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  • @desilife6435
    @desilife6435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    I just want to say thank you for having a diverse panel of women. I often here about God from people who don’t look like me or don’t come from a similar background as me. It is so helpful to know that God can bless anyone from any background. Thank you ladies!

  • @Jasmyne444
    @Jasmyne444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I absolutely LOVED this episode! As a single woman who desires marriage one day, I do feel like it’s hard to know who is the right person to be vulnerable to or share our hearts with, but I’ve gleaned so much wisdom from this episode. Guard your hearts and the Lord will point out the man He has for you. You will recognize him first by his unmistakable love for God and second, by his care and concern for you. And in that order!

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so right it is hard to know who to be vulnerable with. I think you'll enjoy my channel it's all about marriage prep, check it out!

  • @thandiwells4905
    @thandiwells4905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I am a licensed therapist and I am very happy to hear therapy added to this conversation. I am also a Christian. But I am also trained. That is the key combination. We need spiritual healing and natural healing. But there are some that only Holy Spirit can heal. Really enjoyed this episode ladies.

    • @katlegosebolao9945
      @katlegosebolao9945 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh my word . Are you South African?

    • @kissofarose100
      @kissofarose100 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have a curiosity as you do work in this field maybe you can help me , the world in present is obsessed with going to therapists to fix you but we as Christian doesn't that mean you put more trust in people to heal you then Lord Jesus? Sorry for my bad english, the language is not my maternal one

  • @suzieque7691
    @suzieque7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I’ve been hurting for almost a year. My kids’ father and I broke up last year and it’s been so hard for me to let go. He has moved on already and it hurts but I’m tired of letting this make me a prisoner. I’m afraid that I wouldn’t find a husband but I believe that God will meet me where I am. Please Pray for my heart❤️🙏🏾

    • @makebacunningham6795
      @makebacunningham6795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This too shall pass. I too am going through this too and dear let me tell you it was very hard and devastating however make a daily routine of activities that will fill up your time. You begin to feel weary put on some praise and worship music or a sermon etc write in a journal. These things help me. Praying for you my sister

    • @suzieque7691
      @suzieque7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@makebacunningham6795 thanks a lot. I know it will get better by the grace of God.

    • @suzieque7691
      @suzieque7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Dan thanks you so much!! I really appreciate it.

    • @candacecherrel
      @candacecherrel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here! Praying ❤

    • @suzieque7691
      @suzieque7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@candacecherrel Praying for you as well

  • @nicoleday2305
    @nicoleday2305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Marriage isn't to make you Happy, it's to make you Holy!

  • @lauraclark9140
    @lauraclark9140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The men need a show like this.

  • @cristalroberts9962
    @cristalroberts9962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Needed to hear this as a new believer am so glad to know that god can heal all my pass hurt😭😭🙏🙏

    • @adeyhenrietta343
      @adeyhenrietta343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah he can do more than you could ever ask or think, just in hang in his word all the time and he will work miracles for you. Welcome to the family.

    • @jojocluddy2534
      @jojocluddy2534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome to the family, yes God will do wondrous things in your life if only you allow Him to, if you surrender and trust in Him. God bless you 🙏🏾

    • @NicoleAllwood
      @NicoleAllwood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes girl! His provisions (resources,ways and blessings) are truly UNLIMITED far beyond our understanding! He forgives and heals, so continue to trust in Him. Soak in His word and get to know Him intimately. He loves you girl and He’s happy that you want a relationship with Him. God bless you sis!

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh Yes! God is the ultimate healer! 🤗

  • @princesswarrior2601
    @princesswarrior2601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It is only when we can open up feeling safe and talk about our vulnerabilities , fears , insecurities that we can be set free. It’s like finally exposing the attacks / lies of the enemy and finding the truth in Gods word to set you free.

  • @briannahuser8315
    @briannahuser8315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Loved this, I feel like a small piece of my heart healed just from hearing other women talk openly about the same things I’ve struggled with..

    • @shoot4themoon406
      @shoot4themoon406 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We [all] overcome by the word of [our testimonies].

  • @wendycassanova
    @wendycassanova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I needed to hear this. I surrender all my relationships to you father and ask that the Holy Spirt will help me to trust others.

  • @palesamasifhi5108
    @palesamasifhi5108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The timing of this video in my life is insanely appropriate 😭❤️ This feels like a direct response from God to what he knows has been in my heart

  • @lesedigololo7485
    @lesedigololo7485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    'Guard your heart' yep I should have done that with my best guy friend cause now I regret it. So guys please guard your hearts

  • @cookingwithchefgilliang5405
    @cookingwithchefgilliang5405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is soooo good.. I’m 53 & have been Single for almost 7 yrs.. healing.. therapy.. growth.. to my Purposemate finding me whole & complete in God..🙏🏾👏🏾🙋🏾‍♀️🙌🏾💚

  • @iyanttahowellmd
    @iyanttahowellmd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you to all you ladies for being so transparent! The body of Christ is hungry for conversation like this. Great point about forgiveness being the 1st step in healing.🌟🌟🌟

  • @prycerobertson4695
    @prycerobertson4695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love your show! It's about time a faith-based show with beautiful women was made. Come to think of it, it's been two years now since your show hit the airwaves. Keep up the good and blessed work!

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love all these women of God. They are so beautiful and wonderful because of how graceful they speak. They are filled with wisdom. I am still young and learning a lot from them before I get married and even just living life itself. I'm grateful for these positive side of TH-cam, talking about REAL and wholesome things.

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen! You'll love the advice on my channel if you enjoyed this video it's all marriage prep!

    • @racheloshaksmusic
      @racheloshaksmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BecomingIrresistible just checked out some of your recent videos on your channel! Sounds very good. Your point about looking good for men is true but there are so many Christian women who feel otherwise and who find a man that loves them the way they are. So it’s very interesting how this all works.

  • @mandisagumbi3985
    @mandisagumbi3985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "It's the hard stuff that makes the marriage" love this!

  • @mendi5
    @mendi5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When one of you cry I also cry... Love you ladies🌼💖♥️. Sending love from South Africa 🇿🇦

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God bless...South Africa has been huge a supporter of my channel, feel free to check it out for marriage prep! Enjoy!

  • @MiilyGarcia0119
    @MiilyGarcia0119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I needed this- I’m good for talking and thinking negatively about husband, but this has just conveyed me and re-enforced for me that I need to see my man how God sees Him.

  • @user-zs1sh5xy3l
    @user-zs1sh5xy3l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was so good. I went through a breakup this week that centered around trust issues. Ironically, I ran across this video right after praying. God knew exactly what he was doing. Thanks for tackling this and for the prayer at the end.

  • @believe8754
    @believe8754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Gosh these women 🥺God bless them🙏🏽. Thank you for impacting our lives

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Lord, help me to trust in your spirit to reveal to me which people to allow in my life and inner circle and which one to keep out. In accordance with isaiah 2:22 and this whole message I pray for safe and saved people with whom I can share my life and share memories and experiences. Lord, heal any unhealthy trust issue in my life. In the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

  • @just_bee9482
    @just_bee9482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    she is lucky to have met a mature and whole man. had he's been broken as she was, her mistrust would have send him straight into the hands of another women. That's why the vicious circle of unfaithfulness is never ending when two broken souls meet.

  • @CherryJ2911
    @CherryJ2911 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg 3 years later this video is so good. Thank You Jesus for leading me here❤

  • @NicolaVimbaiTsaha-mh3zr
    @NicolaVimbaiTsaha-mh3zr ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been hurt by almost everyone in my family but by listening to your community shows am at a great place now... thank you guys you are God sent

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This very good topic for singles because this definitely certain things need seek God for healing before get married because we can ruined a perfect realationship need be healthy heal and whole and then that's when we are ready for marriage Thank all woman's on this panel speaking about their own personal testimony it's encouraging to others.GOD blessed each one of you.

  • @unique_monique
    @unique_monique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I know it takes a lot of work to bring you all together and makes these, THANK YOU!! It’s so encouraging and I feel like I’m sitting in the room with you

  • @sheisstrongpodcast
    @sheisstrongpodcast ปีที่แล้ว

    i cried when she cried.. praying for us all,

  • @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257
    @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is why I'm waiting on God because He knows exactly what we need and the right one for us who can handle our brokenness. But at the sametime I agree with nicole use the singleness to let God help you work on you and when God says the time is right He will bring the one He has for us into our life

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so true you must work on yourself before getting married and I just posted a video today on my channel to explain just one of the many ways women can do that practically. Check it out for more!

    • @oneof7billion627
      @oneof7billion627 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yesssss 🙌

  • @dexpression4423
    @dexpression4423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great praise discussion God's word spoke by women who are sharing their hurt and sharing that there is healing because God is with you
    I needed to hear this message. God bless you in Jesus name
    Amen

  • @palesamasifhi5108
    @palesamasifhi5108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I needed to hear this to acknowledge the hell I’ve created in my own head. Thank you so much for sharing the experiences in your own lives and how you dealt with them and apply the word to your own lives. We feel heard and understood. Your discussions are so relatable and I’m extremely grateful to learn so much from you ladies ❤️

  • @Randi-e3w6y
    @Randi-e3w6y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thankful for the vulnerability of all of you ladies

  • @misskat7437
    @misskat7437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So good. Needed to hear all of this. This carries over to so many types of relationships- work, friends, in laws, children, etc. It is a works based type of thinking that many of us fall into when we do "everything right" but the issue is, we all THINK we're right when only God is. As a woman who is prepping for marriage, I really appreciate the transparency of this message, thank you Jesus.

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true! You'll love my channel it's all about marriage prep for single Christian women, check it out and enjoy! God bless!

  • @tequaldunning
    @tequaldunning 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I LOVE THIS!! 😭 .. I was just talking to God about me getting married in December & this video hit so many points 🥺

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations to you! My channel will give you some great advice before your nuptials, enjoy! 😊

  • @chisomo3957
    @chisomo3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This was very helpful thank you. I was almost throwing in the towel

  • @jmelindap8195
    @jmelindap8195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    thank you for these honest, intimate conversations which will help put other ladies on the path to healing

  • @aliceriley1173
    @aliceriley1173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really love listening to you women of God, sharing your hearts so openly. My heart is truly blessed and inspired. Love y'all❤💕💞🇹🇹

  • @angiemaiapu763
    @angiemaiapu763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is the most powerful conversation I’ve ever heard. Ladies, you don’t know how much your words are helping me. Thank you so much

  • @momeetamee007
    @momeetamee007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sweet. May Heather and her husband treat the folks at pinky promise better as that is also holy ☺️

  • @BrightElisha
    @BrightElisha ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode was very powerful..it really hit me what Laurie said about the mind. It truly is a battlefield and can contribute much difficulty to a marriage if gone unchecked.

  • @kenyaoneal9098
    @kenyaoneal9098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was Sooo Good!!! Thank You Soo Much Better Together!!!💜

  • @ursulag24
    @ursulag24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Nugget ~ marriage isn't to make us happy but to make us holy...hmmm, eye opener👍

  • @simply_nikisha
    @simply_nikisha ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for helping get me together! Better Together

  • @nnnnnnnnnataliem
    @nnnnnnnnnataliem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    CALLED ME OUT! "What ammunition do you have to fight back with? It can't be TH-cam! You got to fight back with the Word" I laughed!! So hard!! Then did one of these 😬
    Love y'all ladies! Blessings in the new year 2022 💖🔥🌹

  • @babiryewinnifred2079
    @babiryewinnifred2079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is an important conversation. Praying 🙏

  • @kenyaoneal9098
    @kenyaoneal9098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Out of Love...I Say Yes!!!!...Love this!!!!❤

  • @Gomlie1970
    @Gomlie1970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God meets us exactly at our need. Trust and intimacy

  • @tintswalomashinini
    @tintswalomashinini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this episode. It just dealt with my perspective when it comes to marriage.

  • @sharonthomas9851
    @sharonthomas9851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank You ladies for being real.

  • @lawrencebhatti2280
    @lawrencebhatti2280 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Billions of God bless you all.

  • @ayeeda7891
    @ayeeda7891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They all look soooo stunning ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sylviahorne5525
    @sylviahorne5525 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Queens 🙏🏼❤🙌🏼👑😘 I appreciate this video ❤ Happy New Year 👑 ❤ 🙌🏼

  • @glendamorrison5159
    @glendamorrison5159 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise God 😍 bonding with men. I'm single and feeling alone. This was and is me.thank you

  • @melanisewilliams7588
    @melanisewilliams7588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen this is needed, God has power beyond our craziness their is a real attacks against relationship because their is so much strength in unity and where there is two or three agreeing on anything in the name of Jesus their God will be in the midst

  • @calvincovington3109
    @calvincovington3109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow that was good God be the Glory

  • @jacquelinewelch3021
    @jacquelinewelch3021 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Needed that especially that prayer at the end. God Bless my Sistas! God Strength ✝️🙏🏾. Our Hearts ♥️ are Truly Safe with Him 🙌🏾✝️🙏🏾

  • @livelife2507
    @livelife2507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heather Lindsey! Your on fire girl! 🔥

  • @chichis7768
    @chichis7768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awesome advice, I love it thank you beautiful ladies..😊💕💕💕😘👏

  • @machellesparks4575
    @machellesparks4575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the sidebar conversation away from the group, feel like you're talking to me in depth personally, great job!

  • @OwnYourHealthiestLife
    @OwnYourHealthiestLife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yessss! Forgiveness is so critically important.

  • @propellingonpurpose5104
    @propellingonpurpose5104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    If he doesn’t love Jesus, he’ll never love you the way you need to be loved! Wow!!!

  • @sheillaatukunda3366
    @sheillaatukunda3366 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you VERY MUCH Beautiful Moms. Women of God. God bless you and your families!

  • @marciaphillip3555
    @marciaphillip3555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for these words of healing.

  • @jemmy924
    @jemmy924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! This was amazing😄 Thanks for uploading the whole episode. Received so much from this discussion

  • @adayinthelight7575
    @adayinthelight7575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Can you pray for me and my marriage? Need help with intimacy. Also, I’m just not confident right now. How do I learn to love myself again?

    • @mildredchelangat2367
      @mildredchelangat2367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All will be well in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    • @godlygirl
      @godlygirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hello sister, prayers sent up for you and your marriage!! One way you can learn to love yourself is to meditate on what God says about you!! Pray and ask God to help you see yourself the way God sees you!

    • @ark198989
      @ark198989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU SO MUCH!!! 🤗🌹🙏🙌🏽🕊😇 YAH IS ON THE MOVE!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 ALLELUIA!!! 🕊🕊🕊

    • @demetricole1687
      @demetricole1687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is so honest and pure ❤️I’m learning too

  • @myradeunique7635
    @myradeunique7635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is soooo good! It is a conversation that need to be had. I have some of the same issues mentioned.TRUST! Thank you for this segment!!!

  • @racquelrobinson3030
    @racquelrobinson3030 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Godly women coming together to talk about this is something that God delivered to me and I needed

  • @tittervisionxoxoxo4340
    @tittervisionxoxoxo4340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks i really needed this.

  • @VenetiaRenata
    @VenetiaRenata 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So resonate and so inspired Heather 🤍👣✨

  • @cynthia2378
    @cynthia2378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a beautiful talk.

  • @Zoeys_treasures
    @Zoeys_treasures 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This blessed me. Thank you!!!

  • @ntebogengmabilo9036
    @ntebogengmabilo9036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE ALL OF THIS😭🙌🏾❤️

  • @Luxfully
    @Luxfully 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good. I’m just learning that God wants us to have a relationship with truth. I ask God earlier what did that even mean. How can I be intimate with truth? This is how! When the enemy tries to control us with lying thoughts to respond with truth. God is so prompt with me! Whenever I ask questions🫂

  • @brucetenhave6952
    @brucetenhave6952 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thankyou for your prayer at the end 💗

  • @go2yourself
    @go2yourself ปีที่แล้ว

    Great conversation 😊

  • @AS3132
    @AS3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "He may be hot but so is hell."🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that was so funny but true. Good point. Love the whole conversation me.Awesome Jesus.
    Oh by the way I love how you all can laugh meins. That s beautiful to watch

  • @esthobi
    @esthobi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How I love this channel🥺😍😍😍🙏🏾

  • @fiveyearstoforty313
    @fiveyearstoforty313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a wonderful conversation 💕💕💕

  • @lolabolaji_
    @lolabolaji_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love this channel! The best!

  • @NinjaLeeful
    @NinjaLeeful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the best sisterly relationship advise ive ever received ❤

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praise God, there's more advice on my channel, check it out!

  • @kelalife
    @kelalife 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this conversation ladys God is able to do anything when we let him in and let God take control .🙏🏽🙌 💕

  • @lindajohnson5782
    @lindajohnson5782 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This helps me so much

  • @debraalexander2466
    @debraalexander2466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you and need to hear it a blessed from God

  • @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257
    @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man Nicloe was speaking it💯

  • @shaniekmontieth2402
    @shaniekmontieth2402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this message

  • @karynjones4110
    @karynjones4110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    loved this! thanks for the advice and for sharing

  • @4ll4nb31l
    @4ll4nb31l 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    would love to hear the holy spirit tell me i love you so much. great to hear that some people are loved with special care.

  • @angelrobinson5257
    @angelrobinson5257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would ❤️ to have a conversation with one of you Ladies!

  • @vijayjacob227
    @vijayjacob227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Praise the lord sister's.god bless you sister's. please prayers for me sister's. Please.vijaykumar South India

  • @diannabrwn2520
    @diannabrwn2520 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this video I love you all my dream is to come on your show and talk about this

  • @annatevesbanzon1359
    @annatevesbanzon1359 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great topic ladies!

  • @tracylee383
    @tracylee383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I still discerned the spirit of HURT. It may not be the baggage from the past but church hurt which is called: "MISUNDERSTANDING HURT" #Assumptions ❤🙇🏾‍♀️

    • @yeyamusic
      @yeyamusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some of that healing just takes time and is more gradual

  • @cathyimani5932
    @cathyimani5932 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen! Thank you ladies. Healing it is.

  • @dianewashington505
    @dianewashington505 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent

  • @Rosheazmusic
    @Rosheazmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my fears explained ❤️

  • @jabubuhali4553
    @jabubuhali4553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I salute you Ladies ,i am single woman who relate to this stories , i hope and believe that i would find the godly supporting husband like yours.
    i have through a lot in my life , please pray with me in this journey , i trust God my life would change,
    God bless you all my sisters.

  • @chasehim3761
    @chasehim3761 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nicole that is profound and revolutionary. 12:43

  • @chantellrenee
    @chantellrenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW! This was good!

  • @ishakeister2810
    @ishakeister2810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you ladies God bless

  • @angelrobinson5257
    @angelrobinson5257 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this!