Another Pregnancy Scare + Being Dropped by Your BFF - PRETTY BASIC - EP. 249

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    Welcome to Pretty Basic Therapy! In this week’s episode we welcome guests, Ashley Nichole + Taryne Renee of Unsolicited Advice podcast and chat about the struggles of the “protective friend” vs. the “friend that gets a new boo thang”, how to have productive conversations, and what it feels like to mourn the loss of a friendship. Friendships go through ebbs and flows, sometimes they require space and other times they require hard conversations even if that means (gently) cornering your conflict avoidant friends. After all, friendship love languages are just as important as romantic ones.
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  • @dancesing116
    @dancesing116 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +769

    🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️ officially putting in a vote for this foursome to do MORE episodes together! If ya’ll just combined podcasts in general….NONE of us would be mad! You all compliment each other so much!

    • @JCamcrew
      @JCamcrew 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yasssss

    • @sofiapomar6366
      @sofiapomar6366 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      dude literally im rewatching this again

    • @emmaweb2006
      @emmaweb2006 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I love the 4 them together it’s my favourite ❤❤Xx

    • @yesival12
      @yesival12 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree all four together make the podcast wayyy more interesting

    • @tyramarsh3985
      @tyramarsh3985 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      my girl katelyn❤ BFF foreva 💟

  • @basketballgirl023
    @basketballgirl023 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +266

    Taryne is so well spoken about talking about feelings!!

  • @nbla39
    @nbla39 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    This is probably my favorite episode. I need more talk about just being single in your 30s. Alisha and taryn should do a solo episode about it ! And also would love to hear more about how alisha and ashley grew up.

    • @DaisyCrowder
      @DaisyCrowder 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agreed

  • @britt08
    @britt08 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +324

    Ash is just GLOWING! She is truly in her LOVE era and it looks SO good on her, can def see the change in her, and she is just GLOWING! So happy for you Ash😘💕

    • @rebeccamcauley4549
      @rebeccamcauley4549 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Completely agree ❤❤

    • @smome7773
      @smome7773 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Did she ever share the story of how she met her man? I know I don't watch her channel often enough and she keeps things pretty private but was always curious.

    • @Msjessi6
      @Msjessi6 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@smome7773i think she said dating app

    • @AyseG2SJMS
      @AyseG2SJMS 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@smome7773 They met on Hinge!!

  • @subynaaa
    @subynaaa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +169

    absolutely LOVING this episode! love taryn, she gives such amazing insight and i love the UA x PB dynamic of four besties having deep introspective talks, 100% y'all should do more of these

  • @carliejade256
    @carliejade256 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    This is by far the best episode. It shows you can be friends and have differences and it’s okay!

  • @celcravero
    @celcravero 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    1:36:54 Taryne and Ashley's moment here had me in tears. This was such a great episode, girls !! 🥺🫶

  • @elizarod223
    @elizarod223 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I absolutely love Taryne, I've always been a fan of hers, but this episode is fire!! I love how she expresses herself and just knows the right words to say!!

  • @onetwothreefour2822
    @onetwothreefour2822 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    I feel like Ashley prioritizes relationship over friendship but taryn equally prioritizes both. It’s a personality thing, not a reflection of the amount of love thing.

    • @kaylag8687
      @kaylag8687 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      you must’ve missed the fact this is ash’s first serious relationship in their 10 years of friendship. that’s a hard thing to balance a new love and your friend love. she’s trying her best but it’s her fire time

    • @Mvegvn
      @Mvegvn หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Idk if choose my boyfriend over my friend (depending on the situation obviously) but mainly because Im looking to spend my life with them so why wouldn’t I?

  • @gabbin5414
    @gabbin5414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    I’ve been watching Alisha for 10 years now and I’ve always felt very similar to her but this episode really sealed the deal. Between relationships with your older sister and wanting to be more connected to being the chronically single friend, Alisha thank you for sharing your stories they help me feel so seen

  • @kellynataliabrito8264
    @kellynataliabrito8264 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Omg Ash worded out what I could never pinpoint! I was also raised in a family where sex and relationships weren't talked about, and I never had a relationship with my sister such that I could communicate these things and to date I still hid many things!!!! Unlearning to be that way is so difficult

  • @Adorkabledog11
    @Adorkabledog11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    This is one of my favorite episodes EVER. The friendship discussions made me reflect on my own friendships and I definitely can improve in some areas - thank you!!!

    • @adaaleide
      @adaaleide 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      agreed! made me text my friend afterwards🥲

  • @user-qo2tp4qd9b
    @user-qo2tp4qd9b 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    LOVED this entire conversation! A lot of gems about true friendships, so beautiful to see🤗✨

  • @rebeccamcauley4549
    @rebeccamcauley4549 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    Amazing collaboration as it has been a while since Ashley and Tryne were on. Great topic as any friendship break up is tough when the relationship becomes one side. Was brilliant to hear your honest opinions and advice on how to navigate the situation ❤🎉

  • @Mariana-vq5rl
    @Mariana-vq5rl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    OMG I freakin loved this episoooode. It Made me teary to hear four people talk about how much they love eachother.
    Female friendship is one of the most beautiful things in life.

  • @jesswarpp
    @jesswarpp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    taryn and ash telling each other i love you at the end has me sobbing. so wholesome. 😭

  • @dancesing116
    @dancesing116 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Manifesting the new Podcast with this foursome: Pretty Solicited!

  • @smome7773
    @smome7773 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Woah, this episode makes me see how alike I am to Alisha, so avoidant and wanting to be involved at the same time. Its so hard.

  • @dimple2396
    @dimple2396 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Honestly this is the only podcast / remi & alisha are the few influencers i really keep up with still and I think it’s genuinely because they remain relatable in the way they talk about their relationships. You guys put so much into your relationships, your friendships, your constant enthusiasm to strengthen and invest in your relationships is so so real. I really enjoy hearing you guys talk about your relationships bc it’s the most relatable human experience for you guys to have as I also navigate relationships in my 20’s. Thank u you guys are doing so great it’s been so sweet watching you grow thru your 20’s 🥹🫶🏽

  • @MariasBeautyForever
    @MariasBeautyForever 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I need some friends like Taryn and Remi. Im literally like Alisha and Ashley its crazy. Loved this episode. Learnt so much about all your friendships.

  • @mollyburgesser5605
    @mollyburgesser5605 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    So I’m still kinda new to the ash and Taryne side of things BUT, I also have thyroid cancer, and hearing how it affected things for you guys is so validating for me. I was living with my roommate, we were BEST FRIENDS, did everything together. She then got a partner and things started to change and it was SO hard for me to navigate. I ended up moving out without saying a word, and we still don’t talk. And i still think about it at least on a weekly basis and am so sad about it still, and it’s been 5.5 years

  • @MeganNicolee1
    @MeganNicolee1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Damn I knew I was like Alisha but the whole “don’t want to look dumb” really hit the nail on the coffin for me love love love this ep I HAD A REVELATION as well lol

    • @smome7773
      @smome7773 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've said that exact phrase so often in therapy 😭😭😭

  • @allaboutalit6228
    @allaboutalit6228 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’ve been single for 9 years and seeing Ash happy and in a healthy relationship gives me SO much hope! ❤

  • @serenaxg14
    @serenaxg14 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I been on both sides… I was the only single friend and then I became the friend who got into a great relationship… however I never felt some type of way because I just knew it was a honeymoon phase. And I couldn’t wait to hear about it. I didn’t really mind them dipping out. But I loved the open conversation I also had with my besties too because we understood each other.

  • @crystalgagnon8252
    @crystalgagnon8252 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Being a cancer is crazy. We LOVEEEEE with passion and we forgive so fast because we understand and trust. Love you gurls. ❤

  • @elledeeare5148
    @elledeeare5148 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was such a good episode. I love the authenticity and the dynamic of this group. Cannot wait to see another episode with the four of them!

  • @sofiapomar6366
    @sofiapomar6366 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this episode helped me so much im literally rewatching this and it gave me advice to other situations i needed advice on this literally taught me to feel more comfortable w my emotions already and i immediately had conversations i didnt know bothered me a lot bc the ROOT mattered thank u sm

  • @ShadierThanSlim
    @ShadierThanSlim 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    i resonate with this sm. recently lost my best friend because our dynamic has changed so much since she got a boyfriend and i just wish i could have listened to this before we had the talk

  • @amyyang9292
    @amyyang9292 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I loved this ep!! I feel like we got to know each of you a little deeper and it was beautiful. Wishing the best for you all❤️🥰 please have more episodes like this together!!

  • @theresag.4188
    @theresag.4188 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love Taryn's insight on everything! I relate so much to her and Ash's situation. I was going through the depths of hell mental health stuff for like 6 months. Crying everyday and in such a dark place. I didnt even leave the house. I needed my sister who my best friend. She wasnt there for me hardly ever. Were good now but damn I was so hurt and betrayed by her. You think the person you love and are closest in the world to would be there for you. 🥺 i feel Taryn's pain. ALSO LOVE THE LONGER EPISODE!!!!!❤🙌

  • @melanylopez2961
    @melanylopez2961 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thanks for this, I’m bringing this all up with my sisters and I’m excited for the convos to have. You guys are amazing

  • @lynae777
    @lynae777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I loved how you guys communicated all of that

  • @Kase1313
    @Kase1313 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This episode was so helpful and healing ❤ I love the input and validation from all corners it was really awesome to see

  • @sierrarose363
    @sierrarose363 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    LOVE THIS EPISODE!!!! I didn’t know I needed to hear this, but these are the types of conversations I wish I could have had with my friends and family growing up. Love you ladies! Please do more episodes together

  • @jooniespie
    @jooniespie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yall this had me in tears, all my friends have been getting into relationships and i'm really happy for them, they deserve the best and more but i didn't realize how i had been suppressing all my emotions whilst hiding behind that emotion of happiness! great episode i loved it so much

  • @richellec1632
    @richellec1632 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This episode was so beautiful. You guys looked so comfortable and really opened up. I learned a lot for my own relationships

  • @jenaayay
    @jenaayay 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was the most perfect episode for the most PERFECT TIME in my life. Love you guys so much!!🫶🏼

  • @ThePrettyTT
    @ThePrettyTT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    All four of of them together feels like my childhood!!!!😭😭😭

  • @virginiabutler8298
    @virginiabutler8298 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So appreciative of this podcast. This was such a great conversation to listen and on!

  • @keepingmedown
    @keepingmedown 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My favourite episode! Such amazing honest conversation. More of this with Taryn and Ashley!!!!!

  • @AlmogShafrir
    @AlmogShafrir 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    SO EXCITED TO GET INTO THIS NEW EPISODE!!!

  • @reallyi2132
    @reallyi2132 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    this is such an insightful podcast. needed to hear some of these words for real

  • @Cheetahgirl25
    @Cheetahgirl25 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I 100% agree discussing this with your bestie just helps with so much conflict !! My PF is my bestie and she knows who she is !

  • @fabfmb25
    @fabfmb25 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    So pumped for this also Ashley’s hair 🔥🔥🔥

  • @angiek6446
    @angiek6446 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    what a amazing episode!! i love when y’all are together 💗

  • @mhargorose14
    @mhargorose14 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love all of you!! My besties of going on 11 to 12 years now is Brianna

  • @isabellamacae1
    @isabellamacae1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Favorite episode. I appreciate y’all being so honest. Thank you ❤️

  • @elisamariakline1696
    @elisamariakline1696 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YESS! Been so excited and waiting for this episode! 🤩 so glad they are back 🙌🏽

  • @selaaleman1777
    @selaaleman1777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wow. amazing episode. such valuable conversation. thank you for putting this out there!!!

  • @Alicia19652
    @Alicia19652 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My whole friend group all have significant others, and that has been one hell of a dynamic to try and figure out. i’m genuinely so happy for all of them but it’s also hard, and I’ve also been trying to not say things that might hurt their feelings because of how I feel about my feelings towards relationships right now.

  • @clairetrestrail7876
    @clairetrestrail7876 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I am so excited to getting this in new podcast episode 💕🥹

  • @Beemui7
    @Beemui7 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYY REMI!! 🩵🩵🩵

  • @JANELLEstaysDOPE
    @JANELLEstaysDOPE 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was such a good episode! Definitely going through some sort of this currently as well. Love your guys dynamic so much!

  • @adriannap1622
    @adriannap1622 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this episode healed me sm omg. thank you guys!!

  • @rebeccabarrotes3912
    @rebeccabarrotes3912 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love love love this episode!!! Thank you for being so vulnerable ❤

  • @rosieoats
    @rosieoats 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay this may be my favorite episode! Taryn is so wise and she taught me so much! I relate so much to Alisha and ash so I definitely needed to hear everything she had to say.

  • @CamrieRaeann
    @CamrieRaeann 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is one of my Fav podcast episodes ever I love the 4 of you together!!!

  • @Havingahardtimepickingahandle
    @Havingahardtimepickingahandle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Birthday Rem! Hope your day is as fabulous as you are ✨

  • @anapetelinek8294
    @anapetelinek8294 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love you guys sooo much!!! ❤️This is the only podcast I can listen to nonstop hahah

  • @katechandler1138
    @katechandler1138 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was such a good episode. I learned a lot and it made me understand relationships better. Thank you!

  • @sydneyelmore
    @sydneyelmore 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    loved this episode so much! currently going through the same thing - my best friend and I got into serious relationships not too far apart from each other, graduated college, and started regular 9-5 jobs. it's weird growing up so quickly and living individual lives when we used to hang out literally everyday. this helped me a lot!!

  • @luannam018
    @luannam018 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ash and taryne at the end of the episode 😭 such a good episode!! lots of love! 💕💕

  • @mariaa531
    @mariaa531 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i LOOOOOOOOOOVEEEE these conversations, so so so beautiful, productive and healthy

  • @BrandNewBamboo
    @BrandNewBamboo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Taryne thank you so much I needed to hear this. I’m the friend that avoids conflict.

  • @Sincerelywendyy
    @Sincerelywendyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Such an amazing pod. Learned so much ✨🤩💫

  • @cammie3679
    @cammie3679 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is my favourite episode! The conservations were truly good!

  • @e-lee-sah
    @e-lee-sah 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I need more! This episode was so good!

  • @patriciadetera7751
    @patriciadetera7751 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you four are the best!! i enjoyed this episode so much!

  • @arianarachel
    @arianarachel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The gasp after "you can leave a voice note" lmaoo😂
    So relatable lol

  • @jordynwhitehouse
    @jordynwhitehouse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this episode y’all! You guys are so well spoken and I feel like I could continually come back to this episode when I’m dealing with certain things in all relationships. I am so much like Taryne, so there’s a lot for me to take away from what she said in how to deal with friends.

  • @rebeccauhlin7046
    @rebeccauhlin7046 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really enjoyed this one! I loved hearing everyone’s perspectives

  • @lesliranchito7951
    @lesliranchito7951 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this episode two years ago😫😫 I love seeing both pov!

  • @user-mo9hc7zf7q
    @user-mo9hc7zf7q 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OMG! the Galaxy AI looks amazingggg!!! I need this in MY LIFE!

  • @sofiasversion
    @sofiasversion 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    omggg i already love it and it hasnt started yet

  • @juuiiicybaybee
    @juuiiicybaybee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love the self awareness from all you girls. But this is so theaprutic for y’all therapy session!! lol I wanna see more I love you guys ❤️

  • @Janelletravels204
    @Janelletravels204 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The only guest we need is ash and Taryn! Such a great episode !!! ❤

  • @helen.911
    @helen.911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My old best friend chose her abusive and toxic boyfriend over me, I was confused about why she did that but over months I've accepted it to the point where I became best friends with her twin sister.😊

  • @iceyiana
    @iceyiana 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Listened for the first time in awhile and remembered why I love y’all ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @erika__31
    @erika__31 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just called my best friend to tell her I love her and appreciate our friendship 😭

  • @d.ivy.a
    @d.ivy.a 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve always thought this way abt friendship like the sit down talk and get through it. So when a friendship ends cus of smth stupid I thought I was wrong but apparently mb this is how adults have a friendship and it’s nice to see it

  • @barbara20214
    @barbara20214 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This episode was so insightful i loved it

  • @ashleylarkin9399
    @ashleylarkin9399 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    loved this ep!! pls have them on way more oftern

  • @gcuarto
    @gcuarto 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love love loved this episode!!!!

  • @emrajansen5094
    @emrajansen5094 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This episode helped me so much on how different people react in situation's and hard time. It's so funny that you guys are talking from the friend's side of this. I'm taking this with my relationship with my boyfriend he's more of an Ashley and I'm a Taryn

  • @jennalonghenry7287
    @jennalonghenry7287 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    fav episode i think ever. loved loved loved the advice & friendship talk

  • @libbyreid8652
    @libbyreid8652 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My best friends name is Halle. Similar to you guys we have been friends for many years and have grown to learn how to navigate our friendship. I feel so lucky I have someone who truly understands me the way she does. The good, the bad, and all the in between she’s been there though it all 💗

  • @jalyngallen
    @jalyngallen 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely incredible!!!!! My new favorite episode

  • @caratcakeu
    @caratcakeu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    LOVEED RHIS EPISODE SO MUCH!

  • @Monica-qx9qd
    @Monica-qx9qd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Okay hut this green outfit Alisha wears in the first little “break” of here the heck is it from I need it in my life!!!!! 17:17

  • @meganmullaney9469
    @meganmullaney9469 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i relate to this episode the most!! The best episode so far!

  • @rosagenao
    @rosagenao 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love this episode, Taryne is such a gem 🤍

  • @southernson3322
    @southernson3322 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great show love the setup I hope yall have a great day and your socks are adorable btw

  • @addienicholejohnson6447
    @addienicholejohnson6447 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow like just got a free therapy session. Learned so much from my friendships currently.

  • @mariahbagneris8650
    @mariahbagneris8650 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was such a great episode!!!

  • @ninaserafin3473
    @ninaserafin3473 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truly one of the best podcast episodes I’ve heard in a while

  • @lanisanchez8446
    @lanisanchez8446 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my favorite collab of all
    time !!!!

  • @korenisme
    @korenisme 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awww I’m not done yet but I love this episode so much. This is sooo real!

  • @skylakimara6737
    @skylakimara6737 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THIS EPISODE WAS SO GOOD!!

  • @aznhelena
    @aznhelena 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this episode and the comparisons between the duos

  • @SelenaMarie.
    @SelenaMarie. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank goodness Pretty Basic isn’t ending… I saw another video saying cancelled!! 🥰🙏🏻🤗🥳