Domestic violence is so common in India. If your son, husband, father, brother beats you everybody takes it lightly and say that it's their right to abuse you. Wish I was a boy I would have been so much happier. Nobody teaches their sons, only if they taught their sons in childhood women wouldn't have been ill-treated in their entire life. Every time a woman is abused it is often called as it's her fault without any reason. Its time parents teach their sons how to behave and if they aren't able to do simple parenting they shouldn't give birth to a boy who will become a monster one day.
We also need to call out the violence women put on men. Female on male abuse is higher than you think, and nobody talks about it as much. It seems we also need to teach our daughters not to be abusive.
I am tired of backing up against a wall and having my abuser still come after me. I was raped and beat while my children were molested, and I reported it, but the Military did nothing and the police tried to hide the reports i did call in. Today 12/16/2022 I learned that he had mail go to his home that I have not ever had a reason to. I called the police and sure enough the officer came back with my mail. This man has done everything to make me afraid and intimidate me into fear. The Military covered his alcoholism and said I lied when I have text messages where he was drunk and audio of him drunk raping me. I also learned we are not divorced. When i wanted a divorce, he said No! but last year he had a lawyer serve me with papers but when I told her about my paperwork she did not continue. I am just tired
hi, i know this was 1 year ago, but how are you doing currently? if this is still going on currently, i would suggest sharing your experience online if you feel like it, so more people can reach out and help. additionally, it sheds light on the police and military and this pressures them into taking this seriously. i also think this is enough to call this a criminal case and that son of a bitch should be prosecuted. i sincerely hope you are doing better.
Me and brother use to fight too much and it’s getting out of control for me, he’s so childish and immature, because he act like the toughest ass in the world, he can’t handle hate or criticism. He gets Verbally, Physically, Emotionally, Mentally Abusive when he gets angry. He already lost his voice Before. He punched a hole in the wall, and he destroy the tv remote while the game was over. He created a guilt tripping on me as a scapegoat. Me and my sister had a Toxic Relationship too much and I couldn’t deal with it anymore. My sister has ODD, and my brother has freaking DMDD. I’m Autistic and ADHD and I have stress out issues with Domestic Violence Now. And addition. My mother is just as guilty too because she never discipline them in the first place. My mother raised them to be this way when I never asked for them at all. My Mother is scared of the world, because ever since my Father Died from a car accident my mother has become scared of the world. If my Father was still alive I wouldn’t be in this situation, but no, have to be. And this is me having an Absent Father Towards me, I have a Toxic Mother That acts self and entitlement all of the time. That’s the problem, the mothers are miserable and can’t discipline their children like childish selfish bitches in this world, they’re so annoying in my thoughts, And That’s just it. People have dealt with child abuse, and they have PTSD, C-PTSD, RAD, adjustment disorders. Anxiety And Depression, Acute Stress Disorder. OCD. And other disorders that people have dealt with child abuse and other trauma events that they’ve seen in the past, like Paranoia. Bad people have Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Psychopathy Sociopathy and IED and they are so Abusive and Neglectful to others in this world. Because they act like the most toughest assholes in history. That why you have to stay away from them forever, because you know they’ll do that again to you.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation; seeking help from a mental health professional can provide support and guidance for dealing with such challenging family dynamics.
@UnderAttack-x1s You're absolutely right-victim-blaming is never acceptable and only adds to the harm they've already experienced. It's important to approach such situations with empathy, support, and understanding, ensuring that those affected receive the care and respect they deserve. Thank you for standing up for this crucial principle.
What if the abuser's family (some of) enable the abuser: flying monkeys?! They are as bad as the abuser! They expect the victim/survivor to put up and shut up. They are wrong!
No conversation about domestic violence should occur without including the woman-on-man violence and how it's not only accepted in society but actively encouraged. As a result men are not taken seriously in reporting, and this leads to vast under-reporting of domestic violence. We know that at least half of domestic violence is committed by women against men and yet domestic violence shelters for men only constitute 10% of beds. So much work needs to be done.
I acknowledge the significant issue of underreported domestic violence against men and stress the need for equal support and resources for all victims.
@MedicalCentric Your whole video emphasized male violence against women. Almost every scene was a man clenching a fist and, a woman on the floor with kids. Like @limolnar stated, it's a forbidden truth. When we start being honest about domestic violence, that is when things might get better. But pretending that women are victims more than men in this time frame, especially in America is not truthful. Bet alcohol is still not a cause as well? Soon I will start my podcast, where the truth will prevail, and when stories get told, they will be based on real facts. Not the prescribed narrative. Definitely encourage people to subscribe now. I will start releasing videos this fall. .
Domestic violence..the main reason..his brought up ways ..he might be abused a lot..the same anguish on his wife/his babies..his contemporaries/relatives might be wealthy with better parents..they taunting him and he becoming insidious...as this issues can not be addressed in short span.. separation a better solution..fight govt system /rules...country/culture/economic shortcomings/flaws...blood A/B uses this ways to achieve their targets...
Separation is not easy life... one need to work on suppressing desires all time..as babies might be involved...how they get married, a big introspection
maybe- maybe a good way to 'reduce' DV by 50-80% is not to 'terrorize' families and the innocent with the criminal legal system while funding trial lawyers, but rather to make sure getting into a home and being 'self-sustainable' is not as 'ridiculously difficult' as it is today. I wonder how much that could help and not just with that. There are lots of people, often young, trapped in 'toxic' situations and/or situations that don't work. 'mobility' is a good thing. After all, no woman 'has to' stay with an 'abusive man. She/ he- sometimes men are 'victims' too, 'needs' a 'support network' and good 'alternatives.' It's that simple. well, not really there are also situations with kids and i just thought about the childless situations. That gets more 'complicated.'
Improving access to affordable housing and fostering self-sustainability can significantly reduce domestic violence by providing better alternatives and support networks for those in toxic situations, ultimately promoting safety and mobility. ❤️
reducing and preventing domestic violence requires focusing accountability on the person that is causing harm. many survivors leave/end the relationship, but it doesn't end the abuse. the strategies you offer as "treatment" are important steps that a survivor and/or bystanders can take to enhance safety but they won't actually end the coercive control and violence. to call those strategies "treatment" for abuse is somewhat victim blaming.
You're absolutely right. Reducing and preventing domestic violence requires holding the abuser accountable, rather than placing the responsibility on survivors. Strategies aimed at enhancing safety, like safety planning and seeking support, are crucial for survivors but don't address the root cause- the abusive behavior itself. Effective intervention should focus on stopping the perpetrator's violence through legal consequences, behavior change programs, and societal change, while also providing survivors with the support and resources they need without implying that they are responsible for the abuse.
Domestic violence is harsh but the worst type of violence I have ever witnessed in all history is the violence of gangstalkers and there use of electronic weapons that level of violence is of the highest evil to exist no excuses for it at all I can't think of an excuse for those doing it.
@eric.mahoney6158 Gangstalking and the use of electronic weapons are indeed severe and disturbing forms of abuse that can have significant psychological and emotional impacts. The experience of such harassment and the invasive nature of these tactics can be deeply traumatic. It's crucial for anyone facing such situations to seek support from trusted professionals, such as mental health counselors or legal authorities, who can offer assistance and help manage the effects of these experiences.
I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Such language and behavior are unacceptable in any professional setting. Please report this incident to HR or your supervisor for appropriate action.
Why ate violent tempted men not punished by law. Why does the law enforcement officer's ignore the abuse carried out by these men, even Docters hide the correct situation by taking bribes, even the police and even lawyers. What is the punishments for people who are violent and is hiding under the guise of mental illness. Why does countries grant Asylum for people without checking their background They.offer Asylum to lawbrakers and violent temoeted individuals who abusive towards their spouses and children without double checking or investigating the authenticity of these cunning men who pay lawyers handsomely to present their fake stories. How can any Government could be so naive by protecting these violent individuals who could be a threat to others.
It's essential for law enforcement and healthcare professionals to uphold integrity in addressing violence, ensuring transparency, and thoroughly vetting asylum applicants to safeguard against potential threats to society.
@melvinsantos4976 I'm really sorry you're going through this, and it's important to recognize that no one deserves to be hurt, regardless of the situation. If you're feeling unsafe or in a difficult situation at home, it's important to reach out to someone you trust, whether it's a friend, teacher, or a counselor, for support. Your well-being and safety matter. Please take care.
I'm really sorry to hear about the distressing situation your sister is going through. Domestic violence is never acceptable, and it's essential to prioritize her safety. Please encourage her to seek help, whether from local authorities or domestic violence support services, to ensure her well-being and take the necessary steps to protect herself and her rights.
Domestic violence is so common in India. If your son, husband, father, brother beats you everybody takes it lightly and say that it's their right to abuse you. Wish I was a boy I would have been so much happier. Nobody teaches their sons, only if they taught their sons in childhood women wouldn't have been ill-treated in their entire life. Every time a woman is abused it is often called as it's her fault without any reason. Its time parents teach their sons how to behave and if they aren't able to do simple parenting they shouldn't give birth to a boy who will become a monster one day.
We also need to teach girls that they are strong and teach boys that women are not weak
And also teaching them disrespecting woman is not chad and sigma
Very true my grandmother says it's not wrong to get hit by your husband. He has all the right
We also need to call out the violence women put on men. Female on male abuse is higher than you think, and nobody talks about it as much. It seems we also need to teach our daughters not to be abusive.
@@abbeyjane5014 We also need to teach daughters not to be abusive. It's not a one-way street.
I am tired of backing up against a wall and having my abuser still come after me. I was raped and beat while my children were molested, and I reported it, but the Military did nothing and the police tried to hide the reports i did call in. Today 12/16/2022 I learned that he had mail go to his home that I have not ever had a reason to. I called the police and sure enough the officer came back with my mail. This man has done everything to make me afraid and intimidate me into fear. The Military covered his alcoholism and said I lied when I have text messages where he was drunk and audio of him drunk raping me. I also learned we are not divorced. When i wanted a divorce, he said No! but last year he had a lawyer serve me with papers but when I told her about my paperwork she did not continue. I am just tired
Sorry about the experiences, please stay strong it gets better.
I am so sorry you are going thru such pain. Keep strong and don't let the fear dictate your Power. Strength and most importantly, your Future!! 🫂💟💪
hi, i know this was 1 year ago, but how are you doing currently? if this is still going on currently, i would suggest sharing your experience online if you feel like it, so more people can reach out and help. additionally, it sheds light on the police and military and this pressures them into taking this seriously. i also think this is enough to call this a criminal case and that son of a bitch should be prosecuted. i sincerely hope you are doing better.
I would never raise my hand to someone i love.
And hence I understood why we felt the need to invent the word 'Feminism'.
That causes more of this. Its just that now its seen as unacceptable where back then it was seen as justified
Me and brother use to fight too much and it’s getting out of control for me, he’s so childish and immature, because he act like the toughest ass in the world, he can’t handle hate or criticism. He gets Verbally, Physically, Emotionally, Mentally Abusive when he gets angry. He already lost his voice Before. He punched a hole in the wall, and he destroy the tv remote while the game was over. He created a guilt tripping on me as a scapegoat. Me and my sister had a Toxic Relationship too much and I couldn’t deal with it anymore. My sister has ODD, and my brother has freaking DMDD. I’m Autistic and ADHD and I have stress out issues with Domestic Violence Now. And addition. My mother is just as guilty too because she never discipline them in the first place. My mother raised them to be this way when I never asked for them at all. My Mother is scared of the world, because ever since my Father Died from a car accident my mother has become scared of the world. If my Father was still alive I wouldn’t be in this situation, but no, have to be. And this is me having an Absent Father Towards me, I have a Toxic Mother That acts self and entitlement all of the time. That’s the problem, the mothers are miserable and can’t discipline their children like childish selfish bitches in this world, they’re so annoying in my thoughts, And That’s just it. People have dealt with child abuse, and they have PTSD, C-PTSD, RAD, adjustment disorders. Anxiety And Depression, Acute Stress Disorder. OCD. And other disorders that people have dealt with child abuse and other trauma events that they’ve seen in the past, like Paranoia. Bad people have Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Psychopathy Sociopathy and IED and they are so Abusive and Neglectful to others in this world. Because they act like the most toughest assholes in history. That why you have to stay away from them forever, because you know they’ll do that again to you.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation; seeking help from a mental health professional can provide support and guidance for dealing with such challenging family dynamics.
Precisely correct.
And don't blame the victims and rip their lives apart, thank you.
@UnderAttack-x1s You're absolutely right-victim-blaming is never acceptable and only adds to the harm they've already experienced. It's important to approach such situations with empathy, support, and understanding, ensuring that those affected receive the care and respect they deserve. Thank you for standing up for this crucial principle.
@@MedicalCentric I suffered a lot this way.
"Seek help to end it." You tell the truth. The truth will always set you free.
What if the abuser's family (some of) enable the abuser: flying monkeys?! They are as bad as the abuser! They expect the victim/survivor to put up and shut up. They are wrong!
No conversation about domestic violence should occur without including the woman-on-man violence and how it's not only accepted in society but actively encouraged. As a result men are not taken seriously in reporting, and this leads to vast under-reporting of domestic violence. We know that at least half of domestic violence is committed by women against men and yet domestic violence shelters for men only constitute 10% of beds. So much work needs to be done.
I acknowledge the significant issue of underreported domestic violence against men and stress the need for equal support and resources for all victims.
@MedicalCentric Your whole video emphasized male violence against women. Almost every scene was a man clenching a fist and, a woman on the floor with kids. Like @limolnar stated, it's a forbidden truth. When we start being honest about domestic violence, that is when things might get better. But pretending that women are victims more than men in this time frame, especially in America is not truthful. Bet alcohol is still not a cause as well? Soon I will start my podcast, where the truth will prevail, and when stories get told, they will be based on real facts. Not the prescribed narrative. Definitely encourage people to subscribe now. I will start releasing videos this fall. .
The problem with DV is only for Women, How about Men like us OFW who our wife is having relationship outside the marriage? Is that Right?
Dad cheated with multiple women while married to Mom; he expects to always get away with that. I still don't trust him!
Domestic violence..the main reason..his brought up ways ..he might be abused a lot..the same anguish on his wife/his babies..his contemporaries/relatives might be wealthy with better parents..they taunting him and he becoming insidious...as this issues can not be addressed in short span.. separation a better solution..fight govt system /rules...country/culture/economic shortcomings/flaws...blood A/B uses this ways to achieve their targets...
Separation is not easy life... one need to work on suppressing desires all time..as babies might be involved...how they get married, a big introspection
The rule of law operates on integrity. Within any environment where rule of law exists, individuals who have no integrity will destroy themselves.
maybe- maybe a good way to 'reduce' DV by 50-80% is not to 'terrorize' families and the innocent with the criminal legal system while funding trial lawyers, but rather to make sure getting into a home and being 'self-sustainable' is not as 'ridiculously difficult' as it is today.
I wonder how much that could help and not just with that. There are lots of people, often young, trapped in 'toxic' situations and/or situations that don't work. 'mobility' is a good thing.
After all, no woman 'has to' stay with an 'abusive man. She/ he- sometimes men are 'victims' too, 'needs' a 'support network' and good 'alternatives.'
It's that simple.
well, not really there are also situations with kids and i just thought about the childless situations. That gets more 'complicated.'
Improving access to affordable housing and fostering self-sustainability can significantly reduce domestic violence by providing better alternatives and support networks for those in toxic situations, ultimately promoting safety and mobility. ❤️
Victims draws from social life out of threat and become inactive and timid. Loss of self esteem and confidence plus no sexual drive.
Can somebody give me resources like books and articles for the subject of domestic violence?
"Against your will"
reducing and preventing domestic violence requires focusing accountability on the person that is causing harm. many survivors leave/end the relationship, but it doesn't end the abuse. the strategies you offer as "treatment" are important steps that a survivor and/or bystanders can take to enhance safety but they won't actually end the coercive control and violence. to call those strategies "treatment" for abuse is somewhat victim blaming.
You're absolutely right. Reducing and preventing domestic violence requires holding the abuser accountable, rather than placing the responsibility on survivors. Strategies aimed at enhancing safety, like safety planning and seeking support, are crucial for survivors but don't address the root cause- the abusive behavior itself. Effective intervention should focus on stopping the perpetrator's violence through legal consequences, behavior change programs, and societal change, while also providing survivors with the support and resources they need without implying that they are responsible for the abuse.
I had a good childhood
I treat woman with respect including my mom
What about children ??? What about moms who abuse their children ?
I was in the hospital MULTIPLE times, because of both a relative, and someone I wasn't even dating.
your strength and support are truly admirable. ❤️
Domestic violence is harsh but the worst type of violence I have ever witnessed in all history is the violence of gangstalkers and there use of electronic weapons that level of violence is of the highest evil to exist no excuses for it at all I can't think of an excuse for those doing it.
@eric.mahoney6158 Gangstalking and the use of electronic weapons are indeed severe and disturbing forms of abuse that can have significant psychological and emotional impacts. The experience of such harassment and the invasive nature of these tactics can be deeply traumatic. It's crucial for anyone facing such situations to seek support from trusted professionals, such as mental health counselors or legal authorities, who can offer assistance and help manage the effects of these experiences.
"Assert control over the other."
I dont hit woman not even my mom 😤
Or a child
I grew up with family violence on a daily basis which is just inhumane for a human. It can cause anxiety, depression and lead to suicide.
sorry to hear that.
I do neither of this
this is good explanation. but can you give me whoget domestic violence?
I never ball my fist up smh
But not by force thooooe
No physical over here
There are domestic violence cases in india.
Its not only physical
Domestic violence leaves deep emotional scars that often go unnoticed, affecting overall health and well-being. ❤️
women are our lives
men too
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@@ZsssnsnjMJkKK Why no
An employee telling me to stop and shut up with a rose 🌹 on the side and im worthless piece of sht
I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Such language and behavior are unacceptable in any professional setting. Please report this incident to HR or your supervisor for appropriate action.
Why ate violent tempted men not punished by law. Why does the law enforcement officer's ignore the abuse carried out by these men, even Docters hide the correct situation by taking bribes, even the police and even lawyers.
What is the punishments for people who are violent and is hiding under the guise of mental illness.
Why does countries grant Asylum for people without checking their background
They.offer Asylum to lawbrakers and violent temoeted individuals who abusive towards their spouses and children without double checking or investigating the authenticity of these cunning men who pay lawyers handsomely to present their fake stories.
How can any Government could be so naive by protecting these violent individuals who could be a threat to others.
It's essential for law enforcement and healthcare professionals to uphold integrity in addressing violence, ensuring transparency, and thoroughly vetting asylum applicants to safeguard against potential threats to society.
violent women too
And verbal
See above or below comment, I totally agree!
My dad hit me because i didn't give him because i just ingorned
@melvinsantos4976 I'm really sorry you're going through this, and it's important to recognize that no one deserves to be hurt, regardless of the situation. If you're feeling unsafe or in a difficult situation at home, it's important to reach out to someone you trust, whether it's a friend, teacher, or a counselor, for support. Your well-being and safety matter. Please take care.
@@MedicalCentric i do feel unsafe
Yesterday my sister husband beat my sister one slap and one push mother in law held hand twisted her arms nd bangle broken two cuts
I'm really sorry to hear about the distressing situation your sister is going through. Domestic violence is never acceptable, and it's essential to prioritize her safety. Please encourage her to seek help, whether from local authorities or domestic violence support services, to ensure her well-being and take the necessary steps to protect herself and her rights.