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  • @OtterSkull
    @OtterSkull ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Nothing wrong with "moving on" you deserve to be happy, I followed your late husband and I understand how hard that was, I'm happy for you and he would be too.
    Thank you for sharing, have a nice day.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh thank you so much, Joshua. You're such a valued member here and to hear you say this made my heart so full. I hope you know how important you are and how grateful I am to have you here. 🧡

    • @OtterSkull
      @OtterSkull ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@IamBecca Seriously thank you so much for saying that!! 😁

  • @nohana2003
    @nohana2003 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    OMG is it already 5 years .... nobody is made to live on their own, happy for you girl!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you, honestly I cannot tell you how much that means to me. 🧡

    • @debbiemoorcroft6767
      @debbiemoorcroft6767 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      5 years! You do what makes YOU happy. Pleased you are now sharing your life and you deserve happiness the same as we all do. It’s great to see you back and you know how much this may help others. Life as we all know is unpredictable so try and enjoy it while we can. Lovely to see you x

    • @auriellewilliams9851
      @auriellewilliams9851 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for being so inspirational my husband was diagnosed with a rare form of blood cancer called acute lymphoblastic luekemia. We went to hospital because of the pain in his leg which then turned to back pain was misdiagnosed with scaitica by this time was he was unable to walk at 28 years old we were both at a loss as to what this could be anyways massive bruising all over. We went back only to find out that he had this rare type of cancer that is incurable by now by spent months being treated for something that he didnt even have now looking at weeks to months to live. I hope to be as strong as you are when his time comes. Thank you

  • @nancypeteja6560
    @nancypeteja6560 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Becca, this is awesome!! This EXACTLY what Dan would have wanted....you to be happy!! Nothing more. You have been thru so much and now your heart is happy.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Nancy - you're a legend. 🧡

  • @Crimpycurls64
    @Crimpycurls64 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So pleased for you. You just have such a wise old head for a young person. What happened to you, I wouldn’t wish on anyone, but unfortunately life has no guarantees. Personally, I would block unkind people, they take up too much headroom. You can see you are much happier now. Good vibes and love to you ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Gail, I cannot tell you how much this means. I am close to tears. This felt like a hug and I wish I could give you one IRL. Sending you so much love, I hope you're well and YOU deserve all the happiness. Thank you for always being here and making me feel brave. 🧡

    • @Crimpycurls64
      @Crimpycurls64 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wish I could give you a big Mum hug. Really just keep growing as a person, I’m sure we all want that for you. Nobody can be replaced, but everybody has value and they are a new love so bring new things. ❤️

  • @melissaw1813
    @melissaw1813 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow, 5 years. Time does go so fast. I’d love to hear more and how about a patio tour, the space behind you at the end looks so peaceful!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Time does fly. Thank you. And oh my GOODNESS that is such a good idea. I'll definitely do that. 🧡

  • @joannec3579
    @joannec3579 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your husband looked like an amazing man, which means he would want you to find happiness again. You're a very strong woman, happy that you're happy Becca! x

  • @donnaisfairlyodd
    @donnaisfairlyodd ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m so happy that you’re still here and in a place where you feel able to share. You’re doing great! 🧡🦊

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so so much, always. 🧡

  • @allyboy8
    @allyboy8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dan is looking from above and smiling at you. He’d want you to be happy.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      🧡🧡🧡

  • @EryberrieTrueCrime
    @EryberrieTrueCrime ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm very happy for you, Becca! So good you've found love. My wife has been diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer and although her treatment is working, we don't know where it will lead. If I end up widowed I don't think getting into a relationship to fill a void is healthy so I agree there. I'm sure Dan would also be happy for you. Hugs, my dear x

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish you and your wife all the very best. Thank you for being here, let me know how you both get on 🧡

    • @EryberrieTrueCrime
      @EryberrieTrueCrime ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@IamBecca Hi Becca, she's now passed away and I feel profoundly lost and broken.

  • @MaryleaMemaw
    @MaryleaMemaw ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The key is that you are happy! Would love to hear whatever you want to share. I followed your story from years ago as I was going through my cancer journey back then. You have a lovely home. I would like organization but it has been a process over many years and I'm not "there" yet. Hopefully I will be before I die so my kids don't have a lot of stuff to go through. Cute end of credits segment 😘

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're in the end of credits fam club!!! Hehe. Thank you so much, I really hope you're okay and looking after yourself. You're so brave and such a valued member here, I wish I could give you a hug. 🧡

  • @stevewarner9527
    @stevewarner9527 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So so happy to see you moving forward. Glad you've found happiness. You're a heck of a gal who's been through so much and deserve this chapter! Best of the best to you, Becca....... I can surmise that smiles are coming from MANY places!

  • @SuzyB1245
    @SuzyB1245 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aww Becca, super glad for you. Your house is beautiful and you look so happy! ❤❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Ellie! You’re beyond lovely. 🧡

    • @SuzyB1245
      @SuzyB1245 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@IamBecca bless you, I don't really comment on things but followed Dan and every time I look at my don't give in hoodie I think of you and wonder how you are so this is just such a lovely vlog 😊😊😊

  • @katelefar8824
    @katelefar8824 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Congrats, Becks. Really happy for you. Lovely to see you happy again. You’ve done the right thing for you, and everyone (Dan included) would want that for you. Can’t wait to meet the new man. The house looks great too, by the way! ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      I cannot tell you how much this means. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 🧡

  • @adhoffmann2382
    @adhoffmann2382 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello from germany (sorry foresighted if I make mistakes )...I followed your late husband too and I am always glad to see news from you- although we do not know each other. :-) When I saw the title I thought : " oh, cool, someone who is a bit messy too." but when I saw your video I did not find any mess there,...what a nice home and how cleaned up it is,....

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for being here. Haha - to be fair, I definitely didn't show the messiest parts!!!! 🧡

  • @panicduckky
    @panicduckky ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm sure that Dan would just be happy to see that you're happy! Your house is so cute! Glad you're finally getting a chance to finally get settled in after your trip!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much. I'm so happy to be settled too. I hope you're well. 🧡

  • @theoriginallacey
    @theoriginallacey ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would never have asked about your dating life, but I have wondered and I am thrilled to hear you are moving ahead and happy. I love it! Love your apartment and really loved hearing you speak about your life and what’s going on. Definitely can’t wait to hear more. Thank you for sharing.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww thank you for being so respectful and so so lovely. I cannot wait to share more. 🧡

  • @minipoppy64
    @minipoppy64 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww, am so happy for you, 5 years, time has flown by, Dan would be so happy and proud of you, I love that your You Tubing, your a breath of fresh air and so confident which is lovely to see as you were so shy on Dans vlog........you made him so happy in his last months, hugs from Wales xxx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oww thank you so very much - you're lovely. 🧡

  • @pamrose4810
    @pamrose4810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You seem happy and with your stuff together and your creativity is able to flow. This is what I wished for you, and it shows in your speech, your being emotionally grounded, and your demeanor. I love it!!!!! Go get the life you want Becca!!! Everything you deserve and dream of!!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh thank you so much Pam. 🧡

  • @willowwinkle
    @willowwinkle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm SO happy about you finding love! I'm sure you've felt protective of this part of your life, so I totally get why you wouldn't talk too much about it online and I have seen the strange way people treat dating after loss. You don't owe anyone anything but it's so nice to be able to share and be supported by those who love you (and that's exactly what the people who matter a fig on the interwebs will do!) 💗 The world needs more artistic, passionate and healthy relationships and I feel like your unique style of vlogging (if you choose to) would really help people discover those traits in their own relationships. Also... OMG your place! It is just so gorgeous with all the blacks and whites. And the little nook/office upstairs is so cute. I just absolutely love it and seeing some of your art (like the gorgeous piece with two figures and the silver/gold circles) I love sorting/decluttering (which is funny because sometimes I just can't do it) this is giving me inspiration. Your power jacket is perfect! haha I love thrifting. And that card about "Live, Laugh, Love" had me dead. 🤣🤣

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your comments are always some of my favourites - they are so lovely and insightful and I feel as though I 'know' you through them? You're amazing. Thank you for being here - I really hope one day we can have a chat over a cuppa!!! 🧡

    • @willowwinkle
      @willowwinkle ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca Yes! Me too! One day soon I'm going to find time to message you to pick your brain about freelance writing! 😊😊

  • @surelynoprincess
    @surelynoprincess ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm soooo happy for you Becca! Your happiness shows ❤.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Tara. Your words mean so much. 🧡

  • @alimoore589
    @alimoore589 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm pleased for you 💕 Dan would want you to be happy. Ive enjoyed seeing your home too x

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you. I can't wait to show you more. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @jaktag
    @jaktag ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy to see you happy Becca.I followed Dan and kept subscribed just incase you came back one day,and when you did i was so pleased you had.I am so happy that you have found love again.I sadly lost my husband when i was 38 and we had a 2 yr old daughter at the time.I also met someone 4 yr after i lost my husband,so i can in some ways relate to your journey.Wishing you every happines in the future. I am pretty sure Dan will be smiling down on you.💕 xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This made me both sad and happy. I'm sorry for your loss, but so so so happy for your gain. Thank you for being here and being so supportive. Sending you a huge hug. 🧡

  • @davidostrowski679
    @davidostrowski679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would really hope that any human being would be 100% supportive. I can't understand how anyone would even dare to comment (whatever their view is) especially if someone has not been through the loss of a partner. Even if someone has been through that, everyone's situation and experience is different! Ultimately, I hope you do exactly what makes you happy!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you - you would be surprised! But I am grateful for you - thank you for being here. 🧡

  • @susanthomas5464
    @susanthomas5464 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so happy for you .Becca .You deserve it . Thank you for sharing .Blessings to you both xxxx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Susan, you're so lovely. 🧡

    • @susanthomas5464
      @susanthomas5464 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca 💚💚💚

  • @yvonnegreen5363
    @yvonnegreen5363 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am happy your happy Dan would of wanted to to be happy too love you and everything about you keep up the great videos xx sending much love

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you so much, that means so much to me. I wish I could give you a hug! I'm so glad you're here. Can't wait to share more. 🧡

  • @mandybeth512
    @mandybeth512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for feeling comfortable enough to share with us. Im a longtime follower and its beautiful to see your growth... makes me feel hopeful for myself ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Freya, you should be hopeful. Your lovely comment alone has made me feel at ease and so much better about my decision to share - you are clearly a lovely person and deserve all the happiness in the world. If you ever feel you are alone, please know you are so valued here. You made me feel 1000% better. Thank you, friend. Sending hugs. 🧡

    • @mandybeth512
      @mandybeth512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Becca this made my whole day ❤️ thank you friend... i needed to read that today 🥰💐

  • @cheryls17
    @cheryls17 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been a silent subscriber for the last 5 years. So happy to see you back on TH-cam. You deserve to be happy! Dan would’ve wanted this for you. ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh Cheryl I cannot tell you how much this means to me. Thank you for your kind words. 🧡

  • @Marsha-lou1986
    @Marsha-lou1986 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Becca I am so happy for you! Thank you for sharing. I am so happy for you to have been able to move forward and begin a relationship. I am a widow, my husband died 1 year and 9 months ago. He was my world. He developed Metastatic small cell lung cancer and within 4 months he was gone. Right now I am at a stage where the loneliness is overwhelming. I hope some day, not right now, to meet someone even if it were just to have someone to have dinner with or even tea or coffee. I do not drink, I have not had a drink in 15 years. My life is so different now, I now own my parents home, I even attend church, and I am trying to move forward but it’s so hard. So enough about me, I do have a tendency to overshare. I would love to hear more about how you met your new man, and how dating felt, and just really anything you want to share. It might help me to move forward.❤❤❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      I wish I could wrap you in a hug. I cannot imagine what you're going through and please don't worry about sharing - this is what this community is all about. I will definitely be sharing more, and I hope it helps you. Feel free to email any questions if you want me to do any specific videos (hello@minehyde.com) 🧡

  • @trourke4475
    @trourke4475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Becca I almost dropped my damn phone lol.
    I am so happy for you. It's not just you have found someone but more all that you have discovered in your journey to get where you are.
    You have healed, grown and become the best you can be. Taking your pain to grow and turn it into something to raise yourself up rather than beat you down is something to be proud of.
    You are wiser and incredibly strong. You are person of happiness and light
    The fact you have someone to share it with now is just the icing on the cake.
    Great wonderful frosting though lol

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      This made me chuckle!!!! Thank you so much for such a wonderful comment. You're magnificent. Thank you for being here, I cannot tell you how much it means to me that you are. 🧡

  • @PurpleLuci
    @PurpleLuci ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aw! Becca - I am so happy for you. Can’t believe it’s been so long. Wish nothing but happiness and love for you 💜

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Lucinda. You're beyond lovely. 🧡

  • @tammyrockhold6111
    @tammyrockhold6111 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so very happy that you are happy again! I’m surprised it’s been 5 years already. I loved this video and would enjoy more of them. And seeing your new loved one & watching you decorate your new home and seeing bits of your life. I would love to hear how y’all met etc. Again so happy for you. ❤️🤗🙏

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Owww thank you so so so much Tammy. You're wonderful. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @Chrissies.Cuties
    @Chrissies.Cuties ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your humor, Becca. Honesty, you live simple and everything looks nice on my end. Alittle messy is just fine. Youre not living in a model home. ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awww thank you so so much. I could never live in a model home haha!! My mum calls those homes 'show room' homes - and I would just break everything! Haha. 🧡

  • @teepee2784
    @teepee2784 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy for you! 🎉 You've always been open and honest about where you are in life ... That's why your videos are both enjoyable and helpful. Thank you for sharing... Enjoyed the new style! 🤗

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Owww thank you, thank you. Sending you nothing but love. 🧡

  • @jgahagan4
    @jgahagan4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy to hear that you have found love again! I followed Dan and he was such an inspiration to me. I have always wondered and hoped that you found a special person to love again❤. Yes, please continue to share that part of your life😊. I am sure Dan is so proud of you🥰

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so very much Jennifer - you're lovely. Sending hugs. 🧡

  • @justjilly4384
    @justjilly4384 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so so glad you are now happy. I’ve always wondered as I followed your journey.
    You are such a special person and I hope your partner knows how lucky he is. If not - tell him - all the time 🤣🤣 x

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Jilly, thank you so so so very much. This made me chuckle!! I regularly tell him I am a joy and a treasure... Not sure he takes me as seriously as he should ;) 🧡🧡🧡

  • @kathleenclark815
    @kathleenclark815 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dan wouldn't want you to be alone. Follow your heart! ❤️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you sweetheart. 🧡

  • @LorrieDawn
    @LorrieDawn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Life is Beautiful! Love to see you! Lots of love to you too!💗

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Life IS beautiful. Sending so much love your way and a massive hug. 🧡

  • @Selickrip55
    @Selickrip55 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:46 I’ve loved charity shops for years some of the best things I own (mostly video games) have came from charity shops

  • @tessxii7362
    @tessxii7362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so happy to see you being in such a good place. I'm so happy for you.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much lovely. I hope you're well and happy. 🧡

  • @kaymiller2441
    @kaymiller2441 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so Happy for you Becca and I wish you nothing but the best for your future. I think you handled this as best you could taking time to heal in your own way. Much love❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, Kay. This felt like a hug I needed. 🧡

  • @sandrarussell8551
    @sandrarussell8551 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Becca I have followed you and Dan for quite awhile. I am so happy you're doing good and have found a sweet partner. Being alone is not fun. Much love from North Carolina

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for being here Sandra. 🧡

  • @Pan631
    @Pan631 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    FAVOURITE

  • @NerdetteOfTheNorth
    @NerdetteOfTheNorth ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I followed your late husband for only the 3 last weeks of his life,But i have followed you ever since!😊 im so happy that you are happy and have someone to be happy with😅 🥰

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for being here. Lotta love. 🧡

  • @UltimateDorito
    @UltimateDorito ปีที่แล้ว

    GIRL OMG the third story walk-up life is HARD. I did it for a few years and vowed to never do it again. I've lived on the first floor ever since. I do miss having a balcony though... Glad to see you're happy and doing the damn thing. Be well!!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      RIGHT!!! Hahaha - I am so glad you understand the pain?! So much love. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @lzs33
    @lzs33 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so happy that you're happy 😍💚

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, always and always. 🧡

  • @Elechick
    @Elechick ปีที่แล้ว

    Thrilled for you! I’m so very pleased you’ve found someone and you’re happy. I Know Dan would be thrilled too! Tell us more! ❤️😘

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much. 🧡

  • @kerrywoolford4699
    @kerrywoolford4699 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh becca i used to watch peeweetoms . Daniel was a wonderful human being and he was so loved by all of us . I was so hoping the outcome would be better. You are such a lovely lady and god knows how youve come through it all . Your one brave lady and im sure Daniel is looking down on you thinking yes shes living her life . Much love to you .i love your videos x x

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Kerry - you're wonderful. 🧡

    • @kerrywoolford4699
      @kerrywoolford4699 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca No you are the wonderful one . I don't know how you continue to get through everything. You need to live your life to the full ,for you and Dan ,he wouldn't want you to be on your own .He would want you to enjoy life to the fullest and that's what you are doing .You go girl .....life is for living X X

  • @purpledragonfly4
    @purpledragonfly4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So happy for you sweetheart!
    You deserve love and happiness and I'm thrilled you've found it! ❤ xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so so much. 🧡

  • @darlenew1981
    @darlenew1981 ปีที่แล้ว

    First of all, oh my goodness! I'm so happy for you that you are in a happy relationship. There is no timeline for grieving or feeling when it's the right time to be with someone again. I can't believe people would ask you if you're going to start dating again a week or two after Dan's passing. I just want to say that from watching his videos, I know he would want you to be happy and not spend the rest of your life grieving for him. Big hugs from the U.S!
    I love your house! That sofa looks so comfortable. I can see myself curled up there with a good book.
    LOL! Always love the end of credits part! 🧡

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      DARLENE! You've made me cry. Thank you so so much - you're wonderful. End of credits fam forever. 🧡

  • @TSewell67
    @TSewell67 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Becca, I have watched the video again as I make my comments as I watch.
    Loving your new house. It makes me really happy that you are settled in your new house and it looks lovely. I hear Brighton is such a great place to live too.
    So I love your office, especially the fact your new office chair is a lovely match to your hair - I think you’re an interior design genius!!
    Do you ever bang your head when you stand up. I think I would every time as my memory is rubbish but I do like the slanted ceiling in that room.
    I have 1 way to become and better plant parent which is to buy plastic ones, I know not environmentally good but I always kill live ones and it makes me sad when they die.
    You’ve inspired me to do a clear out. So much so I’ve added it to my “to do” list but that exhausted me now so I expect it will be tackled another day!
    The clean/dirty clothes is a problem for my son Jamie, when he’s home from Uni (and he is now for the summer so I’m so happy) - I tend to wash his clean clothes over and over again. I have tried to smell them to see if they smell clean but after smelling a few that definitely weren’t clean I’ve stopped that 😂😂!
    Looking at the size of your wardrobe I feel ashamed at how much I have in mine that I don’t wear! That’s on the “to do” list now too!
    I am a Liverpool FC supporter but because I like you so much I will forgive you 😂😂😂
    Bedside necessities (hmm, made me laugh - dirty mind) 😂😂 - sorry.
    Love your bathroom and the floors everywhere.
    The website that you can give away is a really good idea - I’ll check that out.
    Colour coding your sofa too - love it and I like the colour of the walls too.
    I am so so happy that you are happy in your personal life. You deserve to be happy and it’s no one else’s business. If you want to share that side of your life, it’s great because it’s just another dimension of getting to know you better but I would not have any expectation that you have to share that. I think I have said this before but I’m happy if you’re happy. I feel like you’re a friend and who doesn’t want their friend to be happy???
    Your relationship sounds unique and fulfilling and that makes me smile. If you wish to share all the history of that then yes of course I’d love to hear more but it really is up to you.
    I have really enjoyed this chatty type video and I do like to send my comments as I watch the video (I hope this comment doesn’t get lost again).
    End of credits were brilliant - the best yet. 😂😂😂
    Tracie x❤️
    P.s. I posted this again as I wasn’t sure if you would see it in the comments section sorry if you didn’t need to see it all twice x❤️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tracie. Tracie. Tracie. I hope and wish that one day we can sit down over a cup of tea and just talk 'life.' This is by far one of my favourite comments to date - I love that I got a little insight in how your brain works (even if you do support Liverpool... I'll let that one slide!) Thank you for always being a light in the comments and for always, without fail, making me laugh and cheering me up. You're so important to me and this community. Thank you. 🧡

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      P.s. also don't know where that other comment went! But I am so so glad you wrote this one. 🧡

    • @TSewell67
      @TSewell67 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca I would love to catch up one day to talk “life”. Thank you your lovely reply. I’m away at a wedding this weekend so I’m a bit anxious as I don’t leave mum or my son much but will speak to you soon. Love always. Tracie x❤️

  • @miltongurl28
    @miltongurl28 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful to see you happy, Becca. You seem like a completely different person. And you look beautiful. Dan would be so pleased for you. ❤️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, thank you. I am so grateful for you. 🧡

  • @karenkane3220
    @karenkane3220 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, would love to hear more!L

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Can't wait to share more. 🧡

  • @davidp2888
    @davidp2888 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so happy for you, Becca. I started following Dan's journey which of course introduced me to you. New beginnings can be fun and they can be terrifying. You've done so much in the last 5 years. I know Tom would be proud of you.
    You have a beautiful home and I wish you and your other half much love and happiness.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      David!!! Thank you so much - for being here, for being so supportive and for being you.🧡

    • @davidp2888
      @davidp2888 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca Apologies for typing "Tom" instead of Dan toward the end of the paragraph. American brain fart. lol

  • @KarinaCappucci
    @KarinaCappucci ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You deserve all the happiness in the world ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't make me cry - you and I both know I will! Haha! Thank you always lovely. 🧡

  • @Macsimus75
    @Macsimus75 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a fantastic & lovely house Becca! And it's so huge! And so happy to hear you found happiness - try to stick with it!! 🎉❤🥂

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so so so much. 🧡

  • @carolmacrae1303
    @carolmacrae1303 ปีที่แล้ว

    It"s lovely to see you Happy Becca, you deserve to be, anyone who thinks otherwise must be mad! Share as much, or as little as you want ❤ xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Owww thank you Carol for being such a lovely member of his community. 🧡

  • @miltongurl28
    @miltongurl28 ปีที่แล้ว

    Another comment! Funny, I remember when you were the elusive off-camera significant other - now you have an elusive off camera significant other! Awesome! And that "I ruve you" was too cute!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hehehe this made me chuckle!!!! You're right - how time changes!!!! 🧡

  • @pamelaharrington3838
    @pamelaharrington3838 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm sooo happy for you!!! Go Beccy!!! Lol I need to deep clean my place

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much Pamela. Haha - I still need to as well!!!

  • @melissaw1813
    @melissaw1813 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like to say you are traveling on instead of moving on, life is a journey.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I love that. I'm going to use that from now on. 🧡

  • @willowwinkle
    @willowwinkle ปีที่แล้ว

    Love always wants more of itself, in abundance. Love never takes away from something else, it only adds, adorns and increases what came before. 💗💗 Having seen it w/ friends/family who have lost a partner, I wish we could culturally retire, "When are you getting back out there?" kind of questions tho. They really bothered my dad when he got them right away. When it comes to relationships loss or not just be a supportive friend and let people come to it (if they want to!) in their own time. It's their time frame and nobody else's.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And again, this is perfection. Sending you the biggest Becca hug I can. 🧡

  • @MsLoverPower
    @MsLoverPower ปีที่แล้ว

    Becca, I'm so happy for you and your healthy and loving relationship ❤ as I've mentioned before on one of your videos, my mom passed away from small cell lung cancer and it was devastating to see my father slowly die inside, but thankfully he found love again about 7 months later. Some would say that was too soon, but I say it was perfect timing and I told my dad as well that I think my mom had something to do with it 😊 I really believe she would want him to be happy again and I'm sure Daniel would've want you to find love, too.
    Regarding sharing your relationship I think anything is great as long as you're comfortable sharing it 😊
    Loved this kind of a video, really. Thank you for posting and sharing ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh this is such a special story. Thank you so much for sharing. Sending so much love to you and yours and thank you SO much for being here. You’re such a kind and loving soul. 🧡

  • @annadebechi5520
    @annadebechi5520 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very happy for you Becca, your house is beautiful and this film was great to watch. Wishing you all the best 🥰

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much, I plan to do more like this so I am so glad you like it. 🧡

  • @bogieee100
    @bogieee100 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg Becca, I cried a little when I saw you’ve found someone 😢 so happy for you ❤❤❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope happy tears!!! Thank you. 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @Soulfulshal1962
    @Soulfulshal1962 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy to see his Becca - can't believe it's been 5 years - you went through so much at a young age, now you can have more happiness just like you had with Dan.
    Wishing you all the best. xx

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for being here Sharon. 🧡

  • @isabelgeddeshines4059
    @isabelgeddeshines4059 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im happy for you and please share

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you Isabel. You're so lovely, I will try to share more - your comments have given me the bravery to do so. 🧡

  • @ClaireBear-sl1bs
    @ClaireBear-sl1bs ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations hun you so deserve happiness. Of *course* we want to hear more!! Loads of love x

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Claire!!!!! Thank you m'love. I hope you're well? 🧡

  • @ScottSpotMedia
    @ScottSpotMedia ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Becca, I'll be honest, I've been wondering if you were with someone because you'd sprinkle the word "We" throughout your videos. It's also none of my business, but I'm glad that you are experiencing and receiving love. You deserve it!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did wonder if anyone would notice that!! You're a smart cookie haha!! Thank you so much for being here. Sending a massive hug your way. 🧡

  • @zweij
    @zweij ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am glad you are glad. ❤
    If sharing helps you, do share!
    I do not judge, shame to those who shame you. I am happy that you are happy. ❤️
    Hugs from Poland!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Owww thank you so so so much! And I love Poland, it is one of my favourite places to visit. 🧡

    • @zweij
      @zweij ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca Shall you need a friendly soul while exploring Warsaw, I will be there for you. :) Best!

  • @watchingreviews528
    @watchingreviews528 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad that you've found a partner!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      🧡🧡🧡

  • @dianerose8316
    @dianerose8316 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm tickled pink for you, Becca. I wish you all the happiness in the world. Share what you feel comfortable sharing. ❤❤❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much Diane, always. 🧡

  • @LilyHeartsCosmetics
    @LilyHeartsCosmetics ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i'm so happy for you becca x

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Lily. You're so lovely. 🧡

  • @kristimartinez7528
    @kristimartinez7528 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy for you girl! You deserve happiness and the best in this world ❤😊

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, sending you a MASSIVE hug. 🧡

  • @valeriehill6382
    @valeriehill6382 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay happy gorgeous - love to hear more, whenever you are ready lovely lady ❤❤❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      I will share more. Sending so much love to you always. 🧡

  • @ossyshaz
    @ossyshaz ปีที่แล้ว

    Really happy for you

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      🧡🧡🧡

  • @tanya8940
    @tanya8940 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely place Becca! So happy for you and your partner 😊❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Tanya! You're wonderful. 🧡

  • @tondah
    @tondah ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow it’s been 5 years. I still at times go back and watch those times, he was such a good guy. Happy for you 🥰🥰

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for being here. 🧡

  • @jameswilloughby5240
    @jameswilloughby5240 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great place and seeing you in a happy place now, good luck for the future for both of you

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you always James, you're such a great friend here. 🧡

  • @tranquility9325
    @tranquility9325 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ty for sharing. We love you Becca. I'm happy for you love.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      This made my heart happy. Thank you will never be enough. 🧡

    • @tranquility9325
      @tranquility9325 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca 🤗

  • @00jekky00
    @00jekky00 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How the heck has it been 5 years ? How long were you and he together before he passed ? I remember following him. So glad you’re doing well.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know - sometimes I have to check, I cannot believe it myself. We were together for a while before, but it seems like never enough. Thank you so much for being here, comments like this make me feel so happy and grateful to be alive - as there have been times when I definitely didn't want to be. Sending you a hug, Kelly. You're so cherished in this community. 🧡

  • @tonyainsley8780
    @tonyainsley8780 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are beautiful Becca!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @betterlife6510
    @betterlife6510 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy for you, I wish all the best for you. 🎉

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much for always being here and making me smile in the comments. 🧡

  • @karenkane3220
    @karenkane3220 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your house! Love seeing you happy!

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Karen, you're beyond lovely. 🧡

  • @michalcsiba3813
    @michalcsiba3813 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your house looks like an oasis of piece !!! just via looking the video i souk up of energy from that place ! and your life lead how u want !!! we have just one life ! , one chance ! so listen to yourself and be happy and if somebody have problem thats abs. ok ! If the life bring u something what u feel that have value ( relationship, friends,new jobs, chance to move... and so on),,, take it if u feel it. :) But how im watching u im abs , sure that u ll reach everything what u want (whatevet that means ! :) ). Im looking forward for another videos ! :)

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ohhhh Michal! Thank you so so much. You're so so wonderful - thank you for being here. 🧡🧡🧡

  • @sarahtolley7378
    @sarahtolley7378 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad you have found happiness again ☺️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you sooo much. 🧡

  • @susan5301
    @susan5301 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad you have been able to move on. I've been around here for a long time, and I can't believe it's 5 years already! It just amazes me how fast time goes. We never know how much time we have here on earth, and we should enjoy every moment. You are a lovely young woman and deserve every chance to be happy! You are such a good person! Thanks for sharing, Becca! ♥

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for always being here Susan. You're so wonderful - I am sending you a massive e-hug. 🧡

  • @Camiou444
    @Camiou444 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so nice to see you happy, you deserve it ! Tell us about this private side if you want, we will respect what you share with us, and we should not ask you for more. Do what makes you happy, that's the most important 🧡

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Camille. You're always so so lovely. Sending you a huge hug. 🧡

  • @zzzdomzzzify
    @zzzdomzzzify ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm glad you've started a new relationship. its insane that it's been 5 years already. Peewee Tom will always be in our hearts. Do you still keep in touch with his mom?

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much. 🧡 we chat still! 🧡

  • @cynthiacurtis5305
    @cynthiacurtis5305 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy for you. Loved this XO

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. 🧡

  • @Lushy260
    @Lushy260 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice house!!!!!! You were saying your brother doesn't drive. I don't drive either haha, I live in a city so I don't have to

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! And yes I don't blame you!! I gave up my car! 🧡

  • @rahullihitkar8939
    @rahullihitkar8939 ปีที่แล้ว

    good to see you happy, keep smiling 🙂😊

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so so much, I smile way more nowadays. 🧡

  • @vegarddlmo2298
    @vegarddlmo2298 ปีที่แล้ว

    So very happy for you Becca

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, for always being here. 🧡

  • @KyLoxoxo
    @KyLoxoxo ปีที่แล้ว

    She needs a mini fridge in that office just her explaining the stairs sounded like a nightmare beautiful house tho ❤

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HA! I love this!!!!! 🧡

  • @TSewell67
    @TSewell67 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m gutted because I wrote a really long comment and it’s not there. I don’t know where it’s gone but I’ll try to remember so if the things I wrote and do it again.
    Tx❤️

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TRACIE! I always love your comments - I'm sad that one vanished!!! 🧡🧡🧡

    • @TSewell67
      @TSewell67 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Becca, I have watched the video again as I make my comments as I watch.
      Loving your new house. It makes me really happy that you are settled in your new house and it looks lovely. I hear Brighton is such a great place to live too.
      So I love your office, especially the fact your new office chair is a lovely match to your hair - I think you’re an interior design genius!!
      Do you ever bang your head when you stand up. I think I would every time as my memory is rubbish but I do like the slanted ceiling in that room.
      I have 1 way to become and better plant parent which is to buy plastic ones, I know not environmentally good but I always kill live ones and it makes me sad when they die.
      You’ve inspired me to do a clear out. So much so I’ve added it to my “to do” list but that exhausted me now so I expect it will be tackled another day!
      The clean/dirty clothes is a problem for my son Jamie, when he’s home from Uni (and he is now for the summer so I’m so happy) - I tend to wash his clean clothes over and over again. I have tried to smell them to see if they smell clean but after smelling a few that definitely weren’t clean I’ve stopped that 😂😂!
      Looking at the size of your wardrobe I feel ashamed at how much I have in mine that I don’t wear! That’s on the “to do” list now too!
      I am a Liverpool FC supporter but because I like you so much I will forgive you 😂😂😂
      Bedside necessities (hmm, made me laugh - dirty mind) 😂😂 - sorry.
      Love your bathroom and the floors everywhere.
      The website that you can give away is a really good idea - I’ll check that out.
      Colour coding your sofa too - love it and I like the colour of the walls too.
      I am so so happy that you are happy in your personal life. You deserve to be happy and it’s no one else’s business. If you want to share that side of your life, it’s great because it’s just another dimension of getting to know you better but I would not have any expectation that you have to share that. I think I have said this before but I’m happy if you’re happy. I feel like you’re a friend and who doesn’t want their friend to be happy???
      Your relationship sounds unique and fulfilling and that makes me smile. If you wish to share all the history of that then yes of course I’d love to hear more but it really is up to you.
      I have really enjoyed this chatty type video and I do like to send my comments as I watch the video (I hope this comment doesn’t get lost again).
      End of credits were brilliant - the best yet. 😂😂😂
      Tracie x❤️

  • @brendapeterson4637
    @brendapeterson4637 ปีที่แล้ว

    Becca, Thank you for opening up about your personal life, I lost my Husband to Brain cancer in 2018 and after he died I said while in alot of pain, that's it no more men. Fast forward I met a man right before Covid and he lost his wife in 2017. A year after dating we became engaged and I am 63. Your a young woman and I wouldn't ever judge you for going on with your life after the loss of your Husband. Be Happy !!!!!!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh this is such a lovely story. I’m sorry for your loss but so so so happy for your love. Thank you for being here. 🧡

    • @brendapeterson4637
      @brendapeterson4637 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@IamBecca 😊😊😊

  • @Olive-i2t
    @Olive-i2t ปีที่แล้ว

    You have no problem, those who think you are a problem is not even a friend to you. If they are really friend, they won’t think that you are a problem. If they say that (you are a problem), sorry it’s not your problem - but theirs,

  • @katemildonic4433
    @katemildonic4433 ปีที่แล้ว

    great content

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Kate! 🧡

  • @Rambo9700
    @Rambo9700 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tom would be smiling. Do you still see his family or have you drifted apart over the years?

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm going to chat a bit about this in a future video! 🧡

  • @noonecares1934
    @noonecares1934 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you still have the kitty?

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is in the loving hands of my parents. When I moved back in with them, she and my dad formed a wonderful bond and she also became really good friends with my family cat too - so when I moved out it didn't seem fair to keep moving her. She is so loved and happy. 🧡

  • @Olive-i2t
    @Olive-i2t ปีที่แล้ว

    nobody should be a problem to their friends, if the friend say that, then it’s the friend who is the problem. Any one Real friend won’t say that on you, unless they are not friend.

  • @ParchedPinemarten
    @ParchedPinemarten ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I won't judge someone for moving on - it depends on your belief system. I personally believe in the afterlife and that my dead spouse would be waiting for me, thus any relationship would be cheating in my eyes.
    It's a personal thing and something couples should definitely talk about more - despite how morbid the subject is.

    • @IamBecca
      @IamBecca  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're completely right that it is a personal choice. And definitely a conversation couples should have! 🧡