later when I'm alone I rethink the situation over and realize that their actions actually weren't ok. I don't think I've ever gone after the person later on and told them how their actions made me feel uncomfortable, so good on her for standing up for herself.
I'm so sorry that you've had to endure that 😢
I know.. many women will laugh when uncomfortable. I think some men DO see they're making someone uncomfortable, they enjoy it, and will keep pushing. It's disgusting.
Everyone deserves to have their space respected and everyone deserves to feel comfortable in their work environment!
I can't believe he's still making excuses after watching it himself. It appalls me, seeing it again. Keep your hands to yourself. It was a slap...no "love tap" about it.
Travis playing the victim card 😂
Men who are lazy get to be puppies who you can’t get mad at. When I think about how the female stus who have been accused of being lazy are treated.. there is a double standard with women being held to a higher standard on this show and the men getting away with mistakes and laziness because they are charming.
that's so true, and its generally like that in this industry ,Im speaking from the point of view of a flight attendant I cant speak for others in hospitality but it cant be too different
tapping or slapping is never acceptable. Aesha thinking that is ok, is BAD. I raise my boys to never touch a woman like that.
Me too. You do not EVER lay your hands on another person unless it's in self defence because you don't know what that person's capable of, do they have a knife? I'm from Glasgow and we have a massive knife problem.
Sorry Aeysha, Joao reacted appropriately. I would HOPE my male friends react like that.
How is slapping someone “culture”. Sounds more like to me that the culture is the excessive drinking to the point you can’t control your actions. That ain’t cute.
'Little boy' culture, just like the excessive drinking pattern like drinking is the only fun thing to do when it litteraly destroys everything
It’s a cultural thing? BS and Umm a 4 finger slap that is hard will hurt as much as a 5 finger slap. He may not have slapped her very hard, but that doesn’t mean it didn’t hurt. Best rule to follow is probably not to smack someone especially you’ve only known a couple months
I dont think anastasia is good enough friends with travis for him to be that way with her. Aisha is travis friend, to compare the two is ridiculous. People have different boundaries... travis, jack and aesha dont have boundaries at all. Respect other peoples.
So...jack and travis can get mad at a paying guest accidentally throwing up...but can't understand how a "love tap" is offensive?! Yeah ok
I don't like Joao but am totally with him when he went for Travis. if I told anyone about that kind of behaviour and he told me to piss off I would have punched him in the face right then and not stopped until they dragged me off.
Bullies always try to justify their abuse to their victims.
Colin would never do that. Talk about a dreamboat. He's so adorable. I don't know why he doesnt have a special lady. He's the perfect package
Agreed!
Travis: you are so full of it! And Jack: get your head out of Travis’s butt! That is NOT how you show love!
And you do not work hard. And Jack doesn’t work at all!
Birds of a feather....
That was not a “love tap” so please quit calling it that! He slapped her in the face and their is no justification for what he did! Period! The fact that Jack and Aesha defend this is unbelievable! I know plenty of people from down under and have asked them if this is “customary” and they’ve all said it’s not. So yes Travis you are an alcoholic and border on being a woman abuser!
Not cool.. Travis, should have been fired immediately.. Periodt..
I dont agree, people make mistakes even serious mistakes
Love tap? We could hear it through the TV!
Do sounds cause pain, no they do not. Wasn't even as hard as a parent who spanks a 5 year old on the rear. A human's pain tolerance is much higher.
He ( Joao) did NOT over react. It was so horrible. She was slapped hard!😫
Why are producers calling it a love tap? In the name of Tina Turner “what’s love got to do with it?”
Good question. One producer on Potomac accused Michael for sexually assaulting him for bumping into him. This was clearly assualt that the world witnessed. And nothing was done about it.
Because producers are smarter people than the majority of brainless sheep who watch reality tv.
Jon Doe we all know they are calling it that cause they don’t want to get sued for airing an assault on camera and not doing anything
@@gt4436 If you think that painless horseplay is worthy of criminal assault, you are one of the dumbest people in the entire world.
@Us Us Apologized just to get her to shut her dumb mouth and go away with her b.s.
Joao was right to react like that and they even pointed out how Colin on of the most cool people on the ship had to point out how out of control Travis’ drinking was
You should not put your hands on her PERIOD!! Doesn’t matter if is a little slap or rough slap. Is not acceptable!
Hunter Pope nobody have the right to touch, slap, push anybody, NOBODY doesn’t matter gender.
@@SuperBellaChicka Anastasia put her hands on the men earlier jokingly punching them, nobody even noticed because men aren't irrational drama queen cry babies.
NO-ONE I repeat NO-ONE should get physical with anyone else. Not a light smack, a love tap whatever. In my honest opinion the people not reacting is worse than an over reaction. I am glad Joao stood up, Aesha sounds like she would blame the victim for getting abused. I am very proud of all the South-Africans on this show. I've watched lots of clips and their attitude, work ethic and general comportment is step above the rest.
Travis is so crass and rude.
When is slapping someone apart of someone's culture?? I call bs.
How about Muslims? But then again Muslims hate gays and they get a free pass for that as well.
I'm from Perth just like he is and it's total bs.
When is horse-play considered violent abuse? I call bs.
Travis is always making excuses
Addicts always do. I hope he gets help.
How dare this be called a "love tap"
The fact that Ashia , Jack, Travis and Anastasia are giving Travis a pass on this is absolutely ridiculous. Travis was drunk and out of control. I’m appalled with all four of them. Don’t care to see this group on any other season. Joao has changed so much this season. Love him.
Yes, Joáo has changed a lot.
@She’s so Lucky Ana literally had this pissed off face like why the hell you support him but not me.
Oh no, not one of your own kind, a woman spilling the truth about your gender's constant overreactions, for no reason other than you girls get a cheap thrill out of being drama queens.
@Us Us Can you really be considered mature Women when you act like little crybabies throwing temper tantrums over anything and everything. Just little baby girls.
@Us Us hahahahaha
I call BS to that comment! Joao has an issue with Men hitting or attacking a woman as was shown on the episode where the person from the neighboring boat came on and starting going after the baseball guys wife he promptly escorted him off in no uncertain terms!
We need more men like Joao that calls out someone for touching a woman.
Joao is absolutely the best! Thank God for him and Colin being real men.
Do not EVER touch someone in the face. Ever. Unless you have their strict and direct permission. And even then...
Where I come from, we adore and cherish women. Love tap or not, you never put your hands on a woman....a total disgrace!
@Josh Alfirenko New York. I come from a warm, loving Italian family. My father would never raise a hand to my mother. I have alot of uncles...who are so proud of their wives and daughters, you never slap a woman in the face...not cool Travis.
If Joao had done the slap there would of been hell..........u go Joao,,,btw I from nz. That wasn’t a love tap,,,,,,,,
Funny who he decided to "love tap": an unguarded woman and not a male co worker who probably would have reacted physically.
Travis was wrong and Joao was right. You don’t slap anyone in the face ... period!!!!
okay even me being australian (born and raised) we do not slap each other like that especially if u just recently meet that person.
Never put your hands on someone that are in a vulnerable state. I’m sure Travis didn’t really learn anything from the last two years in regards to a woman’s personal space.
BEN. IS. BACK! Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssss!
Aesha was very wrong for her commentary on Jaoa
Travis is still in denial of all his bad actions! Joao is protective of his crew! A great quality in a leader and in a man!
It wasn’t blown out of proportion at all... Travis clearly wasn’t raised properly. You can never hit someone playfully it is always disrespectful between no matter the gender you’re hitting/the one doing the hitting.
Someone that hits people or animals and thinks it shows affection is an abuser until they stop thinking and acting that way.
Travis making excuses for what he did smh.
babybluex he needs to just own up that what he did was wrong. Stop making excuses.
I love Aesha and Jack but to excuse travis’ actions with culture and say Joao overreacted was disappointing. As someone who has had experience with an alcoholic, what they think is a “light tap” really isn’t. The fact that the influence of alcohol was brushed over [with colin only mentioning it] is really not it because that is the root of the problem
I’ve served with women, I’ve worked with women, I’ve worked for women… I never felt the need to “carry” them, it’s a level playing field. No one will hit a women in my presence and not learn consequences. That’s what you call a parenting fail.
Not going to lie the explanation Travis gave was Monday morning quarterbacking if you ask me. And Jack's laziness just befuddle me. How they both were not fired after the slap is the wrong image for women out there. I just pray that eventually karma equals up with them both. Bc this is such the wrong message to give with such a young audience and such a big platform.
I wouldn't be "mates" if "love tapping" each other on the face like that was considered normal behavior.
Joao was completely in the right!
1:40 what a weirdo! You don’t put your hands on someone!! Period
Ok. So in Australia is ok to slap a woman. Yep. I guess I will not go there. Aesha, you are wrong in this one. If you are ok with that. Joao 100% right. Anastasia, it's so hard on herself. She rocked. Oh, Jack.😂star gazer
Oh my god! This crew makes me sick. The only person that did the right thing was Joao! I hate that everyone sympathizes with the drunk jerk! This is really bad. Bravo please step in and prove you don’t condone this behavior.
Slapping someone is not a display of love.
I’m shocked at how these guys, and that one girl think it’s okay. They’re really over here justifying it. He should’ve gotten fired immediately. Good for Joao to step up like that.
So if you accidentally throw up on someone, that's unacceptable and you're a d-bag, but if you intentionally smack a sleeping girl on the face, that's okay, because it was all just fun and "drunken banter"? That's brilliant logic, Travis. Go drink another keg of beer.
Next video: Australia and New Zealand completely disown Travis and Aesha.
I was shocked! That wasn’t a love tap!
Any real man would have knocked that punk out on the spot. Period.
I def wouldn’t appreciate being woken up by being slapped in the face. Even tho it wasn’t that hard. It was the principle of it. You don’t wake anyone up by slapping them across a face. Especially a woman. You can fool around with your guy friends like that but not a young woman you met 3 weeks ago. And once Joao explained his reaction, it makes a lot more sense but even putting that experience aside, I don’t think he over reacted.
If Joao slapped (love tapped) Aesha - it would not be ok with Jack (Mr. Respect)!
Maria T but jack would be lazy to react
Good work Joal.🍬🔥
Bravo... HUGE fail with Travis Jack and Aesha....HUGE!!!!
what you prefer the dull americans collin and anatastia or that whiny jerk joao? haha you know shit
Sensitive???? Insane.
Wait what?? That’s how we show love?? It’s not culture it’s being a jackass. And the constant excuses and trying to explain his way out is baffling to me. It’s not funny. It’s not banter, it’s not cultural it’s 100% unacceptable. The co-stars making excuses for Travis’ behavior is frankly just as bad
He is trying to justify slapping her, it was still not ok! It is never ok to slap or hit someone like that!
Travis doesn't take responsibility for ANYTHING he does wrong. Ugh and to think I loved him after her defended homosexuality. Yuck.
And another question: what's up with Travis's "Little Dutch Boy/Oompaloompa" hairstyle?
Travis is obviously an alcoholic, and it’s disgusting how he is justifying his behavior. Victim blaming at its best him trashing Anastasia after she decided to tell him how that slap really made her feel. Jack and Aesha making excuses for his behavior is crap too. Man or woman- you don’t hit people. Period. It’s not hard to keep your hands to yourself.
He did hit a woman, end of so it’s wrong for jack to say he didn’t! Whether he was drunk or not, the bottom line is he did hit a woman as his hand imapacted with her face... how do people not recognise that is hitting 🤷🏽♀️
🙄🙄🙄 Travis talking shit on the guest (who def should’ve apologized)... and yet if Travis had spewed on the camera man you know he would NOT apologize and try to normalize it 🤣🙄🙄... and jack would’ve backed him 🙄🙄🙄
No hitting females ever. No excuses.
🤢 I can’t even watch Travis, cannot even finish the video. Hope he grows up one day